Sitting on My Floor and Talking About Life
Summary
TLDRIn this heartfelt video, the creator shares her personal journey of self-discovery and growth, highlighting the importance of authenticity and aligning one's beliefs with actions. She discusses the significance of her audience, her gratitude for past struggles, and the motivation behind her endeavors. The script touches on themes of aging, inspiration, and the pursuit of happiness, offering advice to younger viewers and reflecting on life's purpose and the value of perseverance.
Takeaways
- 😄 The speaker is currently feeling fantastic, thriving during Leo season, and experiencing personal growth and travel.
- 🌞 The speaker is on a spiritual journey and feels like they are becoming the best version of themselves, aligning their beliefs with their lifestyle.
- 👚 The speaker is wearing shorts to prevent wardrobe malfunctions, indicating a casual and candid approach to the video.
- 💌 The speaker values authenticity and encourages viewers to be themselves without concern for others' opinions.
- 🙏 The speaker expresses gratitude for their audience, feeling honored to have their support through different stages of her life.
- 😢 The speaker acknowledges past struggles with mental health and the importance of self-improvement and finding one's spirit.
- 🔄 The speaker is grateful for their past self for being diligent and steadfast, attributing their current success to their past efforts.
- 🏡 The speaker shares a profound experience of seeing a beautiful cityscape from their window, symbolizing the potential for life to continually improve.
- 🤔 The speaker contemplates the meaning of life, suggesting it is about enjoying the experience and leaving the world a better place.
- 💖 The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-love and acceptance, stating that one does not need to be perfect to enjoy life.
- 🚶♀️ The speaker advises persistence in the face of challenges, using the example of her business endeavors and the value of not giving up.
Q & A
What is the main activity the speaker and her friends engage in together?
-The main activity is sitting on the floor and talking until late at night, around 3:00 AM.
What is the speaker's current state of mind and how does she feel about her recent experiences?
-The speaker feels fantastic, thriving in the summertime, and believes she is growing as a person with many experiences and a spiritual journey.
What does the speaker mean by 'coming alive again' and getting back to who she used to be?
-The speaker feels like she has regained her true self and is evolving into an even better version after a period of feeling lost and not being herself.
What advice does the speaker give to the 'girlies' about living their lives?
-The speaker advises them to do whatever they want, regardless of others' opinions, and to be authentically themselves in every area of life.
What is the speaker grateful for, according to the transcript?
-The speaker is grateful for her audience, her growth, and her past self's diligence and belief in herself.
How does the speaker describe her mental health journey and recent changes?
-The speaker admits to previously suppressing her feelings and not being in a great state mentally for a long time, but she has taken steps to change and find herself again.
What does the speaker believe is the meaning of life?
-The speaker believes the meaning of life is to enjoy it, viewing life as a spiritual experience and aiming to leave the Earth a little better than she found it.
What is the speaker's perspective on aging and how does she view her future self?
-The speaker embraces aging and sees herself as a chic, cool old lady in the future, believing her prime will be when she's 75.
What lesson does the speaker share about the view from her old apartment window?
-The lesson is that things can always get better, even when you think you've experienced the best, and there's always more magic and wonderful experiences ahead.
What is the speaker's approach to dealing with challenges and setbacks in her various projects?
-The speaker believes in perseverance and not giving up, knowing that the struggle makes the eventual success even more meaningful.
What advice does the speaker have for someone who is 18 and what does she suggest for making memories?
-The advice is to have fun, not to worry about knowing everything, to make wise decisions, and to create memories that will make one smile when looking back.
Outlines
🌟 Embracing Authenticity and Growth
The speaker expresses a sense of fulfillment and happiness, attributing it to the Leo season and personal growth. They discuss their journey towards becoming the best version of themselves, aligning their beliefs with their actions, and embracing authenticity. The speaker also shares advice on living life without fear of others' opinions and expresses gratitude for their audience, reflecting on the importance of their past self in shaping their present.
💪 Overcoming Struggles and Self-Rediscovery
The speaker candidly discusses their past struggles with mental health and the realization that led to a desire for change. They share their journey of self-rediscovery and the steps taken to improve their life, including the creation of this video as a therapeutic act. The speaker also promotes BetterHelp as a resource for those needing to talk to someone, highlighting its ease of use and the importance of seeking help in the journey towards self-improvement.
🌈 Dreaming Beyond YouTube and Life's Inspirations
The speaker contemplates what they would do if YouTube didn't exist, expressing a desire to continue creating content and possibly transition into a more retirement-like phase of their channel. They also share their aspirations to become a teacher and the importance of leaving a legacy. Nostalgia and the desire to be remembered positively are cited as significant inspirations in their life, along with a profound story about a beautiful view from a window that changed their perspective on life's potential for beauty and improvement.
💖 Self-Love, Perseverance, and Life's Journey
The speaker delves into the concept of self-love, emphasizing that it doesn't require perfection and is more about acceptance. They discuss the importance of viewing oneself as a spiritual being and the body as an art piece. The speaker also talks about the challenges of pursuing perfection in their various ventures and the motivation to continue despite setbacks. They offer advice to their 18-year-old self and others, encouraging them to enjoy life, make memories, and embrace the journey of growth.
🤔 Navigating Life Stages and Looking Ahead
The speaker reflects on the diversity of their social circle, ranging from younger college students to older, wealthier individuals, and how these relationships contribute to their personal growth. They share their vision for the future, hoping to continue doing what they love on a grander scale, and express a positive outlook on aging. The speaker also discusses the importance of maintaining connections with friends in different life stages and the lessons learned throughout the year, including the power of pure intentions and fearlessness.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Authenticity
💡Emotional Journey
💡Self-Improvement
💡Gratitude
💡Mental Health
💡Inspiration
💡Manifestation
💡Legacy
💡Resilience
💡Personal Growth
Highlights
The speaker enjoys late-night conversations and considers the audience as friends for this session.
Wearing shorts to prevent wardrobe malfunctions, hinting at the casual and candid nature of the video.
The speaker is experiencing a fantastic phase of life, particularly during Leo season, and feels aligned with personal growth.
A spiritual journey is underway, with a focus on becoming the best version of oneself.
The importance of authenticity and living life according to one's beliefs is emphasized for inner peace and joy.
Advice for women to be fearless and do whatever they want, regardless of others' opinions.
Gratitude expressed for the audience and the impact they have on the speaker's life.
The speaker is grateful for her past self's diligence and belief in herself, despite challenges.
Mental health is discussed, with the speaker admitting to past struggles and the journey to improvement.
BetterHelp is introduced as a resource for those needing to talk to someone about their mental health.
The speaker's aspiration to be a teacher if not on YouTube, highlighting the passion for sharing knowledge.
Nostalgia and the desire to leave a lasting legacy are cited as significant inspirations in life.
A profound experience with a beautiful cityscape view that changed the speaker's perspective on life's potential for improvement.
The meaning of life is discussed as enjoying the experience and leaving the world a better place.
Learning to love oneself is not about being perfect but accepting imperfections and enjoying life.
Perseverance and not giving up, even when faced with challenges, is key to achieving goals.
Advice for an 18-year-old on the importance of having fun, making memories, and being okay with not knowing everything.
The speaker reflects on maintaining connections with friends in different life stages and the value of learning from everyone.
Envisioning oneself 30 years in the future, the speaker hopes to be doing the same thing on a grander scale and being proud of the legacy left behind.
Embracing aging and the belief in becoming the world's greatest old lady with grace and style.
A lesson learned this year is to be fearless when intentions are pure and to act on beliefs.
The acceptance of not always getting what one wants but always going after it with grace.
Manifesting success through hard work and the belief that everything will turn into good luck.
Encouragement for someone experiencing a quarter-life crisis, with reassurance that things will work out and dreams can come true.
A humorous preference choice between sending a link to mom or finding out about lingerie, showing the speaker's light-hearted side.
Transcripts
all right there that looks pretty good
hi guys this is what me and my friends
do all the time we will just sit here on
my floor until like 3:00 in the morning
and talk so today you guys are going to
be my friends and we're just going to
talk PS guys outfit of the day I am in
fact wearing shorts cuz I already know
there's going to be wardrobe
malfunctions in this video so I just
posted on Instagram maybe what do you
guys want to know um so let's see we can
start with this how have you been in
general um honestly I have been
fantastic lately it is Leo season I
thrive in the summertime I just have
been feeling
so good lately I've been having like the
ultimate haot R summer a lot has been
going on I've been traveling all over
the place and not just experiences like
that but I feel like I'm growing as a
person a lot right now um like I've been
saying in all my videos lately I just
really want to be the best version of
myself and I'm on kind of like a
spiritual journey at the moment um I
felt like like I said a while ago I kind
of lost myself for a little too long um
I think
and I'm not going to get emotional
already but um yeah I just feel like I
was not myself for the last long long
time and I feel like this summer I've
been coming alive again and just getting
really back to who I used to be and not
only who I used to be but who I'm
becoming and I think really honing in
and creating the best version of me and
I know I've been saying that in a lot of
my videos and what does that really mean
and honestly I don't know I'm kind of
figuring it out as I go but I will say I
think more than ever I am really
starting to align how I believe you
should live your life with how I do live
my life and that is just bringing me a
lot of peace and joy and I think I've
just been more authentically myself
lately in every area of my life and that
has just been really really refreshing
and I think that's just been making me
really happy so yeah you know I love
giving advice how about this best tip
for the girlies do whatever you want
literally all the time it doesn't matter
what other people think it doesn't
matter what other people people say you
know if you want to dye your hair bright
pink dye your hair bright pink you want
to text him first text him first if you
want to quit your job and go become an
artist do it as the girlies we are the
Ethereal fairy princess angels of the
earth whoever you are when you close
your eyes and dream up your perfect
dream girl be her you can do it anything
at all what are you most grateful for
honestly I have so many answers to this
question and I think I'm very grateful
for that to be honest I'm grateful that
I'm grateful for so many things in my
life but I will say this there's two
that are overwhelmingly kind of similar
um and intertwined such a Cheesy answer
but it's so true it is you guys watching
it is um it is 0% lost on me how lucky I
am to have an army of amazing strong
beautiful women watching me through a
screen I um you know I went to the
Taylor Swift eras tour obviously it was
amazing I'm a huge Swifty I'm grateful
for Taylor Swift I'm grateful to be
alive in this era I also went to the
1989 tour um and I remember sitting in
Staple Center and I'm looking around at
all the people in the stadium and she
says I just want to say thank you to all
15,000 of you who came out
tonight and I couldn't help but think
you know 15,000 people selling out
Staple Center I'm talking to many many
Knights right now of a sold out Staple
Center tour um hi welcome to aers era
tours actually honestly that's a great
example that is kind of how I feel
lately I feel like I am just entering
into a new era of my life and you guys
have been here through all of the
different eras of my life and now I'm
moving into another one and to have
women standing behind me is just the one
of the greatest honors in the world and
I'm so so grateful um that you guys I'm
going to cry that you guys chose um
chose to watch back then and choose to
watch still now so thank you so much for
that I'm really grateful I really am
yeah oh
no I'm also grateful that tears taste
good
salty it goes along with that but
actually the other thing that I'm super
grateful for is um my past self
really you know I was saying earlier how
things are hard to do and it's not uh
it's not every day that someone is brave
enough or strong enough or courageous
enough to do anything and I am so
grateful that I was so diligent and so
steadfast and so
just believed in myself so so so much
back when there was no reason for me to
so I owe my whole life today to who I
was back then and I'm so grateful um I'm
just so grateful for who I was then oh
man this was supposed to be fun I mean
it is fun I like a good cry I'm not
going to lie how you're doing with your
mental health you look happier
thanks okay so I'm not going to lie I
used to push most of that stuff under
the rug just because you know on the
outside my life is so perfect it really
is and again not lost on me I mean look
at this background you know I'm the
luckiest girl in the world um and I
really believe that which is a very
important montra that I do keep in mind
all the time I am a very lucky girl but
aside from that um whether you noticed
or not I don't know but yeah I wasn't
feeling great for like honestly a long
time um and I think realizing how much
that had been affecting me the last few
years made me want to take steps to
really change um change my world you
know I didn't want to live in a mess
anymore I didn't want to dress like a
slob anymore I didn't want to
um I didn't want to let the wonderful
world that I had created for myself go
to waste so I just really wanted to
bring back to life the me that I knew
was still inside of me and um yeah I
think that's what really kickstarted
everything so I've been really just
trying to find myself again lately and
get back to my spirit and even this
video just something I've always wanted
to kind of sit down and do doing it um
it's really good for my soul I feel like
it's it's bringing me back to life in
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cheers to all of us becoming you know
the best versions of ourselves I think
together we're already on a pretty good
start so looking forward to what the
future has to hold for us okay this is a
good one what job would you want to do
if YouTube didn't exist you know if
someone gave me a billion dollars and
said you don't ever have to work another
day in your life what would you do I
would absolutely still do this and I
think I want to transition my channel
actually um a little more into what I
would do if I was retired you know like
this is the kind of video that I would
make if I never had to do anything ever
again and I'm so lucky because people
often ask me this question you know like
oh do you have any hobbies and um the
answer is actually no not to sound super
boring but all of my hobbies have been
lucky enough to turn into a career back
when I had 100 other jobs this is what I
was doing doing for fun and if I wasn't
doing this I would want to be a teacher
for sure I love sharing what I know and
what I've learned and helping people
grow up I feel like love showing you
guys the world and showing you guys how
to do things and I do make my videos to
be entertaining so I hope you're having
a little bit of a good time watching
this at least but mostly I hope you go
away with every video that I ever post
um with some kind of little nugget of
knowledge that will make you walk
through the world a little differently
so teacher I think is what I would do
what is your biggest inspiration in
life you know I have a lot of things
that really inspire me I got to say my
Nostalgia for the past um I think I've
had many past lives as you guys know I'm
very into like vintage and antique and
I'm a very old soul and I think that
this particular lifetime I think this is
my last one you know I think this is my
last time on earth and the Legacy that I
want to leave behind is what inspires me
the most I think just how will I be
thought of for many years down the road
like when people say my name in a 100
years 200 years what will they say if I
ever have a daughter someday what is she
going to say about her mom and while I
have the chance you know what am I going
to say to you guys I am living one of my
wildest dreams right now I used to sit
on my floor and talk to the camera when
no one was watching so what am I going
to say to you and how will you remember
me and my mark in the art history book
of time I think about that all the time
what was one experience that changed
your perspective about life since this
is a video about life I think that's a
pretty good one but I've actually always
wanted to tell this story um but I guess
I never really had an opportunity in a
video until now so here's my big chance
um my old apartment um the first one
that I ever moved into post post being a
YouTuber remember that big window I used
to have in there the story is about the
window so um before I ever moved in I
only toured it in the day so I had never
seen that window at night up until the
first night I was actually living there
and I remember I looked out it for the
first time and I just it took my breath
away and um I just remember thinking
that that was the most beautiful thing I
had ever seen the cityscape sparkling in
the background it it just made I mean I
could tear up thinking about it right
now I just remember it was like such an
important moment in my life but cut to
the next night I looked out the window
and it was just 50 times more beautiful
than the night before glittering
sparkling crystal clear and I realized
that the night before before had
actually been a really cloudy night and
actually wasn't even close to as
beautiful as the view could really be
and that was a lesson I think and things
just really can always get better even
when you think that something is the
best thing you've ever seen done
whatever there is always more Magic on
the horizon and some of the most amazing
wonderful Days of Our Lives have truly
never even happened yet and that I think
that night realizing um that something
that I thought was was the most
beautiful thing I'd ever seen in the
world it wasn't even half of all that
could and will be just made me realize
that God actually has so many more
wonderful things in store and things
that you don't even know um especially
now you know I mean thinking back on how
beautiful that window was and how much
it used to take my breath away it's
still not even close to the window that
I have now and I think the metaphor in
there is that life really can get so
good you never even really know just how
good it can actually get there's always
so much more the meaning of Life wow you
know I honestly think the meaning of
life is to enjoy that's it I like to
think of life as kind of a spiritual
experience instead of a human one like
if I was an angel up in heaven and God
said would you like to go down and like
see what it's like to be a human I would
imagine since it's me I would have been
like oh my gosh yes um so I kind of like
to think in that scenario like I'm just
an angel participating in this world um
and learning and seeing like what The
Human Experience can be like and what is
it like to have a body and what is it
like to learn and grow and it'll be nice
to go back up to the angels someday and
tell them all the things I learned and
saw and you know made my soul grow I
want to be able to go back up to heaven
and tell God I had a great time I also
like the idea that I'll leave the Earth
just a little better than I found it you
know how do I love myself I've read
every book repeated every affirmation
and I still
fail you know what I done a couple
videos sort of on this topic in the past
um but I think the biggest thing to
learning to love yourself is that you
don't have to be perfect to love
yourself at all in fact you don't even
have to like yourself very much you just
have to kind of accept that you're not
perfect and that's okay and that doesn't
mean that you don't deserve to enjoy
your life how I was kind of saying
earlier that we're just like Spiritual
Beings um experiencing the human life
your body is just a vessel you're much
more of a soul than you are of anything
else and I think learning to love that
um and thinking about your physical form
is just an art piece to express who you
are on the inside and it's never going
to be perfect but that's kind of what
makes it art and unique and you should
enjoy it because there's only one you I
think it's kind of a lifelong journey
too it's not something that you wake up
overnight and you're like oh yeah I love
myself now but I think becoming friends
with yourself and over time just
realizing it's okay if you're not
perfect you're never going to be there's
still things to love about yourself
learn and grow you know how do you keep
going when it feels like everything is
trying to push you back this is
something that I feel like I've really
been Lear learning a lot lately um
specifically with as you know I do a
bunch of businesses and I do all sorts
of things and you guys know I'm always
talking about relaunching 333 and it has
taken me 5 million years to do what I
want to do with it and it's just so hard
like funding is hard the manufacturing
is hard like when you are a
perfectionist like me getting everything
perfect is very hard but I tell you this
I held one of the Rings in my hand the
other day for the first time dozens of
samples later months of working on it
and I can honestly say it was perfect
and holding perfection in my hand after
so many months of working on it I was
not only holding something that I was so
proud of I was holding something no one
had ever done before and the reason that
no one has ever done it is because it's
hard and the greatest of the greats are
great at something because most people
stop on the way there and most people do
not you know when things are pushing
them back they stop there's a famous
quote that basically says go the extra
mile it's never crowded point is what
keeps me going when things are always
pushing me back is knowing for every
single thing that pushes me back it just
amplifies how much more it will mean to
me on the other side
so yeah I genuinely believe if you never
give up you're going to get whatever it
is that you want so that always keeps me
going all the greats are one of one I
just turned 18 what's some big girl
advice you would give knowing what you
know now you know weirdly I feel like
being 18 was not that long ago I think
have fun and know that it's okay to not
really know everything 18 you feel like
you're so old and mature and you've
lived a whole life but that's not true
at all you're just a baby of the
universe still and make wise decisions
but also know that it's okay if you mess
up it's okay if you don't do everything
perfectly so find your passions chase
them relentlessly and uh know that it's
all going to work out no matter what and
remember to make memories that someday
when you're 30 sitting on your floor and
someone asks you about what it was like
to be 18 make sure you make memories
that will make you smile very big this
is actually a very interesting question
cuz I I've been thinking about this a
lot lately how do you keep connecting
with friends who are in a different
stage in their lives hear me out I have
friends all over the board I have
friends who are 21 and are in college
and are like I feel like I'm their cool
aunt and I'm like mentoring them and
helping them grow and then I have
friends who are 57 who are mentoring me
and are helping me grow I know people
living out of their car and I know
people who made $80 million last year I
truly have such a wide range of people
that I know and people in my life and I
think that's one of the things that keep
me very aware of myself and time and how
much I have grown and how much I still
have left to grow and I think the best
way to stay connected to our fellow
humans in general is just remember that
you can learn so so much from everyone
no matter what Walk of Life stage of
Life anything we're all a lot more
similar than we are different so even in
different stages we all very similar
Souls you know on that topic this is
kind of a nice one where do you see
yourself 30 years from
now honestly I hope 30 years from now
I'm doing the same thing that I'm doing
now but on a more Grand scale how do I
explain this I think how I was just
saying like when I'm you know 30 looking
back on being 18 I hope that when I'm 99
I'm looking back on my life now and
thinking hell yeah I I did it first of
all I'm going to be a very chic little
old lady with like I already know my
haircut it's going to be like gray and
come out like this and be swoopy and I'm
going to be just so Chic and cool all
dressed in my vintage Chanel that I'm
buying today but yeah I I think um like
I said I hope I made the Legacy that I
wanted to make and I can look back on my
life and really be super super proud
probably sitting right here in the sky
castle too except I have a chair are you
afraid of Aging no I think that I'm
going to be the world's greatest old
lady I just think that's in my destiny
I'm already a 97-year-old and a
30-year-old's body my Prime is going to
be when I'm 75 I think I like to think
that I live my hotness to the fullest
you know like I am wearing short skirts
I'm really doing the most to enjoy this
era but you know the little wrinkles by
my eyes and stuff it just means I smiled
a lot so I don't mind know what is
something that you learned this year
Well I write every year on my birthday
you guys know this I write little lists
um of what I learned over the year and
you know 25 things I learned to 25 22
things I learned to 22 and something I'm
definitely going to write on the list
this year is this if your intentions are
pure be Fearless if your heart truly
believes Bel that it needs to be said or
done do it the world always needs more
of things done in love I don't know if I
even have an answer for this question
but have you let go of something you
desperately wanted it's really deep um I
wrote this down on my list last year
which is you can't always have
everything you want but you can always
go after it and you should always go
after it and I think I've let go of
things that I thought I desperately
wanted but sometimes no is an answer
that you want from the UN universe and
I've learned to accept that um with
Grace I think if something has really
meant for me it will come to me and I do
believe I'm always divinely protected
you know main tips for manifesting hard
work will always turn into good luck
will everything work out I'm currently
having a quarter life crisis please help
the girly out love you too let me tell
you this not only will everything work
out but but things are going to be even
better than you ever literally could
have dreamed of um I mean if this is not
proof enough I am living breathing proof
um that your dreams can happen I mean if
I could have only seen this when I
started um my channel my God but you
know what I got to tell you but I did
always kind of see it in here one of my
go-to number one favorite quotes that
always calms me down is that you can't
mess up fate you know it's whatever's
written in the stars is going to happen
no matter what I honestly believe that
one of the only reasons we dream things
is because Destiny has already ordained
it for us so always keep that thought in
your heart and mind and never stop
believing and never stop chasing
everything that it is that you want
because someday you'll be sitting in it
on that note um I love you kisses till
next time
EXO too long to type in the question box
box but would you rather accidentally
send your mom a link to or find out the
lingerie your man bought you is
used probably rather send my mom a
l she already knows I shop online a lot
it's wouldn't be that weird sorry Mom
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