How to persuade someone in English

Summary

In this engaging session of 'What to Say,' Ana guides viewers on the art of persuasion. The dialogue features Paul, who is hesitant about DJing at an office party. Through a series of effective persuasive phrases, Ana encourages him to reconsider, highlighting the benefits and minimizing his fears. Key phrases for persuasion are introduced, allowing viewers to practice and apply them in real situations. This interactive lesson aims to enhance conversational skills in English while making the learning process enjoyable.

Takeaways

• 😀 Use polite phrases when asking for a favor, such as 'I've got a small favor to ask you.'
• 😀 It’s effective to express how someone might feel about a request, e.g., 'How would you feel about DJing at the office party?'
• 😀 Highlight the person's strengths by saying 'You'd be brilliant at it!' to encourage them.
• 😀 Acknowledge your hesitations by saying, 'I wouldn't usually ask, but you're the only DJ I know.'
• 😀 Suggest that the request could be a fun opportunity with 'Why don't you give it a go?'
• 😀 Emphasize that there is little risk involved with 'There's nothing to lose.'
• 😀 Make the person feel valued by stating 'You'd really be helping me out.'
• 😀 It's okay to consider the request with phrases like 'OK, I'll think about it.'
• 😀 Practice using persuasive language to improve communication skills.
• 😀 Being aware of how to persuade others effectively can enhance personal and professional relationships.

Q & A

What is the main purpose of the dialogue in the transcript?

The main purpose is to demonstrate how to persuade someone to do something, using specific phrases.

Who are the two main characters in the dialogue?

The two main characters are Ana and Paul.

What favour does Ana ask Paul?

Ana asks Paul if he can DJ at the office party.

How does Paul initially respond to Ana's request?

Paul initially declines, stating he doesn't usually attend work parties.

What persuasive phrases does Ana use to encourage Paul?

Ana uses phrases like 'You'd be brilliant at it!' and 'There's nothing to lose!'

Why does Paul feel reluctant to DJ?

Paul feels reluctant because he believes he's not a good DJ and worries about his reputation.

What does Ana say to assure Paul about the office party?

Ana assures Paul that everyone will dance to anything at a party.

How does the dialogue illustrate effective persuasion techniques?

It shows the use of positive reinforcement, addressing concerns, and making the request seem less daunting.

What does Paul eventually say at the end of the conversation?

Paul agrees to think about Ana's request.

What are some key phrases to use when persuading someone, as mentioned in the transcript?

Key phrases include 'I've got a small favour to ask you,' 'How would you feel about DJing?' and 'You'd really be helping me out.'