3 Things You MUST DO on a First Date (Success Guaranteed)
Summary
TLDRThis dating advice video offers three essential steps for a successful date: initiating a warm greeting with physical touch and verbal intent to set the tone, incorporating multiple location changes throughout the date to create variety and opportunities for interaction, and escalating the connection every 20-30 minutes through verbal teasing, physical closeness, and logistical progression. The speaker emphasizes the importance of these techniques in building comfort, intimacy, and creating a memorable experience that can lead to a natural progression in the relationship.
Takeaways
- ๐ Start the date with a warm greeting and a hug to break the touch barrier and set a flirtatious tone.
- ๐ Maintain good eye contact and use a slow, low vocal tone to deliver compliments to create an emotional impact.
- ๐ถโโ๏ธ Incorporate multiple location changes throughout the date to keep the interaction dynamic and create opportunities for physical contact.
- ๐บ Choose seating arrangements that allow for closeness and ease of physical contact, rather than sitting across from each other at a distance.
- ๐ Use location changes as opportunities to lead and escalate the interaction, making the experience more memorable for both parties.
- ๐ Ensure there are incremental bursts of escalation every 20 to 30 minutes, including verbal, physical, and logistical aspects.
- ๐ฌ Inject teasing, flirting, and verbal intent regularly to maintain and build attraction and intimacy.
- ๐ค Practice the delivery of compliments and interactions to improve confidence and ensure they come across naturally and effectively.
- ๐ก Understand that the goal of a date is not just to have a friendly conversation but to create a romantic connection and intimacy.
- ๐ Create multiple memories by visiting different locations, which strengthens the connection and comfort between the two individuals.
- ๐ Apply these techniques to organically build towards a natural conclusion of the date, such as a kiss or a second date.
Q & A
What are the three key steps suggested for a successful date?
-The three key steps are: 1) The vibe check, which involves a warm greeting with physical touch and verbal intent at the start of the date. 2) Location changes and positioning throughout the date to avoid an interview-like atmosphere and create opportunities for physical contact. 3) Escalation every 20 to 30 minutes, which includes location, physical touch, and verbal elements to build intimacy and connection.
What is the purpose of the 'vibe check' at the beginning of a date?
-The 'vibe check' is meant to break the touch barrier and display verbal intent right away, setting the tone for the date and making the interaction feel less awkward by establishing a flirtatious and intimate atmosphere from the start.
How should a man greet a woman on a date according to the script?
-A man should greet a woman with a warm hug, maintaining good eye contact, a smile, and delivering a compliment with a slow, low vocal tonality and a smirk, such as 'you look really cute tonight, by the way'.
Why is it important to break the touch barrier early in a date?
-Breaking the touch barrier early helps to establish a level of intimacy and comfort, which is essential for a successful date. It also prevents the interaction from feeling forced or awkward later on when trying to escalate physical contact.
What does the speaker mean by 'location changes and positioning' during a date?
-This refers to the idea of changing the seating or location multiple times during a date to keep the interaction dynamic and interesting, and to create natural opportunities for physical contact and intimacy.
Why should a date not be limited to a single location for the entire duration?
-Staying in a single location for the entire date can create a stale and boring atmosphere, resembling an interview rather than a relaxed and intimate interaction. It also limits opportunities for physical contact and escalation.
How can multiple location changes create a stronger connection between two people on a date?
-Multiple location changes create different memories and experiences, which can strengthen the connection and comfort between two people. It also allows for a variety of interactions and environments, making the date more engaging and memorable.
What is the significance of escalating every 20 to 30 minutes during a date?
-Escalating every 20 to 30 minutes helps to build a natural progression of intimacy and connection. It prevents the date from becoming stagnant and ensures that both verbal and physical elements are gradually increasing, creating a more engaging and emotionally impactful experience.
Why is it recommended to have at least two to three different locations for a date?
-Having multiple locations allows for a variety of environments and experiences, which can make the date more exciting and dynamic. It also provides opportunities for different types of interactions and can help to create a more well-rounded connection.
What should a man do if he struggles with flirting or creating attraction on dates?
-The man can practice the recommended techniques at home, record himself to observe and improve his delivery, and consider seeking guidance or mentorship from experts, as suggested by the speaker in the script.
How can a man ensure that he doesn't come off as aggressive or creepy when using the 'vibe check' technique?
-A man should ensure that his delivery is slow, with good eye contact, a smile, and a smirk. The power is in the delivery, and it should be done in a way that feels natural and comfortable for both parties, without being overly forward.
Outlines
๐ Setting the First Date Tone with a Vibe Check
The speaker emphasizes the importance of making a strong first impression on a date by performing a 'vibe check.' This involves greeting the date with a warm hug and a compliment, which serves to break the touch barrier and establish verbal intent. The speaker advises maintaining good eye contact, a slight smirk, and using a slow, low vocal tone when delivering the compliment. He clarifies that this approach is not aggressive but a normal part of dating, and it's crucial to practice this delivery to ensure it feels natural and sets the right tone for the rest of the date.
๐ Leveraging Location Changes and Positioning for a Dynamic Date
The speaker discusses the concept of changing locations and positioning during a date to keep the interaction fresh and engaging. He suggests that remaining in one place for an extended period can create an interview-like atmosphere, which is not conducive to building a romantic connection. Instead, he recommends varying the seating arrangements and moving to different areas within a venue or to new locations to create different memories and opportunities for physical touch. This strategy helps to build comfort and intimacy naturally, making it easier to escalate the connection over time.
๐ค The Power of Leading and Physical Contact in Date Dynamics
The speaker highlights the significance of leading the date and incorporating physical contact in a casual and non-threatening manner. He explains that by leading the date, such as suggesting a move to a new location within a venue or to a different location altogether, a man can demonstrate confidence and create a man-to-woman dynamic. The speaker also stresses the importance of positioning, stating that it should allow for easy and natural physical contact, which can help to gradually escalate the intimacy and create a more comfortable environment for both parties.
๐ Incremental Escalation: The Key to a Successful Date
The speaker outlines the importance of escalating the date in increments every 20 to 30 minutes, covering physical touch, verbal interaction, and location changes. He advises against having a flatline conversation and instead suggests progressively building up flirting, teasing, and physical closeness. This approach helps to create a natural progression towards intimacy and ensures that the date remains engaging and dynamic. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of not waiting until the end of the date to make a move, but rather creating a series of small escalations throughout.
๐ Building Intimacy and Ensuring a Spark on the Date
The speaker focuses on the importance of building intimacy and creating a 'spark' during the date by progressively escalating physicality, verbal interaction, and location changes. He advises that as the date progresses, the level of physical contact should increase, with the use of location changes to facilitate this. The speaker stresses that failing to escalate appropriately can result in a lack of connection or spark, which may lead to the date not leading to further engagements. He encourages the implementation of the discussed techniques to ensure a successful and intimate dating experience.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กVibe Check
๐กPhysicality
๐กVerbal Intent
๐กDelivery
๐กLocation Changes
๐กPositioning
๐กEscalation
๐กFlirting
๐กIntimacy
๐กLeading
๐กMentorship Program
Highlights
The importance of a warm greeting with physical touch and verbal intent at the start of a date to set the tone.
Breaking the touch barrier early on a date to avoid awkwardness later.
The correct delivery of a compliment to create a flirtatious and sexual tone.
The misconception that a good date is solely about having a friendly conversation.
The significance of practicing the delivery of compliments and intentions for effective flirting.
The concept of location changes and positioning throughout a date to keep the interaction dynamic.
Avoiding the 'interview' dynamic by not staying in the same seating position for the entire date.
The benefits of multiple locations and positions for escalating physical touch naturally.
Leading the date with confidence by suggesting location changes to create a man-to-woman dynamic.
The idea that each location change creates a new memory, strengthening the connection.
The strategy of escalating physical, verbal, and location elements every 20 to 30 minutes on a date.
The necessity of incremental bursts of verbal and physical escalation to create an emotional impact.
The importance of not letting the date peak too early and then drop off in terms of interaction quality.
Using location changes as an opportunity to naturally escalate the level of intimacy.
The concept that by the end of the date, the accumulated escalations should organically lead to a kiss or deeper connection.
The offer of a mentorship program to help improve dating skills and confidence.
Transcripts
three things you need to do on your next
date to guarantee success I've coached a
lot of men over the years I've broken
down a lot of first dates I've been on a
shitload of dates myself these are
mistakes I used to make in the past and
I've seen men consistently doing this so
I wanted to lay out some easy steps and
as long as you execute these on your
next date you're going to have success
so let's get into number one which is
the vibe check and I've talked about
this several times on my channel but it
needs clarification because a lot of
dudes are still doing this wrong even
clients of mine when I give them the
assignment essentially what it is if you
if you don't know what I'm talking about
it's the moment that the date starts all
right the moment you see the girl
appearing on the date you need to go up
and give her a warm greeting that
injects some form of physicality and
some form of verbal intent so from a
distance when you see the girl you're
going to hold good eye contact with a
nice smile you're going to then go up to
her and greet her with a hug and as
you're going up to her you give her the
hug that breaks the physical touch
barrier off rip and as you release the
hug you're going to look her dead in the
eyes with a little bit of a smirk and a
slow low vocal tonality and tell her you
look really cute tonight by the way
that's all you need to do to set the
tone when you see the girl it's going to
break the touch barrier and it's going
to give some verbal intent and that is
why it's so powerful to start the date
with that because most dudes when the
date starts they're awkward they're
already sitting down they don't greet
the girl they wave from a distance they
break eye contact it's nervous and then
a lot of time goes by and they're
waiting for this like drum roll buildup
effect as to like when you're going to
actually make it flirty or when you're
going to break the touch barrier you
don't need to wait to do any of this
understand the girl already cleared out
multiple hours of her day to get ready
and to spend time with you we can assume
that there is ATT traction this is a
date okay so what you want to do is go
into the date with the mentality of this
is a date I can assume attraction and I
want to start out the date by just
breaking the touch B and breaking the
verbal intent barrier because it's going
to set the tone it's going to put a nice
foundation in place for us to build off
of when we start using steps two and
step three in this video now I need to
clarify some things cuz I tell guys to
do this and they still find a way to
mess this up so just for clarification
when you go up to the girl and you greet
her and you say hey what's up how's it
going you give her a hug you then need
to display intent with a slow delivery
while holding good eye contact and you
need to say you look really cute tonight
by the way what you're not going to do
is you give her a hug you break eye
contact you look down and say you look
cute tonight that's the wrong delivery
you also don't do is hold iconic and say
you look cute tonight no this is an
opportunity to instantly make it
flirtatious and sexual it's nothing
crazy you're not going to be coming off
creepy or too [ย __ย ] boyish whatever your
concern is this is an acceptable line to
say at the beginning of a date the power
is in the delivery cuz I've heard a lot
of guys audio interactions of them going
on this they they hug the girl and they
say hey I like your outfit tonight it
looks good I'm like dude that's not what
the [ย __ย ] line was I did not say hug
her and say Hey you look good tonight I
like your outfit hey you look pretty
tonight I like your shoes hey what's up
how you doing you look really good no
that's not the line and that's not the
delivery there is a speed to the
delivery with pauses and eye contact and
a smile and there is a word for word
phrase that I want you to say that's
going to create the right emotional
effect in the girl okay basically you
hug her with a smile and you then look
at her and you say you look really cute
tonight by the way that's how it's done
you need to practice the delivery of
that line over and over with the right
speed with good eye contact with a
little bit of a smirk on your face a
little bit of a smile not like this but
a little bit of a smirk on your face and
it instantly sets the tone for the rest
of the date because how many of you
dudes don't break the touch barrier and
you don't display intent and now we're
an hour into the day and it's going to
be really weird and awkward to try to
flip the script you're going to be in
your head about how to do it it just set
the tone right away just understand that
and it's totally acceptable it is not
aggressive it is a normal move that
should be honestly expected if you're
going on a date with a woman and there's
nothing wrong with that she just spent
time getting ready she put herself
together nicely she's excited to see you
she's hoping that the date's going to go
well she's hoping that you're going to
be that guy she doesn't do all of this
to get ready so that you never make a
move and you never make it flirty she
did not do all of this to get ready to
just have a friendly conversation with
you and I'm saying this because this is
a mind set of dating that a lot of you
dudes get wrong you think you just go on
the date to have a good conversation
how'd the date go bro Kyle it was good
the conversation was flowing that's not
what a good date is dude that's not what
a good date is friendly conversation is
a conversation to be had with friends
that's not the point of a date and I'm
not saying to do anything crazy I'm
saying start it off with a hug a smile
good eye contact nice slow delivery you
look really cute tonight by the way you
got to deliver it the right way with
good eye contact it's not hey you look
you look cute hey I don't know if I told
you look cute hey you look cute no
that's not what it is and I'm going to
say it over and over again because you
guys just don't got the delivery because
you guys don't understand the delivery
nice and slow with good eye contact and
a pause and a little bit of a smirk and
you say you look really cute tonight by
the way do not deviate from the script
that's step one I needed to go hard on
that because I I told so many dudes to
do this and in the moment they [ย __ย ] it
up so practice it at home literally
practice this thing at home record
yourself if you need to so say it into
the camera you need to get good at the
delivery actors study scripts so they
can deliver the line and create the
right emotional effect for the movie and
if you're a dude who sucks at flirting
or if you've never done this before well
guess what dude this is how you practice
it and if it feels unnatural that's okay
this is how you get better with it with
time it's going to become more natural
okay that's step one and if as I'm
saying this you're a dude who really
sucks with flirting you can't create
attraction you're not even getting dates
or you're getting ghosted after the date
guys the link is in the description fill
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let's get into number two which is the
idea of location changes and positioning
throughout the date now what this does
not mean is that you meet her at the
restaurant and you guys stay at the
restaurant in the same seat for 3 hours
for the whole date and then at the end
of that you get up and now it's weird
because you haven't touched her there's
been no movement it's been an interview
the whole [ย __ย ] time and just really
creates a bad Dynamic so the idea of
multiple locations along with multiple
positions seating or standing different
positions different locations is the
name of the game okay for a variety of
different reasons that I'm about to get
into the first of which is that it gets
stale and boring when you're just
sitting across from each other for a
really long time it creates an interview
kind of effect to it and it also it
doesn't ever allow you to get touchy or
if you were going to actually inject
some physicality you're going to really
have to lean across the table to do that
and it's just awkward it's uncomfortable
it brings too much attention to it you
don't want to do that that's not to say
that you can't ever sit across the table
from the girl you can do that you
absolutely can do that I just don't want
the whole date to be like that because
it just kind of creates this weird
dynamic long term and then when you
finally do touch her it's like a big
deal so if you start off across that's
okay but again think about all the
locations in between the the actual
venue so let's just say we were going to
sit across well ideally you meet her
outside or maybe even before that you
pick her up so you could actually drive
to her house and pick her up or she
meets you at the restaurant and you're
outside and you can give her nice warm
greeting using step number one hug
display a little bit of int 10 talk to
her a little bit okay you ready to go in
we start walking inside I could actually
touch her a little bit we're waiting to
actually be seated I can put my hand on
her shoulder I could do like a playful
push away at some point there can be
multiple touch points physical touch
points before you actually go sit across
from the girl so keep that in mind as
well but also if you have the option to
I would recommend finding an environment
that you guys can go to that has a nice
Ambiance with a nice menu whether that's
food or drink or whatever but ideally
there's better seating than just this
long table where you're sitting across
from her ideally there's like a long
couch where you guys could have the the
opportunity to sit next to each other or
if it is a table find seating that's
adjacent because even at a square table
if you're both on the adjacent Corners
you can still break the touch barrier
very easily and you don't need to be
super Hands-On with the girl that's not
what I'm saying here I'm saying when the
seating and the positioning of us is
naturally closer to each other it
actually makes it easier to touch her
without it being a big deal the further
away I am the more I'm going to have to
reach over the the more we're just
naturally sitting closer to each other
the easier and not a big deal it is for
me to touch the girl at any point
casually okay casually now again keep in
mind that's just seeding okay so that
covers half of Point number two which is
seating but I also want to talk about
location changes and positioning because
in my opinion on a date if I had an
ideal date set up I would recommend at
least two to three different locations
that I can maneuver with the girl and
lead her to over the span of of 2 three
even 4 hours and it doesn't need to be
your house if if it ends up back of your
house that's fine if I had the
preference I would choose at least two
to three different locations and
possibly even multiple location changes
within that venue because with every
location change it's an opportunity for
you to lead the girl so example we start
off sitting down at this maybe a bar or
bar stools or we're sitting down at some
long elongated couch area or we're
sitting at in a table that's adjacent if
there is another environment within the
venue that we can go visit in 30 to 60
minutes I think that's really powerful
because now we're here we talk a little
bit at some point maybe we have our
drink or we have some finger food and I
say cool let's go check out the rooftop
let's go check out the downstairs let's
go check out the dance Flor let's go
check out the outdoor area let's go
check out blank ideally the place has a
a second location within the environment
it it could just be like the back area
yo let's go explore the back area really
quick let's check it out I wanted to see
what they have back there now this is
great because of a variety of different
reasons there's already been a little
bit of touching if we get up now now
there's movement to the date naturally
there will be other things for us to
talk about other than me just having to
be this amazing conversationalist that
just keeps asking her questions and
improving stories and you know world
class flirting can you make that work
yes absolutely but the more movement
there is naturally there will be
different things to talk about different
Vibes and environments to be in so
that's why it's powerful but also now
you can lead the girl so we get up she
walks with me if if if you've already
been a little touchy You' been a before
you can say hey grab my arm and when you
say grab my arm don't make it a big deal
guys you can say cool yeah you ready to
check out the back okay cool let's go
yeah grab my arm it's okay to do that
dudes like freak the [ย __ย ] out when I
tell them you can tell the girl to grab
your arm you just need to do it in a
casual way where it's not a big deal and
you give her a little bit of reassurance
okay so it's not like so what you want
to grab my arm hey uh you want to grab
my arm no it it's implied that I'm the
dude she's the girl we're on the date
and I'm leading her so when you have
that kind of mindset especially if you
start started off the date the right way
that's why you really need to do
Technique One it sets the tone dude if
you don't do any of that and then you
just try to go for an armr it's going to
feel so weird because you haven't
flirted there was no touch barrier
broken there hasn't been anything and
now that's the first move that's kind of
weird right so that's why these are
strategically done in order there should
be a little bit of light touching going
on throughout now when it's time for the
location change we can move over if it
makes sense I can say cool you ready to
go over there all right cool here grab
my arm right here cool all right let's
go yeah let's check this spot out and
now you lead the girl to the next
location that's a really nice powerful
move that you could do that creates a
man- tooman dynamic between the two of
you guys a lot of clients ask me yeah I
was on the date but it just like wasn't
like man tooman it's like dude you got
to create that man tooman Essence by
being the man and leading the woman in a
confident fun reassuring way that
doesn't make any of it a big deal so we
go check out the next spot within the
venue maybe that's the rooftop the
outdoor seating the couch over there the
downstairs area maybe there's a pool
table or a game you guys could go play I
like all of these different things
because it creates multip multiple
locations but also to tie into Point
number two the positioning again if
you're just sitting across the table the
whole time it's really weird if we're at
a table and we're ajason and then we get
up and we're going over there and she's
walking with me now we're at the pool
table and there's a little bit of
touching we're playing darts there's a
little bit of touching we're sitting at
bar stools and there's a little bit of
touching we're on the rooftop and we're
standing next to each other at the bar
there's a little bit of touching so with
each location there's new opportunities
for positioning and a lot of the times
when you can't escalate effectively or
efficiently or without it being weird
it's solely due to the positioning of
the two of you guys if you ever been on
a couch with a girl you're like how do I
bridge the gap or you're in the car and
you're like how do I bridge the gap a
lot of it has to do with the positioning
so by bringing up multiple locations and
being able to move multiple locations
within those venues each one of those
movements to the next environment as
well as you sitting in that next
environment all of those are different
opportunities in different locations
with different positioning and seating
with you guys so the reason that number
two is so effective and so powerful is
because hypothetically if I'm in 10
different locations with 10 different
positions and seatings there's just
naturally going to be a bunch of
touching going on and and when it's
natural and it's organic and it's not a
big deal people will get comfortable
with the idea you slowly get
desensitized because it's comfortable
that's the whole point is to get
acclimated to each other's physical
touch getting comfortable being a little
bit more close that's also going to
allow you to create a more intimate Vibe
later on and the final Point as to why
multiple location changes are so
powerful is because each one of these
locations creates a new memory in the
girl's mind of of you if you're just in
one location for 3 hours and then you go
home well now all she has is that one
memory of sitting across from you if you
went on an adventure and you had five
different locations and now she goes
home even if it was the same amount of
time together and you think about the
date There is five different memories in
five different locations of what
happened so by default it actually
strengthens the connection and the
Comfort between the two of you guys
because of the fact that it increas es
the memory that you guys had together so
naturally builds up a lot more Comfort
it creates different environments for
you to lead her into it creates
different positionings and seating for
opportunities for you to touch for you
to lead for you guys to get more
intimate and to just get comfortable
being closer with each other without it
being a big deal of you leaning over the
table to try to touch her okay so number
two in itself is so powerful guys
honestly if I ended the video right
there and you just start off the date
with tip number one and you do it right
you don't [ย __ย ] it up you have the right
delivery you do all that properly and
then throughout the day there are
multiple location changes that you're
sprinkling in different elements of
touch and gradually getting closer to
each other with the positioning in the
seating man that's like 90% of the date
right there honestly that's 90% do not
underestimate this [ย __ย ] I have messed up
a lot of dates back in the day I messed
up I lost a lot of good women because I
was afraid to make the move because I
wasn't in the right positioning because
I didn't break the touch barer early on
and I didn't display int and so it put
all this pressure on me at the end of
the day to make the move and I pussied
out and honestly it's understandable why
it did because there was so much
pressure on that one instance so the
goal is to really break this down into
small chunks throughout and that's done
by setting the tone early and then all
the location changes and seating changes
to really make something pop off now
let's get into the final tip number
three to really ensure that you run a
good date which is the idea that every
20 to 30 minutes you should be
escalating and I don't necessarily mean
just physically when it comes to
escalation there is the location that
you could escalate there's the
physicality element to it the physical
touch element that you could be
escalating and there's also the verbal
the idea of teasing flirting and maybe
even sexualizing or some level of verbal
intimacy between the two of you guys so
all three of those pillars should be
going up throughout the date the problem
that dudes make is they try to have a
friendly conversation that's a good
conversation the date was good it was a
good date dude the conversation was
flowing she was into me but then she
ghosted no dude you didn't run a good
date you don't just run a date and at
the end of it you're like should I make
the move should I not make the move that
is the wrong mindset guys you do steps
one and two you're already going to be
in a good position but also keep in mind
that every 15 20 no more than 30 minutes
I think 30 minutes is long I'm going to
say like 15 to 20 minutes there should
be incremental bursts of escalation
whether that's location whether that's
verbal whether that's physical but
ideally you're doing all three somewhat
simultaneously throughout the day so
what is does that mean well when we
start off with technique number one the
vibe check we instantly have a little
bit of a bump with the physicality and
the verbal elements then we go into the
date now within the first 15 to 20
minutes I'm going to say there should be
another injection of some kind of verbal
minimum and ideally a little bit of
physical too if possible if the seating
doesn't allow it in the beginning that's
okay cuz we already did it up front but
then if nothing else there needs to be a
little bit of verbal there now the date
goes on we're 30 minutes in maybe we're
60 Minutes in there should be a other
burst of some sort of verbal escalation
some sort of teasing and really some
second form of intent all right I have a
bunch of different videos on my channel
going over flirting and stuff but you
should be injecting a second level of
flirtatiousness or intent somewhere
between that 30 to 60 Minute marker and
again it's in the delivery you don't
just say yeah you're cute that's not
what I'm talking about I'm talking about
delivering it in a way that creates an
emotional impact within the girl and
that doesn't happen when you're looking
away or you say it with this kind of
tone if I say you look really cute
tonight by the way that doesn't create
the emotional effect it needs to be slow
with the right delivery with a little
bit of a smile on your face looking the
girl dead in her eyes so some point
between that 30 to 60 Minute marker
there should be a by now two to three
bursts minimum of verbal and physical
and now this ties back into what I was
saying about Point number two is at some
point there should be a location change
I wouldn't wait for 3 hours I would
recommend maybe at some point between 30
to 60 no more more than 90 minutes into
the date there should be a location
change or seating change within the
location so strategically pick out
venues and environments that can allow
you to run this date structure there's a
lot of good spots that have multiple
floors multiple environments within it
or there's another location that's next
door where you guys could walk in
between maybe you go for a drink or a
small bite to eat or a coffee and then
you guys go check out another area
within the venue and then you guys
actually go outside and walk down the
street maybe you take a seat on the the
Ben outside in the busy downtown area or
you walk towards the water and there's a
view where you could chill out for a
little bit or you walk to the next spot
or you walk to your car and then you
hang out in the car for a little bit and
then you drive to the next spot all of
these are location changes with movement
with different environments that would
allow you to do technique number two so
at some point 30 60 90 minutes in we're
doing a location change this will now do
the location escalation so we've done
multiple escalations of physicality
multiple escalations of verbal and now
we're doing a second escalation of
location or logistical escalation so the
goal is to be simultaneously escalating
all three of these over the span of the
first hour hour and a half now as the
date progresses into Hour 2 and hour
three these things should all be slowly
building up that means if we're on a
3-hour date you don't just display
intent at the beginning of the date and
then friendly talk for 3 hours every 15
to 30 minutes using a variety of
different techniques you could be
injecting some level of teasing or
flirtatiousness or in 10 those should be
going on every 20 to 30 minutes dudes
don't do this enough and then they
wonder why it's in congruent to try to
kiss the girl or try to get a second
date going and she doesn't feel the
spark if she doesn't feel the spark it's
cuz you didn't create the spark you
didn't inject the techniques to get her
to feel the right emotions so shees
she's not feeling it dude she's not
feeling it you didn't inject the verbal
and the physical and the logistical
escalations enough throughout the date
to create the emotional effect and
that's why she's not feeling it that's
all it is man so when it comes to the
second half of the day Hour 2 Hour 3
Hour 4 the further we go into this thing
the more physicality there should be
ideally it's building up meaning over
time over the span of hours we're
getting closer using location changes
two steps forward one step back little
bit of touching here next location a
little bit of touching here next
location we're sitting a little bit
closer uh there's been flirting going on
throughout this the locations are moving
it will naturally create a level of
intimacy between the two of you guys
that you want and it will really put you
in a position where now it would
actually make sense to go for the kiss
when you don't do any of this it's going
to feel really unnatural and really
forced to try to just awkwardly lunge at
the girl that's not what you want so you
need to inject technique number one to
set the tone then technique number two
to ensure that you have a lot of
different opportunities for physicality
and escalation and leading and getting
her comfortable with the seating and
stuff and then also technique number
three to ensure that it doesn't just
peek at the 30 minute Mark and then it's
friendly verbal physical and logistical
location escalation all three of those
should be building up incrementally over
the span of 1 two 3 4 hours and when you
do that properly that's how you could be
in a really good position where it
almost makes sense to to kiss the girl
at some point between the 60 to 100% of
the date and maybe even go beyond just
kissing which by the way doesn't always
need to happen on date one by any means
but if you're doing all of these things
right you may find that it organically
happens when you don't do any of this
stuff that's when she's not feeling it
that's when you never make a move
because there's too much pressure and
you know what happens at that point I've
been there we've all been there we don't
want to be there anymore okay so do
techniques 1 2 and 3 properly to ensure
your next date and if you're at a point
where you're not really getting into
dates that much or maybe you are going
on dates but you're not getting the
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