Episode 7 - Do Girls Like Gifts?
Summary
TLDRIn this video, Nuclear Kalio discusses the nuances of gift-giving in romantic relationships. He emphasizes that while gifts can be appreciated, they should not lead the way in dating. Kalio suggests that gifts should be appropriate to the stage of the relationship and the person involved, cautioning against expensive gifts early on. He highlights the importance of not being seen as an 'easy mark' and stresses that a gift's value is greatly enhanced when it comes from a man a woman is attracted to, rather than one who simply has money to spend.
Takeaways
- 🎁 Women's appreciation for gifts is conditional and depends on the giver and the context of the relationship.
- 💰 Leading with gifts or money can be perceived as a lack of confidence and may not attract genuine respect or interest from women.
- 🛍️ The culture of gifting, especially by 'sugar daddies,' has become normalized, but it doesn't necessarily equate to genuine affection or attraction.
- 🚫 Avoid leading with gifts early in dating as it can signal that you're an 'easy mark' and not a challenge, which may reduce attraction.
- 👫 The appropriateness of a gift is tied to the stage and nature of the relationship; it should not be given unless there's a clear connection and understanding between both parties.
- 🤔 Consider the type of gift and its timing; for instance, intimate gifts like lingerie may not be suitable for early stages of dating or without a sexual relationship.
- 🔄 Gifts should be reciprocal and reflect a balance in the relationship; one-sided gifting can indicate a lack of genuine interest or commitment.
- 🌟 The value of a gift is often overshadowed by the perceived value of the giver; a gift from someone a woman is attracted to holds more worth than an expensive gift from someone she's not.
- 🤝 A gift's significance is enhanced by the relationship's intimacy and the woman's loyalty and commitment to the giver.
- 💬 Social media can sometimes distort the importance of gifts, with women sometimes prioritizing showing off material gifts over acknowledging the giver.
- 📈 The speaker emphasizes the importance of personal charm and connection over material wealth when it comes to attracting and maintaining a woman's interest.
Q & A
What is the main topic discussed in the video script?
-The main topic discussed in the video script is whether women like gifts and how this can affect relationships, particularly in the context of dating dynamics.
What is the first question one should ask themselves when considering if women like gifts?
-The first question one should ask is whether the likability of gifts depends on who is giving them, highlighting the importance of the giver's identity in the gift-giving context.
Why might a woman not respect a man who frequently gifts her expensive items?
-A woman might not respect a man who frequently gifts her expensive items because she may see him as trying to 'buy' her affection or attention, rather than earning it through genuine connection and personality.
What is the advice against doing on a first date according to the script?
-The advice against doing on a first date is leading with gifts or taking a woman to an expensive dinner, as it may portray the man as 'easy' with his resources and not attractive to women.
What type of date is suggested as a better alternative to an expensive dinner for a first date?
-A coffee date or meeting for drinks is suggested as a better alternative for a first date, focusing on time and attention rather than spending a lot of money.
What is the significance of giving a gift that is appropriate to the timeline of the relationship?
-The significance of giving a gift appropriate to the timeline of the relationship is to ensure that the gift is meaningful and not perceived as possessive or out of place, which can enhance the connection between the giver and receiver.
Why might giving lingerie as a gift be considered inappropriate in certain stages of a relationship?
-Giving lingerie as a gift might be considered inappropriate in the early stages of a relationship or before being sexually intimate, as it can come off as presumptuous or possessive.
What is the term 'Skittles man' mentioned in the script, and what does it imply?
-The term 'Skittles man' refers to a man who is so attractive and important in a woman's life that even a simple, inexpensive gift like a pack of Skittles would be highly valued and appreciated.
What is the importance of a woman qualifying for a man's attention and gifts according to the script?
-The importance of a woman qualifying for a man's attention and gifts is to ensure that the man's resources are not wasted on someone who may not be genuinely interested or committed to him.
What is the advice regarding giving gifts to a woman who has been generous to you?
-The advice is that if a woman has been generous and thoughtful with her gifts, it is appropriate to reciprocate with a thoughtful gift on special occasions, as a way of rewarding good behavior and showing appreciation.
What is the warning about women who may brag about gifts on social media but not acknowledge the giver?
-The warning is that if a woman brags about gifts on social media without acknowledging the giver, it may indicate that she values the material gift more than the relationship, which can be a red flag for the giver.
Outlines
🎁 The Complexity of Gifting in Relationships
Nuclear Kalio discusses the nuanced topic of gifting in romantic relationships, emphasizing that it's not a straightforward yes-or-no question. He suggests that the appropriateness of gifts depends significantly on the giver and the nature of the relationship. Kalio warns against leading with gifts, as it can undermine one's attractiveness by signaling desperation or an 'easy mark.' He also touches on the idea that women may not respect men who are overly generous with resources early in a relationship, as it removes the element of challenge and mystery.
🛍️ The Timing and Appropriateness of Gifts
Continuing the conversation on gifting, Kalio highlights the importance of timing and appropriateness when giving gifts to women. He shares personal anecdotes to illustrate the point, such as giving a playful sticker as a gift after establishing a connection. Kalio advises against giving extravagant gifts like lingerie early in a relationship, as it can come off as possessive or inappropriate. He stresses the need to understand the type of woman one is dealing with and to ensure that gifts are suitable for the stage of the relationship.
💎 The Value of Gifts from an Alpha vs. a Beta
Kalio delves into the concept that the value of a gift is significantly influenced by the perceived 'alpha' or 'beta' status of the giver. He argues that a gift from an alpha male, even something as simple as a flower, can hold more worth than an expensive gift from a beta male. This is attributed to the alpha's perceived leadership and game, which makes even small gestures feel more meaningful. Kalio also touches on the pitfalls of men who lead with money due to a lack of social skills or 'game', which can result in being categorized as a sugar daddy or not being taken seriously in a relationship.
🤔 The Conundrum of Gifting and Social Media
In this section, Kalio addresses the issue of women receiving gifts and then showcasing them on social media, often with little acknowledgment of the giver. He criticizes this behavior as a sign of misplaced priorities and a misuse of the sentimental value of gifts. Kalio suggests that such actions can devalue the relationship and the man's efforts, turning gifts into mere social currency rather than tokens of affection and appreciation.
🎉 The Importance of Gifting as a Reward for Qualification
Kalio discusses the idea of gifting as a reward for a woman who has shown genuine interest and effort in the relationship. He differentiates between obligatory gifting and giving a gift out of appreciation. Kalio shares personal experiences where thoughtful gifts from women have led him to reciprocate in kind, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and rewarding good behavior in a relationship.
🚫 Setting Boundaries on Gifting Expectations
In the final paragraph, Kalio sets clear boundaries on when and how to give gifts in a relationship. He warns against giving in to the pressure of cultural expectations or the desire to impress. Kalio stresses the importance of ensuring that any gift given is deserved and that the woman in question has demonstrated loyalty and commitment. He encourages viewers to maintain a cautious approach to gifting until a solid foundation of trust and exclusivity has been established.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Gifts
💡Lose Frame
💡Sugar Daddy
💡Challenge
💡Resources
💡First Date
💡Personality
💡Timeline
💡Appropriate
💡Alpha and Beta
Highlights
The importance of considering the giver when determining if women like gifts.
The influence of sugar daddy culture on the normalization of gifting in relationships.
Women's preference for a challenge in relationships rather than easy access to resources.
The advice against leading with gifts in the dating process to avoid being perceived as an easy mark.
The suggestion that the first date should focus on time and attention rather than expensive gifts.
The concept of gifts being appropriate to the timeline and nature of the relationship.
The idea that gifts should be playful and fun, rather than extravagant in the early stages of dating.
The inappropriateness of giving certain gifts like lingerie early in a relationship.
The potential offense that practical gifts like kitchen appliances might cause in a relationship.
The notion that a gift's value is amplified when it comes from an alpha figure in a woman's life.
The comparison between the impact of a gift from a man with game versus one without.
The warning against leading with money due to the risk of being categorized as a sugar daddy or trick.
The emphasis on building a connection before giving significant gifts.
The story illustrating the value of a simple gift when it comes from a meaningful connection.
The concept of 'Skittles man' and the idea of being content with small gestures in a relationship.
The advice on not giving gifts out of obligation but rather as a reward for good behavior.
The distinction between giving gifts as a sign of appreciation versus using them for social media clout.
The final advice on keeping gift-giving within the context of the relationship's stage and the woman's loyalty.
Transcripts
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hello everyone it's nuclear kalio here
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platforms all right so today's topic of
the day is basically
um
do women like gifts
um and obviously this is not a yes or no
right I think this is uh it depends
answer right but it's a very important
thing because you can easily lose a girl
or lose frame
by thinking a certain way about whether
you should give a girl gifts or not
right so
the first question you have to ask
yourself when uh you know when you're
trying to figure out if if girls like
gifts women like gifts is it does it
depend does it depend on who it's from
and the answer is yes
um
as you've probably seen sugar daddy and
gifting culture to women has become much
more popular and much more normalized
and accepted and as normal and you know
just part of
um
just part of the part of the game right
um but do you think that those men that
are gifting
and giving girls expensive dinners
expensive uh
purses bags stuff like that do you think
that they're uh that they like and
respect those men
uh more likely than not it's gonna be a
no at a minimum they will not see those
men
as
um
as men they would want to be in
relationship with right women want to
compete and women want to feel that like
a man and his resources are a challenge
don't take away when you give well your
resources away to women very easily what
she sees you as is just an easy Mark you
know just another guy there's no
challenge there's no mystery there's no
fun right so
always assume or always think
um
when women whether deciding whether
women like gifts is like the big
questionnaire is from who right
um so when it comes to dating you never
want to lead with gifts right never want
to lead with uh
um giving them you know that's why
that's why me and other guys that give
advice on here never suggest to to take
a woman to dinner on the first date or
take her to an expensive date right
because what you're saying is uh that
you you're giving you're an easy Mark
and women are not attracted to something
a man that is easy to part with his
resources right she'll she'll
automatically see you as you know just a
trick or a sugar daddy or just a food
call or whatever right
um
you always want to leave with your
personality personality your charm
that's not to say be extremely cheap
obviously I think a coffee date or some
drinks would be uh the best type of
first date
um but on those dates you don't have to
spend exorbitant amount of money right
the focus is on your time and attention
is what you're giving them right not
your money not your gifts you know
paying for two or three drinks it's just
the cost of doing business but it's not
like the same as a dinner where you're
you know she can order whatever she
wants and you know it's seen more as a
giving something you know
um and then uh
you know you don't want to
uh
get you don't want to give if you do get
to a point where you do want to give the
girl something right remember that it's
it's has to be appropriate to the
timeline of your relationship with her
and also
um to
where you're at where she's at what type
of person she is for example
um once
I know I go very well and we've met
we've connected and maybe we've
um hooked up or something like that
right I have a collection of uh Shiba
Inu stickers that I collect or just buy
from Amazon and then I give it to her
right it's just a little sticker right
but
it's it's more playful and fun and it's
coming from a guy that she's already
hooked up with based on charm and
personality right so it means that much
more it's not like I'm giving her a
Gucci bag or shoes or a dress or
anything like that right
so gifts should be appropriate for the
timeline another example is like uh you
don't want to give girls weird gifts
right so let's say
um a popular gift is lingerie right a
lot of guys like to give girls lingerie
obviously it serves a double purpose she
she the guy gets the high of
um feeling sexually dominant by telling
the one what to say what to wear and the
girl feels sexy by having a guy tell her
what to do and what to wear right but
you don't want to buy lingerie for a
girl you haven't had sex with yet right
and even then it's still iffy right make
sure that you bring that if you do want
to give a girl your dating make sure
that you've already you know hooked up
with her and make sure that you you feel
that Comfort Comfort where you guys are
very open and then you can say hey I
want you to wear this for me right and
then you buy her or whatever right
um also a lot of women already have
lingerie so they'll probably be like no
I already got that's all good I'll wear
it for you right
um another another iffy one is like uh
let's say
uh say kitchen appliances and stuff like
that
um especially for girlfriends like if
your girlfriend is uh
likes to cook likes to cook and the
stuff in the kitchen sure you know
buying her things that make her domestic
uh chores much easier would probably be
a good thing right and then there's some
women that like you know even getting
them like a toaster or something may or
something may may make them offended
right obviously I would Ur on the side
of like if you get a gift for a girl and
regardless of what it is and she doesn't
like it then that's probably a red flag
right there but I would say that um you
know make sure that your gifts are
appropriate to the type of woman you're
dealing with and make sure that most
likely there is no gift that matters
before you hook up and even then
make sure that before you give a girl a
gift make it appropriate to the
situation you're in right like I said a
sticker
uh two or three times after you guys
hook up two or three times it's funny
it's cute it's you know it's like you
know this guy's kind of quirky you know
it adds a little bit of character to to
your guys's relationship and it's funny
right but you know giving them lingerie
after the first time you hook up it's
kind of it's kind of weird right it
seems possessive you know make sure that
you have the type of relationship where
you guys at least have that
understanding that there's some
um connection between you guys and
there's a level of comfort where you can
start introducing that kind of stuff
right
um
and then it goes to the concept where
like and this is a crazy you know this
is a crazy uh
thing to to witness but a gift from an
alpha is what is worth more than a gift
from a beta by an extreme magnitude
right a guy that's trying to lead with
money can give a girl a pearl or I don't
sleep pearl necklace uh uh I don't know
something like gold a gold necklace or
something like that or or uh a scrapbook
full of the memories you know
or something right
but that will be nothing compared to an
alpha that gives her a flower that he
just picked five minutes before going to
meet her right
um and that's a crazy comparison because
there are men that like have to lead
with money because they don't have game
they don't have you know they lead with
just money right especially you see
these guys that um never in their 20s
that never worked worked to to get
experience with women so when they get
to their 30s and they grind which is
nothing wrong with that obviously but
they grind and they push forward and
then eventually it gets to the point
where that they get to their 30s they
have a good job they have lots of money
maybe one or two houses or whatever like
that right and then they have no
experience with women so that you know
they think that leading with money
is going to get them the woman they want
and it could get their foot in the door
right but what happens is
um they leave with money and the women
you know when you lead with money women
automatically put you in the category of
Sugar Daddy Trick or whatever right so
they take women on expensive dinners
they give women gifts they you know and
the women just don't respond well and
the thing is the nefarious thing about
all this is that women are designed to
take your resources like that's
biological right so although most of the
time they'll never say no to a stranger
giving them things
right when a guy when we get when we try
to get gifted with people strangers try
to give those things we get nervous we
don't understand why we start
questioning things but women
automatically they can go with on a day
with a guy they've never met the guy
will pay for an expensive dinner and
they'll be like thanks and give them a
hug and go home and never see him again
block his number block his IG and so on
and so forth right
so understand that before you even think
about giving a woman anything besides
your attention time and maybe one or two
drinks or a coffee make sure that at
least you have that connection like uh I
would say
um
until you've slept with the girl
and you know it's not a one-night stand
and she's into you don't even think
about giving her anything beyond the
things I I mentioned right because if
not you're going to be put in that
category and more often than not a lot
of guys find themselves on a third or
fourth or fifth date and they're like
okay any day now I'm gonna make my move
but honestly
um
you know you don't want to be in that
position right
um
so you know there's I have a story time
um I was uh
dating a girl while I was in the
military and I was deployed and she
would send me boxes full of you know
treats coffee pictures of her
non-explicit pictures of her I told her
not to bring give me anything explicit
but um
uh you know very nice things she would
send me
and you know I was like man I should
probably get her something back you know
like whenever I pull into Port maybe you
know drink it or something when I pull
into port and the only thing she told me
like the only thing I want is like a
rock from each place you go to Iraq and
I'm like you mean like you know like a
rock with
like
or just a rock and she's like yeah she
was a geology student so you know she
liked rocks
um she liked to look at them and study
them so you know
the fact that there's men out here that
that are giving women like expensive
things and stuff just to
just to have a chance and like a foot in
meanwhile there's guys that you know
girls are just asking them for a rock
you know and that's you know and Iraq
doesn't really have any value so the
what adds value to that rock I'm giving
her is that it's coming from me so you
see how
um you can give a woman the whole world
and the moon and the stars but if it's
not coming from the main guy in her life
or you know the guy she's most attracted
to in her life it doesn't mean anything
and that's why I say you know the it's
the difference between a gift from an
alpha and a gift from a beta
it the magnitude is so extreme that you
cannot you cannot chance you cannot even
gamble with giving a woman a gift before
you have that connection especially
through intimacy right you do not give
up you do not give things to girls until
you at least have some sort of
connection Beyond
um just you know a first date right I
would say for me personally
uh two weeks in of like just hooking up
and and maybe you know second and third
day she's cool you you like her
um then you can start thinking like hey
you know uh maybe you hooked up three
times and you're saying okay well hey
you want to go grab some sushi you know
um depending on the man and depending
the girl but never lead with money
before you guys hook up that is act that
is asking me put in a box you don't want
to be put in right
um
so yeah like I mentioned before women
are designed to strike resources right
so that's not something that they
consciously do it's just within their
biology they have to take take take
that's just who they are but if they
realize they can't take from you easily
but without performing or giving
something in return first
um
then you know they'll see you as you
know a higher higher in their you know
higher an attraction this guy is
actually worth something he's not going
to give it away to me easily so I have
to you know perform as more perform as a
woman instead of just you know existing
right
um
let's see what I got here
yeah so you don't you don't want to give
you don't want to give your your uh your
resources away because Adam likely puts
you in a loser category
um
so you know in the space we have this uh
we have this saying called uh
be a skittles man right and you know
I've gotten questions of what is the
Skittles man a skittles man is basically
a guy that on days like like
I would say more more specifically
February 14th
um which is Valentine's Day and like
days like Christmas or something like
that that you are the type of man that
if you gave her Skittles
a pack of Skittles that she would be
overjoyed and happy
right after that maybe a sticky note
with like you know some crass comment
about her body you know but you know a
lot of guys
see that and they think oh well you know
that's not manly because you know you're
you're doing it to piece your own ego if
not needing to give something right the
thing is that like it's not so much that
you do you do or you don't right it's so
much the fact that like you're you're so
important and so attractive in her life
right that even if you gave her a rock
or a pack of Skittles or a sticky note
saying thank you you have not you have
thank you for your nice ass or whatever
you give her right
she
values that gift not because of the
value the in the
objective value of a of a gift but
because it's coming from you she's going
to Value it that much more right a pack
of Skittles from an alpha a guy that
she's
completely in love or in lust or
whatever with is worth
hundreds of times more than a piece of
jewelry from a guy that she's just not
sure about or she's just
you know she was the guy that she
settled for
you know all those things right and
other guys you understand that like
gifts have a time and place right but
they you never lead with a with gifts
right your time and attention is your
biggest asset and you have to make it
known to her and the way you make it
known to her is you know when she acts
up you remove your attention
um
when she's not when she's not uh you
know holding up her part of the bargain
in terms of relationship then you remove
attention right uh I know marriages is a
little different because you know you're
you're married you probably have kids
and all that stuff but your time and
attention
um matters and that should be the number
one gift and you have to treat it as as
such you're you're uh your time is
something that you can't get back and if
you give a woman your time you're giving
her your more your most uh valuable
asset right
if you give her
gifts and all that stuff
um and your time and your attention
she's gonna think oh man it's just
another guy that's you know
that does not that does not build
attraction at all
right
um so here's a sad part too A lot of
times women get gifts
um from Men on social media
errors are for men in real life and then
they go on social media and then they
they post 10 pictures of the gift and
like one picture of the man or no
pictures of the man right I see this all
the time Facebook IG and it ranges it
could be a bouquet of flowers on her
birthday or on a
or Valentine's Day she'll Post 10
pictures of the flowers
um
and then one picture of the guy giving
you know
of the guy giving her the flower and the
guy I've never seen or just the guy that
she's sort of in a relationship with
she's not sure about she's not very
attractive but she's like safe he's like
the safe option right so when
as you can see like uh
you know gifts for women usually if
they're not coming from an alpha
they're usually just used for cloud
social media cloud and to signal to
other women like I can get men to give
me things I'm better than other women
like it's it's a social hierarchy right
and this one of the saddest versions of
this
um is I see women that I've known like
University you know from University and
they get with a guy that you know this
just doesn't look like he's
super attractive he may be a little bit
overweight he may be you know just look
like a dork or whatever you know
whatever would have you right
um and then uh like they'll get engaged
and the ring has like 20 pictures or 10
pictures of the ring and one picture of
the guy
right
um
and it's like it's sad because like you
know the guy has just given you
his undying you know his implied undying
commitment right and then you're taking
the token of that commitment which in
itself is expensive monetarily you know
rings can get expensive and you're
parading it on social media to brag to
your friends right I would say one or
two pictures is fine right but I've seen
women that you know
they have they post a ring but not the
guy and that's really sad right you
never want to be in that position that's
that's that's the huge that's the
biggest red flag right you never want to
be in a position where you're giving
gifts to your girl and she goes directly
to social media and brags about the gift
and not you right you are the prize the
gift is just a bonus or an extension of
the time and intention of how valuable
you know your time and attention are
right and you never want to be in the in
that position
um
it's really important to understand that
uh you never give a girl a gift
um
if you unless you you know unless you
want to unless never under obligation
right if if a girl really truly likes
you right
um
and you know her a special day is coming
up or you know all her friends are
getting gifts or whatever
um
do you want to give her a gift or do you
feel like you have to there's a big
difference right or it could be a mix of
both right
um I feel like for the most part I
personally would not mind giving a girl
a gift I'm I'm Valentine's Day on her
birthday right but I've you know this is
because
when it's Christmas or my birthday I've
gotten great gifts from women and
um they've gone all out to give me
they got they've gone all out to give me
gifts that I needed very thoughtful they
took the time to think what I would what
I would like and if a woman did that for
me like let's say on Christmas you
better believe that on February 14th you
know I'm it's a candlelit dinner right
because what she has proven is you know
she's she's doing tryouts for being uh
my girlfriend or and future wife so when
a girl is qualifying to you you know she
you know you should reward her and now a
lot of guys will say well there's other
ways here where am I of course you know
of course there's other ways for a word
but I feel like if a woman is really
trying and she's really going all out
and you know she's in your frame uh and
you know that special day comes up like
Christmas or the holiday you know
whatever other holiday or February 14th
her birthday there's nothing wrong with
you know putting a little thought into
it right
um
typically girls that go out and give and
give you gifts and are qualifying to you
and doing you know just are just are
happy with your time and attention if
you give them a gift a really nice gift
maybe they might brag to their friends
but they they will feel it will be very
important to them they will see you as
you know her knight in shining armor
right and that's okay but you know
there's a thin line here and just know
that with time as you get more game and
more aware of of women's Behavior you'll
be able to call this Behavior out better
right so you know like I said Christmas
comes around and she gives you like 200
worth of gifts unsolicited and she
doesn't ask for anything in return
you best believe that on February 14th
whenever uh
uh
you know it's time to give her a gift it
could be a bouquet of roses a teddy bear
or a candle at dinner or whatever and
you know I will not feel bad at all or
not feel like I'm being used at all
because you know she already put in the
effort right there's absolutely nothing
wrong with giving women gifts if she's
qualifying to you if she's doing
everything right you know you always
reward good behavior and you ignore bad
behavior right you remove your attention
um
and uh yeah it it giving gifts is
something that like it's it's a thing
that like
from the outside
it's easy to call out a guy and be like
hey you haven't had sex with her or you
know you just met this girl why are you
giving her a free dinner or why are you
giving her a purse or a bag or whatever
right but a lot of guys just can't
um you know they get into this trap of
thinking that they have to hustle and
grind and not talk to women at all in
their 20s and then we get to the 30s
they have all this money and success
which is fine that's great you know
that's all we're all striving for but
like they don't have that thought that
hey you know women they do care about
your status and your success and your
money right but
if
they will not respect men that lead with
their money right
you have to develop that charm and that
personality to get women to like you and
then that's when you know everything is
has to be done in an appropriate manner
right and even and within and within
that if we zoom in there are certain
gifts like I mentioned before that you
don't give women at first right like for
example I like you know if I meet a girl
I really like and things are going well
then I I you know I gave her a little
sticker after two or three times with me
you know like hey he's a little sticker
and if she like looks happier over
Jordan oh it's so cute
um then I know like okay well you know
she's an appreciative person it's it's
one of my [ __ ] tests to women is testing
their true desire for me right now
um
you know there there are women that will
never pay for anything and never give
you anything in return right you know
like uh they're very um
you know they latch on to the old war
thinking where it benefits them which is
like not paying for anything but and
that's an iffy situation right like it's
not like you're as a man we don't need
gifts right we don't expect it we don't
need it right
um
but there are women that like get
there's there's cultures where like
gifting is a normal thing to get to do
you know and you know women are smart
and women use these different
backgrounds and culture and inject them
into you know dating life into their
dating life and expectations and try to
put the pressure on men to go ahead and
give them gifts based on
a culture that they don't even haven't
even grown up in are not part of anymore
and you know it's kind of annoying you
know you see this a lot with like
cultures like uh more you know like
sometimes Latin America where
um you know women expect to be kind of
wine and dined because it was a more
traditional you know their mom and dad
was a more traditional
um
you know upbringing right but understand
that that's that's just not the way it
is there you know and if a girl comes
with that energy you shut them down like
we're not here to call a woman even more
than they're already coddled right if
you want
uh the resources if you want the gifts
you have to give me commitment right you
have to prove to me that you're not
seeing other men at least try to fake it
enough to where I believe you right give
me the benefit of the doubt but until
then you know I'm not I'm not gonna
budge you know you have to have that
attitude right there are women that are
going to hook up with you hook up with
you hook up with you and have fun and
hook up and all you're doing is paint
buying them drinks and and all that
stuff but then the the magnitude of
gifts that they're gonna ask for or
imply that they want is going to
increase over time right so here's what
you do right so the problem is I'm you
know I'm hooking up with a girl and it's
great and we keep hooking up but here
here's the thing here's the caveat I
have no problem buying a dinner for a
girl I've already hooked up with and I'm
having fun with right no problem right
but here's where it gets iffy then they
start asking for like hey I want to go
out but I need a dress get me a dress or
I want to go out and I need some new
shoes right and you do this
all right
um but here's the thing you shouldn't be
buying physical gifts for women like you
know beyond dinner unless she can prove
that she's Chast to you that she's
sexually loyal to you
right
because there are a lot of women that
are willing to to they already find you
attractive they're willing to sleep with
you and extract Resources with you and
have all the benefits of your girlfriend
but none of the Chastity that comes with
being your girlfriend like only sexual
loyalty to you right so be careful with
those gray areas understand that there's
different levels of gifts there's gifts
that are very uh you know like I you
know like address a purse a bag physical
gifts a ring a necklace a makeup set
whatever stuff like that those are
things that typically you give to girls
that are like
your girlfriend right and even then
those are more like special Day gifts
like you know hey baby uh you know
you've been working hard and I've been
working hard let's get a date night I
bought you a dress surprise you know
those are not for girls that
yeah of course they're like sleeping
with you and you know they're Pleasant
and everything but until you can those
girls are are really like
um in your frame and qualifying to you
and and you know at least implicitly
imply that they're only with you giving
you the benefit of of thinking that
you're you're the only one then that's
when you kind of then then that's that
green light but until then keep it low
investment
uh gives little small things and and as
she has to earn those gifts and the best
way for a woman to earn gifts for me
personally is to I need I need to know
that she's not
uh sleeping around with other guys right
and I think that's a good model to go
off right
um
other than that
um thank you for watching that's all I
got on the matter for right now
um if you guys have any questions or you
guys have any comments about uh what
type of gifts you should be giving and
when it's appropriate uh let me know
down in the comment section
um and thanks for watching uh
and uh have a good night
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