Make this mindset shift to get more women (dating is like sales)

Summary

This video script advocates a sales-oriented approach to dating, emphasizing the importance of lead generation and exposure. It suggests that men should improve their value as 'products' to stand out in the dating market, akin to creating a valuable product in sales. The script also advises not to emotionally invest too deeply in any single lead, to always be 'closing', and to ensure a positive experience for potential partners, as this can lead to repeat 'customers' and a good reputation, which is crucial for both short-term and long-term relationship success.

Takeaways

• 🧠 The critical mindset shift is to approach dating like sales, where effort and strategy are key, rather than relying on luck or looks alone.
• 🚀 Lead generation is crucial in both sales and dating; increasing exposure to potential leads (women) increases the chances of success.
• 💡 The speaker suggests creating a valuable 'product' (self-improvement) to be more attractive in the dating market.
• 🔄 Consistency in seeking out women, either online or in person, is compared to daily work in sales to maintain a flow of potential leads.
• 💼 A job in an environment with many women and a degree of status can be a strategic advantage in dating, similar to a good sales position.
• 🌐 Online dating strategies should involve using premium services and sending out a high volume of messages consistently.
• 🏋️‍♂️ For those with less exposure, developing a social life and pursuing new hobbies can increase the chances of meeting potential partners.
• 💡 Building self-confidence by improving weak points can make it easier to attract and maintain interest from women, akin to believing in the product you sell.
• 🤝 Avoid emotionally investing too much in any single lead, and always be gathering new leads, similar to a salesperson's approach.
• 🔄 Be prepared for fluctuations in dating success, and always have multiple potential partners in the pipeline to avoid disappointment.
• 🌟 Providing a positive experience is crucial for customer retention in sales and for maintaining interest in dating, emphasizing the importance of treating people well.

Q & A

What is the critical mindset shift suggested for approaching dating?

The critical mindset shift is to view dating as a process similar to sales, where effort and strategy are required rather than relying on luck or looks alone.

Why is it important to create a valuable 'product' in the context of dating?

Creating a valuable 'product' in dating means improving oneself to be more attractive and desirable, making it easier to convert potential dates into meaningful relationships.

What does the speaker mean by 'lead generation' in the context of dating?

Lead generation in dating refers to putting oneself in situations where there is a high chance of meeting potential partners, similar to driving traffic to a product in sales.

Why is it suggested to pay for a premium version of a dating app?

Paying for a premium version of a dating app can increase exposure and the ability to send a high volume of messages, which is part of the strategy to generate more leads.

What is the role of status in meeting women in person according to the script?

Having a job that positions you in a place of status and in an environment with many attractive women can increase the chances of meeting potential partners.

What is the importance of developing a social life for those with less exposure to women?

Developing a social life helps increase exposure to potential partners and allows for the pursuit of new hobbies and experiences that can attract women.

How does the speaker relate the concept of 'always be closing' to dating?

In dating, 'always be closing' means to continuously pursue potential partners and not emotionally invest too much in any single one, similar to a salesperson managing multiple leads.

What is the significance of providing a good experience in both sales and dating?

A good experience leads to customer retention in sales and repeat interest or positive word-of-mouth in dating, making it crucial for long-term success.

Why is it advised not to treat women poorly even if one wants to stay single and play the field?

Treating women poorly can lead to a bad reputation that spreads quickly, reducing the chances of future positive interactions and potentially causing missed opportunities.

What is the speaker's personal philosophy regarding treating people in the context of dating?

The speaker's personal philosophy is to play it cool and be good to people, believing that this approach pays off in the long run and avoids the need for manipulative tactics.

How does the script relate customer retention to long-term relationships?

Customer retention in the context of a long-term relationship means maintaining a positive and satisfying experience to ensure the relationship's longevity.