How to Achieve More in 1 Week than Most People Do in 12 months
Summary
TLDRThe video script emphasizes the importance of breaking free from the societal norms that dictate our life stages and encourages viewers to avoid 'sleepwalking' through life. It challenges the traditional narrative of education, career, and retirement, highlighting the high percentage of dissatisfied workers and the short-lived nature of life. The speaker, Clark, introduces four pivotal questions designed to help individuals identify their true desires and potential, and to stop doing what hinders their progress. The script is a call to action for self-reflection and conscious living, aiming to help viewers achieve more in a week than most do in a year by waking up to their purpose and potential.
Takeaways
- ๐ The script emphasizes that despite everyone having the same amount of time, people differ vastly in what they achieve, suggesting a need for more effective life management.
- ๐ The speaker proposes that productivity advice often focuses on being busy rather than on achieving meaningful productivity, highlighting the importance of focusing on the right tasks.
- ๐ The script introduces the concept of 'busy versus true productivity', encouraging viewers to reflect on whether their efforts align with their life purpose.
- ๐ It presents a life stage model dividing life into three phases: learning (0-25), working (25-65), and retirement (65-80), challenging the traditional narrative of life progression.
- ๐ก The speaker suggests that most people are 'sleepwalking' through life, accepting societal norms without questioning, which can lead to a life of dissatisfaction.
- ๐ฃ๏ธ Ben Franklin's quote is cited to illustrate the idea that many people stop truly living at a young age, only to physically pass away much later.
- ๐ A disheartening statistic shared is that up to 85% of Americans are dissatisfied with their jobs, indicating a widespread issue with life engagement in the working phase.
- ๐ The importance of waking up from societal programming and starting to live a life that is fulfilling and aligned with one's own desires is underscored.
- โ The speaker introduces four key questions designed to prompt self-reflection and help individuals break free from the mundane and start living purposefully.
- ๐ The third question, 'What are the three things I need to stop doing?', is highlighted as crucial for eliminating obstacles and making room for progress.
- ๐ค The final question encourages individuals to consider what advice they would give to someone else in their situation, promoting objectivity and clarity in decision-making.
Q & A
What is the main message of the video about productivity and life stages?
-The main message of the video is to challenge the traditional life stages and the concept of 'busyness' versus true productivity. It encourages viewers to focus on the right tasks and to live life purposefully rather than just going through the motions.
Why does the speaker suggest watching the video at 1.75 speed?
-The speaker suggests watching the video at 1.75 speed because it is packed with a lot of information, and the pace of the content is fast to match the intensity of the message.
What is the 'standard narrative' of life stages that the speaker refers to?
-The 'standard narrative' refers to the common life path that includes going to school, college, working for 40 years, and then retiring for the last 20 years of life, which is a pattern that has been passed down and accepted without question by many.
What does the speaker mean by 'sleepwalking through life'?
-The term 'sleepwalking through life' is used to describe the state of living life without being fully conscious or engaged in one's choices and actions, often following a path set by others without questioning it.
What is the significance of the quote by Ben Franklin mentioned in the video?
-The quote by Ben Franklin, 'Most people die at 25, but we just bury them at 75,' is used to emphasize the idea that many people stop growing or pursuing their passions at a certain age and simply exist until their death.
What are the four key questions the speaker suggests asking oneself to improve productivity and life direction?
-The four key questions are: 1) What would I do if I was fearless and could not fail? 2) What will I be most proud of one year from today? 3) What are the three things I need to stop doing? 4) What advice would I give someone else in my exact same situation?
Why is it important to ask 'What would I do if I was fearless and could not fail?'
-This question is important because it encourages individuals to think beyond their fears and limitations, allowing them to identify their true desires and aspirations without the constraints of perceived failure.
How does the speaker define 'true productivity'?
-True productivity, according to the speaker, is not just about being busy or efficient in task execution. It is about focusing on the right tasks that align with one's purpose and goals, rather than just completing tasks for the sake of being productive.
What is the role of the best coaches according to the video?
-The best coaches, as per the video, do not provide all the answers but instead ask the right questions that help individuals think critically and find their own path to improvement and success.
Why does the speaker emphasize the importance of writing down the four questions and reflecting on them?
-Writing down the four questions and reflecting on them is emphasized because it encourages a deeper level of self-exploration and introspection. It prompts individuals to take concrete steps towards understanding their desires, fears, and potential paths to success.
What is the purpose of the question 'What advice would I give someone else in my exact same situation?'
-This question aims to provide an objective perspective on one's own situation by creating a mental distance between the individual and their problems. It allows for clearer thinking and more rational decision-making.
Outlines
๐ The Illusion of Time and Productivity
The speaker introduces the concept that despite everyone having the same 24 hours in a day, people achieve vastly different results. They challenge the audience to consider why some individuals are more productive and question the conventional advice on productivity that often focuses on being busy rather than focusing on the right tasks. The speaker emphasizes the importance of 'true productivity' over being busy and suggests that a higher-level perspective is needed to make significant progress towards one's purpose.
๐ค๏ธ Life's Stages and the Standard Narrative
The script discusses the traditional three stages of life: youth (0-25 years), adulthood (26-65 years), and old age (66-80 years). It highlights the common narrative that people follow: education, career, and then retirement. The speaker points out that most people are sleepwalking through life, accepting this narrative without questioning it. They reference Ben Franklin's quote about people dying at 25 and being buried at 75 to illustrate the idea that many people stop pursuing their passions and live a life of routine and dissatisfaction.
๐ถโโ๏ธ Avoiding the Sleepwalking Life
The speaker encourages the audience to avoid the trap of sleepwalking through life, chasing after a fantasy of happiness that is always postponed. They argue that getting rich or being a 'somebody' isn't the only path to fulfillment and that the pursuit of such goals can be a curse that holds people back. The speaker emphasizes the importance of waking up to one's own desires and living life on one's own terms, rather than following societal expectations.
๐ค The Power of Questions for Self-Reflection
The speaker introduces four questions designed to help the audience reflect on their lives and make significant progress. They argue that the best coaches don't have the answers but the right questions. The first question prompts the audience to consider what they would do if they were fearless and couldn't fail, challenging them to think beyond their fears and limitations. The speaker suggests writing down the answers to these questions and committing to act on them.
๐ Defining Success and Happiness
The speaker continues with the second question, asking what the audience will be most proud of one year from now. They discuss the importance of setting goals that align with one's values and passions, rather than pursuing goals out of fear or societal pressure. The speaker also touches on the idea of self-improvement, suggesting that it should be motivated by excitement and a desire for what is best for oneself, rather than by a heavy, fear-based approach.
โ Identifying Unnecessary Actions
The third question asks the audience to identify three things they need to stop doing to get out of their own way. The speaker uses the analogy of dieting to illustrate how stopping certain actions can be more effective than adding new ones. They emphasize the importance of recognizing and eliminating activities that detract from happiness and energy.
๐ฃ๏ธ Seeking Perspective Through Advice
The final question prompts the audience to consider what advice they would give to someone else in their exact situation. The speaker suggests that distancing oneself from a problem can provide a more objective perspective and lead to clearer solutions. They highlight the importance of self-reflection and the ability to see one's situation clearly to make meaningful progress.
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Keywords
๐กProductivity
๐กPurpose
๐กSleepwalking through life
๐กFearlessness
๐กPain and Pleasure
๐กReinvention
๐กSelf-improvement
๐กDiscipline
๐กEffortless
๐กAdvice
Highlights
The importance of focusing on the right tasks rather than just being busy.
The concept of 'busyness' versus true productivity and the need for a higher level perspective.
Life divided into three major stages: Young, Adulthood, and Old Season.
The standard narrative of life and how it may lead to sleepwalking through it.
Benjamin Franklin's quote about people dying at 25 but being buried at 75.
The average life expectancy and the reality of dissatisfaction in jobs.
The misconception that life begins after retirement and the importance of waking up to reality.
The idea that success is not only about doing more but also about stopping certain activities.
The four key questions to ask oneself for personal growth and productivity.
Question 1: What would you do if you were fearless and could not fail?
Question 2: What will you be most proud of one year from today?
Question 3: What are the three things you need to stop doing?
Question 4: What advice would you give someone else in your exact same situation?
The effectiveness of self-reflection and distancing oneself from personal problems for better advice.
The contrast between self-improvement through fear versus self-improvement through excitement and desire.
The importance of aligning actions with personal values and desires for a fulfilling life.
The call to action for viewers to implement the four questions into their lives for significant change.
The offer of a coaching program for those looking to reinvent themselves and ask the tough questions.
Transcripts
[Music]
is there anything better than that sound
probably not good for you but I'm trying
to get more done in one week than most
do in one year you have to watch this
video at 75 speed cuz there just so much
coming at you at once why is it that
despite having 24 hours in a day every
single one of us on this planet we're
all equal in the amount of time we have
we're definitely not equal in results
why is it that some people can get more
done in a day than most people can do in
an entire month and in this video I want
to teach you not how to get the most out
of your time cuz you can go to videos on
productivity advice and okay organize
your day in this like a lot of
productivity advice have you noticed
this it just teaches you how to be busy
like how to be a better robot at
executing these tasks do you ever zoom
out and wonder am I focusing on the
right tasks cuz who cares if you're
productive if you're productive on the
wrong things busy verse true
productivity this is what we're talking
about in this video and man if you just
focus on what uh these four questions
I'll give you in this like higher level
perspective I mean this is literally the
difference between you having 5 years of
busy work versus 5 years of going
towards your purpose so with that let's
get into it so we hit him with the chart
let's hit him with the chart almost hit
me with the chart we're using the
Sharpie Magnum baby the only time I've
ever been able to use Magnums in my life
here we have age 0 to 80 years old now
if you take your life and divide it up
into three major stages you would have
something like this phase one we could
call Young 0 to 25 years old you're in
college you're in school you're learning
you're soaking in information preparing
to get into when you're in phase two
could call this your adulthood you know
this is you in a career this is you
working this is you grinding it out all
while hoping for the last days the last
20 years call this old season that's a
better word for it you're you got
experience this is the narrative that
people pass down to you through school
they say oh you got to go to high school
you get out when you're 18 years old
then if you go to college if you're
smart right and you go to college so you
can get a job that you can work for 40
years with the hopes of retiring the
last 20 years of your life that is the
standard narrative that's been passed
down for probably the last hundred years
that everybody subconsciously believes
that's life and without questioning it
most just accept that's how it is in
other words most people are sleep
walking through life this is the point I
want to get through your head that if
you want to get more done in one week
than most people do in a whole year fact
I would say an entire decade maybe even
a lifetime you just wake up Ben Franklin
has one of the hardest hitting quotes he
said that most people people die at the
age of
25 but we just bury them at age 75 oo I
heard that when I was in my 20s and it
hit me now here's what's crazy all right
let's add a few more points here the
average life expectancy is right around
here 77 years in the USA when I looked
it up before this video one other stat
that just breaks my heart when surveyed
up to 85% of American don't like their
job they literally say they're
dissatisfied like I wouldn't choose this
gig but you know I'm doing what I got to
do now most people are retiring around
the age of
65 life is expensive inflation cost of
living goes up so we have this fantasy
in our head that okay you know once I'm
done working then I can start living
like once I push through this career and
my kids are out of the house then I can
finally start living for myself then I
can finally follow my passion or then I
can travel the world or sit on the beach
sipping pina coladas or whatever that
like fantasy is in our head but the sad
reality is that if you don't love what's
in here you're missing out on a majority
of your life your sleep walking through
it most people are dying at the age of
25 and we don't bury him till the age of
75 man is that the truth and so what
what is my point here like there's a
light at the end of the tunnel it is not
over for you in fact it's far from over
and in fact the sooner you saw this
video and the sooner you're able to wake
up to the illusion of what people have
planned for you and the life that others
are like subconsciously programming you
to live the sooner you can actually
start living and waking up sleepwalking
through life is the number one thing you
have to avoid I'm not even showing you
this like most people who show you this
are like and that's why you got to start
a business if you're not Drop Shipping
you're wasting these years bit of a
tangent but that can be a fantasy in
itself for a lot of people most people
aren't cut out for that to be totally
honest and that can cause them the
Sleepwalk through life just chasing this
one day one day one day and it prevents
them from actually living you don't have
to start a business to love your life
getting rich isn't the only thing isn't
the only way to feel like you're a
somebody in fact the feeling of you have
to be a somebody that can be the very
curse that's holding you back to begin
with that can be the thing that makes
you fall asleep and sleep walks through
life saying oh yeah when I'm finally
successful when I'm finally there when
I'm there when I'm there I don't know
man not to go like too deep and
tangental here cuz I sometimes I wonder
like how much of our
improvements is us just preparing to
live versus actually
living cuz those are two different
things like you preparing and learning
how to live even watching these videos
and reading these books this isn't
actually living this is preparing you to
go out and live but if all you're doing
is consuming information like this and
consuming content like just preparing
okay that's how this person says to live
the good life and this person at some
point you got to get out of the house
you got to live live your life some
point you got to realize what do I
actually want what everyone else says
with the guy on YouTube who's jacked and
has a nice car and a business like is he
happy I don't know we'll never know at a
certain point you choose to wake up for
yourself and at the moment you wake up
for yourself and
choose which will give you four
questions here next that is the moment
that you get more done than most people
do in a year in a decade because you're
waking up you're not sleeping walking
you're not waiting till you're 75 years
old to get buried and you died at 25 is
this first part making sense is this
first part giving you an exential crisis
no wrong
Mission so now I have a question for you
who are the best people at helping you
level up are they the ones with the
answers people telling you what to do I
don't think so I think it's a very lazy
childish way like we go looking for the
answers in school our parents is this
okay the society accept me for this like
we want to be told what to do that's the
reason you're stuck because you're
looking to other people to decide what
should you do the best coaches don't
have the answers they have the questions
and so in this remainder of this video I
know you're thinking well how how do I
actually apply this I want to give you
four questions and I don't want this to
be another video that you you know
forget about and say okay that's on my
to-do list for later I really want you
to write down these four questions and
promise me that tomorrow morning you're
going to go to a coffee shop you're
going to order the biggest freaking
coffee they got you're going to sit down
at the journal and you're going to
answer these four questions you do that
I promise you this week you will get
more done than most people do in an
entire year because this is how you wake
up from the narrative that is
subconsciously just pounded into you
from society from school from your
parents we got a deal all right cool
let's do it Magnum for the second time
today two times in one day never been
able to do
that these are ranked in order of
importance where I would spend and
allocate a majority of your time by the
way question number one what would I do
if I was fearless and could not fail
what would you do if you were fearless
and could not fail you have to answer
this question in that specific syntax
fearless and could not fail there's only
two motivators for human beings pain and
pleasure you're either working towards
something you want or you're running
away trying to avoid something that
happen to you or that's painful so what
would you do if you were fearless and
could not fail often times we have these
dreams and these seedlings that perk up
in your mind and watch how fast you
shoot it down like hey that person's
posting covers on YouTube why don't you
post something on there or like you're
inspired by them why why don't you do
that and then you shoot it down with oh
no you don't have the gear you don't
have the skill you'll get laughed at
it'll fail it's a waste of time you're
too busy it's too expensive it's too
saturated Bo wow that person just walks
up to them and starts a conversation
he's attracted he walks up and they're
talking what if I did that no you're
going to get rejected everyone's going
to watch you it's going to be
embarrassing you're going to be
humiliated Etc every time you have the
solution come up there's another part of
you that's shooting it down out of fear
and so when you remove move Fearless
could not fail and you remove the
possibility of failure what do you want
to do you might question yourself and be
like I would not be working the same job
if you would be working that same job or
in that career congrats that's good data
but if you're in the 85% I mentioned
earlier who don't like their job and
what they're doing well then the reason
they're staying stuck is out of comfort
and it's risky and the reason they view
it as risky is because they don't answer
this question of like let's just explore
what could happen if you were fearless
and could not fail I want you tomorrow
to list as many of these options as
possible if you want our help
Reinventing yourself I'll link down
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from watching all this education that's
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different than it was last year
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yourself and normally if you're going
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for free see if it's for you question
number two let's mix it up what will I
be most proud of one year from today
what are you a year from today going to
be most proud of I think it's very
important to use the word proud of I'm
not talking about egoic Pride like look
at me I'm the man I'm feeling proud of
your character that's very different my
point what will you be most proud of a
year from now is it getting in the best
shape of your life and not just talking
about it and saying it with empty words
but like actually putting some focus and
energy behind it is it committing in
your relationship getting married
getting engaged maybe this is the year
that happens finally getting out of debt
fixing the finances is it transitioning
jobs and making a big leap that you've
been putting off whatever it is I'm just
throwing out ideas here what are you
going to be most proud of a year from
now man this could be its own video but
um one of the things I've been
processing and playing with this year uh
you know this is probably 15 years in
the self-improvement space believe it or
not making videos for 12 is there's kind
of two camps with self-improvement I've
realized the first Camp is like very
heavy
and it's almost approaching
self-improvement of self-hate and it's
really toxic take your shirt off and say
you're fat you're a loser in the mirror
and that should motivate you like it's
motivating you out of fear this other
Camp is motivating yourself out of
excitement and what's best for you and
what you want to do this is like I'm
afraid to get in trouble and it's very
childish total different energy here I
remember running this business and I was
operating out of this camp like okay I'm
going to force myself to do things when
I don't feel like it I'm going to use
discipline because discipline is freedom
all these things that sound good and Tik
Tok and Instagram sound bites but um if
you use them and let them be your North
Stars and guiding principles you're
going to end up with a life that you
resist a lot of and I had to ask myself
why am I forcing things do I my whole
life to feel like I'm forcing myself to
do things because I don't feel like it
why don't I feel like doing things and
so that's where this Camp comes and you
know I pivoted my whole business a while
ago Dude I feel like every year I'm
pivoting and Reinventing yourself and
trying to find ways that are not lazy
right where you're avoiding efforts but
feel more effortless because they're
more in lined friction comes when
grooves are misaligned you got two gears
grinding against each other that's a lot
of friction and eventually they're
either going to grind themselves to
where they fit and there's not a lot of
friction or they're going to stop the
whole machine and it breaks that's kind
of what happens when you grind on
yourself you're going to have a lot of
friction you're either going to burn the
heck out you're going to stop everything
or you're going to find a way to make it
work and make it more effortless I hope
that point makes sense so this question
what will I be most proud of one year
from today I think that when you go
after feeling excited feeling proud
making things fun these are ways you can
tap more into this effortless
self-improvement instead of this just
like heaviness in this grinding and
forcing things you know but question
number three might be the most important
one what are the three things I need to
stop doing I want you to identify three
things that if you didn't
do would help you get out of your own
way and would be better for you getting
more done in one week than most do in an
entire year by waking up choosing what
you want yes that comes from what you're
doing but I found and haven't you
noticed this success is equal parts
about what you're not doing in the same
way we could use dieting as an example
you know I got a few extra lbs on me
trying to get ready for Beach season
here tracking some calories I learned
very quickly how easy it is to stop
eating 1,000 calories versus how hard it
is to try and burn 1,000 calories you
know you want to burn 1,000 calories go
on a 2hour run and don't stop that's
literally the amount of effort it takes
to burn th000 calories or we could just
not Bing e at night and we don't need
the 2-hour run every single day Penny
saved is a penny earned kind of thing
the point for you here what are the
three things detracting from your
happiness what are the three things that
are robbing you of your energy and man
if you can just find what three things
you need to stop doing I think this year
is going to unlock a lot of growth for
you but perhaps my favorite question
that I want you to ask yourself tomorrow
at that coffee shop my friend is
question number four this one is very
near and dear to me it's something
throughout my 20s that has saved me
years just memorize this question
whenever you're stuck ask yourself this
what do you ask you ask yourself
question number four what advice would I
give someone else in my exact same
situation
you right now in your situation if you
ever feel stuck distance yourself from
it take a step back pretend it's not you
in this situation it's your close friend
or a family member what advice would you
tell them ah dude I just don't know what
to do about this job like I don't like
it I'm drained I don't like my boss I
don't want to be here in the next 5
years pretend that's not you what advice
would you give that person I don't know
what to do about my relationship ship
pretend it's not you what advice would
you give to that person now why do this
why like create a buffer between you and
your problems or your confusion well the
simple fact that you've realized I'm
sure it's easier to give advice than
take it I don't think this is the
hypocritical thing I don't think this is
a malicious thing I think that we always
know every single detail and the same
thinking that caused the problem we're
trying to use to get out of the problem
so the way you do that and step out of
the show pretend it's not your problem
pretend it's someone else's and you're
way more objective that way instead of
like your subjective experience I feel
like this is the right like feelings are
important yes gut feelings and instincts
for sure but logically you know
sometimes we're reading too much into
things or we make things 10 times harder
than they need to be so what advice
would you give someone else in your
exact same situation to recap what you
learned we went over how to get more
done this week than most people do in
entire year how do you do that you don't
do that through some productivity hack
or planning your day in certain
increments all that can help but if you
never wake up to the sleepwalking nature
of Life most people are going through
and living in it doesn't matter it's
straightening deck chairs on a Titanic
the very thing you need to do to get
more done stop wasting your life is wake
up make the choice how do you do that
you ask yourself in my opinion in these
four questions you're going to do that
either today or tomorrow make some time
take an hour take two hours but please
write these down and do these and if you
don't do these no self-improvement video
is going to matter no book you read is
going to matter no life philosophy like
these are the most important things you
can ask yourself if you truly want to
get ahead this week and make it way more
productive than most people spend an
entire year avoiding all right we do it
was that useful let me know in the
comments like this uh do you like the
vibe do you like the format love
feedback here thanks so much for
watching I'm Clark stop settling start
living see you in the next one peace
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