Use This ONE Simple Trick To Find Out Her Ideal 'DICK' Size!

DrRachael Ross
5 Apr 202411:07

Summary

TLDRIn this video script, Dr. Rachel Ross, a family medicine physician and clinical sexologist, explores the concept of size mismatch in sexual relationships. She discusses ancient Chinese practices of matching partners based on facial features to predict genital size compatibility. The script delves into the importance of fit during penetration, the role of clitoral stimulation in female orgasm, and the average preferences for penis size, concluding with a method to determine compatibility based on preferred orgasm type.

Takeaways

  • 👥 Personality mismatches are common, but 'size mismatch' in relationships is less discussed, referring to physical differences in male and female genitalia.
  • 🔍 In ancient Chinese culture, matchmakers used facial features and the symmetry of the face to estimate male genital size and match partners accordingly.
  • 🧐 The concept suggests that a man's preferred partner should have genital proportions that complement his own, like a 'whale' needing an 'ocean' or an 'eel' needing a 'pond'.
  • 👩‍⚕️ Dr. Rachel Ross, a family medicine physician and clinical sexologist, discusses the importance of size compatibility in sexual relationships.
  • 👀 The script mentions the theory that facial features can provide cues about the size and shape of a woman's vaginal canal, with eyes being particularly indicative.
  • 💦 It's suggested that women with 'big watery eyes' may have a 'big watery vagina,' and other facial features correlate with vaginal depth and width.
  • 🤔 The script raises the question of what size is most pleasurable for women, noting that most women do not reach orgasm through penile-vaginal penetration alone.
  • 👁️‍🗨️ The distance between a woman's clitoris and vaginal opening is crucial for orgasm potential during vaginal penetration, with a closer distance being more favorable.
  • 🛍️ A study on sex toy preferences suggests that women tend to prefer toys with average dimensions, close to the size of an average erect penis.
  • 🔢 Women's preferences for penis size may vary depending on the type of relationship, with larger sizes preferred for one-night stands and smaller sizes for long-term partners.
  • 💌 The script encourages communication between partners about sexual preferences and suggests using facial features as an informal guide to potential size compatibility.

Q & A

  • What is a size mismatch in relationships according to the script?

    -A size mismatch in relationships, as mentioned in the script, refers to a situation where the male partner is either too small or too large for his female partner, which can affect their sexual compatibility.

  • How did ancient Chinese matchmakers approach size mismatches?

    -Ancient Chinese matchmakers used facial properties and the symmetry of the face to estimate male genital size and used female facial properties to estimate the dimensions and qualities of her vaginal canal, in order to match partners appropriately.

  • What is the concept of 'Dos Theory' as discussed in the video?

    -'Dos Theory' is a concept that suggests the face can reveal information about a person's genitals. It was used to determine the size and shape of the vagina and penis based on facial features and fingers.

  • How does THS Theory relate to a woman's vaginal canal size according to facial features?

    -According to THS Theory, facial features can give cues about the size and shape of a woman's vaginal canal. For example, big watery eyes may indicate a wider vagina, while small mouth and short fingers may indicate a small and short vagina.

  • What does the script suggest about the relationship between a woman's mouth and vaginal canal dimensions?

    -The script suggests that if a woman has a small mouth and short fingers, she would likely have a small and short vagina. Conversely, a woman with a wide mouth and thin lips would have a narrow yet long or deep vaginal canal.

  • What is the significance of the distance between a woman's clitoris and vaginal opening in terms of sexual pleasure?

    -The distance between a woman's clitoris and vaginal opening is significant for sexual pleasure. If the distance is more than 2.5 cm, the woman is less likely to reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone.

  • How does the script connect the size of a man's penis to the likelihood of a woman reaching orgasm through vaginal penetration?

    -The script suggests that women who can orgasm through vaginal penetration are more likely to prefer a larger, thicker penis. A snug fit, indicating a better size match, may lead to a higher level of pleasure.

  • What question does Dr. Rachel Ross recommend asking a female partner to determine if there might be a size mismatch?

    -Dr. Rachel Ross recommends asking a female partner if she prefers orgasm through penetration or oral sex, as this can indicate her preference for penis size and potentially reveal a size mismatch.

  • What does the script reveal about the average size preferences of women based on sex toy purchases?

    -The script reveals that, based on a study of British women's sex toy purchases, the most popular toys had an average circumference similar to the average erect penis (4.8 inches) and a length of about 7 inches, which is slightly longer than the average erect penis length.

  • How does the preferred penis size vary depending on the type of relationship, according to the script?

    -According to the script, in a one-night stand, women preferred a penis length of about 6.4 inches and a circumference of 5 inches. For a long-term partner, they preferred slightly smaller sizes, possibly to avoid feeling worn out from frequent sexual activity.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 The Concept of Size Mismatch in Relationships

Dr. Rachel Ross, a family medicine physician and clinical sexologist, introduces the concept of size mismatch in romantic relationships, a less-discussed issue compared to personality clashes. Size mismatch refers to physical incongruence between male and female partners. Historically, Chinese matchmakers used facial features to predict genital size and match couples accordingly. The theory suggested that a man's size should correspond to the depth and width of the woman's vagina, as indicated by her facial symmetry. Dr. Ross emphasizes the importance of sexual compatibility in a successful relationship and hints at the potential for size mismatch to affect it.

05:02

📏 The Role of Anatomy in Sexual Pleasure

The video script delves into the anatomical factors that influence sexual pleasure, particularly the relationship between the clitoris and the vagina. It discusses the 'clitoral-urethra-vaginal complex' and its importance in sexual stimulation. The script mentions a study conducted by French princess Marie Bonaparte in the 1920s, which found that the distance between a woman's clitoris and vaginal opening affects her ability to orgasm through vaginal penetration. The closer the clitoris is to the vaginal opening, the more likely a woman is to experience orgasm during penetration. The script also suggests a question to ask a partner to determine their preference for penetration or oral stimulation, which can indicate their preference for penis size.

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📏️ Women's Preferences for Penis Size

The final paragraph examines women's preferences regarding penis size during sexual penetration. It references studies that suggest women generally prefer an average-sized penis, with specific measurements provided for length and circumference. The script contrasts preferences for one-night stands versus long-term partners, noting that women may prefer larger sizes for short-term encounters to avoid the discomfort of frequent sex. The video concludes with advice on using facial features to gauge potential size compatibility in a relationship and encourages viewers to subscribe to Dr. Rachel Ross's channel for more insights.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡Personality Mismatches

Personality mismatches refer to the incompatibility between individuals in a relationship, often leading to frequent arguments and disagreements. In the context of the video, this term is used to contrast with 'size mismatches,' which are less commonly discussed but can also affect relationship dynamics. The video suggests that while personality clashes are well-known, size mismatches in physical attributes can have a significant impact on sexual compatibility.

💡Size Mismatch

A size mismatch, as discussed in the video, specifically pertains to sexual relationships where the male partner's physical attributes are either too small or too large for the female partner. This concept is central to the video's theme, which explores how such mismatches can affect sexual satisfaction and compatibility. The video mentions that ancient Chinese matchmakers would use facial properties to estimate genital size, aiming to match partners accordingly.

💡Ancient Chinese Matchmakers

Ancient Chinese matchmakers were individuals who would pair individuals for marriage based on various criteria, including physical compatibility. In the video, it is mentioned that these matchmakers used facial properties and the symmetry of the face to estimate male genital size and female vaginal characteristics, highlighting a cultural practice that considered physical attributes in matchmaking.

💡Facial Properties

Facial properties refer to the physical features of a person's face, such as the size and shape of the eyes, mouth, and cheekbones. The video explains that, according to an ancient theory, these facial properties were believed to correlate with genital size and shape. For example, the size of a woman's eyes might suggest the width of her vaginal canal, and the fullness of her lips might indicate the width of her vagina.

💡Vaginal Canal

The vaginal canal is the muscular part of the female reproductive system that extends from the vulva to the cervix. In the video, it is discussed in the context of size mismatches, where the characteristics of the vaginal canal, such as length and depth, are considered important for sexual compatibility. The video suggests that certain facial features can provide cues about the size and shape of a woman's vaginal canal.

💡Clitoral Stimulation

Clitoral stimulation refers to the act of stimulating the clitoris, a part of the female reproductive anatomy that is highly sensitive and often plays a key role in achieving orgasm. The video mentions that women are more likely to reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than penile-vaginal penetration alone, emphasizing the importance of this aspect of sexual activity for female pleasure.

💡Clitoral Anatomy

Clitoral anatomy pertains to the structure and parts of the clitoris, which includes both the visible glans and the underlying tissue. The video explains that the clitoris is more extensive than just the visible part, with much of it located beneath the surface. Understanding this anatomy is crucial for the video's discussion on sexual pleasure and orgasm, as the connections between the clitoris, urethra, and vagina form a complex that is central to sexual stimulation.

💡Cliterous-Urethra-Vaginal Complex

The cliterous-urethra-vaginal complex is a term used in the video to describe the interconnected structures of the clitoris, urethra, and vagina. These structures, when in close proximity, form a 'pleasure center' that is more easily stimulated during sexual activity. The video suggests that the distance between the glans clitoris and the vaginal opening can affect a woman's ability to achieve orgasm through vaginal penetration.

💡Orgasm

An orgasm is the peak of sexual pleasure and typically involves a series of involuntary muscle contractions and heightened emotional response. In the video, orgasm is discussed in relation to female sexual satisfaction, noting that only a small percentage of women can achieve orgasm through penile-vaginal penetration alone. The video explores factors that can influence a woman's ability to orgasm, including size compatibility and stimulation techniques.

💡Sex Toys

Sex toys are objects or devices used to enhance sexual pleasure. The video references a study on the popularity of various sex toys among British women, suggesting that the size and shape of the toys they prefer can provide insights into their preferences for penis size. The study mentioned in the video found that the most popular toys had an average circumference similar to that of the average erect penis, indicating a preference for average-sized penises.

💡Penile-Vaginal Penetration

Penile-vaginal penetration refers to the act of sexual intercourse where the penis is inserted into the vagina. The video discusses the challenges some women face in achieving orgasm through this type of penetration alone, attributing it to factors such as size mismatches, technique, and the anatomy of the clitoris in relation to the vagina.

Highlights

Personality mismatches are common, but size mismatches in relationships are less discussed.

Ancient Chinese culture used facial properties to estimate physical compatibility.

The concept of a man being a 'whale' or an 'eel' and the corresponding female partner's preference.

Dr. Rachel Ross, a family medicine physician and clinical sexologist, discusses the importance of size compatibility.

The Dos Theory's belief that facial features can indicate genital size and shape.

Eyes are believed to be 90% accurate in indicating the size and shape of a woman's vaginal canal.

Women with big watery eyes may have a 'big watery vagina' according to the theory.

A woman's mouth and finger length can indicate the size of her vaginal canal.

Lip shape and size can suggest the depth and width of a woman's vaginal canal.

The distance between a woman's clitoris and vagina can affect orgasm potential during penetration.

Only 18% of women report reaching orgasm through penile-vaginal penetration alone.

The clitoris, urethra, and vagina connections are crucial for sexual pleasure.

A snug fit during penetration is associated with higher levels of pleasure.

Women's preferences for orgasm type can indicate their preference for penis size.

The average preferred penis size for women is around 6 to 6.5 inches long and 4.5 to 5.5 inches in circumference when erect.

Women may prefer larger sizes for short-term relationships due to less concern for comfort over time.

Studies on sex toy preferences indicate that women tend to choose toys close to the average penis size.

Transcripts

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so you you know about personality mismas these  are those couples that you see arguing non-stop  

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well for some reason they seem like they just  can't get along but did you know there's also  

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a mismatch that people rarely talk about and  it's called a size mismatch a size mismatch  

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is where the male partner is either too small  or too large for his female partner as a matter  

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of fact this was such a well-known concept that  in ancient Chinese culture matchmakers actually  

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used facial properties the symmetry of the face  to guesstimate mail length and girth and then  

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match partners by using female facial properties  to guesstimate the length and the depth and the  

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qualities of her vaginal Canal well I'm Dr Rachel  Ross a board certified Family Medicine physician  

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and a clinical sexologist and today we dive deep  into the issue of size his size and her size cuz  

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it does matter now the concept was if a man was a  whale his preferred partner would need to have an  

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ocean for him to float and swim around in on the  flip side of that if the man had an eel and not  

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a whale his preferred partner would have a nice  small pond for him to swim in and ancient match  

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makers really understood that a size Mitch Match  could really throw things off sexually and in a  

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world where so much can actually go wrong when  you pair up two people during a marriage they  

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at least really wanted to make sure that they got  the sex part right so according to Dos Theory the  

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face revealed everything about the genitals they  use the face and the fingers to determine the size  

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the shape even the consistency of the vagina and  the penis so take a look at your hands and take a  

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look at her face you can actually learn how to  spot a size mismatch before it even becomes a  

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thing right like at dinner or even on on a zoom  call starting with the eyes THS Theory believes  

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that the facial features are about at least 90%  accurate about giving cues about the size and the  

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shape of a woman's vaginal Canal H so if a woman  has big watery eyes the concept is that she would  

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have a quote big watery vagina in fact the bigger  the eyes The Wider the vagina so for guys who are  

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bigger that's a plus right if she has a small  mouth and short fingers she would have a small  

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and short vagina now a woman with a wide mouth  and thin lips would have a narrow yet long or  

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deep vaginal Canal if she has big full juicy lips  then her vagina would be wide now a woman with  

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bulging eyes so the eyes say everything she would  actually have a short vagina seems quite opposite  

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a woman with puckered and protruding lip lips or  high cheekbones are actually thought to have a  

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very elastic vagina that's wet warm and soft so of  course that's the kind that everyone wants to have  

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they now they firmly believe that a woman with a  long narrow vagina would actually be best suited  

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for a man who had a long thin penis right and a  female with a short and wide vagina would be best  

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matched with a man with a short chubby so this is  based off of thousand years of DS Theory but what  

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does the average woman think about size how much  is enough is there such a thing as too big and  

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since we know size does matter what size is the  best so in this video we'll discuss what science  

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tells us about what size brings the most pleasure  and the most joy and ultimately what size do women  

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actually prefer so since every woman is different  I'll tell you one simple question you can ask her  

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before the two of you actually have sex to uncover  whether or not a size mismatch exists before you  

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waste time and kind of hook up both of you can be  on the same Pages now there are two popular ways  

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to measure sexual pleasure in women one you can  ask her or survey her and you can measure or ask  

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them to document if and when they had an orgasm  and the studies that we talk about did just that  

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in fact only 18% of women report that they can  actually even reach orgasm with penile and vaginal  

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penetration alone H and women are more likely to  reach orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation  

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or through oral manipulation of the clitoris that  is a known fact so if you are a gent and you are  

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watching this then no doubt you're wondering if  your partner has better statistics than that but  

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the lack of orgasm during vaginal penetration has  to do with four things so listen up it has to do  

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with her size his size the technique and actually  the anatomy the proximity of the exterior portion  

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of the clitoris the gland's clitoris to the  opening of the vagina how far or how close  

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is this now to illustrate this in 1920s kind of  interesting French princess Marie bonapart was  

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frustrated that she herself could not reach orgasm  with vaginal penetration so she recruited over 200  

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women now where she found these women who knows  and measured the distance between each woman's  

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clitoris and vagina her hypothesis was that  the further the the gland clitoris was from the  

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vaginal opening the less likely the woman would  be to have an orgasm with vaginal penetration and  

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guess what she's absolutely right if the distance  between a woman's clitorous the gland's clitoris  

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and the vaginal opening is more than 2 and 1 half  CM then that woman is less likely to reach orgasm  

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with vaginal penetration and why is that well the  answer lies in the part of the clitoral Anatomy  

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that you really can't see so this is the glands  this is the part that you can see which is most  

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recognizable part of the clitoris it's actually  the tip of the iceberg people call it a button  

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but just like an ice Iceberg sticks out of the  water but has a huge part beneath the water the  

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clitoris is the same you you see the glands on top  but most of the clitoris is actually underneath  

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the surface and not seen the pleasure is found in  the connections between the clitoris the urethra  

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and the vag vagina we call that the cliterous  urethra vaginal complex these connections are  

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really what makes SE sex pleasurable and when  this area squish close together it is easier to  

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stimulate the complete pleasure Center because all  of these structures exist in a tight compact space  

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now when the glands of the clitoris is far away  from the intis or the opening of the vagina it's  

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really just more difficult for a penetrating PL  penis to stimulate and to stroke all of the parts  

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of the clitoris since it's all really underneath  there so this is why a snug fit seems to indicate  

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the highest level of pleasure when it comes  to penetration sex so since every every woman  

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is completely different there's one question that  you can ask a female partner to uncover whether or  

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not she would prefer a large whale or a small eel  and this question is do you prefer orgasm through  

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penetration or oral see because science tells  us that women who prefer it on the inside and  

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who can orgasm through vaginal penetration are  actually more likely to like a bigger thicker  

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penis so if you have one you two might be match  if you don't have a big one well she's a potential  

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mismatch now how many inches exactly do women  want we can look at the size and the shape of  

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sex toys that they've bought to kind of give us  some idea the thought is that women are going to  

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buy sex toys that they like the shape of and they  like the size of the best right so there actually  

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is a study that where they surveyed women who  bought sex toys now these are British women so  

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this isn't everybody and this happened in the  UK and accessed the popularity of 265 sex toys  

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they looked at their size they looked at the  material they looked at the price blah blah  

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blah but what they found is that women don't buy  the huge Mamba Jamba the toys that they love the  

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best had an average circumference of about 4.8  in which is actually the size of the average  

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Joe the average erect penis and girth is around  4.59 in so women did however fig favor a longer  

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dildo at about 7 in but these things do need to  have a long enough handle or else they could get  

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lost so the average length of an erect P penis  meanwhile is around 5.16 in so they do like them  

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a little longer in toys now this study really  only accounts for British consumers and clearly  

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that is not most of women but it does provide a  clue now another study they did used 3D models  

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and they found that the preferred length varied  depending on if the guy is a fling or if he's a  

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steady partner ain't that interesting right so  for a one night stand women preferred a length  

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of about 6.4 in and a circumference of 5 in for  a long-term partner they actually preferred them  

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to be slightly smaller now this is because women  don't like feeling worn out and soar down there  

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two three four five times a week and you don't  get that if it's just a one night fling so when  

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we explore this issue of size scientifically we  find that women prefer an average siiz penis when  

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it comes to PR penetration around 6 to 6 and 1/2  Ines long when erect with a circumference of 4  

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and 1/2 to 5 and 1/2 in women who prefer a longer  in thicker size typically are women who like and  

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who can orgasm through penetration and if your  package is longer and thicker than the average  

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women are more likely to just want to keep you  in the friends with benefit category and not  

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the marrying type so use those facial features to  figure out where you guys are with things so there  

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you have it I'm Dr Rachel subscribe to the channel  if you like what you see or hear and stay ahead  

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of the game so also check out my new podcast  called give me an e whereever you you enjoy  

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