6 Signs That You're ACTUALLY A Handsome Man (How Women Will Treat You As An Attractive Man)

Summary

In this video, the speaker discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women. These signs include women being unable to just be friends, being more overt in expressing attraction, feeling intimidated by the man's looks, downplaying his attractiveness, exhibiting the 'reverse Rockstar effect' where women act differently to stand out, and leading with validation through compliments. The speaker also promotes a free IAB training for men to enhance their attractiveness and appeal to women.

Takeaways

• 😀 The video discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women.
• 👫 Attractive men may find it difficult to maintain platonic friendships with women, as many of their female friends could be physically attracted to them.
• 💬 Women who are attracted to an attractive man might make subtle comments or hints about their attraction, even if they're in a relationship.
• 🔥 Women who are highly attracted to a man may be more overt and direct about their sexual attraction, especially if he fits their physical type.
• 😳 Attractiveness can be intimidating to some women, who might express feeling nervous or intimidated in the presence of an attractive man.
• 😌 Some women might downplay an attractive man's looks due to their insecurities or past experiences, trying to keep his ego in check.
• 🤩 The 'reverse Rockstar effect' refers to women who are attracted but act differently to avoid seeming like all the others who are attracted to the man.
• 👍 Women who lead with validation, complimenting the man's looks, often have high interest in him and are confident in their attraction.
• 🔗 The speaker suggests that becoming the most attractive version of oneself can lead to easier interactions with women and a more successful dating life.
• 📲 The video offers a free IAB training for men to maximize their attractiveness, with a link provided in the video description.

Q & A

What is the main topic of the video?

The main topic of the video is discussing the six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women.

What is the first sign mentioned in the video that a man is attractive to women?

The first sign is that women can't be just friends with the man, often showing subtle signs of physical attraction.

How does the speaker suggest women will behave if they find a man attractive and he is their physical type?

Women will be more overt and direct about their attraction, potentially making advances or suggesting intimate situations.

What does the speaker mean by 'intimidating' when women find a man attractive?

When women find a man attractive, they may feel intimidated or nervous around him, indicating that he is highly attractive to them.

Why might some women downplay a man's attractiveness despite being attracted to him?

Some women might downplay a man's attractiveness to keep his ego in check or because they have insecurities and want to appear less interested initially.

What is the 'reverse Rockstar effect' as described in the video?

The 'reverse Rockstar effect' refers to women who are attracted to a man but withhold validation and compliments initially to appear different from other admirers.

What does the speaker suggest is a sign that a woman is very attracted to a man and has high interest in him?

A sign of high interest is when a woman leads with validation, such as giving compliments about the man's physical appearance, especially if she does so without an ego.

What advice does the speaker give to men about attracting women?

The speaker advises men to become the most attractive version of themselves to naturally attract women who are interested in them, rather than chasing after them.

What is the IAB training mentioned in the video, and how is it supposed to help men?

The IAB training is a program that has helped several men improve their attractiveness. It is suggested to help viewers maximize their looks and become more attractive to women.

What is the speaker's overall message regarding men's attractiveness and women's behavior?

The speaker's overall message is that understanding the signs of attraction can help men navigate their interactions with women more effectively, and that being genuinely attractive can simplify various aspects of life, including dating.

Outlines

00:00

😎 Signs of Attraction: Women's Behavior Towards Attractive Men

The speaker discusses six signs that indicate a man is attractive to women. He suggests that attractive men tend to have fewer female friends who are not attracted to them, as most of their female friends will show subtle signs of physical attraction. The speaker shares personal anecdotes from his high school and college years, where female friends made comments indicating their attraction. He explains that attractive men may not have many 'just friends' relationships with women, as women often harbor romantic or sexual interest, which can lead to intimate situations if the man expresses his feelings.

05:00

💋 Overt Attraction and Subtle Cues in Dating

This paragraph delves into how women act when they are highly attracted to men. The speaker notes that while women are generally subtle, they can become overt and direct in expressing their sexual attraction, especially if the man is their physical type. He mentions personal experiences where women have made direct advances or suggested intimacy. The speaker also touches on how women might try to escalate intimacy during dates or social gatherings, using subtle cues to indicate their interest.

10:03

😳 Intimidation and Insecurity: Women's Reactions to Attractiveness

The speaker talks about how attractiveness can intimidate women, leading them to feel nervous around men they find very attractive. He clarifies that this intimidation is actually a compliment, indicating that the woman is attracted and not sure how to act. The speaker shares that women might downplay a man's looks due to their own insecurities or past experiences, trying to protect themselves from getting hurt or appearing too eager. This behavior is more common in women with good intentions but who have been hurt before or are naturally more insecure.

15:04

🤔 The Reverse Rockstar Effect: Women's Mixed Approach to Attractive Men

In this section, the speaker describes the 'reverse Rockstar effect,' where women who are attracted to a man act differently to avoid seeming like all his other admirers. They might withhold compliments or validation initially to appear unique and not just another fan. The speaker suggests that as women get to know the man better, they may stop downplaying his attractiveness and start to compliment him more genuinely. He emphasizes the importance of being a cool, solid person, as women are more attracted to men with a good personality in addition to good looks.

👑 Leading with Validation: High Interest from Attracted Women

The final paragraph focuses on women who lead with validation when they are very attracted to a man. These women are confident and have no ego issues; they openly compliment the man's appearance and show high interest. The speaker shares examples of such interactions, both in person and online, and suggests that men who attract women in this way tend to have more success in dating and relationships. He concludes by advocating for men to become the best version of themselves to attract women who are genuinely interested.

Keywords

💡Attraction

Attraction in the context of the video refers to the physical or emotional appeal one person has for another, particularly in a romantic or sexual sense. The video discusses how women's behavior changes when they find a man attractive, such as being more overt in expressing their interest or feeling intimidated. For example, the speaker mentions that women may be more direct in their attraction towards an 'attractive man', indicating a willingness to escalate intimacy.

💡Friend Zone

The 'friend zone' is a concept where one person wants a romantic relationship, but the other person only sees them as a friend. The video suggests that attractive men often do not have many female friends who are not attracted to them, implying that the dynamic of 'friend zone' is less common because women are more likely to be interested in them romantically. The speaker notes that women might make subtle suggestions or showcase signs of attraction, indicating they are willing to move beyond friendship.

💡Intimidation

Intimidation, as used in the video, refers to the feeling of being nervous or overwhelmed in the presence of someone who is highly attractive. The speaker explains that when women find a man intimidating, it's often because they are very attracted to him and unsure of how to act around him. This is seen as a positive sign for the man, indicating that he is perceived as highly attractive.

💡Validation

Validation in this context means the act of confirming or approving something, often used to describe the need for reassurance or recognition. The video discusses how some women may withhold validation or compliments initially to not appear too eager or to keep a man's ego in check. However, women who are very attracted may lead with validation, openly complimenting the man's appearance, indicating a high level of interest.

💡Ego

Ego, in the video, refers to a person's self-esteem or self-importance. The speaker mentions that some women may try to keep a man's ego in check by downplaying his attractiveness, especially in the early stages of getting to know him. This is done to avoid seeming overly eager or to manage their own insecurities. The video implies that a man with a healthy ego, who doesn't come across as arrogant, is more attractive to women.

💡Overt

Overt in the video is used to describe actions or behaviors that are openly and directly expressed. The speaker notes that women who are very attracted to a man may be more overt in showing their attraction, such as making direct comments about his appearance or suggesting intimate activities. This is contrasted with more subtle or indirect behaviors that might be expected in less attracted individuals.

💡Insecurity

Insecurity, as discussed in the video, refers to a lack of confidence or a feeling of vulnerability, often stemming from past experiences or self-doubt. The speaker mentions that some women may downplay a man's attractiveness due to their own insecurities, as a way to protect themselves emotionally or to avoid appearing too eager. This behavior is seen as a sign of attraction, albeit one that is more complex and nuanced.

💡Physical Type

Physical type in the video refers to the specific physical characteristics or appearance that an individual finds attractive. The speaker suggests that if a man is a woman's 'physical type', she is more likely to be attracted to him and may exhibit more overt signs of attraction. This concept is used to explain why some women might be more direct or more subtle in their expressions of attraction based on their personal preferences.

💡Reverse Rockstar Effect

The 'Reverse Rockstar Effect' is a term coined in the video to describe a situation where women are attracted to a man but act in a way that downplays their interest to avoid seeming like all the other admirers. They may withhold compliments or validation initially to appear unique and not just another fan. The speaker explains that this behavior is a sign of attraction but also a strategy to stand out and to not give the man the upper hand in the dynamic.

💡Compliments

Compliments in this video are positive remarks or praise given to someone, often about their appearance or qualities. The speaker discusses how women who are very attracted to a man may lead with compliments as a form of validation, indicating their interest and attraction. However, some women may withhold compliments initially as a strategy to not inflate the man's ego or to appear less interested than they are.

Highlights

Discusses the six signs that indicate you're attractive to women.

Recommends a free IAB training for maximizing looks and attracting women.

Sign one: Women can't be just friends with you due to physical attraction.

Attractive men often have female friends who are subtly attracted to them.

Women may make comments indicating they find you attractive even as friends.

Attractive men are often perceived as more than just friends by women.

Sign two: Women are more overt and direct about their attraction.

Highly attracted women may escalate sexually in subtle ways.

Direct approaches from women indicate strong physical attraction.

Sign three: Women find you intimidating due to your attractiveness.

Intimidation is a sign of high attraction and nervousness around you.

Sign four: Some women downplay your looks due to their insecurities.

Insecurities can lead women to minimize the importance of physical attractiveness.

Sign five: The 'Reverse Rockstar Effect' where women act differently to stand out.

Women may withhold compliments to not seem like all your other admirers.

Sign six: Women who lead with validation are highly attracted and confident.

Leading with validation indicates high interest and attraction.

Encourages men to become the most attractive version of themselves to attract women.

Transcripts

what's going on bro so in this video I'm

going to be talking about the six signs

that you're actually attractive to women

and I'm going to be talking about how

women will treat you based on the sick

signs when you are actually a handsome

and attractive man now with that being

said before we do hop into those six

signs if you want extra help when it

comes to maximizing your looks becoming

the most attractive version of yourself

and attracting the woman that you desire

to you then I would highly suggest that

you check out my free IAB training I'll

have a link down below in the

description in the pin comment IAB has

helped several men achieve this so I'm

very confident it's going to help you as

well definitely check that out after

this video so with that being said let's

go ahead and let's hop into the six

signs man sign number one is that women

can't be friends with you here's the

thing when you are an attractive man

you're not going to have too many female

friends around and you're going to see

that most of your female friends are

going to be physically attracted to you

if they're not in relationships as well

or some even if they are relationships

that doesn't mean that they're still not

fing you physically I'm just going to be

honest but what you're going to see is

that when you have female friends around

you you're going to find that most of

the times they're going to be very

subtle about their attraction towards

you and I'll give you a couple examples

so when I had more female friends when I

was younger more so in high school

towards like junior year into my senior

year and then a little bit after that I

had a few female friends that I would

kick it with on a consistent basis and

they've made comments saying like how I

was their typee or they would say things

like oh Jordan if we weren't friends I'd

be nervous to talk to you stuff like

that and I've even heard a couple of

people that were mutual friends with my

female friends in the past those mutual

friends of ours I've heard from those

people that some of my female friends

thought I was sexy or that I was fine so

when it comes to having female friends

as an attractive man what you're going

to find is that really if you were to be

the one that expressed your feelings or

attraction towards them or maybe you

guys were hanging out and maybe it was

at party or maybe you guys went out or

whatever the case is and you you are in

a more you know intimate setting things

could transpire from that right if your

female friends are physically attracted

to you which more than likely will be

the case if you are actually an

attractive man and this is why I believe

that when it comes to men and women

being friends most of the time I don't

believe men and women can be friends cuz

usually it's the dude that is just

trying to be friends with the woman

because he's just trying to secretly get

with her and trying to scheme on the low

and trying to strategize and all this

right but not many times do we

hear about how it's the reverse like

when you are an attractive man it's

really women who are friends with you

they may not actively try to get out of

the friend zone with you that's more

more so something that men do but they

will make subtle suggestions or they

will showcase more subtle signs that

they are attracted to you or maybe

something between you two can transpire

it just really depends on the context

they're very subtle about these things

but nevertheless they would be more than

happy to get out of the friend zone with

you if you were to be the one that

expressed your feelings towards them and

you made a move so that's sign number

one moving on to sign number two is that

women will be more overt and just

overall direct with their attraction

towards you now not every woman is going

to be like this but when you are a

woman's exact physical type and she's

highly attracted to you she will be

overt about her sexual attraction for

you and most of the time women are going

to be more subtle they are going to be

more indirect but from my personal

experience I found that if you really do

it for her on a physical level and you

are her exact type A lot of times

they're going to be more overt and

direct and I've noticed that this is

also going to be dependent on their

personalities like they're more

extroverted or just more outgoing

they'll be more likely to do this but

most of the time even if they are an

extrovert or introvert it really doesn't

matter that much they're more on the

indirect side but don't be surprised

that if you are an actual handsome and

attract a man and you get with women

maybe you meet them off of dating apps

social media in person however that

happens some of these women are going to

be a lot more overt and direct right

they're going to be overt and direct

about their attraction for you and

here's something that dudes need to

understand man and I know some of you

aren't going to like this but it is the

truth is that when you're really that

dude for women a lot of times they will

try to sexually escalate on you a lot of

times they will right and these can be

very subtle ways that they do it let's

say you're on a date with a girl or

you're just kicking it with her

somewhere let's say like at a bar or

lounge and she tries to say something

like hey you want to go back to my place

or hey we can go back to my place or hey

what are you doing later what else do

you have going on for the rest of the

night those are very subtle cues that

that woman wants to spend more time with

you and be intimate with you again

depending on the context right but those

are very subtle ways that women will try

to start to begin the process of you

guys really escalating towards Intimacy

in other scenarios like with this

message right here you know this was a

message from a woman I was matched up

with on hinge not too long ago she said

I want you to use that Greek god body on

me all night athletic s3x like we're

giving each other a workout like

sometimes it can be this directing over

not all the time but it can definitely

happen and even from the standpoint of

women approaching you you'll have some

women that will approach you in person

if you are really an attractive man in

their eyes and again you are their ideal

type they won't mind being direct and

approaching you and letting you know

that they find you attractive or that

they have the hots for you or whatever

right I've had that told to me as far as

women approaching me and saying that

they've had the hots for me and I didn't

even know who they were you know what

I'm saying and they don't really care

about getting rejected just because

they're that attracted to you and they

want to shoot their shot so that's sign

number two is that women will be more

overt and direct about their attraction

towards you moving on to number three is

that they're intimidated by you women

tell you that you are intimidating so if

women find you attractive you're often

going to hear how you're intimidating to

them and for the longest time I thought

this was bad I thought wasn't a

compliment or anything like this but

it's actually a good thing if they say

this because what they're really saying

is that when they tell you that you're

intimidating they really just mean that

they're nervous around you because

you're that attractive to them they

don't really know how to respond or act

around you because they're just not used

to being around men of your caliber if

they find you that attractive and you

know they'll say this if they're not

only not used to being around men that

look like you but if they're not used to

being around men that they're highly

attracted to that's when you're also

going to get this like it's not just

about being around good-look men but

like it's more so about if she's very

highly attracted to you and you are her

ideal type on top of that you know what

I'm saying and I'm just going to be

honest if they're saying stuff like this

if women are saying that they're

intimidated by you they do think that

you're more attractive than them that

that's just what it is they think that

you're more attractive than them they

think that your smv is higher because

why would they be intimidated by you if

they thought that they were more

attractive than you basically or if you

guys were on the same level you know

what I'm saying I've been with women

that have told me that they thought they

were like a seven or eight and then they

told me that I was a nine or a 10 and

when you're really that dude you're very

attractive to her and you are her

physical type you're going to get things

like oh you intimidate me a little bit

or you make me nervous those things it's

just because you're very attractive they

don't really know how to contain

themselves act around you they're just

not used to being around a man like

yourself every day so that's sign number

three is that you are going to be

intimidating to them but this is

actually a good thing so moving on to

number four is that you'll have some

women that will downplay your look so

some of the women that you will come

across will downplay your looks and this

is more so from women who are insecure

or more so women who actually have like

good Hearts like they have they actually

have good Hearts they're good people and

the sense of like when they get with a

certain man they're going to be off for

that man they're going to love on that

man care for that man but those type of

women have been hurt in the past so

therefore they've had to have more of a

hardened shell but some women are just

going to be insecure and just try to

downplay your looks even though they are

attracted to you they're going to try to

make it known that your attractiveness

and and your handsome look and all those

things aren't that big of a deal to her

she's going to make it seem like you're

just another handsome dude as if there's

attractive Men by the Dozen right which

there isn't just from an objective

standpoint of men not putting in the

work on themselves and becoming the best

version of themselves there's not really

that many dudes like that you can see 12

beautiful women in a day but you're not

going to see a dude who looks like he

takes care of himself like that you're

not going to see that that easily but

women are going to make it seem like

they're constantly coming across

handsome men every day as far as like

some of the women that are going to try

to downplay your looks they're going to

try to act like that or they may say

some like oh looks don't really matter

like that they're not that important

you're going to hear little silly stuff

like that which is obviously not true

and the reason why women are going to

try to do this man some women will try

to do this not all but some women will

try to do this is that they want to try

to keep your ego in check because

especially if you guys are just meeting

for the first time or you guys are

starting to get to know each other she

doesn't know you like that she doesn't

know your personality women are just

going to assume that you are a player

they're going to assume that you're

cocky that you're arrogant that that

you're better than everyone else and if

they have more insecurity Within them

they're going to try to knock you down

off a pedestal they're going to try to

knock you down off your pedestal they're

going to try to Humble you even when

you're being a cool and solid dude and

that's really the cheat code as a

handsome attractive man really you

should be a cool solid dude regardless

but if you want to be able to be more

successful with women as a handsome

attractive man because you have to

understand at the same point a lot of

women are going to have their guards up

they're going to have negative and

positive assumptions of you right just

based on dealing with handsome and

attractive men in their past social

conditioning as far as how they see

handsome and attractive men excuse me

portrayed in the TV shows and the movies

and media all those things entertainment

they're going to think that you're going

to be this cocky arrogant dude and that

you're going to car yourself like you're

better than everyone else and better

than her so that's why you're going to

have some women that are going to try to

downplay your looks but you'll notice

that as they get to know you more not

only will they stop doing all this but

then they'll actually start to

compliment you more validate you in the

of just talking about how attractive you

are all those things but just don't be

surprised if you come across some of

these women that just they'll try to

downplay your looks and really if

they're doing this they're very

attracted to you that's the thing that's

why they're also doing this is because

they're also very attracted to you but

in order for them to say face contain

themselves not appear thirsty or

whatever they're going to try to

downplay your looks and keep your ego in

check so that's sign number four is that

some women will sometimes downplay your

looks now moving on to number five I

call this the reverse Rockstar effect I

don't know that's just the name that

came to me so I'm going to roll with it

but this is the reverse Rockstar effect

so this is when you'll have certain

women that will look at you almost like

a rock star like oh my gosh like this

guy he's very attractive he's very

handsome but she doesn't want to come

off like every other fan of yours right

basically meaning she doesn't want to

come off or portray herself like every

other woman that she perceives are just

throwing themselves at you there are

just chasing you there blowing up your

phone blowing up your inbox on in

Instagram dating apps Etc like she's

highly attracted to you but she just

wants to appear different she wants to

appear different than all the other

women she doesn't want to give you that

edge as far as oh yeah like I got

another woman like I got her wrapped

around my finger women don't want that

type of hold from a man right like they

don't want a man to have that type of

hold that type of control over them

right and what you're going to see is

that with some of these women you're

going to be able to tell that she's

attracted to you based on how she's

speaking to you based on the fact that

she's making herself available to you

she's willing to see you but you're also

going to see that some of these women

are going to be more likely to withhold

validation and compliments about your

looks at first when they're still

getting to know you when they're still

trying to get to know your personality

see if you are a cool dude if you're

more down to earth and chill like you're

not even though you may be a handsome

attractive man you're not this dude who

thinks he's better than everyone else

and is cocky and arrogant when they see

okay like not only is he attractive but

he's actually a cool dude he's solid he

has a good personality cuz personality

does matter it matters in the sense

where they still want to be able to Vibe

with you they still want to if they're

going to spend time with you from more

so a long-term perspective right women

want to be with handsome attractive men

that are like good solid dudes and again

that's more so for like the longterm if

it's more of a short-term thing they

don't really care about that but for

more of a long-term perspective they're

definitely going to be checking for that

personality and again you'll find that

some of these women are going to do

their best to withhold the valid

validation the compliments about your

looks at first because they're still

trying to get to know you they're still

trying to figure you out and they don't

want to blow your head up that's the

biggest thing that I've been told is

women will give me compliments but

they'll be like I don't want to say too

much cuz I don't want to blow your head

up and I'm like no like you're not going

to blow my head up like it's cool you

know what I mean cuz the thing is

especially for us men let's just be

honest we like having our ego stroked I

don't care what anyone says we all like

having our ego stroked by women so like

really it's it's only going to be

helping them but but of course like you

got to car yourself like a good solid

dude you got to be mature man don't act

like an arrogant there's no need

to be doing that there's no need to do

that when the woman's already feeling

you and being attracted to you see dudes

who try to put on that fake Alpha

Persona they know they're operating from

a place of a deficit they know the woman

isn't really feeling them like that

that's why they have to do all those

little Antics and but also keep in

mind man that some of these women they

may delay intimate acts with you as a

byproduct at first just because again

they don't want to throw themselves at

you they don't want to be quick to give

it to you because they want to portray

themselves in a different light because

they are highly attrac to but again they

don't want to just seem like every other

girl they don't want to come off like

every other fan you know what I'm saying

so that's sign number five the reverse

Rockstar effect and then the sixth and

final sign is that you will have women

that will lead with validations women

when they're very attracted to you

they're very feminine very sweet they do

have more confidence to them they will

lead with validation right and this just

usually comes in a form of a compliment

about your physical appearance and this

can take either in person Andor online

and what I found men is that women who

lead with validation usually have no ego

to them and they have high interest in

you like they want you to know that they

find you physically attractive like they

have no problem letting you know they

have no problem stroking your ego

because they are highly attracted to you

and they are into you like for this

screenshot right here this was on hinge

and then this woman very beautiful very

attractive had to blur her face out of

course but she said okay King hello you

know what I mean so like they will come

correct man they will come correct and

have no problem letting you know that

they find you physically attractive

because they have high interest in you

and again this can be in person Andor

online and I've always just seen the

most success with women in terms of

meeting up with them things transpiring

to intimacy all those things

relationships all that I've seen that

the women that voluntarily compliment me

let me know that they found me attracted

Ive and just had no ego to him and and

didn't mind pursuing me at all I've

always had the best success with those

type of women which is why I always

Advocate to men to become the most

attractive version of themselves and be

the man that attracts women that want

them to them because you're going to

have an easier time when you can attract

and you're not chasing when you're the

man that can attract your life in

general not just dating but your life in

general is just going to be so much

easier so with that being said man again

if you want extra help when it comes to

maximizing your looks becoming the most

attractive version of yourself and

attracting the woman that you desire

then again I would highly suggest that

you check out my free I training I'll

have it linked Down Below in the

description and the pin comment with

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