Pendewasaan Usia Perkawinan PUP - video Animasi BKKBN || Rosdiana H Ramli

Summary

The video discusses the legal framework of marriage in Indonesia, highlighting the importance of marriage readiness across multiple dimensions—physical, mental, financial, emotional, and more. It emphasizes the ideal ages for marriage (21 for women, 25 for men) and the benefits of delaying marriage to ensure emotional and physical maturity. The video also addresses the negative effects of early marriage, including economic hardship and educational disruption, particularly for young women. The message encourages youth to plan for their futures and embrace marriage maturity to foster healthier, more stable families and communities.

Takeaways

• 😀 Marriage is defined by Indonesian law as the union between a man and a woman to form a happy, permanent family based on God.
• 😀 A marriage is legally formalized with a marriage certificate, with men receiving a red book and women a green book.
• 😀 There are 10 dimensions of readiness for marriage, including physical, mental, financial, moral, emotional, social, interpersonal, life skills, and intellectual readiness.
• 😀 The ideal age for women to marry is 21, as it ensures readiness for physical, mental, emotional, and other key dimensions.
• 😀 The ideal age for men to marry is 25, as it aligns with their expected financial readiness to support a family.
• 😀 Delayed marriage, with women marrying at 21 and men at 25, helps to reduce the risks associated with early marriage, including teenage pregnancies.
• 😀 Delaying marriage leads to better family development outcomes and provides opportunities for self-actualization, especially for women.
• 😀 Early marriage can result in economic difficulties, as young couples often struggle with financial independence and family responsibilities.
• 😀 Teenagers who marry early often experience interrupted education, leading to shorter school years and limited future opportunities.
• 😀 Young women who marry early are 11 times more likely to drop out of school compared to those who remain unmarried.
• 😀 Promoting age-appropriate marriage and delaying first pregnancies is key to building stable, sustainable families and improving overall well-being.

Q & A

What is the definition of marriage according to Indonesian marriage law?

Marriage is defined as a bond, both physically and mentally, between a man and a woman as husband and wife, with the goal of forming a happy and eternal family or household, based on the belief in God.

What are the essential documents confirming a marriage in Indonesia?

The marriage is officially confirmed with a marriage certificate or a marriage book, where men receive a red book, and women receive a green book.

What are the 10 dimensions of readiness for marriage?

The 10 dimensions include physical readiness, mental readiness, financial readiness, moral readiness, emotional readiness, social readiness, interpersonal skills, life skills, and intellectual readiness.

What is the ideal age for women to get married according to Indonesian law?

The ideal minimum age for women to marry is 21 years old, as it ensures physical, emotional, and mental readiness, particularly for pregnancy and childbirth.

What is the ideal age for men to get married in Indonesia?

The ideal age for men to marry is 25 years old, as it is considered that by this age, men are more likely to be financially stable and ready to fulfill the economic responsibilities of a family.

Why is there a focus on raising the marriage age for women to 21 and men to 25?

The focus on raising the marriage age aims to improve readiness for marriage and family life, ensure the health and well-being of the individuals, and promote better economic and social stability.

What is the concept of 't-up' in relation to marriage age?

T-up refers to efforts to delay marriage until individuals are at an appropriate age, ideally 21 for women and 25 for men, to ensure a more mature and stable approach to family life.

What does 'delaying the first pregnancy' mean in the context of marriage?

'Delaying the first pregnancy' refers to the recommendation to postpone having children until the couple has reached a more mature age, which is thought to improve their physical, emotional, and financial readiness.

What are the social and economic consequences of early marriage for adolescents?

Early marriage can lead to economic instability, as younger individuals may not be equipped to meet the financial demands of a family. It may also cause difficulties in education, as adolescent girls are more likely to drop out of school due to the demands of marriage and family.

How does early marriage affect girls' education?

Girls who marry early are 11 times more likely to not attend school compared to those who remain unmarried. The responsibilities of marriage and child-rearing can hinder their ability to continue their education.