You Keep Thinking About that Guy Because God Is . . .
Summary
TLDRIn this video, the speaker explores four potential reasons why thoughts of a man persist despite divine guidance suggesting otherwise. The reasons include the man's continued presence in one's life, addiction to the anticipation of a possible relationship, hidden bonds such as trauma or emotional ties, and the possibility of unfinished business requiring resolution. The speaker emphasizes finding joy in Christ to maintain balance and suggests prayer for discerning God's will, whether to wait or move on.
Takeaways
- 👀 The presence of someone in your life can fuel thoughts about them, as per the biblical principle that our eyes influence our thoughts.
- 🎰 Anticipation of a possible relationship with someone can be addictive, similar to the excitement of gambling, which can lead to persistent thoughts about that person.
- 💖 The heart's treasure, as mentioned in Matthew 6:21, directs where our thoughts go. If someone is your source of joy, you may think about them excessively.
- 🔑 Finding joy in Christ can provide balance and help in experiencing life's blessings without becoming overly fixated on one person or aspect.
- 🤔 Hidden bonds, such as trauma, chemical, or emotional ties, may be causing you to think about someone, and prayer can help in discerning and resolving these bonds.
- 🙏 Prayer is essential in identifying and addressing any lingering bonds or unresolved issues between you and another person.
- 👥 Unfinished business or unresolved conflicts between two people might be the reason why thoughts about the other person persist.
- 🔄 Sometimes, God may be calling individuals to work through conflicts to achieve closure and growth, which can involve persistent thoughts about the other person.
- 🚫 It's important to discern whether God is directing you to wait or to move on from a relationship, and seeking spiritual guidance can help in this process.
- 📚 The script suggests that understanding the reasons behind persistent thoughts can lead to spiritual growth and healthier relationships.
- 🛑 The speaker provides a resource for further exploration on discerning God's will in matters of relationships and waiting or moving on.
Q & A
Why might God not be removing thoughts about a specific man from your mind?
-God may not be removing these thoughts because He might want you to be with this man one day, or because you're not letting go of this man even though it may not be God's will for you to be with him.
How does Scripture relate our thoughts and what we see with our eyes?
-Scripture directly links our thoughts with what we see. For example, Jesus stated in Matthew 5:28-29 that looking at someone with lustful intent is akin to committing adultery in the heart. This implies that seeing this man in your life could be fueling the thoughts you have about him.
What does Matthew 6:22-23 say about the eye and its impact on the body?
-Matthew 6:22-23 states that the eye is the lamp of the body. If the eye is healthy, the whole body is full of light, but if it is bad, the whole body is full of darkness. This suggests that what you focus on with your eyes can deeply affect your inner thoughts and state of being.
Why might the anticipation of a relationship with this man be keeping him in your thoughts?
-The anticipation of the possibility of a relationship with this man can be powerful and addictive, much like the excitement of gambling. The unexpected joys and hopes of interaction with this man can create a strong mental attachment.
What did Jesus mean by 'where your treasure is, there your heart will be also' in Matthew 6:21?
-This verse means that what you value and focus on is where your heart and attention will be. If you're thinking a lot about this man, it may be because you're finding joy in the idea of him rather than in God, leading to an imbalance in your life.
How can hidden bonds with this man be affecting your thoughts?
-You may still be thinking about this man because of a hidden bond, such as a trauma bond, chemical bond, or emotional soul tie, that you created through shared experiences, emotional rush, or past relationships with him.
What are some possible ways to break hidden bonds with this man?
-Praying for God’s help to reveal and break any hidden bonds, such as trauma bonds or emotional ties, can be a step towards freeing yourself from these persistent thoughts.
Why might God allow you to continue thinking about this man due to unfinished business?
-God may be allowing these thoughts because there is unfinished business between you and this man that needs to be resolved, such as unresolved conflict or the need for mutual apologies and closure.
What does the script suggest you do if you feel unresolved conflict with this man?
-The script suggests that you may need to address any unresolved conflict with this man, possibly by apologizing or working through the issues, to achieve closure and move on in a healthier way.
How can you discern whether God is telling you to wait or move on from this man?
-Discerning whether God wants you to wait or move on involves prayer, reflection, and possibly seeking counsel through spiritual guidance, as this is a complex question that requires understanding God’s will for your life.
Outlines
🤔 Persistent Thoughts: God's Intentions and Your Emotions
This paragraph explores the possible reasons why someone might continue to think about a man, despite God's apparent disapproval of the relationship. It suggests that thoughts are linked to what we see and experience, as illustrated by biblical references to the power of the eye and the heart's desires. The speaker discusses the addictive nature of anticipation in relationships, drawing parallels to gambling addictions. The paragraph concludes with the idea that finding joy in Christ can provide balance and help in managing these thoughts.
🔗 Unresolved Bonds and Unfinished Business
The second paragraph delves into the concept of hidden bonds that might be causing persistent thoughts about a man. It touches on the possibility of trauma bonds, chemical bonds from shared experiences, and emotional soul ties that could have been formed during the relationship. The speaker also considers the idea that there might be unresolved issues or conflicts that need to be addressed for closure. The paragraph suggests that prayer and seeking God's guidance can help in discerning whether there is unfinished business or if it's time to move on.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Thoughts
💡God's Will
💡Addiction
💡Anticipation
💡Trauma Bond
💡Chemical Bond
💡Emotional Soul Tie
💡Unfinished Business
💡Joy in Christ
💡Matthew 5:28-29
💡Matthew 6:21
Highlights
There is a direct link between our thoughts and what we see, as discussed in Matthew 5:28-29.
The presence of a man in your life can fuel the imaginative thoughts you have about him.
Anticipation of potential romantic pursuits can be addictive, similar to how gambling creates addiction through the anticipation of rewards.
Where your heart is focused, your thoughts and desires will follow, as explained in Matthew 6:21.
Finding fullness of joy in Christ can help balance your thoughts and desires about a man.
You might still think about this man because of a hidden bond, such as a trauma bond or an emotional soul tie.
Chemical bonds can form through experiences like drug use, drunkenness, or sexual activity, making it hard to move on.
A previously healthy bond during a season of life might now be difficult to let go of, even though that season is over.
Praying about possible lingering bonds can help in finding freedom and closure.
God may not be removing your thoughts about this man because of unfinished business between you two.
Conflicts or unresolved issues in a relationship might require you to take action to either reconcile or find closure.
Sometimes, thoughts linger because there is something God wants you to work through with this person.
The struggle to let go might be a sign that God is calling you to address something unresolved.
Determining whether God wants you to wait or move on is a difficult but crucial question to answer.
The video concludes with a reference to additional resources for further guidance on whether to wait or move on.
Transcripts
is God not removing those thoughts that
you have about this man because God
maybe wants you to be with this man one
day or are you still having those
thoughts because you're just not letting
this man go even though God has made it
clear he doesn't want you with this man
so in this video we're going to talk
about four possible reasons and
explanations to that question number one
this man is still in your thoughts
because he's still in your life in
scripture there's a direct link between
our thoughts and our eyes for example in
Matthew 5:28-29 Jesus said but I say to
you that everyone who looks at a woman
with lustful intent has already
committed adultery with her in his heart
if your right eye causes you to sin tear
it out and throw it away for it is
better that you lose one of your members
than that your whole body be thrown into
hell well you may not be struggling with
lust about this man the principle and
Truth we just discussed in that passage
certainly relates in that when you see
this man in your life it will fuel the
imaginative fires that are burning in
your mind in Matthew 6:
22-23 Jesus also said the eye is the
lamp of the body so if your eye is
healthy your whole body will be full of
light but if your eye is bad your whole
body will be full of Darkness so when we
apply these ideas to our question about
why
these thoughts about this man may be
still in your mind even though you wish
they would just go away or that you
would find an answer to them it means
that when you see this man it fuels the
thoughts number two you may keep
thinking about this man because you've
become addicted to the anticipation of
the possible Pursuit that this man may
give you one day now we all know that
relationships and those feelings that
come along with Rel relationships are
very powerful but did you know that the
anticipation of that pleasure that could
come from a relationship can be just as
powerful for example one of the main
elements that causes a gambling
addiction is the anticipation and
expectancy of rewards being randomly
fulfilled when you roll the dice when
you flip the cards when you pull the
lever you have no idea what will happen
you could be a loser or you could be a
winner when you get a sudden Rush of
excitement that was heightened by the
surprise it forms a stronger addiction
this same idea can occur when you're
interacting and thinking about a guy so
when you're thinking about going
somewhere you might say I wonder if he's
going to be there I wonder if he's going
to talk to me oh I heard my phone go off
I wonder if that's a message from him
all of these unknowns and sudden bursts
of joy that occur because this person
showed up randomly or that desire you
have was fulfilled randomly when you
didn't expect it all of that can be very
addicting in Matthew 6:21 Jesus said for
where your treasure is there your heart
will also be we can use this principle
to also say where your heart is that is
what you treasure thus you may be
thinking so much about this man because
you are going to him for the joy you
crave the solution here is to find your
fullness of joy in Christ only when
you're filled with the love of God
through Jesus Christ can you balance and
and experience those other blessings in
life that aren't bad but only then can
you experience them in a balanced way
number three you may be thinking of this
man still because you've created some
hidden bond that you're not aware of did
you go through some traumatic experience
with this man it's possible that you
formed a trauma bond with him or did you
engage in drug use or drunkenness or
have some sort of sexual experience with
this man it's possible you've created
some sort of chemical bond with this man
or did you unwisely not guard your heart
and you rushed into this relationship
full-blown and now you've created an
emotional Soul tie with this man and
it's also true that sometimes you can
create a good bond with a man because it
was healthy For That season but now that
that season is over you're struggling to
let it go either way pray about the
possibility of there being some Bond
still lingering between you two Jesus
can always set you free and number four
God may not be removing your thoughts
about this man because there's some sort
of unfinished business between you two
maybe you two broke up because there was
some sort of conflict that God wanted
you to work through and he's still
calling you to work through it so that
you can get back together now I will say
that usually that is not the case for
some of you it may be or maybe both of
you are Christian
but you also know you both wronged each
other and there's just something nagging
in both of your hearts where you know
you need to apologize and confess your
sins so that there's closure and both of
you can just move on in a much healthier
way the possibilities are endless here
the point is if there is something
unfinished between you both the Lord may
be allowing you to think about this
person so you can take the necessary
action steps he is leading you to take
is God telling you to wait or is God
telling you to move on that's a hard
question answer so here's a playlist of
videos where I try to help people answer
that important question I'm Mark from
applygodsword dcom and until next time
God bless
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