“Self Improvement Starts With You” ft. K.Shami
Summary
TLDREn este vídeo, K Shami, un influidor en línea especializado en auto mejora, comparte su experiencia en la transformación personal y cómo ha evolucionado su enfoque de 'looks maxing' a auto mejora. Habla sobre la importancia de la paciencia y la consistencia en el proceso de cambio, y desafía la idea del 'píltimo negro', una filosofía que atribuye el éxito y el fracaso únicamente a factores fuera del control personal. K Shami también discute la monetización de su nicho y ofrece consejos prácticos para los jóvenes que buscan mejorar su apariencia y su vida en general, enfatizando la importancia de la acción y la creatividad.
Takeaways
- 😀 El entrevistado comenzó con una cuenta de 'thir trap' en Internet y luego se transformó en un influidor de estilo de vida y auto-mejora.
- 📈 Después de ser expulsado de una plataforma, él regresó y consiguió 100,000 seguidores, mostrando su capacidad para reinventarse y crecer.
- 🌟 Se dio cuenta de que muchas personas estaban perdidas en cuanto a transformaciones personales, lo que lo motivó a compartir consejos y rutinas de auto-mejora.
- 📱 Actualmente tiene más de 1.7 millones de seguidores en una de sus cuentas de TikTok, lo que demuestra su impacto en la comunidad en línea.
- 🤝 Crea un espacio de comunidad llamado 'M words', donde ofrece más consejos y se enfoca en el mejoramiento personal a través de interacciones directas.
- 💸 Considera que el auto-mejora es un nicho monetizable y tiene un impacto positivo en las personas, lo que lo hace sentir satisfecho moralmente con su trabajo.
- 👎 Critica la mentalidad de la 'looks maxing', argumentando que la cirugía no es la solución para todos y que la mejora en la apariencia no es todo.
- 📚 No recomienda libros específicos para el auto-mejora, sino que enfatiza la importancia de la consistencia y el desarrollo personal directo.
- 🔄 Expresa su desacuerdo con la filosofía del 'black pill', que se centra en factores fuera del control del individuo, en lugar de en el crecimiento personal.
- 💼 Aboga por la importancia de la educación financiera y la literacia monetaria, especialmente para los jóvenes, y ofrece consejos sobre cómo empezar a generar ingresos.
Q & A
¿Cómo comenzó su camino en las redes sociales y qué tipo de contenido compartía inicialmente?
-Comenzó hace unos tres años con una cuenta de estilo 'thirst trap' en la que compartía citas y contenido no muy relacionable, y rápidamente obtuvo un gran seguimiento de mujeres. Después de ser expulsado de la plataforma, volvió y reconstruyó su seguimiento, llegando a tener más de 1.7 millones de seguidores en una de sus cuentas de TikTok.
¿Qué cambió en su enfoque al crear contenido y por qué?
-Después de que su audiencia notó su 'glow up', comenzó a dar consejos sobre rutinas de mejoramiento personal y a motivar a la paciencia, lo que lo llevó a convertirse en una figura de autoridad en el ámbito de la auto mejora.
¿Qué es M words y cómo se relaciona con su comunidad?
-M words es una comunidad escolar en la que él brinda más consejos y realiza sesiones de consejería individual. También tienen videos de auto mejora, lo que demuestra su compromiso con el crecimiento personal y la mejora de la comunidad.
¿Cómo describe el cambio en su audiencia y cómo ha影响了 su contenido?
-Ha experimentado un cambio completo en su audiencia, pasando de atraer principalmente a mujeres a tener un impacto en hombres, lo que ha llevado a una transición en su contenido hacia el ámbito de la auto mejora.
¿Qué piensa sobre la moralidad de su trabajo actual en comparación con su pasado en 'looks maxing'?
-Considera que su trabajo actual es más gratificante moralmente ya que no solo se ocupa de sí mismo sino que también ayuda a otros, lo que es un aspecto monetizable y tiene un impacto positivo en las personas.
¿Cómo ve el ambiente actual del nicho de 'looks maxing' y cómo ha cambiado?
-Cree que siempre ha habido un enfoque negativo en el nicho, pero con la popularidad de TikTok, se está viendo un lado más positivo, aunque el contenido negativo todavía se filtra a través de la plataforma.
¿Qué consejo le da a aquellos que sienten que la cirugía es la única opción para mejorar su apariencia?
-Aconseja que la cirugía no debería ser la primera opción y que la mejora en la apariencia puede lograrse a través de pequeños cambios y mejoras en la rutina de vida, en lugar de recurrir a cambios permanentes que no se pueden deshacer.
¿Cuáles fueron algunos de los recursos que utilizó para su propio viaje de auto mejora?
-Menciona que leían libros de mentalidad, pero enfatiza que la clave para su éxito fue la consistencia, no rendirse y trabajar en mejorar su carácter más allá de las redes sociales.
¿Cómo ha cambiado su vida personalmente a través de la auto mejora y no solo en términos de redes sociales?
-La auto mejora ha cambiado su vida en todos los aspectos, desde cómo es tratado por los demás hasta su propia actitud y trato hacia los demás. También ha aprendido a ser paciente con el tiempo y a apreciar el cambio natural en su apariencia.
¿Qué importancia le da a la educación financiera y cómo cree que los jóvenes pueden aprender sobre dinero?
-Cree que es más importante aprender a gastar y reinvertir dinero que simplemente ganarlo. Aconseja a los jóvenes encontrar algo que disfruten hacer y ser consistentes, también sugiere ser un intermediario para ganar dinero, aprovechando servicios existentes y comercializandolos.
Outlines
😀 Introducción y evolución en internet
El entrevistado comienza hablando sobre su identidad en línea y personal, mencionando su inicio en internet como un perfil no muy relacionable y su crecimiento hasta alcanzar más de 1.7 millones de seguidores en TikTok. Expresa su satisfacción por evolucionar de un 'thir trap account' a un influencidor en mejora personal, y habla sobre su comunidad 'M words', donde ofrece consejos y motivación en transformaciones personales.
💡 Importancia de la auto mejora y la mentalidad
Discute la diferencia entre la validación a corto plazo que ofrece el 'trapping' y la satisfacción a largo plazo que proviene de la mejora personal. El entrevistado aboga por la mejora en lugar de recurrir a cirugías estéticas, a menos que sea realmente necesario. Destaca la importancia de la consistencia y el desarrollo del carácter más allá de las plataformas sociales.
👨💼 Perspectivas sobre el éxito y la apariencia
El entrevistado reflexiona sobre cómo la mejora en la apariencia puede cambiar la forma en que uno se siente y se trata a los demás, y cómo la atención que recibe ha cambiado. Explora la filosofía del 'pilar negro', una visión pesimista que atribuye el éxito o el fracaso únicamente a factores fuera del control personal, y cómo esto puede ser una forma de afrontar la realidad de manera limitada.
💼 Mejores prácticas para la juventud en auto mejora y financiamiento
Se da consejo a los jóvenes sobre la importancia de la inversión y el reinvestment de dinero, y se sugiere ser un intermediario en servicios en línea como una forma de generar ingresos. El entrevistado anima a la acción y a perseguir ideas creativas, a pesar de los desafíos y la competencia, destacando la importancia de aprovechar la juventud para la innovación y el desarrollo personal.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Auto mejora
💡Glow up
💡Comunidad
💡Auto promoción
💡TikTok
💡Transformación
💡Mentira de la pildora negra
💡Consistencia
💡Finanzas personales
💡Servicios en línea
Highlights
个人转型经历分享:从社交媒体上的'thir trap'账户到拥有1.7百万粉丝的自我提升影响者。
K Shami's Psycho的起源:从被平台封禁到重建粉丝基础,再到成为自我提升领域的知名人物。
M Words社区介绍:一个专注于提供自我提升建议和一对一指导的付费社区。
关于自我提升的道德观:从追求短期认可到长期影响和帮助他人。
对外貌提升领域的看法:如何从负面转向积极,以及媒体对此领域的报道。
外貌提升与心理健康:如何帮助那些认为自己无法再提升外貌的人。
手术与自我提升:为什么手术不应该是改善外貌的唯一选择。
个人成长经历:从阅读心态书籍到社交媒体上的自我提升。
自我提升对个人生活的影响:外貌改变如何影响社交互动和自我认知。
关于'黑药丸'哲学的讨论:为什么它是一种消极的生活态度。
如何帮助年轻的追随者:提供指导和支持,以及如何平衡外貌提升与其他生活方面。
财务知识的重要性:如何教育年轻人关于金钱和投资的知识。
成为中间人的商业策略:如何通过提供服务和赚取佣金来赚钱。
行动的重要性:不要只是计划和梦想,而是要采取行动。
对年轻追随者的建议:不要因为外貌提升而忽视生活的其他方面。
结束语:感谢参与采访,并鼓励观众继续关注和支持。
Transcripts
all right so can we get a quick little
introduction about who you are about who
I am is it the side of me that's on the
Internet or is it me as a person let's
give us the side that's on internet
first and then who you are as a person
so that's probably what everyone knows
me by the Pres that I have on the
internet um I started a couple years ago
about three years ago I was a bit about
like a thir trap account not really
relatable quotes and whatnot and I had a
huge girl following and then I got
booted off the platform
so then I went back on I didn't give up
and I built about 100,000 followers with
of girls again and then people realized
that I had a bit of a glow up and so did
I and so I realized that a lot of people
were actually misled and they're a bit
lost when it comes to how to go about
the Transformations so I started
Shilling out advice routines and whatnot
and motivating those to be patient with
time and here we are today with over 1.7
million right now in one of my Tik Tok
accounts and another one where I just
like should post yeah people know me by
k shami s psycho um K shami is just Kim
shami just the K being you know my first
name being
abbreviated but um yeah now I run a
little Community called M wordss it's a
school Community where I actually shut
out way more advice and I'm doing one-on
ones and whatnot and we have videos like
this where we're talking about
self-improvement um and yeah I continue
to S shell out advice on my um main
account as well but it is a bit slowing
down trying to get back into it so seems
like you had a you know b a little
little bit of adversity feels like you
changed up your algorithm feels like you
changed up your audience did a complete
180 from girls to guys but do you feel
like this is more rewarding morally to
you morally um well if my morals consist
of making money or just enjoying the
process of what I'm doing yes uh there
trapping gets you like the short-term
validation but in reality you're not
really doing it that people won't
remember you so as cringe as it is I'm
glad that people remember me by
something like this like being in a
self- Aban Niche is a very um it's a
monetizable niche and it's something
that's get impact on people as well so
not only am I taking care of myself but
I'm taking care of others honestly I
feel like looks maxers being titled of
that is honestly probably one of the
most embarrassing things ever cuz you
aren't even you you slow got away from
being titled the looks maxer now you're
like more of a self-improvement guru
what would you say about the current
atmosphere of the looks maxing Niche I
think it's always been this way it's
always been just this negative Sphere
for the majority of because look people
they pay more attention to the negative
aspect of things rather than the
positive things um I know this because
I'm Middle Eastern if you look at the
news coverage in Syria it's like all
these negative things but I see it as
more so neutral of course there's like
some f happening over there but like
it's the same thing with looks maxing
people pay attention more to the
negative stuff the starve maxing
especially like the news outlets the
interviews that I've done they always
ask you about these little things that
are you know not really representing the
whole Niche so in reality looks maxing
has a good side and the bad side and
it's been like this for decad or like
the past decade because it was on here
before Tik Tok and now that it's on Tik
Tok you're seeing this I I would say
you're seeing more positive side to it
because the negative stuff is always
like filtered through but even that gets
through and um
yeah you have to negate that and realize
that looks maxing of itself is just
improving any aspect of the way you
look it does not represent the black the
black see a lot of the guys in looks Max
singer they reach a point where they
think they can't improve anymore and
their only option is surgery and a lot
of that really comes down to the mental
aspect of things it's not really
physical they don't actually need
surgery how would
you help that mentality well a lot of
people think that surgery is going to be
the solution for their issues when in
reality that's like
0.00001% of people um if it gets you
confidence sure but the likelihood of it
actually turning out natural looking and
the way you want it to is it people
think it's like um I've heard someone
say this like it's um a grocery shopping
list where you literally just take that
list and go get things done and suddenly
you Chad it's not how it works at all
rather you have to be 100% sure what
you're about to change and little
refinement can actually change every
aspect that you face for instance people
get rhin opacity to put their side
profile and they sacrifice their fun
profile which is like a very dumb move
people that have done that um and like
for instance with surgery it's
um you're going to change it it's going
to help you and then you're going to
find something else that you want to
change as well so it's like a never
ending cycle at the end of the day I'm
all for self-improvement but surg Sur
surgery is going to be like a permanent
change that you can't undo um so I would
say experiment do the best that you can
without surgery and see if you can COPE
in another way because whether it be
money or people that around you it's
much better than actually going about
that route especially if you can't
afford it were there any resources that
you used along your journey that got you
to where you are right now sitting in
that
seat you're talking about resources like
books right um you know there's a lot of
mindset books that I've read but to get
to where I'm at you actually have to
like be on that you have to actually
focus on improving yourself and then
working on these other facets in your
life no book is going to do that for you
I can't give you a title that's going to
reflect exactly where I'm at or even
like a list of books doesn't work that
way those people that make those books
do it for a reason one reason alone to
make money
so it's too too broad every person is
different and the way that they can grow
not everyone has to end up being looks
maxer or someone as a self-improvement
so it's hard it's hard for me to tell
you what I did but really um apart from
resources to get to where I'm at today
it was consistency it was not giving up
it was um building my character aside
from social media and then reading that
through social media of course there's
other things that I wish I could post
about like um studying habits and things
that are about my personality and
etiquette and what not but it's hard to
do so with something so so shallow
especially with like looks maxing being
in Trend that's what I have to hone in
on that's what I have credentials for
right now so in the future of course I
will change things up but right now yeah
when I when I started like the niche
that I had it was only neck up you know
it was only skin deep and I realized a
lot of these guys there is no way you
can change their mentality out of this
right but it's like if you can invade
this Niche and pull as many people as
you can out of it and help them you're
doing more for you're doing more for him
than you even know so hey good on you
bro me over to this next question now
how has we don't want to call it looks
maxing but how has self-improvement
changed you your life
personally well obviously obviously it
changed everything but I mean like you
how did you feel aside from social media
and my whole life shifted entirely um
and I'll tell you this you get used to
the way people treat you once you look
much
better and it changes the way you are
like the way you act and the way you
treat other people the you attracted to
the way you act like it's just it's a
game changer so my
transformation when I look back at my
older photos I'm like there's no way
that's really like there's no way now of
course I was younger before like I don't
just teach people that they can improve
where they're at but also that they
should be patient um because T does this
thing and you have to realize that your
face is not going to look the way it
does all the time it's going to change
with time so I don't know if it's
because of like nowadays it'sit harder
for me to decide for whether or not it's
my appearance or because of social media
because I get recognize now with like
people that I talk to and I don't know
you know what I mean it's a bit hard
to decipher between status and actually
the appearance that I've been so um but
I still look back to when I first had my
glob and it was G like I'm telling you I
hadn't gotten a single compliment for a
gr before my go oh man and when my goow
was happening was during Co so it was no
social interaction so it wasn't like it
was slowly you know slowly getting
compliment no I was like nothing it was
dead and then
suddenly they're infatuated by me I was
like what the [ __ ] like it made sense it
madees sense and it makes you really
want on theep black pill but um I have
my own pill I don't I don't believe in
it entirely just for everybody watching
the black pill is basically in a series
of pills the blue pill the red pill and
the black pill right the blue and the
red pill are more common as they're just
more sane ways of thinking about it the
red pill is like oh this girl doesn't
like me so let me go to the gym let me
get a better personality let me change
the things that I can to get better blue
pillow is just like yeah Del like me for
me exactly and then black pill is
honestly the worst that you could ever
pick it's literally like all the reasons
she likes me or doesn't like me is
because of things I cannot change so
it's just over it's not even just girls
it's tra it's a it's a philosophy that
applies to everything in life why do you
work the job that you work it's because
of the black why do you you know it's
just everything everything um and I
think that's more concerning cuz you
know the girl stuff it makes a bit more
sense like okay they're shallow
sometimes
yeah especially at this young age you're
going to have people going for looks but
about everything else it's insane to
claim that your whole life is dictated
by specifically one thing and its looks
and that's all that matters they don't
understand this here's here's what the
argument is this um the argument is this
if you look good you're going to get M
they believe that if you look really
really good I'm talking of time you're
going to get demod you're going to get
money something's going to come along
the way that's not going to make you
poor so a guy if you ask the black pill
would you rather be this mid person
who's who's rich just a family that's
you know stability they're going to
choose that Chad and the argument is
that because that Chad is going to end
up making money and being you know this
big person a celebrity but the my
argument is this there's so many
goodlooking people out there that don't
make it and you don't know this because
they don't make it like how are you
supposed to know that these really go to
the streets of like I don't know um
Seattle look at the the the addicts on
the street they're goodlook there's
something that goes wrong um with the
black pillar and it's their ideology
it's confirmation bias it makes them
feel better knowing that they can
pinpoint one specific thing in their
life it's and this looks that's the I I
love the way you explain that because it
really does explain the black pill like
it it literally shows you how even
though there are thousands maybe even
hundreds of thousands of things that you
could actually change in your life and
go strive towards you just blocked it
all out and you decided to focus on one
little thing that's what the black pill
is it's like the ultimate cope it's so
easy traic to to look at one little
thing and say that's why she doesn't
like me that's why I got fir from my job
because I'm not six foot or some stupid
you know what I mean it it's it's
comforting it's actually comforting to
to to think that it's actually the world
not your it's not you I I believe that
it's a mixture right um You can't be
completely hideous and expect to pull a
b like I'm just saying like you need to
realize it's a mix of package as a
person you multiple things and you want
of one of those things is your looks
which you can easily refine just a
little bit inov there and then
everything else with these other
qualities that you must have you can't
have one the
other so I recently started a
self-improvement era right it's a little
Discord group where all the guys that
are trying to find a non-toxic place to
improve can just come in chat with each
other talk about what they found talk
about what they discovered and I found a
couple of you know Road bumps along that
way and hasn't been over two weeks and
we already amassed around 600 plus
members so what that came with was a lot
of trolls it came with a lot of trolls
it came with a lot more problems than I
thought it would just how the community
was going to react with each other but I
want to know how MOG wordss was because
you had 10 times the amount of people so
I want to know how that
was
surprisingly out of thousands of members
only one person
one person and I have a I used to have a
team of moderators we don't even need
that anymore because everyone was just
so positive if you go to the feed
actually there might be some filtration
system with the platform that I use so I
don't use Discord um but even then
like it's not an issue at all and I
think I think it's because it's paid to
enter it's not a free and that already
deters a lot of trolls immediately like
by 99% so
um unless your community is paid you're
going to see you're going to see trolls
because who would pay to
troll you're right honestly I've seen a
lot of literal 13-year-olds try and join
this community I asked the question like
why do you have a phone why do you have
this why is your parents All Those
Questions become irrelevant once you're
literally in front of the like the
13-year-old kid and he's joining your
your your M warts are joining my Discord
server it's like now it's like do you
just flip him off and because if you
flip him off he's going to he might end
up in a the wrong place you know what
I'm saying so it's like so I have I have
young users on my on my Mars as well um
I wouldn't say 13 I'm like 15 16 no 13's
kind of outrageous I'd be like yo delete
the Tik
Tok yeah know I'd speak with them um the
informational Mars is not it's really
helpful and it's like the any age and
it's like um I've catered it so that the
the sections where I talk about more in
depth about like these procedures I
really um I practice the age and I make
it very clear to the viewers it's all
video video content format so uh if
15-year-old is watching that video and
they're able to put together the
procedures and to go about it then I
applaud that person because it
impossible in AAL country to go get
surgery or whatever so the only bad
thing that a 13 can do is probably get
insecure uh gets a couple skare pods ber
skin that's the most happen bro if if
there's a 15-year-old looking to improve
he's he's better than I was I'll say
that I always remind them TR that they
shouldn't be too you know fixated on it
I tell them to just follow my
nutritional guide and to take things
with a grain of salt very lightly and I
go on these calls like these weekly
calls and I'm there and I comfort them a
little bit they they're missing on older
M like a brother or I guess a father
someone help them out with this little
thing that they have right lot of them
are dealing with little some of them
look really good they actually look like
amazing they have a craziest potential
like I've never looked like them when I
was 18 and they're like 15 and they
amazing so I have to just like remind
them of this so right now I want to ask
you
about how important is knowing how to
get money and what are some different
things that kids under 18 could do to
just get more financially literate or
learn about money I think I could
rephrase that for a little bit I would
say the importance of getting money
isn't as important as knowing how to
spend it if have to know how to reinvest
your money and how to SK up because if
you're just doing the same thing and
you're getting the same money just
consistently I mean you got stability is
great but at the same time you want to
build that up so it depends on what
you're doing right I can't give you
advice specifically um because I've been
blessed I've been I have this privilege
of being online and everything you know
of course there's a game of chance with
that but I would say consistency
practicing um figuring out something
that you actually enjoy doing because as
much as you are making money you want to
make sure that you're not um
demotivated um the best way to make
money especially if you're young and you
don't have anything to your name is
probably being a middleman find the
service and relay that market it for you
for them sorry the the third party that
you're working with and bring clients to
that third party and get a commission
out of that or add to the price and sell
it as your own service um that's one way
to go about it just post Tik toks um
Instagram find a way to Market it anyway
you can do posters Flyers um being a
middleman just makes it easier it's
basically Drop Shipping but you're Drop
Shipping a service now Drop Shipping is
very saturated unless you know how to
like if you have actual technical skills
that's breaking really shine but uh
nowadays definitely just going about
services online money is definitely the
best way to make money because it's
flexible you can go to school you don't
have to worry about certain things
there's no deadlines but
yeah really honing on your skills and
and believe in yourself and if it
doesn't work do something else don't
just sit out an idea and I hate people
that have an idea and they don't pursue
it they're like oh this would be such a
cool idea if I did this and that and
it's a realistic idea but then they sit
on it like why aren't you working on it
right now that is time you're never
going to get back when you're young you
don't have responsibilities you don't
have bills do you don't have anything
and then suddenly you kicked out in the
world and you have college and you have
bills doing and you're just like wow I
don't have time for these ideas anymore
and as you get older these ideas
innovations that you have in your mind
they just they disappear over time you
you won't get the same creativity that
you had when you were man yeah you're
doing a great job hey I I just recently
started I was like hey I have this
ability to make the money from the one
minute long videos why am I not making
one minute long videos and like actually
helping these kids and now it's like it
set me completely apart from everybody
else and I'm like luk who I'm on the
phone with you know what I'm saying just
after like a couple weeks of just
grinding for a little bit and I'm just
like just take action if that's this
shows you just take action like you can
plan all you want you can dream all you
want
but the guy that wins talk about bro I
had people talk about like starting a
business or whatever like starting like
a starting something and they go about
it so badly like oh I need to get an LLC
and then I have to pay this person for a
site and I have to do this and then I
have to work just start start with the
simple easy stuff and then go up they
always trying to take the biggest thing
out of how do I do ads when they don't
even have their together they don't even
have everything else and then they
realize that they have to spend money on
the ad and they're like I give up all
right K sham thanks for coming through
you know I know you had a busy schedule
thank you for making it anything you
wanna anything you want to leave the
fans with um well guys Trav is amazing
cont up there so I definitely recommend
you stay watching him and um yeah I mean
don't let don't let don't shy away from
something because of B maxing and don't
take it too deep it's just one aspect
one facet of life that you should perect
yeah thank you for having me on here tra
it's truly an honor and hopefully we'll
have another interview we'll check in
again and we'll see how this it does all
right hey man thank you and thank you
guys for watching peace out
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