Why Men Don’t Date Women For Love Anymore

JostenJ
19 Aug 202421:34

Summary

TLDRThe video script discusses societal dating norms and the complexities of modern relationships. It emphasizes the importance of self-worth and self-improvement over superficial attributes. The speaker, Justin Jay, critiques the dating scene, suggesting that men should prioritize personal growth and not be swayed by societal expectations or the pursuit of love for validation. He advocates for intelligent dating, where both parties bring value and respect to the relationship, rather than playing games or seeking superficial connections.

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  • 😀 The speaker emphasizes the value of being a 'nice guy' and questions why more women don't prioritize niceness in their dating choices.
  • 🤔 The script discusses societal expectations and the superficial criteria often used by both men and women when dating, such as looks and material possessions, rather than personal character.
  • 🙅‍♀️ It critiques the dating culture where women complain about bad experiences but still seem to seek partners based on external factors rather than kindness or respect.
  • 💼 The speaker suggests that men should focus on self-improvement and not solely on finding a partner, implying that personal growth can lead to more meaningful relationships.
  • 🛑 The video touches on the concept of 'courting' and how modern dating has moved away from traditional practices where men would pursue women with more effort and respect.
  • 🚶‍♂️ It highlights the idea that 'intelligent men' are choosing to 'opt-out' of dating games and instead focus on self-respect and self-worth, rather than seeking validation from others.
  • 🤝 The speaker advocates for a shift in dating dynamics, where both parties should show mutual respect and interest, rather than one-sided pursuit.
  • 💬 The script points out the hypocrisy in dating where people claim to want certain qualities in a partner but often pursue or respond to different ones.
  • 🔄 The video suggests that men are 'waking up' to the realization that they should seek partners who appreciate their true value, not just their appearance or status.
  • 👫 It implies that true attractiveness comes from a combination of external appearance and internal qualities, and that intelligent men understand this balance.
  • 🔄 The speaker concludes by encouraging men to continue building themselves up, implying that this self-improvement will naturally attract the right kind of partners.
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