It’s time to find yourself and change your life
Summary
TLDRThe speaker emphasizes the importance of embracing change and letting go of past identities to reveal one's true self. They discuss the discomfort of growth, comparing it to a snake shedding its skin, and urge listeners to challenge societal norms and expectations. Drawing on Bruce Lee's wisdom about adaptability, the speaker encourages continuous self-improvement and the pursuit of one's dreams without settling for less. They also highlight the need to stay present, avoid dwelling on the past, and to be open to change for personal growth and success.
Takeaways
- 🔍 Embrace change to reveal your true identity, as it allows for personal growth and self-discovery.
- 🌱 Shed the old skin: Let go of past experiences and identities that no longer serve you to grow into a new self.
- 🌐 Your environment shapes you, but you have the power to change your environment and mindset.
- 💭 Your thoughts dictate your actions, which in turn shape your reality. Cultivate a growth-oriented mindset.
- 🚫 Abandon old programs and beliefs that don't align with your aspirations for personal evolution.
- 🏃♂️ Consistency is key to change. Set systems and stay committed to them for continuous self-improvement.
- 🔄 Accept and adapt to change; it's the only constant in life and is necessary for progress.
- 💪 Face challenges head-on and refuse to settle for less than what you desire in life.
- 🌟 Every day is a new opportunity for change and growth; seize it to move closer to your goals.
- 🛑 Don't get stuck in the past or future; stay present and let go of what holds you back to move forward.
Q & A
What is the main message of the transcript about personal growth?
-The main message is about embracing change and letting go of past identities and experiences that no longer serve you in order to reveal your true self and grow.
How does the speaker suggest we should approach our past experiences?
-The speaker suggests we should let go of past experiences and people that are not important anymore, as they can hinder our growth and prevent us from embracing our true identity.
What does the speaker compare personal growth to in terms of a physical process?
-The speaker compares personal growth to a snake shedding its skin, which is uncomfortable but necessary for growth.
What lesson does the speaker draw from the example of water mentioned in the transcript?
-The speaker uses water as an example to illustrate adaptability and the importance of changing based on one's environment, without forgetting one's essence.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of changing our environment?
-The speaker emphasizes changing our environment because it starts with our mind and is crucial for personal growth and shaping our reality.
What does the speaker suggest is the source of our growth and destruction?
-The speaker suggests that our thoughts are the source of our growth and destruction, as they shape our actions and reality.
What advice does the speaker give for overcoming the discomfort of change?
-The speaker advises to embrace the discomfort, stay present, and keep moving forward, as it is through change that we reveal our true identity and grow.
How does the speaker describe the process of letting go of an old identity?
-The speaker describes letting go of an old identity as a necessary step in personal growth, which involves accepting and embracing new experiences and changes.
What does the speaker mean when they say 'stay present in the moment'?
-The speaker means to focus on the current situation and not get caught up in past regrets or future worries, which can hinder progress and growth.
What is the significance of the speaker's mention of their own life changes and challenges?
-The speaker's mention of personal life changes and challenges serves as a relatable example of the concepts discussed, showing that they are actively applying the advice they give.
How does the speaker view the role of past traumas and habits in personal growth?
-The speaker views past traumas and habits as potential obstacles to growth, suggesting that they can pull us back into old patterns and prevent us from moving forward.
What is the speaker's perspective on the importance of setting and maintaining standards in life?
-The speaker emphasizes the importance of setting high standards and maintaining them daily to ensure continuous self-improvement and to avoid settling for less than what one desires.
Outlines
🌱 Embracing Change for Personal Growth
The speaker emphasizes the importance of letting go of past identities and experiences that no longer serve one's true self. They discuss the discomfort of change and how it is necessary for growth, likening it to a snake shedding its skin. The analogy of water's adaptability is used to illustrate how one should be malleable and change with their environment. The narrative stresses the need to abandon old programming and beliefs that do not align with one's aspirations, suggesting that personal development is a continuous journey of self-improvement, where every day presents an opportunity to be better than the previous one.
🏋️♂️ Overcoming Fear and Staying Present
This paragraph focuses on the idea that dwelling on the past or fearing the future can hinder personal growth. The speaker encourages staying present and moving forward, highlighting the importance of consistency and setting personal systems for growth. They discuss the pitfalls of focusing too much on the end result rather than the journey, and the need to manifest one's desires through daily actions and experiences. The speaker also touches on the concept of not settling for less than what one desires, advocating for setting and maintaining high standards in life.
🚀 Letting Go and Accepting Change
The final paragraph is a call to action, urging individuals to let go of past traumas and attachments that hold them back. The speaker shares personal experiences of resisting the urge to revisit past emotional triggers and emphasizes the importance of self-improvement and healing. They stress the need to invest in oneself, whether it's for personal growth, business, or relationships, and to not allow the past to dictate one's future. The speaker concludes with a challenge to the audience to start making changes immediately, to embrace the discomfort of change, and to appreciate the journey towards becoming the best version of oneself.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Identity
💡Embracing Chaos
💡Change
💡Experiences
💡Comfort Zone
💡Environment
💡Thoughts
💡Consistency
💡Risk
💡Manifestation
💡Present Moment
Highlights
Embrace chaos and allow change to happen to reveal your true identity.
Your own experiences shape your reality, challenging preconceived notions.
Growth involves shedding the old self, much like a snake sheds its skin.
Water's adaptability teaches us about the importance of change and environment.
Your environment and mindset shape your reality, and you have the power to change them.
To become the best version of yourself, abandon programs that don't resonate with your goals.
Strive for self-improvement daily, setting a higher standard each day.
Avoid the revolving door of life by embracing change and not holding onto the past.
Tests and challenges are opportunities to prove your readiness for a new journey in life.
Mental and financial struggles can be stepping stones to personal growth and change.
Risk-taking is essential for growth, as comfort zones limit progress.
Consistency in personal systems and goals is key to change and success.
Avoid focusing solely on the end result; embrace the journey and daily opportunities for change.
Manifest your desires by letting go of the old identity and embracing new experiences.
Healing and self-improvement are crucial for building the life and relationships you desire.
Set clear goals and deadlines to avoid a lifetime of working for others.
Accept and let go of past traumas to move forward and change for the better.
Challenge yourself to make immediate changes towards your goals, starting now.
Appreciate the equal and opposite reactions in life to understand and embrace change.
Free yourself from past limitations and start flying towards your deserved path.
Transcripts
if you really want to change your life
you have to let yourself gr you have to
let go of the identity that's not truly
yours you have to let go of these people
from the past these situations from the
past because it's no longer important
your true identity what you really need
who you really are is going to come from
you embracing chaos from you allowing
change to happen because through change
our true identity is shown you know have
we been taught certain things about um
certain ways of life or about certain
people about certain music or whatever
it is and then when you actually
experience it for yourself you're like
well this this is not what I was taught
they they told me this was evil or they
told me this was bad but I like it right
because you you're attaining your own
experiences so you are shaping your own
reality by getting your own experiences
and at first it's uncomfortable things
are uncomfortable it's just like a snake
a snake grows into a skin and it gets
really comfortable and then as it grows
it has to shed this skin it has to rub
against these things for us it's like
rubbing against these experiences and
going through certain things that help
us break the mold of our old self but if
you never take that that journey to do
those things then you're going to have
that old skin laying around you and it's
going to itch it's going to be
irritating and it's going to be
uncomfortable and you you just have to
allow things to happen water teaches us
a lot Bruce Lee said it best you know
you put water into a cup it becomes a
cup you put it into a teapot it becomes
a teapot water is still water whether it
come from the ocean whether it come from
the sky it doesn't matter water doesn't
forget that it's water water does not
forget the lessons that it's been taught
but it changes based on its environment
you are a product of your environment
but the thing is you can change your
environment and your environment starts
here it starts with your mind your your
growth and your destruction starts with
your thoughts because what you think
essentially comes essentially becomes
what you do and what you do will shape
your reality so the programs you've been
taught as a child as a young adult
whatever it is you have to abandon those
things that don't resonate with who you
want to be if you want to be the best
version of yourself you have to
understand that for one that is a
thought you will never become the best
version of yourself but as long as you
strive for that every day you will be
better than your old self every day it's
merely a it's like a dream you know it's
it's a a vision you have to keep chasing
that and while you're chasing that
you're going to be setting a standard
for yourself every day if you strive to
be the best version of yourself every
day and you're better than your old self
every day then you're setting a standard
that is getting higher every day every
day every day and you have to keep
progressing and you have to keep moving
but that is only possible if you allow
things to change if you hold on to the
same things you're going to keep going
into that revolving door that just you
know never stops you know how you you go
through these things and it feels like
you always end up in the same place or
in the same situation but a different
time where that could be relationships
that could be just life in general I'm
at a crossovers right now in my life
where so many things are changing so
fast but those emotions in that last
part of my old self is trying to cling
on to me so it's bringing up things that
hurt me in the past it's bringing up you
know little little habits and things I'm
getting certain triggers it's trying to
pull me back into that Loop and it's
just a test because when you when you
moving past these things and you're on
this journey to become the best version
of yourself and to become successful and
whatever that is you're going to get
these tests and these tests are just
they're just test they're just trying to
see if you are worthy of taking on this
this new road this new journey in life
this new level and you have to be ready
for those things you have to understand
where they're coming from it's just you
wan to be comfortable this this month
was probably
my I'm not going to say worst month
but i' I've had better months you know
mentally uh financially whatever the
case may be I made some purchases this
month I bought a a new car this month um
I left my 9 to5 this month so all these
things that are coming up they are you
know outside of my comfort zone I'm
taking on new risk but no risk no reward
but as I'm taking on these new risk R
now I'm battling with these past traumas
and I'm battling with these ideas and
these emotions and all these things that
make me uncomfortable which will be very
it would be very easy right now for me
to lay down and just quit but I refuse
because I know right on the other side
of this little period of time there's
something much more beautiful and I've
already had a glimpse of it so I I I
can't allow myself to go back because I
I I don't want to miss out on the
experiences I've been on that side where
you get a taste of freedom and then you
allow all that time and all that idle
idle time and energy to be taken over by
emotions and just the past in general
you're being afraid of change and you're
not allowing things to happen for you
when if you just sit there and accept
the things that have happened and you
stay in the present moment and you
continue to move forward and you focus
on what's
important everything gets better but
somehow it's just so so easy to be stuck
on nothing we have a great habit at it
because it's just so comfortable but you
got to go outside of your comfort zone
you got to step outside of the norm if
you really want to grow in your life you
have to set your own programs you have
to set your own systems and you have to
stay consistent to those systems because
if you don't nothing is ever going to
change no matter how talented they are
no matter what opportunities you get no
matter how well life is treating you if
you don't do anything and if you don't
stay
consistent nothing is GNA happen and
that's just the way life
is but it's all about moving forward and
it's all about building that proper mind
to take on these challenges a lot of the
times when we on these journe
we um we get addicted to certain things
like most people quit because they are
too focused on the end result or they're
too focused on the beginning you you
know how you start to go to the gym or
you start to do something good for
yourself and that first day of doing it
it just feels so good and then after a
few days that little high wear is off
and you got some people they like oh man
I want to be rich and famous and I want
to be this and I want to be that and
they just thinking about the end goal so
when things start to get hard in the
beginning and they just quit because
their minds are elsewhere but once you
realize that there's a beginning and end
of every day every day is a new
opportunity every day is an opportunity
for change every day is the beginning of
a new Journey every day is the end of a
New Journey the things that you want you
have to become there that's how you
manifest those things everything that
you are seeing right now I have already
manifested it I already had it like I
said you have everything you want in
life life is just late but the only way
to get those things is to dish out the
old identity that you were prescribed
that is not you you were taught to be
who you are but that's not who you are
you have to find who you are that's why
life is about experiences that's why
they tell you try more things try new
foods you know we a lot of
our a lot of the things that we like are
not because we truly like there used to
be music that I listen to because I
listen to Just because of people did
that were clothes that I like because
other people did there was things that I
did because other people did and then
when I started to experience things from
my for myself my taste in music my taste
in colors my taste in art just my taste
in everything was much more Broad and it
was much more true to me because it was
for me I dished out that old identity I
allowed myself to change and yes these
changes are uncomfortable but that is
the only way to move forward you got to
keep and you got to just keep
moving you got to you got to let go you
just have to move forward and you just
have to stay present in the moment you
can't get caught up on the past and you
can't get caught up on things that have
not happened and make sure during this
journey that you never settle for
anything below what you want you have
your goals you have your standards and
nothing in your life is going to be
below that if you say that no one's
going to disrespect you make sure that
everybody body that dis disrespect you
is is notified don't disrespect me I
won't tolerate that I don't appreciate
the way you're talking to me if you
don't want to work for somebody for the
rest of your life set a deadline and
make the deal by the time I'm 30 I don't
want to work for anyone the more
confidence you have in yourself the the
the shorter that deadline will be but
don't let time fool you that's why I say
just stay present in the moment be
better every day every day you working
towards that goal you don't have to put
no time on it now if you need some some
time to put a little fire under your
feet hey by all means do that but don't
settle for nothing while you're
changing understand where you need to
change and be open to it because without
change we are
nothing but it's all about you accepting
it and it's all about you letting
yourself
go and you know what's holding you back
I know what's holding me back there's
things that I could be doing right
now that could um you know wipe wipe
away some of those things and I just
have to do a better job at accepting
that and just letting go I have to do a
better job at you know stop to stop
referencing referencing certain people
and letting my emotions be attached to
certain things like I mentioned earlier
in the video I have many times in these
last few days to go down those rabbit
holes but I choose not to entertain
those things many things are going to
come into your life many things are
going to creep into your mind but it's
up to you to entertain those things you
don't have
to so
don't if it's not good for you if it's
not fulfilling you if it's not healing
you don't invest in
it and if you have to invest in it to
survive always be putting more eggs in
your
basket if it is your goal and it is your
dream to build your own business
business go go do your 95 get your money
get your money for your funding always
be putting more eggs back into your
basket if it is your dream to have the
most beautiful relationship in the world
heal
yourself fix yourself become the person
that you would want to spend the rest of
your life with let go of all your past
traumas let go of all the things that
happen to you that doesn't mean you
don't take the lessons with them you
always take the lessons with them but
don't allow the past to hold you back
don't allow the past to stop you from
changing you deserve better but you got
to allow better to come to
you you have to allow yourself to accept
better better has come to you many times
you are
better but do you want to
be are you comfortable with letting go
of those things are you comfortable with
letting go of those people are you
comfortable
with letting go of the
past but if you want to change my
friend it's not going to be
comfortable but when you do
change it's a beautiful
thing it's all about what you
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want how you going to get
it it is a privilege to be here we get
to live we get to breathe we get to
experience I know things aren't always
the
best but that's why it's beautiful
there's no up without down there's no
left without right there's no good
without bad there's no day without
night it's just
life but if you don't accept those
things if you don't accept the equal and
opposite
reaction
there's no way to
appreciate what's bound to
happen
so
so if you're watching this right now you
made it this
far I challenge
you to let go of
yourself let go of your past keep those
lessons appreciate those
experiences
but Free
Yourself free your
mind from what has already
pass or better yet from what you have
already left
behind Let It Go cut those
streams and start flying start
elevating start
running gracefully and
freely into the new path that you
deserve cuz it's long
overdue but you just didn't want to
change so I'm challenging you starting
today starting now to make those
changes if you want to go on a diet
start right now if you want to start
back going to the gym start right now if
you want to start reading and writing
more start right now if you want to
start a YouTube start right
now what if I would to continue to
wait what if I would have continue to
wait but if I were to continue
to
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