7 HARSH Truths about WOMEN, Men Learn TOO Late
Summary
TLDRDieses Video-Skript enthüllt harte Fakten über Frauen und stellt Missverständnisse zwischen Männern und Frauen auf der Partnersuche auf. Es betont, dass Frauen nicht als Prinzessinnen behandelt oder verehrt werden sollten, sondern als gleichwertige Partner. Es erklärt, dass Frauen Stärke, Sicherheit und klare Grenzen schätzen und dass Männer ihre Schwächen nicht offenbaren sollten, um Respekt zu erhalten. Des Weiteren werden die Herausforderungen thematisiert, die Männer in Beziehungen meistern müssen, und wie sie eine Beziehung erfolgreich gestalten können, indem sie sich auf ihre Ziele konzentrieren und nicht auf die Suche nach einer besseren Partnerin gehen.
Takeaways
- 🧐 Manche Männer sehen Frauen oft als komplizierte Wesen und haben Schwierigkeiten, die ideale Partnerin zu finden.
- 👑 Einige Männer neigen dazu, Frauen auf einem Podium zu verherrlichen, was zu Missverständnissen in Beziehungen führen kann.
- 🚻 Frauen sind einfache Menschen, die unterschiedliche生物学ische Funktionen haben und tendenziell emotionaler reagieren können.
- 💪 Frauen hassen Schwäche; Männer sollten daher nicht dargestellt werden, als wären sie schwach oder unentschlossen.
- 🛡️ Frauen benötigen Sicherheit und Fürsorge, was bedeutet, dass sie einen Partner suchen, der für sie sorgen kann.
- 🙅♂️ Frauen verabscheuen Menschen, die ständig zustimmen und versuchen, Konflikte zu vermeiden (People Pleasers).
- 👸 Manche Männer behandeln Frauen wie Prinzessinnen, was nicht notwendig ist, da Frauen Verantwortung übernehmen und gleichberechtigt behandelt werden möchten.
- 🚫 Grenzen sind wichtig; Männer sollten klare Grenzen setzen und diese achten, um Respekt zu erhalten.
- 💔 Tests kommen häufig vor; Frauen testen Männer, um ihre Stärke und Verlässlichkeit zu überprüfen.
- 🔄 Frauen suchen stets nach einem besseren Partner, was dazu führen kann, dass sie nach jemandem Ausschau halten, der ihnen mehr bieten kann.
- 👴 Ältere Männer können durch ihr Leben und ihre Erfahrungen in Beziehungen Vorteile bringen und können Männern Tipps geben, wie sie ihre Beziehungen verbessern können.
Q & A
Wie werden Frauen oft von Männern gesehen?
-Frauen werden oft als komplizierte Wesen gesehen, und viele Männer haben Schwierigkeiten, ihre ideale Partnerin zu finden, weil sie nicht erkennen, dass Frauen einfach nur durchschnittliche Menschen sind und nicht als Königinnen oder Götter verehrt werden sollten.
Was ist einer der Gründe, warum einige Männer in Beziehungen scheitern?
-Einige Männer glauben, Frauen seien überlegen und besser als Männer, was oft dazu führt, dass sie in Beziehungen scheitern, indem sie zu sehr auf Frauen achten.
Was ist das erste Missverständnis, das im Video angesprochen wird?
-Das erste Missverständnis ist, dass Frauen wie Prinzessinnen behandelt werden sollen und sie dies so behandelt werden wollen.
Was unterscheidet Respekt von Verehrung?
-Respekt bedeutet, Menschen wie jeden anderen zu behandeln, während Verehrung bedeutet, dass man jemanden so hochschätzt, dass man ihn oder sie fast verherrlicht.
Welche Rolle spielt die Hormonbalance im Verhalten von Frauen?
-Die Hormonbalance, insbesondere der Überschuss an Östrogen im Körper von Frauen, kann dazu führen, dass sie emotionaler reagieren und unterschiedlich als Männer wahrgenommen werden.
Was ist eine der harten Wahrheiten, die im Video über Frauen offenbart werden?
-Eine der harten Wahrheiten ist, dass Frauen Schwäche nicht mögen und es für sie schwierig finden können, Respekt für jemanden zu haben, der Schwächen offenbart.
Was ist das, was Frauen am meisten in einer Beziehung suchen?
-Frauen suchen nach Sicherheit und jemandem, der für sie sorgen kann, da es ihnen hilft, sich in der Beziehung sicher und erfüllt zu fühlen.
Was bedeutet es, wenn im Video gesagt wird, dass Frauen nicht als Prinzessinnen behandelt werden sollten?
-Es bedeutet, dass Frauen nicht als zu brechlich oder defensivlos angesehen werden sollten, die in Schutz gehüllt werden müssen, sondern dass sie als gleichwertige Partner behandelt werden sollten.
Was sind Grenzen und warum sind sie in einer Beziehung wichtig?
-Grenzen sind Regeln und Prinzipien, die in einer Beziehung festgelegt werden, um die Integrität und die individuellen Bedürfnisse jedes Partners zu schützen. Sie sind wichtig, um Respekt und ein ausgewogenes Verhältnis zu gewährleisten.
Wie können Männer Tests von Frauen in einer Beziehung vermeiden?
-Männer können Tests vermeiden, indem sie Grenzen setzen, pragmatisch bleiben und sich aus emotionalen Konflikten zurückziehen, die darauf abzielen, Schwächen auszuloten.
Was bedeutet es, wenn Frauen ständig nach einem besseren Partner suchen?
-Es bedeutet, dass Frauen auf der Suche nach jemandem sind, der ihnen helfen kann, das Leben so bequem und komfortabel wie möglich zu gestalten, was oft mit einem erfolgreichen und zuverlässigen Partner einhergeht.
Outlines
😕 Vorurteile gegenüber Frauen und Beziehungen
Dieses Absatz thematisiert die Herausforderungen, die Männer bei der Suche nach einer Partnerin haben, und stellt einige Vorurteile und Missverständnisse über Frauen auf. Es wird argumentiert, dass viele Männer glauben, Frauen seien überlegen und sollten verehrt werden, was zu Beziehungsproblemen führen kann. Der Text betont die Bedeutung von Respekt gegenüber Frauen, ohne sie jedoch zu verherrlichen, und deutet darauf hin, dass Frauen als gleichwertige Partner betrachtet werden sollten, die Emotionen, aber auch Schwächen haben sollten. Zudem werden einige harte Wahrheiten über Frauen angekündigt, die für Männer wichtig zu verstehen sind, um erfolgreiche Beziehungen zu führen.
💪 Stärke und Sicherheit als Schlüssel in Beziehungen
Der zweite Absatz konzentriert sich auf die Bedeutung von Stärke und Sicherheit im Zusammenhang mit Frauen und Beziehungen. Es wird betont, dass Frauen eine gewisse Stabilität und einen Partner wünschen, der für sie sorgt. Die moderne Gesellschaft lehrt Frauen, sich selbst zu versorgen, aber tief in ihrem Herzen verlangen sie noch nach einem Mann, der ihnen Schutz bietet. Der Text erklärt, dass Männer verstanden haben müssen, dass Frauen nicht gefeiert, sondern respektiert und als gleichwertig behandelt werden müssen, um eine erfolgreiche Beziehung zu haben. Zudem wird die Bedeutung von Selbstverwirklichung und Zielorientierung für Männer hervorgehoben, um attraktiv zu sein und ein gutes Partner-Image zu haben.
🤔 Menschenpleasers und die Ablehnung von Schwäche
Dieser Absatz behandelt das Konzept des Menschenpleasers und warum Frauen solche Männer nicht mögen. Es wird erklärt, dass Frauen von Naturen aus eher zustimmend sind und dass Männer, die ständig zustimmen und Konflikte vermeiden, als schwach wahrgenommen werden. Der Text betont die Bedeutung von Selbstbewusstsein und der Fähigkeit, Nein zu sagen, ohne Arroganz. Es wird argumentiert, dass Frauen Männer bevorzugen, die eine klare Persönlichkeit haben und nicht ständig versuchen, ihr Leben um sie herum zu kreisen. Der Fokus sollte darauf liegen, selbstbewusst zu sein und Grenzen zu setzen, ohne dabei die Fähigkeit zu verlieren, die eigene Persönlichkeit und die eigenen Ziele zu verteidigen.
👑 Frauen als Partner und nicht als Prinzessinnen
In diesem Absatz wird das Missverständnis, Frauen als Prinzessinnen zu behandeln, thematisiert. Es wird betont, dass Frauen nicht in Schutz gehüllt oder auf einer Soße gestellt werden sollten, sondern dass sie gleichberechtigte Partner sind, die Verantwortung und gleiche Behandlung verlangen. Der Text erklärt, dass Frauen in der modernen Welt bereits Verantwortung übernommen haben und dass Männer lernen müssen, sie nicht als zu brechlich zu behandeln. Es wird auch auf die Bedeutung von Intimität und der Freiheit, Fantasien auszuleben, ohne Hemmungen, hingewiesen.
🚫 Grenzen setzen und Beziehungsstabilität
Der fünfte Absatz konzentriert sich auf die Notwendigkeit, Grenzen in einer Beziehung einzuhalten. Es wird betont, dass Frauen Männer respektieren, die klare Regeln haben und diese einhalten. Der Text erklärt, dass Männer verstanden haben müssen, wann sie zurücktreten müssen und wann sie Grenzen setzen, um ihre eigenen Ziele und Träume zu verfolgen. Es wird auch darauf hingewiesen, dass Frauen von Männern erwartet wird, sie zu korrigieren, wenn sie zu dramatisch sind oder Zeit verschwenden, und dass sie es schätzen, wenn Männer Zeit für ihre eigenen Ziele brauchen.
💥 Mit Herausforderungen umgehen und Beziehungsstärke
In diesem Absatz werden die Herausforderungen thematisiert, denen Männer in einer Beziehung gegenüberstehen. Es wird erklärt, dass Frauen ihre Partner ständig testen, um ihre Stärke und ihren Charakter zu überprüfen. Der Text betont die Wichtigkeit, nicht in emotionale Diskussionen verwickelt zu werden, die als Tests aufgefasst werden können, und rät, sich aus solchen Situationen zurückzuziehen, um die Beziehungsstabilität zu erhalten. Es wird auch darauf hingewiesen, dass Frauen nach einem starken Partner suchen, der in der Lage ist, Herausforderungen zu meistern und nicht von ihnen überwältigt zu werden.
🔍 Ständige Suche nach einem besseren Partner
Der siebte und letzte Absatz des Skripts beschäftigt sich mit der Tatsache, dass Frauen ständig nach einem besseren Partner suchen, der ihr und ihren zukünftigen Kindern das bestmögliche Leben bieten kann. Es wird betont, dass Männer sich selbst verbessern und erfolgreich sein sollten, um attraktiv für ihre Partner zu bleiben. Der Text erklärt, dass Frauen und Männer beide die Verantwortung tragen, ein gutes Leben für ihre Familie zu schaffen und dass dies ein gemeinsames Ziel sein sollte. Es wird auch darauf hingewiesen, dass Männer von älteren Männern lernen können, wie sie ihr Lebenserfahrung im Vorteil nutzen, um in Beziehungen erfolgreich zu sein.
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Keywords
💡Kompliziertheit
💡Respekt
💡Schwäche
💡Sicherheit
💡Grenzen
💡Tests
💡Menschengefälligkeit
💡Verantwortung
💡Unabhängigkeit
💡Selbstverbesserung
Highlights
Men often struggle to find their ideal mate due to misconceptions about women being superior or needing to be placed on a pedestal.
Psychology and personal experience are used to reveal harsh truths about women to challenge traditional beliefs.
Women are human beings with their own unique traits, including emotional tendencies due to hormonal differences.
Respect for women is essential, but it should not cross into worship, which can lead to unhealthy relationship dynamics.
Women dislike weakness in men and appreciate a strong, leading figure in a relationship.
Society's perception of men's strength is changing, but men must still avoid appearing weak to maintain respect in relationships.
Women need to feel secure and cared for, which is fundamental to their desire for a successful relationship.
Men should focus on their goals and avoid being overly emotional to provide stability in a relationship.
Women are not princesses and do not require being treated with excessive reverence or protection.
Boundaries are crucial in relationships, and men should maintain them to ensure mutual respect.
Women test men to find weaknesses and assert power in relationships, which men should be aware of and manage.
Women seek partners who can provide a comfortable life for raising children, prompting men to strive for success.
Men should not be people pleasers; instead, they should stand their ground and avoid constant agreement.
Women appreciate men who take responsibility and are willing to lead, rather than those who are passive.
The transcript suggests that understanding these truths can help men navigate relationships more effectively.
Transcripts
women are often seen as complicated
beings and many men struggle when it
comes to finding their ideal mate the
reason for this is that certain men
struggle to realize that women are
nothing more than average and they don't
deserve to be placed on a pedestal as
some kind of queen or God that you are
worshiping unfortunately some too many
men still believe women are the superior
and better of the two and this often
makes them fail significantly when it
comes to relationships and they are far
more likely to screw things up up by
being as they are to women this should
all stop today as we use the power of
psychology and some personal experience
to expose some of the harsh truths about
women now keep in mind that this might
come as a shock to you and there are
huge chances you might need to change
your belief system when it comes to
women but let's look at some of the
things that men often get wrong first
things men don't understand about women
now it's pretty clear that you have
selected this video as you want to learn
some of the hard truths that women often
want a man to know however we should
first look at some of the misconceptions
that should help steer you in the
direction of knowing what you should and
shouldn't do one of the first things
that you have likely been taught is that
women are like princesses and they want
to be treated as such in fact many men
are taught this and when they grow up
with a sister or predominantly female
influence in the household they will
always believe that women are simply one
step above them now obviously there is
nothing wrong with teaching children
this and respect is something that every
person needs to understand however
respect and worshiping a woman are to
completely different things and many men
find themselves in some extremely bad
situations where they end up worshiping
the woman this is often when she chooses
to pull away the thing to realize and
what you will find out in this video is
that women are simply human beings that
use the bathroom differently not only
this but they also tend to be far more
emotional but this is expected due to
the abundance of estrogen in her body
one thing you need to do before we enter
the main part of this video and reveal
some of the harsh truths about women is
to understand that the only thing you
need to do correctly is to be respectful
much like you would with any other
person now some of these truths might be
a little dark and some might even seem
ridiculous to many people but the female
mind is complicated and we assure you
that when you watch until the end of
this video it will all come together and
make sense why women want to be treated
in some specific way let's dive in
number one women hate weakness one of
the most important lessons that you
could learn from a very young age in
your life is how not to be weak you see
the problem with being weak is that you
remove the element of Desire from the
relationship by looking at the Dynamics
of a standard relationship you will find
that the man is often the leader and he
chooses to allow a woman to see his
somewhat cold emotional side
unfortunately many women have chosen to
pry a little deeper and this has helped
them uncover some of the deep secrets
about men and now the whole world
believes that men have been strong for
too long however the biggest problem is
that men also believe that they've been
strong for too long and they believe
that they deserve to be weak for a
little bit this is one of the major
problems that Society is facing now as
there is no one willing to carry the
mantle and take responsibility for their
actions this can be seen in virtually
every Walk of Life where men have chosen
to reveal their weaknesses and allow
women to be able to know all of these
secrets you see even though she'll tell
you that it's okay to show some weakness
it never really is and the moment you
reveal that you're not the man that can
remain strong she slowly loses some
respect for you in the process men think
that by sharing their feelings with some
women that now they will respect them
well no she will not respect you as
you've now given her the keys to the
engine room and she can figure out
what's going on to make you tick and how
your mind works women don't necessarily
want to be your best friend or Saving
Grace but much rather want to ensure
that they are secure enough in any
relationship to be in control once they
take this control the relationship is
bound to fail and women generally steer
them off a cliff so to save your
relationship you cannot afford to show
her any weakness as tempting as it might
seem to share some of your sad secrets
you are better off by choosing one of
your more trusted male friends men will
give you more logical advice in any case
and these will actually be things that
could change or improve your life number
two women need to feel secure and cared
for this one might not be as outlandish
as some of the others might seem but one
of the most important things that women
truly desire is some security and
someone who can provide for them you see
many men have been taught from a young
age especially in the modern era that
women will take care of themselves with
women empowerment On The Rise there are
tons of women now achieving success in
virtually every Walk of Life but deep
down inside her Beating Heart she still
desperately craves the protection and
security that someone needs to show her
in order to feel fulfilled in some of
our other videos we've already described
the three important things that women
want and this is protection someone who
provides for them and a man who is
willing to profess his love to her all
the time the reason she wants these
three things is simply because it'll
make her feel safe and secure within the
confines of the relationship but there's
something even better if she can find a
man who offers protection and provides
she will be the one who constantly
chases after the professing of love and
this is what you want in fact she should
be the one constantly chasing love
whilst you are the one providing and
working to move the relationship forward
however this also goes deeper and as a
man you need to understand that as long
as you cannot provide her with a solid
life she will never truly be fulfilled
and you will always run the risk of her
choosing someone who is far better and
brings more to the table you will need
to be completely focused on your goal
and your purpose whilst avoiding the
emotional disarray that some women might
come to cause in your life and would
often be detrimental to the success of
the relationship in fact some of the
things are designed to continually test
you and figure out if you truly are the
best mate it also means that for a while
in your life you might need to set aside
your desire for women in dating and
focus on your future once you become
someone who's accomplished something
worth noting The Dating Game changes
significantly but here's a little secret
just simply go out and accomplish
something no one truly cares what it is
that you accomplish but you need to at
least seem as if you're the kind of guy
who has the skills to make things happen
if you cannot make things happen you are
steering down a bad Road and eventually
women will choose the men who've
accomplished something in life number
three women hate people Pleasers if
you've been a follower of the great Dr
Jordan Peterson you have more than
likely heard one of his speeches that
revolve around people being either
agreeable or disagreeable you see women
have naturally agreeable personalities
which means that they're averted by
things like conflict or arguments men on
the other hand often find themselves
being more disagreeable and this often
stems from their ego where they focus on
being the person that's always right now
there's a very fine line that splits
confidence and arrogance from one
another and this is one of the main
distinctions that you will need to make
somewhere in your life However the fact
of the matter is that women simply
detest people Pleasers and whenever you
are one of those guys who continually
tries to impress her and always
apologizes when things go wrong she will
immediately see you and label you as
weak you see whenever a woman comes
close to such a man she will very likely
choose to leave him in the dark and
rather focus on someone who's a little
more disagreeable the best way to
understand this is to consider that one
is a yes man who constantly says yes and
tries to avoid conflict and the other is
the rebellious bad boy since bad boy
personalities tend to push the envelope
in life and seem rather unique they
automatically stand out from the rest of
the crowd and this is one of the reasons
why women end up in relationships that
often turn out to be toxic what does
this mean for you well you don't need to
completely shift to the opposite end of
the spectrum you should just learn when
to say no and when to remove yourself
from situations since women claim to be
strong and powerful they should use this
to solve some of their own problems and
to fight the battles that life has given
them you cannot fight all of her battles
for her so the lesson here is to stop
sacrificing yourself and trying to be
the superhero who saves the day
unfortunately these things are only
scripted events in comic books and
movies that work and the real woman
wants a man who's slightly more edgy and
not afraid to call her on her mistakes
there needs to be something more than
the mundane number four women are not
princesses that need bubble wrap this
one can be a little unique and you
probably haven't heard this before aside
from in this video but she doesn't need
to be placed on a pedestal you see
whenever some men see a woman they
immediately see a broken and defenseless
being that needs to be wrapped up in
some bubble wrap and protected from the
world some men have so much respect for
women that they're even unwilling to be
the one who makes the first move and
this is where they kill themselves in
the relationship game you see a woman
truly wants to be treated the same way
she deserves to be treated and she also
wants some kind of responsibility the
thing about the modern world is that
certain women have already adopted this
kind of responsibility due to being in
an endless string of bad relationships
with men who are unwilling to put in the
work and take responsibility this also
translate to moments when the two of you
find yourself being intimate with one
another you don't need to hold back out
of fear and women often want a guy to be
fully invested and also live out as
fantasies well hopefully your fantasies
are not too crazy or out of this world
and this will work wonders we touched on
the pedestal fact a little earlier but
it truly deserves a point of its own and
women want a man that treats them as
equals or even someone beneath them the
reason for this comes from her inability
to take responsibility and
accountability since you're the one
taking on these incredibly stressful
roles she wants to be the one who
respects you for it this also creates
some form of loss in her mind and now
she knows that there's no other man that
can carry these burdens with her make
sure that you treat her the way she
deserves and don't give her any more
respect than she has earned number five
boundaries are very important linking to
the three previous truths women want a
man who can set boundaries and actually
keep to them you see many men who
receive some attention from a woman
believe that they now need to give up
all their own rules and principles for
her this eventually leads to them
compromising themselves to such a level
that they eventually end up standing for
nothing the key word here is that of
respect and you need to make sure that
women truly respect you and make sure
that if they respect you they are
willing to live with these boundaries
you have set but when it comes to
boundaries you need to understand
exactly how deep this actually goes you
see she wants you to tell her when she's
being unnecessarily dramatic and simply
just wasting your time she also wants to
know that during certain times of the
day you're busy chasing your goals and
focusing on your purpose which means
that this is a time that you should not
be bothered once again a multitude of
things will go through her mind and one
of these things is often that she might
lose you or that you're not giving her
enough of your time and attention once
you manage to overcome this issue she
will be the one who constantly chases
you which removes the relationship
pressure from you to focus on other more
important things in your life now keep
in mind that early on in the
relationship or honeymoon phase as many
people choose to call it this is
incredibly important and will Aid in
making the initial attraction much
higher you don't want to spam with your
presence but rather make her wait and
she'll be much happier to see you you
want to avoid those couple situations
where two people are in a relationship
but they're drifting apart and no one
truly cares if they get to see the other
person that day but when you're doing
this make sure that you're not playing
games and that when you don't spend your
time with her you have a solid reason
the reason needs to be something that's
in your best interest number six tests
will come thick and fast one of the
truths that many men often forget about
as they age or enter a relationship is
that she will constantly test them
however you have just learned about
setting boundaries and your boundar
should serve as a decent barrier or
filter to filter out some of the useless
tests that she's come up with however
you will be tested endlessly and she
will continue to seek any possible
weakness in your masculine frame as a
way of making sure that she has some
power in the relationship whenever she's
achieved her level of desired power
she'll have you figured out and the Rel
relationship is often good as dead these
tests can be very complicated but the
moment you realize that arguments or
conversations are focusing too much on
emotional things you can simply back off
and remove yourself from this situation
since men tend to be far more pragmatic
we often struggle when being roped into
the emotional minds of women and it can
be confusing the best way to get through
most of these tests is to avoid them
unless they're actually worth engaging
in them you don't want to find yourself
caught up in our games the chance of Los
losing is too high so the point of this
is to make you aware that challenges
will come and the more she knows you the
more intense and aggressive some of
these challenges will turn out to be as
a man you should be the one who chooses
to get out of them number seven she's
always seeking a better partner as we
have mentioned some of these truths
might hit you a little harder than
others and this one is definitely one
such rule you see women are always on
the lookout for someone better looking
more successful and more Mas
the reason for this is that she's
seeking a partner who can help her bring
new life into this world in the most
comfortable way possible as a man you
should also work toward this goal of
making the bearing and birth of children
as easy and comfortable as possible if
you constantly focus on the insecurity
of her dumping you your mind will become
so confused that you'll eventually
Manifest this happening it can be a
tricky and slippery slope women might
seem complicated but if you have the
means and the power to be someone of
note and stand up for who you are things
should be a little easier for you but
make sure you check out how older men
use this life experience to their
advantage next you might learn something
from the approaches of older men
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