Nuclear Live Stream: Best and Worst First Date Locations
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the host, Nuke, discusses dating strategies, emphasizing the importance of选址 for first dates. He suggests avoiding traditional dinners for first meetings, citing they are costly and not intimate. Instead, he recommends locations like wine bars that are quiet, classy, and conducive to conversation. Nuke also warns against first date activities that are physically demanding, commitment-heavy, or involve family and friends. His advice is aimed at creating an atmosphere that facilitates connection and authenticity, rather than superficial or stressful experiences.
Takeaways
- 😀 The speaker, Nuke, emphasizes the importance of choosing the right location for a first date to set the tone for future interactions.
- 🎶 He critiques common dating advice, such as going for brunch, hiking, or other activities that may not be conducive to intimate conversations and emotional connection.
- 💡 Nuke suggests that a local bar can be an excellent first date location if it's well-scouted for comfort, noise level, and seating, allowing for easy conversation and a relaxed atmosphere.
- 🍷 Wine bars are highlighted as an underrated choice for a first date, offering a classy ambiance, alcohol to loosen up, and a quieter environment for conversation.
- 🚫 The script strongly advises against traditional dinner dates for first meetings, as they can be expensive, lack intimacy, and may not be as conducive to getting to know each other.
- 🏞 Outdoor activities and sports are cautioned against due to the potential for physical exertion, risk of injury, and weather dependency, which can detract from the dating experience.
- 🙅♀️ Avoiding locations where meeting family or friends is likely is recommended to prevent external pressures and maintain the focus on the individuals getting to know each other.
- 🍿 Cutesy or commitment-heavy dates, such as mini golf, picnics, or pottery, are discouraged for first dates because they can be stressful and don't facilitate meaningful conversations.
- 🔥 Night clubs are considered a poor choice for first dates due to loud music, expensive drinks, and the lack of opportunity for personal interaction.
- 🏋️♂️ The gym is also dismissed as a first date venue because it's not an environment designed for intimate conversations or getting to know someone on a deeper level.
- 🍷 Lastly, the script recommends having a bottle of wine as part of the date, but also suggests avoiding spicy or salty foods beforehand to better appreciate the taste.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video script?
-The main topic discussed in the video script is the best and worst places to take someone on a date, focusing on first date locations and experiences.
What type of date does the speaker recommend for first dates?
-The speaker recommends dates that are conducive to intimate and relaxed conversations, such as a local bar, a wine bar, or a speakeasy, where alcohol is involved to help lower inhibitions.
Why does the speaker suggest avoiding dinner dates for first dates?
-The speaker suggests avoiding dinner dates for first dates because they can be expensive, lack intimacy due to the setting, and may not be as conducive to getting to know each other on a deeper level.
What are some of the worst first date locations mentioned in the script?
-Some of the worst first date locations mentioned include dinner restaurants, clubs, outdoor activities like hiking or sports, and places where attention is diverted from the date, such as concerts or family gatherings.
What is the significance of choosing a location with alcohol for a first date according to the speaker?
-The speaker believes that choosing a location with alcohol for a first date helps to lower inhibitions and facilitate more relaxed and open conversations between the two individuals.
Why does the speaker suggest wine bars as a great place for a first date?
-The speaker suggests wine bars as a great place for a first date because they are usually quiet, conducive to conversation, and seen as classy, which can elevate the date experience.
What advice does the speaker give regarding taking a girl to a salsa class for a first date?
-The speaker advises that taking a girl to a salsa class for a first date can be good if the man is an intermediate-level dancer and understands the cultural nuances of salsa dancing, but warns of potential issues like other men approaching the girl or the physical exertion making the girl self-conscious.
What are some factors to consider when choosing a bar for a first date according to the script?
-Factors to consider when choosing a bar for a first date include the availability of seating, the volume of the music, the presence of a cool atmosphere, and whether the venue is well-cooled, especially in hot weather.
What is the speaker's opinion on taking a girl to a dog cantina for a first date?
-The speaker is on the fence about taking a girl to a dog cantina for a first date due to factors like weather, the quality of food and drink, and the potential for the location to be muddy or chaotic.
What does the speaker suggest as an alternative to dinner for a first date?
-The speaker suggests alternatives like coffee shops, wine bars, or local bars for a first date, emphasizing the importance of a relaxed atmosphere and the opportunity for conversation.
Outlines
🎤 Introduction and Personal Branding
The speaker, referred to as 'nuke', opens with a musical intro and discusses his role as a dating advice content creator. He mentions his experience in the field, having been active for about six months, and promotes his social media presence, including Twitter, Patreon, and Instagram. Nuke encourages viewers to follow, like, and subscribe to his channel, noting that he is close to monetization. He also offers personalized coaching and is open to donations or one-on-one coaching inquiries via email.
💡 Discussing First Date Locations
Nuke delves into the topic of optimal and poor first date locations. He criticizes common advice found online, such as going for a brunch or hiking date, arguing that these are not conducive to forming a connection within the '48-hour window' he believes is crucial in the dating market. He emphasizes the importance of emotional spikes and intimacy on a first date and suggests that traditional dating advice often misses the mark on what men should aim for in the current dating climate.
🍻 Best Places for First Dates: Bars and Pubs
The speaker recommends local bars as one of the best places for first dates, advising viewers to scout and choose a well-suited venue. He discusses the importance of the bar's atmosphere, seating, music volume, and temperature. Nuke suggests that themed bars, Irish pubs, and arcade bars can be excellent choices due to their relaxed and fun environment, which can facilitate interaction and excitement during the date.
🏕️ Outdoor Dates and Coffee Shops
Nuke talks about the pros and cons of outdoor dates, such as brewery visits, depending on the weather. He mentions the benefits of bringing a well-behaved dog to create a relaxed atmosphere. He also discusses the strategy of transitioning from a coffee shop to a more formal drink venue if the date is going well, emphasizing the importance of adaptability and seizing opportunities for progression.
🤔 Contemplating Unconventional First Date Ideas
The speaker expresses mixed feelings about certain first date ideas, such as salsa classes, which he finds enjoyable but complex due to the need for dance skills and the potential for interruptions from other participants. He also addresses the importance of being close to home to avoid complications and the value of being able to transition smoothly between venues.
🍷 The Appeal of Wine Bars for First Dates
Nuke extols the virtues of wine bars as an ideal first date location, highlighting their classy atmosphere, quiet environment, and the opportunity for conversation that they provide. He discusses the affordability and the potential to order a bottle of wine to share, which can contribute to a relaxed and intimate setting. He also suggests using the wine selection as a way to demonstrate care and leadership.
🚫 Avoiding Poor First Date Choices
The speaker identifies dinner as a universally poor choice for a first date due to its high cost, lack of intimacy, and the potential for discomfort. He argues against outdoor activities, cutesy dates, and clubs, which can be loud, expensive, or not conducive to meaningful conversation. Nuke emphasizes the importance of choosing a location that allows for privacy and focus on each other.
🏋️♂️ The Inappropriateness of Gym Dates
Nuke strongly advises against meeting at the gym for a first date, describing it as an unromantic and masculine environment that is not conducive to conversation or attraction. He suggests saving the gym for established relationships or social gatherings with friends, rather than using it as a venue to meet someone new.
🎉 Balancing Activities with Conversation
The speaker wraps up by reiterating the importance of choosing a first date location that facilitates conversation and avoids activities that could be distracting or uncomfortable. He stresses the value of alcohol in helping to relax and open up communication, and he encourages viewers to share their thoughts on good or bad first date venues in the comments.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Dating Advice
💡First Date
💡Attraction
💡Salsa Class
💡Social Circle
💡Emotional Spike
💡Intimacy
💡Wine Bar
💡Dinner Date
💡Contextual Alpha
Highlights
The importance of selecting the right venue for a first date to set the tone for future interactions.
The speaker's experience of over five months in dating advice and their online presence for further guidance.
The misconception about first date locations according to the speaker, who disagrees with popular advice.
The necessity to 'spike emotion' within the first 48 hours of meeting to become significant in a woman's life.
The strategy of using a local bar as an ideal first date location, considering specific ambiance factors.
The role of 'Speakeasy' bars in providing a classy and intimate setting for first dates.
The advantage of brewery settings for first dates, especially if they offer a relaxed atmosphere and live bands.
The potential of coffee shops and markets for first dates, particularly when they offer wine.
The use of salsa classes or dance nights as a fun and interactive first date option.
The downsides of taking a woman to a dinner for a first date, according to the speaker's perspective.
The pitfalls of outdoor activities like hiking for first dates, including the risk of injury and discomfort.
Why cutesy dates like mini golf or pottery might not be ideal for first dates due to their lack of intimacy.
The reasons to avoid clubs for first dates, including the loud music and expensive drinks.
The importance of avoiding activities that involve meeting each other's friends or family on the first date.
The speaker's recommendation of wine bars as an underrated and classy first date option.
The final advice on avoiding first date locations that divert attention away from each other.
Transcripts
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um what's up guys it's uh me your friend
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all right
all right so uh how you guys doing
tonight
um just wanted to talk to you guys
tonight about uh best places for dates
worst places for dates right
um from uh kind of like a normie
perspective this is some of the worst
advice you'll see online about where to
take a girl on a first date it's kind of
ridiculous it's because
um like I just saw a Courtney Ryan video
just for reference
um and she says that like you know the
that um you know a brunch date or hiking
date or something like that is a good
first date I'm here to explain to you
why not really
um because the way the way it's the
dating Market is today and just the way
you have to go about it like like I've
said before you got 48 hours
to become an important person in a
woman's life right um
nowadays right now obviously there's
kind of different types of scenarios and
situations where a girl's attraction can
grow slowly for you you know like it
could be
um you know you go to a salsa class
together and you know there's like that
plausible deniability where you're just
salsa dance Partners or and then
eventually that kind of like tension
starts growing you dance with another
girl she gets jealous or a work you know
work you know which you should avoid but
like work overtime she sees you do your
thing over the years over the months and
then she grows attraction for you but
for the most part when you're dating out
there outside of a Social Circle outside
of like a work environment
um or like meeting women or interfacing
with women outside of a work or a Social
Circle environment
um you're gonna have to spike emotion so
one of the way the best way and the only
way right now is Spike emotion is
intimacy right you need to
push for that same night first night lay
second night late I know that you know a
lot of a lot of the women uh female
dating coaches don't like that you know
and it's okay it's normal not to want to
give away the best advice that will get
you you know back to a guy's place
they're not gonna tell you that right
they're gonna tell you yeah take us out
of the dinner day take us to mini golf
and all that stuff but we need to win
we're here to win we're here to get what
we want out of the dating game and get
out right if it's the long-term
relationship spinning plates whatever
you want
um so I'm here to discuss the best and
worst places to meet women so uh let me
um
look at these chats real quick
Spencer says I am ready I am also ready
put me in coach you're already in bro
you already in
um
Jorge says hold on let me get the
notepad ready yes I even got my own
notepad in case I forget points and all
that stuff I was wearing no pad to every
show
um
and uh we have Kate how you doing
tonight Kate get the watch hours up so
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um in the comments we got Alex nature
how you're doing tonight Alex and uh I
think that's everyone for now
but anyway all right let's get this
started
um so on uh Twitter
we have this um
we have this uh sleuth of of advice you
know from dating people dating and a lot
of times the most vocal people about
dating are tend to be like more of the
conservative traditional people or
people that are inexperienced or just uh
female dating coaches they all have like
you know this advice about where you
should take a lady on a first night
um and believe me guys I've taken them
everywhere I've taken them to every
single place
almost you that you can think of
obviously there's new ideas every day
but um I can tell you right now
um where you take a girl on the first
day sets the tone a lot for the next
couple weeks
um when you're meeting a girl so make
sure you know
what places you to avoid I want places
to go right
um so I'd say let's start with the best
places
um
and I would say the best place
one of the best places obviously is a
local bar now let me explain myself a
bar that's a you know that's a big word
like what I mean what type of bar or
where how you know
um so one thing you have to do when
you're uh let's say you move to a new
area or you're trying to date one of the
things you have to do is Scout go out
and Scout places you know
um and when you're scouting these places
go out and you know um look at what how
the venue's set up like uh is there
plenty of seating is it cramped
um is there a lot of smoking going on
you know
um is the music really loud for a
Tuesday afternoon you know is it really
loud where you can't have a conversation
with someone in front of you
um
or how many bar are they well staffed
you know maybe you have to go there by
yourself on a Tuesday night and make
friends with the bartenders hey I just
want to check out the area what's good
here
um you know use your social skills use
your mouth and talk and ask people hey
um what's good around here and you know
kind of like make friends tip well so
the bartenders kind of like you and all
that stuff so yeah it's on you to like
figure out which venue which bar is the
best place to take a girl
um but
sometimes you know uh you don't have
that options right so there are other
options but I would say for me
um you know an Irish Pub those are
pretty cool except Irish pubs can get a
little uh loud you know uh the music's
really loud oh another thing now that
the summer is here and it's really
really hot you don't want a bar that is
not well cooled like air conditioning
make sure that wherever venue you take a
girl nowadays on a first date make sure
it's well cooled I know some chicks are
cool they're like I don't care about
being outside but it is 100 degrees and
that will definitely hamper your ability
to take a girl home on the first night
um and that's what we're aiming for at
least first or second night right
um
so yeah uh there's different themed bars
like there's a
there's bars that are like Whimsical and
kind of like disney-esque and more
geared towards women those are a fun
place to take women because it acts that
adds that excitement and uh excitement
to the date
um for you Dallas Bros or maybe I think
Houston we have Wonder Bar here in
Dallas it's a cool fun place
um you know there's like the The Wheel
of Fortune Wheel there's like funny
statues you know a giant kick that says
blow me the drinks are fun and Whimsical
like it's a place where if you invite a
young woman she would be like oh my God
I'm excited you know so uh yeah it's
always great they tend to be more
expensive but I mean it's it's fun and
um
also these places tend to attract more
women so there'll probably be more women
around than men so she'll probably feel
more comfortable
um and More in her element right
um yeah so there's also arcade style
bars
um you know like the arcade bars where
you got maybe
uh depending on how
how
arcade like the bar is some of them are
just full arcades with a bar some of
them are a bar with a little bit of
arcade games like Pac-Man
um shooting the basketball
um
uh what you call it a bumper I forgot a
pinball machines there you go pinball
machine stuff like that that's good you
know um
these activities are fun you know you
get to tease each other and kind of
build a little bit of report so those
are good those are I highly recommend
those bars um when taking a girl on a
first take
um
let me see what else I have here
oh another one good one is a speakeasy
Speakeasy uh places are pretty cool
they're laid back everyone's you know
the crowd is a very quiet measure calm
crowd for speakeasies and it's like very
fancy so if you know
um it's fancy but not super expensive it
is more expensive than most bars but
it's like you know it's a good place to
take a girl on a first date and you know
if if she's like the type of girl that
likes to get dressed up and fancy just
look at her Instagram if she has several
pictures where she's out kind of
dressing a nice dress black dress then a
speakeasy is a great place because you
can you know tell her hey you know that
dress that you were in that this picture
I think something like that would be I
want to take you here it's you know just
get to know you
um so a lot of girls like that you
you're taking the lead and you're
setting up an atmosphere there's candles
lit like it is good for intimacy and
getting to know somebody so always a
great one and then um depending on the
weather
um you know I think in Texas is not a
good idea right now because it's like
100 degrees every day but like a brewery
a brewery is good because it's more very
relaxed there's probably live band
depending on the girl the girl's more
like Southern cowboy type girl a brewery
is a great place to take her
because uh it's it's just a really
relaxed atmosphere it's uh it's outside
um you know as long as the weather's
good and the center element she's uh
talking
um she's talking to you there's you're
on a picnic bench and also if you guys
have a dog
um or a puppy you know bring the puppy
along as long as the puppies you know
kind of well behaved
um and it kind of gives you that aura of
just like familiarity and relax Brewers
tends to be a very relaxed atmosphere
kind of family oriented but like you
know
um the staff is very not usually very
nice and you know it's it's a great
place just make sure the breweries
libraries are out in the middle of
nowhere so try to like reconcile that
with your the distance and all that
stuff so and if you're going to bring
your dog
um to a brewery and make sure it's dogs
well behaved and won't interfere with
you getting to know the girl right but
it does help bring in a
a little animal and all that stuff
right so
um
yeah so just make sure yeah or any any
of these places plenty of seating the
music is not too loud and then the
cooling because it's hot and girls time
you know when girls get sweaty they get
self-conscious especially if you're
trying to
excuse me take things back to her place
and all that so yeah just make sure that
uh
you kind of do your do your due
diligence go do some work do the work
right and go find a nice place to meet
this person
um so yeah
um second on the list
um not in order of what's best but just
another second on the list is uh the
coffee shop slash Market there's now
these kind of like markets where it's
like they sell coffee but they also sell
salads and kombucha and drinks like
Health stuff and then in the back
they'll have like kind of groceries and
but there's one really near where I live
where I like to do first dates because
they also sell wine and that's that's
like a little hack that I have right so
coffee Shop's great um usually you want
to do coffee in the morning like on uh
um on a weekend like Saturday Sunday I
know like most people say you know
drinks you know most most uh Don Juans
and players and all that stuff say
drinks drinks drinks right but sometimes
the girls under 21 you know as as we as
uh Us Men We like our young women and
sometimes uh younger than 21 girl pops
up so you may have to take it to a
coffee shop also sometimes you just only
have time on the weekend this week
you're busy or you've got stuff going on
so a coffee shop a coffee a coffee isn't
a terrible idea and also a lot of times
um how I met like one of my exes
great gals that we had coffee we talked
and since she showed up in a nice dress
and since she was so fun to talk to and
since the date was going so well I just
looked across the street and said hey uh
you know that's
you want to go have a martini
um
before you go and then we went ahead of
martini and she was my girlfriend for
like seven months so
um yeah it's just guys you gotta think
of your feet too don't put yourself in a
box I know there's these debates coffee
versus alcohol Ice Cream Day blah blah
blah which is the reason I'm doing this
because I saw the stupid ice cream post
by some undesirable women on Twitter you
know there's always the ones that are
always perpetually single doing this
stuff but anyway
um yeah so make sure that like
you're not like boxing yourself and kind
of think on your feet use your own brain
you know like if you're if you're having
a coffee day it's going great she's
giving you ioi she's touching you she's
laughing and she's having a good time
her body language is relaxed then go
ahead and be like hey you want to grab a
martini record or a cosmonaut real quick
uh next door or across the street I
think you would like this place and you
know you move you move on to the date
and you know
um when you're in a second place after
the first one it gives the illusion that
you're on a second date already so it
drops your guard even more conducive to
you taking her to back back to your
place so just something to know so yeah
coffee shops um slash markets
um
very good uh second option the drinks
don't work also a lot of these places
sell wine too so if you're in the middle
of the coffee shop day and you're like
hey when I want to grab a glass of wine
real quick you know like
um to unwind you can try that obviously
probably I don't know if I'll mix well
with coffee but whatever
um now there's a here too that I'm on
the fence about but uh let me hit up
these chats and I'll continue
uh okay
all right
so salsa classes were awesome to get the
fun going yeah I got some you know I did
a whole show on salsa uh salsa night um
if you guys want to check that out
it's in my one of my live uh just
looking under my live tab in my YouTube
but salsa classes are good but you
there's some things that you have to you
know be careful with uh when you're
taking a girl to salsa so just um well
I'm about to get into that it's on my
list but yes it's awesome it's also a
first night date for salsa is fun you
just there's certain things you have to
know
right uh we got Spencer a bar within 10
minutes max from your place yeah if you
live in a city
and driving try to get a bar driving
distance less than 10 minutes
for you know just reasonable time and so
you can be like hey I live 10 minutes of
the road you want to give her the
possible deniability luckily I live like
in the center of Dallas so for me it's
10 minutes walking five I live a five
minute walk from all the nice bars here
so you know I'm like uneasy mode for
Logistics right but I chose that spot I
made a sacrifices necessary but yes you
want to have
have a place as close as possible to you
Alex says word of advice in Mexico do
not use the English word bar because it
it's become so now it's a strip joint
and in Mexico they do provide extra
spicy Services just saying here's my
unsolicited advice hey man your advice
is never unsolicited we appreciate it
so what do you say Mexico Cantina or um
what do you guys say instead of bar
I'm gonna say Cantina right
um Alex says oh man that's going back on
memory lane arcades we're still somewhat
going on back in the night late 90s it
was fun times yeah arcade
um arcades are fun
um all right I had a date at an arcade
but it was a girl I was already I've
been seeing for a while it was fun we
played Mario card where there's air
hockey there's the shooting games
there's Tetris there's all this stuff
and like it's good to like bond with a
girl but like just realize that it is a
place where it can be loud as well and
it is a place where it can be
you know the bar can be really small and
there isn't a place to sit you know
there's not a lot of places to sit
sometimes too just you got to go out and
Scout it you know at least the at a
minimum look at pictures look at reviews
of the place you know do your due
diligence as if you're planning uh
something for your friends or a birthday
party you want to look at the place
first
right just just make sure you you have
that uh that reconnaissance before you
go there
um Spencer says Speakeasy have insane
pool brought a chick to a donut shop
behind a bookshelf was a speakeasy
instant pool yeah man yeah speakeasies
speakeasies are on the rise I think
after the pandemic they got really
popular I wonder why
um but
um yeah species is a great place it's
just it's quiet it's cool it's dark and
it's intimate and it's just
you know it gives like that you know you
bring a girl in a nice dress because a
lot of them have dress codes too um and
it's just it's it's conducive to a nice
conversation nice sexy conversation so
yeah Speakeasy is where it's at guys
give it a try
um if you can find a good one in your
city
um
you know
it just you know make it your spot you
know
Kate says when I was single I had a
strict rule of coffee dates only for
first meets nine out of 10 times men in
love that I wanted coffee not dinner and
I did in a drink yeah we don't like that
you like dinner because we don't want to
spend money especially on something
that's not a sure thing so yes
um
Jorge says arcades back then we're nice
especially the king of fighter machines
that's how I met my first year after she
approached me yeah um something about
arcades is we're like it's very social
people kind of like open up and all that
stuff um but yeah I there's a there's a
couple of them in Dallas
um and they and they tend to be really
fun
um but for me personally I'm not a huge
fan of arcades I get bored
um I guess it's all the gaming I do I
kind of need more updated stuff but like
I love a game of air hockey and I love
um some Mario Kart so yeah or racing
games good times
Aaron Martinez says elantro I think he's
referring to um
something that Alex said
if it's drinking it's a Cantina of
course mostly a man's place but a cafe
it's it's good okay
homeschool time how are you doing
tonight man uh last girlfriend weighed
125 pounds age 25 12 years younger than
me our marriage nearly 17 years now
uh great man congratulations I am mostly
congratulations overweight man
congratulations like
most women
what is the average uh weight of a woman
now five is like a heightened weight is
five four she's like 160 something 67
pounds which is ridiculous because I'm
like six one 185 pounds so it's like
uh
damn
um
that's crazy you're like 20 pounds under
me and I'm like you know I can bench to
25 like how is this possible so
Alex says that I'm throw that's a club
for dancing fun times man I'm learning
new Mexican words like every week like
dating Mexican women you find out words
and some of them are so cool and funny
but yeah I'm learning the link I like
learn every week I learn a new Mexican
word where like I'm just like I gotta
apply it somehow because you know you
work with I work with uh
Mexicans sometimes and you know I date
them and have friends and all that stuff
and I want to surprise them like oh I
know what you're talking about you know
so we gotta move smoochuck I'm gonna say
I'm gonna pronounce your name muchaka 90
it sounds cooler uh with the way what's
up man Aaron Martinez is my friend okay
I'm wondering I thought it was Andro oh
we got Honduran Honduras in the house
um easy says Dominican Rolo you think so
what makes what makes me like Rollo is
it the the mannerisms
foreign
Alex says it's all good I'm Mexican even
though all of us speak Spanish
Castellano but do not agree in some
words yeah but I think Mexico has like
like cooler words or maybe I'm just so
bored of Puerto Rican and Dominican
Spanish but yeah Jorge says 170 pounds
damn thanks for the clarification but
yeah women are fat guys like I could do
a whole show but okay so I know that
everyone is saying you know technologist
the number one dysregulator of the
sexual Marketplace is the Obesity
epidemic right
um if you go to places that have
Facebook that have Tinder to have hinge
you have dating apps that have liberal
media and all that stuff whatever you
guys are blame
um the current dating the crappy current
days you know
if there's a lot of hot people
everyone's getting laid right because
like first off like if you're a guy and
you have a hot chick as a girlfriend
you're kind of like set you know you're
like okay cool I she's hot you know
pretty much set also
if you're a girl that's hot but everyone
else is high you're gonna you're gonna
fight a little harder and be a little
bit more a better girlfriend because
your guy can get taken away you have
competition right and as a guy
um
you have you're set because your
girlfriend's hot you don't have to like
you know you you're you're a lot of the
the itch to go get see another girl is
kind of satisfied because your girl is
just that attractive and you didn't
really have to work that hard for us as
opposed to the United States right so
yeah
oh we got Alpha sloth in the chat howdy
Alpha how you doing
KN is five for it at 100 100 510 pounds
shaking you're definitely and definitely
an anomaly right um You Are
50 pounds almost 65 pounds lighter than
the average woman at your height that's
insane Jesus Christ
we got CD Burr in the chat it's getting
really tough to find women who weighs
less than 150. yeah I
um
I'm dating a Latina I think she's 160
but she's 5'3 but she just has like the
curves man but even then like
um I'll tell her if she ever wants
commitment for me and she's gonna have
to you know I'm not a tyrant I don't
need you to be you know I understand
that Latino women are curvy and they got
you know she has it all in the right
places but still
you know you have to
you have to get in a healthy way it's
not even about physical appearance now
it's just healthy you know health so
Alex says funny thing it took me one
year listening to Dominicans of Puerto
Ricans just to understand in Spanish let
me tell you guys from the island speak
too fast yeah Dominicans speak the
fastest and when I speak to Mexicans or
any Central American I slow it down on
purpose you know just because I know
that we speak really fast so
Alex Virginia says but I love you lots
guys oh yeah
um Dominicans we're all right we're not
too bad
I do think Mexican Mexico they're God's
chosen people you know they're the I've
never seen a race ethnicity complain so
little but have such a crappy hand like
Mexico
so kudos to you you're in and the women
um I mean it's like 50 50. I know I say
like 25 of Mexican women are just like
marriage material off the bat like no
questions asked and 75 or like the ones
born here kind of American culture you
know the vapid develop a lot of vapid
Mexican women here you know
but yeah
um so okay I got one more Alpha sloth
that booty though yeah I mean I am a
victim
of my own biology so I do like the booty
so
all right so where were we okay so
here's a here's an odd one that I
discovered recently and I'm still on the
fence on this one but like uh dog
Cantinas right so it's like a brewery
kind of style except most of the most of
the uh property is gonna be like for
dogs to run around and stuff like that
now it is a good place to meet women
like initially but I'm not sure yet if
it's a good place to have a first date
first off because you're you know the
weather you're you know
um you have to deal with the weather
could rain it could be super hot or it
could be really muggy so there's that
plus usually a dog cantina is the drinks
in the in the like the food the top uh
you know the little
bar food is pretty terrible they don't
really care that much as a dog can't you
know
um it can get muddy too you know if if
it had rain before but also it's like um
it's very relaxed atmosphere because
there's puppies running around I think
that should be saved for a second or
third day if she wants to meet your dog
or something like that if you have a dog
or something like that uh you know
I don't know I I don't really recommend
it for a first date so
yeah
um let me see
uh okay so let's talk about salsa nut
right near and dear to my heart I'm sure
some of you guys uh go to salsa night
too and have have had experience so
please share if you have
um but salsa night is a kind of like a
place where it's pretty good but here's
some things that have to be in place and
something you have to understand first
off you got to be you got to be a dancer
you got to know what you're doing on the
dance floor right you can't just pull up
a girl to salsa and while she's seeing
all these men that are good at Salsa and
all these women that are good at Salsa
and you're you know you're still
struggling with basic and basic steps
right so
um I would say at least be intermediate
level before you consider bringing a
Girl Salsa okay
um number two realize that in salsa
culture there's this thin line between
taking a girl out and then
um trying to
charm her and try to like you know get
her number after a dance or something
like that
and realize that a lot of men won't care
that you you came with the girl she'll
think you're friends she he won't ask
you know there's a lot of aggressive
men on the dance floor
um so just keep in mind that you know
there will be probably men trying to
approach your girl mid conversation
because they'll think oh there's no way
that new can pull that you know so
there's a lot of jealousy
um realize too and even the DJ or the
guys hosting the class can do that too
um if this happens guys it's just like a
[ __ ] test just like hey you know go have
fun uh you need to practice you know
that's what you say when a girl's being
let off don't get don't get jealous
right
um if she says no Then you know whatever
cool that's cool too
um
also a lot of girls don't might not like
to dance they like the idea of dancing
but dancing you know it's physical
exertion you can get sweaty especially
in uh the warmer months so keep in mind
that like
um you know
it's it's a really it's a sexy thing to
do there's you know there's a plausible
deniability for contact physical contact
it can get really passionate at times
but at the same time you're gonna get
sweaty your your body temperature is
going to go up and then you know women
feel more self-conscious when they're
sweaty so it could limit your chances of
taking her home that night right
um unless it's a very well conditioned
place or you know the alcohol is taking
over and it's just kind of like sweat
dancing and it's kind of sexy in that
way but just understand that
um it could get sweaty and that could be
a turn off for herself
um yeah and then other than that uh
another thing is that when you're with a
girl you're gonna you know a lot of the
women that you made frequent and dance
with they could get jealous too so they
might interrupt your conversation with
the girl they might like feel some type
of way
um
you know they might they just might act
strange because women were they're
they're very um they're slave to their
jealousy so even though she might not
like you that much or just sees you as a
friend or a dance partner she will feel
some type of way when she sees
competition for you even though you know
it's been made clear that you're just
dance Partners or you just come to this
place and dance together one or two
songs right so just keep in mind that
there's gonna be some feelings because
you it's like
you know
I mean there's not even another example
you guys know what it is like the female
nature
um sometimes they don't even like you
until they see with another girl so
just keep that in mind and then the red
flags like if you take her to salsa
night and she already knows this
instructor DJ kind of like oh you know
like hmm
um it's like when you take a girl to the
gym and she knows all the personal uh
personal instructors
uh Fitness instructors you're just like
hmm how does she know all of them what's
going on here
so yeah just keep in mind those things
and uh it's a fun place uh usually at
Salsa nights the bar isn't that full
because everyone's busy dancing so it's
a good it's you know there's space at
the bar to talk and
and
um drink alcohol and get some margaritas
in or whatever you like right and also
um make sure she's dressed appropriately
you know like make sure that for salsa
and I a lot of times the best is like
um not a skirt not a short skirt because
you know it could fly up and all that
stuff when you're doing spin so uh maybe
a longer summer dresses are great but
also make sure that she's wearing you
know maybe jeans
um comfortable jeans you know maybe uh
if she's you know hopefully she's fit
like a a cut off tops where she can you
know
um
be more get some more uh not have so
many layers and stuff on so you know
guys do your due diligence I know that
you can't control every variable but the
ones that you can control it right so
yeah all right I got a couple more chats
here
Aaron Martinez says feminism is cancer
has spread all through Latin America and
has made the other percentages of
non-marriage material yeah
um yeah there's not much time left guys
um
feminism is infecting a Latin America
I've seen it um and with feminism also
thought whole culture of culture sugar
daddy culture is very prevalent in Latin
America now at least more than it was so
there's not much time guys so if you're
if you're marriage minded and you have
your site set for Latin America do it
now like
um
there's not much time left if you're
ever going to be a passport bro
I think uh Asia you have a lot more time
but for Latin America there's times
running out for that you know
um so
uh if you're going to be a passport
broker you're going to push that button
and get it just get on with it Now's the
Time you know because uh soon you know
feminism is going to take over there
so Alex says Aaron Clary said uh like
Aaron Clary says also the Mexican girls
were in the USA become Suburban I
persons yeah I'm I'm dating one that's
like that right now and she's a princess
you know
she's you know he's overconfident you
know I'm super hot blah blah I mean
she's great but she's a princess so
totally agree with that totally agree
with it
Spencer says I've yet to bring my dog
out in the first state I think it could
require too much attention away from her
and onto my dog high energy plus High
chance my dog squabbles with another
minute oh yeah it's true maybe it's
because I have like a Shiba Inu and
they're super calm and and like very
like quiet and respectful so maybe yeah
you know if
let me let me back up a little bit so
because I live like right next door to
these places like coffee shop or a
brewery or stuff all right bringing my
dog's not a big deal right but if you
have to pack your dog up in a car and
drive all the way to a place unload the
dog and make sure the dog's hydrated you
know he's your dog so yeah you know
you're worried you're gonna be worried
about him and then there's gonna be
other dogs that are maybe not as well
trained as yours
you know she may love the dog too but
you know maybe it's best not but like
for a coffee date
sometimes
um I can bring Tadashi because he's just
so well behaved and quiet
um all he does is like he'll Yank on the
on the leash a little bit because he
wants to like do his thing but other
than that no so yeah I think uh think
about
uh I I would say try not to bring your
dog unless it's like walking distance
you know
um and even then I mean you don't really
need a dog it's just
sometimes you know it spikes girls
emotions to see you with the dog and it
kind of calms them down and it gives you
like hey you want to go back to my place
real quick and drop off the dog and we
can go somewhere else I don't know but
yeah uh
my dog is my Avi for context yeah I can
see him uh grinning there what is it
like a German Shepherd or a Labrador
if you go if you do go to Latin America
you have to go to The Villages not the
cities yeah I heard um you know there's
a lot of guys on Twitter that do they
learn a lot of good work trying to find
you guys the best places to go to Pride
um a wife or a girl or just for fun I
personally I probably do like a tier two
City like I wouldn't do like Dominican
Republic I wouldn't do Santiago or
or
um
or Santo Domingo I'd probably do you
know like I know Puerto Plata is like
really touristic but maybe or something
right outside of these cities you know
or maybe a college you know University
but you know same thing with Mexico
Maybe
I'm not surely Mexico and in Colombia
maybe not Cali maybe not you know but
obviously where else you're gonna if
it's your first time you're gonna have
to rely on a city because you just lack
of experience but yeah
Aaron Martinez says I live in Honduras I
agree it's cities where are where
promiscuous girls concentrate towns and
Villages are where marriage material
girls are yeah but understand too like
what a city girl is in like Honduras
um is like probably a conservative girl
here in the United States and correct me
if I'm wrong right
um so I think the average guy like if he
goes to Latin America and maybe goes to
Sudan Mexico or maybe goes to Cali or
you know
what's the capital of Honduras man I
didn't even they put some respect on
Honduras man
um and bring this up real quick
April uh Honduras
I don't even know how to pronounced it
Jesus
so yeah if you go to sigalpa Cali Mexico
City those girls yeah for for the locals
might be like promiscuous but for us man
like it could be conservative Trad girl
because you know girl American girls are
just
kind of promiscuous you know even I'm
still surprised at this at this level at
this height in my career dating career
where I'm just like man Jesus Christ
all right
yeah Alex says in one episode of red
evening Rob City invited a girl to come
over his house by inviting her to see
his cat yeah we'll get into that um
biting a girl to directly to your place
um
but let's uh move on Tegucigalpa yeah
League class girls are promiscuous lower
class too yeah um
guys you have to really separate the
whole social class job like all women
are are capable of being promiscuous
right uh everything from a concert
violinist
that I dated to software
um software analysts
to a programmer female programmer
two church girl two opera singer two
Finance girl two college girl to
everything all of them were promiscuous
and all of them went home with me on the
first date right now that doesn't mean
they're bad people right I can separate
their promise cutie from their character
but
uh for the most part you guys you know
there is there is no real way initial
just just by looking at her
and her life that you can make an
assumption that she's not promiscuous so
that's why we say assume she's
promiscuous you'll seldom be
um disappointed right man that's just so
you don't get in this you know you don't
put her on a pedestal right
Aaron says middle class are conservative
but yeah not Miami to your level yeah
Miami like Miami any major city uh even
Dallas
um there's some pretty crazy girls out
here and
and honestly
um you know
there's a there's a hun there's a big
syphilis outbreak in Houston right now
and it's mostly women so it's like uh
why are we not you know it's like
whenever there's a an unfortunate truth
which affects which is perpetrated by
women
we kind of like brush on their rug we
don't care as a society
you know it's like they're not making a
good case for themselves right and
that's what I said like
if you assume Every Girl's promiscuous
then you can you use protection and you
don't have to be caught up in like you
know a syphilis outbreak in in Houston
you know but
um we can move on now
all right so
um
okay uh I would say also any place where
you are like the contextual Alpha is a
good place
could be a good place potentially like
let's say you're a musician You're Gonna
Go perform
you can be like hey I'm gonna perform
you you can come see me
you're the contextual Alpha you're the
performer right
so that would be a great place to have a
first date because she can see you do
you do you uh you do you right um not
every place is good right if you're
um I don't know if you have a hobby
that's like very strange or we're like
you know like
you are the best Yu-Gi-Oh card gamer and
uh you know in your group you know you
might not want to take her unless she's
into that right that's not that's
another thing but things that are cool
right so if you're a musician that's you
know
um you're gonna go play somewhere
um yeah invite her out to that because
you're the conceptual Alpha you're
proving yourself but in a more in an
appropriate way you're not like yeah
look how good I am you're like hey all
right this is what I do for fun
regardless if you were coming or not I'm
still gonna do this so I would like you
to be a part of this right and she feels
more like a part of your life more than
the focus of the night so pretty cool uh
to do that
um
yeah so any place you can demonstrate
higher value which sauce tonight is like
that right but
um just make sure you come with your
A-game that salsa night and if she
doesn't know how to dance just kind of
teach her and you know this is a good
opportunity to lead and be that dominant
presence in teaching her you get to hold
her and push her because uh especially
American women they're very like stiff
when they dance because they don't like
being led you can tell like you got to
tell hey you need to lower your guard
down you know you need to relax and then
uh kind of like push your shoulder her
hips to where they're supposed to go her
hands and she'll like this she's like
wow man finally taking a lead you know
so yeah just make sure that
um you know you don't touch her
appropriately or anything like that but
um it's a great place to show a
demonstration of higher value right
um all right so and then my favorite new
place that I posted this on my patreon
um but I'm sharing it with you guys and
it's the wine bar right the wine bar is
just so underrated it has like
all the best
things of all the places right for for
example it's alcohol right and it's
pretty strong so you know a bottle of
wine
um can get your can get you and the girl
you're talking to pretty relaxed you
know pretty pretty chill pretty Buzz
right
um so unless you're a whiner and you
drink a lot of wine but
um yeah it's there's alcohol right so
number two wine bars tend to be most of
the time
excuse me uh most of the time be uh
quiet so it's great for conversation
and the crowd that it attracts is not
loud rambunctious college students or
loud drunk guys in their 50s or anything
like that right or college chicks or
anything that it tends to attract uh
like kind of like more calm relaxed
people that just trying to have a nice
drink of wine so so volume they don't
really play a lot of loud music at wine
bars
um
it's usually quiet it's it's tends to be
seen more as a classy joint rather than
you know a borrower you know
um price like uh a night of drinks you
know I on average I've seen that girls
drink about
two to three drinks before they call it
quits or before they're like you know
anything about that you guys are playing
the game of having to take care of her
um you don't want that um
um so
a bottle of wine is like 35 bucks
usually wine places don't even sell a
very expensive line I mean there's
there's bottles for like a hundred
dollars but like yeah you know you're
gonna spend a hundred dollars initially
on the first date you know spend get the
cheap bottle the 35 bottle you know tip
well and then you know your date is kept
off of 50 bucks and you're both having a
good time
drinking some decent one you know so um
I like to drink out back and the girls
usually go for the sweet ones but um
you know if you can always ask her like
hey you're coming because now I'm
choosing you know I'm choosing um this
one what do you think you know kind of
get her excited for the day check in
like hey you know like what kind of wine
do you like I'm gonna here's something
you could do I'm gonna ask the owner
what ones he has you know it shows that
you care you're taking the lead that
you're taking charge and women like that
right
all right so
yeah
um Wine Bar also um
what else does it have it's seen as a
classy place so you know you're not
taking a girl to a rickety old Irish Pub
or you know a college bar you know
sports bar you're taking her to a wine
bar so it's seen as more classy so she
feels like she's dealing with a kind of
a higher caliber man I know it's not
like determining determines your eye
color man in your eyes but it's a step
in the right direction so yeah wine bar
is really underrated and no one's
talking about it but honestly it's such
a great place
um and if you're not even a big drinker
you can just order a glass instead I
usually just get the bottle split it
with the girl and then um but be be
careful if you're gonna order another
bottle just know that like you're
probably gonna be pretty buzzed at the
end of the night so
um make sure that uh you're pacing
yourself you're drinking water because
wine can creep up on you so yeah wine
bar is great uh I don't know if you guys
have uh have tried it but
um
wine bar is a great place to
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um
to meet a girl honestly you guys try it
out and like you know some girls forget
to eat and all that stuff uh you can
just a lot of Walmarts have charcuteries
so you just order a little small 15
charcuterie get her snacking and eat and
stuff you know it's not enough to get
her so full or too full or anything just
so she can shut up about being hungry
so yeah so guys those are like the best
places that I have
for uh first date
um I know we had a things that were kind
of in the metal salsa night is maybe
um I'm gonna put dog cantina into not
um
not a good place even though it's a good
place for a second date or if she's
trying to meet her dogs or something
like that meet your dogs or something
like that but for the most part like
most uh the place is the best is the
wine bar so far I've had
and it's not only like success it's like
how I feel about you know I'm sitting
out on this little the small little
European style chairs and table outside
um there are plenty of shade trees
um and it's all the locals and
you know it's just a really relaxed
atmosphere gets you talk and the wine
gets the wine gets you talking it's
classier you know you're pouring her
wine and all that stuff she feels like
she's in a classy place it seem like a
speakeasy
or something like that so yeah wine is
the best uh for now you know it could
change but guys give it a shot you won't
be disappointed
even in bonus if it's within walking
distance
um
all right let's talk about the worst
places but first
um I want to try this new uh little
commercial I made
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um
so
I tend to forget that I have uh
what do you call it
all these uh sound effects but I really
can't use them like I don't have a
anyways uh so yes
worse places what are the worst places
okay
worst place will always be dinner
you I don't know how many times we got
to talk about this
um on Twitter on social media
um how many women perpetually single
women constantly
either Flex or complain that men don't
take them to dinner and I'm just like
this is 2023 like why would I take you
to dinner now there are some guys like I
have friends that do take women out to
dinner but these are high level Advanced
Guys these are guys that are super
attractive
um that know their way around women they
know when it's appropriate and they know
when they have that like deep kind of
like attraction initially before they
even meet you know this could be times
where like women fetishize you like um
if you're a you know a tall six four
white guy and you mean a 5'3 Asian girl
with you know
um in Tech you know women like that
really like white tall white guys tall
handsome white guys right so she's
probably gonna be very attracted to you
initially physically and then all you
got to do is be a smooth guy on the DMs
and then she's gonna be like
nearly obsessed with you right so that's
when you can kind of be like hey you
want to grab some sushi you know I'm
hungry you know and it'll it could work
right but for the most part for us for
us uh other people
um avoid dinner at all costs like and
then if a girl on her profile or kind of
tells you hey I only do dinner dates on
the first night that's a gold digger or
not a gold digger but she's wasting your
time right that's a filter no dinner
dates is the ultimate filter for dating
and it's and it's great because your job
as a man isn't to feed a girl and you
know just to feed her you know that's
something that she has to earn don't
take away the privilege
uh that a girl has to earn your you know
earn
your love your resources all that stuff
you know they want that
so
um they want that challenge so don't
take it away from her dinner and also
when you eat dinner you're spending lots
of money she can order the most
expensive thing she can order drinks
she's on the phone probably bragging to
her friends about oh he took me to
dinner it isn't Bill attraction usually
you're far away from her on the table
you're eating eating isn't a sexy
activity and you're full like no one
wants to have sex after a full stomach
so no dinner's out of the question no
matter what dating advice people give
you especially women dating is out of
the question unless you are a high level
Advanced guy who knows his way around
women like really well right and um even
me I don't like to do that stuff because
it's just I feel like a I feel like a
dork taking a girl out to dinner you
know you know I it feels much better
when it's a girl that's completely in
your frame earning it it feels so much
better feels like authentic right but
when I paid dinner for a girl that I
don't even know who what her intentions
are
then I just feel like a dork you know
I'm like wow I should have I could have
I should have just taken my brother out
or a friend out to dinner I would have
felt better you know but I'm taking out
this girl who I can after this date I
could probably never see her again so
guys it's dinner out of the question
um and um even as even as a second day
try to avoid it
um
you know it's been unless she's like a
complete she's completely a pleasure to
be around you got laid the first night
she's in your frame you get that deep
conversion after the first night she's
in your DMs constantly and she wants to
see you anyway anyhow I think you can be
like hey let's go grab some sushi or hey
I want to try this restaurant in Chicago
right and there are girls like that and
I you know
um you know you put it down in the
bedroom you have a great first date
um you show her you're the man
she's gonna like fall for you she could
fall for you the first day pretty fast
so
um second day could absolutely be dinner
but like if there's something if you
have some doubt if you feel like you
haven't made enough leeway save the
dinner date for when she earns it right
and she'll appreciate that
subconsciously
um another crate uh another bad place is
um you guys might not agree with this
especially you outdoor people the guys
that like to do outdoor activities is uh
outside activities like sports hiking
all that stuff
the problem with this is like you get
sweaty
um you can get hurt
um you know I've seen uh girls on
profile yeah my worst date fails I fell
while hiking on a first day and I
twisted my ankle it's just like now
you're now you're walking into the
hospital right because she got hurt on a
sports or hiking activity
um the thing also with outside
activities you have you're subject to
the weather canceled because of rain it
can cancel because of extreme heat it
can cancel because I don't know it could
get it could be muggy outside wet
um so I know like there's people that
live in like Colorado where like
everyone does outdoor activities because
that's just a culture there maybe that
can work there but like in places like
Tech Texas Miami you know like Florida
and stuff like that you don't want to
you don't want to be outside in a first
date like the purpose of a first date is
to talk and get to know each other not
to you know do activities
so I know a lot of people like to do
this stuff on a first day or even a walk
right
um
a walk
um
I like to walk if like uh we're like and
I'm like kind of like buzzed and I'm
like let's walk this off a little bit
and then walk up to the next bar right
but for the most part you know outside
activities leave that for like when you
get to know her better say that for your
girlfriend or for a girl that you really
like you know
um
something you know you want to stay away
from things that are like commitment
heavy you know things that if once you
start it's really hard to get out of so
like things like snowboarding hiking you
know what if you're halfway through a
trail you're like this girl's crazy or I
hate this person or this person sucks or
she's a catfish or whatever
um or she has bad breath or whatever
you're stuck you're on a hike you know
so um you know leave those for when you
know the girl a little better and you
know chances are she's not going to
um she you know she's already proven
herself as a normal person
um so yeah avoid things that are
commitment heavy
um another one you should avoid is the
the cutesy dates
um what do I mean by cutesy days you
know like the mini golf
um going to the park and having a picnic
um
I don't know the paint the paint night
uh Pottery all that stuff guys just go
for the drinks if you can because
um you're trying to you're trying to the
things with the thing with alcohol is
that it's like it's like sex fuel right
it gets people their inhibitions down
women work they have they work long
hours they're tired they're exhausted
they're like burnt out but a little bit
of alcohol will open will get up girl or
relaxed you know
um a lot of them are wrapped around the
axle so you know
um
it'll calm them down or get them talking
and you know but like imagine a girl
goes to a place like mini golf and she's
stressed from work you think you're
gonna be enough to you're a random guy
you you also add stress to the table
because she had to get ready for you she
doesn't know you either right so why not
um a place like a bar or something where
it's just simple or just sit down talk
and drink and that's it make it simple
for her and then
as time goes on
um and you get to know her better then
you can be like hey there's too many
golf you're not a crazy person or
actually like being around you right so
avoid avoid these cutesy dates uh I know
someone in the chest that ice skating
absolutely not
um ice skating because even if you're a
good ice skater she could not be so half
the time you'll be picking her up I
don't know that gives you an excuse to
like lead and dominate but like where's
the talking you know where is the
demonstration of higher value besides
your you know how to skate you know
where is you telling her stories where
is the The Kino escalation all that
stuff right so think about these things
when you're choosing a venue places that
allow you to do
you know to to talk to her the gamer to
find out her background to get to know
her to disqualify her as a
uh long-term commitment possible
long-term commitment or whatever right
um so yeah so cute dates Mini Golf Parks
um Farmers Market
avoid farmer's market too okay come on
like what I'm gonna do buy fruit that's
nothing sex there's nothing sexy about
buying fruit that's like married man at
40. right
um the purp the point is to do sexy
activities I know you know a lot of the
female dating coaches and the girls
online are like no I love those dates
I'm like yeah but like I don't know you
those dates are only fun for a guy if he
likes the girl I don't know if I like
you yet
right so
it is what it is
um one of the other uh terrible places
the club
Club is like one of the worst places to
take girl on the first date it's loud
it's packed you may have to wait in a
line or you pay the bouncer to get in
the drinks over a price and they take
forever to make the music's too loud it
literally is not made conducive for any
of that
um now there are some bars that are like
turn into clubs at night so be careful
if you're at a bar and all of a sudden
they're putting up the chairs and moving
everything out the way and the music
turns up
I know maybe
um if the girl is like you know in a
good mood and you feel in the day she
may want to dance with you
or when it Groove a little bit but for
the most part um clubs are just terrible
there's absolutely terrible for a first
date
um I'd only go to a club if I like
if I know the girl very well enough
um where you know we've already been
hooking up a little bit and
um I like being around her and it's just
a fun night right but for the first day
absolutely not no don't go to a club at
all
uh let me see
and
oh here's another one don't try to avoid
activities where you would meet her
family and friends on the first date
right
um so you know let's say you meet a
Mexican girl she invites you to a carne
asada or uh
like if suggests something else because
there's nothing less sexy than meeting
her parents it really sucks the sexiness
out of the air it's just you know you're
gonna be on edge because you're meeting
your parents you know her brother or
family it's it you're skipping steps
here right
um so anything that involves friends and
family and then your friends is also a
lot of pressure on her if she's meeting
your friends so uh try to avoid friends
um
at all in the first aid anyone that you
know just you have to yeah it's like
you're trying to isolate each other to
get to know each other right and if you
keep letting these outside factors
whether it be weather whether it be
um
um possible injuries loud music
um you know and even then if you go
through all that what about your mood
your mood like I go to Club and make
clubs make me moody right because I'm
getting bumped into uh people are
bumping into me the drinks are expensive
and crappy and you know just people are
the worst at a club so it's like it puts
me in a bad mood it makes me not want to
talk to anyone so now I have a girl I
have to entertain
so think about these things
um
when you are uh looking for the worst
or looking for a place to meet a girl
for the first time
um
yeah so
family friends know first date and then
another place oh terrible first days of
the gym
why would you want to meet at the gym is
a gym a place where people go to talk I
mean obviously people talk at the gym
but like
it's not a one-on-one you know you're
out there there's lights everywhere you
know obviously you're probably if you
have a gymnast you're probably super
jacked and attractive and she probably
is too but still like it's just cringy
you know like it's a masculine activity
why would you want to meet someone at
the gym like it it doesn't make sense is
that is the gym conducive to a private
sexy conversation no it's save the gym
go to the gym with your boys and maybe
your girlfriend but don't go to the gym
just to me like don't go don't do a gym
day I know a lot of pro uh profile
dating profiles now girls are like oh
let's do it I want to do a gym day I'm
like no no we're going for drinks [ __ ]
that so yeah the gym is not a great
place
um and that's all for uh I have for
Worse places I know there's other worse
places
um
and I know someone mentioned that
getting a girl back to your place on the
first date now if you have the game and
the outcome Independence for that sure
try it
um just know a lot of most women aren't
comfortable with that with going back to
your place it takes a lot of uh
you know
you're walking a tightrope there and
also
um you have to you have to be like I'll
come independent you know you if it you
don't care if the girl
you know
if you don't care if the girl ever
talked to you again after that after you
asking her back to your place initially
then you're fine go ahead give it a shot
right have some really good plausible
deniability you know hey I want to cook
for you hey I'm eating my puppy hey I
want to play piano for you whatever
um but other than that man good luck
um
it's not something you should you should
be your primary but if you don't care
about the girl at all like you don't
I'll come independent give it a shot but
I'm not I've hey it's worked for me here
and there but for the most part I like
to grab drinks and also I don't like
strangers in my house that I don't know
I want to at least
um know how you look
how you act whether you're crazy whether
you're capable of you know doing
something crazy first before inviting a
girl back to my place
um so yeah that's that's my thing with
writing a girl back to my place on the
first date but yeah let's uh catch up on
these chats
um
let's see all right
Spencer says something about Wine Just
Hits rice seldom drink up every time I
do things just go in my favor I'll have
to try the next yeah give it a shot I
know um
as men you know we don't really go out
together and drink wine outside of
Europe right but
excuse me
but um yeah it's a great first date
option it's just it just clicks on it
just checks a lot of boxes for a good
first date venue
uh access any Moscato that's great sweet
with little Bubbles and can range from
cheap to expensive yeah um girls love
Moscato so Moscato is great
ocean man says I say the worst first day
locations are when lady ladies attention
is diverted to something other else
other than you yeah that's what I'm
saying like
um
you want that privacy and that isolation
right it's how it works like you can't
female psychology is not has not changed
in thousands of years so
um when you guys take her to places
where there's a lot of things going on
other than you then you know you're
you're in the risk of her like not being
entertained or just being distracted
right
Alex says another advice do not eat
spicy foods or too salty like us
Mexicans tend to do it messes you with
your taste buds it makes wine not
enjoyable but by taste so no spicy or
too much salt yeah
um
usually I don't usually eat with wine uh
maybe I'll have red wine Malbec with
steak for the most part I don't really
eat with wine
but that's a good tip
dance man it's like yeah you don't want
to be a foodie call you know you don't
want to be a foodie call because
um
yeah it's just embarrassing you know so
didn't remove it as a first or second as
a first or or third date as a non-pro
yeah
um you want to avoid
um dinner
or a movie yeah movie's terrible too
because there's no talking during the
movie you know
so
unless you're a pro unless you're you
know you're a Chad a pro you know you
know your way around women you've been
doing this for a while you don't want to
do this dinner stuff you know and even
then as a lot of guys that are Pros are
just like [ __ ] that I'm still not taking
her to dinner you know [ __ ] that I can
I'm just gonna take her to drinks you
know I'm already Fuller I don't want to
eat I'm tired of eating out so
yeah
so Aaron Martinez says yeah movies is
the worst play yeah because there's no
talking at all just watch a movie and
that's it you know
goes double for Mexican food yep
Alex says Townhouse crackers and mouth
cheese are the go-to snacks from
drinking wine
if you want to prove your wine to
experience allow minimum one week of not
eating spicy salty foods man you know a
lot man did not know that
Spencer says my buddy took a check to
the club not a bar on the first day I
think I think that's got to be up there
with one of the worst places yeah like I
was saying um Club is one of the worst
it is the worst
um Alpha sloth says for me it's stupid
loud places but it can work if you go to
a show and then somewhere chill after
plus it helps time dilation comfort and
familiarity yeah
um oh yeah for like like uh here's
another one a concert concerts are not
good especially uh like a punk rock
concert because
um
it's just loud there's people bumping
into you you know there's something
distracting the girl outside of you you
know that which is the performance so
like why would you take it to a place
like that on a first date it's literally
stupid you know
um but
um
I will say there is this concept where
like if you're busy but you're you know
like hey I'm going to this concert you
want to come with I'm there like you're
going anyway
and if she wants to show up you know
um that's a that's a strategy because
you're doing something you like you're
and you're familiar you're not familiar
area you know probably know people so
you can say hey if you want to show up
and be my date that's on you I'm gonna
go anyway right you could use that but
if you're planning a day like planning a
date don't go to places where you know
um that are loud or where you know
they're not conducive to a private
one-on-one conversation
Spencer says spot on took a trick hiking
on a first date back in the day terrible
idea I was hungover from the night
before was hot as hell that day halfway
through the hike I knew I [ __ ] up yeah
and you're tired and
you know you're heaving hikes take
unless you're you know unless you hike a
lot it's gonna take a lot out of you
bikes are surprisingly a good exercise
so
uh Alpha slaw says that trail walking
mlc route at the toughest playing short
cutoffs for potential exits in case
she's out of shape or you're not into
her or vice versa yeah like Katie Trail
here in Dallas
um has a lot has a couple stops where
you can go to a bar or you can
but even then
um you're running the risk of like
getting trapped on a trail or trapped in
an activity with a person that you hate
that turned out to be fat ugly all these
things right so
so yeah
um
it's it's very um
it's very risky to do those things right
so
um I don't think I have much else for
you guys
um
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yeah uh I don't really have much else
you guys pretty much the concept is some
somewhere that's conducive to a
um
you know a nice private conversation
where it's not hot where it's it's not
muggy it's it's
um quiet
and that would make a good first date
and then alcohol if if she drinks is a
is a plus it's almost a must right
because women are very tired wrapped
around the axle these days they're very
like
um they're tired from work they're
stressed a little bit of alcohol will
calm them down and put bring them back
down to earth a little bit and give you
a
um
give you a good conversation right other
than that guys I really don't have much
else
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