4 Challenging Things God Will Use to Align You with The One
Summary
TLDRThis video script discusses how God uses life's challenges to guide us towards the right partner. It outlines four signs indicating divine alignment: realizing you must let go of someone you thought was 'the one', sacrificing a desire for another relationship goal, facing fears that block healthy relationships, and accepting that no one can fulfill you like Jesus can. The speaker encourages viewers to trust in God's plan, even when it diverges from their own, and to embrace the journey towards finding a partner aligned with God's will.
Takeaways
- 😇 God uses life's challenges to help us align with His will, including finding the right partner.
- 💔 Letting go of someone you thought was 'the one' can be a sign that God is preparing you for the right person.
- 🙏 Remembering that God's ways are superior to ours can provide comfort during periods of heartbreak or confusion about relationships.
- 🔄 Sacrificing one relationship desire for another can indicate that you are aligning with the person God has for you.
- 🤔 It's common to face the realization that a person you're attracted to may not fulfill all your desires or callings, requiring a choice.
- 💑 Accepting that a potential partner may not share all your passions, like missions, can be part of God's plan for your relationship.
- 🚫 Letting go of desires that conflict with having a healthy relationship is a sign of spiritual growth and preparation for the right partner.
- 😨 Facing and overcoming fears that have prevented you from having a healthy relationship is a positive step towards alignment with God's will.
- 🛑 Dealing with unresolved issues or traumas from the past is crucial for entering into a healthy relationship as God intends.
- 🤗 Accepting that no one can fulfill all your needs and that Jesus is our ultimate sustainer is a sign of maturity in preparation for a relationship.
- 👍 The speaker encourages viewers to support the ministry by liking and sharing videos to spread the message to others who may benefit.
Q & A
What is the main purpose of the video script?
-The main purpose of the video script is to discuss how God uses challenging experiences to help individuals align their hearts with the right person He has for them to marry.
Why might realizing you have to let go of someone you thought was 'the one' be a positive sign?
-Realizing you have to let go of someone you thought was 'the one' can be a positive sign because it indicates that God is aligning you with the real one, and it's a common experience for Christians during their season of singleness.
What does the script suggest about having to sacrifice one relationship desire for another?
-The script suggests that having to sacrifice one relationship desire for another is a good sign that God is aligning you to meet the right person, as it implies that desires may conflict and one must be let go to experience the other.
Can someone experience all of their desires in a relationship according to the script?
-According to the script, it's rare for someone to experience all of their desires in a relationship, as often one must be sacrificed for another, reflecting the reality of life and the need for compromise.
What is an example of a conflict between relationship desires mentioned in the script?
-An example given in the script is wanting to marry someone who shares the same passion for missions, but meeting someone who loves Jesus and has a strong passion for ministry, yet does not feel called to missions.
What does the script suggest about facing fears that block healthy relationships?
-The script suggests that facing and overcoming fears that have directly blocked one from getting into a healthy relationship is a good sign that God is aligning you with the right person.
Why is it important to deal with past traumas or issues before entering a relationship according to the script?
-Dealing with past traumas or issues is important because they can derail a relationship if not addressed, and as an adult, one should choose to deal with these things to function in a healthy relationship.
What does the script imply about the role of unrealistic expectations in relationships?
-The script implies that having unrealistic expectations can hinder one's ability to be aligned with the right person, and accepting that a partner cannot fulfill all needs is a step towards being prepared for the right relationship.
What is the script's stance on the idea that a partner should fulfill all of one's needs?
-The script's stance is that a partner should not be expected to fulfill all of one's needs, as Jesus alone is the sustainer and savior, and it's important to have realistic expectations in a relationship.
Who is the speaker in the video script and what is his role?
-The speaker in the video script is Mark from applygodsword.com, and his role is to provide spiritual guidance and insights based on the Christian perspective on relationships and finding the right person to marry.
Outlines
🙏 Embracing God's Will in Love and Relationships
This paragraph discusses the belief that God uses life's challenges to guide us towards fulfilling His will, particularly in finding the right partner. It suggests that realizing the need to let go of someone thought to be 'the one' is a sign of God's alignment with the true partner. The speaker encourages viewers not to be disheartened by this realization, as it is a common experience among Christians. The paragraph emphasizes that God's plans are superior to our own, and even if we end up with someone different from our initial expectations, it is for our greater good. It also touches on the idea of sacrifice in relationships, where one must sometimes give up a desire to achieve another.
🔄 Navigating Desires and Sacrifices in the Pursuit of Love
The second paragraph delves into the concept of sacrificing one desire for another in the journey towards finding the right partner. It uses the example of someone who desires to marry someone with a shared passion for missions, but falls in love with someone who does not share this specific calling. The paragraph highlights the need to make choices and potentially let go of certain desires to embrace the person God has for us. It also mentions that while it's rare to have all our desires met, it's important to recognize that there are many ways to serve God and that true love may require some form of sacrifice.
🛡 Overcoming Personal Fears to Foster Healthy Relationships
In this paragraph, the focus shifts to overcoming personal fears and issues that may be hindering the formation of a healthy relationship. It acknowledges that some individuals have specific fears or unresolved past traumas that prevent them from entering into relationships. The speaker advises those who recognize such issues to seek God's guidance and healing, as dealing with these fears is crucial for aligning with the right person. The paragraph also touches on the importance of timing and accepting that sometimes God's plan may not align with our immediate desires.
🌟 Accepting Realities and Letting Go of Unrealistic Expectations
The final paragraph addresses the realization that no one can completely fulfill us except for Jesus, who is our ultimate sustainer and savior. It suggests that accepting the inadequacy of a partner to solve all our problems is a sign of God's alignment with the right person. The paragraph encourages viewers to let go of unrealistic expectations and to understand that true fulfillment comes from God, not from a relationship. It concludes with a reminder that being aligned with the right person at God's timing is a blessing.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Difficult Things
💡God's Will
💡Right Person
💡Letting Go
💡Desire
💡Sacrifice
💡Fear
💡Unrealistic Expectations
💡Adequacy
💡Idol
💡God's Timing
Highlights
God uses difficult experiences to help us fulfill His will, including finding the right person to marry.
Realizing you must let go of someone you thought was 'the one' can indicate God is aligning you with the right person.
Christians often go through a period of accepting they were wrong about someone being 'the one' before finding the right match.
Scripture teaches that God's ways are better than ours and He has better plans than we can imagine.
Sacrificing one relationship desire for another can be a sign of God aligning you with the right person.
Desires can conflict, and meeting the right person may require giving up other desires.
Example given: Choosing between marrying someone with a shared passion for missions or accepting someone without that passion.
True love involves some sacrifice and it's rare to have all desires met in a relationship.
Facing and overcoming fears that block healthy relationships is a sign of God's alignment.
Identifying and dealing with personal issues can lead to a healthier relationship with the right person.
Accepting that the right person won't fulfill all your needs is a step towards God's timing and plan.
Jesus is our sustainer and letting go of unrealistic expectations brings us closer to the right person.
The speaker, Mark, encourages viewers to engage with the ministry and share the videos.
Mark's video aims to provide spiritual guidance and practical advice for finding a life partner.
Transcripts
God uses difficult things in our life to
help us accomplish the will that he
wants for us and this truth applies to
finding the right person God has for us
as well therefore here are four
challenging things God will use to help
your heart align with the right person
he wants you to marry number one if
you're beginning to realize you have to
let go of someone who you thought was
the one that's a good sign that God is
actually aligning you to be with the
real one maybe you clicked on this video
hoping to see some signs that would
confirm you'll be with that person you
have in your mind that you think may be
the one for you and maybe this video
will confirm that and maybe you will see
signs that God is going to let you marry
that person who you think is the one but
I just want to point out that it's very
common for Christians to have to go
through a period of where they thought
someone was the one but then they have
to go through this challenging
experience of accepting that they were
wrong that this isn't the one so you're
not alone that's usually something that
happens to most of us in our season of
singleness before God does align us with
the right one so be encouraged that if
you are going through that process and
if you think you know you could just
never be happy with anyone but the this
one person remember the truth of
scripture that God's ways are better
than our ways that he has things planned
that are better than we can even imagine
so while you might be with someone
different than you thought you'll also
have to REM remember that this means God
has someone better for you than you
thought number two if you have to
sacrifice one relationship desire in
order to experience a another
relationship desire that's a good sign
God is aligning you to meet the one
sometimes our desires conflict with each
other in other words to experience one
desire that you have you have to let go
of a different desire I know it's
tempting to think that we can have it
all and maybe you'll be one of those
people who does get to experience all of
those desires that you currently have
but more often than not what happens is
that you meet a real person and you
realize that they aren't going to be
able to have all of those desires that
you thought in other words to have one
of the things you really want you have
to sacrifice one of the other things
that you also really want so for example
to help us understand this here's here's
something to think about maybe you're
someone who wants to marry someone else
who loves missions like you you want to
be be a missionary right now you're not
a missionary but you think you know down
the line that's something I want to do
and I want to marry someone with that
same desire but then you actually meet a
real person you fall in love with that
person this person loves Jesus they have
a strong passion for Ministry but
missions is not one of those strong
passions they're not like against
missions but that's just not what they
feel called to do with their life now
you're going to be presented with a
choice are you going to not choose this
person because you're going to wait for
someone else that you're going to fall
in love with who also loves missions or
are you willing to accept that maybe God
is saying this is the person I have for
you but you're going to have to let go
of that other desire to do missions I
you know God still wants you to serve
him but you don't have to just serve him
in one narrow way there's millions of
ways that you can love God and and serve
him and other people that's often what
happens when you're aligning with the
one you have to be letting go of some so
that you can actually receive some other
things because in real life it's very
rare that everything on your list
actually comes true and just as a quick
side note before we move on I'm not
saying that you need to let go of
everything if you have to literally just
let go of every other desire you have in
order to be with somebody that's
probably a sign that you shouldn't be
with that person there's going to be a
lot of congruity in your life when you
meet the right person but also when true
love is present there always will be
some sacrifice number three if you're
beginning to face one of those fears
that have directly blocked you from
getting into a healthy relationship
that's a good sign that God is aligning
you to be with the right person for some
of you there isn't some glaring issue
that's you know definitely the reason
why you haven't met somebody sometimes
it's just a timing thing there's just a
general you know lack of order or
direction and you just haven't met that
person we all are in that phase at some
point in life you know you before you
meet somebody you're in that General
confusion phase of I don't know who to
meet but for other people
there's an exact issue they know is the
issue so you know they know I have a
death fear of talking to women obviously
that is probably the number one reason
you haven't actually gotten in a
relationship with a woman or you've been
abused as a child and you know you
haven't dealt with that trauma and every
time you get in a relationship with
someone all those issues start coming
out and just completely derail the
relationship the trauma the issues in
your childhood weren't your fault but
now as an adult you haven't yet chosen
to deal with those things so that you
can function in a healthy relationship
again there are millions of examples
that could be the specific issue and you
know what that issue is for you if there
is that issue if you're like I don't
know what that issue is well certainly
wise to just pray about it you know pray
what it says in Psalms 139 that God
would reveal anything in you that needs
to be exposed but if there isn't
something then just accept that there
isn't and it's just not God's timing and
number four if you are beginning to
accept how inadequate it the one
actually is to fulfill you like they
that you thought they would fill you
that's a great sign that God is actually
preparing you and aligning you to be
with this person maybe you have very
realistic expectations and you don't
need to go through this process of
letting the idol go but a lot of us
almost all of us it's basically
impossible to have a full true real
expectation of this relationship until
you get into that relationship because
we all just naturally dream hope and
some of those things just aren't going
to happen so when you can accept that
this person is not going to solve my
deepest problems Jesus alone is our
sustainer Our Savior and when we can let
go of those unrealistic expectations we
are that much closer to being aligned
with the right person and God's timing a
thumbs Up's a huge blessing into this
ministry it helps these videos spread to
other people who might need to see them
I'm Mark from applygodsword decom and
I'll see you at the next video God bless
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