Manifesting your specific person is SO easy! This is how to manifest your SP fast

Summary

In this video, manifestation coach Sammy from the Mermaid Gang addresses the common struggle of not being able to manifest the desired person in one's life. The primary reason identified is a lack of self-belief in being deserving or capable of having the desired relationship. Sammy emphasizes the importance of identifying oneself as someone who can easily attract and maintain relationships. The video urges viewers to apply consistent positive affirmations, avoid negative thinking, and to discipline oneself to change habitual thought patterns. It concludes by encouraging viewers to select the most desirable version of their 'special person' (SP) and to align their self-concept with someone who can have the relationship they desire.

Takeaways

• 🧜‍♀️ Sammy introduces herself as a manifestation coach and YouTuber, inviting viewers to join her community.
• 🔗 She offers coaching and a members-only section of her channel for those interested in deeper engagement.
• 💸 Sammy advises against the 'Apple tax' and suggests alternative platforms for joining her members-only content.
• 🚫 She emphasizes the importance of not just consuming content but applying the teachings to achieve manifestation.
• 🤔 The main reason people struggle to manifest their desires, especially in relationships, is due to a lack of self-belief.
• 🔄 Identification plays a crucial role in manifestation; one must see themselves as capable of achieving their desires.
• 🗣️ Consistent affirmation and positive thinking are necessary to overcome negative habits and self-limiting beliefs.
• 🔄 The process involves a shift in identity from someone who lacks to someone who possesses the desired outcome.
• 🚫 Sammy warns against the trap of constantly searching for new techniques instead of applying what is already known.
• 💔 She addresses common limiting beliefs such as always being ghosted and suggests re-framing these thoughts.
• 💪 Discipline is key to changing thought patterns and breaking the cycle of negative thinking.

Q & A

What is the main focus of Sammy's video?

The main focus of Sammy's video is to discuss why people might be struggling to manifest the person they want and what they can do to overcome these obstacles.

What does Sammy consider the primary reason for struggling to manifest the desired person?

Sammy believes the primary reason is that individuals do not see themselves as someone who can have the person they desire, or someone that the desired person would want to be with.

What is the role of self-identification in the manifestation process according to Sammy?

Self-identification plays a crucial role because to manifest something, one needs to identify as someone who already has or can easily manifest that thing.

What does Sammy suggest is a common mistake people make in the manifestation community?

A common mistake is constantly searching for new techniques, keys, videos, teachers, or success stories instead of applying and being consistent with the practices they already know.

What does Sammy mean by 'wavering' in the context of the video?

Wavering refers to the act of complaining out loud or to oneself, and having negative thoughts that contradict the desired manifestation.

What is the significance of discipline in manifesting one's desires, as mentioned by Sammy?

Discipline is significant because it helps to break negative thinking habits and enforces the selection of positive thoughts and actions necessary for manifestation.

How does Sammy suggest dealing with limiting beliefs about relationships?

Sammy suggests identifying and changing limiting beliefs by affirming consistently without wavering, complaining, or negative thoughts, and conditioning oneself to think positively about relationships.

What is the importance of selecting the right version of the desired person (SP) in the manifestation process?

It is important because the version of the SP one selects and focuses on will determine the type of behavior and relationship they experience.

What does Sammy mean by 'comfort zone' in the context of manifestation?

The 'comfort zone' refers to the state of being a victim, blaming circumstances or others, which is comfortable but does not lead to achieving one's desires.

What is the first step Sammy recommends to start manifesting the desired person?

The first step is to identify as someone who can easily have a relationship or be with the person they desire.

How does Sammy define the role of personal responsibility in the manifestation process?

Sammy defines personal responsibility as the necessity to choose thoughts and actions that align with one's desires, taking ownership of one's state and not blaming external factors.

Outlines

00:00

🧜‍♀️ Introduction to Manifestation Coaching

Sammy, the 'Mermaid Gang' YouTuber and manifestation coach, welcomes viewers to another video. They offer coaching services for those seeking help with manifestation and mention a members-only section of the channel with monthly challenges and Q&A videos. Sammy advises viewers to sign up through the provided links and suggests using Android, PC, or Safari to avoid 'Apple tax.' The main discussion revolves around why people might struggle to manifest their desired partners, often due to a lack of self-belief in being worthy or capable of having such a relationship.

05:00

🔄 Overcoming Limiting Beliefs in Relationships

Sammy addresses the issue of limiting beliefs that prevent people from manifesting their desired relationships. They use the example of being 'ghosted' and suggest that viewers should stop identifying with this negative experience. Instead, they should start affirming positive outcomes, such as being lucky in relationships and being desired by others. The key message is to condition oneself to affirm and believe in a positive self-identity, which involves discipline to break negative thinking habits. Sammy emphasizes that it's the viewer's responsibility to change their mindset and stop complaining or seeking external solutions.

10:03

💡 Selecting the Right Version of Your Desire

In this section, Sammy talks about the importance of selecting the right version of the person one desires (SP). They explain that by changing one's thoughts and beliefs about the SP, one can manifest a more desirable outcome. It's about choosing to see the SP in a positive light and expecting the best from them. Sammy stresses that this is not manipulation but a recognition of the power of one's thoughts in shaping reality. They encourage viewers to discipline their thoughts and stop focusing on negative aspects of their SP.

15:04

🌟 Final Thoughts on Manifesting Relationships

Sammy concludes the video by reiterating the importance of identifying with the version of oneself that can have the desired relationship and the ideal version of the SP. They remind viewers to stop complaining and reacting negatively, as these actions reinforce the undesired version of the SP. The message is clear: by changing one's self-concept and thoughts about the SP, one can manifest a relationship that aligns with their desires. Sammy thanks viewers for watching and encourages them to like, share, comment, and subscribe.

Keywords

💡Manifestation

Manifestation refers to the idea of bringing something into reality or existence through one's thoughts and beliefs. In the context of the video, it is about manifesting a specific person or relationship by altering one's mindset and self-perception. The video suggests that if you believe you can attract the person you desire, you are more likely to manifest them into your life.

💡Mermaid Gang

The Mermaid Gang is a community mentioned in the video, presumably led by the YouTuber Sammy. It is a group where members suspend disbelief and engage in practices of manifestation coaching. The term 'Mermaid Gang' suggests a collective of individuals who are open to unconventional methods of achieving their desires.

💡Coaching

Coaching, in this video, refers to the process of guiding individuals to achieve their goals, particularly in the context of manifestation. Sammy offers coaching services to help people dissolve barriers between themselves and their desired manifestations, such as attracting a specific person.

💡Identification

Identification is the concept of recognizing oneself as a certain type of person or having certain characteristics. In the video, Sammy emphasizes the importance of identifying as someone who can easily attract and maintain relationships, which is key to manifesting the desired person.

💡Wavering

Wavering is described in the video as the act of being inconsistent in one's beliefs or intentions, particularly in the context of manifestation. It involves complaining or having negative thoughts, which can hinder the process of attracting what one desires.

💡Affirmations

Affirmations are positive statements that individuals repeat to themselves to instill belief in their ability to achieve their goals. In the video, Sammy teaches that consistent affirmation is necessary to identify as the person who can manifest the desired relationship.

💡Discipline

Discipline is the ability to control one's feelings and overcome one's bad habits. The video suggests that to manifest effectively, one must exercise discipline to stop negative thinking patterns and consistently choose positive thoughts.

💡Victim Mentality

Victim mentality is a mindset where an individual perceives themselves as a victim of circumstances or other people's actions. The video discusses how this mentality can prevent manifestation and that one must move away from it to attract the desired outcomes.

💡Self-concept

Self-concept refers to an individual's perception of their own identity, abilities, and worth. In the video, Sammy explains that one's self-concept plays a crucial role in manifestation, as believing in one's ability to attract a relationship is necessary for it to occur.

💡SP (Specific Person)

SP, or Specific Person, is a term used in the video to refer to the individual that the viewer is trying to manifest into their life. The video discusses how one's beliefs and thoughts about their SP can either attract or repel them.

💡Versioning

Versioning in the context of the video refers to the idea that there are multiple potential realities or 'versions' of a person or situation. By changing one's thoughts and beliefs, one can 'select' a different version of their SP that aligns with their desires.

Highlights

Sammy introduces the concept of the 'mermaid gang' and their focus on manifestation coaching.

The importance of identifying oneself as someone capable of manifesting the desired relationship is emphasized.

The idea that negative self-perception, such as being unlucky in relationships, can hinder manifestation is discussed.

The role of consistent affirmation in changing one's self-identity to align with the desired outcome is highlighted.

The common issue of 'wavering' and its detrimental effect on manifestation is addressed.

The necessity of applying the taught techniques rather than just consuming information is stressed.

The concept that people are the easiest things to manifest is introduced.

The strategy of affirming oneself as someone with good luck in relationships is presented.

The importance of discipline in breaking negative thinking habits is emphasized.

The idea that one must stop blaming external factors and take responsibility for their thoughts and actions is discussed.

The concept of selecting a version of the desired person that aligns with one's manifestation goals is introduced.

The need to change one's thoughts about the specific person (SP) to manifest the desired outcome is highlighted.

The idea that everything in the world comes from one's thoughts and beliefs is emphasized.

The importance of identifying as the version of oneself that can have the desired relationship is reiterated.

The concept of selecting the ideal version of one's SP and the impact of one's thoughts on this selection is discussed.

The final call to action for viewers to apply the teachings and change their thought patterns to manifest their desires.

Transcripts

[Music]

what's up guys we're back with another

video if you are new here my name is

Sammy and we're the mermaid gang this is

where you can come suspend your

disbelief I am your favorite

manifestation coach and your favorite

YouTuber so if you would like for me to

help you dissolve whatever is between

you and your manifestation go ahead and

sign up for coaching with me right here

or in my description box and if you

would like to join my members only part

of my channel where we do challenges

every month and um Q&A videos in the

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is also down there but you can also hit

the join button that's on my channel try

to do it through Android PC or Safari

because Apple tax is crazy you'll get

the real price if you do it the other

way let's talk about why you don't have

your SP and what you can do to get them

main reason why you may be struggling to

to manifest the person you want is

because you are not you don't see

yourself as someone who can have them

someone who does have them

someone they would want to be with um

you maybe see relationships as hard you

maybe think you maybe see yourself as

someone who has not good luck with

relationships or see yourself as someone

who always gets ghosted when you start

having feelings for someone or

you who you identify as has so much to

do with everything because everything

can is an an identification like even

being rich you to be rich to manifest

money you need to identify as someone

who can easily manifest money or

identify as someone who has a lot of

money right now you identify as someone

who does not for a relationship you need

to identify someone in a relationship

someone who is it's easy for you to get

into a relationship someone who everyone

you want to be with wants to be with you

you whatever you know what I'm saying

you you need to whatever your desire is

if you don't have it it's because you

are identifying as someone who does not

have it and ways that you are doing this

is by wavering meaning you are probably

not only complaining out loud to people

or to yourself you could be thinking

thoughts to yourself such as why is this

so hard this is so frustrating

especially especially especially for

people in this community viewers of this

community anyone in the manifestation

Community I know so many of you who are

constantly searching for a new technique

a new key a new video a new teacher a

new thread blog post Twitter thread

whatever you're constantly

or looking for success stories you're

constantly searching okay for

something to help you get the thing you

want you guys will do everything

but sit the fuck

down and

affirm y'all will do anything but the

one thing needed you can search every

video you can read every book you can

listen to every coach you can put any

teacher on a playlist you can read every

thread you can read every success story

but until you apply it all of that

information throw it in the trash cuz

it's

useless you can watch all of my

videos and if you never apply the thing

I'm telling you to apply and you do not

be consistent with

it quit watching because because it's

useless I don't give you this

information for no reason I expect you

to apply it so you listening and

searching a lot of you are very very

very guilty of searching for a faster

method an easier method what do you do

what do you do what do you do do you

affirm do you do 10-minute method do you

robotic affirm do you script what do you

do what's your

method who

cares they are not you you are not them

the only thing you need to do is in

whatever way you feel best if you like

writing use scripting if you just like

to change your thoughts do that if you

like to sit and airm do the 10-minute

method whatever it doesn't matter

whatever is best for you you need to use

that method to identify as the person

that has the thing you want so this is

specifically about people because in my

opinion people are the easiest to

manifest I don't know why I just think

they're the easiest manifest I've had a

lot of experience manifesting people to

do what I want so all you need to do is

apply what I teach you

so I teach affirming right you are you

want to be the person that your wants be

with so if you have limiting beliefs

about this stuff such as maybe you

identify as someone who has a hard time

with a relationships the most common one

I see is that whenever I start liking

someone they ghost me

or whenever I start progressing with

someone they ghost me right that's

something I see a lot so I'm going to

use that as an example so you have you

are identifying as someone who's always

getting

ghosted stop doing

that you need to think okay what do I

actually want to happen

instead I don't want to be ghosted I

want them to want to be with me right so

now you need to start identifying as

meaning you need to start

affirming consistently without the the

searching without the wavering without

the complaining without the negative

thoughts you need to start conditioning

yourself you need to start affirming

that I am so lucky with relationships

everyone I want always wants me

back actually everyone always wants me

even more than I want them every person

I am attracted to wants

me whoever want always wants

me I have the best luck with

relationships everyone I want wants a

relationship with me do you see where

I'm going it's really that simple you

are just I and if you stop and think

right now of all the things that all the

examples I just gave I bet you're at

least one of them if you are struggling

with

manifesting the person that you want I

bet you fall under under one of those

categories that I just mentioned am I

right yeah I know

so it's a very simple fix none of the

none of the things you're struggling

with are a hard thing to fix nothing it

is a simple shift and identity all you

have to do is the thing the hardest part

is disciplining yourself to stop doing

that because

unfortunately negative thinking habits

are so common and since they are habits

they are something you have to break

with discipline you have to make

yourself stop choosing those thoughts

you have to make yourself choose better

thoughts or beneficial thoughts you have

to make

yourself do what you need to do in order

to get where you want to be I get so

many requests that are like Sammy how

can I stop wavering how can I make

myself airm discipline no one can make

you do it only you

you have to choose to do

it it takes discipline at first it

really does like that's the hardest part

is making yourself actually stop

complaining making yourself actually

think in a positive way about your

manifestation because so many people

feel so comfortable as a victim it's so

comforting to just be able to blame

circumstances or blame other people it's

so comforting and it's

easier

but you don't get what you want from

that comfort zone you never will

because that comfort zone is a state and

you are holding yourself in that state

so because you are choosing because you

are even though it's the easier way you

are still choosing to hold yourself in

that state and therefore you have no one

to blame but

yourself so until you make the choice to

think from a different state identify

with another story about yourself you

can't complain it's your fault if you

can't get what you want it's your fault

if your SP still doesn't want you it's

your fault if you're still experiencing

the same cycle and while that may be

harsh to hear it is the truth and that

is just what it is you are the only

person who can get yourself out of this

state out of this victim State you have

to choose to stop blaming everything

else you have to choose to stop

complaining and it and I know I know it

can be hard when you're so used to it

you

automatically jump right to the

complaint you automatically jump right

to the victim

mentality but even when you do it's okay

if you do the important part is that you

go ah wait a minute no the important

part is that you check yourself and you

say uh no actually that's not true for

me anymore actually um I have the best

luck with

relationships

actually they are so obsessed with me

actually everyone I want always wants me

and even more actually everyone I want

literally begs for a relationship with

me everyone I want

immediately wants commitment from

me or they immediately want to commit to

me the person that you are if if you

have a specific person in mind and you

have a specific set of circumstances

with this specific person and maybe it's

that they don't want to get married or

they don't want to commit actually they

do actually they believe we're soulmates

actually they are literally begging me

to get married actually they want to

marry me so much they want to marry me

this

year because not only are you selecting

the version of

yourself you are selecting a version of

them this applies to everyone but I'm

speaking specifically for your person

okay you are selecting a version of them

so what version of them are you

selecting are you selecting the version

of them that

is

unloyal that doesn't want to be in a

relationship that only wants friends

with benefits or one that broke up with

you and doesn't want to be with you at

all or one who has never wanted to be

with you what version of them are you

selecting and this again goes back to

you complaining thinking negatively

about it sulking feeling bad for

yourself you can't do that you have to

choose choose to select a different

version of them and it takes discipline

you have to make

yourself drop your pity

party and change your thoughts otherwise

you should just go ahead and get

comfortable and be happy with the

version of them that you're experiencing

now because nothing can change until you

change up here everything in the world

comes from here nothing can change

outside side if you don't change it in

here first and that's just what it is

like it or don't that's how it is

so what version of your SP are you

selecting because you have infinite

versions of everyone that you can select

and you're doing it already it's nothing

that you're going out of your way to do

you're already doing it if someone is in

your life you see them a certain way you

have certain beliefs about them so as

long as you perpetuate those beliefs you

keep thinking that way about them you

keep expecting the same behavior from

them whether good or

bad you are selecting that version of

them so when you don't like the way

someone shows up to you you have the

option to change it you always have the

option to change it and it's not

manipulation it's just what you're

already doing but why should you

experience a version of someone you

don't want want when you could just

simply change your thoughts about them

and get the version of them to show up

that you do want that's all you're doing

so whatever you're currently

experiencing with your SP whether it's

them being non-committal whether it's

them just wanting like Friends with

Benefits whether it's them not wanting

you at all ghosting you whatever there's

two things you need to think about am I

identifying as someone that can you know

that can have a relationship easily or

that gets into Rel relationship easily

or that the people that I want want me

back who are you identifying as when it

comes to

relationships and two what version of

your SP are you selecting if it's

not I am someone who has the best luck

with relationships and everyone I want

always wants me and they are so in love

with me they love being in a

relationship with me or they want a

relationship with me or they're feelings

are mutual to mind whatever the

situation is insert specific situation

here whatever you wish it

was that's the version of them you need

to select that's the so if you think

that your person is a cheater you need

to think no they're not they're super

loyal especially to me if you think your

person only wants Friends with Benefits

no they want to be in a relationship

with

me because you are selecting the version

of them so that's the two things that is

the only two things really who do you

identify as when it comes to

relationships I guess you can call this

self-concept I call it do you identify

as the person that can have this

thing who are you identifying as because

to experience something you have to

identify with the version of you that

can have it because if you are currently

thinking that you can't have it or you

don't think it's something that you

would be able to experience then you are

not identifying as the version of you

that has it you can't because the two

can't live together you can't be in

those two opposing States at the same

time okay identify as the version of you

that can have this thing that you want

this person that you want that gets

whoever you want that can have anyone

you

want that has the best luck with

relationships Etc two what version of

your SP are you selecting select the

version that is most ideal to you who do

you wish they were all right start

thinking of them as that person and stop

complaining about them being the

opposite because as long as you are

complaining about it getting upset about

it reacting you are selecting that

version over and over again and you're

going to keep experiencing

it period that's it okay thank you so

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