Dealing With A Bitchy & Disrespectful Girlfriend

Summary

In this video, Chris Carmel addresses the issue of dealing with a disrespectful and challenging girlfriend, a common problem many men face. He explains the reasons behind women's testing behavior and the higher rates of mental health issues in women, which can contribute to their actions. Carmel emphasizes the importance of gaining respect from a girlfriend to prevent such behavior and shares a personal story to illustrate how to handle it. He introduces a technique called 'progressive increased punishment' to correct disrespectful behavior, suggesting that standing firm can lead to change or the realization that a new relationship may be necessary.

Takeaways

• 😔 Dealing with a disrespectful girlfriend can be very frustrating and requires the right approach to maintain a healthy relationship.
• 🤔 Women may test men to see if they are strong, and failing these tests can lead to increased disrespect and 'bitchiness'.
• 🧐 A lack of respect from a girlfriend can lead to various issues, including flaking on dates, trying to make the partner jealous, and holding out on intimacy.
• 📊 Women have a higher rate of mental illness, which can contribute to emotional instability and disrespectful behavior, according to a University of Oxford study.
• 💡 It's important to understand the reasons behind disrespectful behavior but ultimately knowing how to deal with it is crucial.
• 🌟 Building respect is key; a girlfriend who respects her partner is less likely to be disrespectful.
• 📸 A client's experience highlighted the issue of a girlfriend sending disrespectful pictures to provoke jealousy, which can be upsetting.
• 😡 In response to disrespectful actions, staying calm and not immediately reacting with anger can be an effective strategy.
• 🚫 Using 'progressive increased punishment' as a technique can help regain control by incrementally increasing the time apart if disrespectful behavior continues.
• 🔄 Ignoring attempts to justify disrespectful behavior and maintaining a stance can lead to a change in the girlfriend's attitude.
• 🔄 If the girlfriend does not change her behavior, it might be time to consider finding a new partner.

Q & A

What is the main issue discussed in the video by Chris Carmel?

The main issue discussed in the video is how to deal with a disrespectful and difficult girlfriend.

Why do some women act disrespectful towards their partners according to the video?

The video suggests that women may act disrespectful because they are testing their partners to see if they are strong, and also because they may have a higher rate of mental illness, leading to difficulties in controlling their emotions.

What is the importance of a woman respecting her partner in a relationship?

Respect is crucial as it reduces the likelihood of her being disrespectful or difficult, and it indicates that she sees her partner as a high-value individual.

What was the situation with Chris's client who was dealing with his girlfriend's disrespectful behavior?

The client's girlfriend was trying to make him jealous by sending pictures of herself with other men, and she was also being snappy, angry, and flaky, which was causing him distress.

How did Chris handle a similar situation when his girlfriend sent him a picture with another man?

Chris responded with a message that showed he was not impressed or jealous, and then ignored her for a couple of days, which led her to stop such behavior.

What is the technique Chris developed to deal with a disrespectful girlfriend?

The technique is called 'progressive increased punishment,' where the partner is given a period of time to correct their behavior, increasing with each offense until they change or the relationship ends.

What should a person do if their girlfriend sends a picture with another man to make them jealous?

They should respond in a way that shows they are not affected and then ignore the girlfriend for a few days to demonstrate they are not impressed by such tactics.

How does the 'progressive increased punishment' technique work in practice?

It starts with the partner not seeing the girlfriend for a week, and with each repeat of the disrespectful behavior, the duration increases, eventually leading to the girlfriend correcting her behavior or the relationship ending.

What is the outcome Chris expects from using the 'progressive increased punishment' technique?

The expected outcome is that the girlfriend will realize the seriousness of her behavior and correct it, or if she doesn't, the partner will have a clear indication that they should consider ending the relationship.

How can viewers get in touch with Chris for further advice or to download his guide?

Viewers can book an email or Skype consultation with Chris through his website or download his guide, which is also available on his site.