SUSUNAN ACARA & TEKS LENGKAP ACARA LAMARAN / KHITBAH 2023

Summary

The script outlines a traditional family gathering for a formal engagement ceremony, where two families come together to celebrate the union of Ivan Aidin and Nurul Ramadhani. The event includes warm greetings, prayers, and expressions of gratitude to Allah. Both families present their intentions and blessings, followed by a symbolic exchange of gifts. Ivan’s proposal is accepted, and the ceremony proceeds with the exchange of rings, concluding with prayers and a final reminder of the boundaries before the marriage. The event emphasizes love, respect, and the significance of family connections.

Takeaways

• 😀 The event begins with a warm welcome to both families: the groom's family led by Mr. Syamsudin and Mrs. Melissa Putri, and the bride's family led by Mr. Amo Sunaryo and Mrs. Ella Melinda.
• 😀 The importance of thanking Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) for bringing everyone together in good health and with a sense of purpose is highlighted at the start of the event.
• 😀 Praise and blessings are given to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and his family, companions, and followers, as the event is rooted in Islamic tradition.
• 😀 The families acknowledge the sacred and noble purpose of the gathering, which is to facilitate the engagement (khitbah) between Ananda Ivan Aidin and Adinda Nurul Ramadhani.
• 😀 The process of khitbah is explained as an important step towards marriage, though it is not considered the actual wedding, and certain boundaries must still be respected before the marriage contract.
• 😀 The ceremony involves a speech from the groom’s side, delivered by Mr. Andre Sujaya, to explain their intentions and purpose for the engagement.
• 😀 In response, Mr. Iman Mahendra represents the bride's family to welcome and accept the intentions of the groom’s family.
• 😀 The symbolic exchange of gifts (seserahan) between the families is documented, with a focus on the importance of such acts in expressing love and respect.
• 😀 The bride, Adinda Nurul Ramadhani, is formally called to join the event, where her presence completes the engagement ceremony.
• 😀 Ananda Ivan Aidin formally proposes to Adinda Nurul Ramadhani, which is a heartfelt and emotional moment that is accepted by the bride, sealing their commitment.
• 😀 The ceremony includes the exchange of rings between the mothers of both the bride and groom as part of the engagement ritual.
• 😀 A prayer and advice session is held to seek blessings from Allah for the couple’s future marriage, followed by introductions between both families to foster stronger ties and relationships.

Q & A

What is the purpose of the event described in the transcript?

The event is a traditional proposal ceremony (khitbah), where the two families of the bride and groom come together to formalize the intent of marriage, exchange intentions, and go through various rituals and formalities.

Who are the key individuals involved in the ceremony?

The key individuals involved are Ananda Ivan Aidin (the groom), Adinda Nurul Ramadhani (the bride), their parents (Bapak Syamsudin and Ibu Melisa Putri for the groom, Bapak Ano Sunaryo and Ibu Ella Melinda for the bride), and other representatives of both families.

What is the significance of the khitbah ceremony in this context?

The khitbah is a formal engagement process that represents a commitment between the bride and groom, marking the intention to marry but not yet making the marriage official. It serves as a step before the wedding and helps both families understand and approve of the union.

What ritual takes place after the family introductions?

After the family introductions, there is a symbolic gift exchange (seserahan) where both mothers (Ibu Melissa Putri and Ibu Ela Melinda) present gifts to each other, representing respect and affection between the families.

Why is it important for Ananda Ivan Aidin to personally propose to Adinda Nurul Ramadhani?

It is considered an important gesture to show sincerity and respect during the engagement process. Personal words of affection and commitment from the groom are seen as an essential part of the khitbah.

What is the role of the ring exchange (tukar cincin) in the ceremony?

The ring exchange is a symbolic act representing the commitment between the bride and groom. It is conducted by the mothers of the couple, signifying the start of their formal engagement before the marriage.

What is the purpose of the prayers and advice given before the marriage?

The prayers and advice are meant to seek blessings and guidance from Allah for the couple, ensuring that they have a blessed and prosperous marriage. It also serves to remind the couple of the responsibilities and the importance of their commitment.

How do the families interact during the event?

The families interact through formal greetings, introductions, the exchange of intentions, and the sharing of gifts. Both families express mutual respect and agreement on the engagement, followed by further interactions like prayer and family introductions.

What is the significance of the family introductions in the ceremony?

The family introductions allow both families to meet, establish a relationship, and acknowledge each other's presence and role in the couple's future. It is an essential part of building trust and unity between the two families before the marriage.

How does the event conclude?

The event concludes with a prayer for blessings and well-wishes for the couple and both families. It ends with a reminder of the boundaries to be respected before the actual marriage takes place, ensuring that both sides maintain propriety until the wedding.