13 *horrible* truths about living in London

Summary

In this video, the speaker debunks common myths about life in London, having lived there for almost a decade. They discuss misconceptions like London's constant rain, its crowded nature, and the idea that it’s only for the rich. While acknowledging some truths, like the city's high cost of living and occasional flaky social behavior, the speaker emphasizes the city's warmth, kindness, and vibrant atmosphere. Ultimately, they express deep affection for London, sharing personal experiences and offering insight into how living in a big city shapes one's sense of belonging and community.

Takeaways

• 😀 London is expensive, and you need a good salary to live decently in the city, with many people unable to afford desirable areas.
• 🌦️ Despite popular belief, London doesn't always rain. The weather is often beautiful with light clouds and sun, making it great for walking around.
• 🤷‍♀️ One myth about Londoners is that they are flaky, with frequent cancellations and late arrivals. This is true for many people in the city.
• 😊 Londoners are generally kind and helpful, although rude people can still be found, especially in touristy areas.
• 🏙️ London's class system is very evident, with noticeable wealth disparity. There is a mix of snobbism and working-class pride in the city.
• 🚶‍♀️ London is often perceived as crowded, but it depends on where you are. Areas away from central hotspots can be calm and quiet.
• 💰 The wealth gap in London is significant, with daily life drastically differing between the working, middle, and upper classes.
• 🧹 London is cleaner than expected, though some might still consider it dirty compared to other cities like Stockholm.
• 🤝 While scams are not unique to London, there is a tendency for people to be less trustworthy, and newcomers often need to be cautious.
• 🏠 Many London flats are substandard, making housing a significant issue for many residents.
• 🛡️ London is not particularly dangerous, though safety varies depending on the area and the individual, and the city overall is safer than many places for women.

Q & A

Is London really as expensive as people say it is?

Yes, London is quite expensive. While you don't have to be 'stinking rich' to live there, you definitely need a good salary to live comfortably and safely in decent areas. Many people struggle to afford desirable areas, and homeownership is a distant dream for most Londoners due to high property prices.

Is the myth about London's weather always being rainy true?

No, the myth that it always rains in London is false. While London does experience frequent light showers, it rarely rains for long periods of time. In fact, London has a surprisingly sunny climate with mild temperatures, making it ideal for walking around the city.

Are Londoners really as flaky as people say?

Unfortunately, yes. Many Londoners have a reputation for being flaky, often canceling plans or arriving late. This can be frustrating for those who come from cultures where punctuality and commitment are more valued.

Are Londoners rude and stressed?

In general, Londoners are not rude. While you might encounter some rude individuals, most Londoners are polite, kind, and helpful. For instance, locals might greet you with a smile or help with directions, especially outside tourist areas.

Is there a lot of snobbism in London?

Yes, snobbism is prevalent, especially among the wealthy and those who have attended prestigious universities like Oxbridge. However, there is also a strong sense of working-class pride, with people from different social backgrounds displaying love and pride for their areas.

Is London really as crowded and loud as people think?

It can be, but it depends on where you are in the city. Popular areas like Oxford Street can be very crowded, but it's easy to find quieter, peaceful spots just a street or two away. The perception of crowds is also relative; after living in London for a while, you may find quieter cities feel too empty.

How significant is the wealth gap in London?

The wealth gap in London is stark, with a massive difference between the living conditions of working-class, middle-class, and upper-class residents. This inequality is a major issue, with high rent prices and property costs making it difficult for many to live in decent conditions.

Is London really dirty compared to other cities?

Not really. London is generally clean, especially in residential areas, though there are some areas that can feel dirtier. While not perfect, it is not significantly dirtier than other major cities.

Can you trust people in London, or is it a city full of scams?

Unfortunately, scams and deceit are common in London, and it's important to be vigilant. Whether dealing with companies or service providers, many people, including doctors or phone companies, may try to deceive you. It's crucial to develop a strong sense of discernment to avoid being tricked.

Are London flats really substandard?

Yes, many flats in London are considered substandard, especially in terms of size and quality. The housing market is highly competitive, and many properties are overpriced for their condition, leading to poor living standards for some residents.