Why women love Bad Boys over Nice Guys
Summary
TLDRThis video explores various aspects of gender dynamics and relationships, focusing on why women are drawn to certain media like true crime and toxic relationships, while men often misunderstand the appeal. It discusses the idea of 'nice guys' versus masculine men, emphasizing that women are attracted to men who have options but choose to be kind. The video also critiques the 'ho phase,' claiming it harms a woman’s emotional health, and touches on relationship examples like Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively, as well as Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen. Finally, it promotes a course aimed at helping men enhance their masculinity and self-respect.
Takeaways
- 😀 Women are fascinated by human nature, emotional connections, and relationships, which is why reality TV and true crime shows resonate with them more than other genres.
- 😀 Women are naturally more adept at handling negative emotions, such as anxiety or neuroticism, which is why they are comfortable engaging with darker, more intense media themes.
- 😀 Men often avoid negative emotions and are less likely to engage with emotionally complex media, as they don't experience the same hormonal fluctuations and emotional depths that women do.
- 😀 Women are not interested in 'nice guys' who are nice out of default due to a lack of masculinity or options; they are attracted to men who are naturally masculine but choose kindness and respect.
- 😀 The most attractive men are those who have the option to be bad but choose to be good, signaling emotional maturity and strength of character.
- 😀 Men can improve their chances with women by focusing on appearance, self-care, and maintaining a strong physical presence—qualities that women find attractive and that boost self-confidence.
- 😀 Women are more drawn to men who dress well, exercise, and take care of their grooming, as it demonstrates confidence, discipline, and self-respect.
- 😀 The idea of 'wife material' often excludes women who participate in platforms like OnlyFans, due to concerns about loyalty and traditional values, though this view can vary depending on personal values and agreements in relationships.
- 😀 The 'ho phase' in a woman's life—where she explores sexual freedom—can lower standards and negatively impact mental health, making it harder to build healthy relationships later on.
- 😀 Women who have experienced emotionally detached encounters during their 'ho phase' may struggle to establish high relationship standards, leading to a lower quality of future dating experiences.
- 😀 Public relationships, like that of Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen, highlight the challenges of balancing career commitments, personal time, and emotional connection, which can lead to tension and eventual separation.
Q & A
Why are women more interested in shows about serial killers and toxic relationships?
-Women are generally more fascinated by human nature and the complexity of emotions, which is why they gravitate towards shows that explore these darker themes. They are also more adept at handling negative emotions, making them more receptive to content that delves into neurotic and intense psychological aspects of human behavior.
How do women differ from men in dealing with negative emotions?
-Women are said to be naturally more adept at handling and experiencing negative emotions, partly due to hormonal influences and societal expectations. This makes them more capable of engaging with content that revolves around negative emotions, such as anxiety or drama, whereas men often avoid such emotional experiences.
What is the problem with 'nice guys' according to the speaker?
-The problem with 'nice guys' is that they often lack masculine energy and are nice out of default, not choice. Women find men attractive when they have the ability to be bad or assertive but choose to be kind. A man who has options but chooses to be nice is seen as more desirable than a man who is nice because he has no alternatives.
What kind of man do women find attractive?
-Women are attracted to men who display masculine traits, have options, and can make a conscious decision to be kind. They appreciate men who are strong, assertive, and perhaps a bit 'bad' or rugged, but who choose to treat them with respect and kindness.
How important is physical appearance when approaching women?
-Physical appearance is very important when approaching women. Men who invest in their appearance by working out, dressing well, and maintaining a good hairstyle are more likely to attract attention. While women may claim to like 'dad bods,' the speaker argues that this is often not the case, and appearance does play a significant role in attraction.
What is the 'ho phase' and how does it impact women?
-The 'ho phase' refers to a period when women experiment with casual relationships and sexual encounters. The speaker suggests that this phase can be detrimental to a woman's mental health because it lowers her standards for future relationships and creates emotional baggage that she carries into new partnerships.
Is it necessary for women to go through the 'ho phase'?
-According to the speaker, the 'ho phase' is not necessary for women. Engaging in multiple casual relationships can lower a woman's standards and lead to negative emotional consequences. Instead, the speaker advocates for maintaining high standards and avoiding the emotional toll that such experiences can cause.
What qualities define 'wife material' according to the conversation?
-The qualities that define 'wife material' include loyalty, modesty, and a commitment to monogamy. Women who expose themselves to strangers on platforms like OnlyFans are seen as not aligning with these traditional values, and thus not considered 'wife material.'
Can women who create content on OnlyFans still be good partners?
-While women on OnlyFans can be successful and independent, the speaker argues that they do not embody traditional values like loyalty and modesty, which are typically associated with 'wife material.' However, they can still be good partners in some situations, especially if their relationship is built on mutual understanding and respect.
What is the impact of emotional baggage from past relationships?
-Emotional baggage from past relationships, especially from the 'ho phase,' can negatively affect future relationships. The speaker suggests that casual encounters may lower standards and make it harder for women to form healthy, lasting partnerships because they may develop unhealthy expectations or emotional wounds from previous experiences.
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