The Philosophy of Time Management | Brad Aeon | TEDxConcordia

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19 Dec 201712:08

Summary

TLDRThis script explores the philosophical roots of time management, questioning the modern approach that emphasizes productivity over meaningful living. It challenges the notion of 'time is money,' suggesting that valuing time this way cheapens its true worth. The speaker encourages embracing philosophy to ask deeper questions about how we spend our time, advocating for a mindful approach to living that acknowledges our mortality and the sacrifices we must make to lead meaningful lives.

Takeaways

  • 📝 The speaker began with a personal story of realizing mortality at a young age, which sparked a lifelong interest in the value of time.
  • 🤔 The script emphasizes the importance of asking philosophical questions about time, such as why we work and what gives our lives meaning.
  • 📚 It critiques modern time management practices for being technique-focused rather than rooted in philosophical inquiry about living meaningfully.
  • ⏰ The concept of time as money is challenged, with the argument that it devalues our time and leads to a more stressful and less fulfilling life.
  • 💰 The script suggests that viewing time as money can lead to greed and a lack of consideration for others or the environment.
  • 💡 Roman philosopher Seneca's view is cited, suggesting that valuing time as money is undervaluing it, especially when considering our mortality.
  • 🤷‍♂️ The speaker reflects on the idea that we may say we 'don't have time' as a way to avoid making choices and facing their consequences.
  • 👵 The script contrasts the time constraints of our great-grandparents with our modern perception of time scarcity, despite having more freedom and flexibility.
  • 🤝 It points out that our time management choices have societal implications, affecting everything from voting to social connections.
  • 🧐 The importance of self-reflection on time allocation is highlighted, encouraging us to question whether we are making excuses or sacrifices.
  • 💬 The speaker concludes by advocating for a philosophical approach to time management, which involves continuous questioning and meaningful choices.

Q & A

  • What is the main fear the speaker had when they were six years old?

    -The main fear the speaker had when they were six years old was the fear of getting bored.

  • What realization did the speaker have after watching a documentary on sea turtles?

    -The speaker realized that sea turtles can live up to 150 years, which led them to the realization of their own mortality and the mortality of everyone around them.

  • Why did the speaker's mother say that the concept of death is something that cannot be changed?

    -The speaker's mother said that death is a natural part of life that is inevitable for everyone, and there is nothing one can do to change that fact.

  • What is the speaker's view on the modern time management movement?

    -The speaker views the modern time management movement as philosophically empty, focusing on productivity and efficiency rather than on the philosophical roots of making life meaningful.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the problem with equating time with money?

    -The speaker suggests that equating time with money leads to impatience, unhappiness, greed, and a decreased willingness to help others or consider the environment.

  • According to the speaker, what is the true value of time according to Roman philosopher Seneca?

    -According to Seneca, as mentioned by the speaker, if we think of time as money, we are actually valuing our time very cheaply.

  • What does the speaker believe is the fundamental question in philosophy that helps with time management?

    -The speaker believes that the fundamental question in philosophy that helps with time management is 'Why shouldn't I kill myself right now?' as it prompts reflection on what one truly values in life.

  • What is the speaker's opinion on the statement 'you can't manage time'?

    -The speaker disagrees with the statement 'you can't manage time,' arguing that time can indeed be managed, but it requires making choices and living with the consequences of those choices.

  • Why does the speaker argue that saying 'I don't have time' is a lie?

    -The speaker argues that saying 'I don't have time' is a lie because it is often an excuse to avoid making choices and taking responsibility for how one uses their time.

  • What does the speaker suggest is the consequence of not managing time meaningfully?

    -The speaker suggests that the consequence of not managing time meaningfully is a lack of fulfillment and potentially contributing to societal issues such as isolation and a lack of civic engagement.

  • What advice does the speaker give for managing time in a meaningful way?

    -The speaker advises embracing philosophy and continuously asking meaningful questions about how one uses their time, rather than focusing on tips, tricks, and shortcuts.

Outlines

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🦖 The Philosophy of Time and Death

This paragraph explores the speaker's childhood fear of boredom and the existential realization of mortality after learning about the lifespan of sea turtles. It delves into the philosophical roots of time management, questioning the modern approach that focuses on productivity rather than the meaningful use of time. The speaker criticizes the 'time is money' mindset, illustrating its negative effects on happiness and social behavior, and emphasizes the need to reconnect with the philosophical inquiry into what makes life meaningful.

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💡 Rethinking Time Management: Beyond Productivity

The speaker challenges the conventional wisdom that time cannot be managed due to the overwhelming demands of life. Using a personal anecdote about a professor who suffered personal losses due to her dedication to work, the paragraph highlights the importance of managing time to live a fulfilling life. It discusses the paradox of having more time yet complaining about its scarcity, and how the fear of making wrong choices leads people to claim they have no time. The speaker encourages embracing the freedom to make choices about how to spend our time, suggesting that time management is about making sacrifices for a meaningful life.

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🌟 The Societal Impact of Time Management

In this paragraph, the speaker broadens the discussion to the societal implications of time management, emphasizing its collective nature and the impact of individual choices on the world. The speaker questions the common excuses for not engaging in civic duties or social activities, suggesting that a philosophical approach to time management could lead to more meaningful participation in society. The call to action is to share time with loved ones and to continuously ask questions about how we spend our time, advocating for a mindful and philosophically informed approach to living.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Philosophy

Philosophy is the study of general and fundamental questions about existence, knowledge, values, reason, mind, and language. In the context of the video, it is presented as a tool for asking meaningful questions about life and time, rather than focusing solely on productivity. The video emphasizes that philosophy helps us to understand the true value of our time and to live a meaningful life by questioning modern time management practices.

💡Time Management

Time management refers to the act or process of planning and controlling how much time is used for each activity in order to increase effectiveness, efficiency, and productivity. The video critiques modern time management as being 'philosophically empty,' suggesting it has strayed from its philosophical roots and instead focuses on productivity and efficiency, often at the expense of meaningful living.

💡Existentialism

Existentialism is a philosophical theory that emphasizes individual freedom, choice, and subjective experience within a deterministic universe. The video touches on existentialist themes, such as the inevitability of death and the importance of making meaningful choices with one's time, as illustrated by the question 'why shouldn't I kill myself right now?'

💡Mortality

Mortality is the state of being subject to death. The video uses the concept of mortality to provoke thought about the value of time and the importance of living a meaningful life. The realization of one's mortality is a turning point in the narrative, leading to a deeper inquiry into the purpose of life and the use of time.

💡Productivity

Productivity refers to the efficiency of productive activity in an economy or business. In the video, productivity is portrayed as a common goal of modern time management, often leading to a loss of focus on what truly matters in life. The script contrasts this with a more philosophical approach to time, which values meaning over mere efficiency.

💡Death

Death is the termination of life. The video uses the concept of death to highlight the finite nature of time and to challenge the viewer to consider what is truly valuable in life. It suggests that contemplating death can lead to a reevaluation of one's priorities and a more meaningful approach to time management.

💡Freedom

Freedom, in a philosophical context, refers to the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance. The video discusses the paradox of modern life, where despite having more freedom and options, people often feel trapped by the choices they have, leading to a reluctance to take responsibility for their time.

💡Consequences

Consequences are the results or effects of an action or decision. The video implies that with freedom comes the responsibility to face the consequences of our choices regarding time. It suggests that acknowledging these consequences is crucial for meaningful time management.

💡Choices

Choices are the act of selecting or making a decision when faced with two or more possibilities. The video emphasizes that making choices about how to spend one's time is a fundamental aspect of living a meaningful life. It contrasts the fear of making wrong choices with the empowerment that comes from embracing freedom and responsibility.

💡Isolation

Isolation refers to the state of being alone or separated from others. The video mentions the growing sense of isolation in Western societies, partly due to people feeling they don't have time for social activities. It suggests that a more philosophical approach to time management could help combat this by encouraging people to prioritize relationships.

💡Sacrifice

Sacrifice is the act of giving up something valued for the sake of something else regarded as more important or worthy. The video contrasts sacrifice with making excuses, suggesting that meaningful time management involves making conscious sacrifices in order to focus on what truly matters in life.

Highlights

The speaker's childhood fear of boredom led to a deep realization about the inevitability of death and the finite nature of time.

Philosophy is about asking important questions, especially regarding how to use our limited time meaningfully.

Modern time management focuses on productivity and efficiency, but lacks the philosophical depth of its ancient roots.

Ancient philosophers were concerned with using time to create meaningful lives, in contrast to today's more superficial approach.

The common saying 'time is money' is criticized for cheapening the true value of our finite time.

Thinking of time as money can lead to negative consequences like impatience, greed, and reduced willingness to help others.

Roman philosopher Seneca's view that valuing time as money is undervaluing it, as we have a limited amount of time.

French philosopher Albert Camus suggests that contemplating death can help clarify what we truly value in life.

The speaker challenges the notion that time cannot be managed, using personal anecdotes and philosophical arguments.

The idea that 'I don't have time' is called the biggest lie, as it often masks a lack of prioritization and meaningful choices.

Our great-grandparents had less time due to more demanding work and life conditions, yet they did not complain as much as we do.

Today's society has more time and flexibility, yet we still claim to not have enough time, indicating a deeper issue.

Philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre's perspective on the fear of freedom and the responsibility that comes with it.

The fear of making wrong choices with our time can lead to avoidance and excuses instead of embracing the freedom to manage it.

Time management is a societal issue, not just an individual one, with impacts on voting, reading, and social interactions.

The importance of asking the right questions in time management, rather than seeking quick tips and shortcuts.

A call to embrace philosophy in time management to live more meaningfully and make better use of our time.

Transcripts

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when I was six years old my biggest fear

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was to get bored I used to make to-do

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lists every single day so to always have

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something to do

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but one day I was watching this

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documentary on sea turtles and it said

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that sea turtles can live up to 150

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years of age and I realized as a

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six-year-old kid and I'm probably not

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gonna live that long I'm gonna die it

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was such a strange realization don't you

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feel weird sometimes when you realize

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that no matter what you do in life still

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gonna die in the end so I ran to my

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mother and asked your mom is it cuter

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we're all gonna die someday you me dad

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my friends and she said yes we're all

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gonna die there's nothing you can do

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about that and I was terrified I started

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to cry I cried so hard because of what

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death meant it literally means the end

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of existence the end of everything and I

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wondered what's the point of all this so

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I turned to my mom still crying and said

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so why do we work why do I have to work

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what does dad have to work so much if he

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and everybody else are gonna die anyway

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she never answered my question

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but that question stuck with me ask

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myself a lot of questions and I'm sure

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you do too

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that's what philosophy is all about

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asking questions and what could be more

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important than asking questions about

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how to use your time probably nothing

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because time is all we have so naturally

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you would expect the hold time

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management movement to be very

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philosophical

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after all time management is a concept

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that started out in philosophy the

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ancient philosophers were obsessed with

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this one very important question how can

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we use our time in a way that makes our

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lives meaningful but modern time

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management is philosophically empty time

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management books are written by

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consultants not philosophers it's always

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about tips and tricks and techniques to

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get more things done to do things faster

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to be more productive more efficient and

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to work better time management has

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become philosophically empty time

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management has moved away from his

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philosophical roots but if we really

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want to live a meaningful life we have

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to once again reinforce and philosophy

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starts with questions here's a very

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simple question why do we need to manage

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time some people might say it's because

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time is precious very precious so we

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need to manage it but how precious is

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time exactly see whenever I introduced

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myself to people as a time management

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researcher the first thing people say is

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oh yeah time management it's that's

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really important because because time is

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money time is money

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every time I hear time is money it

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reminds me of this conversation I had

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over coffee with this acquaintance of

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mine he was a he was a contractor as

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what we're talking he looked slightly

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annoyed and impatient so I asked him

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Jeff what's going on man everything all

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right and he said she said I hate

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wasting my time makes me so so angry

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it's awesome what do you mean and he

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said look I make on in 60 dollars an

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hour that means every hour I spend with

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you I'm losing 160 bucks I was slightly

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offended to be honest but it's what he

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said next that really shocked me he said

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whenever I'm spending time with my own

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kids it makes me so angry because yeah

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i'm spending time with them but every

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hour i spend with my kids I'm not making

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$160 and it's not just an anecdote you

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can see this everywhere experiments show

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that whenever people start to think of

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time as money they become more agitated

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less happy always in a rush and

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importantly they get greedy they become

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less likely to help people out to

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volunteer or to think about the

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environment because nothing else matters

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when you're making out in $60 an hour

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the real question is is money the real

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value of time the Roman philosopher

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Seneca said that if we think of time as

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money we're actually valuing our time

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very cheaply we value our time very

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cheaply because we think we're we have a

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lot of it because we think we're gonna

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live forever but we're not gonna live

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forever we're gonna die and the moment

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you realize and I mean fully realized

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that you're going to die on an $60 an

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hour it won't mean much time is not

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money anymore now some people might say

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that thinking about death is not exactly

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cheerful maybe but it's very helpful the

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French philosopher Albert Camus

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said that the most fundamental question

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in philosophy is why shouldn't I kill

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myself right now it's true why shouldn't

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kill you why shouldn't you kill yourself

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right now your answer to that question

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will remind you what you're truly living

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for your answer to that question will

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remind you of the true value of your

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time because time is not money when you

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know you're going to die and this is how

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philosophy helps with time management

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it helps us ask meaningful questions

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about time

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here's another seemingly simple question

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can you manage time back in college I

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had this uh.this professor used to tell

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me that you can't manage time time

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management is you can't manage

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time because there's too much too many

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things to do too much work to do too

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many obligations you can't manage time

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she's to publicly brag about how she

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never sees her daughter because she has

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she never has time people admired her

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because she was so productive but what

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people didn't know was that her work

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obligations also made her depressed they

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cost her a marriage and of course she

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never really got to know our daughter

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but what truly pains me is that things

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could have been otherwise she could've

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been all out she could have been alive

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today and see her daughter grew up but

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she didn't believe that time could be

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managed so she never tried whenever I

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used to drop by her office she would

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tell me sorry kiddo I don't have time

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but that was a lie I don't have time is

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the biggest lie in the history of

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mankind you know who really didn't have

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time your great grandparents those guys

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had no time at all they had to work 12

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hours a day every single day it's not

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just work everything back then was more

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time-consuming people didn't have

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washing machines so they'd have to wash

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everything by hand they didn't have

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frozen meals so that to cook everything

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from scratch and all those things took

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hours to do back in the days that's why

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a great grandparents really didn't have

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time

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but here's the incredible thing our

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great-grandparents did not complain

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about not having time we do it's a

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paradox we have more time than they did

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and yet we still complain that we don't

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have time why because we have more

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options more freedom to choose our time

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options as we please

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look at how we live today we can shop on

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Amazon 24/7 any day of the year

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women can delay pregnancy by freezing

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their eggs more and more companies offer

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flexible work schedules we can watch our

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favorite shows any time I want on

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Netflix so not only do we have more time

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but we have also have a lot more

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flexibility a lot more a lot more

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freedom to use our time as we please

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and we still say that we don't have time

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why the philosopher jean-paul Sartre has

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said that we have this tendency to trick

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ourselves into thinking we're not free

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because being free to use your time as

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you please means that you have to make a

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choice and live with the consequences of

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that choice that mean that means

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whatever you do with your time it's on

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you and that's the scary part it's scary

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because what if we made the wrong

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choices

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what if we're missing out it's this

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constant fear of missing out would your

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life have been better had you spent more

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time with your kids or more time

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studying or more time partying maybe we

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don't want to know that's why we say we

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don't have time it gives us an excuse

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it's reassuring but in reality we do

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have time and time can be managed it's

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just that we don't have a lot of it so

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they have to be sacrifices we can't have

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it all when it comes to time we can

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either make sacrifices or make excuses

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but only one of them will allow you to

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live meaningfully we live in an era of

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unprecedented flexibility where we

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actually afford to work less and do more

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meaningful things with our time so why

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don't we and by we I really mean us you

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me and everybody else in the city

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because time management is not just

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about you it's about all of us it's

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about all of us as a society the way you

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manage your time has huge consequences

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for our world what do people say when

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they don't vote I didn't have time what

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do people say we didn't read I don't

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have time why don't people relax go the

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museum or volunteer I don't have time

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but this wouldn't be the case if we

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thought about time management the way

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philosophers do by asking questions the

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right questions instead of focusing on

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tips tricks and shortcuts so what kind

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of questions can we ask ourselves well

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is it reasonable to let you boss call

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you on weekends is it worth it is it

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worth your time and buy time I really

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mean life not money because you're not

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paying your bosses with some with some

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commodity you're paying them with your

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time you're paying them with your life

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if that's not precious I don't know what

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is next time you tell a friend you don't

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have time to hang out ask yourself if

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you actually have better things to do

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or if you're just making excuses because

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there's a growing sense of isolation in

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Western societies people feel alone

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partly because people feel they don't

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have time to hang out anymore though we

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do have time so please share it with the

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people you care about if you can

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remember if you want to if you want to

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manage your time meaningfully embrace

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philosophy and never stop asking

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questions thank you

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you

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