How to marry a rich, attractive man: how to capture the king

Summary

In this episode, Dr. Orion Terban shares advice on how women can attract and marry a rich, attractive man. He emphasizes that physical appeal and sexual availability are key, but that's not enough. Drawing on the story of Shahrazad, he explains that a woman must captivate a man intellectually and emotionally to hold his interest long-term. Understanding his specific desires, adapting to them, and maintaining charm and mystery are crucial. While the journey is challenging and requires patience, the rewards of marrying such a man can be substantial, offering a life of luxury and freedom.

Takeaways

• 😀 Being physically attractive and sexually available is essential to attract a rich, attractive man.
• 😀 Merely being attractive is not enough; you must captivate the man with charm and intrigue to keep his attention.
• 😀 To succeed in marrying a wealthy man, you need to make an intentional effort, much like working a job for years.
• 😀 If you fail to impress beyond physical attractiveness, you may be discarded after the initial attraction phase.
• 😀 Men generally don’t discard women after a sexual relationship unless they fail to show value beyond their appearance.
• 😀 Negative behaviors such as jealousy, criticism, and self-centeredness will cause you to fail with high-value men.
• 😀 Professionalism, kindness, and charm are key to retaining the interest of a wealthy, attractive man.
• 😀 The story of Scheherazade illustrates the importance of captivating a man with both beauty and an engaging personality.
• 😀 To marry a rich, attractive man, you must understand and cater to his specific tastes, interests, and preferences.
• 😀 The ability to captivate and entertain is more important than merely being beautiful when targeting a high-value partner.
• 😀 Patience is essential in this process; it takes time and effort to build a meaningful relationship with such a man.

Q & A

What is the main objective of Dr. Terban's talk?

Dr. Terban's main objective is to provide women with a guide on how to marry a rich, attractive man, focusing on both physical appeal and the necessary interpersonal skills to maintain such a relationship.

What does Dr. Terban mean by 'rich' in the context of marriage?

In this context, 'rich' refers to a man who is wealthy enough to allow a woman to live without working and enjoy a luxurious lifestyle, offering freedom and financial security.

Why does Dr. Terban emphasize physical attractiveness and sexual availability?

Dr. Terban emphasizes physical attractiveness and sexual availability because these are the initial qualities that captivate a man, particularly a rich, attractive man, who may be accustomed to having many options.

What additional qualities are necessary to retain a rich, attractive man after initial attraction?

Beyond physical attraction, a woman needs to be agreeable, non-critical, professional, and engaging. Negative traits like jealousy, entitlement, and self-centeredness will work against her.

How does Dr. Terban use the story of Scheherazade to illustrate his point?

Dr. Terban uses the story of Scheherazade to demonstrate that mere beauty is not enough to captivate and keep a rich, attractive man. Scheherazade's ability to engage the king with captivating, never-ending stories exemplifies how charm and entertainment are crucial for retaining a man's interest.

What is the significance of understanding a man's specific preferences?

Understanding and catering to a man's specific interests and values is essential because it differentiates a woman from others who only focus on their own appearance. Tailoring the approach increases the chances of long-term success in the relationship.

What does Dr. Terban mean by 'punching outside your weight class'?

Dr. Terban uses the phrase 'punching outside your weight class' to warn women against pursuing men who are significantly more attractive or wealthy than they are without having the necessary skills and strategies to keep them interested.

What role does patience play in the pursuit of a rich, attractive man?

Patience is essential because capturing and retaining a rich, attractive man is not an overnight process. It requires time, strategic effort, and a consistent approach to maintain his interest and affection.

What does Dr. Terban mean when he says 'remove offensiveness from your presentation'?

Dr. Terban suggests that women must eliminate any negative behaviors, such as being disagreeable or critical, when interacting with a rich, attractive man. These traits can drive him away, especially when pursuing a man with many options.

Why does Dr. Terban say that 'men don’t throw women out after a sexual relationship'?

He argues that most men do not discard women after a sexual relationship because it takes significant time, effort, and resources to initiate such a connection, so men prefer to get a return on their investment and avoid discarding a woman unless she is difficult or offensive.