The TRAP of the HIGH-VALUE woman: every restaurant serves water

Summary

Dr. Orion Taban discusses the 'Trap of the High Value Woman' in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding a man's perspective. He highlights the common issue where women, particularly in their 30s, seek relationships without offering unique value. Taban suggests that to attract a high-value man, women should consider providing consistent fantastic sex, child rearing, and obedient agreeableness to improve his quality of life. He challenges the stigma around traditional roles like cooking and cleaning, framing them as opportunities for intimate integration and value provision.

Takeaways

• 👨‍⚕️ Dr. Orion Taban discusses the challenges high-value women face in finding fulfilling relationships from a man's perspective.
• 🤔 The importance of understanding a man's perspective is highlighted, drawing a parallel to the necessity of understanding a customer's needs in marketing.
• 💬 Women in their 30s seeking advice on starting a family often struggle with the expectations and commitments that come with relationships and family life.
• 🎭 Role-play scenarios illustrate the difficulty women face in articulating their value to a potential partner beyond career and education.
• 👨‍💼 Men with high value often already have support systems in place, diminishing the perceived value of a woman's professional accomplishments.
• 👶 The conversation around children and child-rearing reveals the reluctance of many women to give up their careers for full-time parenting.
• 💑 The expectation of a 50/50 partnership in child-rearing and household responsibilities is contrasted with the desire for a more successful partner.
• 💃 Three key areas where women can provide value to a high-value man are identified: consistent fantastic sex, child rearing, and obedient agreeableness.
• 🛒 Despite the possibility of purchasing services for sex, child rearing, and household help, there remains a stigma that offers an opportunity for women to fill these roles.
• 🍲 Cooking and cleaning are presented as opportunities for women to integrate into a man's lifestyle, rather than as low-value labor.
• 💡 The script challenges the pride that may prevent women from considering roles traditionally seen as servitude, suggesting it could be a path to intimacy and value in a relationship.

Q & A

What is the main topic of Dr. Orion taban's talk?

The main topic of Dr. Orion taban's talk is the 'Trap of the High Value Woman' and how women can better understand the perspective of men to achieve the relationships they desire.

Why does Dr. Orion taban emphasize the importance of understanding a man's perspective?

Understanding a man's perspective is crucial because it allows women to make a value proposition that resonates with men, similar to how businesses must understand their potential customers to offer products that meet their needs.

What does Dr. Orion taban suggest is a common issue faced by women in their 30s seeking relationships?

A common issue is that women in their 30s are ready to start a family but struggle to find a suitable partner who meets their expectations and timeline, often due to a lack of understanding of what men value in a relationship.

What is the role-play scenario presented by Dr. Orion taban?

The role-play scenario involves a woman approaching a high-value man, seeking a lifelong commitment and support for a family, and the man questioning what value she brings to him that he doesn't already have.

What are the three things that Dr. Orion taban suggests a woman can provide to a straight high-value man?

The three things are consistent fantastic sex, children and child-rearing, and obedient agreeableness that improves the man's quality of life.

Why does Dr. Orion taban argue that women can still provide value in the marketplace despite the availability of services like cooking and cleaning?

He argues that even though services exist, providing these services personally can offer intimate integration into the man's lifestyle and make the woman indispensable, which is valuable in a relationship.

What is Dr. Orion taban's stance on the idea that cooking and cleaning are low-value labor?

He challenges this idea by comparing it to the service provided at a Michelin star restaurant, where even basic services are performed with excellence and enthusiasm, enhancing the overall experience. He suggests that these tasks can be opportunities for women to add value in a relationship.

How does Dr. Orion taban address the resistance from women towards performing tasks like cooking and cleaning?

He suggests that the resistance is an issue of pride and ego, and that women should consider these tasks as opportunities to integrate into the man's life and provide value, rather than seeing them as servitude.

What advice does Dr. Orion taban give to women who want to find a successful man to marry and have children with?

He advises them to be prepared to provide value that the man finds valuable, as a high-value man already has everything and may not need anything additional from a partner. He suggests finding ways to provide obedient agreeableness that work for the woman.

What does Dr. Orion taban consider to be women's greatest enemy?

Dr. Orion taban considers pride to be women's greatest enemy, as it often prevents them from entering into the relationships they desire with the men they want.

What is the final call to action from Dr. Orion taban to his audience?

He encourages the audience to reflect on whether the discussion fits with their own experiences and to share their thoughts in the comments, as well as to like the episode and consider subscribing to the channel or booking a paid one-on-one consultation.