AFRICAN HOME: NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTIONS | 2024
Summary
TLDRفي هذا النص يتحدث الأب إلى ابنه عوجو حول التغييرات المطلوبة في سلوكه مع بداية العام الجديد. يقترح الأب على عوجو الذهاب إلى معسكر الجيش لتعزيز الانضباط، ولكن الابن يعارض ذلك ويفضل الذهاب إلى الجد الكبرى. يبدأ الأب بإعلان قرارات جديدة تشمل جميع الأفراد في العائلة، بما في ذلك الانضباط واحترام الوالدين، وزيادة الهدوء والنشاط، والتقليل من الضرب. يطالب الأب أيضًا ابنه بكتابة رسالة قبل دخول أي زائر للمنزل. يشير النص إلى تحديات العائلة العادية، مثل العلاقات مع الأصدقاء والعلاقات العاطفية، وكذلك التحديات في تطوير السلوك المناسب والالتزام بالقرارات المشتركة. يتضمن النص أيضًا مقاطع من الموسيقى والضحك والتصفيق، مما يضيف للنص جوًا من الترفيه والتفاعل.
Takeaways
- 🎉 **新的一年,新的开始**: 家庭成员希望在新的一年中有所改变,特别是对儿子Ojo的行为有所期望。
- 🤔 **纪律与教育**: 父亲考虑过严格的纪律措施,如将Ojo送去军营,但母亲提出了不同的意见。
- 👵 **奶奶的角色**: 母亲建议让奶奶来管教Ojo,但父亲担心这会使情况变得更糟。
- 📝 **新年决议**: 家庭成员被要求为彼此制定新年决议,而不是为自己,以促进家庭和谐。
- 🚫 **尊重与服从**: Ojo被要求更加尊重和服从父母,减少顶撞和无礼的行为。
- 🤗 **更多的爱与关怀**: 妈妈希望得到更多的关注和爱护,她对去年收到的关心和礼物数量不满。
- 🙏 **信仰与祈祷**: 爸爸决定今年要增加祈祷,提高自己的信仰生活。
- 🏡 **家庭规则**: 家里制定了严格的规则,比如不允许未经允许的访客进入,以及不允许带入不明物品。
- 🚫 **禁止暴力**: Ojo请求父母今年不要对他使用暴力,他希望被更温柔地对待。
- 🍲 **烹饪创新**: 爸爸希望妈妈在烹饪上能更有创意,去年的饮食中碳水化合物过多。
- 🎉 **惊喜与约会**: 爸爸为妈妈安排了一个惊喜的约会,这是他们婚后第一次正式的约会。
- 💑 **恋爱与成熟**: Ojo向父母介绍了他的女朋友,并表达了他对这段关系的认真态度。
Q & A
新的一年,父亲想要对儿子Ojo采取什么措施来改变他的行为?
-父亲考虑将Ojo送去军营接受纪律教育,希望通过这种方式改变他的行为。
母亲对于将Ojo送去军营这个想法持什么态度?
-母亲不同意将Ojo送去军营,她认为应该将他送到奶奶那里接受更好的管教。
Ojo的父亲在新年决议中要求他做出哪些改变?
-Ojo的父亲要求他在新的一年里更加服从和尊重父母,减少在家中的不敬行为,并且要更加冷静,不要冲动行事。
Ojo的母亲希望在新的一年里,她的儿子有哪些变化?
-Ojo的母亲希望他能够更加独立,不要总是待在家里,而是要开始自己的生意或找到一些有意义的事情去做。
Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些对Ojo的具体要求?
-Ojo的父亲要求他不能带未经允许的访客进入家中,并且要求他在带访客回家之前,必须写一封包含个人信息和签名的信。
Ojo的母亲在新年决议中希望得到哪些改变?
-Ojo的母亲希望她的丈夫能更加关心她,包括给她买更多的东西,带她出去约会,去度假,购物,甚至是去美发沙龙。
Ojo的父亲在新年决议中对自己的要求是什么?
-Ojo的父亲决定在新的一年里更多地祈祷,因为他认为自己去年的祈祷生活很贫乏。
Ojo希望在新的一年里,他的父母如何对待他?
-Ojo希望他的父母能更加关心他,他希望被送进培训院校学习,而不是待在家里无所事事。
Ojo的母亲在新年决议中希望在烹饪上有哪些改变?
-Ojo的母亲被要求在烹饪上更有创意,减少碳水化合物的摄入,增加蛋白质,并且尝试不同的烹饪方式。
Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些关于Ojo的访客的规定?
-Ojo的父亲规定,任何访客在进入家中之前,都必须提供详细的个人信息,包括姓名、年龄、地址、籍贯、家庭背景、医疗史、血型和基因型,以及日期和签名。
Ojo的父亲在新年决议中提到了哪些关于家中不允许带入的物品的规定?
-Ojo的父亲强调,新的一年中不允许带入任何陌生或不明来源的物品,以确保家中的安全和秩序。
Outlines
😀 New Year's Discipline and Resolutions
The first paragraph introduces a family discussion about the new year's resolutions, focusing on the son, Ojo. The father wants to see a change in Ojo's behavior and considers sending him to the Army Barracks for discipline. The mother suggests involving Grandma instead. The father then sets out new rules for Ojo, including obedience, respect, and calmness, and mentions a business venture set up for him by a contact named K. The mother is also asked to reduce physical punishment.
😌 Expectations of Care and Change
In the second paragraph, the mother expresses her dissatisfaction with the lack of attention and care she received the previous year, asking for more spoiling in the new year. She also requests that the father improve his prayer life. Ojo is told not to bring visitors home without providing extensive personal information. The father asks Ojo to find something productive to do, while Ojo requests more care from his parents. The mother is asked to improve her cooking, and Ojo pleads for less physical discipline and more emotional care.
🎉 A Date to Remember
The third paragraph shows the family celebrating the new year with a meal and prayer. The mother is surprised when the father takes her on a date, which is a rare occasion for them. They discuss their comfort in being together and the importance of cherishing the moment, despite any outside opinions. The father reassures the mother about their attire and the propriety of their behavior on the date.
😠 Confronting Change and Visitors
In the final paragraph, Ojo brings home his girlfriend, which leads to a tense situation as the mother had previously banned visitors. Ojo defends his actions, stating his love for his girlfriend and his intention to spend his life with her. The father, trying to remain calm as per his new resolution, insists that the girlfriend leave immediately. The situation ends with a warning to Ojo about not bringing anyone into the house without permission and a reflection on the inevitability of change.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡New Year
💡Discipline
💡Army Barracks
💡Grandma
💡Resolutions
💡Respect
💡Business
💡Emotional
💡Pampering
💡Creativity
💡Date
Highlights
A new year brings a desire for change in the family dynamic, with the father expressing his wish for his son, Ojo, to change his ways.
The father suggests sending Ojo to the Army Barracks for discipline, a notion the mother strongly disagrees with.
The mother proposes sending Ojo to Grandma for proper discipline, but the father fears it might worsen Ojo's behavior.
Ojo returns home and the parents discuss his New Year's outfit and plans for a party, indicating a lack of maturity.
The father insists on Ojo's obedience and respect towards his parents as part of his New Year's resolution.
The father also wants Ojo to be more calm and less confrontational, questioning Ojo's understanding of 'labor'.
A business venture is introduced for Ojo by the father, in collaboration with someone named K, to keep him busy and focused.
The mother expresses her dissatisfaction with the father's lack of attention and care towards her during the past year.
The father commits to praying more and improving his prayer life, acknowledging it was poor the previous year.
Ojo is given strict rules about visitors, requiring detailed information before any guest can enter their home.
The father emphasizes the importance of not bringing strangers or strange things into the house, for safety and security reasons.
Ojo is encouraged to find something productive to do, to distract him from his unserious life.
Ojo requests more care and attention from his parents, expressing a desire to be pampered and shown more love.
The mother is asked to improve her cooking, with a call for more creativity and a better balance of nutrients.
Ojo pleads for a more gentle approach from his parents, asking not to be hit or shouted at.
The father surprises the mother with a date, showing a willingness to change and improve their relationship.
The mother expresses her shock and delight at the unexpected date, indicating a positive response to the father's efforts.
A humorous moment occurs when the mother serves a surprising dish, causing the father to question her understanding of creativity.
Ojo introduces his girlfriend to his parents, leading to a tense situation as the father struggles to accept the change.
The father ultimately allows Ojo's girlfriend to stay, demonstrating a step towards being more calm and understanding as per his resolution.
Transcripts
[Music]
Fe it's a new year and I want things to
change in this house starting from your
son Ojo what do you want me to do
anything possible even if we have to
send him to the Army Barracks as long as
he changes his way this year you want me
to send my son to the Army Barracks so
they can beat him to sto everything is
still part of discipline I do not agree
with that so what should we do left for
me I think we should send him to Grandma
so she can discipline properly did you
just say
Grandma it's not possible you know
Grandma SP Ojo and you want me to take
him there so when he comes back you'll
be two times worse no thank you so what
should we
do
[Music]
yes Daddy happy New Year happy New Year
Mama
happy New Year happy New Year does this
shoe go with my
outfit where are you going M that's not
the answer to the question I asked I
don't care about the question you asked
when I ask you a question you answer me
I'm going to my friend's New Year party
you should be ashamed of yourself you
are going to a friend's New Year party
when you have not planned how your own
New Year will be Mama the new year will
sort itself out the new year will not
sort itself out now go and drop those
shoes take off this shirt and wait for
your mom and I in the living room
[Music]
[Applause]
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now you see what I'm
saying
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you and every time tell
I it's a new year and as always we list
our new resolutions for the
year this time around you won't be
listing the resolutions for yourself but
for others
Ojo meaning you won't be listing the
resolutions for yourself but for your
mom and I the same goes to you Mama Ojo
and the same goes to
me I am going to
start
Ojo your New Year resolution is to be
more obedient to your mom and
I when we say no it is no and when we
say yes it is yes also you have to be
more respectful to your mom and I you
have no right to treat or talk to your
mom in any disrespectful
manner M this year try to be more calm
eh do you want to die
young don't you want to reap the fruit
of your
[Music]
labor tell me
what
labor me I can't see any labor what
Daddy what am i m this is what I mean
try to be more calm this year but that's
the truth Fe me I can't see any labor
God have mercy upon us also I want you
to get busy this year you're always at
home for me where else do you want me to
be what do you want me to do outside
Hulk on the street or start a POS
business relax I am not saying you
should Hulk on the street or start a POS
business so what do you want me to do I
have linked up with K and we have set up
a business for you to start this
year eh you should have said that since
now thank you
sir also M MO
I want you to reduce the way you beat
your son when scolding him reduce
what tell me does he reduce the way he
disobeys me in this house does he reduce
the way he disrespects me in this house
and you want me to reduce my
beating maybe you will join him this is
nothing
manoke
possible I understand and that is why I
told told him to be more respectful and
obedient this year this is the only son
we
have over to you
m thank you Fe your own is not
much number one Fe me try and spoil me
this
year spoil me don't I deserve to be
SPO I can count the number of things you
bought for me last year you never took
me on a date you never took me on a
vacation you never took me shopping you
never even took me to a salon uhuh Fe
and you see all your colleagues at work
do all these things for their wives ahuh
relax so please try and change this year
relax it's enough I
will also try and pray more this year
your prayer life last year was very poor
so please pray more this
year and as for you Ojo no visitor of
yours will step foot into this house
until you have written a letter
indicating is your name age address
state of origin local government area
family background family medical history
blood group and genotype date and
signature failure to do this we need to
immediate evacuation of your guest am I
understood are you playing
Daddy I said am I
understood yes
ma' good also just as you will will not
bring strangers into this house you will
not bring strange things into this house
this year I don't know who you got it
from where and how you got it you will
not bring strange things into this house
am I understood before you know it now
it's Godzilla he will bring into this
house last and not the least this year
you will find something productive to do
with your life something that will
distract you from the wayward un serious
life you lived last
year I rest my
case over to you
Ojo thank you
sir
Daddy just like Mama said this year I
want you to take more care of
me you tried your best last year but
your best was not good enough you can do
better also this year I want you to
register me in any training school I
would rather go to school than stay in
this house doing nothing like some
people you better don't stay in this
house you
better and as for you mama first of
all can you be more vle in your cooking
we had way more carbohydrates than
protein last year if it's not rice it's
spaghetti do you want us to have quash
ah
please try and be more creative in your
cooking this year or we better get a
chair
daddy Mama this year I do not want you
to lay your hands on me because I am a
very soft and tender being it cannot be
me you are talking to Mama it's you I'm
talking to oh do not hit me or slap me
for any reason this
year
okay also
Mama this year can you try not to raise
your voice at me
I am a very emotional being I said it
cannot be me you are talking to it can't
I don't like it when you shout when you
shout it's like a vocanic eruption so
please try not to erupt Me with Your
Voice this
year last and not the least Mama this
year Papa me treat me like an
egg don't I deserve to be pampered not
only pamper Pampers show me more love
this year mama show me more affection
and
compassion show me what it feels like to
be the only son a precious
stone mama show me more
[Music]
love no no no no no no no no no no
nonsense you better show yourself more
sense this year
now that we have known our New Year
resolutions for us to have a prosperous
year we have to abide by the
resolutions Ojo am I
understood yes sir M Fe yes
good have a wonderful
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year
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12:00
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midnight
Jesus is
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[Applause]
Lord next
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m
let us
pray Lord bless this food amen amen
amen
Jesus
mama what is
this
Brin Mama this is not the kind of
creativity I was talking about Lord have
mercy B A
[Music]
[Applause]
it
mama is there rice or
spaghetti
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find Mama please go and wear your shoes
we are going out where are we going I'm
taking you on a date eh what did you say
I'm serious tell me you take me on a
date what's today's date go and wear
your shoes I already booked a
reservation and we running late are you
serious I'll be in the car
[Laughter]
eh you better pick the Beats before I
come back I'm
coming
[Music]
which kind boy this which kind be
[Music]
this
[Music]
mamao are you okay
Fe how do you expect me to be okay
what's wrong this is the first time you
are taking me on a date since our
wedding day I don't even know if I'm
wearing the the proper outfit for this
date I don't know if this is how I'm
supposed to sit feel me I don't even
know Jo
relax okay of course you wearing the
proper outfit for a date of course you
sitting
properly don't care about what anyone
here thinks because this moment is for
us to share so let's let's cherish it
okay eat your food
Mom everything
okay sir everything okay thank
you come
on Tracy yeah relax
okay you don't have to worry about my
parents
this moment is for us to
share let's cherish it are you sure and
set it okay all right you know you can
be prosecuted for that Cheers
[Music]
[Applause]
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[Applause]
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Cheers
oh
oh now where drive with there you go
find
out
[Music]
what did I tell you about bringing
visitors to this house this year mama
you said
visitor but this is no
visitor this is my
girlfriend your
girlfriend let
me mamao at some point we need to let go
oo is no longer a child stop it tell me
excuse
Jus so you are now big enough to have a
girlfriend this is how you want to start
your year
mama I love her and I would love to
spend the rest of my life with
her 16 years
your father told me to be more calm this
year and I am really really really
trying to be calm but do not push me to
the
wall now tell your friend to leave this
house this moment before I evacuate her
from this house myself would you please
let me just go let me just go please
would you
please let me know when you get home
okay no
problem
I am going to let this one slide but let
this be the last time you slide anyone
into this house again this is your last
warning you can never
change
yes I can never change do you know why
because change they say is a constant
thing and I
M refuse to be
[Music]
constant
I heard something wait hold on you huh
don't leave me me I need your help I
need your help there's nothing you can
tell me there's some in this house
I
me I smell goodat
[Music]
meat
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