The REAL Solution to Your Financial Problems! (No Matter Who You Are)

The Ramsey Show Highlights
22 Feb 202109:13

Summary

TLDRJoshua Marine emphasizes that challenges are intrinsic to making life interesting and meaningful. He argues that personal finance is 80% behavior and 20% knowledge, asserting that systemic racism is real but not a barrier to wealth creation, as evidenced by successful minorities. Marine encourages overcoming obstacles through personal responsibility and behavior changes, rather than relying on government programs. He shares his own experience of financial loss and recovery, advocating for learning from mistakes and adopting principles like getting out of debt and working hard to achieve abundance.

Takeaways

  • 🤔 Challenges make life interesting and overcoming them gives life meaning.
  • 🧠 Personal finance is 80% behavior and 20% head knowledge, emphasizing the importance of actions over knowledge.
  • 🌐 Systemic racism is real but it does not prevent minorities from becoming wealthy, as evidenced by many successful individuals from humble beginnings.
  • 🚫 Extra hurdles exist for some, but the choice is to overcome them rather than to blame systemic issues for failure.
  • 🛤️ People's paths to wealth vary greatly, influenced by upbringing, education, and geographical location, but success is possible regardless of these factors.
  • 🙅‍♂️ Government programs are not the key to wealth or success; individuals must take personal responsibility for their financial well-being.
  • 💼 Success is a result of personal behaviors and character, not waiting for external fixes or handouts.
  • 🚫 It's not about blaming external factors for lack of success; it's about taking responsibility and learning from setbacks.
  • 📚 Studying the habits of successful people and understanding the principles of wealth creation is crucial for financial success.
  • 💡 The speaker's personal experience with financial loss and recovery highlights the importance of self-reliance and learning from mistakes.
  • 🏔️ Everyone faces obstacles, but it's essential to identify and overcome personal beliefs that may be holding one back.
  • 🔨 Embrace the truth, let go of lies, and adopt behaviors that lead to success, as no one is coming to the rescue—self-empowerment is key.

Q & A

  • What does Joshua Marine believe makes life interesting and meaningful?

    -Joshua Marine believes that challenges make life interesting, and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.

  • According to Joshua Marine, what percentage of personal finance is attributed to behavior and what to head knowledge?

    -Joshua Marine states that 80% of personal finance is attributed to behavior, while only 20% is attributed to head knowledge.

  • Does Joshua Marine acknowledge the existence of systemic racism, and does he believe it prevents minorities from becoming wealthy?

    -Yes, Joshua Marine acknowledges the existence of systemic racism, but he does not believe it prevents minorities from becoming wealthy, citing examples of wealthy minorities who started from nothing.

  • What are the two options Joshua Marine presents for individuals facing systemic racism?

    -The two options Joshua Marine presents are to either win and blame it on systemic racism, or to succeed in spite of systemic racism.

  • What does Joshua Marine suggest about the role of government programs in achieving abundance?

    -Joshua Marine suggests that government programs have not historically led to abundance, except in Washington DC, and that individuals become successful due to their behaviors, not government programs.

  • How does Joshua Marine define success in terms of overcoming obstacles?

    -Joshua Marine defines success as overcoming obstacles through one's own behaviors and character, rather than waiting for external factors or people to fix one's life.

  • What personal experience does Joshua Marine share about his financial ups and downs?

    -Joshua Marine shares that he became wealthy through real estate in the early 1980s, but later lost everything due to changes in banking laws and the sale of his bank, which led to the calling of his notes.

  • What advice does Joshua Marine give to those who have experienced financial loss?

    -Joshua Marine advises to stop blaming others, take responsibility, learn from the experience, and change one's beliefs and behaviors to create a better future.

  • What principles did Joshua Marine study to understand wealth creation?

    -Joshua Marine studied the principles of rich people and the Bible to understand wealth creation, which he found to align with common sense principles such as getting out of debt, living within one's means, and working hard.

  • What does Joshua Marine suggest is the key to overcoming life's challenges and achieving abundance?

    -Joshua Marine suggests that the key to overcoming life's challenges and achieving abundance is to take personal responsibility, change one's beliefs and behaviors, and not wait for external rescue.

  • What is Joshua Marine's view on the importance of personal responsibility in achieving success?

    -Joshua Marine emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in achieving success, stating that where one is going in life is their own fault, and it's up to the individual to change their beliefs and behaviors to improve their situation.

Outlines

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💰 Overcoming Challenges for Wealth Building

Joshua Marine emphasizes that challenges make life interesting and meaningful through overcoming them. He discusses the importance of behavior in personal finance, stating that 80% of wealth building is due to behavior and only 20% to head knowledge. Marine acknowledges the existence of systemic racism but argues it is not a barrier to wealth creation, citing examples of wealthy minorities who started from scratch. He presents two options: blaming systemic racism or overcoming it. He also touches on the varying paths to wealth due to upbringing, education, and geographical factors, but stresses that individuals from all walks of life can achieve abundance by overcoming obstacles. Marine criticizes reliance on government programs for wealth creation, advocating instead for personal responsibility and behavior change as the keys to success.

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📚 Learning from Adversity and Self-Reliance

The speaker recounts his own financial downfall due to banking law changes and the subsequent loss of all his possessions. Initially, he blamed external factors like banks and government policies for his predicament. However, he eventually realized the importance of taking personal responsibility and learning from his mistakes. The speaker advises against waiting for external rescue and instead suggests introspection to identify and abandon false beliefs that hinder progress. He encourages embracing the truth, hard work, and perseverance as the means to change one's life. Drawing from his study of successful individuals and biblical principles, he outlines a path to prosperity that includes getting out of debt, living within means, and creating income. The speaker concludes with a call to action for self-improvement and resilience in the face of life's challenges.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Challenges

Challenges in the context of the video refer to the difficulties and obstacles one faces in life. The speaker posits that it is overcoming these challenges that provides life with its meaning. For example, the script mentions that 'challenges are what, make life interesting and overcoming them is, what makes life meaningful.'

💡Personal Finance

Personal finance is the management of one's own financial resources. The speaker emphasizes that it is more about behavior (80%) than head knowledge (20%), indicating that financial success is largely due to how one operates their life and makes decisions regarding money. The term is used when the speaker says 'personal finance, folks is 80 behavior it's only 20 head knowledge'.

💡Systemic Racism

Systemic racism is the discrimination that is embedded within societal structures and institutions. The speaker acknowledges its existence but argues that it is not an insurmountable barrier to wealth creation, citing examples of wealthy minorities who have overcome such hurdles. It is discussed when the speaker states 'is systemic racism real, absolutely, does it keep someone of a minority who, is a minority, from becoming wealthy no'.

💡Wealth

Wealth, in the video, is presented as an outcome of overcoming challenges and effective personal finance management. It is not just the accumulation of money but also signifies a life of abundance and success. The script mentions wealth in various contexts, such as 'the behaviors and the way, you operate your life, cause you to be able to build wealth, or not'.

💡Behavior

Behavior, as discussed in the video, is the set of actions and responses that individuals exhibit, which significantly influence their financial success. It is highlighted as a key determinant in building wealth, more so than knowledge alone. The speaker uses the term when stating 'it's 80 behavior it's only 20 head knowledge'.

💡Responsibility

Responsibility, in the context of the video, is the notion of self-accountability for one's life circumstances and outcomes. The speaker encourages taking responsibility for one's financial situation rather than waiting for external fixes. It is exemplified when the speaker says 'the sooner you take responsibility the better you off you are'.

💡Abundance

Abundance, as used in the video, signifies a state of plentifulness and prosperity, often associated with wealth. It is presented as a goal that individuals can achieve through their behaviors and actions, not through reliance on government programs. The term is used in the phrase 'what ten years from now is going to have led me to a life of abundance'.

💡Beliefs

Beliefs are the convictions and opinions that guide an individual's actions and decisions. The speaker discusses the importance of identifying and changing limiting beliefs that may hinder progress towards wealth and success. The script refers to beliefs when saying 'your beliefs cause your behaviors'.

💡Government Programs

Government programs are initiatives or policies implemented by the state to address societal issues. The speaker argues that these programs are not the path to wealth or success, instead emphasizing individual behavior and character as the drivers of prosperity. The term is mentioned in the context of 'is it a government program well the historical answer is, no'.

💡Character

Character, in the video, refers to the moral and ethical qualities that define an individual's nature. The speaker suggests that success is a result of choosing one's character to embody certain principles, such as hard work and financial prudence. It is highlighted in the statement 'we become successful because we choose our character to be that'.

💡Self-Reliance

Self-reliance is the concept of depending on oneself rather than external assistance. The speaker advocates for self-reliance in achieving financial success and overcoming life's obstacles, criticizing the idea of waiting for rescue or solutions from others. The term is encapsulated in the phrase 'if you believe someone is coming to your rescue, you're screwed because no one is, it's up to you'.

Highlights

Challenges make life interesting and overcoming them makes life meaningful.

Personal finance is 80% behavior and 20% head knowledge.

Systemic racism is real but does not prevent minorities from becoming wealthy.

Wealth can be achieved despite systemic racism and additional hurdles.

Individuals can build wealth from any walk of life, starting from nothing.

Success is not due to government programs but individual behaviors and character.

There is no historical precedent for government programs leading to abundance outside of Washington DC.

Taking responsibility for one's life is crucial for success.

Believing in external fixes for life's problems is a misconception.

The speaker's personal journey from wealth to loss and the importance of self-reliance.

The realization that blaming others does not lead to recovery or success.

The importance of learning from mistakes and changing beliefs and behaviors.

Studying successful people and understanding their principles can lead to wealth.

The role of hard work and creating income as a path to wealth.

The impact of external events like pandemics and the need to adapt.

The necessity to confront and overcome personal and societal obstacles.

The speaker's encouragement to take action and change one's life.

Transcripts

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joshua marine said challenges are what

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make

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life interesting and overcoming them is

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what makes

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life meaningful personal finance

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folks is 80 behavior it's only 20

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head knowledge the behaviors and the way

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you operate your life

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cause you to be able to build wealth

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or not in spite of all

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of the things that come against all of

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us

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is systemic racism real

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absolutely

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does it keep someone of a minority who

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is a minority

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from becoming wealthy no

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we know this because there are

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minorities who are wealthy that started

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from nothing lots of them

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lots and lots and lots of them

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but extra hurdles to overcome

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you bet absolutely

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what are your options not

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win and blame it on systemic racism

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or when in spite of systemic racism

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these are your two options

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is do some people have a

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an easier path than others depending on

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their

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upbringing

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their education the area of the country

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that they're born into which

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country they're born into you bet

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but you can find people who have built

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wealth and

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live a life of abundance from every

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possible walk of life

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starting from nothing there there

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they just chose

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to fight through the obstacles some

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having more obstacles than others

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there are legitimate obstacles out there

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the pandemic has slapped some folks

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around harder than others

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legitimately

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but the question you've got to ask

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yourself is

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what ten years from now is going to have

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led me

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to a life of abundance

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is it a government program well the

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historical answer is

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no there's never been a government

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program that led to abundance

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of anything except in washington dc

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but individuals out here in the real

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world we don't

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become wealthy and successful because of

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government programs

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stimulus checks fifteen dollar minimum

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wage

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socialist ideals we become successful

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because of

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our behaviors

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we become successful because we choose

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our

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character to be that now does that

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shame someone that hasn't become

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successful no it just tells

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someone that hasn't yet become

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successful how to do it

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and it's not sitting on your thumb

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waiting on a stimulus check

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it's not sitting on your thumb waiting

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on aoc

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or biden or trump or anyone else to fix

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your freaking life

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there is not an answer to your problem

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that's going to come out of washington

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the sooner you take responsibility the

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better you off you are

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and that's not to say that where you are

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is your fault

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it is to say that where you're going is

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your fault

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and your beliefs cause your

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behaviors and if you believe

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the government is going to fix or some

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person

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or some movement or crusade is going to

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fix

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the barriers that are in your life

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you're wrong

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and if you believe that you're gonna sit

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and wait on someone else to fix your

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life

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and it's never gonna get fixed

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it is up to you

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so i started from nothing when i came

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out of college

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and i started buying and selling real

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estate and i became

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wealthy at least by a kid from my

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neighborhood standards i had four

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million dollars worth of real estate

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made two hundred thousand dollars a year

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back in the ninth early nineteen

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eighties

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and that's back when two hundred

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thousand dollars was a lot of money

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i did a lot of stupid things like borrow

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too much money like borrow it on short

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term notes

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and our bank got sold to another bank

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and they called our notes and we spent

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the next two and a half years of our

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life

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losing everything we owned some

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of what caused that were changes in the

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banking laws that encouraged and allowed

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the banks to do that to me

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and for a while i sat around and blamed

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the meno bank and i blamed the irs

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and i blamed ronald reagan for changing

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the laws and banking that affected the

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snls

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and caused the snl crisis by the way the

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destruction of an entire section of the

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banking industry

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i blamed everyone else

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and i sat there for a while getting

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absolutely no traction

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and not recovering at all

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from my losses and i just sat on my

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thumb

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and whined about everybody else picking

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on poor old dave

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but the revelation came along that if

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you're gonna have that many lemons you

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might as well make some lemonade

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and a good friend said you need to stop

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your whining you want some cheese with

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that wine

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and you need to get up off your butt and

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go fix this and oh by the way figure out

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what you learned

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from all this pain what'd you learn

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what'd you do wrong that you'll never do

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again figure out what you're never

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against are because of this

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and so i started studying rich people

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not broke finance professors with a

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theory

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how'd they get rich where'd their money

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come from and how did they get it

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and i was a baby christian and i started

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studying the bible and what it has to

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say about money

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and both those sets of principles lined

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up they're called common sense

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get out of debt live on less than you

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make

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work like a maniac and create income

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there's a great place to go when you're

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broke my grandmother said to work

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it will change everything when you do

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that

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everything and so when pandemics come

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bankruptcies come when 2008 comes or 9

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11 comes

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when racism comes

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or wealth inequality comes or someone

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treats you poorly because you have a

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southern accent or northern accent

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or you have a college degree or you

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don't or you have student loans or you

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don't

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whatever your mountain is that you have

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to climb and you have a mountain you

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have to climb

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are taller than others

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but you've got to climb the mountain so

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you need to sit down and say you know

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what have i done wrong so far

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what are the lies that i believe about

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life

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that are holding me back and what am i

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going to change

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a lot of the things i believe came from

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the neighborhood i grew up in

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and a lot of the lies i had to lay down

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and never again believe

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came from the neighborhood i grew up in

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some of the best qualities came out of

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the household i grew up in

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and some of the lies that i had to lay

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down came out of the household i grew up

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in and that's true of every one of us

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every one of us so growing up

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is setting down the lies and embracing

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the truth

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and hustle and grind get up and leave

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the cave and kill something and drag it

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home

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if you believe someone is coming to your

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rescue

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you're screwed because no one is

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it's up to you baby doll suck it up

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buttercup

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you got this you can do it i know

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you can do it because i've watched tens

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of millions of you

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do it lay down the lies

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pick up new beliefs embrace new

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behaviors

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and change your freaking life don't wait

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on the government to do that for god's

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sakes

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