Disappear And Come Back Unrecognizable (12 Rules To Change Your Life)
Summary
TLDRThis video script emphasizes the importance of focus and clear vision for personal success. It outlines a 12-step framework for creating and achieving one's goals, urging viewers to identify their 'anti-vision' and set high standards for themselves. The speaker encourages daily self-education, leveraging projects for learning, and maintaining curiosity and experimentation to break free from societal norms. The script also highlights the significance of making decisions that align with one's vision, using failures as learning opportunities for growth.
Takeaways
- 🚀 Success often requires periods of intense focus and isolation to work on a singular goal without distractions.
- 🔮 Clarity on future aspirations is essential; if unsure, it may indicate a reluctance to do the necessary work rather than a lack of knowing what one wants.
- 💡 Knowing what you don't want can be a powerful motivator to define what you do want and to take steps away from undesirable situations.
- 🛠️ Entrepreneurship and leveraging writing and social media can be pathways to gain the power to eliminate unwanted work and create opportunities.
- 💪 Personal development, such as physical fitness and nutrition, is crucial for creating a foundation of discipline and health to support broader life goals.
- 🧘♂️ A peaceful mind can be cultivated through progressively taking on more responsibility, akin to how weights feel lighter as one gets stronger.
- 📈 Having a clear, overarching plan is vital; without it, one is subject to societal influences and expectations that may not align with personal desires.
- 📝 Writing down detailed visions and breaking them down into actionable goals is a practical step towards realizing one's aspirations.
- 🎯 Goals shape one's identity and actions; they are the lenses through which opportunities are recognized and skills are acquired.
- 🛑 An 'anti-vision' or the life one does not want serves as a negative fear mechanism to spur action and avoid undesirable outcomes.
- 📚 Continuous learning and self-education are non-negotiable for personal growth and the ability to adapt and innovate in various life domains.
Q & A
What is the key pattern observed in successful people according to the speaker?
-The speaker notes that successful people often disappear from the world for months at a time to focus purely on themselves and their vision, working towards a single meaningful goal.
Why does the speaker believe some people claim not to know what they want in the future?
-The speaker suggests that when people say they don't know what they want, it often means they are unwilling to do the work required to achieve their desires, not that they lack clarity on what they want.
What does the speaker suggest as a solution for those who dislike their current situation but are unsure of what they want?
-The speaker recommends becoming an entrepreneur, using writing and social media for leverage, and focusing on physical health through the gym and nutrition to open up opportunities in life.
What is the significance of the 'anti-vision' in the speaker's framework?
-The 'anti-vision' serves as a negative template of the life one does not want to live, acting as a motivator to take action and avoid such a life.
How does the speaker define 'mission' in the context of personal development?
-The speaker defines 'mission' as the bridge between one's vision and anti-vision, something that aligns actions with the vision and filters out distractions.
What role do 'standards' play in an individual's progress according to the speaker?
-Standards are the benchmarks that individuals set for themselves, which can either propel them forward or hold them back, depending on whether they are high enough to drive change.
Why are 'big goals' important for direction according to the speaker?
-Big goals provide a sense of direction by setting a long-term vision, while small goals offer clarity on the immediate steps needed to move towards the bigger vision.
What is the purpose of 'projects' in the speaker's framework?
-Projects are tangible endeavors that actualize one's vision, allowing for learning through struggle and the application of newly acquired skills and knowledge.
How does the speaker view the role of 'education' in achieving one's goals?
-The speaker emphasizes that education is crucial for acquiring the necessary skills and mindset to complete projects and achieve goals, and it should be a daily habit.
What does the speaker mean by 'limitations' in the context of goal setting?
-Limitations refer to the boundaries one sets on what they are willing to sacrifice to achieve their goals, which can force creativity and adherence to one's vision.
How does the speaker encourage individuals to approach 'challenges'?
-The speaker encourages embracing challenges as a source of enjoyment and growth, suggesting that the right balance of skill and challenge leads to progress and fulfillment.
What is the importance of 'curiosity' in the speaker's framework?
-Curiosity is vital for steering off course and discovering new potential, preventing individuals from getting locked into a mechanical routine and encouraging exploration of interests.
Why is 'experimentation' the final rule in the speaker's framework?
-Experimentation is the final rule because it encourages individuals to try different techniques and create their own processes, avoiding dogmatism and ensuring continuous learning and adaptation.
How does the speaker suggest making better decisions aligned with one's vision?
-The speaker suggests making better decisions by zooming out to remind oneself of the vision and then zooming in to make choices that align with that vision, using perspective and perception.
Outlines
🎯 The Art of Focus and Goal Achievement
This paragraph emphasizes the importance of focus and having a clear vision for success. Successful individuals often isolate themselves to concentrate on their goals. The speaker admits to always knowing what they want, suggesting that uncertainty about one's desires is a reluctance to do the necessary work. They advocate for observing society to discern one's true desires and becoming an entrepreneur as a means to escape undesirable aspects of life. The paragraph also touches on leveraging writing and social media, improving physical health, and developing a peaceful mind through progressive responsibility. It introduces the concept of a single framework for success, urging the audience to write down their desires and break them into actionable goals, and to create a vision that shapes one's identity and experiences.
📘 The 12 Rules of Creation for Visionary Living
The speaker outlines a framework consisting of 12 rules for achieving one's vision in life. They begin by discussing the necessity of an 'anti-vision' to avoid an undesirable life, followed by the importance of having a clear vision to guide actions and minimize distractions. The paragraph delves into the significance of a personal mission, setting high standards, and establishing goals that provide direction and clarity. It also highlights the importance of engaging in projects that align with one's vision, continuous self-education, recognizing and respecting limitations, and identifying key 'levers' or tasks that drive progress. The speaker stresses the need for daily practice, awareness of problems, and the pursuit of a meaningful life through the creation of value.
📝 Writing as a Catalyst for Progress
In this paragraph, the speaker identifies writing as a fundamental lever for progress in their business, emphasizing its role in producing books, newsletters, content, emails, and responses. They argue that writing is essential for making progress in an online business and should be prioritized. The speaker also discusses the importance of facing challenges that match one's skill level for enjoyment and growth, fostering curiosity to explore new interests and avoid routine, and embracing experimentation to avoid being confined to conventional methods. They conclude by advising the audience to use the 12 rules as a guide when feeling lost and to make decisions that align with their vision, using their future self as a benchmark for better choices.
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Keywords
💡Focus
💡Vision
💡Mission
💡Standards
💡Goals
💡Projects
💡Education
💡Levers
💡Challenge
💡Curiosity
💡Experimentation
💡Decisions
Highlights
Successful individuals often isolate themselves to focus intently on their goals, achieving a singular meaningful objective.
The speaker asserts that uncertainty about one's future is often a reluctance to undertake the necessary work, not a lack of desire.
Identifying what one does not want can clarify what one truly desires, as the speaker suggests that knowing dislikes can lead to understanding likes.
The speaker emphasizes the simplicity of discerning societal norms and using them to determine one's own path, such as becoming an entrepreneur.
Persistence is highlighted as key, with the speaker mentioning their seven failures as a stepping stone to gaining power over their work.
Leverage is identified as crucial, with writing and social media presented as tools for amplifying one's message and goals.
The importance of physical health through gym and nutrition is underscored as a means to open up life opportunities.
A peaceful mind is achieved through progressively taking on more responsibility, likened to weights feeling lighter as one gets stronger.
The speaker proposes a single framework for success that can be referred to in moments of doubt or when setting out on new ventures.
The necessity of having a plan is discussed, warning that without one, society will dictate your life's trajectory.
A practical exercise is suggested: writing down detailed future desires and breaking them down into actionable goals.
The concept of 'anti-vision' is introduced as a negative vision that propels one into action by identifying what one does not want to experience.
Having a clear vision is essential for decision-making and minimizing distractions, with the speaker advocating for an iterative process to refine one's vision.
The speaker defines 'mission' as the bridge between one's vision and anti-vision, serving as a filter for aligning actions with one's goals.
Standards are discussed as determinants of one's current situation, with the speaker encouraging raising them to achieve desired outcomes.
Goals are categorized into big for direction and small for clarity, with the speaker advising to be flexible and write them down for clarity.
Projects are presented as tangible steps towards realizing one's vision, with the speaker recommending turning goals into projects with clear milestones.
Education is deemed vital, with the speaker stressing the importance of continuous learning and self-improvement to achieve goals.
Limitations are framed as catalysts for creativity, with the speaker questioning what one is unwilling to sacrifice to achieve their goals.
Levers are identified as daily priority tasks that contribute to the progress of one's projects, goals, and vision.
Challenge is positioned as a source of enjoyment and a means to find the path to meaningful living through the right balance of skill and difficulty.
Curiosity is encouraged as a means to explore new potential and avoid becoming trapped in routine.
Experimentation is the final rule, advocating for trying different techniques and creating one's own process to achieve unique results.
The speaker concludes by emphasizing the importance of making decisions aligned with one's vision and the role of awareness in correcting behavior.
Transcripts
The pattern I've noticed in successful people
is that they disappear from the world
for months at a time to force pure focus on themselves
and their vision.
They laser in on one meaningful goal and make it a reality.
I don't say this to sound arrogant,
but I've never really had a problem
with knowing what I want in the future.
When I hear people say,
I don't know what I want,
what I think they're saying is that
I don't want to do the work it takes to get what I want.
It's not that you don't know what you want.
It's that you know what you don't want already.
Meaning you know what you want
and are hiding from what it takes to get away from it.
I've always known what I've wanted
because it's extremely simple to observe society
and discern good from bad.
I know that I don't want a job, I hate work, I hate a body,
I hate a partner.
I hate a mind
that hates me
and from that alone, it's easy
to figure out what I had to do.
Become an entrepreneur.
No matter how many times I fail, it took seven failures.
Gain the power to get rid of work.
I don't want to do with writing
and social media for leverage.
Go to the gym and work on my nutrition for my body,
and allow those three things to open up
more opportunities in every domain of life.
Then let that path create a peaceful mind
from the progressive overload of responsibility.
Weights feel lighter as you get stronger.
Everybody knows that some form of this path
is what they are meant to do to improve themselves,
so they aren't stuck in a life that they don't want.
Your psyche craves actualization and transcendence.
The depth of your being wants these things,
but your ego is distracted by things that thinks at once.
And that's the problem.
You don't have a way to focus your mind.
You don't have a plan for the future that holds
more gravity than the distractions in your life.
So you struggle to maintain a long term time horizon
and get trapped in
never ending short term, stress inducing tasks.
How would it feel to have one single framework
that would determine the entirety of your success,
one that you can refer to whenever you feel lost?
That's what we're going to talk about.
You need a plan
because if you don't have one, society does,
and they've been planning your life for decades.
That is a quote from my book, the Art of focus.
Now, before we dive into what I call the 12
rules of creation,
let's just get very practical for a second.
Grab a notebook.
Write out exactly what you want in your future.
Don't miss a detail, then break it down into goals.
Decades, years, months, weeks and days.
Every day,
write down the three levers
you can move to create your vision.
A dream without clarity is a nightmare.
You've been assigned goals since the day you were born.
These goals went on to frame
how you view the world
because your goals compose your identity.
You learn skills to achieve those goals.
You registered opportunities in alignment with those goals.
Everything you experience in life
is through the lens of the conscious
or unconscious goals, guiding the systems
being formed in your head.
If we want to build a life of meaning, money and impact,
we must pursue our ideal future.
Create a story
worth telling and pass that path
to those who are ready to receive it.
After a decade of dancing
between creative success and failure,
I've created a framework
that will bring you success in anything that you do.
I created this framework through multidisciplinary
study and pulling together principles and patterns
from marketing, sales, human behavior, peak performance,
psychology stories, games
and the structure of billion dollar
companies, successful product development,
and anything involved in the process
of creating and distributing value.
You will be using this as the guiding light of your life.
You will be using this when you want to change your life.
You will be using this when you want to start a business.
You will be using this when you want to build a product.
You'll be using this when you want to write a tweet,
when you want to create a newsletter,
when you want to write a landing page,
when you want to have a beneficial conversation
with someone else, you're going to use this.
Anytime you do absolutely anything
so that you make sure you are creating something
and not doing something that's already been done.
The first rule or step is an anti vision.
This is the bane of your existence,
the life that you do not want to live.
A positive fear mechanism that kicks you into action.
Start a running note of experiences.
You do not want to repeat the material.
You don't care to learn the work.
You don't care to complete the arguments.
You don't wish to have.
You won't get rid of them in an instant.
You are meant to identify them as problems to be solved.
This is what you do in business.
When you create a product is you identify a problem
and you create a solution.
You can't change unless you are aware of a problem.
You aren't going to change
unless you are brutally aware of how that problem impacts
your life.
The second rule is having a vision,
because if you don't have a vision, you are lost.
You can't create outcomes,
so you are doomed to the mechanical
living of determined outcomes.
Every decision
you make
in any domain of your life
needs to be filtered through a vision.
That is how you bring meaning to your actions
and how you minimize distractions.
Write down exactly what you want out of life.
Don't miss a detail,
but realize this is an iterative process.
You won't get it right.
The first time around, and you probably never will.
And that's not the point of it either.
So just spend 30 minutes creating a minimum viable vision
for whatever it is that you're trying to create.
Start with your life, your life's vision,
and then come back to it often to add, subtract, remove
anything that you want in there or don't want in there.
Rule three is your mission.
Your mission is the most important thing in your life.
It is the bridge between what you do
and what you don't want.
Your vision and your anti vision.
Anything that does not align with
your mission is to be treated as a distraction.
Your mission evolves
with awareness of new beliefs, opportunities and knowledge.
Your mission requires faith.
You can't see the next step
unless you take the first, and once you do,
the 2nd May be completely different
from anything you could have imagined.
Rule four is standards.
You aren't where you want to be
because you are okay with where you are.
You don't submit to your situation.
You accept it so you can move forward.
Standards are absorbed from your environment.
The friends you hang out with, the books
you read, the media
you consume, the parents who raise you,
the teachers who knew it all.
All of these things create standards in your head that help
filter information so that you can make decisions.
If your standards for how much money you have in your bank
account is $10, you aren't going to register anything over
$10 as a problem, and that overlaps with your nutrition.
If you are only okay with having $10 in your bank account,
then you're probably okay
with eating junk food every single day.
It doesn't matter
whether you can
or can't do these things like a for nutritious food.
It matters if you're okay with it
and are doing something to change it,
because you can be okay with being broke
and having a terrible car,
but that just sets you up for failure.
You're not going to actually change
because you're not aware of it as a problem,
because you need awareness of the problem
in order to create a solution.
You're not aware of the car
that you have as a problem,
so you just wait for a catastrophic event happen,
and then you have to spend more money to fix the problem
because it blows up out of nowhere, and now you're screwed
royally in for a long amount of time until that normalizes.
And unless you use that as a moment to change your life,
you're just going to sit out the pain
until it comes back to equilibrium,
and then you're going to go back to being okay
with having $10 in your bank account and never changing
because you didn't see the catastrophe
as an actual problem,
and you didn't believe in yourself enough to change it.
Rule five is goals.
Big goals are for direction.
Small goals are for clarity.
You don't need motivation
when the task in front of you
is so stupidly simple that you can't help but complete it.
Break down your vision into goals by decade, year,
month, week, and day.
They are your guide, not your master.
Be stubborn with vision and loose with details.
Your goals will change as you do.
Be okay with that
and remember that we're writing all of this down.
If you aren't writing anything down right now,
what are you doing?
Rule six is projects.
Learning comes from struggle, not memorization.
You need a series of tangible products to build that will
actualize your vision.
So turn your goals into projects.
Architect and outline,
determine milestones, set
deadlines, and map out areas of research.
Build. Then. Learn. Start the project.
Expose your lack of knowledge and skill
and use that as a reference point for your education.
Rule seven is just that education.
You aren't where you want to be
because you aren't as smart as you think you are.
With every project,
there is a skill set and mindset
required to complete the project,
meaning you need education in order to achieve your goals
and to actually complete the project towards your vision.
Daily self-education
must become a cornerstone habit in your life.
If you stop learning, you stop evolving.
Opportunities start presenting themselves
and you get trapped in your current stage of development.
Education is the fuel for experimentation
and without experimentation,
you are doing what other people tell you to do.
Rule eight is limitations.
A fool becomes rich at the expense of everything
good in life.
A creative becomes rich at the expense of his choice.
Limitations on your goals force creativity.
The question
is, what are you not willing to sacrifice
to achieve your goals?
So the creative challenge appears
when you attempt to achieve your goals
without betraying your vision.
You can become rich without sacrificing your family.
You can become healthy without sacrificing your work.
You can become valuable without sacrificing
what makes life worth living.
Rule nine is levers.
Every day you need priority
tasks that move
the needle toward
your projects, goals, and vision from the ground up.
These are often seen as boring fundamentals
unless you cultivate a sense of mastery behind what you do.
You see every day
as a practice and a process rather than an outcome,
or else it becomes boring.
Do what needs to be done, but grip your vision
as the anchor into the unknown.
If you aren't making progress, it's
because you aren't moving levers,
even if you think you are.
Writing as an example is one of my main levers
in my business.
I need to write a book to produce.
I need to write newsletters.
I need to write content. I need to write emails.
I need to write responses to clients and students
and just people in business.
Writing is literally
the only thing I do for the first 2 to 3 hours of the day.
So that's one thing.
If you're trying to build a business,
especially an online business, and you aren't writing
and you aren't getting it in front of people,
then you're not making progress.
This is why I got rid of my other courses before this.
And now I sell to our writer
and what we hope people personally
with in Cortex
University is because that's the one thing
that's the main catalyst.
And I feel weird for selling anything else
before I sell that,
because that's the one thing
that's going to make the impact.
Rule ten is challenge.
When a novice plays against a master,
neither of them have fun.
It's not enjoyable.
The novice becomes anxious while the master becomes bored.
When your skill is the perfect
match for the challenge of a situation,
the world goes quiet and you move forward with grace.
Challenge is the source of enjoyment,
enjoyment is found on the tightrope
between boredom and anxiety at the edge of your abilities.
The path to meaningful
living is often found in a simple shift in perspective.
Rule 11 is curiosity.
In other words,
be willing to steer off course and discover new potential
because it is too easy
to lock ourselves in a mechanical routine
like the one we were trying to escape.
Be curious. Dive deep into your interests.
Let few questions go unanswered.
Avoid getting locked into paradigms
and beliefs that narrow your mind on one idolized path.
Your vision is like a battery.
You must fuel it with experience,
education, and misdirection.
Rule 12 the final rule is experimentation.
If you only do the same thing
as everyone else,
you are bound to the results of everyone else.
So research processes that others teach the ones
they have seen success with.
Try multiple techniques to see
which ones get you the best results.
Create your own process that you can stay consistent with
in fitness.
Try different training and nutrition
programs and relationships.
Try therapy or self-help books in business.
Try cold outreach or organic content.
Avoid becoming dogmatic about the single right way
because there is no right way.
There is only your way
because people can't teach you what to do,
how to write, how to start a business.
They can only teach you how they did it.
When you are lost.
Run through all 12 of those rules when your relationships
are failing.
Run through that process
when your business won't get off the ground.
Run through that process when you feel lost,
run through that process.
Every successful interaction
with reality starts and ends with a clear
image of what they want.
Clarity on
how to achieve it and creative execution
to acquire rare results.
Now let's end this off by understanding
how to make better decisions.
Because now you have a framework.
But how do you actually act?
You feel terrible
because your future self is watching your every move
and they don't like what they see.
You aren't where you want to be
because you didn't make the choices
that led to a purposeful career.
You didn't make the choices that led
to fulfilling relationships.
You didn't make the choices
that led to a healthy and esthetic body.
You right now, or the manifestation of your past choices.
So if you want to take control of who you become,
your choices are the most important thing in this world.
So there are two things here.
One is who you want to become.
So prospect dive and zooming out into the future.
Two is the choices that will take you there,
which is perception and zooming in.
The good life is created
by constant reminder of your vision
and programing the identity
that would actualize it through aligned action.
Better decisions come from perspective and perception.
Every day, zoom out
and remind yourself of what you don't want.
You don't need to focus on what you want
because that will make itself
apparent through your choices.
Hold that frame at the top of your mind.
Do not allow distractions to penetrate it.
Anytime a choice comes up.
Zoom out and align.
Will this benefit the future I am trying to create?
Then be decisive.
Make the decision.
Allow failure into your life
so you can correct your behavior the next time around.
Awareness is a cure.
You don't have to quit all of your bad habits.
You just have to view them and their consequences
through the lens of your vision for long enough.
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