understanding sex appeal & how to increase it
Summary
TLDRThis video script delves into the abstract concept of sex appeal, suggesting it's easier defined by its absence. It proposes that sex appeal is the instinctive attraction triggered by a synergy of appearance, energy, and personality. The script refutes the idea that fixing unappealing traits automatically grants sex appeal, instead suggesting it merely allows entry into the 'arena' of attractiveness. It highlights factors like sexual dimorphism, assertiveness, status, and niche affiliation as influential, while cautioning against extremes and advocating for a balanced approach to enhance one's sex appeal.
Takeaways
- π Sex appeal is an abstract and subjective concept that varies across different cultures and individuals.
- π‘ The speaker defines sex appeal as a combination of appearance, energy, status, and personality that triggers an instinctive attraction.
- π€ The opposite of sex appeal can be identified more easily than what it is, with poor hygiene and lack of confidence being unappealing traits.
- πͺ Sexual dimorphism, or features that differentiate the sexes, plays a role in attractiveness but can have diminishing returns if too pronounced.
- π€ The 'Rate by Fresh' app uses AI to analyze facial features for masculinity or femininity and their place on the sexual dimorphism scale.
- π« Assertiveness is a key trait in sexual attractiveness, but it should be balanced to avoid aggression and intimidation.
- π‘ A man's ability to stand up for himself and maintain boundaries is more appealing than being 'neutered' or overly passive.
- π Status, beyond just fame and wealth, can be enhanced by behaviors like intelligence, a good job, and humor, and it significantly impacts sex appeal.
- π Belonging to a specific subculture or 'niche' can both positively and negatively affect sex appeal, making one polarizing.
- π¨ Niche maxing should align with one's natural style and subculture to avoid appearing as a 'poser' and being unappealing.
- π The video suggests that understanding and applying the discussed concepts can help boost one's sex appeal, though it's not an exact science.
Q & A
What is the abstract subject discussed in the video script?
-The abstract subject discussed in the video script is 'sex appeal'.
Why is sex appeal considered an abstract and elusive concept?
-Sex appeal is considered abstract and elusive because it is subjective and context-dependent, varying from person to person and culture to culture.
What is the narrator's approach to defining sex appeal?
-The narrator suggests defining sex appeal by what it is not, rather than what it is, due to its inherent subjectivity and context-dependency.
According to the narrator, what are the elements that contribute to a person's sex appeal?
-The elements that contribute to a person's sex appeal include their appearance, energy status, and personality, which together trigger an instinctive and primal attraction in others.
What does the narrator use as an example to illustrate what is sexually unappealing?
-The narrator uses memes making fun of the typical Reddit SL Discord mod as an example to illustrate what is sexually unappealing.
What are some traits that the narrator identifies as making the archetype of the Reddit SL Discord mod unappealing?
-Traits that make this archetype unappealing include poor hygiene, lack of confidence, social awkwardness, a false sense of superiority, and a sedentary lifestyle.
What is the term 'sexual dimorphism' as used in the script, and how does it relate to sex appeal?
-Sexual dimorphism refers to features that differentiate males from females. In the context of sex appeal, more pronounced sexual dimorphism features are generally deemed more attractive.
What is the 'dimorphism' feature in the Rate by Fresh app, and how can it be accessed?
-The 'dimorphism' feature in the Rate by Fresh app uses AI to scan a person's face to determine if their features are more masculine or feminine and where they fall on the sexual dimorphism scale. It can be accessed by visiting ratebyfresh.com or clicking the link in the video description.
Why is assertiveness considered a significant predictor of sexual attractiveness according to the video script?
-Assertiveness is considered a significant predictor of sexual attractiveness because it indicates a person who won't tolerate disrespect or boundary crossing, which is an appealing trait in potential partners.
What is the role of 'status' in determining a person's sex appeal as discussed in the script?
-Status, as discussed in the script, is more than just social fame or wealth. It involves a person's perceived capabilities, discipline, and leadership, which can significantly enhance their sex appeal.
What is 'Niche maxing' and how can it affect a person's sex appeal?
-Niche maxing refers to the practice of aligning oneself with a specific subculture or niche. It can have a polarizing effect on sex appeal, attracting some people while repelling others, depending on the niche and how well it fits the individual's natural style.
What advice does the narrator give about embracing a niche to enhance one's sex appeal?
-The narrator advises that if one decides to niche max, it should align naturally with their style and subculture, and not be forced, as being a 'poser' is unappealing.
How does the narrator conclude the discussion on sex appeal in the video script?
-The narrator concludes by stating that while the knowledge from the video can help direct one towards having more sex appeal, it's not a sure science and encourages viewers to check out the Rate by Fresh app and subscribe to the channel.
Outlines
π Defining Sex Appeal: Subjectivity and Context
The first paragraph explores the abstract nature of sex appeal, suggesting that it's easier to define by what it's not rather than what it is due to its subjective and context-dependent nature. The speaker proposes a personal definition of sex appeal as an instinctive and primal attraction triggered by a person's appearance, energy, and personality. The paragraph also humorously uses a stereotype of an unappealing 'Reddit SL Discord mod' to illustrate what is considered unattractive, listing traits such as poor hygiene, lack of confidence, and a sedentary lifestyle. It emphasizes that while fixing these issues is necessary, it does not guarantee sex appeal but allows one to 'enter the arena' of being potentially attractive.
πͺ Enhancing Sex Appeal: Traits and Techniques
The second paragraph delves into specific ways to enhance sex appeal, starting with the concept of sexual dimorphism, which refers to features that differentiate males from females. It suggests that pronounced dimorphic features are generally more attractive but warns of diminishing returns, using the example of height and muscularity. The paragraph also introduces the 'Rate by Fresh' app's dimorphism feature, which uses AI to analyze facial features for masculinity or femininity. It continues with the importance of assertiveness as a key trait, differentiating it from aggression, and highlights the impact of status, which is more than just fame or wealth but also includes behaviors and associations that influence perception. Lastly, the paragraph touches on the impact of niche subcultures on sex appeal, noting that while niche maxing can be beneficial, it should align with one's natural style to avoid being perceived as a 'poser'.
Mindmap
Keywords
π‘Sex Appeal
π‘Subjective
π‘Sexual Dimorphism
π‘Assertiveness
π‘Status
π‘Niche
π‘Unappealing
π‘Personal Integrity
π‘Confidence
π‘Unpredictability
π‘Rate by Fresh App
Highlights
Sex appeal is an abstract and subjective concept that varies with cultural context.
Sex appeal can be better defined by what it is not, rather than what it is.
The synergy of appearance, energy, status, and personality can trigger an instinctive attraction.
Unappealing traits such as poor hygiene and lack of confidence can hinder sex appeal.
Sexual dimorphism, or features that differentiate males from females, plays a role in attractiveness.
Extremes in sexual dimorphism, such as excessive height or muscle mass, can become unappealing.
The Rate by Fresh app uses AI to analyze facial features for sexual dimorphism.
Assertiveness is a key trait in sexual attractiveness, but aggression can be off-putting.
Status, beyond just fame or wealth, can significantly impact sex appeal.
Intelligence, job status, and humor are factors that can enhance one's status and sex appeal.
Belonging to a subculture or niche can polarize perceptions of sex appeal.
Niche maxing can be beneficial if it aligns with one's natural style and subculture.
Being a 'poser' by adopting a subculture that doesn't suit you can be unappealing.
The video provides insights to potentially increase sex appeal, though it's not a guaranteed science.
Encouragement to check out the Rate by Fresh app and subscribe to the channel for more content.
Transcripts
do you know what sex appeal is it's such
an abstract subject that whenever I
think I have a working definition and I
try to grab on to it it disappears like
smoke after thinking about this for a
very long time I came to the conclusion
that it's easier to Define sex appeal by
what it's not rather than what it is
that's because inherently sex appeal is
subjective and context dependent what
one person finds appealing in one
country another one can find grotesque
but first what do we even mean when we
say something as sex appeal my
definition of sex appeal is when a
person based on the Synergy of their
appearance energy status and personality
triggers an instinctive and Primal
attraction in others I definitely don't
mean for this section to be mean but if
we're being real when I think of what is
extremely sexually unappealing I think
of memes making fun of the typical
Reddit SL Discord mod this is basically
the anchor I use to determine what is
sexually unappealing it's obviously not
scientifically rigorous in any way but I
feel like it's a good barometer what
makes this archetype so unappealing
there are a few things poor hygiene lack
of confidence social awkwardness false
sense of superiority and a sedentary
lifestyle but is the opposite of all
these things what give someone sex
appeal I don't think so these are
basically barriers in place that
potentially Gat keeps you from having
sex appeal but fixing them doesn't give
you sex appeal it just lets you enter
the arena in this video we get a lot of
useful information that will help you
boost your sex appeal number one sexual
dimorphism in a very basic sense sexual
dimorphism means features that
differentiates males from females the
more pronounced these features are
generally the more attractive someone is
deemed for example men are usually
taller than women so if a guy is really
tall he's very sexually dimorphic but as
with all things there's dimin returns
while a 61 guy might be very appealing a
7 foot guy is so out of the norm that he
enters a weird territory of unappealing
it's basically horse true theory this is
pretty true for a lot of things we
consider masculine or sexually dimorphic
being strong and muscular is generally
seen as attractive and highly dimorphic
but a bodybuilder that's 300 lb of pure
muscle is so off the scale that they're
generally only attractive to a niche
select group of people on the rate by
fresh app there's a feature called
dimorphism what it does is use AI to
scan your face to determine if your
features are more masculine or feminine
and where you fall on the sexual
dimorphism scale it's a super cool
feature if you want to check it out go
to Rap by fresh.com or go to the link in
the description to check it out number
two dangerous one of the most sexually
unappealing traits a man can have is
being neutered and afraid to stand up
for himself whether it's lovers friends
or strangers in life people are always
consciously and subconsciously testing
each other's boundaries to see how much
they can get away with a sexually
appealing man has an air to him that
lets people know he won't take
disrespect or crossing of his boundaries
kindly in fact research supports that
among personality traits and physical
fitness indicators assertiveness is one
of the biggest predictors of the number
of Partners someone has this means that
a assertiveness has a huge impact on
sexual attractiveness bad boys and Mafia
bosses are some of the most common
themes in romance novels exactly because
they exhibit this trait often to an
extreme degree now don't get it wrong
and think this means starting a fight
with every guy that looks at you the
wrong way just like our example with a s
foot guy taking things too far and going
from assertiveness and confident to
aggression and intimidation will just
land you in trouble guys with this trait
turned up too high are what fills up our
prisons after all you need to hit that
sweet spot of assertiveness confidence
and unpredictability this splend not
only keeps you from being predictable
and boring but also commands respect and
maintains your personal Integrity
without Crossing into aggressiveness
number three status when I say status
most guys think of a rich celebrity or
influencer this is an example of social
status but I think it's a very surface
level view of status we all have some
sort of status and it changes all the
time status is much more than just
having clout and fame for The Regular
Guy those things aren't really
applicable at all if you saw a dorky
looking guy walking down the street you
wouldn't think much of it but if I told
you he was a Navy SEAL you'd
automatically have a different view of
him this is the power of status you
associate being a Navy SEAL with a
variety of traits like being capable
dangerous disciplined and a leader which
completely repaints your view of the
same person there's a ton of different
behaviors that either enhance or
decrease your status according to
research things like being intelligent
having a well-paying job and having a
good sense of humor raises your status
while things like being lazy having poor
hygiene and being unreliable lowers your
status in terms of things that can
affect your sex appeal and
attractiveness at say status is one of
the most overpowered number four your
Niche the kind of subculture and Niche
that you adhere to can significantly
affect your sex appeal in both a
negative and and positive way in some
circles this concept is called Niche
maxing there's a million and one
different niches there's nerdy gamer
guys roadmen Country Boys alt guys
athletes dreadheads you get the point
belonging to a niche can have a hugely
positive impact on your sex appeal but
it comes at a cost you'll be very
polarizing in that the types of people
that are into you will really love you
but some others will find you completely
unappealing overall if you if you decide
to Niche Max it should be in a way that
aligns naturally with a style and
subculture that works with the kind of
person that you are if you don't
skateboard don't dress like a skater
this is called being a poser and is
hugely unappealing overall if you taking
the knowledge from this video it can
help direct you towards having more sex
appeal but it's not 100% sure science
with that said make sure to check out
the rate by fresh app And subscribe to
our Channel thanks for watching
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