Men OBSESS Over Women Who Do THIS? (Viral Clips Decoded)
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Brody Boyd explores the principles of feminine polarity to attract and maintain a man's desire. He emphasizes the importance of not over-giving from a masculine energy, which can lead to being taken for granted. Boyd advises women to set high standards, communicate their feelings effectively, and avoid trying to control or manipulate their partners. He suggests that by embodying magnetic feminine energy, women can draw men to them, rather than chasing after them. The video also touches on the idea that sometimes rejection is a form of protection from unhealthy relationships, and the importance of a man's genuine care and devotion in maintaining a lasting relationship.
Takeaways
- 👥 **Understanding Male Desire**: The script discusses the importance of recognizing how men's desires work and using that understanding to build a relationship with the man you want.
- 💁♀️ **Feminine Polarity**: Emphasizes the need for women to embody feminine energy to inspire a man's desire and devotion, rather than taking on masculine roles such as providing or nurturing excessively.
- 🚫 **Avoiding Over-Giving**: Warns against women giving too much in relationships, which can lead to being taken for granted and experiencing infidelity.
- 🤔 **Self-Reflection**: Encourages women to reflect on why they might tolerate poor treatment in hopes of eventually receiving better treatment.
- 🛡 **Maintaining Standards**: Highlights the importance of having high standards in a relationship and being willing to leave if a man does not consistently show care and meet your needs.
- 🚫 **Rejecting Manipulative Behavior**: Advises against trying to manipulate or control a man's behavior, such as monitoring his social media or interactions with others.
- 💬 **Open Communication**: Stresses the value of expressing feelings and desires openly and respectfully, allowing the man to understand and meet your needs.
- 🔄 **Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies**: Explains that a healthy relationship dynamic involves a balance where the masculine provides and the feminine receives.
- 🏃♀️ **Walking Away When Necessary**: Suggests that women should be prepared to leave a relationship if it becomes clear that the man is unwilling to change or meet their emotional needs.
- 👑 **Being the Queen**: Advocates for women to act as the 'queen' in their relationships—speaking up for themselves while maintaining grace and respect.
- 💕 **Attracting the Right Partner**: Suggests that embodying magnetic feminine energy will naturally attract men who are capable of providing the care, respect, and devotion women desire.
Q & A
What is the main principle of feminine polarity discussed in the video?
-The main principle discussed is that women should embody their feminine energy to inspire men to desire and value them, rather than taking on masculine roles such as providing for or taking care of men, which can disrupt the natural polarity in a relationship.
Who is Brody Boyd and what is his area of expertise?
-Brody Boyd is a relationship expert who, along with his wife Atia, has been helping thousands of women worldwide to achieve the relationships they desire for over 20 years.
Why can being overly nurturing in a relationship be problematic?
-Being overly nurturing can be problematic because it can lead to men taking advantage of the woman's vulnerability, not valuing her, and potentially seeking other relationships where they feel more masculine.
What is the 'masculine energy' in a relationship according to the script?
-In the context of the script, masculine energy refers to the role of providing, giving, and taking care of the other person, which traditionally is the man's role in a relationship.
What does the script suggest women should do instead of trying to read men?
-The script suggests that women should focus on self-reading and expressing their own feelings and desires, allowing men to come to them and understand their needs, rather than trying to anticipate or second-guess men's feelings and desires.
What is the significance of having high standards in a relationship according to the video?
-Having high standards is significant because it ensures that a woman is not settling for less than she deserves. It allows her to walk away from a situation where her needs are not being met and to seek a relationship where she is truly valued and cared for.
What does the video suggest as a way to test a man's commitment in a relationship?
-The video humorously suggests cooking a meal that tastes bad on purpose and observing the man's reaction. If he is honest about his feelings without being mean or disrespectful, it indicates a level of communication and respect that could suggest a lasting relationship.
What is the 'doormat' and 'queen' concept presented in the video?
-The 'doormat' represents a woman who doesn't speak up for herself and accepts poor treatment, while the 'queen' represents a woman who expresses her feelings and needs in a respectful and feminine way, drawing the man towards her rather than pushing him away.
Why is it important to communicate feelings and needs in a relationship?
-Communicating feelings and needs is important to prevent the buildup of emotional resentment and to maintain a healthy relationship. It allows for mutual understanding and the opportunity to correct behaviors that may be harmful to the relationship.
What does the video suggest about a man's happiness in a relationship?
-The video suggests that a man's happiness comes from providing for and taking care of his partner. His sense of purpose and meaning is derived from making his woman and others in his life happy and fulfilled.
What is the advice given about not trying to control or manipulate a man in a relationship?
-The advice is to focus on being in one's feminine energy, which involves bringing the energy back to oneself, listening to one's feelings, and valuing self-worth. Trying to control or manipulate a man can put a woman in a masculine role, which is counterproductive to a healthy relationship dynamic.
How does the video suggest a woman can attract a man who will treat her well?
-The video suggests using magnetic feminine polarity and communication, focusing on self-worth, and allowing the man to take care of the woman. It emphasizes attracting the right kind of man by being the 'flame' that the man is drawn to, rather than being the 'moth' that chases him.
Outlines
👑 The Misunderstanding of Feminine Polarity
In this paragraph, Brody Boyd discusses the concept of feminine polarity and how women often misunderstand it, leading to men taking advantage of their nurturing nature. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining balance in a relationship and not overstepping into the masculine role by being overly giving or trying to anticipate men's needs. The speaker warns against the dangers of this dynamic, which can result in men losing respect and valuing women less, ultimately seeking relationships with those who are less nurturing. The key message is to avoid giving into the masculine energy and instead allow men to take on their natural role of providing and caring for their partners.
🔍 Reading Men and Setting Standards
This paragraph delves into the common issue of women trying to 'read' men, which often involves second-guessing and anticipating their needs and feelings. Brody Boyd suggests that this behavior can be counterproductive and instead encourages women to express their own feelings and desires, allowing men to take the initiative to understand and meet those needs. The speaker also touches on the importance of having high standards in relationships, advocating for women to be willing to walk away from situations where they are not treated with the care and respect they deserve. The narrative highlights the need for self-reflection and the importance of self-worth in maintaining healthy relationship dynamics.
💔 Avoiding Emotional Debt and Communication
The speaker addresses the issue of emotional debt, which can accumulate when feelings and needs are suppressed in the interest of maintaining the peace. This can lead to resentment and emotional distance over time. Brody Boyd stresses the importance of open and honest communication, especially when it comes to expressing discomfort, sadness, fear, and pain. He encourages women to share their feelings in a respectful way that invites understanding and change, rather than harboring negative emotions that can damage the relationship. The paragraph also humorously presents a 'test' for relationships, suggesting that how a partner reacts to a poorly cooked meal can indicate the strength and communication style of the relationship.
🛡 Recognizing God's Protection and True Devotion
In this paragraph, the focus shifts to recognizing when a situation or relationship may not be beneficial, suggesting that sometimes what seems like rejection is actually divine protection from a potentially harmful situation. The speaker encourages self-evaluation to determine whether one is holding onto false hope or is genuinely progressing towards a healthy, loving, and committed relationship. The importance of mutual interest and kindness in maintaining a long-term relationship is highlighted, along with the value of vulnerability as a means to understand a partner's true character and devotion. The narrative includes a playful example of a man demonstrating his dedication and care for his partner through thoughtful actions, emphasizing the masculine role of providing and the feminine role of receiving in a balanced relationship.
🌟 Embracing Magnetic Feminine Polarity
The final paragraph discusses the concept of magnetic feminine polarity, encouraging women to focus on their own self-worth and energy rather than trying to control or manipulate their partners. The speaker advises against obsessing over a partner's actions or social media activities, which can be a sign of being in one's masculine energy. Instead, women should become the 'flame' that attracts rather than the 'moth' that chases. The paragraph concludes with a call to action, directing viewers to a resource that can help them master the principles of magnetic feminine communication and attract the relationship they desire.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Feminine Polarity
💡Masculine Energy
💡Crave
💡Nurturing Femininity
💡Magnetic Feminine
💡Devotion
💡Emotional Credit Card
💡Doormat
💡Vulnerability
💡Magnetize Your Man
💡Queen
Highlights
Understanding feminine polarity to make a man crave and desire you.
Insights into the male brain and what men want in a relationship.
The importance of not giving too much in a relationship to maintain polarity.
The consequences of nurturing femininity being taken advantage of by men.
The role of masculine and feminine energy in relationships.
Avoiding the trap of trying to read men and second-guess their feelings.
The necessity of having high standards in a relationship.
The significance of a man's behavior in showing his care and devotion.
A test to determine the longevity of a relationship through communication and confrontation.
The concept of becoming the queen in a relationship by expressing feelings respectfully.
Avoiding emotional debt by speaking up and sharing feelings in a relationship.
Recognizing when a situation is bad for you and understanding it as protection.
The importance of being kind and staying interested in the other person's experience in a relationship.
Discovering a man's true character through his response to vulnerability and openness.
Examples of a man devoting himself to his partner by taking care of household chores and planning quality time.
The concept of not controlling or obsessing over a partner's actions to maintain feminine energy.
The idea of focusing on self-worth and letting a man take care of you as a form of feminine energy.
Using magnetic feminine polarity and communication to attract and maintain a man's interest.
A free quiz available at magnetizeyourman.com to master principles of feminine polarity.
Transcripts
if You' like to discover the principles
of feminine polarity to make a man Crave
You and desire you like he desires the
very oxygen that he breathes then we're
going to be looking at some powerful
clips from around the internet that will
show you insights into the male brain
how men work what they want so that you
can actually have the relationship you
desire with a man you want very soon I'm
Brody Boyd if you don't know me already
and for over 20 years combined with my
wife Atia we've been helping thousands
of successful women all over the world
to get the relationships they want so
let's go ahead and Dive Right In A lot
of times when women do give men the
whole nurturing femininity this this and
that it gets taken advantage of they get
cheated on they they think the man a lot
of men at that point be like okay this
this [ __ ] is in love with me like I can
do whatever I want to do and then they
take advantage of her being so
vulnerable and being there all the time
being available for whatever you need
and then they go dip off with a girl
that don't need him so it's like is it
perceived as weakness or is it taken for
weakness by men a lot of the time so
women feel like okay we need to switch
how we're approaching y'all cuz clearly
when I'm everything and more for you you
take advantage of it you want to go dip
off with a girl that's giving you
nothing but sex unfortunately this is
often the case because what this woman
is describing here is giving to a man
from masculine energy anytime you are
giving to a man providing for him being
his mother taking care of him
anticipating his needs doing whatever
you can to try to make him happy that is
you giving to and providing for him
which is actually the masculine energy
and the masculine role in a relationship
so you have to catch yourself and stop
yourself from giving giving giv giving
trying to make him happy because you're
putting him into the feminine energy and
you're not allowing him to be able to
have the inspiration to step up and to
do those things for you which will
ultimately destroy the polarity and
interraction and often sadly will lead
to these situations where the Man simply
doesn't value her doesn't respect her he
doesn't have that sense of devotion care
and desire to be her hero and ends up
leaving often for a woman who doesn't do
those things stop trying to read men do
yourself a favor you can definitely read
yourself
so now let's do a little self-reading
here why would you continually allow a
person to treat you any kind of way in
hopes that they'll one day treat you the
right way there's a couple things in
here the first piece is about reading a
man reading a man often goes into trying
to anticipate his needs trying to
anticipate his feelings his desires to
second guess yourself often in wondering
what you're doing right what you're
doing wrong what you can be doing
differently in the relationship which
ultimately your role in the relationship
really only needs to be expressing your
feelings expressing your desires letting
him come to you and letting him read
your needs now the second piece is about
standards and ultimately if a man isn't
consistently showing care for your heart
and meeting your needs you have to have
those high standards where you are
ultimately willing to be the queen and
walk away walk away from a bad situation
and be willing to move on without
continually to hope and pray and just
keep hanging on for this possibility
that he may change the best thing a man
can ask you on a date is what do you
bring to the table because two things
two things straights away if you want a
masculine man in his masculine energy he
is not one he has told you straight away
that relationship cannot happen finished
done but the second thing is that man is
so deep in his feminine energy that you
could probably sit down have a date with
him and learn from him how to be in it
because even the concept of sitting down
and thinking what can this person do for
me and what do they bring to the table
is so in his receiving energy the fact
that he's even sitting there and having
the audacity to say that is so deeply
like I mean I'm not even sure me and you
can get that feminine is so deeply in
there that we got a lot to learn from
this guy what she is describing here is
a truly broken man this is a man who has
lost all connection to his masculinity
usually because of emotional damage
mental damage or he may be something
like a narcissist or a sociopath paath
as well which there is a certain
percentage of the population a men
around 5% 10% sometimes that are
completely unable of showing their care
for your heart and he's not able to be
in his masculine and actually lead and
provide for you so that's often why a
man will be in his feminine and why he
will be looking for a woman to provide
for him as him being the Peter Pan to
look for a sugar mama of sorts and so if
you ever hear that saying for a man
definitely run away however when you are
in your feminine energy when you are
truly in your magnetic feminine you will
attract way less of these types of men
and when you when a man does approach
you who is a man like this he will be
instantly um either shifting into his
masculine or shifting away from you
because you are not accepting anything
close to that level of a dynamic in your
relationship because you're the queen
you deserve to be cared for you deserve
to be desired and devoted to and nothing
less than that will work for
you just
remember a person that values you
they would never put themselves in a
situation to lose you it's so true you
need to watch your man's behavior and
see if he's so willing to step away from
you so willing to risk losing you
because of his inability to listen to
your feelings to ask questions to engage
with you through texts through calls
through taking action to show his care
for you then you need to shift
immediately into your deepest feminine
energy that you can go into or you have
to be willing to walk away CU again this
could be a highly damaged man that is
incapable of showing that care for you
but the principles that we teach you the
principles that you will learn will help
you to have this man showing that care
and never wanting to possibly risk
losing you to another man because he
starts to devote himself to you and see
the value that you present in his life
at such a deep level that he would never
risk that there's a test that will tell
you how long a relationship will last I
cook my partner a Roman Mantic dinner
but I make it taste bad on purpose the
way I do it is I just make normal
spaghetti and then put some Diet Coke in
it it's enough to make it taste
objectively bad but not enough to be
obvious if they pretend it's good and
try to finish it the relationship is
doomed because it means they're too
afraid of Confrontation to communicate
with me if they say it's bad but they're
mean that's disgusting that means they
don't care about my feelings at all and
I should dump them but if they tell me
the truth in a way that's mindful of my
feelings it's just it's not my thing
thank you so much for the effort that's
a relationship that could last forever I
want to show you this video cuz of
course it's satire but the idea in here
beautifully presents this concept that
we teach around becoming the queen where
the queen we have two opposites of the
queen which on one side is the doormat
and that's the woman who doesn't say
anything who doesn't speak up who says
everything is fine she doesn't share her
feelings this would be like the example
he said of the partner just eating the
spaghetti right even though it tastes
horrible doesn't want to say anything oh
it's delicious or says nothing and and
then on the other side of the spectrum
we have uh what we often call the [ __ ]
the technical term which is a woman who
would insult him she would be really uh
mean to him she would um take control
take charge go into her masculine in the
relationship but then in the golden
middle we have which is the one he
described at the end is uh a woman who
shares her feelings who speaks up but
does so in a graceful feminine
respectful way so again of course it's a
crazy video of course it's satirical
however there's some very valuable
nuggets in there about how to get into
this golden Middle where you actually
are drawing him to you rather than
pushing him away or making him
disrespect you avoiding the argument
because it's not worth the fight is kind
of like using an emotional credit card
right so those feelings or those needs
or that thing in you that's not being
seen you'll just kind of push off for
another time or or you'll dress it up in
a nice way you'll be like ah I can just
be content I can just let it go I can
just relax you know and you'd push it
off but over years that debt starts to
accumulate and it feels like I don't
know loneliness emotional distance um
anger you know we can feel resentful of
the other person for not listening to us
all those years but the reality is there
was times that we bit our tongue there
was times that we traded feeling heard
for feeling safe where in your
relationships are you not speaking up
are you not sharing your feelings this
is one of the aspects the most important
aspects really of becoming the Queen and
not being the doormat that we just
talked about earlier where you are able
to speak up and share your feelings and
all the ranges of your your femininity
not just the good things but also the
things that are uncomfortable the
sadness the fear the pain uh the anxiety
sharing those feelings with him in a
respectful way that draws him in not
putting him onto putting those feelings
onto him in a way where you're not
building up that debt you're not
building up this emotional resentment
that you start to feel in the
relationship that ends up coming coming
out sideways through passive aggression
or through all of a sudden swinging to
the opposite end of the spectrum where
you become the [ __ ] and you attack him
you do something you hit him maybe you
could just go to extreme blowup and you
end up uh also hurting the relationship
when it could have just been
communicated in a healthy way earlier
that allowed him to correct his behavior
and if he didn't correct his behavior
that ultimately you have to be willing
to walk away again as well so that
you're respecting yourself do you know
that what is happening to you right now
is is bad maybe you want that job maybe
you want that guy maybe you want that
business but maybe that thing will
completely destroy you and that's why
it's you're not getting it and you might
feel like oh I feel so bad because this
what I want it but you're actually being
protected you are going to get something
so much better afterwards but you don't
see that coming right now so how do you
know it's bad maybe it's the best thing
that could have ever happened to you
maybe it's you the biggest protection
that you ever had in your life it's so
true if you find yourself being
extremely caught on a guy right now one
that you just feel like you have to have
him he's your man he's the only one
that's possible for you and he's not
committing to you he's not even texting
you he's not reaching out he's not
putting the effort into the relationship
you have to really question and see that
maybe God's uh you know rejection is
actually God's protection and that him
not allowing this relationship to happen
or the man not connecting in that way is
actually saving you from getting into a
bad situation where you continue to put
yourself second that you continue to let
yourself be walked on like the doormat
you allow yourself to be Clinging On to
this hope in a situation that will never
lead anywhere that you actually want to
be longterm so you have to really have
this evaluation ability to see are you
just Clinging On to Hope or are you
actually in a situation that's leading
towards that's progressing towards
having a healthy loving long-term
committed relation ship that you
actually desire most important thing in
a relationship if you want it to go the
distance is being
kind and actually staying
interested in the other person's
experience and point of you MH like the
the challenge of being in a relationship
that long as you think you know somebody
yeah and so true the fact is I don't
care how great your relationship is or
how bad it is or whatever but how great
it is in particular there are parts of
the person you're with that you don't
know because even they don't know that a
great way to discover more about who
your man really is is through your
vulnerability by sharing the things that
you're uncomfortable of sharing with him
the things about yourself that you
haven't revealed to him fears anxieties
insecurities um other pains that you
have pains you've experienced in the
past with him or from your childhood
from other
relationships how a man handles your
feelings and how a man handles your
vulnerability is the truest aspect of a
man the way that you will get to see his
true Devotion to you and his true care
and it's the best test you know some
women feel like they need to pull away
from a man they need to close up and
withdraw and see how he reacts to that
that's the test right but actually the
real test is how he responds to your
vulnerability how he responds to your
openness you'll discover a lot more from
him and who he actually is from that
than anything else that you might do
hey you want to join me in the bedroom
okay hey I made you some tea oh thank
you I'm going to take the kids to the
playground for a few hours you know so
you can relax in your own home
occasionally that sounds nice but if I
know you you won't actually be able to
relax because you'll feel guilty if
you're not cleaning or doing chores
during your free time dang it you're
right so that's why I already did them
the dishes are done the sink is clean
the countertops are wiped clutters
picked up floors are swept laundry's
already folded so you better not be
doing any chores while I'm gone young
lady I love it when you tell me not to
do things oh yeah and don't forget I got
a babysitter for later I'm taking out to
that new Tha place just the two of us
that's not the name the name is
something I couldn't pronounce it it was
in Thai that's so hot yeah the food can
be pretty spicy are you talking about
the food all of it Mama's hungry oh okay
well well I got the kids in the car but
I'll uh I'll see you in a bit there how
stuff so this is a great example of what
it looks like when a man is actually
devoting himself to you because again
like I said earlier the masculine gives
the feminine receives when a man is
actually being the provider and being
the masculine in the relationship He is
wanting to do things for you he's
wanting to take care of you he's wanting
to get things around the house handled
even if he's not physically doing it
himself he may not like the grocery
shopping the cleaning around the house I
don't personally however he can hire
people that can help he can find
Solutions he's capable of finding
creative ways to meet your needs and to
make you happy because He is wanting to
give he's getting his sense of Happiness
from seeing that you're happy that old
saying happy wife happy life there's a
lot of Truth to that because that's the
way that men get their feelings of
Happiness which is different than how
women get their feelings of happiness
you get your feelings of Happiness by
him devoting himself to you and and
adoring you and cherishing you and he
gets his sense of Happiness by feeling a
purpose and a meaning and knowing that
he can provide value and that he's
needed and that he can make his woman
and the people around him in his life
truly happy and fulfilled his Instagram
following list none of your business
videos he watches on Tik Tok none of
your business him checking out another
beautiful woman walk into to the
restaurant none of your business him
liking another girl's Instagram photo
none of your business the relationship
with his ex-girlfriend none of your
business the Pik me girl that secretly
wants him none of your business his past
sex life none of your business his
female friends none of your business so
the idea here is that being in your
feminine is about bringing the energy
back to yourself not trying to control
him not trying to manipulate him not
trying to watch every move that he's
making and see who's interested in him
and what women are trying to steal him
away it's about being the queen bringing
the energy back to you listening to your
heart to your feelings to your sense of
self value and self-worth and letting
him take care of you and coming to you
because if you're so busy trying to
manage him and trying to uh navigate
those situations around him you're
actually in your masculine you're trying
to lead and control the relationship
you're trying to manipulate him Often by
looking into those things and trying to
see now if you do notice those things or
if you're feeling unhappy in the
relationship you of course need to speak
up about those things you need to share
your feelings about that with him using
feminine communication in the way we
teach and if he's not showing care after
that point you have to be willing to
again walk away and value yourself and
know that you're going to attract a man
who will treat you in those ways who's
not going to be doing those things with
with uh you know Instagram with liking
other women's post of things that she
mentioned you're going to have that
coming to you you're attracting it to
you being the magnet rather than being
the the the moths chasing the flame
right be the flame not the moths if
you're tired of a man pulling away want
to draw the energy back to you and have
him Chase crave pursue desire you then
you're going to need to use magnetic
feminine polarity magnetic feminine
communication which you can get right
now by clicking the link in the
description below this video or in the
comments or going to magnetize your
man.com magnetize your man.com to pick
up that free quiz we have for you that's
going to help you to master these
principles have him being the man you've
always wanted him to be and having the
relationship you've always desired being
cherished like the queen so much love
hope this was helpful look forward to
talking talk to you again very soon
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