PsyCARE, la série qui explique....comment gérer son stress

Institut de Psychiatrie
6 May 202104:30

Summary

TLDRThis video script discusses stress management, emphasizing that stress is an inherent part of life and cannot be eliminated. It illustrates how stress affects behavior and can lead to a vicious cycle of avoidance and negative self-perception. The script suggests various strategies to break this cycle, such as confronting the stressor, practicing relaxation techniques, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle. It also introduces cognitive techniques like thought challenging and attention focusing to help viewers manage stress effectively.

Takeaways

  • 🔍 Stress is a part of life and cannot be eliminated; it's essential to learn how to manage it.
  • 🤔 Identifying stress and recognizing vicious cycles are the first steps in stress management.
  • 📈 Example scenario: Marion's stress over a class presentation leads to negative thoughts, emotions, and physical reactions.
  • 🛑 Two responses to stress: confront the situation or avoid it, each with different consequences for future stress management.
  • 🔁 Avoiding stress can lead to a vicious cycle of fear and avoidance, impacting self-esteem and future stress responses.
  • 💡 To break the cycle, Marion could change her behavior, which might alter her thoughts and reduce stress over time.
  • 🌟 Various stress management techniques exist, but effectiveness varies by individual and situation.
  • 🏋️‍♀️ A good lifestyle, including healthy eating, rest, and regular physical activity, forms the basis of stress management.
  • 🚭 Beware of unhealthy coping mechanisms like smoking and excessive consumption of alcohol or sugary foods.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Regular relaxation practice in a calm environment can help manage stress effectively.
  • 🎯 The attention focusing technique can help distance oneself from stress-inducing thoughts and emotions.
  • 🤓 Cognitive restructuring through alternative thoughts can provide perspective and directly impact stress levels.

Q & A

  • What is the main message about stress in the video?

    -The main message is that stress is neither good nor bad; it is a natural part of life that cannot be completely eliminated. The goal is to manage stress effectively rather than try to remove it.

  • How does the video suggest identifying stress?

    -The video suggests identifying stress by recognizing the situations that trigger it and observing the negative thought patterns and behaviors that occur in response to stressful situations.

  • What is an example given in the video to explain stress response?

    -The video provides the example of Marion, who feels stressed about giving a presentation. Her negative thoughts lead to emotions like shame and anxiety, which in turn affect her physical responses, such as trembling hands and a dry mouth.

  • What are the two options Marion has when faced with a stressful situation?

    -Marion can either confront the situation and proceed with the presentation despite her stress, or avoid the situation by not entering the classroom. Both actions will have consequences on how she handles similar stressful situations in the future.

  • What is a 'vicious circle' in the context of stress management?

    -A vicious circle occurs when avoiding a stressful situation reinforces negative thinking patterns, such as believing one cannot handle the stress, which lowers self-esteem and increases the likelihood of avoidance in future situations.

  • How can working on thoughts, emotions, or behaviors help manage stress?

    -By addressing thoughts, emotions, or behaviors, individuals can break the vicious circle of stress. For example, confronting a stressful situation can lead to a change in thoughts, such as realizing the stress was not as overwhelming as initially feared.

  • What lifestyle habits are recommended to manage stress effectively?

    -The video recommends maintaining a healthy lifestyle, which includes eating well, getting enough rest, engaging in physical activity, and making time for enjoyable activities each day to help manage stress.

  • Why are habits like smoking, alcohol consumption, or overeating not good for managing stress in the long term?

    -While these habits might provide temporary relief from anxiety, they exhaust the body over time and reduce its ability to cope with stress, making them ineffective in the long term.

  • What is the role of relaxation techniques in stress management?

    -Relaxation techniques, such as practicing in a quiet environment, can help manage stress, but they need to be practiced regularly to be effective. The goal is to master these techniques so they can be used when stressful situations arise.

  • What is 'alternative thinking,' and how does it help manage stress?

    -Alternative thinking involves generating different interpretations of a stressful situation. For example, instead of assuming a suspicious noise means danger, one might consider it could be friends. This shift in perspective helps reduce stress by offering more balanced viewpoints.

Outlines

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😓 Understanding and Managing Stress

This paragraph discusses the nature of stress, emphasizing that it is neither inherently good nor bad but a part of life that cannot be eliminated. It uses the example of Marion, who is stressed about giving a presentation. Her negative thoughts lead to feelings of shame and anxiety, which in turn affect her physical state, such as trembling hands and dry mouth. The paragraph outlines two potential responses to stress: facing the situation despite the stress or avoiding it, with each having different consequences for future stress management. It suggests that managing stress involves addressing thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to break the cycle of stress. Techniques such as relaxation and maintaining a healthy lifestyle are mentioned as effective ways to manage stress. The importance of regular practice of relaxation techniques in a calm environment is highlighted, as well as the role of physical activity and maintaining a balanced diet in stress management.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Stress

Stress is defined as a physical, mental, or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or demanding circumstances. In the video, stress is portrayed as an inherent part of life that cannot be eliminated. The script uses the example of Marion, who is stressed about giving a presentation, to illustrate how stress can lead to negative thoughts and physical reactions, such as trembling hands and a dry mouth.

💡Vicious Cycle

A vicious cycle refers to a series of events where each event exacerbates the next, leading to an overall worsening situation. The video script mentions that if Marion avoids her presentation due to stress, it could reinforce her belief that she can't handle such situations, potentially leading to a cycle of avoidance and lowered self-esteem.

💡Confrontation

Confrontation in this context means facing a difficult or stressful situation head-on. The script suggests that by confronting the stressor, such as giving the presentation, Marion could break the cycle of avoidance and potentially change her thought patterns, leading to a reduction in stress.

💡Emotion

Emotion refers to a natural instinctive reaction such as fear or anxiety to a situation. The video script describes how Marion's negative thoughts about her presentation lead to emotions like shame and anxiety, which in turn affect her behavior and physical state.

💡Behavior

Behavior in the script is tied to how an individual reacts to stress. It outlines two possible behaviors for Marion: facing the presentation or fleeing from it. The choice of behavior impacts the consequences and influences how future stress is managed.

💡Self-Esteem

Self-esteem is a person's overall sense of self-worth or personal value. The script implies that avoiding stressful situations, like Marion not giving her presentation, could lead to a decrease in self-esteem, which can further exacerbate stress in similar future situations.

💡Relaxation Techniques

Relaxation techniques are methods used to reduce stress and anxiety. The video mentions that practicing relaxation regularly can help manage stress effectively. It suggests that these techniques should be practiced in a calm environment to be most beneficial during stressful moments.

💡Attention Focusing

Attention focusing is a technique where one concentrates on a specific object or detail to distract from stress. The script describes an exercise where one observes an object in detail and then repeats the process with eyes closed to distance oneself from stressful thoughts and emotions.

💡Cognitive Reappraisal

Cognitive reappraisal is a strategy for changing one's emotional response to a situation by reinterpreting it. The video script suggests finding alternative explanations for a stressful situation, like considering that a noise behind you might be friends rather than a threat, to reduce stress.

💡Well-being

Well-being encompasses an individual's physical health, mental state, and happiness. The video script emphasizes the importance of good well-being practices like healthy eating, adequate rest, and regular physical activity as a foundation for managing stress.

💡Professional Help

Professional help refers to seeking assistance from a healthcare provider or therapist. The script concludes by suggesting that if self-managed stress techniques are not effective, it's important to seek professional help to address stress-related issues.

Highlights

Stress is an inherent part of life and cannot be eliminated.

Identifying stress and vicious cycles is crucial when facing stressful situations.

Example given: Marion's stress over a class presentation and the negative thoughts that follow.

Negative thoughts can lead to emotions like shame and anxiety, affecting behavior.

Marion has two options: confront the stress or avoid it, each with different consequences.

Avoiding stress can lead to a vicious cycle of not facing challenges and lowered self-esteem.

To manage stress effectively, one should work on thoughts, emotions, or behaviors.

Marion can change her thoughts and reduce stress by confronting the situation.

Regular relaxation techniques can help manage stress.

There is no one-size-fits-all stress management method; it depends on the individual and situation.

Good stress management starts with maintaining a healthy lifestyle.

Avoiding unhealthy habits like smoking and excessive alcohol consumption is important for long-term stress management.

Regular practice of relaxation in a calm environment is essential for effective stress relief.

Attention focusing technique can help distance oneself from stress-inducing thoughts and emotions.

Working on thoughts by considering alternative explanations can reduce stress.

Asking oneself three questions can help find alternative thoughts and manage stress.

If self-help strategies don't work, seeking professional health advice is recommended.

Transcripts

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si vous avez regardez notre vidéo sur le

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stress vous savez maintenant qu'il n'est

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ni bon ni mauvais il fait partie de la

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vie il n'est donc pas possible de

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l'éliminer alors comment on fait tout

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d'abord il faut pouvoir identifier son

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stress ainsi que les cercles vicieux qui

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nous guette quand on est face à une

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situation stressante exemple marion doit

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faire une présentation devant sa classe

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naturellement elle est stressée elle se

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dit qu'elle n'y arrivera pas que tout le

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monde va se moquer d'elle

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ses pensées vont générer des émotions de

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la honte de l' angoisse et ses émotions

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vont elles mêmes avoir une incidence sur

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son comportement

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les mains qui tremblent la bouche sèche

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ou une accélération du rythme cardiaque

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et au final marion a deux solutions soit

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se confronter à la situation et faire sa

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présentation malgré tout soit fuir la

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situation et ne pas entrer dans la salle

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bien évidemment chacun de ces

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comportements va avoir des conséquences

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qui vont avoir une influence sur la

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gestion prochaine d'une même situation

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de stress

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si marion ne fait pas sa présentation

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elle sera qu'elle n'a pas su faire face

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à la situation que le je n'y arriverai

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pas et le plus fort cette fuite pourra

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l'amener à une baisse de l'estimé de soi

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la fois suivante face à une situation de

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stress identique elle sera de nouveau

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dans la même difficulté risquent encore

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de fuir et cetera et cetera

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c'est ce que l'on appelle entrer dans un

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cercle vicieux

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l'idée pour bien gérer le stress et donc

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de travailler soit sur ses pensées

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soient sur ses émotions soit sur ses

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comportements pour sortir du cercle

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vicieux en se confrontant à la situation

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marion agit sur son comportement ce qui

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lui permettra peut-être de modifier ses

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pensées par rapport à la situation

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c'était pas si terrible j'ai stressé

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pour rien et de diminuer son stress si

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la situation se représente

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elle aurait pu aussi gérer son stress on

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s'entraînant à la relaxation

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il existe de nombreuses méthodes pour

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gérer son stress toutes sont efficaces

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n'est pas pour toutes les situations ou

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pour toutes les personnes

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il n'existe pas de baguette magique il

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faut essayer et voir ce qui nous

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convient en fonction des situations

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la base d'une bonne gestion du stress

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c'est déjà d'avoir une bonne hygiène de

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vie

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manger sainement bien se reposer avoir

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une activité physique adaptée et surtout

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le maintien chaque jour d'activité

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plaisante pas nécessairement longue qui

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sont autant de facteurs qui nous

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aideront à gérer notre stress

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attention fumer consommer de l'alcool

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manger trop gras ou trop sucrés

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si cela peut calmer les anxiétés sur le

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moment elle

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terme cela ne sera pas efficace car

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l'organisme s'épuisera il ne pourra plus

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faire face

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autre méthode pour arriver à une

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meilleure prise de décision en situation

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de stress la relaxation pour qu'elle

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soit efficace il faut la pratiquer

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régulièrement dans un endroit calme pour

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pouvoir bien la maîtriser et pouvoir en

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bénéficier dans les moments importants

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pour gérer son stress

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on peut aussi utiliser la technique de

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la focalisation de l'attention

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on choisit un objet dans son

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environnement et en le regardant

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nous les détails ont très fortement

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ensuite on fait le même exercice en

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fermant les yeux

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l'idée est par cette technique de mettre

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à distance les pensées et émotions

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source de stress

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enfin on peut essayer de travailler sur

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nos pensées pour relativiser une

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situation que nous interprétons comme

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stressante

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par exemple si dans la ruche identifié

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un bruit derrière moi qui me fait penser

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que je suis suivi par quelqu'un de

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malveillant

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je peux aussi essayer de trouver une

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autre explication par exemple me dire

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que ce sont des copains qui me suivent

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et essayer de m'amuser de la situation

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c'est ce qu'on appelle les pensées

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alternative qui nous permettent de

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prendre du recul et d'agir ainsi

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directement sur notre stress ses pensées

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alternatifs sont des hypothèses

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possibles à prendre en considération

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une des méthodes afin de trouver ces

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hypothèses et de se poser trois

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questions

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que penserait un ami bienveillant dans

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la même situation si j'étais un

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observateur extérieur à la situation

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qu'est-ce que je penserais quand je

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serais rentré chez moi et que je ne

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serai plus sous le coup de l'émotion

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mais bien tranquille

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qu'est-ce que je me dirai en repensant à

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cette situation à chaque fois vous avez

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dépensé stressante essayer ce petit

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exercice et observer comment il agit sur

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votre stress

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en résumé pour gérer son stress il faut

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être en mesure d'identifier les

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situations qui vont en apporter

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ensuite il faut essayer de gérer ses

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pensées émotions et comportements face à

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ces situations par des techniques et des

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stratégies propres à chacun surtout si

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cela ne fonctionne pas il ne faut pas

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hésiter à aller consulter un

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professionnel de santé

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il vaut mieux consulter pour rien que

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pas du tout

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