5 Tips For Single Males In The Swinging Lifestyle | Tips All Swinger Bulls Must Know

4OURPLAY by Bella & Jase
13 May 202209:11

Summary

TLDRIn this video, Bella and Jay offer five tips for single males, known as 'bulls,' to succeed in the swinging lifestyle. They emphasize creating a standout dating profile, engaging with groups or couples, being respectful and courteous, avoiding desperation, and being genuine. They also stress the importance of patience and not being taken advantage of, ensuring a positive experience in the community.

Takeaways

  • 😀 Create a standout dating profile by showcasing your interests both in and out of the lifestyle, and use current, well-groomed photos.
  • 🔎 Only message couples who are open to meeting single males (bulls) to increase your chances of success.
  • 👥 Get involved with a group or couple to feel more comfortable and safe, and to expand your social circle within the lifestyle.
  • 🌟 Be respectful and courteous by addressing couples as a pair and avoiding making anyone feel uncomfortable.
  • 🚫 Avoid coming off as desperate or awkward; engage in real conversations and friendships rather than just observing.
  • 👍 Maintain good grooming and confidence to stand out and feel more at ease in social settings.
  • 💡 Be patient in finding the right couple or group, as it may take time to establish connections.
  • 🧐 Always be yourself and let your personality shine through to attract the right people and experiences.
  • 🚷 Respect the rules of clubs and events, and be courteous by not intruding where you're not supposed to be.
  • 🛡️ Don't settle for being taken advantage of; ensure that couples have good intentions and respect your boundaries.

Q & A

  • What is the first step to be successful as a bull in the lifestyle?

    -The first step is to create a dating profile where you stand out from other bulls by including all your interests and having good, current pictures that show your personality.

  • Why is it important to have a good dating profile as a bull?

    -A good profile helps you stand out, makes a strong first impression, and allows potential partners to connect with you beyond just playwise activities.

  • What is one big piece of advice for messaging on dating profiles in the lifestyle?

    -Only message people who are looking for bulls. It's important not to message couples who have stated they are not interested in bulls as it's unlikely to change their preferences.

  • Why is getting involved with a group or couple beneficial for a bull?

    -Getting involved with a group or couple increases your chances of success by providing a sense of safety and comfort, and it allows you to be invited to more events where you can meet like-minded people.

  • How can a bull ensure they are respectful and courteous in the lifestyle?

    -A bull should always approach couples together, talk to both partners, and avoid making anyone feel uncomfortable or bombarded.

  • What is the importance of not coming off as desperate or awkward at lifestyle events?

    -Appearing desperate or awkward can be off-putting to others. It's better to engage in conversations, make friends, and project confidence.

  • What should a bull do to avoid seeming creepy at lifestyle events?

    -A bull should avoid behaviors like watching people from a distance or opening closed curtains. Instead, they should engage in social interactions and respect the rules of the venue.

  • Why is it crucial for a bull to be patient in the lifestyle?

    -Finding the right couple or group takes time. Being patient allows a bull to build genuine connections and avoid settling for less than ideal situations.

  • How can a bull ensure they are not being taken advantage of in the lifestyle?

    -A bull should set boundaries, be aware of red flags, and ensure that all parties involved are on the same page and have good intentions.

  • What is the final piece of advice for bulls who are new to the lifestyle or not having much luck?

    -The final advice is to be yourself, show your personality, and be confident. Also, ensure that you are not being taken advantage of and that you are respecting others as well as yourself.

  • What is the significance of having a well-groomed appearance for a bull in the lifestyle?

    -A well-groomed appearance helps a bull stand out and make a positive impression, which can lead to more successful interactions and connections.

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