Seven Keys to Good Storytelling | Josh Campbell | TEDxMemphis
Summary
TLDRThe speaker emphasizes the importance of storytelling in personal and professional life, urging individuals to find their unique voice and connect with audiences. They debunk the myth that one must be funny to tell a story, stressing the need for authenticity and preparation without over-scripting. The seven keys to storytelling are presented, including starting strong, avoiding unnecessary details, and trusting the audience's ability to grasp the moral. The ultimate message is to practice, find one's voice, and become the protagonist of one's own narrative.
Takeaways
- 📚 Storytelling is essential for various life situations like pitches, presentations, toasts, and eulogies.
- 🗣️ Everyone has a story to tell; it's a common misconception that one's story isn't interesting enough for others.
- 🎯 Practice is crucial for effective storytelling, and finding one's voice is key to connecting with an audience.
- 📝 Be prepared with an outline but stay flexible to adapt to the story's flow and audience reactions.
- 😂 Humor is not a requirement for storytelling; authenticity and connection are more important than making people laugh.
- 🔍 Use names in your stories to give them power and avoid letting anonymity control your narrative.
- 💔 It's not the audience's job to provide closure; ensure you're at peace with your story before sharing it.
- 📖 Start your story at the beginning and end at the end, avoiding unnecessary tangents or backstory.
- 🙅♂️ Avoid moralizing or explaining the lesson of the story; trust the audience to get the message on their own.
- 🔍 Details are important, but not all details are necessary; trust your audience to fill in the gaps.
- 🚫 Be mindful of controversial statements; avoid offending your audience unless it's critical to the story.
- 🎭 The secret key to storytelling is recognizing when to deviate from the rules based on the story and the audience.
Q & A
Why is storytelling considered an essential part of living one's best life?
-Storytelling is essential because it's a universal human experience that connects us with others, whether it's in professional settings like pitches and presentations, or personal moments like toasts and eulogies.
What is the speaker's response to people who claim they don't have a story to tell?
-The speaker argues that everyone has a story to tell, and the belief that they don't is merely an excuse to avoid the challenge of storytelling.
What is one of the seven keys to good storytelling mentioned in the script?
-One key is to be prepared but not overly so, allowing for flexibility during the storytelling process to explore parts of the story that resonate with the audience.
Why is it not necessary to be funny when telling a story?
-Being funny is not necessary because the primary goal is to connect with the audience, and if a joke fails, it can break that connection.
What is the importance of using names when telling a story?
-Using names in a story can empower the storyteller and prevent others from having undue influence over the narrative, ensuring authenticity and honesty.
Why should a storyteller avoid turning their storytelling into a therapy session?
-A therapy session focuses on personal healing, whereas storytelling should aim for empathy from the audience, allowing them to connect with the story rather than focusing on the storyteller's emotional state.
What is the recommended approach to starting and ending a story?
-The story should start at the beginning and end at the end, avoiding unnecessary preambles or digressions that can confuse the audience.
Why should storytellers avoid moralizing at the end of their story?
-Moralizing can rob the audience of their own interpretation and takeaway from the story, potentially undermining the storytelling experience.
What is the significance of details in storytelling, and when can they be problematic?
-Details are important for setting the scene and context but can be problematic when they become excessive and detract from the main narrative, causing the audience to lose interest.
Why is it important not to offend the audience unnecessarily?
-Offending the audience can alienate them and break the connection, which is crucial for effective storytelling and communication.
What is the 'secret key' to storytelling mentioned by the speaker?
-The secret key is that sometimes details, morals, and even offending the audience are necessary to make the story impactful and memorable.
Outlines
🎙️ Embracing Storytelling in Life's Journeys
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of storytelling in various aspects of life, such as work presentations, social gatherings, and personal eulogies. The speaker encourages the audience to prepare and practice their storytelling skills, highlighting that everyone has a story worth telling. The speaker dispels the myth that one must be funny to tell a good story, suggesting that connection and authenticity are more important. The paragraph also introduces seven keys to effective storytelling, which will be elaborated in the subsequent content.
📝 The Art of Storytelling: Keys and Pitfalls
The speaker delves into the intricacies of storytelling, providing advice on how to craft and deliver a compelling narrative. Key points include being prepared but adaptable, avoiding the pressure to be funny, using names to add authenticity, and not turning the story into a therapy session. The speaker stresses the importance of making peace with one's story to elicit empathy from the audience, rather than sympathy. Additionally, the advice to start at the beginning and end at the end of the story is given, cautioning against over-explaining or moralizing, which can detract from the audience's experience.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Storytelling
💡Connection
💡Preparation
💡Empathy
💡Details
💡Moral
💡Controversial
💡Beginning and End
💡Practice
💡Hero
💡Dialogue
Highlights
Storytelling is an essential part of living your best life and should be practiced for various opportunities like pitches, presentations, toasts, and eulogies.
Everyone has a story to tell, and the belief that one doesn't is just an excuse to avoid sharing.
TED talks focus on revolutionary ideas, and people want to hear your story, contrary to common belief.
To connect with an audience, you need to tell your story with authenticity and find your voice.
The seven keys to good storytelling are about avoiding bad storytelling rather than just telling a good story.
Be prepared for your story but allow flexibility to explore and adapt to what resonates with the audience.
You don't need to be funny to tell a good story; connection is more important than laughter.
Using real names in your story can help avoid embarrassment and give power to the narrative.
A story should not be a therapy session; make peace with your story before sharing it with an audience.
Empathy, not sympathy, is the goal when telling a story to ensure the audience focuses on the narrative.
Begin your story at the beginning and end at the end to avoid confusing the audience with unnecessary details.
Avoid moralizing at the end of your story; trust the audience to understand the lesson or moral on their own.
Details are important, but trust your audience to understand the context without over-explaining.
Keep the audience on your side by maintaining a connection and understanding that they are your peers.
Avoid making controversial statements unless they are crucial to the story to prevent offending the audience.
The secret key to storytelling is knowing when to break the rules and when to follow them.
Practice is essential to finding your voice and becoming the hero of your own story.
Transcripts
[Music]
if you're living your best life which I
know you are I've seen your instagrams
if you're living right storytelling has
to be a part of your life you will have
to give a pitch for your boss you will
have to give a presentation to your
employees a friend will ask you to give
a toast you will give a eulogy
so these storytelling opportunities are
coming so you have to prepare for them
you have to practice and the best way to
practice and prepare is to find your
voice your voice in front of a story and
swoop in front of a crowd of people your
ability to connect with an audience and
the way to do that is by telling your
story the spilled events we run I host
them and at the end people always come
up to me and they say the same thing
they said I'd love to do that but I
don't have a story to tell and I always
say to them well you know that's not
true because everyone has a story to
tell that's just something we tell
ourselves that's the excuse that we give
to not do it what we're really saying
when we say that is I don't think I have
a story that anybody wants to listen to
TED talks are about revolutionary ideas
here's the idea people want to hear your
story
isn't it the worst when someone takes
your excuse away from you I'm a teacher
I do that a lot
so these opportunities are coming you
need to practice and the connection with
the audience is already there why are
you listening to me right now because
I'm standing in front of you you're
facing this way you really have no
choice it's up to me to keep that
connection going and so the seven keys
to good storytelling is not how to tell
a good story it's how to avoid telling
bad stories and so I've made some slides
with some of my favorite storytellers to
help me out first key
be prepared but not too prepared every
journey you want to give from A to B but
it's the side roads and the side tracks
the long cuts and the short cuts that
make the journey worthwhile have an
outline stick to it but give yourself
some liberal room so that you can
explore that part of the story that's
really working give yourself an escape
route so you can get out of that part of
the story that's not don't let
preparation get in the way of a good
story right now my father is saying only
Josh would make lack of preparation of
virtue you don't have to be funny
because let's admit it folks you're not
funny I'm sorry everybody always says
that to me I wish I could tell my story
but I'm just not funny and you have that
old trope always start your presentation
with a joke it will relax your audience
but if that joke bombs the connection is
lost people want to feel connected more
than they want to laugh name names
people always say I want to tell my
story but I don't want this person to be
embarrassed I want to tell my story but
I don't want this person to know that I
think about them at all I want to tell
my story but I would be embarrassed if
my mom found out I hooked up with that
guy if you can't use someone's name they
have power over your story don't let
someone with no name determine your
story for you it's not a therapy session
if you can't make peace with your story
than your audience won't be able to that
doesn't mean that you can't show emotion
it's fine 75% of our winners that are
spiller slams are the guys and girls
that cry protip on that one
but it is not the audience's job to give
you closure you don't want your audience
to feel sympathy for you you want them
to feel empathy if they feel sorry for
you they're thinking about you and your
well-being and they're not thinking
about your story anymore
make peace with your story before you
get on the stage dad's from Memphis one
of our great storytellers start at the
beginning of your story and end at the
end sound simple but when I sit down and
meet with people usually what happens is
they start talking in about five minutes
then they say well I guess the story
really starts here well if it really
starts here what are you talking about
for the last five minutes I have no idea
what your story's about it was nice to
hear about grandma coming from Bavaria
back in the 1830s or something like that
what does it have to do with the cat you
just bought so let's begin at our
beginning and at the end so many
storytellers reached that point be that
they wanted to get to they have a great
closing line the audience has had their
cathartic release and it should be walk
off the stage you should have that
George Costanza moment of I'm out of
here thanks guys
but what people do instead of that as
they go well I guess the moral of the
story is and then for two minutes they
moralize to you you've got to trust that
your audience is gonna get the lesson
that you want them to get or they're
gonna get the lesson that they want to
get don't rob them of that by telling
them the moral of the story the Devils
in the details
and those details are boring
trust your audience you and your
audience are human beings you're having
a dialogue with them you're the only
ones talking but in their head they're
speaking back to you you have shared
experiences as human beings that don't
need to be explained in great detail if
I say to you my dog's my best friend you
understand what I'm saying do I need to
spend two minutes talking about the way
he looks my face or where he meets me at
the door every day or sometimes I talk
to I think he's the only one that really
understands me I don't own a dog I'm
more of a cat person I don't own a cat
either see that's me trying to be funny
you know I don't always work but you
understand what I'm saying
I don't need to spend two minutes
telling you my dog's my best friend you
get it we're together let's move on
you understand me and I understand you
the audience is on your side keep them
there the connection is made again you
understand your audience they are your
peers they're the people that live in
the city that you do don't make a
controversial statement unless you have
to unless it's totally vital to the
story earlier I told you guys that I
look at your Instagram accounts and then
I said you weren't funny that wasn't a
good idea on my part ten percent of you
probably checked out a long time ago
just because of that don't offend your
audience so those are my seven keys but
the most important one is this the
secret key
sometimes details are important
sometimes morals are necessary sometimes
you have to offend your audience to make
them listen
I can't tell you what your story is and
I can't tell you how to tell it the only
way you can do it is by practice go and
find a mic get in front of an audience
find your voice be the hero of your own
story be the protagonist
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