*juicy* relationship q&a while doing skincare

Summary

In this intimate video, the couple shares their skincare routine while candidly answering fan-submitted questions about their relationship. They discuss how they met, their dating history, and their future plans, including marriage and children. The video provides a glimpse into their communication strategies, such as using card games to deepen their bond, and their mutual appreciation for each other's qualities. The couple also reveals their skincare favorites and hints at upcoming vlogs featuring more of their life together.

Takeaways

• 💬 The video involves a couple answering questions about their relationship while doing skincare routines.
• 💆‍♀️ They use various skincare products, including the Dr. Dennis Gross facial steamer, LED mask, and Tatcha clay mask.
• 🏙️ The couple met at a club in San Francisco called Arena, where they had known of each other for about a year and a half before officially meeting.
• 📅 They have been dating for 11 months and took their relationship very slowly.
• ❤️ Both shared their past relationships, with the woman having four exes and the man having two exes.
• 👫 There is an age gap between them, but it wasn't explicitly mentioned.
• 😬 They discussed their 'icks' about each other, like not saying thank you after dinner or falling asleep during movies.
• 🔍 The woman was initially cautious about dating the man because he was living with his ex when they first met.
• 💍 They addressed questions about marriage and kids, with the woman previously not wanting either but now considering it because of their relationship.
• 🃏 They played card games like 'We're Not Really Strangers' and 'Let's Get Deep' to deepen their connection and improve communication.

Q & A

What is the main focus of the video?

The main focus of the video is answering juicy questions about their relationship while doing skincare routines.

Where did the couple meet for the first time?

They met at a club in San Francisco called Arena.

How long have they been dating?

They have been dating for 11 months at the time of recording.

What are some skincare products mentioned in the video?

Some skincare products mentioned include the Dr. Dennis Gross facial steamer, Dr. Dennis Gross LED mask, Loop lip mask, Tatcha clay mask, and Tatcha Dewy Skin Cream.

How did the couple initially start talking?

They had known of each other for about a year and a half before officially meeting and started talking after meeting at the bar.

What is the age gap between them?

The exact age gap is not disclosed in the video; the couple asks viewers to guess.

How many exes do each of them have?

She has had four exes, while he has had two exes.

What are some of their 'icks' about each other?

Her icks include him forgetting to say thank you at dinner and sleeping through alarms. His icks include her falling asleep during movies and getting mad when he sleeps in.

What are their views on marriage and kids?

Both have become open to marriage and kids after meeting each other, but she prefers to wait until her 30s for kids.

How did they handle Gerald living with his ex initially?

She didn't pursue a relationship immediately because she thought he was a red flag due to still living with his ex, but they eventually just became friends.

Outlines

00:00

💄 Skincare and Q&A Session

The video begins with the host introducing a casual Q&A session while performing an at-home skincare routine. She mentions using various products, including a towel steamer, Dr. Dennis Gross facial steamer, LED mask, and lip masks, all of which will be listed in the video description. The host engages with her audience's questions about her relationship, revealing how they met at a club in San Francisco and their initial interactions. She also shares the duration of their relationship and the slow pace at which it developed.

05:00

💏 Relationship Insights and Skincare

This paragraph delves deeper into the couple's relationship dynamics, discussing the number of past relationships each has had and their respective durations. The host also addresses the couple's age gap and personal 'icks' or pet peeves about each other, such as forgetting to say thank you or sleeping through alarms. The skincare routine continues with the application of a Tatcha clay mask, which changes color as it warms up and exfoliates the skin.

10:01

🏠 Living Situations and Future Plans

The host candidly discusses the complexities of her partner's living situation with his ex and how it initially seemed like a red flag. However, both were not looking for a relationship at the time, which eased initial concerns. The conversation shifts to future plans, including marriage and children, with the host expressing a change of heart about marriage due to meeting her partner. The video also includes the use of an eye mask and chapstick, and the host shares her love for these products.

15:01

💖 Deep Connections and Personal Growth

The final paragraph focuses on what the host and her partner appreciate about each other, highlighting qualities such as caring, drive, and hard work. The host shares her personal growth in terms of being more vocal about her goals and the impact her partner has had on this change. The video concludes with a reflection on the couple's communication skills, the use of card games to deepen their relationship, and a tease of future YouTube content, including vlogs and more skincare videos.

Keywords

💡Skincare

Skincare refers to the routine practices of maintaining the health and appearance of the skin. In the video's context, it is a central theme as the host discusses their skincare routine and products while answering questions. The host's enthusiasm for skincare is evident through their detailed descriptions of various products such as the 'Dr. Dennis Gross facial steamer' and 'Tatcha clay mask'.

💡Influencer

An influencer is an individual who has the power to affect the purchasing decisions of others because of their authority, knowledge, position, or relationship with their audience. In the script, the term is used to describe the host's initial perception of Gerald, noting that they didn't initially think much of the influencer aspect but rather saw Gerald as a fellow entrepreneur.

💡Relationship

The term 'relationship' in this context refers to the romantic connection between two individuals. The video's theme revolves around the host and Gerald's relationship, discussing how they met, their dating history, and their current dynamic, including questions about marriage and children.

💡Exes

Exes, short for ex-partners, are individuals with whom one has previously been in a romantic relationship. The script discusses the number of exes both the host and Gerald have had and the duration of those relationships, providing insight into their past dating experiences.

💡Communication

Communication is the act of sharing or exchanging information. The video emphasizes the importance of communication in the host and Gerald's relationship, mentioning how they use card games like 'We're Not Really Strangers' and 'Let's Get Deep' to foster deeper understanding and connection.

💡Card Games

Card games are a type of game using playing cards as the primary device with which the game is played. In the video, the host mentions specific card games that they and Gerald play to enhance their relationship, such as 'We're Not Really Strangers' and 'Let's Get Deep,' which are designed to prompt meaningful conversations.

💡Moisturizer

A moisturizer is a beauty product used to hydrate the skin, typically applied after cleansing. The script mentions the host's preference for certain moisturizers, such as 'Tatcha Dewy Skin Cream' and 'Totally You Know Perfect,' indicating the importance of this product in their skincare routine.

💡Long Distance

Long distance refers to a type of romantic relationship where the partners are geographically separated by a significant distance. The host discusses how they moved to Southern California to be closer to Gerald, ending their long-distance relationship.

💡Influencer Lifestyle

The influencer lifestyle is characterized by an individual's daily activities and routines that are often shared with their audience on social media platforms. The video script touches upon this by mentioning the host's skincare routine and Gerald's initial follower count, indicating the public aspect of their lives.

💡Goals

Goals are the objects of aim or the end toward which an effort is directed. The script discusses the host's approach to goal setting and achievement, noting a preference for not disclosing goals until they are realized, which contrasts with Gerald's drive and planning.

💡Honeymoon Phase

The honeymoon phase refers to the initial period in a romantic relationship characterized by intense feelings of love and attraction. The host reflects on this concept, noting that while their caring for each other may have started in the honeymoon phase, it has continued beyond, indicating a deeper and more enduring connection.

Highlights

Introduction of the video theme: answering juicy questions while doing skincare.

Explanation of the products being used, including Dr. Dennis Gross LED mask and Tatcha clay mask.

How the couple met at a club in San Francisco.

Duration of their relationship: 11 months as of December.

Details about past relationships: the girlfriend had four exes, and the boyfriend had two.

Discussion on their age gap.

Revelation of personal 'icks' about each other.

Use of the Tatcha clay mask and its properties.

Navigating Gerald living with his ex after their breakup.

Discussion on future plans for marriage.

Potential plans for having children and differing perspectives on timing.

Affirmation of finding 'the one' in each other.

First impressions and thoughts on each other's careers as influencers and content creators.

Importance of card games in deepening their relationship.

The couple's strategies for resolving conflicts.

Boyfriend's genuine interest in skincare and the impact of the girlfriend's influence.

Plans for future YouTube content and vlogging.

Transcripts

hi everyone so we are back today with

another video and today we're actually

answering juicy questions while doing

our skincare and this is like my

excessive skin care but at home because

we're not in an airplane right now no

we're no one and I asked you guys to ask

me questions on my Instagram and there

is a lot of questions

so I actually sat through all the

questions yesterday and I put them all

into my computer and I'm going to be

asking them in order so it makes sense

you know because it's questions about

our relationship are you scared a little

are you nervous nervous yeah why are you

nervous because

questions so oh yeah I read them by

myself but anyways right here we have a

towel steamer the Dr Dennis gross facial

steamer the Dr Dennis gross LED mask lip

mask from Loop rails face mask we got

totally over here because Mama totally

yep my food so I'm going to turn on this

towel steamer and we're gonna get

started with the questions by the way

every single product I'm using here will

be in the description below did you

watch the tongs no so question number

one is how did we meet so we met at a

club in SF uh or San Francisco the club

was called Arena we both came for a

different reasons you came to support

your DJ friend I came to support my

friend who's a promoter and then I just

saw you by the bar and then I just

started talking to you and telling that

yeah but we've like known each other

known of of each other for like a while

before that yeah we've known each other

for about a year and a half prior to

that so it's not like I'm meeting a

stranger at the bar I was actually in

line for a drink and he tapped me on the

shoulder and he's like oh are you a

Wendy and I'm like yeah that's how I met

and it was it was all very friendly yeah

nothing much nothing much it was just

friendly like oh my gosh that was about

it yeah finally seeing my friend in

person my Mutual in person after hearing

about him for a year and a half okay

next question is how long have we been

dating since January the time we're

recording this is December 11 months

yeah we've been dating for 11 months but

we took it very slow we were talking

four months but we took it very very

slow

okay now that we got the basic questions

out of the way I'm going to start asking

the juicy question and this one is

pretty juicy so it is how many people

have you dated before and for how long

I've had four exes my first one was like

I think a month a year and a half oh my

second one was like three months the

third one was like six days so the

fourth one was two years and then you're

my fifth one

before I answer my question we're going

to be using the tatcha clay mask this is

Gerald and I's favorite mask we're gonna

get a little messy right here so for me

I had two x's my first X I've dated for

four years all throughout high school so

I started dating him my freshman year

until the summer before college so after

senior year of high school and then my

second ex we did it for two years and we

broke up in my junior year of college so

the next question is actually what is

our age Gap

what do you guys think yeah what do you

guys think what do you guys think we'll

just go with that okay this next

question is what are your icks about

each other one of the X I have for you

is when we go out to eat dinner and it's

on me but you forget to say thank you my

egg is how you can sleep through all

your alarms so I end up waking up to all

your alarms and having you turn it off

because I don't want to turn off your

own alarms oh I have another egg so when

she says she wants to watch a movie uh

at night so we watch a movie and 15

minutes in or even five minutes in you

knock out and then you like I like watch

the whole movie like by myself sometimes

I would ask you are you still awake and

you're saying yeah I'm still awake and

then I can't be the only one you wake up

earlier than me and then you get mad

that I'm sleeping in like an hour or two

extra I can't be the only one want to do

that actually I feel like all my friends

agree with me how they fall asleep and

I'm like so conditioned to like wake up

immediately when you ask me am I still

awake wait but you can't get mad at me

anymore like bro you know also another

egg is how you cannot wake up in the

morning like it's like so hard to wake

him up like it takes me an average of

about two hours to wake you up so I just

need like my average like six to eight

hours he is sleeping beauty yes and

that's why we have our aura rings I

don't have mine on right now but he does

and we love our aura rings it's

basically a sleep tracker and if you

guys are interested I have a also like a

referral code down below too this is not

paid I just we just really love the aura

ring literally last night I slept for

six hours and 45 minutes and it

accurately tells me like that I'm gonna

be good today I have a score of 81. it's

kind of toxic in a sense that like I got

a D you know for sleeping last time

we're gonna be back we're just going to

be rubbing this into our face and

answering some more questions this is

the Tasha clay mask and it actually

changes color I look like the moon emoji

I'm trying to show you guys how it's

changing colors

it uh actually changed from green to Red

because it subtly warms up the clay mask

and it opens your pores and it gently

exfoliates your skin so it's like doing

a lot of things right now and it's made

with Japanese ingredients

that are sourced from Japan I know I'm

like a geek about skincare and I love

reading about all the

um backgrounds and where the ingredients

is Source it's like all super fun to me

I wish I graduated from skincare major

but I didn't okay next question is quite

juicy okay

oh it's steaming I would definitely

recommend everyone to get his towel

steamer just because it feels like

you're in a spa and it feels like I'm

paying like 100 bucks for this do you

put like essential oils on this no

all right so what's the next question

can you tell us how you navigated Gerald

living with his ex who knew

the die hards knew so like we said we

were mutuals and before we met each

other I knew he was in a relationship

and when I met him in the bar I was like

oh are you still with your girlfriend

and he's like no but I still live with

her and that is why I thought you were a

full of red flags just because he was

living with his ex freshly single so I'm

like okay like this guy does not want a

relationship I also don't want a

relationship either so I'm just not

gonna pursue anything we're just gonna

be friends he is such a nice guy so I'm

like okay yeah he can just be my friend

like nothing more and nothing less yeah

when I when you told me that you're you

were still live with your ex I'm like

girl but like this is such a modern day

like breakup story like we're broken up

but we still live with our ex I didn't

really care that much because I wasn't

really trying to pursue him and vice

versa I mean it would be a different

story if I liked him at that time when

he told me he was living with his ex but

when he was telling me at that moment I

didn't really care I'm just like dude

don't pursue this guy red flag when we

met again or met for the first time at

the club there was like no inch in me

that I was like okay I'm gonna pursue

you uh for a relationship I was just

more of like oh like hey you're a cool

friend we just both thought we were cool

friends

that's about it yeah

the next part we're using

this Loops eye mask I love Loops I'm

gonna use uh this Laneige chapstick

first though yeah oh he loves his

lemonish Chopsticks so yeah just in case

you guys were wondering this was the

lineage gummy bear one the next question

is the most frequently Asked question

like literally you guys bombarded me

with this question and it is when are

you guys gonna get married

foreign

will definitely see photos

um ASAP when it does happen at least I

before getting into a relationship with

you I was the person that was like oh I

don't ever want to get married I don't

ever want to have kids but I feel like

when you meet the right person

everything that you said no to like

disappears like me saying no to never

getting married like I understand why

people get married now before dating him

I literally never understood why people

get married because there's always

divorces I feel like once you meet your

best friend it's different

you're my bestie

you're my bestie the next question a

little segue for that question when are

you going to propose

one day you guys will see it the next

question after that is do you guys want

kids so personally I have always wanted

to um so they're not lonely but I'm

always up for discussion and I'm like

yeah to talk about it you never know

what the other person might want or if

they don't want any kids or if they want

like 12 but like like I said I was never

the person that wants kids but it is

also because I'm only 22 and kids will

definitely not be in my 20s but I will

resume to that question maybe in my 30s

I feel like I still want to I still feel

like I have so much I want to personally

live before I introduce another human

being that I had to take care for for

the rest of my life um with me so that's

a little scary for now number 15 is do

you think you found the one I do yeah I

do

what was drill's first impression of you

for being an influencer or a concert

Creator so when I first met you you

actually didn't have much followers and

actually you knew prior before so I

didn't really like think much of like

the influence of stuff and everything I

was just like oh that's kind of cool I

was like get your bag like I was a like

fellow entrepreneur and everything like

I like fully support it and all that but

yeah I was kind of just like kind of

cool let's see like grow really like

Fast instead of using these face masks

which I love we're just gonna skip

straight to the moisturizer so I have

here my tatcha Dewey I have here my

tatcha DUI cream moisturizer and this is

literally amazing I use it every single

night and what do you have I have the

totally you know perfect which one do

you like I I took this one out because

you like I really like this one but I

have been trying new quarterly products

all the time so I've been using this one

recently but this one's like my all-time

favorites okay so the next question is

what made you guys like each other

um I know this answer or at least what

made me like him was actually because we

were playing this game called we're not

really strangers and I definitely

recommend you play this game with every

single one of your friends significant

other your family because it is such

like a deep card game that allows you to

understand the person that you're

talking to a little more

and prior to playing this game I knew

little to nothing about drills I also

like had this condition in my head that

he is like a walking red flag and that I

should not pursue anything but I'm just

gonna play this game and see how it goes

because he had it in his car and we

decided to play it in his house this is

the same game you can get on Amazon I'll

also have a link down below for you too

the next question is are you guys still

doing long distance no I actually moved

down to SoCal in June it's been six

months since I've been back it was good

to be back I'm actually born in San

Bernardino or like for a Saturday like

kind of like my telling like going back

I'm from the Bay Area if you guys know

where that is it's Northern California

and I always wanted to move to Los

Angeles so why not just do it in my 20s

the next question is true love or lust

true love for sure yes in the beginning

it was definitely more so lust than love

it was all it was all us in the

beginning but after playing this card

game actually there's another card game

that we played that made us

um even like fall deeper in love with

each other if you guys can't tell Gerald

and I love communicating with each other

I feel like our communication skill is

like on points yeah I've never had a

relationship like this where I never

have to assume what the other person is

thinking or what the other person is

going through like I feel like I can see

him through his head this next card game

is what made me fall deeper in love with

drills and it's called let's get deep

questions for couples and we played this

a lot when we were talking in our

talking phase and it has like a lot of

questions yeah so we would go on road

trips together and we will play this

game

actually never finished it we never

finished it but we were very like we we

went deep into it yeah I feel like

without the help of these card games we

wouldn't be

yeah we wouldn't be in the position we

are right now we can get this both on

Amazon I'll have it links below

definitely I really recommend everyone

play this these card games this one is

for couples and this one it could be for

anybody the next question is what

qualities does your partner have that

stand out definitely for you like uh for

me to you and everything you're it's

like your drive and like

you're always like very restless and

like working so like it's always you're

always like on top of it you like have

everything like all set and you already

know what you want in your mind and like

you'll chase after it without telling

anyone for me I'm like I just can't do

that like I need to tell like at least

like three people like my best friends

and then also um you in order for me to

continue because I'm like it's

definitely your drive I'd say yeah for

me um I don't like to tell people like

my goals or like what I'm trying to do

and that's because I don't want to jinx

it so I just do it and then once I see

those results I'm like hey guys like

this is what happened it might rub

people the wrong way now I'm more vocal

with my goals to my best friends to him

um and I tell like people like you know

what I want to do and stuff and you know

I don't want to rub people the wrong way

I was just thinking I was just

reflecting a lot like last year and I

realized that like I just silently

achieved my goals without telling a

single soul and after achieving those

goals I started telling my my friends

and and and stuff and they're like oh

like we didn't even know you were doing

that so that made me realize like oh hey

like I should probably tell people next

time the qualities I have with you that

stand out is

um you're a very caring person yeah like

you're like a super super caring person

and I just thought like you know once

you start being in a relationship with

someone obviously like you're going to

be in the honeymoon phase where you're

just super like fond of the person and

you would do anything for that person so

I thought we were just in the honeymoon

phase but you continue you continually

just care for me like more and more

every single day and I know that's not

just like the honeymoon phase like it

actually do care for me so yeah

and I also do like your drive as well

you're also he's also a very hard

working person and I just can't wait for

the days where he achieves his goals and

I get to celebrate with him but yeah a

lot of people also ask us because you

guys are very nosy have there ever been

in a low and a relationship where we're

constantly fighting nothing I can think

of like whenever we find everything we

usually like solve it like it's not that

same day it's like the next day and if

we talk about it and like see what went

wrong and then yeah we really just like

communicate yeah I know this never

happened in this relationship no I'm not

coming wood okay so this next question

no one asked but I asked because I'm

very interested it's do you actually

really like skincare or are you just

trying to impress me I actually really

like skincare my skin literally would

not be this clean oh my like skincare

Journey like all started when I like met

her like she did like skincare and

everything like hop on curology that was

great and then I like didn't like the

Moisturizer in their cleansers and then

you gave me the YouTube people I gave

you the youth repo superfoods cleanser

yeah yeah yeah you did I didn't know

damn I can't I think I might have liked

you because that bottle is 36 and I know

because I buy them I just like fell in

love with it just because like my skin

started clearing up and I was like okay

you know like if I don't have the right

products it's just gonna break out my

skin is like really really sensitive

because like I have eczema like really

really dry skin okay that wraps up

today's video and I hope you guys got to

know a little more about us and about

our relationship I know you all love

Gerald and I love him too yes sir I

recently bought a lot of camera

equipment so next year is definitely the

year for YouTube Vlogs I'm definitely

gonna be vlogging I'm going to be also

I'm also going to be like doing a lot of

skincare still so and you guys are

definitely going to see him more thank

you for watching today's video please

like subscribe and comment well yeah

comment down below what questions

surprise you oh oh that's a good one

what question surprised you or what

answer surprised you okay bye