Why Women Don’t Like Nice Guys | Never Come Off As Boyfriend/Husband Material
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker discusses the pitfalls of being perceived as a 'nice guy' in dating scenarios. He emphasizes that women often don't respect men who are overly nice or who misinterpret sexual discipline as a lack of sexual interest. The speaker advises men to be authentic, clear about their intentions, and not to rush into a relationship. He also cautions against taking too long to make a move, which can lead to rejection. The video aims to help men understand the dynamics of attraction and respect in dating.
Takeaways
- 💭 The speaker expresses a desire for dating without the commitment of a serious relationship, valuing the fun aspect of dating while avoiding 'slip slop' or casual encounters.
- 🤔 The speaker recounts an experience with a man who misinterpreted the nature of their relationship, assuming feelings would develop over time, which the speaker found presumptuous.
- 🚫 The video emphasizes the importance of being clear about intentions in dating, suggesting that ambiguity can lead to confusion and miscommunication.
- 👤 It discusses the 'nice guy' stereotype, suggesting that women do not appreciate men who are overly accommodating or who mask their true desires in an attempt to be seen as boyfriend material.
- 🙅♂️ The video advises against going on multiple dates with the sole purpose of getting to know someone without any physical intimacy, as it can lead to being categorized as a 'nice guy'.
- 💪 The concept of 'sexual discipline' is introduced, suggesting that men should not pretend to be uninterested in sex to appear more relationship-oriented, as this can come across as inauthentic.
- 🔍 The video points out that taking it slow is often a smokescreen for lack of genuine interest, and that both parties should be equally invested in getting to know each other.
- 💋 It argues that physical contact like kissing and touching is a way of getting to know someone on a deeper level and should not be avoided out of fear of appearing overly eager.
- 🕊️ The video warns against the tendency of 'nice guys' to put women on a pedestal, suggesting that this behavior can lead to disappointment and a lack of respect from women.
- 👥 The speaker highlights that women may lie or pretend to be interested in a man's terms to secure a relationship, which can lead to problems down the line.
- 🤝 The video concludes by encouraging men to be authentic, respect a woman's rejection, and not to change their behavior based on a woman's appearance or perceived preferences.
Q & A
What is the main issue the speaker discusses regarding relationships and dating?
-The speaker discusses the issue of being labeled as a 'nice guy' in the dating scene, where men are perceived as boyfriend or husband material without their intentions being clear, leading to confusion and miscommunication.
Why does the speaker believe that women don't like 'nice guys'?
-The speaker believes that women don't like 'nice guys' because they feel the behavior is inauthentic and often comes with expectations of commitment without a genuine connection or mutual attraction.
What does the speaker suggest is a common misconception about women's dating preferences?
-The speaker suggests that a common misconception is that women want men who are overly attentive and slow to express sexual interest, which can lead to men being perceived as 'nice guys' rather than potential sexual partners.
What is the 'slip slop' mentioned in the transcript, and why is it considered 'evil' by the speaker?
-The term 'slip slop' is not clearly defined in the transcript, but it seems to refer to a casual or disrespectful approach to dating. The speaker considers it 'evil' because it can lead to unhealthy relationships and a lack of respect for oneself and others in the dating process.
Why does the speaker argue that going on multiple dates can be counterproductive for men seeking physical relationships?
-The speaker argues that going on multiple dates without expressing sexual interest can lead women to categorize the man as 'boyfriend' or 'husband' material, rather than a potential sexual partner, which may not align with the man's intentions.
What is 'sexual discipline' as discussed in the transcript, and why is it misunderstood by many men?
-Sexual discipline, as discussed, refers to the ability to resist sexual advances or not engage in sexual activities with every willing partner. It is misunderstood by many men as a lack of sexual interest or attraction, rather than a conscious choice to engage in sexual activities selectively.
According to the speaker, why do men often misinterpret the concept of 'taking it slow' in dating?
-The speaker suggests that men often misinterpret 'taking it slow' as a genuine desire for a deeper emotional connection, when in reality, it may be a woman's way of indicating a lack of strong sexual attraction or interest in the relationship.
What is the 'teach Hanley' mentioned in the transcript, and what does it offer to its customers?
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Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of being authentic in the dating process?
-The speaker emphasizes authenticity because it helps to establish clear intentions and expectations from the beginning, preventing misunderstandings and the development of 'nice guy' stereotypes that can be harmful to both parties.
What advice does the speaker give to men who are looking to avoid being perceived as 'nice guys' in the dating scene?
-The speaker advises men to be clear about their intentions, express their sexual interest appropriately, and not to over-invest in dates without reciprocation of interest. He also suggests that men should not try to mask their desires or change their behavior to fit a perceived mold.
Outlines
💭 Mixed Signals in Casual Dating
The speaker discusses the complexities of casual dating, expressing a desire for a fun dating life without the commitment of a serious relationship. They recount an experience with a man who misinterpreted the nature of their interactions, assuming that continued communication would lead to deeper feelings. The man's attractive appearance and the lack of romantic interest despite a platonic connection are highlighted, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and intentions in dating scenarios.
🚫 Avoiding the 'Nice Guy' Trap
This paragraph delves into the concept of 'nice guys' and why they are often not favored by women. The speaker criticizes men who misinterpret the pace at which women want to progress in a relationship, suggesting that men should be more authentic and not try to force a connection. The paragraph also touches on the importance of not rushing into a relationship and being genuine in one's intentions, using a direct message from a subscriber as a case study to illustrate these points.
🤔 The Misunderstanding of Sexual Discipline
The speaker clarifies that sexual discipline does not equate to a lack of sexual interest. They argue against the idea of suppressing one's desires under the guise of discipline, especially when dating with the intention of becoming more than friends. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of being clear about one's intentions and not misleading potential partners, as well as the need for honesty in communication to avoid confusion and misalignment in expectations.
🔄 The Fallacy of 'Taking It Slow'
The paragraph challenges the notion of taking things slow in a relationship, suggesting that it may be a smokescreen for a lack of genuine interest. It discusses the dynamic of attraction and compatibility, arguing that when there is mutual interest, there is no need for prolonged caution. The speaker warns against the potential for being strung along under the pretense of taking things slow when the other party is not truly invested.
💋 Kissing and Touching as a Means of Understanding
This section explores the idea that physical contact, such as kissing and touching, is a way to get to know a woman on a deeper, more intimate level. The speaker argues that these actions can reveal a person's sexual compatibility and preferences, and that they are an essential part of dating. The paragraph also cautions against women who might resist physical contact, suggesting that this could be a sign of a lack of genuine attraction.
👥 The Paradox of Being 'Nice'
The speaker discusses the pitfalls of being overly nice or accommodating in dating scenarios, suggesting that it can lead to being perceived as less attractive or 'husband material'. They argue that niceness should not be a mask for insecurity or a lack of confidence, and that it can be a barrier to forming genuine connections. The paragraph emphasizes the importance of authenticity and self-respect in dating.
🤷♂️ The Problem with Prioritizing Looks
This paragraph addresses the issue of men being overly nice to women based solely on their physical appearance. The speaker criticizes this behavior as inauthentic and argues that it does not lead to genuine respect or attraction. They suggest that men should focus on compatibility and shared values rather than just looks, and warns that prioritizing looks can result in a lack of respect from women.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Boyfriend material
💡Slip slop
💡Evil man
💡Sexual discipline
💡Nice guy
💡Authenticity
💡Meetups
💡Cuffing
💡Physical attraction
💡Rejection
Highlights
The speaker expresses a desire for dating but not for a serious relationship, emphasizing the importance of distinguishing between casual dating and potential marriage material.
The speaker recounts a personal experience with a man who became possessive, highlighting the misconception that continued communication would lead to the development of feelings.
The importance of clear communication and setting expectations in the early stages of dating is underscored to avoid misunderstandings.
The concept of 'slip slop' is introduced as undesirable behavior in dating, equated with negative outcomes.
The speaker criticizes the 'nice guy' stereotype, explaining how it can lead to frustration and a lack of authenticity in dating.
A discussion on the difference between relationship-oriented dates and casual meetups, emphasizing the need for clear intentions.
The idea that sexual discipline does not equate to a lack of sexual interest is presented, challenging common misconceptions.
The speaker argues against the notion of 'taking it slow' when there is mutual attraction, advocating for natural progression in relationships.
The importance of balance in getting to know each other during the dating process, rather than one-sided efforts to please.
The speaker warns against waiting too long to make a move, as it can lead to missed opportunities and defensive reactions from women.
Kissing and physical touch are described as ways of getting to know a woman's likes and dislikes, beyond just conversation.
The speaker discusses how women may lie to secure a relationship with a 'nice guy,' which can lead to problems down the line.
The final highlight addresses the issue of nice guys focusing solely on a woman's looks, which can lead to inauthentic behavior and a lack of respect.
The video concludes with advice for men to be authentic, respect women's decisions, and not to act out of desperation or in response to rejection.
Transcripts
I do not want husband yet but I do not
want boyfriend that will not be husband
cuz what is the point of boyfriend if
not
husband but I do want date because date
fun but I don't want date and slip slop
because slip slop and date equals evil
man and I do not want evil man cuz
equals crazy me
so what to
do what to do so I was talking to this
guy right I'd know it for a while but
we'd only kind of like met up after kind
of on and off speaking for ages right
and I think we'd both been clear that
nothing was going to come of this you
know it just wasn't going to be that for
either of us so that's fine and then
after the last time he started to get
really weird and I was like okay that's
fine like obviously maybe you do want to
sto this which is cool whatever there
was never any feelings involved um so I
was just like okay like what's going on
why have you changed what's happening
you're acting like a freak
now his response was he basically
thought that if he kept speaking to me
then I would catch feelings for him or
he was under the assumption that I was
beginning to develop feelings for him
and I thought that's really rich
considering you've not actually done
anything for
me but I just think wow you really
really think very highly of yourself
don't you and don't get me wrong he was
very attractive and I did get along with
him but hell you were never Hobby in my
mind but yeah so we're back to we're
back to not doing that
because whatever what's good guys it's
your boy Justin Jay coming to you with
another video Let's cook boys let's cook
all right this is why women don't like
night guys never be seen or never come
off as husbandboyfriend
material so a lot of guys don't
understand this they think that most
women move at their own pace because
they say things like they don't want a
guy to look at them as a piece of meat
they want a man of God they want a man
who's looking to get to know her all
this other stuff so guys listen to this
stuff they go on dates that honestly
last longer than they should it gets
them nowhere guys end up frustrated but
this is the biggest takeaway from
this you see things clearly bottom line
at the end of the day if a woman does
not like you there is no reason to jump
out of the window to get her to like you
see when you start doing things that you
normally don't even do and try to mask
it as something a woman can tell you
that you're not authentic and that's
what causes her to repel from you okay
so I'm going to read a DM the reason why
I'm doing this video is because I got a
DM recently from one of my subscribers
and he asked me if he did something
wrong okay with a girl now when I teach
you guys what I'm teaching you you would
think that no you're lying this is not
how women actually are this literally
confirms it to the point where this is
actually a part two runal video to my
first video how to stop being a nice guy
why women really don't appreciate nice
guys so this is going to be a part two
going over things that I don't think I
made a 100% clear and I'm going to read
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today okay so I got a DM from a loyal
subscriber who has been following the
teaching has been listening in taking
the information going out on dates
seeing what works for him and seeing
what doesn't work for him but there's
one thing that he's doing wrong he's
still falling in the category of nice
guy see you don't even have to be a
typical nice guy or you don't think that
you are one but here's the thing the way
you move your actions it signals to the
woman that you are and you could think
that you're not check this out so the DM
goes brother hope all is well keep up
the great work I'm confused though with
this situation had an ice cream date I
think but we talked for like 3 hours and
went on a night drive after everything
she hugged me and said she enjoyed
herself but sent this after okay the
chick proceeds to send him this text
message hey I want wanted to have an
honest conversation with you I really
appreciate the time we've spent together
and the connection we've shared however
I've been doing some thinking and I feel
like the way and I feel like we may not
be best fit for each other in the long
run I hope you understand where I'm
coming from and that I value your
feelings in our time together I wish you
all the best okay
now the subscriber asked me I have two
questions in my head though so the first
question is if I should follow up and
ask what happened to make her make this
decision because it seems like she
disqualified me two my nature is very
laid-back not overly flirtatious sexual
in my Pursuit also I'm exercising sexual
discipline this is going to be key in
what we talk about in this video so I'm
not chasing box basically I'm taking
this as she's saying that she's feeling
that I'm rejecting her so I've crafted a
list we're going to go over eight
talking points right so you guys can go
back to the old video go through that
that's like the basics now we're going
to move it a step into you know when
you're trying to make things happen with
a woman but you don't want her to think
that that's all you want her for so you
by default come off as a nice guy let's
get straight into this right number one
now this is all for you guys to
understand you can still do whatever you
want number one going on multiple dates
is for relationship purposes getting to
know her purposes creative dates and
meetups are hookups those are designated
for hookups come over let's drink a
bottle of wine let's watch something
let's get it cracking all right yo let's
go on a picnic date let's do this you're
folding your laundry hey I'm folding
laundry on Main Street come over here
and meet up with me we'll do something
after we'll kick it that's a Meetup that
will lead to sex there's no big
investment nothing when you take a woman
on a dinner date when you take her on a
bowling date when you take her on an axe
throwing date and you throw like all
these dates back to back to back to back
to back you never kissed you never got
physical you never told her what you
really want from her she's going to put
you in the category of this guy can be
my
boyfriend so it's either you're going to
be looked at as a nice guy thoughtful
guy sweet guy or a guy that can be her
boyfriend see a lot of guys don't
understand this you date backwards but
you're actually being a nice guy this is
nice guy techniques you take women out
on dates that you think are supposed to
lead to sex when really you could just
ask for sex or you could say a sexual
innuendo flirt with her in that way and
get [ __ ] popping faster or get rejected
faster it shouldn't take you going out
on five dates to figure out that this
chick isn't sexually into you but see a
woman figures out real quick this guy
can be my boyfriend because when a guy
is going to be her boyfriend a lot of
the time they're going to spend together
isn't going to be sexual so in the
beginning if you're looking for a
girlfriend yes guys go on multiple dates
if you're looking to actually get
physical do
meetups meetups hey you trying to hang
out tonight and if any woman has a
problem with the way you're asking her
no you got to ask me like a man and set
it up proper she's not that interested
in you cuz here's how it goes hey do you
want to meet up tonight oh yeah sure
where oh just come over to my house
we'll do this we'll do that oh yeah
sounds good it's so simple when they see
you as the guy when they don't see you
as the guy and when you don't see
yourself as the guy you automatically
walk in thinking I cannot tell this
chick what I want so you go on multiple
dates which makes you it it puts you in
that boyfriend category okay and guys
get confused when women don't want to
rush the sex with you because you're the
perfect guy right so why am I rushing
with you when everything is so
perfect right see the other guy who's
sexually appealing we have to rush cuz
that guy's perfect for sexual encounters
number two I want to
educate a lot of men on this subject
okay cuz I don't think guys
understanding they get lost in the sauce
number two sexual discipline is not
sexual
interest
okay you don't understand that when
you're trying to court a woman or you're
trying to get to know her and all this
stuff
right you can't can't go from being
attentive sweet not talking about
anything sexual trying to get to know
her and not being too up on her on the
date and all the stuff when you use this
strategy what you're going to realize is
that you're a fraud you're a faker
you're a liar you're lying to yourself
because what I told this this this
subscriber in the DM is why do you care
if you're actually sexually disciplined
and you're not a horn dog and all why do
you care that she doesn't want to deal
with you it's one less chick you were
going to deal with out of all the
thousand less chicks you were going to
deal with by being sexually disciplined
by default no see you're
lying and he admitted it when I told him
you want to have sex you wanted to have
sex with this chick so why are you lying
he's like yeah you're right and I told
him the fact that you act that way she
could have went into the date thinking
that she wanted to get busy with you
because it was an ice cream date so many
things that the subscriber did wrong a
three-hour date now imagine this this is
like nails on a chalkboard in your mind
a 3-hour date with a chick that you want
to get physical with yet you're fighting
your desires because you think she's
going to reject you so you sit here and
you chat her up and you waste your gas
and you go on a car ride and you spend
money on the little ice cream the ice
cream is not the problem car ride is not
even the problem but for you to be
hanging around for 3 hours without
making your intentions clear don't you
see how that can confuse
someone and it's all bogus because you
really want to get physical with
her in the privacy of your own home you
can't get busy I could I could if you
don't like PDA and in public and stuff
but it's all cap guys the reason why see
you're being disingenuous just like
women are the reason why we take them
out for ice cream the reason why we will
go as far as to pick them up is because
we know everything we like them we're
sexually attracted if not we would not
be taking them for any damn thing not
even an ice cream sample so why is it
that you think that women don't
understand the same thing women already
know what you want from them you have to
be crafty and creative with your
presentation to some degree right so she
doesn't only hear I want sex but for you
to sit around acting like you don't want
to have sex it makes no sense if you're
a guy that women typically want to have
sex with here's the thing sexual
discipline is this so you got a baddy
bro at your house right and you have no
condoms and even knowing that you
telling her get in the car we got to go
to 7-Eleven or I'm going to 7-Eleven
right you know that she could
potentially say no well I got to go
because women change their mind it's
like it goes from one extreme to the
next sometimes so even knowing that you
would still tell her I got to go grab
condoms because I'm that sexually
disciplined dude that's really what you
are right here's another thing not
having sex with every chick that wants
to have sex with you I.E I could get
women but not the women I want so why
are you having sex with the women that
you don't want like that because those
guys aren't sexually
disciplined right you can't it's it's
either one or the other can you get
women or not
but when they say I can't get women that
I really want to get why would you sleep
with women that you don't really want to
get because you're not disciplined there
right a chick that you know just smashed
your homie but she looks really good you
know that they had sex raw and you don't
like stuff like that she comes on to you
now you send her on her way because
that's something that you're not into
you're that sexually disciplined dude
that's able to say no see when you're
acting sexually disciplined trying to
get to sex it makes no sense you only
exercise sexual discipline when that
person is actually trying to get sexual
with
you guys are confusing themselves and
they need to wake up number three taking
it slow is for people who aren't really
feeling each other this is not a knock
on guys and this is not a knock on women
but we're going to call a spade a spade
okay when women are telling you they
want to take it slow with you it's BS so
when you tell a woman oh I want to take
it slow with your actions sexual
discipline if I'm feeling her and she's
feeling me we make it happen quick we're
both confident within what we bring to
someone or a situation we make things
happen she knows that she's got good box
I know that I can provide good sex so we
have chemistry there we are compatible
there why are we going to stop this when
we need to see if this is the most
important part to some degree because
let's say everything else is great do
you think if I'm whacking bed she's
going to keep talking to me no don't you
think women want to hurry that process
along so when a woman is telling you you
know I need more time and I I'm I'm used
to taking it slow she's not really
feeling you now you could stick around
deal with the medium interest and break
through those walls and eventually she
picks you but you always have to
remember at the beginning she was not
crazy for you she needed to take it slow
with you despite what she said says
there will always be one guy out there
that she's willing to go faster with
than she was willing to go with you so
it cancels it out number four this is
why women don't like nice guys number
four when guys try to figure out
everything that a woman likes and she's
not lifting a finger to figure out what
you like you know it you can feel it
deep down in your gut when you got a
chick that you really like like that and
you're trying to figure out where's the
best place to take her and what she
likes to eat and what's her favorite
color what time she gets off of work and
all this stuff and just figuring out
what who she is and what she's about and
it's funny that when women are really
into you they're trying to get that
energy out of you they're trying to ask
you a bunch of questions and it's just
so funny to me how a nice guy when
you're not used to getting this energy
you will Resort back to your old way of
thinking or just the way that you've
come to think and you think to yourself
okay cool you know I should be a nice
guy and figure out everything that she
likes Who Am I who is little old me she
should shouldn't care about me I should
be worried about only her and what she
likes to appease and please her she does
not have to appease and please me and
live up to some of my standards that's
backwards bro that's backwards nice guys
attract women that aren't really into
them like that for that purpose and this
is why women do not like nice guys women
want you to lead the interaction and
lead the situation we're going here
tonight oh I don't do that I like this
instead all right
goodbye women with sense are saying okay
should I wear anything specific okay
sounds great see you at8 that's all see
when you're doing all this stuff trying
to figure out how to make it perfect
there's no such thing as perfect and
nice guys don't understand that that's
why nice guys beat themselves over the
head with saying things like well why
does she like him and she doesn't like
me I'm a standup guy I put myself
through school I make six figures I do
this I go to church on Sunday why does
she pick
him because nice guys think that if they
get to know what she likes eventually
things will just fall in place no a
woman should be learning you and getting
to know you at the same rate [ __ ] more
than you're actually trying to get to
know her number five uh so it's going to
be something that he said uh it was off
of his second question in the DM okay
number five waiting too long to make a
move causes women to automatically
reject in defense okay this is a woman's
ego so if a woman steps into your house
goes out with you at the end of the date
and it's so funny how guys are afraid to
kiss women and guys go against my advice
when I say kiss them after the first
date kiss them on the car ride kiss them
right here's the thing let's say she
wants to kiss you and you don't kiss her
you go on another date you don't kiss
her you don't even try to make contact
when you're meeting up in the beginning
of the day are you breaking the touch
barrier are you sniffing her neck are
you telling her she smells good are you
you know running your fingers down her
hair saying damn I like what you did
with your hair tonight come on let's go
inside then lead her in the
establishment you're not doing any of
this
stuff you're not even signaling with
your
actions to the slightest degree that you
want her like that so in a woman's mind
I mean what is she left to believe what
is she left to
think especially if you know you're a
sexually attractive guy and you can tell
she's feeling you guys are like oh I
just want her to sweat I just want her
to sweat it out you know what's funny
when guys have this uh mindset I'm going
to text her back 3 4 hours later I'm
going to make her sweat it out I'm not
going to hook up with her tonight I'm
going to make her wait right when you do
things like that we live in a time right
now right where attention is just coming
it's coming it's coming it's coming it's
coming it's coming from everywhere for
women right why would you want to do
that why why would you want to butter a
woman up take her out somewhere have her
come over to your house play all these
games with her just to butter her up for
another dude guys get in and get out
like I said a woman's emotions it
changes like the wind especially when
she's kind of like Teeter tottering
where she doesn't know you're the guy
she's like I'm gonna take a chance I
want to have sex with this guy right
you're playing all these goofy games
tomorrow comes you figure I want to
smash you call over but she's like uh
you notice that her energy is completely
different because the time has passed
already your opportunity was there you
think this is going to be here forever
see this is what I say women are not
special like that right so when you
understand that they're not special you
understand that they're here today gone
tomorrow why am I playing all these
goofy ass
games ask yourself that number six this
is a good one kissing and touching is
getting to know a woman you're literally
getting to know her likes and dislikes
sexually okay so let's do a deep dive
into this topic so have you ever went on
a date with a woman and she kind of gave
you a kiss like a
woodpecker you ever seen a mom feeding
baby worms you know so a woman
just that's not sexually appealing to me
that I already know that her sex game is
going to be weak you understand I'm
getting to know all of that by kissing
her I know all that you know when you're
in certain situations with a Woman by
The Way You Kiss And by the way you act
I don't want to go into everything I
really want to say YouTube chill cuz cuz
you know YouTube and the guidelines
women know when you're even good at Oral
by the way you kiss and by the way you
use your fingers YouTube chill once
again but I just want you guys to
understand that women understand you
better and you understand them better
when you're getting physical with them
you understand where she likes to be
touched another guy doesn't understand
right another guy's at first date he's
at getting the number while you're at
knowing how she likes to be touched
you're already levels above the next
dude no matter what you want her for
whoever she talks to next whoever she
does what with next they got to know how
to touch her they got to know how to
feel her in that way do you know there's
certain there's certain times in my life
right where just me meeting up with a
chicken and and hooking up just kissing
not hooking up sex just kissing turned
women on so much that they were like oh
you're gonna get me in
trouble you know when women say little
things that let you know I got this
tonight all from kissing
mostly so when you know how to kiss
you're a shoin how are you going to gain
experience with kissing and touching I
don't know get more experience with it
be used to it and it's funny that when
you get more experience and the more
you're used to it you understand that a
lot of the stuff women say is just games
when they meet up with you they'll kiss
you they'll touch you guys don't
understand this you need to be breaking
the touch barrier you need to be kissing
because you get to know each other in a
more intimate way here's the thing any
chick that's trying to hold you back
from that just does not see you like
that right she sees you as a nice guy
here's the kicker when you don't want to
get physical kiss touch and you want to
move on a woman's terms this is funny
she instantly says to herself this guy's
so nice this guy is so sweet you guys
ever wonder why women start saying
things like that you would be the
perfect candidate for a boyfriend you'll
be the perfect husband in 10 years hey
if we're still single in 15 10 years me
and you should do the marriage thing
it's a joke it's covered up as a joke
but it's the truth because of the way
she sees you and where does that stem
from I don't know being like the rest of
the guys who are too afraid to lay a
finger on her number seven this is where
guys shoot themselves in the foot as
well with being a nice guy and see women
don't like it but they'll pretend let me
elaborate on this one number seven women
are willing to lie to you in order to
Cuff you the husband material boyfriend
material guy the nice guy right the way
you act in the beginning it lets her
know the reason why I said you know
women will lie to Cuff you is because a
lot of guys are getting cuffed they're
not doing the cuffing where do you think
the the term or the slang cuffing season
comes from it ain't us I mean I I never
knew us to take any breaks we're always
sexually active we're always doing our
thing always rejecting chicks we're
always dating you know we're we got main
chicks guys aren't even doing the
girlfriend thing anymore main chicks so
when do we stop in between Seasons to
change how we do things it's not for us
it's for women it's hot outside let's
take these clothes off it's cold outside
let's get up under a man and put some
clothes on that's all it is so you will
get duped if you're thinking that she's
different she's this I have to treat her
this way and I have to go about things
this way and act this way and so on and
so forth and blah blah blah blah blah
blah right and then a woman comes in and
says okay I can tell by the way he acts
he's not going to be able to handle this
he's going to want me to act like this
he's going to want me to be this way so
I'm going to pretend to be this way to
get his commitment because everything
about him I really like like that but he
he's not really appealing but he's the
safe bet right this is why guys end up
in sexist relationships this is why guys
end up getting disrespected by their
chick cuz they were a nice guy in the
beginning and then they got into a
situation with her she didn't really
like them like that she was pretending
just the the commitment because here's
the
thing most guys that she's used to
dealing with that are sexually appealing
and sexually attractive they're good for
a shortterm thing it's it's good it
comes and it goes you know it's here
today it's gone tomorrow but with that
other guy the guy that's the nice guy
will he'll be here forever doesn't this
seem like a safer
bet understand me number eight we're
going to close the video on this one
because this one just gets on my nerves
so her looks are the only reason why
you're being nice to her and this is
exactly why women despise nice guys
okay if guys go out and you know that
saying oh guys sleep with anything if
that's true then what is it with guys
always saying this saying of like I can
get women but not the women I really
want okay this is all going to tie back
to each other follow me because she's
pretty that's the only reason you're
going above and beyond nice guys
typically exercise his behavior with
pretty women okay now it doesn't make
any sense because if these are the women
that you really want and you feel like
you're that guy why not just go after
these types of women and just be
yourself be yourself not put any extras
on it because you know you're not that
dude it's the same thing with like the
whole sexual discipline thing like God
stop stop it all right I'm sexually
disciplined yo why did you stand me up
you see how they don't go hand in hand
it's more like this yo I'm this sexually
disciplined dude oh this chick doesn't
want to smash what well I've been
hitting legs all week so I was
definitely going to dig her out she
would have enjoyed herself it's her loss
not mine [ __ ] most dudes don't even work
their legs out you know what I'm saying
just weird way of thinking but it makes
sense because you're so sexually
disciplined bro I'm looking to train I'm
looking what I'm eating later I'm
looking at this I'm looking at I'm not
worried about the reason why she doesn't
want to sleep with me or get physical
I'm sexually disciplined you get what
I'm saying it's all a facade in a way so
when you're being nice to a chick based
on her look
women already receive tons of attention
for their looks what are you doing
that's different than the next
simp nothing at all this is why women
don't like nice guys now returning back
to that DM right so when you're thinking
well what did I do
wrong these are a bunch of things that
guys need to consider these are a bunch
of things that dudes need to understand
like for instance with the looks okay
she looks a certain way don't you look a
certain type of way so what's the big
deal with that aren't you guys
compatible isn't that something that you
have in common so why is it such a big
deal to the point where you start acting
out and doing all these things that she
didn't ask you to do or you just start
tiptoeing around it why it's typical
nice guy behavior and what you're going
to come to realize time and time again
after bumping your head women do not
respect this I think that's the ultimate
thing I'm trying to say when I say women
despise or women don't like nice guys
they don't respect it because they know
it's not authentic if it's authentic you
do things for everybody and you're nice
about it all across the board but what
nice guys tend to do is do nice things
uh put the woman on a pedestal and the
moment that things don't go their way or
they realize she's not feeling them
instantly a different side of this guy
is going to come
out and it's going to lean towards the
butt hurt side not like yo I'm going to
ignore this situation be cordial just do
what I got to do and go about my
business no it's going to be like
can't believe this mother thinks she is
she thinks she's better than me I'm
actually better than her I was trying to
give her an opportunity what the hell is
the matter with her see this chick's man
picker is broken BL and yeah it might be
true but when if you know that's true
you ain't really sweating it like that
cuz you're like she missed out nice guys
don't have that same reaction nice guys
have the reaction of see this is why
women and this and this and this because
you can't do this for them and this but
see here's the thing you're missing
nobody ever told you that you had to do
all these
things nobody okay so I want guys to
focus up this is why women do not like
nice guys never come off as
husbandboyfriend material I get it if
you're looking for a relationship guys
things take time never rush things out
here and when you're not pushing Sexual
Energy on a date a woman a lot of the
times by default is going to put you in
that nice guy category here's the
thing you got to respect it when a woman
rejects you and doesn't try to put you
in the friend zone doesn't try to you
know act like she likes you keep going
on stealing the tension you guys we need
to understand that it's better to get
rejected off rip okay let your
intentions be known let the chick know
what you want to do and just take the
rejection I understand it hurts a lot of
guys egos that's why they don't approach
in public I get that but just think
about it full circle okay you go after
what you want she rejects you for
whatever reason you need to know that a
lot of guys are hurting out here you
need to look you need to know that a lot
of guys are not the best that they can
be out here you need to know that she
does not have as many options as you
think she does yet she does get a lot of
attention so when you understand this
it's like it's not a personal thing it's
like okay so we're done here and it's
just that simple hope you guys got a lot
out of this one it's your boy Justin Jay
get with you boys in the next video like
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