Use These to Be Popular in School or Anywhere! (body language hacks to get people to like you)
Summary
TLDRThis video offers psychology-backed body language hacks to enhance likability and charisma. Key tips include maintaining open body language, avoiding fake smiles, mirroring the conversation's tone, and the 'chameleon effect' of subtly mimicking a conversation partner. The video also discusses the subconscious impact of gestures like eyebrow flashes and head tilts, which signal trust and friendliness. Additionally, it touches on the power of touch, like high fives, to release bonding chemicals.
Takeaways
- 📊 55% of communication is non-verbal, 38% is vocal, and only 7% is from the words spoken.
- 🤗 Open body language makes people feel more comfortable and friendly towards you.
- 🙅♀️ Avoid fake smiling as it can subconsciously repel people; genuine smiles are more effective.
- 🧍♂️ Matching your body language to the tone of the conversation helps establish rapport.
- 🤝 Mimicking body language (the chameleon effect) can make the other person feel more connected to you.
- 😉 The eyebrow flash is a subtle body language cue that signals friendliness and openness.
- 👂 Nodding and leaning in while listening makes the speaker feel heard and appreciated.
- 🔄 Repeating the last few words of what the other person said can reassure them that you're actively listening.
- 🙌 High fives or light touches can release oxytocin, promoting bonding and trust.
- 🖖 Showing your wrists can subconsciously signal trustworthiness and friendliness.
- 🎥 The video offers additional psychology hacks for self-confidence and likability beyond body language.
Q & A
What is the percentage of communication that is non-verbal according to the script?
-55% of communication is non-verbal.
How much of communication is attributed to vocal cues in the transcript?
-38% of communication is vocal.
What percentage of communication is actually from the words we say, as mentioned in the video script?
-Only 7% of communication comes from the words we say.
What is the main focus of the video script?
-The main focus of the video script is to share body language hacks that can make people like you.
What is the significance of having an open body language according to the transcript?
-Having an open body language makes people feel better subconsciously towards you because it feels like you are more friendly and open towards them.
Why is it a mistake to fake a smile according to the psychology student in the script?
-It's a mistake to fake a smile because studies show that people are good at distinguishing between real and fake smiles on a subconscious level, and they feel repelled by fake smiles.
What is the 'chameleon effect' mentioned in the script?
-The 'chameleon effect' is when you mimic the body language of the person you're talking to in a natural and subtle way to make them feel closer to you on a subconscious level.
What is the evolutionary basis for showing your wrists during a conversation as mentioned in the script?
-Showing your wrists during a conversation makes people feel like they trust you more because, on an evolutionary basis, seeing someone's hands indicates they don't have any weapons and are not a threat.
What is the significance of the 'eyebrow flash' in body language as described in the script?
-The 'eyebrow flash' is a subconscious indicator that you are not an enemy and mean no harm, which can make people feel good about you.
How can you make someone feel heard during a conversation according to the script?
-You can make someone feel heard by nodding slightly when they're talking and leaning in a little when listening to them.
What is the role of touch in creating a bond with someone as discussed in the script?
-Touch, such as a high five or tapping someone's arm, releases the chemical oxytocin which facilitates bonding.
Outlines
🧠 Psychology Hacks for Body Language
The speaker, a psychology student, introduces the video's focus on body language hacks to make people like you more. They explain the 55%-38%-7% rule of communication, emphasizing non-verbal cues. The video aims to share these hacks for various social situations like making friends or impressing a crush. The speaker also mentions incorporating makeup into the video and encourages subscribing for more psychology and self-development content.
🤝 Body Language Techniques and the Chameleon Effect
The speaker discusses various body language techniques to build trust and likability. They mention the importance of open body language, avoiding fake smiles, and matching the conversation's tone with appropriate gestures. The 'eyebrow flash' is highlighted as a subconscious sign of friendliness. The speaker also talks about the chameleon effect, where mimicking another person's body language can create a sense of connection. They suggest being mindful not to overdo it. The video concludes with tips on using touch, like high fives, to release bonding chemicals and showing wrists to subconsciously signal trust.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Non-verbal communication
💡Vocal communication
💡Words
💡Body language hacks
💡Open body language
💡Fake smiles
💡Matching body language
💡Eyebrow flash
💡Tilting head
💡Chameleon effect
💡High five
💡Showing wrists
Highlights
55% of communication is non-verbal, 38% is vocal, and only 7% is from the words you say.
Body language hacks can help you get people to like you without saying anything.
Charismatic people use certain body language techniques.
Open body language makes you seem more friendly and approachable.
Avoid faking a smile, as people can subconsciously detect it.
Match your body language to the tone of the conversation.
Adapt your body language to the person you're talking to for better rapport.
The eyebrow flash is a subconscious sign of friendliness.
Tilting your head during a conversation is a sign of trust.
Making people feel heard by nodding and leaning in can make them like you more.
Restate what the other person said to show you're listening.
The chameleon effect: subtly mimicking someone's body language can make them feel closer to you.
High fives or light touches can release oxytocin and facilitate bonding.
Showing your wrists can make people trust and like you more.
Psychology hacks can help you feel more confident and improve self-image.
Applying these body language hacks can make you more likable and charismatic.
Transcripts
as a psychology student I know that 55%
of communication is non-verbal while 38%
is vocal and only 7% is actually from
the words that you say I know so many
body language hacks that can help you
get people to like you without even you
saying anything these are some of the
things that the most charismatic people
use and I'm going to be sharing them
with you guys in this
video hi my best friends and welcome
back to my sleepover welcome to
psychology body language hacks to get
people to like you you can use these on
your crush to make more friends to be
more likable and charismatic in general
because as a psychology student I know
that they work so I'm going to be
sharing them with you guys in this video
while also doing my makeup if you're new
to my channel we talk about psychology
hacks confidence self-development and
how to be the best version of yourself
as well as some psychology movie
character analysis and what we can take
away from it to become the best versions
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watching this one and I'm super excited
for this video so let's get into it okay
so as usual I'm going to be starting
with more basic ones and getting towards
the more interesting ones towards the
end one thing I'm going to say is that
I'm going to mention the one that's the
most surprising as the last one and if
the first thing that I say is like oh
that makes sense but like I already knew
that just stick with the video because
I'm pretty sure that you're going to
find out things that you definitely
didn't know about I'm going to be
starting with my favorite concealer of
all time but basically starting off with
the first body language tip that you can
use to make people like you is honestly
tell me if you're going to notice the
the difference if you were talking to me
and I was talking to you the whole time
kind of like oh yeah like school was
great today and just honestly maybe even
turned away from you a little bit or if
I was talking to you with my posture
open if I was talking to you with my
hands if I didn't have my hands crossed
while talking to you if I had my whole
body kind of like open towards you would
you feel better talking to me in the
first scenario or would you feel better
talking to me in the second one chances
are that you would say that you would
feel better with the second one and
that's because when we're talking with
someone who has an open body language we
feel better subconsciously towards them
because subconsciously it feels like
that person is more friendly and open
towards us so when talking with someone
just make sure that your body is facing
them your feet are pointed towards them
that you don't have your arms crossed
and you have an open body language it is
so underrated but it's so crucial to
make the person feel open and friendly
towards you but here's also one thing
that a lot of people do when you want to
make someone feel friendly towards you
or you want to make someone feel open
towards you that is honestly one of the
biggest mistakes that you can make and
this also happens the most in the US
I've noticed because you walk into the
store and everyone Smiles at you you see
someone you have to smile sometimes you
don't want to smile so you fake the
smile you don't think that it looks fake
it's not consciously noticeably fake but
there happened studies that show that
people are really really good at
distinguishing between real and fake
Smiles just on the subconscious level
and people subconsciously feel repelled
by the people who fake smile at them so
if you want to create a sense of
openness friendliness and warmth with
someone don't fake smile even if you
think that you can fake smile really
well unless it's genuine it's going to
have the opposite effect instead one
great thing that you can do during the
conversation if you want someone to like
you more is to actually match your body
language to the conversation and here's
what I mean by this I think everyone can
agree that while some conversations are
more energetic the other conversations
that you have with people are more
relaxed or some conversations can even
be sad if you match your body language
you reflect the tone of the conversation
that you guys are having for example if
you're having a really exciting
conversation using more H gestures using
more open and excited body language
would make the other person talking to
you also feel the same excitement and
like you more while the conversation is
more chilly you definitely don't want to
go in super excited and like have a lot
of gestures and be doing a lot of things
because that can overwhelm the person
and actually make them feel kind of
worse towards you and at the same time
it is also really important to match
your body language to the person that
you're talking to what I mean by this is
that some people tend to be more anxious
when they're talking to someone so with
those people big gestures fastpaced body
language would actually be the worst
thing that you can do instead what you
could do is use a more relaxed body
language just make your gestures a
little slower but if you're like hey
this is a little too hard for me because
I don't want to be thinking that hard
about who I'm talking to what kind of
body language they would prefer then
here's one thing that I can tell you
that can definitely make the person feel
closer to you and definitely make them
like you more and this thing is called
the eyebrow flash you might have heard
me mention it in some of my videos on
like body language signs that your crush
likes you for example and basically an
eyebrow flash is used as a subconscious
indicator that we're not enemies I don't
mean you harm if you see someone and
their eyebrows kind of like go up and
down when they greet you like oh hi it
usually happens really naturally but if
you kind of think about it there's
something inside you that feels really
good when you get that sign so during
the eyebrow flash when you meet someone
and just making sure that you don't make
it look weird just natur doing it would
be really really good for you at the
same time one thing that can really make
a person feel closer to you or feel more
favorable towards you is actually
something that one of people's favorite
characters from the TV show Gossip Girl
does a lot Serena Vander Woodson which
is when you're looking at Serena when
she's talking to someone she usually has
this tendency of tilting her head a
little bit to the side she does it in a
really subtle way to the point where it
doesn't look weird but it's still a
really good body language hack that
makes people like her more and here's
why when you tilt your head while having
a conversation with someone it signifies
as subconscious sign of trust it's
because on The evolutionary basis our
brains are wired for survival and in the
past if you tilted your head like this
it would be exposing an artery and
people would do that only with the
people that they really really trust and
when talking to someone that you want to
like you more you can also use the fact
that people really like to feel heard so
if you can make someone feel heard while
talking to them you are golden and you
can actually use your body language to
do this so the first thing that you can
do is to not a little bit when they're
talking just a slight nod you don't have
to go overboard and the second thing is
to lean in just a tiny bit when you're
listening to them so if they're talking
to you just lean in a little bit and Nod
from time to time when they're making a
point that is going to make someone feel
like you're really really listening to
them and it's going to make them feel so
good about themselves which in turn is
going to make them like you more and one
more thing that you can add to this
which is not necessarily body language
but it's going to increase the effect of
this even more is actually from time to
time redating what they last said when
you're starting to reply so for example
if someone was like oh yeah me and my
friend were going to a club tonight you
can say something back like you're going
to a club that's so nice I've actually
been to some whatever make your points
but just repeating the last few words
that they said it's going to reassure
the person that you're talking to that
you're really listening to them and it's
going to feel so good which is going to
make them really like you my absolute
favorite tip though when it comes to
body language is actually this one that
if you don't really take away any
anything from this video at least take
away this tape but it's also something
that you can go overboard with so just
keep that in mind as well but basically
it's called the chameleon effect and
this is when you're mimicking the body
language of the person that you're
talking to so for example if you're
standing and they lean on one leg you do
the same thing but not immediately as if
you're copying them but just really
naturally and slly just lean to one side
if they cross their arms you do the same
thing again just really naturally the
key is not to make a show of it but
doing it Suddenly It's going to make
that person feel closer to you on a
subconscious level and it's going to
give them this feeling that you guys are
kind of in sync with each other taking
all feeling closer to someone tell me if
you've ever been in this situation where
you're about to do something or you're
running a race and someone gives you a
high five or maybe you see someone and
that person gives you a high five you're
going to feel so good in that moment and
you're going to feel so good about that
person in that moment this comes from
two different reasons the first one
being that the gesture of high five
itself is associated with support the
second is that touch actually releases
the chemical oxytocin which facilitates
bonding so what you can do to kind of
like release this chemical more when
you're talking to someone is to maybe
give them a high five if the context is
appropriate or tap their arm when having
a conversation with them if you're
talking with someone who you're not
really meaning to flirt with just keep
it around the arm area but probably one
of the weirdest things that I can tell
you guys when it comes to body language
is that showing your wrist when you're
talking to someone when you're with
someone or you're sitting next to
someone is going to make people feel
like they trust you and like you more so
basically again on the evolutionary
basis which a lot in Psychology is
coming from The evolutionary basis in
the past and maybe even now kind of
subconsciously if you can see someone's
hands you tend to trust that person more
on the subconscious level because you
know that they don't have any weapons
and therefore they're not a threat to
you now this is not conscious this
process is not conscious in your head
you don't sit with someone and you go
like oh their hands are in their pockets
that means that they're a threat to me
because they might have something in
their pocket it all happens on a
subconscious level in like a split
second of processing in our brains and
if you guys want to know some psychology
hacks to get people to like you that are
not just body language related then
definitely check out this video right
here and if you want to know some
psychology hacks that are going to make
you feel more confident about yourself
so you can basically hack your brain
into feeling more confident then check
out this video right here and I love you
guys so so so much let me know if you
like this look down in the comments
because honestly I'm in love with this
look and I'll see you you guys in the
next one bye
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