🌹🙏🌹 ASK PAIGE, EP. 9: Catholic Speed Dating Advice

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20 Jun 202420:44

Summary

TLDRIn this episode of her 'Ask Paige' series, Paige addresses a viewer's question about Catholic speed dating, offering practical advice while emphasizing traditional Catholic femininity. She explains how speed dating can be a safe, controlled way to meet potential partners and highlights the importance of observing virtue, red flags, and compatibility over superficial traits. Paige outlines a clear framework for the first 1–3 months of post-event interactions, including managing communication, evaluating red flags, and establishing boundaries before exclusivity. She also stresses maintaining feminine energy by keeping conversations brief, spaced out, and noncommittal until a suitable partner emerges, all while trusting in God’s guidance.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Joining a YouTube Channel membership can provide exclusive content and perks not shared elsewhere.
  • 😀 Many people lack proper guidance on how to choose a partner, often due to the influence of the 1960s liberal feminist movement.
  • 😀 Speed dating events are a great way to quickly filter out unsuitable partners compared to online dating platforms.
  • 😀 Feminine women should be exclusive and picky about who they allow access to in their lives, both online and offline.
  • 😀 A speed dating event is a quick way to assess potential compatibility, but it's important not to make quick judgments based solely on first impressions.
  • 😀 It’s essential to look beyond physical appearances and assess a potential partner's virtues and red flags during speed dating.
  • 😀 A speed dating event is not about finding a relationship or marriage right away but about creating a foundation for further exploration if there's a connection.
  • 😀 After a successful speed dating event, further steps include getting to know someone through friendship first, not rushing into exclusivity.
  • 😀 The first three months of getting to know someone should be spent evaluating their character and background before committing to a relationship.
  • 😀 If someone asks for exclusivity too soon, it's a red flag, as it may indicate a desire to rush things or manipulate you for personal gain.

Q & A

  • What is the main topic of Paige's video?

    -The main topic is advice on participating in Catholic speed dating while maintaining traditional femininity and assessing potential partners for suitability.

  • Why does Paige encourage viewers to join the TCF YouTube Channel membership?

    -She encourages joining to access exclusive content and additional perks that are not available publicly, providing extra guidance and resources.

  • What are the two key articles Paige recommends reading before attending a speed dating event?

    -The two articles are 'Early Dating Red Flags' and 'Stages of a Traditional Catholic Courtship.' These provide guidance on spotting red flags and understanding the phases of courtship.

  • How does Paige suggest assessing men during a speed dating event?

    -She suggests observing men's body language, checking if they can maintain a conversation, and looking for early red flags.

  • Why does Paige consider speed dating more feminine than online dating?

    -Because it allows women to quickly filter out unsuitable men without giving unrestricted access to their personal space, maintaining exclusivity and control.

  • What is Paige's advice regarding the first three months after meeting someone at a speed dating event?

    -She advises using the first three months to assess red flags, check background information, ensure stability, and determine compatibility before exclusivity is established.

  • How should a woman respond if a man asks for exclusivity too early?

    -She should respond politely and lightheartedly, indicating she is enjoying getting to know him but prefers to wait until a more appropriate time, usually one to three months.

  • What are some guidelines Paige gives for communication during the early dating period?

    -Keep phone calls short and limited, avoid texting excessively, respond with measured timing, and maintain emotional detachment to assess the man's character clearly.

  • How does Paige suggest evaluating a man's suitability beyond physical appearance?

    -Look for virtue, stability, proper behavior, lack of red flags, and alignment with traditional Catholic values rather than focusing solely on looks.

  • What is Paige's overall philosophy on dating and maintaining femininity?

    -Women should remain exclusive, discerning, and mindful of their time and emotional investment. Speed dating can be a tool to identify compatible partners while upholding traditional Catholic values and femininity.

  • What should a woman do if red flags appear after exchanging details with a potential partner?

    -She should calmly and quickly end the connection without detailing the red flags, avoiding teaching the man to manipulate or deceive better.

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