Ramadan Series 2024 - EP9: "Be Patient, & Where Will Your Patience Come Except From Allah?" [16:127]

Summary

In this video, the speaker discusses the powerful concept of *sabr* (patience) in Islam, emphasizing its importance as a virtue mentioned extensively in the Quran. Patience is highlighted as essential during trials, whether financial, emotional, or in times of war. The speaker explains that *sabr* requires controlling one’s actions, words, and thoughts to align with Allah’s will, even when faced with grief. Ultimately, *sabr* is a gift from Allah, granted when we sincerely seek it. The speaker encourages turning to Allah in moments of hardship, trusting that He will provide the patience needed to overcome any challenge.

Takeaways

• 😀 Patience (*sabr*) is one of the most frequently mentioned virtues in the Quran, appearing in over 40 verses.
• 😀 True patience involves controlling your words and actions in the face of calamity, ensuring they align with Islamic teachings.
• 😀 *Sabr* is not about suppressing grief; one can still feel sadness and cry, but patience is about how you respond outwardly.
• 😀 The reward for patience is immense, with Allah promising rewards that are not measured, unlike other deeds which have specific rewards (e.g., charity).
• 😀 Patience is linked to faith (*iman*), and cultivating it requires a strong connection with Allah.
• 😀 Those who demonstrate patience during financial hardship, health crises, or war are promised great rewards and closeness to Allah.
• 😀 The highest level of patience leads to a unique spiritual experience, where you feel Allah’s mercy and support in the midst of difficulty.
• 😀 The Quran emphasizes that patience is a key trait of the righteous, and those who exhibit it will be elevated to high ranks in Jannah.
• 😀 Patience is a gift from Allah, and it can be attained by sincerely seeking it and making Du'a for it, especially during hardships.
• 😀 Cultivating patience involves shifting your mindset to focus on the rewards from Allah and trusting that He will grant you the strength to endure trials.
• 😀 There are three levels of patience: the initial stage is to seek it, the second is to anticipate the rewards, and the highest level is experiencing Allah’s presence during trials.

Q & A

What is the main topic discussed in the transcript?

The main topic discussed is the concept of patience (Sabr) in Islam, its significance, and how it is linked to one's connection with Allah, as well as the rewards of patience mentioned in the Quran.

How many times is the concept of patience (Sabr) mentioned in the Quran?

The concept of patience (Sabr) is mentioned in over 40 verses in the Quran.

What are the three types of Sabr mentioned in the Quran?

The three types of Sabr mentioned in the Quran are patience during poverty, patience during health crises or distress, and patience during times of war.

How does the speaker describe the relationship between patience and rewards?

The speaker explains that patience leads to rewards that are not measured in a formulaic way. Unlike other acts of worship, where rewards are multiplied by a certain factor, patience is rewarded by Allah without a set measure.

What is the relationship between patience and the highest levels of Jannah?

The highest levels of Jannah, known as the 'VIP Suites' or 'business class' of Paradise, are reserved for those who demonstrate Sabr. Patience is considered a key quality that leads to reaching these elevated levels of Jannah.

How is patience linked to leadership according to the Quran?

According to the Quran, those who demonstrate patience are elevated to positions of leadership. Allah made leaders out of those who showed patience, demonstrating that patience is essential for spiritual and worldly success.

What does the speaker say about the psychological aspect of patience?

The speaker explains that patience psychologically means linking the hardship to the rewards of Allah. When one begins to think about the rewards from Allah, their perspective on the situation changes, leading them to act differently.

Can someone show patience while still feeling grief or sadness?

Yes, the speaker emphasizes that patience does not mean suppressing grief or sadness. A person can be deeply saddened or experience emotional pain while still maintaining patience by controlling their words and actions in a way that pleases Allah.

What is the key to developing patience according to the speaker?

The key to developing patience is to sincerely desire it from Allah. The speaker mentions that if a person truly wishes for patience, Allah will grant it to them, especially in times of hardship or calamity.

How does the speaker advise someone facing a calamity to respond?

The speaker advises that when facing a calamity, one should turn to Allah in prayer, asking Him for patience. Even if one feels unprepared, Allah will provide the necessary patience and support as long as one desires it and asks for it.