어느 엄마와 딸의 슬픈 실화 - '우리 딸 사랑해...'

Summary

The script narrates a heart-wrenching tale of a mother's selfless love for her daughter. The daughter initially resents her mother's job as a housekeeper, feeling embarrassed and leading her to rebel. After an accident that costs her an eye, the mother's sacrifice and the daughter's realization of her mother's love become the turning point. As the mother's health deteriorates, the daughter learns of her mother's terminal illness and her preparations for the daughter's future. The story culminates in the daughter's poignant realization and heartfelt goodbye, expressing her love and regret for not telling her mother sooner.

Takeaways

• 👩‍👧 The narrator's mother worked as a house cleaner and dishwasher in other people's homes.
• 🤷‍♀️ The narrator, a teenager at the time, couldn't understand why her mother had to do such work and felt embarrassed by it.
• 😠 The narrator was ashamed of her mother and hated her for making her feel humiliated.
• 👥 The narrator started hanging out with bad friends and doing things she was told not to, to hurt and embarrass her mother.
• 😭 Despite never scolding her, the narrator's mother was deeply hurt, and one day, she cried, which shocked the narrator.
• 👁️‍🗨️ The narrator lost one eye in a fight and received a corneal transplant from a dying person, arranged by her mother.
• 😷 The mother became increasingly ill, coughing and losing weight, but continued to work hard.
• 🛫 One day, the mother told the narrator she had earned enough money and was going on a long trip, leaving a letter explaining her illness and love for her daughter.
• 💌 In the letter, the mother revealed she had been sick for a long time and had left to die peacefully, hoping her daughter would live well without her.
• 😢 The narrator, filled with regret and love, mourns her mother's passing and promises to look at the sky whenever she feels sad, knowing her mother is watching over her.

Q & A

What was the mother's occupation that the narrator initially found embarrassing?

The mother worked as a housekeeper, cleaning and washing dishes at other people's homes, which the narrator found embarrassing during their adolescence.

Why did the narrator feel resentment towards their mother's job?

The narrator resented their mother's job because it was seen as a lowly occupation and made them feel ashamed, especially among their peers.

What incident led to the narrator losing one of their eyes?

The narrator lost one of their eyes after hanging out with bad friends, which resulted in an incident where they were severely injured and covered in blood.

How was the narrator able to regain sight in one eye?

The mother found a donor who was willing to give their cornea to the narrator, despite being terminally ill and wanting to do something good before they died.

What was the mother's reaction when the narrator started behaving badly again after regaining their sight?

The mother was upset but did not scold the narrator. Instead, she became sickly and frail, which was unusual for her.

Why did the mother never scold the narrator, despite their misbehavior?

The mother never scolded the narrator because she was too kind and did not want to burden the narrator with her own troubles and feelings of shame.

What was the mother's emotional state in the latter part of the script?

The mother was very emotional, crying, and expressing deep regret and love for the narrator, which was unusual for her as she was typically strong and composed.

What significant change did the mother experience that alarmed the narrator?

The mother became very sick, to the point where she could not hold the phone properly and was constantly coughing, which was a significant change from her usual self.

Why did the mother prepare a lavish breakfast on the last day mentioned in the script?

The mother prepared a lavish breakfast as a last gesture of love and care for the narrator, filling the refrigerator with the narrator's favorite foods and even making a birthday cake for a future celebration.

What did the mother leave behind for the narrator before she 'went on a trip'?

The mother left behind a white envelope, a shopping bag, and a letter expressing her love and apologies to the narrator, as well as a sweater that the narrator had wanted.

What was the narrator's realization at the end of the script?

The narrator realized that their mother had passed away, as indicated by her preparations and the letter, and they expressed deep sorrow and love for their mother, regretting not being able to say their feelings while she was alive.

Outlines

00:00

😢 A Mother's Hardship and Sacrifice

The narrator recounts their mother's difficult job working as a house cleaner, which they didn't understand and were embarrassed by. During their rebellious phase, they resented their mother for making them feel ashamed. They got involved with bad company, resulting in an injury that caused the loss of an eye. Their mother found a retina donor, but the narrator remained troubled and unappreciative. The mother's health deteriorated, yet she continued to work, which led to more resentment from the narrator.

05:02

💔 The Last Goodbye

The narrator describes the last days with their mother, who exhibited strange behavior due to her worsening health. She prepared a lavish breakfast and left a heartfelt letter explaining she was going on a long trip. The mother expressed her love and regret, stating she could no longer hide her illness and apologizing for leaving. She reassured the narrator of her eternal presence and love. The narrator's grief is profound as they read the letter, realizing the depth of their mother's sacrifices and love.

Keywords

💡Housekeeping

Housekeeping refers to the act of cleaning and maintaining a household, often as a domestic service. In the video's narrative, the mother works as a housekeeper, which is a central theme reflecting her role and the daughter's perception of her job. The term is used to describe the mother's occupation and the societal label given to her.

💡Adolescence

Adolescence is the transitional stage of physical and psychological development from childhood to adulthood. The script mentions the protagonist being in adolescence, a period when they felt embarrassed by their mother's job and harbored resentment, which is a critical phase in understanding their emotional development and relationship with their mother.

💡Resentment

Resentment is a deep-seated feeling of anger and displeasure. The script describes the protagonist's resentment towards their mother for her job, which they perceived as embarrassing and shameful, highlighting the emotional conflict and the protagonist's internal struggle.

💡Mother's Love

Mother's love is the affection and care a mother has for her child. The video emphasizes the mother's unwavering love and sacrifices for her daughter, despite the daughter's rebellious behavior. This concept is central to the video's theme of unconditional love and the eventual realization of its depth by the daughter.

💡Blindness

Blindness is the state of being unable to see. In the script, the protagonist loses an eye due to an accident, which is a pivotal moment in the narrative. It symbolizes a loss but also the mother's efforts to restore her child's sight, reflecting the depth of a mother's love and sacrifice.

💡Terminal Illness

Terminal illness refers to a disease with no cure, expected to result in death. The mother's terminal illness is a significant plot point, revealing her deteriorating health and the reason behind her actions, such as preparing for her daughter's future without her.

💡Sacrifice

Sacrifice is the act of giving up something valued for the sake of others. The mother's actions throughout the video, including working as a housekeeper and preparing for her daughter's future, are sacrifices made out of love. This concept is integral to understanding the mother's character and her relationship with her daughter.

💡Rebellion

Rebellion is the act of resisting or defying authority, in this case, the protagonist's behavior against their mother's wishes. The script illustrates the protagonist's rebellious phase, which includes hanging out with the wrong crowd and causing their mother distress, highlighting the tension in their relationship.

💡Guilt

Guilt is the feeling of responsibility or remorse for wrongdoing. The protagonist experiences guilt as they realize the pain and sacrifices their mother has made for them, especially in the context of her terminal illness and the preparations she made before leaving.

💡Departure

Departure is the act of leaving, often implying a journey or a permanent move. The mother's departure in the video is a significant event that triggers the protagonist's realization of her love and the sacrifices she made, serving as a catalyst for emotional growth and understanding.

💡Legacy

Legacy refers to something transmitted by or received from an ancestor or predecessor. In the script, the mother's actions and the love she has for her daughter are her legacy, which the protagonist begins to appreciate and understand after her mother's departure, shaping their future life and decisions.

Highlights

The mother worked as a housekeeper and was often embarrassed by her job, which her child initially couldn't understand.

The child felt ashamed of their mother's job and harbored resentment towards her for it.

Despite the child's behavior, the mother never scolded them, showing her unconditional love and patience.

The child's resentment grew to the point of preferring their mother to be harsher with them.

The mother's emotional breakdown led to the child leaving home, feeling burdened by her constant cheerfulness.

The child lost an eye in an accident, highlighting a turning point in their life and relationship with their mother.

The mother's selfless act of finding a donor for the child's eye surgery demonstrated her deep love and sacrifice.

The child continued to act out, unaware of the mother's deteriorating health.

The mother's health issues became more apparent, but she hid them to protect the child from worry.

The mother's weight loss and coughing indicated a serious health condition, but she continued to work.

The mother revealed she had saved enough money to stop working and provide for her child's needs.

The mother expressed her desire to travel, hinting at a deeper meaning that the child did not initially understand.

The child's realization of the mother's serious condition came too late, as she had already left for her 'trip'.

The mother's final preparations for the child, including filling the fridge with their favorite foods, showed her enduring care.

The discovery of the mother's letter and the realization of her passing brought a profound emotional impact.

The mother's letter expressed her love, regrets, and hopes for the child's future, leaving a lasting legacy.

The child's grief and the realization of their mother's constant presence in their life, even in her absence.

The child's promise to remember their mother's love and to live strong, echoing the mother's final words.

Transcripts

우리 엄마는 남의 집에 가서 청소하고

설거지를 했다 왜 엄마가 남의 집

일을 하는 건지 나는 이해할 수가

없었다 사람들은 우리 엄마를

가정부라고 불렀다 한참 사춘기였던

나는 엄마가 창피했다 그리고 그런

일을 해서 날 쪽팔리게 만드는 엄마가

죽도록 미웠다 그래서 나쁜 애들이랑도

어울리고 하지 말라고 하는 건 다

있다 엄마도 나 때문에 속상해하고

창피당해 보라는 마음에서

엄마는 한 번도 날 혼낸 적이 없다

그런 엄마는 더 싫었다

차라리 마구 때리고 혼을 내지

화도 못 내게 만드는 너무 착한 우리

엄마가 싫었다

[음악]

그런데 엄마가 많이 속상했나 보다

늘 웃기만 하던 엄마가

울었다

괜히 가슴 아파서

질질 짜는게 싫어서 그냥 나와버렸다

그렇게 나쁜 친구들과 어울리다가 나는

한쪽 눈을 잃었다

온몸은 피투성이었고

놀라서 쫓아온 엄마의 모습은

흐릿하게만 보일 뿐이었다

그렇게

병원에 있을 수밖에 없었다

엄마가 아주 어렵게 내 한쪽 눈을

보게 해줄 망막을 찾았다고 했다

그게 누구냐고 묻는 나의 말에 엄마는

그냥

죽을 병에 걸린 어떤 고마운 분이

자기는 어차피 죽을 거니까 좋은

일하고 싶다고

자기에 대해

밝히지 말아달라고 말했다고 했다

그러려니 했다 그

고마운 분의 도움으로 나는 다시 눈을

찾았다 그리고 다시

그렇게 나쁜 짓만 하고 다녔다

그런데 엄마가 이상했다 전화기도

제대로 못 잡고 비틀비틀거리고 나는

그런 엄마에게

힘도 없으면서

쓸데없이 남의 집 가서 일이나 하고

그러니까

그렇게 비실거리지

쓸데없는 짓 좀 하지 마

돈이 그렇게 좋으면

돈 잘 버는 아저씨랑 재훈이나 해

알았어

엄마가 자꾸 그렇게 기침해되고 그러면

나도 진짜 짜증 나

엄만 요새 무척 말랐다

원래 삐쩍 마른 엄마라서

별로 신경 쓰지 않았다

그런데 오늘은 엄마가 너무 이상했다

어디서 그렇게 울었는지

얼굴을 퉁퉁 부어가지고 안 울려고

눈물 안 보이려고 애쓰는 엄마가

정말 이상했다

이쁜 우리 딸 엄마가 정말 미안해 다

미안해

엄마가 우리 딸 우리 애기 얼마나

사랑하는지 알지

엄마가 그동안 그런 일에서 속상했지

우리 딸

그런데 이제 엄마 그 일 안 해도 될

것 같아 엄마

돈 많이 벌었다 이제 우리 딸 맛있는

것도 사주고 사달라는 것도 다 사주고

그럴 수 있을만큼 많이

벌었어

그런데 말이야

혹시 우리 딸 우리 딸 엄마

조금 올해 여행 갔다 와도 괜찮지

우리 딸 혼자 두고 여행가서

미안하지만 엄마 가도 되지

가든지 말든지

그렇게 돈 많이 벌었으면 오기 싫으면

오지 마

[음악]

그래

고맙다

역시 씩씩한 우리 딸이야

엄마가 냉장고에

맛있는 것도 꽉 채워놓고 가고 우리

딸 좋아하는 잡채도 많이 해놓을게

엄마 없어도 잘 있을 수 있지 잘

있어야 돼 엄마가 혹시 늦어도 알았지

엄마 내가 그렇게 귀찮았어 그럼

버리지 뭐하러 키웠어

엄마는 정말 이상했다 하지만

평소에 표현을 잘 안 했었기 때문에

그냥

넘겼다

정말 눈부시게 아름다운 아침이었다

오랜만에

느껴보는 따사로움이었다 부엌에

나가보니 바비 차려져 있었다

그런데 아침이라고 하기에는 너무나

거창했다 내가 좋아하는 음식은 거의

다 있었다

여행갔나 보네

날 버리고 여행 가면 기분 좋나

그런데

왠지 불길했다

그날 엄마의 이상한 행동이 머리를

스쳤다 엄마 방에 가보니 엄마 침대

위에 하얀 봉투와

쇼핑백이 있었다

우리 딸 일어났구나

그런데

미안해서 어쩌지 엄마는

벌써

여행을 떠났는데 엄마가 많이 아팠어

우리 딸 엄마 많이 걱정한 거 엄마

다 알아 우리 딸이 얼마나 착한데

우리 딸한테 또 미안한게 있네

엄마

여행이 많이 오래 걸릴 것 같은데

혼자 잘 있을 수 있지 엄마가

냉장고에 맛있는 거랑 우리 딸 생일에

먹을 케익이랑 다 넣어놨는데

우리

딸 생일 촛불은 같이 풀고 싶었는데

엄마가 너무 급했나봐 우리 딸

사랑하는 우리 딸 엄마가 차려주는

마지막 아침이 될 것 같아서 이것저것

차렸어 우리 딸이이 편지를 볼

때쯤이면 엄마는 하늘에 도착해 있겠지

우리 딸한테 안 좋은 모습 보이기

싫어서 어제 엄마가 이리로 왔어

자는 모습을 보는데 어쩜 이렇게

이쁜이 우리 딸

근데 엄마는 한쪽 눈으로만 보니까

자세히 못 봤어

아쉽다 엄마는 여기로 왔지만 우리

딸이랑 항상 함께 있는 거 알지

우리 딸이 보는 건 엄마도

함께 보고 있는 거니까 너를

낳고

얼마나 행복했는지 몰라 엄마는 남은

사람을 위해서 엄마의 모든 걸 주고

왔단다 엄마가 도움이 될 사람이 있을

수 있으니까

그렇지 그 사람들한테 받은 돈은

미안한 생각하지 말고 우리 딸 좋은

남자한테 시집갈 때 엄마가 아무것도

해줄게 없어서

이렇게 밖에는

혼자 남을 우리 딸한테 해줄게 없어서

내

딸아

씩씩하게 엄마 없어도 잘 지내야 한다

알았지

엄마가이 하늘에서

여행 끝날 때까지 우리 딸 울지 않고

잘 있는지

계속 지켜보고 있을 거야 너무

사랑해서 우리 딸을 위해라면 엄마는

두려울게 없었다 우리 이쁜 딸의

엄마가 될 수 있어서 엄마는 정말

행복했어

사랑한다 너무나 우리

딸 엄마 사랑하지

말하지 않았어도 엄마는 다 알고 있어

정말 사랑한다

그리고이 스웨터는 우리 딸이 갖고

싶어 하던 거야 이거 입고

겨울 씩씩하게 나야 한다

엄마가 말이 너무 많지 엄마가

항상 함께 할 거라는 거

잊지 말으렴 사랑한다

사랑한다

사랑한다

사랑한다

하염없이

눈물만 흘렸다

[음악]

엄마

나 우리 착한 엄마 딸

엄마 나도 데리고 가지 왜 혼자 갔어

엄마 있잖아

여행 너무 오래 하지는 마 알았지

엄마

여행 너무 오래 하면 나 화낼 거야

엄마

정말 너무너무 사랑했는데

엄마 내가 말 못한 거 다 알지

엄마 나 슬플 때 하늘을 볼게

그럼 엄마가 나 보는 거잖아

지켜본다고 했으니까

그렇지

엄마 사랑해 그리고 미안해

엄마

사랑해 이렇게

외쳐도 다시 볼 수 없는 엄마이기에

눈물이 그치지가 않습니다

[음악]

엄마

엄마 사랑해

[음악]

사랑해

[음악]