Covert Contracts and the Damage They Do

Nuclear Caudillo
9 May 2023119:00

Summary

TLDRIn this insightful video, the host, Nuke, delves into the concept of 'covert contracts'—unspoken agreements we believe exist with others, impacting relationships and self-growth. He explores how these silent expectations can lead to disillusionment and hinder progress in life and dating. Drawing on Dr. Robert Glover's work, Nuke discusses recognizing and breaking free from these contracts to avoid unnecessary emotional turmoil and live a more authentic life.

Takeaways

  • 🎯 The concept of 'covert contracts' is explored, which are unspoken agreements or expectations one has in relationships that can lead to disillusionment when not met.
  • 🤔 The speaker emphasizes the importance of recognizing and breaking covert contracts to avoid being held back in life and relationships.
  • 🗣️ Communication is key in addressing covert contracts; expressing needs and expectations clearly to avoid misunderstandings and disappointments.
  • 💡 The idea that publicly acknowledging a broken covert contract can lead to others perceiving you as nihilistic or bitter is discussed.
  • 👥 Covert contracts can exist not only in romantic relationships but also with oneself or with the world, shaping one's actions and reactions.
  • 👀 The notion that people may feel entitled to certain outcomes based on their efforts, such as getting in shape or making money, is challenged.
  • 💔 Disappointment arises when reality does not align with the covert contracts one has in their mind, especially in the context of dating and relationships.
  • 🚫 The potential for covert contracts to create a sense of entitlement and the subsequent bitterness when those entitlements are not met is highlighted.
  • 💡 The suggestion to 'divest oneself from the outcome' of a covert contract as a means to break free from its constraints is presented.
  • 🤷‍♂️ The acceptance of the reality that not every girl will want a relationship, and the importance of understanding and respecting that is underscored.
  • 🔄 The idea of 'rotations' in dating is introduced, where one may casually date multiple people without the expectation of a committed relationship.

Q & A

  • What is a covert contract according to the speaker?

    -A covert contract is an unspoken agreement or expectation that one believes exists, even without communicating it to the other party or getting their consent. It's often a set of 'if-then' statements in one's head about how certain actions should lead to guaranteed outcomes, especially in relationships.

  • Why are covert contracts potentially harmful in relationships?

    -Covert contracts can be harmful because they set up unrealistic expectations that others are unaware of. When these expectations are not met, it can lead to feelings of anger, disappointment, and disillusionment, potentially damaging the relationship.

  • What is the role of communication in addressing covert contracts?

    -Communication is key in addressing covert contracts. By clearly expressing one's needs and expectations to the other party, it allows for a mutual understanding and agreement, which can prevent misunderstandings and disappointments.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a common misconception about breaking a covert contract publicly?

    -The speaker suggests that when people publicly acknowledge breaking a covert contract or overcoming one, they may be perceived as nihilistic, bitter, or as having given up. This perception can be a barrier to addressing and resolving covert contracts.

  • What are some examples of covert contracts mentioned in the script?

    -Examples of covert contracts mentioned include the belief that if one is a good person they will be liked and loved, if one meets everyone else's needs without asking then their needs will be met, and if one does everything right they will have a problem-free life.

  • How does the speaker describe the process of breaking a covert contract?

    -The speaker describes two ways to break a covert contract: one is to communicate the expectations clearly to the other party and negotiate, and the other is to divest oneself from the expected outcome, accepting that the desired result is not guaranteed.

  • What is the relationship between covert contracts and self-improvement according to the speaker?

    -The speaker suggests that self-improvement can sometimes lead to covert contracts, where individuals believe that achieving certain milestones, such as getting in shape or making money, will automatically lead to romantic success. This can result in disappointment when these expectations are not met.

  • Why does the speaker argue that expecting too much from self-improvement can be problematic?

    -The speaker argues that expecting too much from self-improvement can lead to entitlement and disappointment. When individuals believe that their efforts should guarantee them certain outcomes, such as attracting a partner, they may become bitter and resentful when reality does not align with their expectations.

  • What is the speaker's view on the importance of outcome independence in relationships?

    -The speaker views outcome independence as crucial in relationships. It involves accepting that one cannot control the actions of others and that expecting specific outcomes from a relationship can lead to unnecessary pain and disappointment.

  • How does the speaker relate covert contracts to the concept of 'nice guys'?

    -The speaker relates covert contracts to 'nice guys' by suggesting that they often operate under the covert contract that if they are good, kind, and do everything for others, they will be liked and loved in return. This can lead to frustration and bitterness when these expectations are not met.

  • What advice does the speaker give for dealing with the disappointment of a broken covert contract?

    -The speaker advises to practice self-forgiveness and to understand that it's okay to have made mistakes based on the information and maturity one had at the time. It's important to learn from these experiences and move on, rather than carrying the burden of past errors.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a common reaction to having a covert contract broken?

    -The speaker suggests that when a covert contract is broken, individuals may experience anger, frustration, and confusion, especially if they feel they have not communicated their expectations to the other party.

  • What is the purpose of discussing covert contracts in the context of dating and relationships?

    -The purpose of discussing covert contracts in the context of dating and relationships is to help individuals recognize and address unspoken expectations that can lead to misunderstandings, disappointments, and conflicts.

  • How does the speaker define 'red meat' in the context of the manosphere?

    -In the context of the manosphere, 'red meat' refers to content that is sensational, provocative, or extreme, often focusing on negative aspects or grievances related to dating and relationships.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a common misconception about promiscuous women?

    -The speaker suggests that a common misconception about promiscuous women is that they are not capable of being in a committed relationship or that they are not interested in emotional connection, which may not necessarily be true.

  • What is the speaker's view on the role of ego in relationships?

    -The speaker believes that ego can be a hindrance in relationships, causing individuals to project their needs and expectations onto others without considering the other person's perspective or desires.

  • What advice does the speaker give for dealing with the realization that a casual relationship partner is seeing other people?

    -The speaker advises to divest oneself from the outcome, accept the situation for what it is, and continue to enjoy the relationship without expecting or demanding commitment or exclusivity.

  • How does the speaker describe the experience of being in a rotation with a woman?

    -The speaker describes being in a rotation with a woman as a situation where one is not the only person she is seeing, but rather one of several men in her life. This can be a source of insecurity for some, but the speaker encourages viewing it pragmatically and focusing on enjoying the experience.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a common covert contract among men regarding promiscuous women?

    -The speaker suggests that a common covert contract among men is the belief that if a woman is promiscuous, she must be seeing multiple men and therefore not interested in a serious relationship, which may not be the case.

  • What is the speaker's stance on the idea that a man's value is tied to his ability to attract women?

    -The speaker argues against the idea that a man's value is solely tied to his ability to attract women, stating that a man's worth is not dependent on making women happy or securing a relationship.

  • What advice does the speaker give for men who feel lost or overwhelmed by the complexities of dating and relationships?

    -The speaker advises men to focus on solutions, work on self-improvement, and seek out practical advice and insights from books, blog posts, and discussions with other men, rather than getting caught up in sensational or 'red meat' content.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a common reaction to seeing a woman who is perceived as promiscuous in a positive light?

    -The speaker suggests that a common reaction is for people to judge and label the woman negatively, assuming she is not interested in a serious relationship or that she is only seeking casual encounters.

  • How does the speaker view the role of 'nice guys' and 'beta' men in the context of covert contracts?

    -The speaker views 'nice guys' and 'beta' men as often being trapped by covert contracts, such as the belief that being kind and non-assertive will lead to romantic success, which can lead to disappointment and frustration when these expectations are not met.

  • What is the speaker's perspective on the importance of self-awareness in navigating relationships?

    -The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing and addressing covert contracts, suggesting that understanding one's own expectations and beliefs is crucial for navigating relationships successfully.

  • How does the speaker define 'red meat' in the context of the discussion?

    -In the context of the discussion, 'red meat' refers to content or rhetoric that is provocative, often focusing on negative or controversial aspects of dating and relationships, and may not provide constructive solutions or insights.

  • What does the speaker suggest is a key factor in enjoying casual relationships with women?

    -The speaker suggests that a key factor in enjoying casual relationships with women is to not judge them, to understand that the relationship is for fun, and to be exclusive in understanding the situation, leading to enjoyment without any sense of obligation.

Outlines

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🗣️ Introduction to Covert Contracts

The speaker, Nuke, introduces the topic of covert contracts, a concept coined by Dr. Robert Glover, author of 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. Covert contracts are unspoken agreements or expectations one has in relationships, often leading to disillusionment when unmet. Nuke discusses how these contracts can negatively impact dating and life, and the common misconceptions about breaking them. He also touches on the importance of communication and the dangers of invisible expectations.

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🗣️ Dealing with Covert Contracts

Nuke outlines two primary methods for dealing with covert contracts: asserting one's needs and expectations clearly or divesting oneself from the expected outcomes. He uses the analogy of viewing women as promiscuous to avoid disappointment and discusses the challenges men face in dating due to covert contracts. Nuke emphasizes the importance of reality and the potential pitfalls of not addressing these unspoken agreements.

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🗣️ The Dangers of Covert Contracts

The speaker discusses the inherent dangers of covert contracts, such as the assumption of being liked or loved for being a good person, meeting everyone's needs without asking, and expecting a problem-free life. He highlights how these contracts can be detrimental, especially in dating, and how they often stem from societal or familial influences. Nuke also addresses the self-improvement journey and the common misconceptions men have about attracting women.

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🗣️ Overcoming Entitlement and Frustration

Nuke talks about the frustration and entitlement that arise from covert contracts, especially when men feel they have met certain standards but are still rejected. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that self-improvement, such as gaining wealth or status, does not guarantee romantic success. The speaker also touches on the fear some men have of losing out to someone with less apparent effort, highlighting the need to let go of the idea of a sure thing in relationships.

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🗣️ Self-Awareness and Forgiveness

The speaker discusses the importance of self-awareness in recognizing and addressing covert contracts. He talks about the need to forgive oneself for past mistakes and the societal pressure on men not to do so. Nuke shares his personal journey from being pragmatic to understanding the role of emotions in decision-making, and the importance of learning from past experiences rather than being defined by them.

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🗣️ The Impact of Environment and Social Dynamics

Nuke explores how environmental factors and social dynamics can influence the effectiveness of covert contracts. He uses personal anecdotes to illustrate that factors beyond one's control, such as being in a college environment, can impact the attention one receives from the opposite sex. The speaker also discusses the unrealistic expectations some men have about their attractiveness to women and the need to adjust these expectations.

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🗣️ The Role of Ego and Emotional Intelligence

The speaker discusses the role of ego in hindering personal growth and the importance of leaving ego at the door to enjoy life more fully. Nuke shares his personal transformation in 2021, when he decided to focus on having fun and learning from others rather than being driven by ego. He emphasizes the value of emotional intelligence and being pragmatic in dealing with life's challenges.

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🗣️ The Influence of Media and Public Figures

Nuke talks about the influence of media and public figures on men's perceptions of relationships and self-worth. He criticizes content creators who focus on doom and gloom, arguing that they should offer solutions rather than just highlighting problems. The speaker also addresses the impact of certain personalities, like Pearl, and the need for more positive and solution-oriented role models.

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🗣️ The Importance of Self-Acceptance and Growth

The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and personal growth, especially for men who feel lost or lonely. Nuke discusses his military experience and the loneliness he witnessed among young men, advocating for a more compassionate approach to helping them navigate relationships and life. He also criticizes the focus on 'red meat' content that offers no real solutions, urging for more constructive dialogue.

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🗣️ The Challenge of Breaking Covert Contracts

Nuke discusses the difficulty of breaking covert contracts and the emotional work required to do so. He shares personal experiences where he had to let go of expectations and accept the reality of situations, such as when a casual relationship continued to be just that, despite his initial disappointment. The speaker encourages men to be outcome-independent and to enjoy the present moment.

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🗣️ Embracing Imperfection and Learning from Experience

The speaker talks about embracing imperfection and learning from personal experiences, whether they involve relationships or self-improvement. Nuke emphasizes the importance of not letting societal expectations or the fear of judgment dictate one's actions. He encourages men to enjoy the journey of self-discovery and to be open to the lessons that each experience brings.

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🗣️ The Power of Self-Reflection and Change

Nuke concludes by discussing the power of self-reflection and the ability to change one's perspective on life and relationships. He stresses the importance of breaking free from societal pressures and expectations, and the need to find one's own path. The speaker also encourages men to be solution-oriented and to seek out content that promotes personal growth and self-improvement.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Covert Contracts

Covert Contracts are unspoken agreements or expectations one has in a relationship or life in general, which can lead to disillusionment when not met. In the video, the speaker discusses how these contracts can hurt individuals in dating and life, providing the example of someone expecting a committed relationship without explicitly communicating their needs.

💡Disillusionment

Disillusionment refers to the feeling of disappointment or loss of faith in something or someone due to the discovery of unpleasant realities. The video's theme revolves around how covert contracts can lead to disillusionment when people's expectations are not met, as they have not communicated their desires to others.

💡Communication

Communication is the process of sharing information or feelings. The video emphasizes the importance of expressing one's needs and expectations clearly to avoid misunderstandings and the breaking of covert contracts. It is highlighted as a solution to the problems caused by these unspoken agreements.

💡Expectations

Expectations are the beliefs or anticipations about what will happen or what someone will do. The video discusses how having covert contracts based on unexpressed expectations can be detrimental, as they often lead to disappointment when others are unaware of these silent agreements.

💡Outcome Independence

Outcome Independence is the concept of not being emotionally invested in the results of a situation. The speaker mentions this as a way to deal with covert contracts, suggesting that individuals should focus on their actions rather than the potential outcomes, which can help in avoiding disappointment.

💡Self-Improvement

Self-Improvement involves personal growth and development. The video touches on self-improvement as a journey that can be hindered by covert contracts, such as the belief that becoming physically fit or wealthy will automatically attract romantic partners.

💡Nice Guy Syndrome

Nice Guy Syndrome is a concept where men believe that being overly agreeable and self-sacrificing will lead to romantic success. The video references this syndrome as a source of covert contracts, where men may feel entitled to love and affection due to their 'niceness' without considering the need for genuine connection and communication.

💡Red Pill

The term 'Red Pill' is used in the video to refer to a movement or philosophy that challenges traditional views on dating, gender roles, and self-improvement. It is mentioned as a source of ideas that can help men break free from covert contracts and understand the realities of dating and relationships.

💡Game

In the context of the video, 'Game' refers to the strategies and behaviors used in dating and social interactions to attract and engage with romantic interests. The speaker discusses how understanding and improving one's game can help in navigating relationships without being hindered by covert contracts.

💡Paternity Question

The 'Paternity Question' arises when there is uncertainty about the biological father of a child, often in the context of promiscuity. The video uses this term to illustrate the potential issues that can arise from covert contracts, where men may expect exclusivity and commitment without discussing their desires openly.

💡Forgiveness

Forgiveness is the act of pardoning or ceasing to hold a grudge. The video speaker suggests that learning to forgive oneself for past mistakes and misunderstandings related to covert contracts is essential for personal growth and moving forward in life.

Highlights

Discussion on 'covert contracts' and their impact on dating and life, based on Dr. Robert Glover's concept.

A covert contract is an unspoken agreement that one believes exists without communication or consent from the other party.

The importance of recognizing and addressing covert contracts to avoid disillusionment in relationships.

Public disclosure of covert contracts can lead to misunderstandings and negative perceptions.

Strategies for dealing with covert contracts include clear communication of expectations and outcome independence.

The role of self-awareness in identifying and breaking covert contracts that hinder personal growth.

How societal and cultural factors can contribute to the formation of covert contracts.

Examples of covert contracts in dating, such as expecting a committed relationship without clear communication.

The impact of covert contracts on self-esteem and the perception of self-worth in relation to romantic interests.

The misconception that external achievements like wealth or physical fitness guarantee romantic success.

The role of forgiveness in letting go of past mistakes and covert contracts that no longer serve us.

The influence of social media on perceptions of self-worth and covert contracts related to romantic relationships.

The idea that covert contracts can be both limiting and liberating, depending on one's perspective and approach.

The importance of aligning one's actions with reality rather than with the expectations set by covert contracts.

How covert contracts can lead to bitterness and resentment when unmet, and the need for emotional maturity to handle such situations.

The potential for covert contracts to be broken in a healthy way, leading to personal growth and better relationship dynamics.

Final thoughts on the necessity of self-improvement and self-awareness in navigating the complexities of covert contracts.

Transcripts

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am I ever on your mind

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thank you

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hey guys what's up uh it's nuke here

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again

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um

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here with another uh episode of

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you know just live

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just talking just talking you know

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um so I'm one of these more often I got

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more time so I'm going to be dropping

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these as much as I can

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but yeah today we're going to talk about

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a covert contracts and

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probably hurt you

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not only in dating but in life in

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general just dealing with people and and

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dealing with life and why people feel so

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disillusioned and how it just slows you

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down in life and then how also

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people think that when you when you

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publicly tell people that you've broken

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a covert contract or you've gotten over

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or or recognized a covert contract

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um they feel they see that you're like

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they see you as nihilistic bitter or

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just have having given up right so

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um the people of the definition of code

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for contract which I think was coined by

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Dr Robert Robert Glover

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who is the right who is the author of

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Nora Mr Nice Guy which is a great book

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by the way so basically a covert

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contract is an agreement that you

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believe exists even if you have not

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actually communicated it to your partner

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or gotten their commit their consent and

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that's that's in the in the view of a

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relationship

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um so

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yeah and it doesn't have to be with the

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person it could be with yourself or the

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world something that you just

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an agreement or a deal or if then

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statement you have in your head that you

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think if I do this I will guaranteed get

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this even though I haven't said it to

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anyone it's just in my head right

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let me just uh

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put up some chats here

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um CD bear says I am so ready for this

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topic yes good

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um and if you guys if I you know I don't

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have a background psychology so if I say

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something correct or

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um or no I don't make sense on you guys

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can even explain something let me know

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um so we have

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tadio Velasquez says this is a bigger

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you can start the chain you can't start

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to change unless you see what's wrong

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those damn covert contracts are often

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invisible to you but not others exactly

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that's why they're so dangerous and they

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really trip you up and and can ruin

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can ruin you for a long time

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um Jack says what's up Jack nuke mod me

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hello yes also I refuse to be Griffith

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in this relationship ah so you've chosen

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to be uh guts

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and yes I just modded you Jack

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Daniel says don't mod Jack he'll abuse

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his power uh we'll see

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um yes Jack has received his mod Powers

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you know I've I've made him a mod so

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uh thanks man I I was gonna work out

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today but

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um I decided to rest and then tomorrow

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I'll hit it I try my best get ready for

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the summer

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um all right so let's get into it so

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basically

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cover contract is just an agreement if

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like an if then statement you make

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and it can be you know in a

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relationships in to the world the person

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you know

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um stuff like that and the thing is the

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crazy thing about is that no one knows

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about this except you and you assume

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that that the rest of the world or you

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know

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uh know about it so

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you get kind of like people are like why

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didn't they understand what I wanted I

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mean I I made the agreement how come

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they're not because you didn't

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um communicate it so a lot of times what

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happens is uh the other the SEC another

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party Acts

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a certain way

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and then you feel mad but that you you

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they're allowed to do that because they

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never

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you know they didn't know about what you

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wanted right

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so

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let me see what else we got here

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I had it open

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so how do you deal with covert contracts

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basically

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you have to assert your needs and

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express them clearly whether it be to a

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person to yourself to an institution

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um and there's only two ways out of a

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covert contract right there is you know

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going out and communicating the the

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covert or uh the contract or sorry your

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expectations to someone

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um like if you're

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in a relationship

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um with someone whether it be romantic

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you know brother sister mother father

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what you want and what you need right

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and if they don't if they're not on

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board then you're gonna you have to

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change the relationship

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or

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or it's gonna end and you know it may

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you may not want it to end but it's

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better to end now rather than later when

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when the contract is broken and you have

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nothing to go to go off of and this is

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extremely dangerous when you're dating

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women

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um as a guy because a lot of guys have

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covert contracts and that's why they

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just suck at dating and they suck at

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dealing with women and they're bitter

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and they have to go on uh Twitter and

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just you know kind of try to reinforce

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that covert contract over and over again

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not realizing that like hey maybe you

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know

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maybe you should start making cover

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contracts and start being in reality you

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know and then the second way is to

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what was it a second way it was too

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completely un unlink yourself from the

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outcome of the contract that you make in

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your head and that is where a lot of

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people don't like the idea or the notion

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of certain things in the red pill and in

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dating that they just can't accept

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because they they don't want to tell the

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girl what they expect because you know

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it's unsexy or it looks needy and stuff

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like that which I understand but they

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also they don't want to divest

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themselves of the outcome and that's

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where they have this like weird gray

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area I can give you an example of this

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right like an example would be

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um assume she's promiscuous but don't

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obsess right a lot of guys don't like

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that they don't like the fact that you

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see every girl as promiscuous or [ __ ] as

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you know you know for the streets but

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the thing is

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you have to see them that way

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um because you're trying to break the

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covert contract that hey if a girl

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likes mirrors into me or I like a girl

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you know she has to be Chast for me

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and she has to be only for me and she

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doesn't know that no one else knows that

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only you think that so if you pre

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prematurely think every girl's

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promiscuous you're saving yourself a lot

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of pain and a lot of uh you know

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disappointment

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um by just enjoying the moment and and

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realizing that hey this girl could this

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girl

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could very much be promiscuous

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and that brings a whole new set of

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problems but if I find out it's okay I

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will proceed with the relationship in a

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different manner

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you know

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um I won't try to hop into a

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relationship with her or I won't have to

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you know lie to myself later and then

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get hurt down down the road realizing

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like oh my covert you know in my mind I

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thought she was a little angel but here

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I am

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you know falling for this girl and she's

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you know she's rotating men or she has

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she's seeing other men you know or

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simply you know there's other terrible

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ways men find out that

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you know that women are promiscuous you

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know whether it be through STDs whether

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it be through pregnancy from other men

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which is the main reason why men don't

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innately want to be in a relationship

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with the promiscuous woman is because

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the paternity question right

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but if you assume a girl is promiscuous

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in the beginning it saves you a lot you

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start using protection more you may say

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uh no this girl's a little you know

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things are off you'll start to be able

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to observe her bad behaviors more

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because you don't have the veneer or you

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have you don't you're not projecting the

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good girl image on her so you can see

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her more for what she is and you can

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enjoy the moment you know you don't have

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expectations relationships are so much

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better when you don't have expectations

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of a person especially in your own head

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that no one that she doesn't know

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right

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so

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um

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yeah that's that's basically you know

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like uh and there's there's three main

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covert contracts according to Robert

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Glover

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um so let me see I have him here

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um and and the basically the three

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um

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covert contracts right

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are uh

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uh if I'm a good person I will be

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liked and loved right if I meet every uh

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if I meet everyone else everyone else's

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needs without having to ask then they

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will not meet uh they will meet mine

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right

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um if I do everything right then I will

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have a problem-free life right and you

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see how problematic those statements can

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be especially when you're dealing with

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the opposite sex and they they ruin guys

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and and what you see a lot of like

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um

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out there in the world in terms of like

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you know celebrities

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um

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celebrities

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uh

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you're you know even your own family

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members girls girl relationships with

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you where a lot of times

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um you had this thing in your head about

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like how a girl should be or how things

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should be because in your mind you've

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said you've made an if then statement

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and then you know there's so many and

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there's so many covert contracts that

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we've had as a as a guy developing into

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your

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into the man

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you know as you in your self-improvement

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journey right Every Man Has a

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self-improvement journey there's going

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to be a lot of covert contracts that

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were told to you in the beginning that

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maybe someone who's gone through the

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Journey or someone who who grew up in a

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different time and dealt with women in a

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different era or time or someone who

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uh maybe it's a different social class

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different race grew up in a different

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country

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um they excuse me

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um they will teach you these things

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right and they become covert contracts

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for example one of them is excuse me

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one of them is like if you get if you

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get jacked and you get big in the gym

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you'll get girls like it is it's like an

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if then statement right

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um and you'll you know and that's why a

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lot of guys will get jacked and go to

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the gym which is great that is really

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the best thing the best first step is

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going to the gym getting for anyone

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doesn't matter what gender background

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you have to stay in shape there's no

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choice

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um but

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um it's not it's not a button you push

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where like you you reach 225 bench all

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of a sudden you get girls like and that

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and that's that covert contract where

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it's not supposed to like be a button

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where like hey I can deadlift 405 or I

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can bench press 225 where are my women

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you know and and the lifting Community

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the gym Community makes fun of this a

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lot in in the

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uh on certain memes where like they say

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what I expect what I thought lifting

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would bring me and it shows like a

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jacked guy with several by women and

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then what I what I really got and it's

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like a jackass or I know my dudes asking

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him advice which is funny because you

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know that's it's good that you make fun

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of your own covert contracts and you get

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over it right but that's just that's a

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very popular uh covert contract for men

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that are like self-improvement is that

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if I get jacked I will get women

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automatically like I'll walk to the

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beach or I'll walk I'll walk into a

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supermarket and I will say though as

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time goes on me being in shape is giving

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me more and more rewards but very slowly

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but it is very it is noticeable like

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every day I realize that the country is

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getting fatter and people care less and

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that men that are jacked have a V taper

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um and are not awkward there's a lot of

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gym cells out there are becoming more

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and more attractive simply because

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there's just less and less people that

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are in shape every day right

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all right we got a

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Valerie thong says it's a shame most red

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pill guys don't know about Robert Glover

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he's one of our best scientists yeah

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he's his book is is really good I

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recommend you guys read it um it really

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is that part of the red pill where you

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guys start breaking

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these cover contracts this nice guy

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syndrome

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um and and you really it's like a lot of

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people either read him and then forget

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or don't read them and then they don't

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even know you could see it Meal Time

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these little covert contracts they have

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either the way they tweet or make

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content

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um and you don't you realize like

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um no man that's not how it works

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um and then in terms of self-improvement

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for men like there's a like make money

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and then you'll have women

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um and I'm like yeah

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um of course you want to make more money

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a curse you want to accrue status of

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course you want to become more charming

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and and better looking and all that

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stuff right but I think what happens is

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that a lot of people do the

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self-improvement part

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and they think that they get entitled

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where like hey I'm jacked hey I have

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money hey I have a career hey I'm this

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hey I'm dead I'm six feet six five

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whatever you know

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um I'm 5'8 but I'm Jack five nine this

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and and then they and then they get

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rejected by a girl when they when they

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reach all these things and if one single

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girl and that's all it takes for them to

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become bitter and angry because they

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made that cover contract where if I do

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all these things I will get the girl and

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every single girl I I like will will

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like me and and the and that's the

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problem that a lot of these guys that

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attack me and attack the red pill and

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attack is that they can't they are

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terrified they're absolutely terrified

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that if they put in all this work and

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they they do all this stuff over the

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years right and you know they get these

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little clicks on Twitter like oh we're

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all jacked and Rich Bros and and uh you

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know we travel around the world and

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we're just so cool and we're like a

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mafia whatever bull crap which isn't

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true because you know but

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um they're afraid that some guy with

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half the money you know and half the

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looks or whatever you know comes up and

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takes and gets the women that they have

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worked their whole life to achieve with

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just a little bit of time and Charisma

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that's why a lot of them hate

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game or hey just charm

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um because at the end of the day

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you know

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that's something that every man has to

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see where they you know

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it's you can very well be the best

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in the environment you're at you can be

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the tallest guy at the at the club you

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can be the best dancer at Salsa night

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right you can be the

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you know you could be whatever you know

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wherever you're at in life you can be

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the best at your job right

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um but that does not guarantee you

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the best girl right you will have to

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understand that it's all a matter of

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chance and probability

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right it is not it is not a guarantee

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and I think a lot of the guys that that

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are like status only in game forget game

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forget everything else what they want is

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that they want that sure thing

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um because if you've invested in either

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idea or a thought your whole life and

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then someone else tells you hey this is

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not true

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because this then you know they'll call

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you a liar and all this stuff and I know

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for a fact and it's you know it's easy

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in college I was getting a lot of female

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attention why is that I wasn't you know

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super jacked or or as Charming as I am

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now or you know I was it was like 12

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years ago right but it was just because

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there was a lot of women around me

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you know there was no social media was

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barely starting there's a lot of women

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around me so the chances were that hey

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uh I was gonna get a lot of female

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attention

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right so you fast forward fast forward

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now I get about the same

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um just not you know from young 19 year

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olds right because of the environment

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but what does that teach me that teaches

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me that it's not only about if I if I

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work out and if I make money and if I

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have status and if I have a follower

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account if I'm an influencer I'll get

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women it's also things outside of my

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control like I can't go to a college

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campus right now I'll be creepy sit in

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you know sit in there in the square and

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just wait for women to come up to me and

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tell me good morning and how are you and

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let's go study you know that's not a

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thing and that's something out of my

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control so now I understand that yes I

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have to do these things in order to

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increase the probability but there are

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no guarantees there every single girl is

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not going to say yes to me

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uh

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Billy Buster says Will Smith is taller

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and more jacked than Tupac how's that

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work for him

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yeah very true

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um

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I try not to use celebrity as an example

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but yeah

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um that's another thing where people

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make covert contracts with outside of

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themselves and then when when that

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representation of the Cobra contract in

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celebrities real life family breaks you

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know they just you know they they go

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into a kernel panic they don't know what

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to do

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tadio Velasquez says I think the anger

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and frustration are the key you can't

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you can pretend your entitlements don't

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exist but the frustration appears to

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show you you are not getting what you

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want yeah and for the guys that are like

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um

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smarter and more self-aware you can

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catch yourself and that's the beauty of

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it you can catch

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um

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you can catch yourself

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um

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when you're like in a covert contract

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you're just like because you could feel

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that frustration but you also feel like

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you haven't told the other person

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anything

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right

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um like for example when a lot of when

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guys find themselves with a girl that

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they like and the girl just wants them

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for casual

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uh sex and and they're like why is she

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seeing other men I should be a man

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enough for her and then you realize like

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oh in my head I wanted a commitment

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and exclusivity but she doesn't know

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that she thinks we're just partying

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having fun so you see how now you can

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catch yourself and be like okay well

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here are my choices

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I can risk I can risk saying hey

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I don't like that you're seeing other

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guys let's be serious uh let's be

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let's be monogamous with me and that's

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not a really good choice because within

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a relationship the man usually should

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not ask for a relationship

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right the woman should be the one

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uh asking for a relationship and that's

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you know basic game advice so really

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that only leaves you the choice of

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um really outcome Independence really

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demoting her to a plate and being like

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okay well I understand what this girl is

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if she wanted to be in a relationship

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with me she would and then you keep her

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there until one day she starts acting

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like a girlfriend which usually when a

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girl usually starts out with you as you

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know just for fun

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um usually it's like she just broke up

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with her boyfriend show or something

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like that you know and

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you have to really you have to accept

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like hey some girls really don't want a

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relationship

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they just want to have fun you know like

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the song Girls Just Want to Have Fun

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uh okay CJs says I feel like we make

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cover contrast because we can't face the

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reality of the situation it's a security

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blanket do you think it comes from bad

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parents wanting their attention if

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you're losing them you know I don't know

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I think the nice guy stuff really comes

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from parents

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um

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nice girl nice guy stuff because a lot

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of I think a lot of nice guys the people

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who had those three

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um main covert contracts is that they

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were they've just they were taught that

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in order to feel loved and appreciated

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they had to do for others so if they do

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for others maybe Mom and Dad would

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appreciate me and love me and that was

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the expectation I think that's for the

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nice guys I think that's how he

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explained it correct me if I'm wrong

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though

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uh

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they are most likely a future of human

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psychology yeah I'm interested you know

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maybe I should maybe I should dive

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deeper into the why but yeah there is

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there is some covert contracts that are

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and super innate to the humans uh humans

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uh you know ability you know for

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survival and I think it makes sense like

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for example if I come to a tribe A group

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of men a group of group of people and I

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say hey if I work hard for this tribe

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you know like a new job you know or

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joining the military or

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um joining a a family when you get

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married if I work hard and do good for

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these people they will accept me and see

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me as useful and then eventually we

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could take care of each other that's a

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covert contract that humans have

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that is innate to each other obviously

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does it always work out no but I think

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that's a good one knowing that you have

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to when you're entering a situation

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um that say Hey if I want to get

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accepted by these people if I want to

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get looked at I have to work hard and

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does it always work out no but for the

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most part it does which is and I think

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that's a normal covert contract and if

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and if that cover contract's broken it's

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okay it's not like you should beat

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yourself up it's something that is

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pretty much

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irrational to think you know

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um and

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I'm gonna call you ants would you

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consider yourself a very pragmatic

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person if so were you always this way

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um

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no I wasn't always pragmatic I was more

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like as a kid I had a lot of masking

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bravado I thought that I was you know

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special and that the world revolved

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around me you know normal kid stuff but

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as time went on in order to solve my

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problems I found that

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um

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um being extremely pragmatic and let

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emotion be an afterthought

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um was the best but now as I get older I

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realize that motion has its place in

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making my decisions and you know here's

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the thing that has helped me

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um especially when my covert contracts

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were broken I was pissed and angry I

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learned to forgive myself because

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I think

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one of the hardest parts you know and I

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made a video a video about this one of

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the hardest parts of being a guy

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especially these days is that no one

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wants you to forgive yourself they want

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you to carry every single mistake you've

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made with women with everything in your

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life they want you to carry that and

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make it part of who you are and your

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brand or whatever you run for the rest

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of your life

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you know so if you if you got

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embarrassed by a woman once in your life

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and someone finds out that's who you are

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you could be the best

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in the best womanizer on Earth you could

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be like Troy Francis but if if someone

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finds out that you got blown out by a

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girl and you were sad and depressed for

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six months or three months and you cried

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in public or whatever but now you're you

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fixed it and you and you improved and

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now you're great and you're the best

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um

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now people's you know you as a guy have

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to understand that like people people

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are mean and they want to put you in

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that box that you were back in the day

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but realize like you've already grown

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and pushed yourself past that and one of

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the best ways to push yourself past a

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bad situation in your life or a mistake

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you made

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um or it's just simply forgive yourself

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and put yourself in your older self

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shoes and be like hey I didn't have the

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tools or the knowledge or the maturity

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to have taken that situation and made it

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better I did what I thought was best in

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that moment and did I learn from it yes

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and now I move on it's part of growing

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up and you know there's there's feelings

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of guilt there's feelings of I should

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have done better and a lot of times

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um especially

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um dating women in this in that don't

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like the red pill they

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they're really Savage and this is how

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they manipulate men and [ __ ] with men by

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you know RNA guilt and or a native in

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our inability to forgive ourselves among

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when we experience our own incompetence

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right like so you have a woman say a

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girl didn't doesn't like you it's

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because you weren't good enough I'm like

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are you serious

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I'm not good enough

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what do you mean I'm not good enough

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nuke isn't good enough like good enough

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for who

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so a girl doesn't want to give me sex

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I'm suddenly not good enough for that

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girl who is that girl I don't even know

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her

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you know you know what I'm saying that

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sounds

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that I'm not good enough for a person

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well that isn't you know this isn't like

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a job interview where like I present my

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resume first you know VP of the company

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and I just started you know good enough

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just basically means to them is a tactic

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they use to to use men's innate innate

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guilt

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um and

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our ability to beat ourselves up when

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we're not good enough against us so you

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know that that's just it's it's really

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silly

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uh

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that's pretty cool name of saksa the

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relationship is the girls dude exactly

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um and hey that's a strange covert

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contract to be in right if you guys have

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any good covert contracts let me know in

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the chat we could talk about them but

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um yeah and when you're in that

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situation like I was saying where you

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got a girl that doesn't like

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she's not bringing up the relationship

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she's you know and oftentimes it'll be

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very confusing for her for a guy for the

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first time dealing with women that don't

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want to be in a relationship and he's

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used to girls you know constantly needle

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needle nickel or needling him or poking

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him for a relationship it can be a a

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mind [ __ ] you know you have a girl that

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shows up when you want

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um you have a girl that's sexually is

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giving you everything you have a girl

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that sends you nudes you have a girl

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that you know

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um respects you deeply

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you know you have all these things that

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uh

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uh a girl's doing right and

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and you think why didn't she want to be

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a relationship with me and you gotta

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understand female nature is that when

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you're with a girl like that in a casual

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relationship but she doesn't want to be

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with you she sees you as a super fun

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exciting guy and she wants to do all

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these things out of you not because love

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or future or she's trying to put you in

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a she just wants to have fun and you

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have to understand that about women

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right

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Billy Buster says when I go to college

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bars have you tried it uh yeah there's a

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couple of uh bars on the street here

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where it kind of caters to the local

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University

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and the local universities are kind of

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very expensive kind of like

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uh University where you know more

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affluent people are people with uh

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scholarships good scholarships go to

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um but no I usually

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um

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I don't know I usually go to places

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when you're in a big city there's bound

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to be young women everywhere you know

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um but that place it's it's loud it's

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it's very clicky you know like I haven't

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I haven't gone to a college bar maybe I

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should try it but

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I'll try it maybe

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CJs says that makes sense being trained

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to given to give in order to receive

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love leads to covert contracts

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what's the alternative should be should

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we be gaming every relationship career

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family and just bring good feels uh yeah

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like I said the only way out of it of of

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a covert contract that you've made in

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your head if you're in one and you don't

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know it or you're starting to realize

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that holy crap is to divest yourself of

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the outcome basically hey I gotta stop

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trying to get something out of this I

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gotta do it because I want to do it or

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do it because and then do it for the

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moment you know or explain it to the

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other person what you want

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and you know that's your choice often

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telling a girl

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who's having fun with you and having the

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time of her life with you what you want

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is going to chase her away because she's

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going to remember when you're in a

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casual relationship with a girl

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she's in it because she's free and fun

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and she can be a [ __ ] and she can be who

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she wants to be without any of the

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responsibility and attachment

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of being with a man like she could be

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like she can you know and I have this

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all the time where I have women that are

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just super like want to be around me

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acting like a girlfriend but they also

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want to be free and be able to go to the

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club when they want and be able to

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you know because also when women were

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are with a fit guy right a guy who goes

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to the gym they also feel that pressure

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where they're like oh you know his

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lifestyle and all that stuff but now if

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you have a girl that's casual she can

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you know tell you oh yeah I go to the

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gym I'm going to the gym today and then

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the same day eat like a half a pizza

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because they don't have to worry about a

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man telling them you know there's a lot

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of things that come with a woman being

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in a relationship that we don't really

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think about but they think about molding

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themselves to you and how they're going

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to fit in your life and a lot of times

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um for women that it you're like their

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first Alpha you know uh you know I don't

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want to call myself that but you know

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you're the first guy that like tells

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them no you're the first guy that or is

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has decent game and charms them you're

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the first guy that takes them home on

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the first night and they don't even know

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how that happened

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um you're the first guy that you know

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maybe gives there's a lot of women that

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have never had an orgasm and you may

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very well be the first guy who gave it

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to or gave it to them record time or

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simply you just

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um you know like the race thing I was

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talking about maybe

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she wanted to experience a latino man

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for fun and then she found out that

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you're everything that she wanted and

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she stuck around simply because women

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don't think in that long term they think

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in the right now they think

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um man I had a good time last Saturday

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with this guy

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I don't really want to be a relationship

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I just want to have fun and enjoy myself

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and I'll say the relationship for a more

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stable guy which is you know the beta

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bucks but anyway yes I got off on a

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Tanger but yes

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Randy Morgan says you consider sneako

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your personal arrival no I don't why why

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is that even brought up

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Randy Morgan says if a girl doesn't like

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you that means she's not good enough

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yeah I think that's a good mental model

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I think the best mental model when a

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girl doesn't like you when I say doesn't

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like you does that mean initially like

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first meeting

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or does it mean like like you for a

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relationship you know we should probably

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understand what like you means

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there's probably a lot of girls that are

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willing to have sex with you and they

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hate your guts but just because you know

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women's hate and love don't really

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aren't really opposites

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I've noticed it coming when they use is

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you're not worth my time are you talking

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about women to men or men to women

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ah CJs covert contract I was in was

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being guilted into becoming friends with

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an ex I beat myself up that I could have

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done better only to give her the

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benefits if you have yes she treated me

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like a friend oh man I'm sorry that's

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that friends with X stuff that's why as

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soon as the relationship ends you walk

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away you remove all attention she's

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basically dead to you you know and the

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only way she can come back is through

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sex but yeah I'm glad you learned man

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I think it happens to the best of us

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bull Russ what's up man how you doing uh

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a few years back I had to cut a girl

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loose because she wanted to move in

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after explicitly telling her initially

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in the relations that I would never

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agree to that

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um

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yeah she she made her covert contract

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even though you told her not to because

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a lot of women think they can just

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bypass men's rationality and boundaries

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with you know being

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with different ways right but as a man

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your boundaries your frame is all there

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is so good on you bull rush

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um 90 says medium is a message if she

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enjoys fun but with you it doesn't seem

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interesting and more than that that's

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the message yeah and a lot of guys

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I'll tell you this much a lot of guys

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say that's awesome you know but it if

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you have if you're a type of guy that's

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never experienced that or you just have

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a lot of these Clover contracts

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um

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in your head

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about what what you have to be to be

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attracted to women and secure her

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Chastity you know make her vagina only

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yours

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um it's gonna [ __ ] with you and you're

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not gonna you're gonna be pretty like

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dumbfounded right

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um so yeah just medium is a message if

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you're

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um if you're in a type of relationship

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that you know you're wondering why this

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girl isn't you know begging for or like

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disappearing for a week at a time and

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coming back or two weeks at a Time

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coming back then just say hey man like

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if she wanted a relationship she'd be

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there

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CJs says man this podcast is absolutely

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gold thank you for doing this gotta go

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good night all right man have a good

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night CGS

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um you can I guess catch the rest of it

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tomorrow you uh sleep well

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Billy Buster you're not hers it was just

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your turn yeah I've heard that flipped I

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don't know about that mental motto is

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good or not but if it works for you man

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it'd do it

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and I can vouch for bull rush he's a top

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dog yeah bull rush is one of ours

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um all right so yeah

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I forgot where I was before I dressed

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these super chats

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um or sorry Super Chat see I'm already

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projecting my covert contract on you

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guys

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um uh chats right but uh you know like I

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said there's the three and

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I will say I like to use examples

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especially on Twitter because Twitter is

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a really cool place where you get to see

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people's insecurities in

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uh in in real time right and I think the

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biggest covert contract that we're

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seeing right now for you guys that are

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like actively posting and seeing what

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the [ __ ] show is especially with Rollo

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right now in his tweet is exactly that

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is that what a high value man is and

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what it gets you right and that here's

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here's how stupid this is there's a lot

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of men that think and women you know

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and women weren't an opportunistic way

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where they think if I have a kid then

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I'm a man of Worth or I'm a high value

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man because I have a family I hold

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values right so who's covert contract

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recently got broken and that if you are

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a Christian Catholic man if you wait

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till marriage if if you go to church and

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if you're you know you'll get promised a

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beautiful life with kids and you're a

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real patriarch and you don't have to

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learn game or anything like that like

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those red pill guys whose covert

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contract just got broken

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Stephen Crowders right

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so

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um and I like the guy I've always liked

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Steven Crowder I've never like been like

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super

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uh

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uh like conservative in that movement I

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mean maybe I was maybe 2016 but so was

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everyone but um

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I liked I thought that guy was funny I

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thought you know he was funny I like you

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know obviously arguing with college

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students isn't the coolest thing in the

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world but to see all the college

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students going to Colonel panic when he

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would argue with them was funny he was

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he was an entertainer right

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um but then like you know they all these

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all these conservatives they preach that

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if you get married with their ideals and

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under God and all that stuff

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um then

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you know and then you'll have a perfect

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marriage and you don't have to do the

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heavy lifting of learning game using

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dread

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um

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outcome Independence like if my girl

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leaves me yeah it's gonna suck but I'm a

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man and my my whole value isn't like how

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how making women happy you know making

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my woman happier staying with me that's

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not my brand that's not who I am as a

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person right so

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um yeah that cover Contra is is being

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broken in real time and you see and then

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see instead of them

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saying oh I'm praying for both they're

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actually attacking Stephen Crowder

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because they don't want

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they don't want someone they don't want

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their little fantasy of hey if I get

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married with these values and under God

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and go to church and all that stuff

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that maybe it could very well not

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guarantee the life that I wanted

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you know so

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or the life that's been promised to me

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so that's you know that's an example in

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like in in the Twitter sphere what is

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going on

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um

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and Rolo just basically tested their

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their covert contract saying that you

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can't the fastest way to do something

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is you know is to not have children

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respecting all that stuff but everyone

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doesn't like that because it cuts it it

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really proves that they're covered con

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or they have a covert contract with

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themselves saying if I do this it's the

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if them semen if I love if I'm religious

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and I love God which there's nothing

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wrong with that you know

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um

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then I will be married and happy and I

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don't have to ever worry about making my

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woman happier inter gender or

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intersexual Dynamics or anything like

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that and you could see this in another

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podcast a couple months ago when uh

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coach Greg Adams whatever you think of

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him um he said something that really

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messed up her fees in that uh and that

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a debate and the debate was

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coach Greg Adams all he said was like

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there is no God in modern relationships

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right and that that statement was Heavy

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during the show like you could tell that

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when it was dropped

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um

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you could tell that it really kind of

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like hit the nerve like I could tell

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even from looking at a screen I could

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tell that when coach Greg Adams said

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that there is no God of modern

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relationships and you know you can argue

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that coach gray Adams was kind of a

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bitter guy who just got divorced got it

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you know whatever you think of him right

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but that statement was really what cut

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to him because imagine you you invested

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in this idea where hey God is the one

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guiding my relationship and you know we

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have this this thought that recently

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said that like red pill is gay and and

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um what do you call it red pill is gay

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and then you have to pray for a wife or

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whatever in this crazy insane but when

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he said that he's basically again he's

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cutting to that covert contract where if

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I'm if I'm a Godly religious man then I

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will get a or get a wife you know and

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you could see it in many different

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examples

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right and I've tweeted I tweeted

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recently I think it was a month ago

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about this situation where you know I

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was seeing a girl casually and

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and it was great it was like the best

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casual relationship I had because

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it was

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the best casual relationships are the

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one where you

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when you're with them you feel like

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you're in a relationship when they're

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away you're not focusing and thinking

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about them you know they bring their

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best behavior and their best self to you

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and when they leave you you don't even

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know they're bad parts you don't see any

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of their bad parts you think and that's

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that can get tricky because you know you

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start thinking oh well maybe she's like

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this all the time and maybe you know and

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that's the male brain and all that stuff

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right but then one day I opened my hinge

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profile because I was still actively

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dating right of course and I saw her on

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like the hinge standouts like you know

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attractive 24 year old girl

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um

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um I liked her a lot she was pretty hot

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to me

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um no I don't think she was hot enough

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to be on hinge you know she probably

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messed with the photos but

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I or a hinge stand out but I saw one of

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her pictures I took of her on a night

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out

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on her profile that I took of her

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and she had just left my place

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a week ago so when I saw that I'm like

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it's over like she's never gonna speak

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to me again right so that covert

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contract right there I didn't know I had

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it it was really deep but I was like oh

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snap I thought that if I did everything

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right and trust me I'm not you know this

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girl we we were pretty

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um

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let's just say we were pretty invested

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each other in the bedroom you know and

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we've never given each other grief it

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was like a very chill relationship

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and we we had you know we had lots of

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fun let's just I'm gonna say that and I

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felt like this girl was really giving it

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a role I just that's just gonna say

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about that but when I saw that picture I

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was like it's over like she's done with

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me

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so the only thing I could do

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a lot of guys are like no you have to

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like confront her blah blah blah and

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then the smarter guys were like hey man

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you just take it you look at it and

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realize like hey

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you had fun you have to slowly walk away

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or like you or just stay quiet about it

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don't talk about it and you know what

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happened I divested my you know I wasn't

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super excited but I I divested myself of

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the outcome I said if I confront her

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about this she's going to end I'm going

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to lose a good thing right so what I did

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is just said hey I'm gonna act like I

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never happened when she comes up on my

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hinge I'm going to press X

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um or you know I screenshotted it

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um I'm gonna press X

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and all that stuff and then as I

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continue to see her every two weeks

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and the sex got really good

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you know really really good and she's a

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hinge standout that means like she's

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probably had getting roses and super

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likes all day

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right but

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I continued to get it for just you know

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I would just go out pay thirty dollars a

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drink so she would come over I'd get

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pizza and then we'd have a good time and

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there are guys probably try to offer her

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200 dates just to see her and I'm all I

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had to do was divest myself for the

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outcome right and that's difficult for a

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lot of guys to do but simply I just said

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hey there's only two ways out of this

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and one way is almost a guarantee that

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I'll never see her again and the way

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it's gonna suck but hey

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it it's the fact that she doesn't like

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me for a relationship I have to really

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look the other way and I did and it was

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awesome because

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she became pretty cool girl and then you

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know we uh she left me a couple months

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ago or she stopped seeing me a couple

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months ago but I got so much out of that

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relationship afterwards I just didn't

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get the Chastity you know so it is what

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it is guys

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um I mean there's a

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Ken wins Pearl Sting She Tried to

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humiliate Rolo nook's the only one that

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who can take her down huh you guys think

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so

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um

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I don't know if I'm ever to be ready to

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be in the spotlight

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um

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I don't really have that much of an

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opinion on

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Pearl but I think

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[ __ ] I think

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that

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the brand of of making men

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feel

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like they're heard or seen is a very

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strong powerful brand right especially

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for guys that haven't accepted their

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burden of performance or especially for

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guys that really are lost and she

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doubled down on that

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and I can tell you right now the

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demographic

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the second biggest demographic besides

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women to sell things to

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especially entertainment is lonely

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broken men

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right

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um I have I can have a whole show on

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this

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and you gotta understand guys I was in

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the military and I served and I I served

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a lot of guys that were

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um 20 21 22 well I was like 28 getting

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out you know I was about to finish my

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career and I saw the day-to-day lives of

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these young guys and their inability to

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get laid and then the things they would

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tell that there was a guy that

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um was said that he was going to save

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himself into a marriage and I knew that

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he's just saying that

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because he couldn't get laid in the

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beginning

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um there was you know there were guys

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that

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didn't that would show me their problems

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with women and the moment they'd be

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attached to or want to like make a move

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on

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or some of the most like non-attractive

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not even physically just like

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they just didn't look like the type of

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girls that they should be getting with

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right

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um

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so

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I you get over time I get I get this

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feeling of just like compassion

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with younger guys and this loneliness

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that they feel

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so that and that is my biggest crutch

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when dealing with guys that I am tough

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on people in my personal life like my

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friends I'm tough on them when they

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break when they act stupid they do dumb

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stuff but like

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the way that like

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in a roundabout way we tell men how

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terrible things are constantly and that

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it's hope like we don't tell them it's

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hopeless but we kind of infer that it's

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hopeless like the street interviews you

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see where guys go up to drunk women

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outside of a club you know and ask them

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these egregious crass

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stupid questions

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um and guys are bombarded by that all

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day if you know because guys you know

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they're on their phone or on their

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internet

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um and then you have

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these creators were all their only thing

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they offer is

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is Doom and Gloom right which has its

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place you know you have to get into a

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place of dumagloop temporarily right but

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when I see these content creators do

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that stuff I'm like okay well what's the

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solution

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we can't just say it sucks forever we

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have to find a we gotta like and that's

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what the manosphere was before all this

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it was like hey guys I have this problem

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when you guys think and then you post it

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Field Report or whatever guys are coming

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I have the similar problems this is what

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I did this work this didn't work right

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and then

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you'd find a way through but like now

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we're just stuck here we're just like

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women bad in their [ __ ] and all that

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stuff and we just there's no way through

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and we're just stuck here

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and and we're trying to like

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the the money is so good

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guys are you know like I was watching

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the whatever podcast for a very short

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time because I couldn't I can't do that

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anymore it it grinds my gears and I know

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Rolo and Michael and all those people

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and uh Justin while we're on you know

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and they're three rational guys

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um but like just seeing guys dropping

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hundreds a hundred dollars and this is

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no offense against whatever podcast but

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seeing guys drop fifty dollars a hundred

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dollars just to tell these girls that

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they're they ain't [ __ ] or they're [ __ ]

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or they don't understand what they're

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getting themselves into over time

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and I'm just like

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why are you spending your hard-earned

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money

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right just to say that

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and that's what these this this brand is

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you know it isn't about helping guys

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it's just it's like an influencer you

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know

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um

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and that that stems from you having

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never seen or worked with young guys and

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see the the problems they go through

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right I I during Fleet Week I took I

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took the guys out

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um a couple young guys and I took them

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out and while we're we were there you

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know they you know guys start looking up

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to you after a couple years and and not

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in the like oh teach us new teach us the

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way it's more like they stick to you and

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they they wanna they they want advice

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and

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um you know I'll have a story within

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itself where you see

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how desperate they are to just be

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accepted and want a girl to like notice

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them just one one girl right and

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why not help those guys instead of just

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telling them constantly that it's all

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over you know and they become bitter

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obviously everyone a good red pill rage

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phase is good but it can be there

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forever anyway I kind of went on a rant

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there but

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let me see where

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Valerie says she's an arrogant cow if

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nuke wants to mess with pearl glad we

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pack them up nah I'm not gonna I'm not

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gonna bite at the feet of a giant

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um she's very successful and I don't

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think I look good for me to just you

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know with my small follower account

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um to attack somebody but

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um thanks Valerie I appreciate having

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you on my side

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office law says howdy guys what's up

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Alpha what's going on

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as men our egos get in the way of good

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things yes they do our egos really mess

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with us they really slow us down and and

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part of that ego is are us projecting

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our needs into the world without having

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you know but because we think

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I'm I'm amazing why don't people know

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what I want or what I need can't they

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see me and that's so that's so terrible

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for you as a man

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leaving your ego at the door will allow

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you to have so much more fun right

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exactly you have when I when I started I

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left my ego in the door in 2021 when I

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came here to Dallas and I said I'm gonna

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have fun and I'm just going to do what

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everyone else has to do that guys are

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successful and I'm gonna enjoy myself

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and that's exactly what happened

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obviously it wasn't all sunshine and

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rainbows I enjoyed myself and I learned

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a lot and I'm here to talk to you guys

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about it

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um

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I've been watching you're smarter than

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you give credit himself then you give

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himself credit for oh thank you

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I don't know if that was for me but if

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it was thank you

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she put um 90 says she put some

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religious dude she am yeah

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um

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yeah it's a common theme now for you

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know she ambushing people

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um

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it's for clicks guys it's not meant to

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to talk you know it's Eric click it's

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we're in the click economy the the clout

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economy where if you don't have you need

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to do anything to get clicks likes and

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all that stuff and if putting a

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ridiculous guy like Nick Fuentes on

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with someone who actually you know makes

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sense is rational like Rolo

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um that's an attack that's that should

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be seen as an attack it's an ambush

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right

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um

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but yeah totally

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Valerie says I like Rolo but he brought

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that one on himself he knew Pearl was a

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snake and see a letter bite him yeah

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um yeah I'm saying Rolo's just a good

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guy like he's not I mean not good guy I

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don't know him personally right but he

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just

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you know he's like he's like whatever he

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he's not like a nefarious

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forward-thinking evil person that wants

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that has like an end goal he you know

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um yeah that's the way I see it

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bullruff says some of y'all getting

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wrapped up in red meat cut that [ __ ] out

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yeah uh but Ross is right like there's

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nothing

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you gotta understand that

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you focus on the solutions focus on your

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pro this is why you know I'm I'm a

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pragmatist in terms of everything and

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let emotion be kind of second place and

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a lot of my friends don't like that and

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a lot of people you know people don't

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like that because they want to feel

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something they want they want to know

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how to feel rather than what to do right

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if I'm

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on a if I'm watching a show that tells

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me women suck and they're impossible I'm

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thinking okay so what do I have to do to

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get the woman I want or and also like

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what do I have to do and what do I do

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and what should I like am I look look

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man here's what I got to say

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um

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you have to find out first what you want

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and it could be crazy like for me

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personally I like I wanted to get

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with as much woman as I could just for

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fun I didn't think you know and then

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within that

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I started realizing like this is the way

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to get the girl that I want because I

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got good women that I dated

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and I was like oh so this is what they

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meant so it was like a learning process

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but

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throughout the whole dating thing I I

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would watch fresh and Fit I would watch

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these episodes red me and all that stuff

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and it was fun and then I realized like

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oh this is entertainment this is just

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entertainment there's nothing in there

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that tells me what to do

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it's basically entertainment

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the real stuff is in the books the blog

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posts the trading notes with other guys

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and all that stuff and that's where I

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was able to like oh okay well this this

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and that and that's why like when I

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wrote that thread it like cut through a

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lot of because it was like you know

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there's a lot of red meat but I cut

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through a lot of things where people

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were like

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you know

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Oh I thought you had to be like a red

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pill influencer to understand these

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things like no dude just spend a year

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dating normal regular women I say normal

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regular I mean like women you see on

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dating apps or stuff like that and you

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realize like hey um

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like obviously if you make yourself as

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attractive as you can but like you're

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gonna realize like a lot of the things

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that men think about women are true or

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are not or are true in different ways or

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are not true at all and then

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when you go out there and you see these

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guys with their you know um opinions on

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Twitter I might automatically know you

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have no experience it's very obvious you

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know it's very obvious you have no

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experience right

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Alpha says work on your own [ __ ] yes

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bull rush ass lesson integral part of

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the sexual ecosystem God bless them yeah

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like like I said

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um

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[ __ ] have their like they've always had

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even my father taught me this like they

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have their purpose and they have their

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their function obviously there's too

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many I think you know that's my opinion

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doesn't matter but I think there's too

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many and I think they're influencing

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good women but hey I can't I can't

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control that

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let's let's teach you a lot and [ __ ]

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are fun you know and um

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Here's a thought there are girls

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that with

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other guys they'll be super prude and

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then with you

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they're like

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I want to try out all my fantasies with

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you

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right which would you rather be

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and then once you get to that point

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there's going to be girls that both want

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to be in a relationship with you and

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also want to be your [ __ ] just for you

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that which is the best you know which is

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one of the best outcomes right

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um

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so

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yeah

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and I'm going to tell you about another

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covert contract on the women's side that

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women have and this is the this is a

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hilarious one right and I just saw this

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one yesterday or today where I think it

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was dates like that said

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um the chat oh everyone thinks that

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being a Chad is cool and like having you

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know having that like

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oh

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there was a guy who tweeted

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something about like a lot of girls are

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bored on dates and they'll they'll text

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him and he'll ask for extra food to for

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her to bring to him right and then I

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think dates like

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um quote tweet it or copy paste it or

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copy the Tweet a picture of the tweet

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and said well you know it may being a

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Chad is all cool is it's not as cool as

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you think because these girls are also

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[ __ ] a whole bunch of other guys and

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everyone's in a rotation while [ __ ]

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and I'm like yeah

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um cool yeah but I think here's two

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things right

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feminized guys and women they have this

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covert contract where if a if a Chad guy

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yeah guys worked and we call it a guy

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that's worked himself with game

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confident aloof

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um funny cool guy Everyone likes being

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around him

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is seeing a girl and I get and I used to

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get this all the time especially younger

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um then that girl must be an absolute

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promiscuous super [ __ ] and she's banging

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three dudes and it may very well be true

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the chat does not care first off he does

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not care right because they're

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projecting their own insecurities on

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onto the Chad like the Chad does not

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care that Chad is just there to have fun

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he can replace her in a day a week a

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month whatever

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um but to them

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a chair that has fun and is sleeping

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with another woman while that woman also

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seeing other guys

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it's like they're projecting their

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insecurity that one day they'll meet a

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woman that cheats on them because they

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were they're not the chat right you see

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what I'm saying it's kind of hard to

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explain but and so that's why we're

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um you know one day out of I was at one

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of my military graduations in South

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Carolina when I was graduating from

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being a nuke

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um and I brought an attractive girl that

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I'm in a Plenty of Fish right this is

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when dating apps were just barely taken

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off I was a young man

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um

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and she was a hot brunette man like

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super hot brunette and super sexy and I

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brought her everyone was saying oh is

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she a stripper dude

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you bring a stripper to your graduation

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I'm like no and she wasn't dressed she

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was dressed like a normal girl she's

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just sexy you know she's just sexy she's

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a little booty a hot super hot brunette

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and people were saying like oh [ __ ]

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stripper and that's that same insecurity

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that covert contract for them is like

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there's no possible way

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that a chad is sleeping with the girl

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that multiple girls where they only want

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to be with him and I'll tell you what

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the reality is from my experience which

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is vast is that there are some girls it

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is entirely possible to have a rotation

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of girls where they're all sleeping with

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other men that isn't entirely possible

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but it's also entirely possible where

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you have one girl that's sleeping with

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other men and two girls which are

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waiting for you

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or like are that want a relationship

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with you

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that is totally possible or there is no

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like if a girl is with Chad she's a [ __ ]

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that's what they're trying to say that's

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that covert contract what and this is

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the saddest part of like guys that like

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and women they think this because they

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don't want they don't want

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to believe that the Chad is getting

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women's Chastity and that's what they

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want the most the Chad doesn't care you

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think I care if I have a rotation of

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three girls and one of them I'm not you

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know by the time you get to that point

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where you can have a rotation and be

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healthy and and helpfully live your life

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you you already passed the point where

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you're like no they have to be for me

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that's a beta way of thinking right and

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I can tell you the last time I had a

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rotation one of them didn't want to be

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with me seriously she gave me everything

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but a relationship one of them

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was trying but she was traveling a lot

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so I'm like she's trying but uh and the

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other one was desperately trying to be

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with me

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and they were all my rotation and then a

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fourth wanted to be with me but you know

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due to her life circumstances she was a

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single mom and all that stuff right so

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you see how it's like a mixed bag it's

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not like one or the other and that's

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that covert contract that like beta guys

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and insecure women put on guys that

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actually work on themselves and want to

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go out there and meet several women and

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date like dude it is entirely possible

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that every single girl you're seeing is

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a super turbo [ __ ] and she's also

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running a rotation of six guys or

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whatever but it's also entirely possible

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that it's both it's both right and

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that's why that tweet is garbage you

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know anyway

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um more comments here

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Alpha slot says Rolo can handle himself

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ask yourself will this matter in 10

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minutes 10 hours or 10 days you're

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wasting your energy on silly on silly

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soap opera BS yeah um

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very good way of looking at office so I

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think everyone was making good money

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engagement he'll be fine

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um you know the only thing you should

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worry about is his family because now

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I've you know I've seen dates where they

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attack his family and you know the trads

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and and the and the ethno nationalists

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and all that now

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um

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those weirdos you know um they're

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they'll they'll go after him because

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that's all they have at this point

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Rick James says can't stand that [ __ ]

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take what you need and leave yeah

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Valerie says nuke you never got to meet

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Carl but he had some brilliant stuff

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taught by experience who's Carl Carl

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from Black Label logic

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is that the guy

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Jack Napier says we accept [ __ ] and

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[ __ ] yeah they're they're great

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they're amazing they're nice they hold

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doors open for you they bring you snacks

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um if you're lucky they bring you other

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girls

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um

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they they're good for social proof

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um yeah they're they're people man

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they're just promiscuous and they don't

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qualify for a relationship but they're

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still fun and you know like they are

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they're pretty awesome I don't know I

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don't know what you know are you like if

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you don't like [ __ ] and horror are you

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religious I don't or did you get your

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heart broken by one I can I can see that

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but like you need to get over it and

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realize like hey man

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they're they're there for a reason and

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they make life so much much so much

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better

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bulra says hell yeah Jack we take all

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comers exactly like they're fun

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blue rush says why do you care if you're

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in a rotation if you're getting her best

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sexual otherwise exactly like and then

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when I wrote that tweet everyone like I

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had like 80 percent of the guys people

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were going crazy I think I had like 300

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likes on that tweet and like 10 and

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people attacking me like oh you're you

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know you're not a man or you how can you

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let that happen it's you know it's

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because it's not first of all she's not

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mine it's just my turn right and number

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two I was getting the absolute best

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sexually that I've ever gotten from a

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like not even my girlfriends we would do

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this stuff like she you understand guys

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women love sex obviously there's got to

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be a lot of things in place for her to

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enjoy sex but like when you are to the

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point where you don't judge women

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um right she's in your frame you don't

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you're not judging her you're you're

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exclusively understand the situation

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like this is for fun so you're like I

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want to have fun with you you're both on

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the same page you take her out tell her

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hey wear a black dress don't wear any

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underwear whatever crazy stuff you want

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to tell her you go to the bar you dance

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with her you you show her off to

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everyone there's like a freedom there

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that you guys really I mean not you guys

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but like people have to understand that

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there's something beautiful about like

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going out with a [ __ ] chick or a chick

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that doesn't want you for serious for a

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serious relationship it's so fun right

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not that going out with a girlfriend

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isn't fun it's also very fun but like

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there's something different about it and

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then like

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you have sex you have sex again and you

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go home uh or you go home have sex and

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then you wake up you bring your coffee

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in bed she gives you a massage she walks

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out the door boom you're back to your

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real life instantly you have nothing to

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worry about she's off into the world

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right there's only one thing you have to

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worry about and you just wrap up rep

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wrap it up

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um and then pay attention to her you

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know her things down there make sure you

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know there's no indication of venereal

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diseases which is very rare

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um and you're you know what you'll come

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to find a lot of times

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and this is crazy a lot of guys that are

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like more bitter in Blackpool you may

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well you may very well be

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her whole face

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you may be the guy and maybe she'll see

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another guy and you know give them give

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her give him a [ __ ] and all that

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stuff but I've had times where you know

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like people are like no they're in a

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rotation too but like she's always

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available for me 9 A.M 9 p.m 9 A.M hey

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what are you doing oh I'm at home hey

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can I stop by for a coffee yeah yeah

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randomly like just an hour before

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so it may very well be that I was the

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only guy and that she put all of her

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sexual and energy and interest in me

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maybe she saw other guys inside maybe

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she got caught up with the guy I know

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she was kind of her ex was trying to get

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back in the picture who the [ __ ] knows

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not my problem but like when you're

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getting your sexual best [ __ ] relax

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and enjoy the moment you will be 10

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times better for it

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um

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a lot of women like excuses about what a

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real man is yeah it's it's the covert

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contract that if I'm a real man my life

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will be complete I'm like okay dude if I

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stop drinking Bud Light my testosterone

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will be higher and I'll save the country

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I'm like okay

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great

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shaming tactics at their core yes

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Jack real mandua fits my narrative yeah

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guys especially this is the one that

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affects young men the most I've seen

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where they you know they really think

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that if I settle down and and I follow

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God

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um and you see this on um

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um on the whatever podcast where you see

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these uh these young men that are

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religious which you know I respect I

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respect everyone's beliefs right but

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there was one guy I was like I'm saving

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myself to a marriage and I'm like what

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is that gonna achieve

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I I understand religious beliefs and all

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that stuff right

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but

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if you think that that's gonna land you

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a better quality girl then that's a

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covert contract

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right are you saving yourself for

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marriage simply because that's what your

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beliefs say then yes it's not a covert

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contract you're following a rule you

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know a physical rule that your your holy

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book your Bible your Quran whatever is

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saying you are following a rule that is

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knock over a contract right covert

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contract is I follow this Rule and I

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will get 77 versions well I mean that's

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actually belief but I'll I'll get a

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virgin wife as long as I don't have sex

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that is that is the covert contract and

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that's a dangerous one right

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uh

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Valerie yeah Black Label logic yeah I

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used to see him on uh on YouTube

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um I think with uh Rolo and the guys

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back in the day he never showed his face

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right he was Anonymous and I think uh

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Jack has uh narrates some of his content

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um by the way guys I'll be putting a lot

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of uh or Jack's plug-in Jack stuff into

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my channel so if you don't first off

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follow him if you don't already you

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probably do already

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um but

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yeah

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um I think uh

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Jack does great narrations of uh several

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Classics I think uh

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from Black Label logic so check that out

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Alpha slaw says real man is a silly

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shaming tactic agree and Amplified fog

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or laugh at the foolishness off and put

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Pat her on the head yeah just do the pat

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on the head like we do on Twitter Pat

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her on the head right when these women

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that are 35 barely with one kid or one

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kid are telling you that you know put

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making yourself your point of origin is

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gay and stuff like that just bat him on

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the head and continue to be your own

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point of origin and continue like Jack

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says continue total [ __ ]

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uh yeah

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exactly good tomato like yeah okay cool

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you know like when guys say these crazy

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things be like oh nice that's very very

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nice

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um makes me wonder if the prevalence of

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STDs is one big Psy up the incurable

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ones at least uh

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first off they're more common

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okay it's not that they're common or

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less common they're

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any women nowadays can have one their

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outward appearance isn't a great

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indicator of it won't disqualify them

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from having one there are girls that

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I've they I I've messed around with that

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are

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ex-strippers used to work at a strip

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club

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and they had stuff and thank God I got

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tested was clean I always use protection

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right but you know you still and then

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there are girls that you know I dated a

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girl briefly who

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her father was an I'm not gonna say that

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the gym chain but uh part owner or owner

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of uh or used to be owner of a very

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popular gym chain here in Texas uh

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probably United States but I'm gonna say

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Texas

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and she even had a gym to her name she

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wasn't super into fitness she was like

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Rich Daddy's girl but she was super cool

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relaxed and very chill she was getting

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her master's degree and she was a fifth

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grade teacher squeak out and she she had

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an incurable SCD and she got it while

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she was sleeping

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and I tested and I was clean

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and I didn't have other protection oh

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well I didn't we didn't sleep I didn't

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get to the point where I slept with her

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she invited me over I said I am a little

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tired I'm gonna go home I got work

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tomorrow she's like okay and then a week

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later she goes and then she came back

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and then she was hysterical and then I

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had to pull the information out of her

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and she had contracted and an incurable

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STD so that's another covert contract

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guys like just because a woman wears a

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sundress and a sun hat does not mean

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that she could be rocking an STD and

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that's why guys the most important

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Clover contract you have to break is

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assume she's promiscuous don't obsess

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don't like lose sleep over it don't go

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on a two-hour YouTube rant about how the

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West is falling because of [ __ ] right

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because I know I I for a fact dude if I

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could bang every single porn star female

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porn star all right female porn star I

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would there's some attractive hot [ __ ]

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out there man

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um I even met one at my gym and

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obviously she wasn't they're not really

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attractive in in person as on the screen

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you know the fantasy but I you know

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promiscuous women are pretty awesome you

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know as long as they're not

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ugly

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or unattractive just like me if I was

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ugly no one want me but

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um

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yeah get it out of your head that

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because a woman is wearing a sundress or

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a woman looks normal she isn't capable

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of like sleeping seeing lots of men and

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for the black pillars right on the other

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hand just because of women

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um has sex with a guy or one or two guys

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has a little whole face doesn't mean

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she's an absolute terrible person that's

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going to destroy your life

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you know most of the most of the women

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the way they treat me

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most women treat me really good like and

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it's because I don't expect anything

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crazy out of them I just expect you know

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like just basic respect respect my time

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you know stuff like that and

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um you know you set your boundaries

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implicitly and explicitly if you have to

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and you know I don't have I have I have

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a little one by one cut down my cover

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contracts and it comes to this point

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where you're like you're at a club

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you're at a bar you're dancing salsa

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with this girl she's a [ __ ] her tits are

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out all the guys are like their tongues

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are like you know

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um hanging out their face they're like

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holy crap this girl's hot and they're

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like you know

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asking me do how'd you get a girl like

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that and uh and then you know they're

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gonna be some guys like ah bro she's a

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[ __ ] and the girls will be like ah she

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looks like a [ __ ] too and guess what

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guess who's having the most fun both of

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you who cares what everyone else is if

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you're out if you're out with a [ __ ]

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girl and she her boobs are out of her

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butts out and you're dancing and she's

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all that doing all this stuff and she's

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drunk and and sometimes she's buying you

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drinks and she's making out with you and

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she's falling over and you take her home

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like dude that's that's fun like let

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people like there's no need to like

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project that you you would want that you

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know

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and that's just a lot of people they

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can't they can't really process that

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but Russia is I'm a real [ __ ] I'm and

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I'm okay with that okay Bill rush I

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think you're a nice guy but rush but you

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have to be an [ __ ] sometimes I agree

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Billy bust says any chance you'll collab

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with torsha I don't know

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um I don't think uh I'm there yet

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yeah like I was saying uh guys jack

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um

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it look at my uh I'm gonna put it after

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the video but I'm gonna plug in his

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stuff

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um

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and it's it's uh Jack has a great voice

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you know he could be the next Optimus

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Prime once Peter colon passes hopefully

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he doesn't pass but

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Jack Napier is up to be the next Optimus

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Prime so uh a voice so guys give him a

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follow

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uh

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Billy bus Detroit Francis says you'll be

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fine as long as you write but yeah guys

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I've you know I've been around the block

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it's fine and also just pay attention

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you know like there are indicators do

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some research you know you know

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obviously like uh smell look you know

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look at it

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um

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you know honestly smell like you smell

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doesn't mean like run away but like you

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know pay attention you know and at the

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end of the day like

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wrap it up is the best you know just

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wrap it up you know

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where it says I've always enjoyed

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pulling a sexual the generous set of

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girls is fulfilling to see them Cut

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Loose yeah and the thing is you guys

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will be surprised about some of the

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classiest looking girls and what they'll

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do on the first night

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um and you may think oh damn she's a

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[ __ ] but then you get to know her and

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then you realize like there are girls

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who are like they did I did stuff with

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them the first night and I'm like man I

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would have never expected she's into

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this but then as the time went on I'm

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like man she's probably like

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just by running through guys right now

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but then I realized like the next day

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she would text me and be like oh I have

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so much fun when can I see you again and

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then two days later hey I'm in the area

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and it's like you get that

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um over time you get that uh

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um deep conversion you realize like

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sometimes man that maybe you need just

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to give yourself props as a man and

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realize like you hit this you smash this

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girl so well you gamed her so well you

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Rose above every single other dude that

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she's ever talked to or had access to

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you did it so well that she gave she she

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um she gambled and she got you and she's

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like now in in your frame almost

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instantly and you did it bro like you

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found yourself a girl that just wants to

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be super open with you and also likes

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you and and it's a it's a rush it's an

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amazing feeling right so give yourself

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the opportunity and and just because a

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girl is [ __ ] or just [ __ ] with you

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or [ __ ] with everyone or whatever

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so what man it's not your problem

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says sexy Dutch man yes the the Jack

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Napier voice the sexy Dutch voice

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Billy Buster says Jack sounds more like

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Starscream down what do you sound like

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Billy do you sound uh good

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Randy Morgan says nuke could be done

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sneaker with one punch when it's for

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happening nah man I'm not I'm not a

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violent person I'm also I'm not trained

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in combat

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um I don't really I'm not really in the

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red meat guys like I don't

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like I said before

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I said it's in a tweet I think it

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resonated like there's a lot of guys

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that

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are where there's a war for young men's

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Souls

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you know everyone wants young men's

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Souls right that's the biggest prize

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today

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so if we can get young men to be

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religious or you can get young men

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addicted to pornography if we get young

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men addicted to you know if we yeah

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mantis to be virgins until marriage if

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you can get young men to buy our

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products you know it's the war for young

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men's Souls

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um in this country right now

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bull rush ass Billy Buster sounds like

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PeeWee Herman on acid oh geez is that

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true

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oh man

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all right yeah so that those are the

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three Cobra contracts um you know I'm

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trying to think of another common one we

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talked about women's cover contracts and

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beta man we talked about uh what happens

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when you start cutting them down how

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much you enjoy you start enjoying women

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and dating because you no longer have

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these crazy expectations

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um

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you know

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uh you don't have these crazy

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expectations of women anymore you can

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enjoy them you know it's like I think

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Rich Cooper says this

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um you want to enjoy them for what they

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are what they not what they can never be

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to you

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right so a lot of guys you know

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I had a covert contract recently and

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that I had to really break and I had to

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really catch myself and it was really

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messing with me and I was not happy with

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that part of my life whereas like

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for me

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once someone does me a favor or does

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something else you know not outside of

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sex you know like like help me with like

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take care of my dog or pick me up from

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the airport my covert contract was that

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you're on my team now

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you know you are

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team nuke we're on we're you're in my

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tribe we're helping each other we're

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going to get through life you know and I

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didn't know that it was I think it was

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from the military where you know there's

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a lot of self-reliance on the team and

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helping each other out I think a lot of

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military guys suffer from this where you

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get out and you you realize everyone is

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so individualistic and only for

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themselves which is normal that's what

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normal it should be but as in the

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military everything you did

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was for the collective right so I got

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out and you know even there were girls

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where they were giving me everything

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sexually and you know obviously outside

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of that we also had fun and they were

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great and they were like only fondant

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like I look back I'm gonna look back as

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an old man I'm just gonna see a picture

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and I'm gonna laugh you know and be like

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haha I remember that girl and it would

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be it's nothing but great memories but

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then the minute they started doing

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things for me

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like that I would expect more of like a

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friend to do

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I got real I had a really hard time

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not seeing them as part of my tribe not

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a girlfriend

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because I already got all the girlfriend

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treatment like I wanted them to be part

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of my tribe you know I wanted them to be

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a phone call away in case I needed

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something and vice versa and that was

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such a weird covert contract for me

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um and I really had to like break it and

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and catch myself and really look at

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myself and like listen man people do

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favors for you doesn't mean that they're

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on your side all the time it just means

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that they did a favor for you right and

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a lot of times people do favors because

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you did a favor for them and they feel

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like they owe you right so I really had

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to think past that one and it's so and

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it was the weirdest thing because I'm

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like oh maybe it's like a beta simpy

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thing that I still do you know like a

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girl will

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um I don't know a girl will pick up my

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dog and when I'm out of town and take

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care of him or something or bring him

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food or walk him and

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I'm like maybe it's a sympathy thing I

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realize no because that girl I'm

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smashing this I'm smashing her like I'm

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having sex with her like and I'm not

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really working I'm not giving her

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anything crazy you know we may go out

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once in a while for for food or for

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drinks but I'm not you know I'm doing

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anything crazy for this girl it's just

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all fun but then I realize it's that

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it's that

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I immediately convert people who do

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things for me

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into tribe one of us you know one of us

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one of us so

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yeah that's something that I had to

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break and you know if you're a guy

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that's that's in the military or getting

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out in the military you probably will

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have to deal with that that you know not

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everyone's on your side even if they do

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Affair for you doesn't mean that you

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know they're on your trip so

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full Rush ass no one is trying to young

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men to buy into themselves yeah everyone

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wants to recruit young men for their own

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purposes you know and

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honestly

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that's what no man's Fair has become you

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know pulling men apart and I think one

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of the reasons like they hate the red

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pill

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is because it's really telling young man

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bro you are you got to figure this out

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on your own here's what we've learned

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we'll pass it down to you guys

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we're not great like I don't see it as a

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grifty because paying paying 15 bucks

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for a book that can change your life is

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that really a grift let's think about it

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so if someone buys rational mail or

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praxology or someone sees my YouTube

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video and gives me a 10 super chat or

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something

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um or someone goes on Jack's Channel and

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and grabs the accountability program or

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something like that or whatever whatever

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version of whatever Creator you like you

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know choose your pick right

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um

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is that a grift are we grifting it's ten

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dollars

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in order to get some information and

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insight a grift there's people that pay

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ten dollars a month for and only fans

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subscription there's people that pay ten

play83:30

dollars a month for a Netflix

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subscription is Netflix showing are they

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grifting

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you know like like these people think

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that because you you make content and

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you take the time to make content or

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whatever and you you said it in front of

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people like hey guys if you want to get

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it sure if you don't don't hey this is

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just what I've learned or this is you

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know put together from other creators

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put together or this helped me so you

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know but I have to charge you because

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there's time and effort in this they

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think that's a grift and I'm like dude

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it's like another container where grift

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is one of those words where it doesn't

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really mean anything anymore you can

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call anyone a grifter you want just

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because they sell something

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are there grifters of course there's

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people that are selling courses on how

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to make money and they're like 23.

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you know 23 years old and they're

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selling you how to be a millionaire

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you know but there's guys like me that

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are like

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hey man like

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unlike Jack you know and people like

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that they're like hey this is what it is

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this is you know this is backed by

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thousands of men and their experiences

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um good writers people from all

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background psychologists Engineers

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doctors

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um DJs

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um

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actual real life Playboys millionaires

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CEOs whatever we're all we all collected

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notes we put this in this pot here ten

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dollars it's like not even a grift it's

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it's basically it's awesome it's amazing

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that we can do this and for them to call

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it a grift it's pretty crazy you know

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like a buying a book for fifteen dollars

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twenty dollars is not a grift in my

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opinion it's not grifting you know it's

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it's it's pretty awesome that you can

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buy buy something for so cheap and then

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it can change your life you know

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it's like saying the gym is a grift I'm

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like really because I paid 30 bucks to

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go to the gym and it's the best

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investment you'll ever make is basically

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that 30 bucks a month

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I'd say Billy what should I say treating

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her as a friend is one of the most

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subtle covert contracts

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yeah

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um that the the most prevalent uh cover

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contract is the friend zone where guys

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think if they're nice and they do things

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for her and they don't present any

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sexual energy that eventually

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you know

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um

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they'll get access to sex and that's the

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common most played out common one that

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all the low-level

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dating gurus and advice I'm like dude

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we're already past that we know that

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it's like 10 years we're 10 years into

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the future man you gotta catch up

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but rushes you can trust me with your

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life but not with your but not your

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money or your wife

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um military proverb ha I don't think

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I've heard that one and that's her for

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like six years but it makes a lot of

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sense

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um Billy says and I don't mean friend

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zone I mean the urge to befriend your a

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girl you're already banging

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what does that mean I gotta expand on

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that one

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Randy Morgan says Nick Robin bull rush

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are my heroes they step up to do let

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them burn every Thursday without fail

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they do that for us

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yeah um I Really Gonna Start catching

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Let Them Burn I feel like it'd be

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hilarious

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um

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you guys know what time they're on or do

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they just do it whenever they announce

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it

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Valerie says Billy you better behave

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yeah listen to Valerie Billy

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um Billy says Stewart Cooper's book

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costs 200 hey man if you want to pay the

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200 you think it'll be value sure I'm

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not saying there's not any grifters I'm

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just saying that not everything is a

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grift

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entirely you know like

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like the rational mail costs like what

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25 bucks you think it's worth 25 bucks

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probably worth more than that

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um praxology is what if you have a

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an audible account you already get free

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credits you're paying what 15 a month

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for audible or something like that

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you get like four free credits a month

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or something

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yeah that's a one credit that's

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basically like three bucks so

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you know

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um is you know you make you make the

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assessment of whether something's worth

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it or not but not everything is a super

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Griff you know

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Governor Megatron what's up governor

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Jack's course is really good because

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it's something that motivates you and

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gets results grifters will charge

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someone a lot for something common sense

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that you'll be attained yourself for

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free yeah

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um it's the effect of something right

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there are there are like I said there

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are books and things that give you a

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perspective obviously you have to do the

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work

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um but there are books and things that

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um

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that are so cheap

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and and in terms of like in face of what

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they bring you and the value in the

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perspective that it's not really

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and then you know some grifters

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will be like

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you need to run a rotation

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pay me 60 bucks

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and I'm like yeah you need to run

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annotation but how

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well you talk to a lot of girls I'm like

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okay how well you have to learn game and

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I'm like okay well how you see ask how

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until you get to a stupid near near like

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like you you want the content you pay

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for to be explained to you like you're

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an idiot like in the military I like

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things being explained to me like I was

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an idiot not because I was an idiot

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maybe I was who knows but but but

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because

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um if I miss something or something

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didn't work

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I could blame myself and read this

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material again and go back but if I

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bought something that really just told

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me hey dude you have to run a rotation

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or hey dude she's not yours it's just

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your turn give me a hundred dollars it's

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like okay what does that mean

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like if you watch Ryan Stone's video on

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it's not yours it's just your turn every

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single part of that phrase is explained

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for like five minutes that like nuts and

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bolts that's what we have that's what we

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need even me still at this if I'm

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reading something I prefer it to be nuts

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and bolts to the point where I gotta

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read it like and I feel like do they

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think I'm stupid good because I may be

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stupid

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and this if I mess up somewhere I could

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go back and be like I messed up in this

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super nuanced step you know and it just

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helps you right you don't want to you

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don't want some you don't wanna pay for

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something that tells you hey uh

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you need uh an example

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um

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this weekend like you know there's a lot

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of like I'm gonna say grifters but a lot

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of people

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creators that are reached out to me and

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they're like trying to like you know

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they're like buddy buddy to me and all

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that stuff right but like I'm telling

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you guys like

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I'm a very plugged in person into this

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into this stuff and I can tell you

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extremely hyper nuanced things obviously

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I think it's too much time like telling

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a guy who just stepped into the space

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um how to read a girl's you know like

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what it means when she looks to the left

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and she's looking towards the door

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or looking towards up you know or asking

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you certain questions that's a little

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much for a beginner right but if you're

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if you're at a level where you're on a

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date and you want to know what something

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means and you come to me and I'll be

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like yeah this is what this means and

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this is based 100 off experience like

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I'm not selling you draw the out well

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first step

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draw two circles Second Step draw the

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[ __ ] owl because that doesn't help

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anyone that's how grifters make their

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money they take a tire like Governor

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Megatron says

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um they take something that's common

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sense or something played out

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and then they sell it and then it

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doesn't really help you because all it

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did was look good and now you feel like

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the placebo effect were like oh yeah I

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now that I got this course now I can go

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out and talk to him it was like dude

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you paid that money for nothing why

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don't you get something that's super

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hyper nuanced and autistic and spurgy

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that you can read and then when you

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apply it you're just like holy crap this

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covers every single base I'm glad I paid

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money for this

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Billy says what I mean is the assumption

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that if you treat you you're as a

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genuine friend she'll do the same for

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you oh you're talking about my case yeah

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that was my cover contract because for

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it's been a while since I've had like I

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haven't been friend zoned

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in years guys I haven't been friend

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zoned in a long time so when a girl

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starts doing nice things for me

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it's not that I it's not that I feel

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like

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like again it's like the it's like that

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military training where you rely on each

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other you know

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um teamwork and all that stuff so when

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someone starts doing nice things for me

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I'm like you're on my side I can rely on

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you now which is you know some people do

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good things for you for short period of

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time some people do it for the rest of

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your life but I really had to get over

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the fact that just because you know do

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something nice for me once

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doesn't mean that you're my ride or die

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you know

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Billy says in one of those first books

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basically free on his blog he'd be a lot

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richer if he wasn't so sincere very true

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very true

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blue rush says letting bird starts

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around 9pm every Thursday but you're not

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missing much just three old [ __ ]

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shooting the [ __ ] hey man that that used

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to be the manosphere just dudes shooting

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the [ __ ] so guys you see it there

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Thursday 9 p.m Thursday

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um three old guys shooting the ship

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probably being really raw and honest you

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know like something that you don't see

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much

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The Valor says bull rush you're too

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modest yeah maybe you are or maybe just

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being honest just oh just some dudes

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just dudes being dudes you know

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pull rushes

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I mean if you were in the Navy you're

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most likely are sincerely U.S marine

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that's right someone told me you're a

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marine you know um yeah

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yeah I mean uh so how many crayons do

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you guys uh get when you guys go to ciao

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like do you guys get like a little

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crayon ration or do you uh

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or do you have to like

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um you get one crayon or a box of

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crayons

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that's a common joke

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Ken Wynn says is it true that women with

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cleft chins are more promiscuous I don't

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know man what do you tell us the data on

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that like what have you seen

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Billy is it's great Rob always ends the

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show with the big epic speech yeah Rob

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is the speech man he he'll go on a

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speech and I think Rob when he's doing

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his speech is to start putting

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background music to make it more epic

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you know like the Halo theme or

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something

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hold on uh bullrush says buy my book

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full of platitudes and no real

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actionable information right because

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actual information is not sexy it

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doesn't sound right so yeah

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and I'm gonna start calling out guys on

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Twitter where they like type like you

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know like George Mason or like uh

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Michael porfidio back in like 2015

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or 14 where it's like uh one line space

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another line space another line space

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and then that's the tweet and they try

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to like there a lot of guys Focus so

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much on their image and being cool

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that I'm like okay what is the point of

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your account like what are you selling

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I'm not convinced and that's why like

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when I I'm like constantly dropping tips

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and hints on how to navigate

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relationships rotations like the other

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day I said hey uh text your girl that

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you don't that you hate her and when I

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say you're a girl I'm not me I don't

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mean your wife that is pregnant with

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your child and she's stressed from work

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like come on guys you need to be a

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little nuanced but if it's just a girl

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that you're like seeing you know

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texting her hey I think I hate you it's

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exciting it's fun it'll like you know

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she'll like why what did I do you know

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and it's fun and then you can go back to

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playing video games and doing what you

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want and

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having chilling on your Sunday but it

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works giving women excitement and and

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emotion Works they're they're constantly

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bored right and I'm dropping these tips

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and guys are like holy [ __ ] and they try

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it and they're like yeah now I woke up

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to four texts and four missed calls I'm

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like yeah you know what that is it's

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because she like you you giving her what

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she needed which is kind of like

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excitement roller coaster and she's

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calling you if she didn't care about you

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she wouldn't have called so you now you

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know two things you gave her what she

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needed plus now you know that she's

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she's for you because she you know

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obviously you don't do that to your

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loving girlfriend who's tired and

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stressed just came back from work right

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you do it two girls maybe like a more

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casual or when your girl when you know

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your girls you have a steady state

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relationship where there's not right

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Nuance right but you know stuff like

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that I do that so I can prove to you

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guys that not you guys but the people

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that I am a solution based

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person I don't give a [ __ ] about looking

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cool I am open about my nerdy Hobbies I

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am open about the women that pass me up

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my else I post them all the time I met

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um I met a friend of mine from Twitter

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very popular

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um on Twitter

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recently and we talked and he he had met

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he even met the Tates cool guy chillest

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guy ever

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um I met him and I just told him and

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these are like I told him to check out

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this girl iPhone you know and we laughed

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about it because

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you know I'm not I'm this is who I am

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like I'd rather share the girls that I

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fumbled and laugh about it then bragged

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to internet strangers

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about the girls that I do which I do

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both you know just to keep a balance

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Billy Buster says I think the FPS get

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extra crayons oh

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one bull rush says one MRE goes one bus

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of Crayolas yeah what was your favorite

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flavor

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what color was your favorite flavor

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belly Buster we do policing the goons is

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hungry work

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super move says you think you'll be

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adj's next victim I can't be a victim

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man

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I'm never a victim

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and I think I know you're talking about

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and uh yeah it's kind of scary but

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can't be a victim

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you just

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I am no one's victim

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that's all I'm gonna say about that

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um man great great engagement tonight

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guys thank you

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um if you guys haven't already done so

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like And subscribe to the video

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um comment after I'm done comment and

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tell me any covert contracts that you

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guys see all the time or or have broken

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yourselves

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um

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like I talked about the status

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um covert contract the money covert

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contract where if I have

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you know

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if if I make a certain amount of money

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women will won't leave me and will stay

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and guys I recently have gotten two or

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three raises

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I've I'm

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you know I'm not saying you know I make

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a good salary I make a good salary you

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know for someone my age good not great

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not you know crazy but good comfortable

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uh well above average

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but nothing to write home about right

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um and two years ago

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to now the way women treat me has not

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changed

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um

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it hasn't gotten harder hasn't gotten

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easier you know it's just

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it really doesn't matter that much

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obviously if you're making millions as

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compared to 90k it there is a huge

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difference there right but

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um the money isn't going to guarantee

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you women being in your frame all the

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time you still need game right because

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look at all the celebrities the top

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people in the country are all going

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through even Kevin Costner right now

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his wife of 18 years leading right so

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obviously there's a lot more status

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money and all that stuff you guys need

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game you need charm and you need outcome

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Independence just like any other women

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or any other thing right job career

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everything outcome Independence right

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every day you walk into your job like it

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could be your last like they can fire

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you

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um every day you spend with a girl

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whether it be a [ __ ]

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or whether it be a love of your life

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you treat it like not you don't obsess

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it about it ending but you realize like

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you have to live in the moment and these

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moments are precious because this can

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get taken away either by her by life you

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know unfortunate accidents or simply you

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know any other thing that could happen

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enjoy the moment

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um

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and then really catch yourself in a

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covert contract and realize when it

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comes to dating specifically

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um when it comes to dating specifically

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realize that

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the Robert Glover model which this is

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where I kind of disagree with him a

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little bit but I think he he frames it

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within a relationship a loving

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relationship with your wife or you know

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a family member or your girlfriend or a

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long time girlfriend right which is

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explaining to the other party your needs

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right I would say if you're running a

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rotation of girls

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and you see a girl that you thought was

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like girlfriend material do some [ __ ]

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stuff that disqualifies her or whatever

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something that disqualifies her it

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doesn't have to be [ __ ] she could just

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be a bad person you know you could just

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one day see her treat

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um waiting staff really bad at a

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restaurant or you can see how nasty she

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is to her mother or you can see that

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she's a criminal or she does hard drugs

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something that you're like no but you

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have a hard time accepting it realize

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like the only way out is that you can't

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really negotiate because there isn't

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that

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bond yet like deep bond I would say man

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the only thing you got is to divest

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yourself of the outcome really look at

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the outcome and be like I had to stop

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caring about what happened to this girl

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um

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and

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it's hard I'm not gonna lie to you it's

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hard to like really look at a girl that

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you know and

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it's one of those things where you as a

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man you have to sit down with yourself

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you may even have to go to therapy and

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be like why is it this way you know why

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is it that this girl checks all my boxes

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and everything like that but she's a

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total [ __ ] wants to be in the street

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wants to party he doesn't want to be

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mine right she doesn't already does

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everything for me she even washes my

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underwear so I don't get it you have to

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realize like you that's a deep covert

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contract that you have to break and

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that's why we say you know the

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relationship is her fault it's not your

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she's not yours just your turn all these

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things are meant to break over contracts

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that way when you get to these

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situations you're not hurt or broken or

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sad or anything like this to protect you

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because everyone wants to run a rotation

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right but you realize once you get into

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that Circle that rotation and you're

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like you're running girls and you're

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dating or you have a girlfriend or

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whatever there's a lot of emotional work

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you're going to realize that you have to

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do after the fact and that's the

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interesting part and that's why

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rotations and and meaning women

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um and having a girlfriend and and going

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at it with an open heart

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it's it you will start exposing your

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things about yourself that you're like

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whoa what the heck I never saw that

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about myself

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you know you're gonna like for a lot of

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a lot of the time I was like I like this

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type of girl and I won't settle for

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anything else and then I'm like okay

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I'll give this type of girl chance and

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then this type of girl is like

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I'm like wow like

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that's she's amazing why did I think

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that because I needed to be with this

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type of girl when I could you know I was

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the type of girl and they treated me

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better than any other girl I was like

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okay well there's a covert contract

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where maybe race type of body type of

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body type of Personality demeanor

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whatever

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um

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it was like that that was what an ideal

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girl was but here comes a girl that's

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like maybe different maybe she's short

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or taller or she's A different race or

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she's you know different type of job you

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know like or all that stuff you know

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there there's absolutely so many things

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in your mind and you convince yourself

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that you need to break out of

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um

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and you need to really test your beliefs

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constantly and that's something that

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guys don't do they hate testing their

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beliefs and I tell this to my friends

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like I have a friend who's like who

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swears he says I like to date uh women

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that uh speak

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Spanish as their primary language

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because they're more traditional

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right

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and what is that based on of I've dated

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like last year I dated like four girls

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four or five girls that Spanish was a

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predominant language one was like a

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borderline alcoholic she was a good

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person very fun but we're not an

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alcoholic the other one is flaky girl

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with a lot of psychological issues also

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a good sweet gal I had a good time with

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her

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um

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another one another girl

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um like I don't let me let me see if I

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remember another girl was like

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incredibly boring and no Sexual Energy

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um and the thing is she was super nice

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guy like I wanted to like her I wanted

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to be like have that you know but she

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was just so boring and just so stiff

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that I couldn't there was no sexual

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tension at all so it's like I couldn't

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bring myself to like

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I couldn't even like grab her ass when I

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was in the pool because there's just

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there was just

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it was so sterile you know so I was like

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you see like

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when you put yourself in these boxes and

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these covert contracts now you're

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running the risk you're basically like

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you're playing an RPG you basically

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there's there's certain moves in an RPG

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game right where you can

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cast a spell that makes them have a

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weakness right so let me see I think in

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Final Fantasy 10

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you there's a spell that if you cast it

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on a monster or an enemy let's say I

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think it's like it can make them weak

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towards a certain element and that's

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what a covert contract does it's a spell

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you cast on yourself to make you weak

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against something right so if a guy says

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I only want to date girls that speak

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Spanish as a primary language he's

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basically now weak to women that speak

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Spanish as a primary language

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and

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um

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he's going to go into that into that

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relationship or into the in interfacing

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with that girl thinking oh she's

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traditional

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and he he can he's gonna get fleeced

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he's gonna get his heart broken or he's

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gonna get disillusioned disappointed and

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now he's he he dies you know the the

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traditional girl or the the

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spanish-spreaking girl casts fire on him

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and

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um he's it does double damage right

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so

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and then in the same game in some games

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especially like Final Fantasy 10 for

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sure there's things that no like no I

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think it's called No cast where you uh

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whatever element you cast on yourself it

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makes you impervious to that and that's

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like breaking the covert contract right

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so now I look I'm like all girls are

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[ __ ] until proven otherwise

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guess what now when a girl's like hey I

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want to be your girlfriend and then

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you're like uh you wait a minute I gotta

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see if you know what type of girl you

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are first guess what you've protected

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yourself against the spell of putting

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the wool over your eyes and a girl

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trying to trick you into a relationship

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when she's an absolute train wreck of a

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woman you know so to put it in Final

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Fantasy RPG terms that's basically what

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it is all right I got a whole bunch of

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uh

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uh Billy says what do you do for a

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living now yeah nice try Billy nice try

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I live under a bridge

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blue rush says I banged as many girls as

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a broke ass e2e3 as I do now yeah man in

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college I got more attention from

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females in college than than now I mean

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obviously social media is big but I

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don't know if I count social media now

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because women like to like mess around

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and pretend to give you attention but

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yeah that's definitely like something

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that guys don't understand

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there was that one girl who tried to rob

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me she was violent too yeah I had a girl

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that almost stabbed me uh a story for

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another day though

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um

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Randy Martin says who would you say your

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biggest enemy in the manosphere right

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now is my biggest enemy is myself my

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self-doubt the reason I didn't start

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this channel before is because I thought

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I wasn't qualified to talk on this stuff

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but the

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I think I was

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um

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Russ says mike Jeff is uh bilingual she

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tries to teach me Spanish every time she

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orgasms ah

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yeah that's a really good spin I'm

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pretty sure you're looking forward to

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that Spanish lesson every time my friend

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if it's private I understand just

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curious yeah man I can't

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I can't there's so many psychos on the

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internet I can't tell you anything about

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myself sorry

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um

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but yeah man uh yeah guys like it's uh

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these cover contracts man and and if you

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if you find yourself like man I had a

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cover contract the whole time they're

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really hard to catch

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before you're already in one like it's

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really easy to say like no there's no

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way I can get I would believe that but

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then you know over the course of you

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knowing someone for a year or six months

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and three months two years you realize

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like you've built up this expectation in

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your head

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for so long it's creeped inside

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of your of your relationship with this

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person that you don't even know

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what you like you don't even know what

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happened like how how you got here

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so be patient forgive yourself like

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again like my other video forgive

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yourself you're doing your best you're

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learning you're growing up as a human

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being

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um and then once you you're gonna get to

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a point where you're gonna be able to

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like what are my what is the con what is

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the covert contract that I have with

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this person like do if I

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um

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and I've learned it the hard way guys

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like for example I tweeted like hey I I

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had a girl leave me

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and then three months later pop up with

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a girl that was or sorry with a guy that

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was

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six inches shorter than me confirmed

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virgin because I found out through the

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grapevine

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um

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and through you know through people

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telling me

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um

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and that's not something that you would

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like want people to know so it wasn't

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like I was told you know it it was it

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was true and the guy you know was not

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didn't even look like me at all so like

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and this girl was pretty much like a

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front runner to be my future wife right

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so

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um you know I did it I did get my deep

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conversion from her she would send me

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boxes and stuff when I was deployed

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right and she was very

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and this was before I even met her in

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person right then I met her in person

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um we hooked up the first night we we

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you know we met and all that stuff it

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was very fun it was like the perfect

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first time meeting of someone and all

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that stuff I was kind of nervous you

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know

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but she left three months there she

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probably the guy looked nothing like me

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so

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I could I could have been like what's

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wrong with me what did I do wrong my

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whole life right but the thing is like

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outcome Independence all that stuff you

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have to be like okay well I don't own

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this person she's not my property just

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because I'm a certain way or I look a

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certain way or act a certain way or

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something like that does not mean that

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it's not guarantee me love or or

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affection or something like that that is

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a covert contract so I just you know I

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really looked at myself and I said hey

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she had she had to make a choice you

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know maybe she chose a guy that was safe

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maybe she chose a guy that she was you

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know maybe I did something that made her

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feel insecure you know like maybe she

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found another woman's underwear in my

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laundry or something like that she's

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like I can't do this this is crazy you

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know like I this guy you know he's if I

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do one thing wrong he's gonna leave me

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for another girl you know which is

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understandable so

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um throughout life you're gonna you're

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gonna have to deal with things like this

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that don't make any sense because you

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you were really thinking that hey if I'm

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this super alpha male and I got all my

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boxes checked

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um and I'm a millionaire I make at least

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six figures and I I buy courses on how

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to have given the best sex guys I've

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given women their first orgasms and

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they you know I've given women

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the time of their life you know where

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I'm just like I'm going to ruin my

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mattress I'm gonna have to buy a new

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mattress at this point and they've left

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they've been like okay I never want to

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see you again after like three months

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and they find someone else

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all right and there are girls that I

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just really didn't give them much

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sexually in the bedroom like it was like

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yeah I had fun but it was like you know

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it was nowhere near the other girl

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um and they were stuck onto me like a

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tick like they would not leave me alone

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they were like yeah so that's undercover

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contract you guys have like if I'm a

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sexual beast in bed and I like satisfy

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this girl so much and leave her in a

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puddle every time she's gonna love me

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forever and she's Never Gonna Leave Me

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and the truth is

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it could be it could be that this girl

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is attached to you forever because of

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the good sex but it could very well be

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that like sex isn't that important she

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just you know she likes the pleasure but

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deep down you didn't you know it was

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temporary

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so look at these covert contracts make

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sure

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uh forgive yourself if you're if you

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don't know if you're in one

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um

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it's really hard to tell if you're in

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one beforehand and once you and if you

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find yourself in one really look in a

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dating perspective your only option most

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of the time unless it's your girlfriend

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or your wife or some long time

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relationship with someone that you kind

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of have a a bond with Beyond you know

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just fun and sex

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um is that you're going to have to

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really accept

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and and give up on the con and give up

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on the outcome right you have to say

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whatever happens happens right and

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that's the that's the only thing you got

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it's the only thing you got to get out

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to to deal with that situation and

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that's okay be easy on yourself realize

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that cover contracts are innate to human

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beings

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and but in this new world and this crazy

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new world where we're trying to figure

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out who we are

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um you have to really know who you are

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before you go out there especially when

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you're dealing with the psychotic dating

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Market at times right

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um

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blue rush says it's good to see you

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young guys like you speaking on these

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subjects kind of like well man the thing

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is uh bull rushes I got I got I've

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gotten humbled a lot in my life like

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humbled so when I see these guys that

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are like 23 talking about here's the

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secrets of becoming a millionaire or I

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don't like these red pill guys because

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they you know they they just

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they don't own women and they women are

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should be yours and they should be

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chased and they they just want slots and

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they want you know whatever crap they

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say I might listen younger man because

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I'm only 34 right but these guys that

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are like 10 years younger than me I'm

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like listen man listen I'll tell you

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this much

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I like I said just before that that

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cringy little rant I did on on my sex

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life wait I didn't want to talk about it

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but I did

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um

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you what are you gonna do when you give

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when you are everything that you think

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you have to be for a woman

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and you have a growth man you may have a

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rotation you may have a girlfriend a

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wife and

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your favorite girl your wife your

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girlfriend leaves you

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but like even

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awesome like family like what do you do

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with your life

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um

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what are you gonna do when the woman in

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your life

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um

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don't want you anymore are you gonna

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just keep grinding

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are you just gonna keep grinding Forever

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Until you become Donald Trump with a

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six-pack you know Elon Musk bank account

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or are you just gonna be like hey

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it is what it is I I got to enjoy her

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she gave me her best

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hey if you don't want to be at my

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program baby you have to go so

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um

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yeah I think uh

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I think at the end I think at the end of

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the day

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um

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you have to seriously

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bees in yourself and take care of these

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cover contracts and be you know just

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learn learn about your own self like

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learn part most of the red pill is

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yourself it's not something to do with

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women and that's a lot of people don't

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get that

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all right guys

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um

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I think I've talked enough very ranty

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um subject but it's just such a powerful

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subject and it will help you so much

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um I highly suggest reading um Dr

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Glover's No More Mr Nice Guy

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um helps a lot of guys out and relax and

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they realize like wow I've been a people

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pleaser my whole life and I've been

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expecting things just because

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um so

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go ahead and check that out and also um

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um follow me on Twitter you have my uh

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my handles right there

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um like And subscribe to the video

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um give me to a thousand like everyone's

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trying to give me the Thousand

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um

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uh I want to get to a thousand during

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the summer at least and I will continue

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to pump out content if you guys have any

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suggestions for Content or for

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um topics I'm open to any suggestions

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comment below DM me on Twitter or

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something and I will write it down here

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in my notebook and I'll write notes and

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when I come up with enough information

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I'll go ahead and drop a video on it so

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uh also guys

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um

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I uh follow uh Jack's Channel bulrush

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um Let Them Burn 9 p.m on um I believe 9

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p.m right 9 p.m on uh on Thursday go

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watch them Jack has his content

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um

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and uh

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remember guys Solutions no red meat if

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you want to watch red meat watch it I

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watch red meat all the time and I'm at

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it's popcorn it's it's it's fun right

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when it comes to like your own life you

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have to really do do this deep work that

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I'm saying these this deep work into

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yourself and your covert contracts and

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so you can get the outcomes you want

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I haven't been playing a lot I have to

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really

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sit down and start practicing

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um again I got some new songs but hey

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maybe I should I should do

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uh

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a piano outro

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good idea thanks blue Rush

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um

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so thanks guys have a good night and uh

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thanks for stopping by

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appreciate it

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