SIAPA SAJAKAH YANG HARAM UNTUK DINIKAHI ? - Ustadz DR. Khalid Basalamah, MA

Summary

This video discusses important Islamic marriage laws, emphasizing prohibitions on marrying certain relatives such as mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts, and nieces. The speaker explains the significance of following Shariah guidelines, with detailed explanations on the relationships deemed mahram (forever unmarriageable). Key points include the prohibition of marrying two sisters simultaneously, the rules regarding stepchildren and in-laws, and the rules surrounding widows and divorcees. The video highlights the divine wisdom behind these laws, stressing that they ensure the preservation of family ties and the sanctity of marriage in Islam.

Takeaways

• 😀 Prohibited marriages in Islam include one's mother, daughter, sister, aunts (both paternal and maternal), and uncles.
• 😀 One cannot marry the daughter of a wife from a previous marriage unless the marriage was not consummated.
• 😀 A mother-in-law is always considered a mahram, meaning marriage to her is prohibited, even after divorce from the daughter.
• 😀 Nursing relationships create a mahram status, meaning if a person has been breastfed by a woman, her biological children are also considered mahram.
• 😀 Marriage between two sisters is not allowed in Islam while they are both alive, though if one sister dies, the widower may marry the surviving sister.
• 😀 Marrying a stepdaughter from a previous marriage is forbidden if the marriage with the mother has been consummated.
• 😀 It is forbidden to marry one’s niece, whether the niece is from a paternal or maternal side.
• 😀 The terminology of family members varies in Arabic, with terms like 'Amah' for paternal aunt, 'Hal' for maternal aunt, and specific terms for uncles.
• 😀 In Islamic law, a person is encouraged to prioritize care for paternal uncles over maternal uncles when their father has passed.
• 😀 Islamic law establishes clear rules around who can and cannot be married, with exceptions if the relationship was not consummated, such as in the case of widowhood or divorce without physical relations.

Q & A

What does the speaker mention about the concept of marriage in Islam?

The speaker explains that marriage in Islam is governed by specific rules, and it is not something to be taken lightly. The importance of adhering to the rules and guidelines set by Sharia law is emphasized, particularly in regard to whom one can marry.

Which Quranic verse is cited to explain the prohibited relationships in marriage?

The speaker references Surah An-Nisa, verse 23, where Allah forbids marrying certain individuals due to familial ties, such as mothers, daughters, and sisters.

What are the specific familial relationships that are prohibited for marriage according to the speaker?

The prohibited relationships include mothers, daughters, sisters, aunts (from both the paternal and maternal sides), nieces, and women who have breastfed the individual, among others.

What is the significance of the terms 'amma' and 'khala' in Islamic family relationships?

In Arabic, 'amma' refers to the paternal aunt, while 'khala' refers to the maternal aunt. These terms distinguish the different familial roles and help clarify the rules of marriage in relation to extended family members.

Why is it important to differentiate between the maternal and paternal sides when discussing marriage rules?

It is important because Islamic law distinguishes between the maternal and paternal sides of the family in terms of who is considered mahram (forbidden to marry). This distinction also has legal implications for acts of filial piety.

What is the relationship between a maternal aunt and a woman's duties if her mother passes away?

A maternal aunt (khala) is seen as a replacement for the mother in terms of filial duty after the mother's death. This highlights the importance of respecting both paternal and maternal sides of the family according to Sharia.

How does the speaker explain the rules regarding marriage to the daughters of one's siblings?

The speaker explains that one is prohibited from marrying the daughters (nieces) of both one's brothers and sisters, as they are considered mahram and are forbidden to marry.

What does the speaker say about the concept of 'breastfeeding' and its impact on marriage rules?

According to Sharia, if a person has been breastfed by a woman five or more times until they are fully satisfied, the child is considered a foster child, and marriage with that individual becomes forbidden, even if there is no blood relation.

What is the rule regarding marrying the ex-wife's daughter?

The speaker explains that if someone has married a widow with a daughter and has had sexual relations with the widow, the daughter becomes mahram, and marriage with her is prohibited, even if the marriage to the mother ends in divorce.

What is the rule regarding marrying two sisters in Islam?

In Islam, it is prohibited to marry two sisters simultaneously. However, it is allowed to marry one sister after the other, such as when one sister passes away.