6 Magnetic Texts She CAN'T Resist (send these tonight)
Summary
TLDRPatrick James offers dating advice in this episode, focusing on six magnetic texts that women supposedly cannot resist. He emphasizes texting as a supplement to in-person interactions, suggesting playful qualifications to start conversations and using ellipses to avoid appearing needy. James also advises transitioning texts to in-person meetings, using humor and challenges to maintain interest. His tips include last-second conditions in invites and sending excitement-building messages before planned dates. He promotes his free book, '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl,' for more insights.
Takeaways
- 😀 Patrick James offers dating advice on magnetic texts that women cannot resist.
- 🌞 He suggests wearing a jacket for the video but mentions the heat in Arizona, showing a casual and relatable start to the video.
- 📝 The first text tip is to qualify the woman by asking playful questions, positioning oneself as a 'buyer' in the interaction.
- 💬 The second text tip is using '...' (dot dot dot) as a minimal-effort follow-up when a response is delayed, avoiding the appearance of neediness.
- 🍹 The third text tip is to transition the conversation to meeting in person, suggesting a drink to make the interaction more engaging.
- 📖 Patrick mentions his book '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl,' which he's giving away for free, promoting additional resources for viewers.
- 😉 The fourth text tip is to respond to teasing or challenges with humor, like asking if a line 'normally works on most guys,' showcasing quick wit.
- 🤔 The fifth text tip involves adding a playful condition to an invite, like 'only if you promise to keep your hands to yourself,' adding an element of challenge.
- 📅 The sixth text tip is to send a reminder and excitement builder on the day of the planned meet-up, like 'Get pumped for tonight!' to ensure attendance.
- 🎉 The final text also creates curiosity by mentioning a surprise, leveraging the fear of missing out (FOMO) to encourage the woman to show up.
- 👍 The video concludes with a call to action for viewers to like the video and claim a free copy of Patrick's book for more dating advice.
Q & A
What is the main topic of Patrick James' video?
-The main topic of Patrick James' video is about six magnetic texts that women supposedly cannot resist in the context of dating.
Why does Patrick James mention his jacket at the beginning of the video?
-Patrick James mentions his jacket to add a personal touch and to show that he is in Arizona, where it is hot, which adds a bit of humor and relatability to the video.
What is the purpose of sending the first text according to Patrick James?
-The purpose of sending the first text is to start a conversation by qualifying the woman in a playful way, which positions the sender as the 'buyer' in the interaction.
What does Patrick James suggest to do when a woman doesn't respond to a text in a timely manner?
-Patrick James suggests sending a series of dots (...) as a minimal effort double text to prompt a response without appearing needy or validation-seeking.
Why should one not become a 'texting buddy' according to the video?
-Becoming a 'texting buddy' means only flirting and talking over text without meeting in person, which can lead to a lack of urgency for the woman to meet up, thus hindering real-life interaction.
What is the recommended approach to transition a text conversation to a face-to-face meeting?
-The recommended approach is to send a text suggesting that the conversation topic would be better discussed over a drink or multiple drinks, which serves as an invitation to meet up.
What is the significance of the phrase 'does that line normally work on most guys' in the script?
-This phrase is used as a witty response to a woman who teases, tests, or challenges the sender via text, implying that the sender is not easily swayed by such tactics.
What is the 'last-second condition' in the context of inviting a woman out as mentioned in the video?
-The 'last-second condition' is a playful qualification or challenge added to an invitation to make it more engaging and to frame the sender as the 'buyer' in the interaction.
Why is it important to send a text on the day of the planned hangout according to Patrick James?
-Sending a text on the day of the planned hangout solidifies the plans, creates excitement, and ensures that the woman does not assume the plans have been canceled or forgotten.
What book does Patrick James offer for free and where can it be claimed?
-Patrick James offers a book titled '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl' for free, which can be claimed by visiting the website 'how to get the girl now.com'.
What does Patrick James suggest to create an open loop and curiosity in the woman's mind before a planned hangout?
-Patrick James suggests sending a text saying 'Get pumped for tonight! By the way, I've got a surprise in store for us,' which creates an open loop and sparks curiosity and FOMO (fear of missing out).
Outlines
📱 Magnetic Texting Strategies
Patrick James introduces his video with the aim of discussing six magnetic texts that women find irresistible. He emphasizes the importance of using texts as a supplement to in-person interactions, not as a primary means of communication. The first text strategy involves qualifying the woman with playful standards, such as preferences for pets or drinks, to initiate a conversation and establish oneself as the 'chooser'. James also warns against excessive texting, like double or triple texting, which can come off as needy and unattractive.
💬 Effective Texting Techniques
In the second paragraph, Patrick James continues with his advice on magnetic texting, suggesting the use of an ellipsis (...) as a minimal-effort double text when necessary, to maintain the upper hand in the conversation. He then recommends transitioning text conversations to in-person meetings by inviting the woman for a drink or similar social activity, emphasizing the importance of not becoming a 'texting buddy'. James also mentions his book, '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl', offering it for free to viewers.
😉 Banter and Last-Minute Invites
The third paragraph delves into responding to teasing or challenges with witty banter, such as questioning the effectiveness of a woman's line on other men. Patrick stresses the importance of a quick response to maintain the playful and charged atmosphere. He also introduces the 'last-second condition' for invites, adding a playful challenge to the invitation to make it more enticing and to establish oneself as the 'chooser'. This approach is designed to improve the response rate to social invitations.
📆 Confirming Plans and Creating Excitement
In the final paragraph, Patrick James discusses the importance of confirming plans on the day of the scheduled meet-up to prevent flakiness and ensure the woman's attendance. He suggests sending a text that builds excitement and curiosity, such as mentioning a surprise, to create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out). This strategy is aimed at solidifying plans and increasing the likelihood of a successful meet-up.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Magnetic Texts
💡Qualification
💡Double Texting
💡Texting Buddy
💡Banter
💡Last-Second Condition
💡FOMO
💡Quick-Witted
💡Playful
💡Buyer's Frame
Highlights
Patrick James introduces six magnetic texts that women cannot resist in the context of dating advice.
The importance of texting as a supplement to in-person interactions is emphasized to avoid becoming just a 'texting buddy'.
The first text involves qualifying the woman with playful standards, such as liking dogs or tequila, to start a conversation.
Using a series of dots (...) as a minimal-effort double text to continue a conversation when necessary.
The significance of transitioning text conversations to in-person meetings to avoid becoming a texting buddy.
The third text suggests discussing topics over drinks, a playful way to transition to a face-to-face meeting.
Patrick promotes his book '107 Proven Ways to Get the Girl' available for free to viewers.
The fourth text is a witty response to being teased, tested, or challenged in text conversations.
The importance of a quick response in text banter to appear quick-witted and create attraction.
The fifth text involves adding a playful challenge or condition to an invite to meet up.
The concept of the 'last-second condition' to create excitement and a sense of urgency in invites.
The sixth text is about sending a reminder and creating anticipation on the day of the planned meet up.
The use of creating an open loop with a surprise to pique curiosity and ensure the woman's attendance.
The potential of sparking FOMO (fear of missing out) with the mention of a surprise.
The final magnetic text is about solidifying plans and creating excitement for the meet up.
Patrick concludes with a call to action for viewers to like the video and get his free book.
Transcripts
what's going on man Patrick James here
for another episode of bra dating advice
today we're gonna be talking about six
magnetic texts that women cannot resist
let's get into it I'm gonna be honest
man I just put on this jacket for the
video but uh it's kind of hot in here
cuz I live in Arizona so funny let's
take this [ __ ] off alright let's get
into it
here's the thing you can steal and send
these texts as soon as tonight all of
them I picked these six texts to be in
various different situations now that
said the only reason you should ever be
texting a girl is as a supplement to
singer in person right you can't see her
now you just text her so that you're
making her anxious to see you in the
near future in person face to face and
once you understand that now you're
ready to learn the first text the first
text is simply please tell meet you and
then insert any qualification you want
so what are your standards for women
what do you like in women and use that
as your qualification here but try to
make it somewhat playful so for example
I might start a conversation by saying
to a girl please tell me you're not a
cat person please tell me you like
tequila please tell me you have a dog
and that those are just mine because I
like tequila and I like dogs and let's
be honest if you're a cat person you
probably don't have a soul anyways so
that's the great text to start the
conversation and start leading the
interaction as well as framing yourself
as the buyer here because once you start
qualifying her and she starts qualifying
to you what she's actually doing is
she's selling herself to you so
qualifying girls is a great thing to do
and doing this via text is a great
playful way to start the conversation
let's get into the second text all right
the second text is something that is
haunted men since the dawn of time we're
happy since the dawn of text messaging
starting with men and women all you have
to do is sender a dot dot dot the next
time she doesn't respond to you in a
timely fashion now here's the thing it's
not really ever acceptable to be double
texting or
triple texting a girl purely just to get
her to respond to you because oftentimes
if you're double texting a girl meaning
that if you sent her a text like hey
which I should never send that text
anyways but for example if you sent her
hey
and she doesn't respond and you send her
what's up and she doesn't respond and
then you say are you there and she
doesn't respond you seem needy and you
seem validation seeking and you seem
like someone who doesn't really have a
lot of options with women and it just
repels woman so first off don't ever be
sending hey what's up or are you there
first off but second off if you send
something like an invite to a girl and
she hasn't responded for a couple of
hours or you send a text and it's like
middle of the conversation and she
doesn't respond but you kind of wanted
to continue the conversation the only
time it's acceptable to double texture
is if you send her a dot dot dot now why
do I recommend the sex if you must
double text a girl well what because it
takes minimal effort for you to send it
right because if you're double texting
girl it implies that you're putting more
effort into this conversation than she
is but if you have to do it make it as
minimal effort as possible so dot dot
dot is very easy it's not even a
complete word it's not even a complete
sentence but it completely gets across
what you want her to do right dot dot
dot implies that this is an open loop
you expect a response and a person who
expects a response is not needy he's
more like just the King on his throne
who says I expect you to respond to me
because I'm the [ __ ] man and you
obviously would want to get a piece of
it so does the dot is a great way to
double text a girl if you must to
continue the conversation especially if
it's an invite and you need to know soon
therefore you can you know fill in her
spot if she can't make it and you can
ask some other girl all right so that's
the second text that's magnetic that
attracts women that women cannot resist
so the third text that you should send
to women is this this sounds like a
great combo to have over a drink or
seven or this sounds like a conversation
better discuss over a drink or 12 write
something along those lines now why is
this
good several things first off if you are
texting women and you're going back and
forth with each other if you continually
text her and you never transition the
conversation to meeting up with her then
you will quickly become her texting
buddy and what is the sexting buddy a
texting buddy is some guy who women
texts just for the purposes of
validating her phone literally you are a
ping tor phone that makes her get a
little dopamine hit in her head but
because she already gets that validation
from you over this thing she doesn't
have the urge to meet you up meet up
with you in person you've just become a
way to validate her throughout the day
so a texting buddy is a guy who always
flirts with her and talks to her over
texts but never actually sees her a
person or sleeps of their and let me ask
you a question do you want to see a girl
in person make out with or hook up with
her and sleep with her or do you want to
be you're texting buddy and maybe flirt
with her or text would never see her to
me it's a no-brainer
you obviously want to see your in person
so if you can tell that this
conversation is going nowhere
just transition the conversation to
meeting up in person by sending this
text by saying this sounds like a topic
better discuss over a drink or 7:00 or
this sounds like a conversation better
had over four shots of tequila now why
do I end it with like a playful multiple
drink type thing well one because if you
say let's have this over a drink or two
right that's a common phrase that
doesn't really stand out but if you say
this is better over a drink or seven or
better over a drink or 12 it interrupts
her pattern because it was an ending
that she didn't expect so that's just a
playful thing that I like to do over
text now before we get into the fourth
text I do want to talk about my book 107
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now let's get into the fourth magnetic
text that women cannot resist before
something that's perfect to send a girl
anytime she teases you test you or
challenges you via text it actually
talked about this in my last video where
I talked about what to do if a girl
teases you but here's the thing
a lot of the banter tactics you know
push-pull teasing challenging a lot of
that stuff really does work over text in
fact it works even better over text
because it's isolated and it's
contextual and it doesn't really have
you know your body language your vocal
tonality that also has to go into it you
just have to get the words right over
text so anytime a girl teases you test
you or challenges you via text message
conversation all you have to do is
respond with does that line normally
work on most guys here's the only caveat
to this text if you waited thirty
minutes to an hour or just a long time
to respond to her text then it kind of
loses its effect why is this because the
key to being witty and the key to
playful fun highly charged sexual
tension bill banter is simply having a
quick response you've heard the term
quick-witted well all you have to do is
have a quick response that is kind of
just puts her on the back of our heels
right so when the girl challenges you
test you or teases you over text
immediately respond what does that line
normally work on most guys because the
quicker you can respond
the quicker witted you seem which is a
highly attractive trick now let's get
into the fifth text this is something
that I call the last second condition so
all it is is it it's an invite that you
send to a girl anytime you want to get a
girl out with you or hang out with a
girl you send her an invite obviously
but you can spruce up that invite with a
little bit of what I like to call a
bad-boy edge and all it is is as a
challenge or a last-second condition at
the end of the invites so for example if
I wanted to invite a girl out with me to
drinks tonight at 7:30 I could say hey
I'm going to get drinks at XYZ bar at
7:30 tonight you should come
dot dot dot but only if insert any
qualification now we talked about
qualifications in the first test but
this one is tailored around the invite
and it's a last-second condition because
you only want her to come if she can
meet this playful qualification so hey
come out to drinks with me tonight at
7:30 but only if you promise to keep
your hands to yourself right or but only
if you promise you can keep up but only
if you promise to bring bucket loads of
fun energy but only if you promise to
wear that black dress that you know I
love right something like that is a
great way to spruce up the invite and a
challenge is ER right it's almost like a
takeaway but also when asking her to
hang out so it's a very great way to
frame yourself as the buyer and it's
kind of playful it's kind of challenging
and I guarantee it's gonna start getting
a lot better responses if you've
struggled with inviting girls out with
you up to this point in time so that's
the fifth text now let's get into the
sixth and final magnetic text for this
video and this is a text that I want you
to start sending a girl if you plan to
meet up with her but several days in
advance so for example if you guys may
plans on Monday to hang out a Wednesday
or if you may plans on Tuesday to hang
out on Friday in that situation you have
to text her on the day the same day that
you plan to hang out with her right even
though you made the plans on Monday for
Wednesday you still have to text her on
Wednesday just to solidify those plans
just to let her know that hey we still
have plans tonight and by the way you
should get excited so if that is the
text get pumped for tonight exclamation
point I've got a surprise for us in
store so like I said if you don't text
her that same day that you plan to hang
out with her then she's gonna wonder
wait do we still have plans should I
make other plans and if she doesn't hear
from you and if you just don't send her
this text at all then she's going to
assume that you either forgot or that
you made other plans
so she's likely gonna flake on you so
send her the text get pumped for tonight
exclamation point by the way I've got a
surprise in store for us and all this
does is it creates an open loop so even
if she was planning on changing the
plans on you last second even if she was
planning on maybe canceling on you now
because you've created an open loop by
the way I've got a surprise in store for
us that open loop is enough to get her
curious to want to actually see you out
that night
so it's just another added thing that
you can do to get her excited for the
night but also to actually ensure that
she'll show up because you created
curiosity you created an open loop and
you almost sparks FOMO in a way Bobo if
you don't know is fear of missing out
she doesn't want to miss out on the
surprise people love surprises
so that's the sixth and final magnetic
text that women cannot resist if you
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I will see you later my man peace out
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