Dating in Bali - Our Relationship Q&A
Summary
TLDRIn this engaging vlog, a couple explores their relationship dynamics through an impromptu Q&A session, revealing surprising insights and candid moments. From discovering their compatibility in various aspects of life to sharing their dreams and aspirations, the couple's chemistry shines through. Their shared experiences, from ice baths to dance classes, highlight a relationship built on mutual support and a sense of adventure. The video captures the essence of love finding its way in unexpected times, emphasizing the importance of communication and determination in fostering a strong bond.
Takeaways
- 🌟 The couple in the video are doing a Q&A session to explore interesting aspects of their relationship and get to know each other better.
- 🌏 The girlfriend is from Ukraine and initially didn't know English, which adds a layer of cultural and language dynamic to their relationship.
- 🎉 They have been together for only three months, making their relationship relatively new and full of discoveries.
- 🎬 The video is a part of their YouTube vlog, indicating that they are content creators and their relationship is also part of their professional life.
- 💡 They discuss surprises in their relationship, such as the girlfriend's age, which was initially a shock to the boyfriend but doesn't affect their bond.
- 🏡 The couple's careers are complementary, with the boyfriend in property development and the girlfriend in interior design, suggesting a synergy in their professional and personal lives.
- 🌞 They enjoy spending time together doing activities like watching movies, playing chess, going to the beach, and exploring new places, highlighting their shared interests.
- 💨 There are some humorous and candid discussions about personal habits, like farting in front of each other, showing a level of comfort and intimacy in their relationship.
- 💖 The boyfriend is attracted to the girlfriend's smile, and she admires his intelligence and deep conversations, indicating mutual admiration and attraction.
- 🌈 They have dreams of traveling the world and giving back to those less fortunate, reflecting their aspirations and values.
- 📚 They share book recommendations, with the boyfriend mentioning 'Influence' by Robert Cialdini and the girlfriend suggesting 'The 5 a.m. Club', showing their interest in personal development.
Q & A
What is the main theme of the video?
-The main theme of the video is a Q&A session between the vlogger and his girlfriend, where they answer questions about their relationship and personal lives.
How long have they been together?
-They have been together for three months.
What is the nationality of the girlfriend?
-The girlfriend is from Ukraine.
What language issue did they face initially?
-The girlfriend initially had difficulty speaking English.
What was the surprising discovery about the girlfriend's age?
-The girlfriend is 43 years old, which was a surprise to the vlogger as he initially thought she was younger.
What are their current career goals?
-The vlogger is working on multiple projects related to the digital world, including ebooks and courses, while the girlfriend is into interior design.
Do they work together professionally?
-Yes, they work together, particularly on their YouTube channel where they collaborate on content creation.
What are some of the irritations they have for each other?
-One irritation is the girlfriend's accent, and the vlogger's strictness and control.
What is the biggest attraction each of them has for their partner?
-The vlogger is attracted to his girlfriend's smile, while she is attracted to his deep conversations and intelligence.
What is their typical weekend activity?
-Their typical weekend activities include watching movies, playing chess, going to the beach, sunbathing, and exploring new places.
How do they handle personal habits like farting in front of each other?
-They admit to being comfortable with such habits after a month of being together, indicating a level of intimacy and comfort.
What movie title best describes their relationship?
-The vlogger suggests 'Fast and Furious' due to their determination and the spice in their relationship, while the girlfriend jokingly suggests 'Dumb and Dumber'.
What are their biggest dreams?
-The girlfriend dreams of having peace everywhere and a beautiful house with animals, while the vlogger dreams of being able to travel the world and give back to those less fortunate.
How did they meet?
-They met through Instagram, initially at a gym, and later officially met up at Broward beach in Bali.
What was one of their memorable adventures?
-One of their memorable adventures was a trip to Thailand for the girlfriend's birthday.
Outlines
🌟 Getting to Know Each Other
In this paragraph, the couple introduces their relationship, which is only three months old, and sets the stage for a Q&A session. They plan to answer questions about their relationship that they haven't seen beforehand, aiming to uncover surprises and deepen their understanding of each other. The conversation touches on topics like personal habits, career goals, and how they work together. They also discuss their backgrounds, with the girlfriend being from Ukraine and the boyfriend being multilingual.
💑 Relationship Dynamics and Attractions
The couple delves into the dynamics of their relationship, discussing their daily routines, what they do to relax on weekends, and their personal habits, such as whether they fart in front of each other. They also reveal their biggest attractions to each other, with the boyfriend admiring the girlfriend's smile and the girlfriend appreciating their deep conversations. The paragraph ends with a playful banter about their relationship being like a movie title, with suggestions ranging from 'Fast and Furious' to 'Dumb and Dumber'.
🌴 Meeting and Early Days
This paragraph recounts how the couple met and their initial interactions. The boyfriend had seen the girlfriend at the gym and later connected through Instagram. They had their first meeting at a beach in Bali, where they had deep conversations and watched the sunset. Their first kiss is described as magical, and the girlfriend eventually moved in after a month and a half. The paragraph also touches on their first big adventure together, a trip to Thailand, which served as a test for their relationship.
🏝 Life in Bali and Future Dreams
The final paragraph focuses on the couple's current life in Bali, enjoying their time in a beautiful villa, eating pineapples, and drinking wine. They reflect on the importance of communication and determination in their relationship and express their hopes to inspire others. The boyfriend talks about documenting their life through YouTube Vlogs as a way to hold themselves accountable for their goals. The paragraph concludes with a heartfelt message about love finding its way in unexpected times and a call to action for viewers to like, subscribe, and join them on their journey.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Q and A
💡Relationship Goals
💡Interior Design
💡Property Development
💡Communication
💡Digital World
💡Cultural Differences
💡Accommodation
💡Travel
💡Inspiration
💡Age Gap
Highlights
The couple engages in a Q&A session to uncover interesting aspects of their relationship.
Girlfriend is from Ukraine and initially struggled with English, adding a dynamic to their relationship.
The couple has been together for three months and uses this Q&A to learn more about each other.
Age difference is revealed as a surprise, with the girlfriend being 43 years old.
The couple believes age is not a barrier in a relationship, emphasizing maturity and shared goals.
Both partners work on different projects, with the boyfriend involved in digital ventures like ebooks and courses.
They acknowledge working together, particularly on YouTube, and supporting each other's careers.
Differences in lifestyle preferences, such as room temperature, are mentioned as minor irritations.
The couple shares their biggest attraction to each other, focusing on smiles and personalities.
Weekend relaxation involves watching movies, playing chess, and going to the beach.
Candidly discussing personal habits, such as farting in front of each other, adds humor to their relationship.
Describing their relationship as 'Fast and Furious' symbolizes determination and spice.
Dreams of living in different eras are shared, with preferences ranging from modern times to caveman days.
Everyday gestures like morning cuddles are highlighted as moments that strengthen their bond.
The couple's first meeting and the progression of their relationship from uncertainty to love is detailed.
A trip to Thailand is recounted as a test and strengthening experience for their relationship.
The video concludes with reflections on love, communication, and the importance of documenting their journey.
Transcripts
Sex in the City
you're gonna come back
what is irritating me I thought that she
was way younger I was a surprise for you
seriously found a cute guy
and I have to shut downstairs
okay welcome back to another Vlog this
one is a special one because I've got my
beautiful girlfriend here with me and we
are going to be doing a Q and A the most
interesting questions that we could get
chat GPT to give us it's gonna uncover
some real treats with our relationship
not all the questions we've actually
looked at so there's gonna be some
questions in here that are going to be a
complete shock to us it's on the spot
there's no planning and pretty much this
is for you to get to know us and for us
to get to know one another because we've
only been together for only three months
now let me read some of the questions to
you some surprising things that we
discovered about each other do we fart
in front of each other that's the most
embarrassing thing that we've ever done
in public yeah there are some weird
questions in here but that is part of
the game I think I need some deodorant
first
first question one surprise is okay yes
she is from Ukraine and she doesn't know
how to speak English so at least I speak
a few languages oh okay there we go the
competition is fierce one surprising
thing that you discovered about me after
getting together did you hate partying
that is
a hate party I think where I'm right now
within my career and my lifestyle
partying is just not a focus to me I
think partying is something that you I
think it was surprising the way you
reacted
it was our first fight like
spongy the defense came out although
social drinking once in a while it's
okay I'm a health fanatic and also I
think what is something that you do when
you are looking for other people and
when you find someone that you're
already into you know you have other
interests and other things to do in the
evening one surprising thing that I
found out about you her age
so pretty much if you guys don't know
Tanya is a short history
she's 43. I found a cougar no but she is
a little bit older than me and just a
little bit when I first met her I
thought that she was way younger because
of look how gorgeous she is she still
looks like a little baby that was a
surprise for you seriously it was a
surprise but I don't think that age has
anything to do with a relationship age
is obsolete I think it depends on your
maturity level I think it depends on
where your goals are at and what you
want to focus your life on we have a
great balance between that so I think
since we're like fireworks what are your
current goals you are
husband
just looking for the best comp
lexible hours like the best team find
clients and find the best deal currently
I am working on multiple different
projects with regards to trying to tap
in to the digital world ebooks courses
things like that gonna keep it at that
do we work together we
here we go we do I would say because
right now we are doing this for YouTube
and this is part of my career and she's
sitting next to me drinking for me
I think we do work together I think that
it comes down to we have very good
routines and we support one another and
pretty much our careers are very
complementary meaning that she's into
interior design I'm into property
development and this kind of comes hand
in hand there's nothing yet that we've
done actually on a joint collaboration
yet but I think it'll come in the future
okay there you go that's one of the
questions
what are some irritations that we have
for one another you go first but
I made fun of your accent she doesn't
like to have the acorn cold she wants to
have this place like a sauna where I'm
more into having our bedroom as a
asphalt we compromise and she sleeps
outside
I was thinking that you are very strict
and like you're gonna control me what is
your biggest attraction of your partner
on everything I just adore you so much I
think bobby gets attraction is
definitely is your smile your cute
little smile that you did that's exactly
that that kills me every single time she
has perfect teeth she has it's not
forceful in any way it's like very
natural and you just come across very
beautiful and I think that's just makes
me adore you if I had to ask you the
same thing so my teeth really Fred that
is your smile not your teeth I forgot
the question
you have to think a lot okay well what's
your biggest attraction babe I can't
tell just because you're handsome
one big I think the biggest attraction
is we look sometimes so similar and so
she's vain she loves herself this is
this is what it is so very smart and
every hour conversation is very deep
what turns you on
my vibrator
what what do you do on the weekends to
relax we don't really we don't really
it's a Saturday we're making this right
now that's what we're doing we're
watching movies we watch movies we play
sometimes we fight because we can find
the movie we like to play chess we go to
the beach we relax we take a book we go
sunbathe we drive around we explore
sometimes I surf eat a lot we like to
set up like a little picnic blankets and
kind of just like take some things and
it comes away and kind of get out of the
area that we stay in and we're gonna
find somewhere a little bit more private
where there's not so many people and we
kind of just have our own like little
date do we fart in front of each other
girls don't fart you just like I just
yeah I let rip all the time I'd say
maybe it took me a month before I fought
it in front of you and in that month I
was like struggling with stomach pains
I was just getting bloated better at
than in I think that's it we better get
into some serious questions let's do a
little top up your bed
stomach that's what she said if you
if you describe our relationship using a
movie title what would it be and what
Sex in the City because it didn't work
this way yeah but we went to Bangkok I
think it would be fast and furious so
first and first for me is a movie about
like determination and chasing after
what you're going for and it kind of
resembles like family Far Side is the
fact that we are not stopping with our
goals and we are very determined to
succeed and to reach our full potential
and in the Furious side what I think
that there's a little bit of like Spice
in our relationship there's never ever a
dull moment Dumb and Dumber
okay I think because of our jokes all
the time if you could live in any era
which one would you choose and why maybe
error when one doesn't work
I think I wouldn't like it wouldn't
change it wouldn't change because I
would leave at this time because of
Technologies because of everything like
you can choose and do anything you want
like a lot of freedom not the best time
for Ukraine I think that I would take us
back to the caveman days Come Together
live in nature no stress it's like
Primal activities it's like survival of
the fittest being the best person that
we can be with regards to our
performance our health our mindset and I
think a lot of that is re-routing
yourself back to the old days of what it
took in order to survive yeah
describe a smaller everyday gesture or
action your partner does that never
fails to make you smile or laugh love
every morning when we wake up together
we turn off the alarm and we cuddle for
like another 10-15 minutes we have our
same cuddle position it's also how we go
to bed that's something that we do on a
daily that never ever fails to make me
just feel happy about our relationship I
think I know one that makes you laugh
every single day
one thing you have to change in your
daily life for your partner uh having
the aircon
and I have to shut down this
cheers
watch one place or activity on our
bucket list dance classes yeah we went
out once to a club here in Bali had the
most amazing night on the Dance Floor by
ourselves and it was pretty romantic and
special we probably thought that we're
really good but everyone else was pretty
decisive we're excited we tried it I
can't wait to take her back to South
Africa I just want some Lions to eat
one Health hack definitely ice baths
it's something that we do every single
day Monday to Friday we wake up in the
morning and we go straight to the gym
and we go to an Ice Bar it sets the mood
makes us relax that in meditation we do
a lot of meditation your best book you
have ever eat definitely this one
influence Robert childini 49 000 page
406 it's like a Bible of knowledge all
about psychology and persuasion if you
are into sales marketing anything like
that probably one of my best books it
was a book that I read when I was like
22 years old
it's about like when you wake up at six
I have to wake up very early how
productive you can be first a few hours
because your brain works very fast
it doesn't work very fast now another
book that I love that's very similar to
this book I'm guessing is the 5 a.m the
5 a.m Club was a great a great video
Ellie the Wine's kicking in and we don't
know what we're talking about now as
this video progresses we are just
getting more and more drunk if you were
to describe your partner as an animal
which animal would they be and why yeah
that's boring as [ __ ] wow my account
what do I do I don't sleep around I
don't look like a cat what animal will I
be then because for me you are like
little kitty
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what are your biggest dreams babe to
have peace everywhere so everyone like
very kind to each other very beautiful
house with you
these animals and we don't have any
allergies I think my biggest dream is to
be able to travel the world at any time
without any thought and to be able to
give those same experiences to the
people that mean the most to me and and
allow them to experience those same Joys
that I've been fortunate enough already
to see in my life but now to have the
ability financially to be able to give
back to those people who are less
fortunate in a way to allow them to have
those experiences
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wish to motivate and Inspire to the best
of our ability how did we meet
I think that's a good question we
actually never had met but I had seen
her at the gym a few months prior I had
stumbled across her Instagram I don't
know if I was a stalker I don't know how
I got that I remember finding out that
she was in a relationship and then I
kind of stepped off I went back to South
Africa came back to Bali and then I
messaged her to saying like are you
still in changu and she's like yeah and
I was like cool let's meet up um would
you like to go for a walk on the beach
we met up at
Thursday
remember this because of my stupid jokes
we didn't meet first time yes because
because please explain the joke let's
move back so I remember that we were
talking and I asked you where are you
from and you told from Africa like let's
meet tomorrow and on this day when we
had to meet I remember you asked me what
what is your plan for tonight and I
thought I have a meeting with an African
guy African guy and you didn't get the
joke
okay cool she has a meeting starts then
she wants to Surf
so yeah so
long story short tried to meet up that
night didn't and then we met up I think
the next day or following few days and
we met at Broward beach in Bali changu
for the first time kind of just watched
Sunset and I remember that first night
who kind of just like
we sat on this like tree stump like this
logs that I washed up onto the beach and
we're just watching the planes come in
and it was like it was quite a beautiful
night the stars are out and we're just
talking very deep stuff for like the
first time that we met we're actually
talking extremely deep like topics I was
just like straight to just finding out
who this girl is and like if ever she
was gonna pause everything and then
she's gonna get a second date but in the
beginning like we both actually have
said and honestly spoken about the fact
that we weren't like 100 sure if things
were going to work out at the beginning
in the beginning we didn't like just
meet him we were like in love for
example I think because red both come
out of very long relationships
previously were a bit hesitant to trust
and we're very curious on whether or not
this person was going to be the right
match for us and I think that's where a
lot of my defense came out like I didn't
I was
causing unnecessary fights because of
insecurities of mine but anyways long
story short we spent a few days again
and then we went out to a day Club
um here in luatu called surveyor by his
drinks are flying were in the pool and
we sealed the first kiss that was
magical
um and then the rest of the night
reconnaissance
staying in the corner of the club
just kissing and then after a month and
a half she moved in
what is one of the craziest Adventures
that we've been on just recently took a
trip to Thailand and and that was pretty
fun if you guys want to watch that video
you can watch it up here in this corner
um
but yeah that was a beautiful trip it
was for her birthday and that was
another test in order to see if the
relationship was really going to work
you know putting yourself into a
stressful situation going to a place
that you've never been kind of traveling
dealing with travel stresses I think is
a very complicated thing that if you can
get past that and those things if you
can live together and you can travel
together
well then you can love together I guess
things are already amazing we sing in a
beautiful Villa in Changi right now we
have the opportunity to travel I think
yeah I think life's fantastic we're
eating pineapple every night
drinking wine but I think that's the end
of this video guys I think that it's
been an absolute pleasure to share all
these crazy details with you if you guys
don't look at us the same I don't blame
you
we are just two little lovebirds that
are going to continue
our journey and we hope to inspire you
guys and yeah just know that love can
find itself in the weirdest times when
you're not looking forward with strong
communication determination lots of good
things will come your way which is the
best for us
I wish the best for other people
I think watching back this video in five
ten years from now
if everything's gone to plan will be the
most amazing trip down memory lane ever
I think that's that's part of the reason
why I love making YouTube Vlogs and
documenting my life is just to see the
progression and to see what you do with
yourself holding yourself accountable
for the goals and for the things that
you publicly talk about and say
it's time for us to say goodbye and
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