Da visione offuscata a un futuro più chiaro e sicuro

Dott. Alessandro Conforti Di Lorenzo
6 Jan 202306:41

Summary

TLDRThe interview transcript reveals a personal journey of self-discovery and professional growth. The subject, Gloria, shares her initial confusion and desire for self-awareness and emotion management as she embarked on the path to free profession. Through her collaboration, she gained a clearer vision of her goals and acquired tools to handle emotions and insecurities, thus moving closer to her objective. The conversation highlights the importance of professional guidance and personal growth, as well as the value of trust and decision-making in overcoming personal blocks and achieving a fulfilling career trajectory.

Takeaways

  • 🌟 The interviewee shares her journey of personal growth and self-awareness, highlighting the importance of understanding and managing emotions.
  • 🚀 She was initially feeling lost and sought greater self-awareness and tools to manage her emotions, which are crucial for her career transition towards self-employment.
  • 📷 The imagery of the interviewee's chosen profession represents a person at a window, unable to see clearly what lies ahead, symbolizing the beginning of a journey towards an undefined goal.
  • 💭 Initially, she did not have a clear vision or understanding of her dream and life project, but was definitely on a path of continuous learning and growth.
  • 🛤️ The interviewee felt more confident and closer to her goal after embarking on this journey, gaining a clearer sense of direction and purpose.
  • 🧠 The process of self-discovery and professional guidance helped her gain more self-awareness, manage her emotions better, and handle the challenges of starting a self-employed career.
  • 🔄 The interviewee experienced personal growth through the process, learning to manage her emotions and insecurities differently, which positively impacted her professional and personal life.
  • 🤔 She emphasizes the value of professional support in overcoming personal blocks and gaining new insights into human nature and functioning.
  • 📌 The interviewee suggests starting a journey with a professional to facilitate personal growth and break free from loops that one cannot escape alone.
  • 🔐 Trust is a crucial factor in beginning such a transformative journey, and the interviewee felt secure enough to start her path with the help of a trusted professional.
  • 🌱 The interviewee now offers potential clients a trial of a few meetings to see if they are a good fit for working together, emphasizing the importance of a comfortable and productive professional relationship.

Q & A

  • What was the main purpose of the interview?

    -The main purpose of the interview was to share the experience of the interviewee, Gloria, in terms of her personal journey, her initial feelings, and how she managed to gain more self-awareness and handle emotions while moving towards a free profession.

  • How did Gloria feel before starting her journey with the interviewer?

    -Gloria felt a bit confused and wanted to have a greater awareness of herself and learn how to manage her emotions as she was on the path towards free profession.

  • What did Gloria's chosen images represent?

    -The images Gloria chose represented a person who has a window in front of them but cannot see very well, indicating that she was at the beginning of a journey and moving towards something, but her path was not yet clear.

  • What changes did Gloria experience after going through the journey with the interviewer?

    -After the journey, Gloria gained more self-awareness, better managed her emotions, and felt closer to her goal. She also felt more secure in moving forward with her project and was able to handle her insecurities differently.

  • How did the professional and personal aspects of Gloria's life improve as a result of the journey?

    -The professional and personal aspects of Gloria's life improved as she learned to manage her emotions and insecurities more effectively, thanks to the tools provided by the interviewer.

  • What new insights did Gloria gain about being human and how it functions?

    -Gloria experienced some unlocking of her thoughts and gained facilitations through the exercises provided by the interviewer, which helped her to think and rethink, ultimately aiding her personal growth.

  • What advice would Gloria give to someone who is feeling stuck and trying to go it alone?

    -Gloria would advise starting a journey with a professional to gain a new perspective and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of external professional support to help break free from loops and resolve issues that may be blocking progress.

  • How does Gloria feel about the decision to start a journey with a professional?

    -Gloria was convinced and did not doubt the decision to start a journey with a professional. She emphasizes the importance of trust and feeling secure in the process.

  • What approach does Gloria recommend for those who are hesitant to seek professional help?

    -Gloria recommends starting with a small journey of a few meetings to see if there is a good fit and to experience whether the professional support is beneficial.

  • What was the most significant aspect of the journey for Gloria?

    -The most significant aspect was the growth in self-awareness and the ability to manage emotions and insecurities more effectively, which positively impacted both her professional and personal life.

  • How does Gloria view the role of a professional in one's personal growth journey?

    -Gloria views the role of a professional as very important for personal growth, as they can provide support and help individuals break free from loops and resolve issues that they may be stuck on.

Outlines

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🌟 Journey of Self-Discovery and Professional Growth

This paragraph discusses the interviewee's personal journey, highlighting their initial confusion and desire for self-awareness and emotional management. They express how their chosen profession represents a person looking through a window, unable to see clearly, but starting a path towards something more. The individual was on a journey, not yet having a clear vision of their dream or new life project. They felt they lacked tools to begin their path, which led to a sense of being obscured. The interviewee then talks about starting this journey with the interviewer, seeing it as a new life path and opportunity to view their project differently. They mention changes in themselves, increased self-awareness, and better management of emotions and fatigue, which are essential for starting a free profession. The interviewee feels closer to their goal and is continuing their project with more security, managing their emotions and insecurities in a new way, thanks to the tools provided by the interviewer. They also discuss the importance of personal and family aspects as a result of the work done together.

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💡 Embracing Vulnerability and the Importance of Trust

In this paragraph, the interviewee emphasizes the importance of trust and vulnerability in beginning their journey. They share their conviction in starting the path and their willingness to trust a professional, which was crucial in their case. The interviewee reflects on the difficulty of relying on a professional but also highlights the security and trust they felt by choosing to embark on this journey. They have since changed their approach, offering a trial of three meetings to allow the other person to get to know them and see if they can continue working together. This paragraph underscores the significance of compatibility between the professional and the individual for a successful collaboration and the value of a trial period to ensure a good fit.

Mindmap

Keywords

💡interview

An interview, as seen in the script, is a conversation between two individuals where one person asks questions to gather information from the other. In this context, it serves as a platform for Gloria to share her personal experiences and insights gained from her professional journey.

💡self-awareness

Self-awareness refers to the ability of an individual to recognize and understand their own emotions, thoughts, and motivations. In the script, Gloria expresses her initial lack of self-awareness and her desire to improve in this area as part of her personal development.

💡emotional management

Emotional management is the process of understanding and controlling one's emotions to maintain mental well-being and positive interactions with others. Gloria was seeking to improve her emotional management skills as part of her journey towards a free profession.

💡professional journey

A professional journey refers to the path or progression of an individual's career, including their experiences, growth, and development within a professional context. In the script, Gloria discusses her own professional journey, highlighting the challenges and learning experiences she encountered.

💡free profession

A free profession, often associated with self-employment or freelance work, is a career path where an individual is not bound by a traditional employment contract and has the autonomy to choose their projects and clients. Gloria's goal is to move towards a free profession, which is a central theme in the script.

💡personal growth

Personal growth refers to the process of improving one's character, self-awareness, and interpersonal skills. In the context of the script, Gloria's experiences and the guidance she receives contribute to her personal growth, enabling her to better manage her emotions and uncertainties.

💡uncertainty

Uncertainty refers to a state of being unsure or lacking clarity about a situation or the future. In the script, Gloria initially feels offuscata (confused) and faces uncertainty in her professional journey, which she aims to address through guidance and self-improvement.

💡tools

In the context of personal and professional development, tools refer to the methods, techniques, or strategies that individuals use to improve their skills, manage emotions, and achieve their goals. Gloria sought tools to enhance her self-awareness and emotional management, which she eventually found through her journey.

💡support

Support, in this context, refers to the assistance or guidance provided by a professional or mentor to help an individual overcome challenges, grow, and achieve their objectives. Gloria emphasizes the importance of professional support in her journey towards self-improvement and a free profession.

💡confidence

Confidence refers to the feeling of trust and belief in one's abilities, decisions, or judgments. In the script, Gloria's decision to start her journey with a professional was based on the confidence she had in them, which played a crucial role in her personal development.

💡decision-making

Decision-making is the process of selecting a course of action from multiple alternatives, often based on a set of values, beliefs, or available information. In the script, Gloria's journey involves making decisions that impact her personal growth and professional path.

Highlights

The interviewee shares her journey of personal growth and self-awareness.

The interviewee expresses initial feelings of confusion and the desire for greater self-understanding and emotion management.

The choice of images representing the interviewee's journey reflects a person starting a new path with limited visibility.

The interviewee discusses the clarity of her dreams and life projects before embarking on this journey.

Lack of tools and a sense of being on a continuous learning path contributed to the interviewee's initial confusion.

Starting the journey with the interviewer provided a new opportunity and a different perspective on the interviewee's life project.

The interviewee gained more self-awareness and understanding of managing emotions and the effort required for a free profession.

The interviewee feels closer to her goal and is writing her new life project with increased certainty and security.

The interviewee has learned to manage her emotions and insecurities differently, thanks to the tools provided by the interviewer.

Professional and personal life improvements are a result of the work done together.

The interviewee shares insights on human nature and the importance of unlocking mental blocks.

Exercises provided by the interviewer have been instrumental in helping the interviewee think and rethink her thoughts.

The interviewee advises those feeling stuck to seek professional support for guidance and to break free from loops.

The importance of trust and the decision-making process when starting a new journey with a professional.

The interviewee's experience with a trial period of three meetings to assess compatibility and effectiveness with the professional.

The interviewee expresses happiness and gratitude for being part of the project and the support received.

The value of professional support in the continuous growth and development of one's free profession.

Transcripts

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Eccoci Ciao Gloria Buongiorno Buongiorno

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Questa intervista serve per raccontare

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un po' l'esperienza che tu hai fatto con

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me da dove si partita dove sei arrivata

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come ti sentivi prima di iniziare il

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percorso cosa stavi cercando Ecco

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sentivo un po' offuscata Volevo avere

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maggiore e consapevolezza di me ma anche

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come gestire le emozioni perché appunto

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sono in cammino verso la libera

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professione cioè immagini che hai scelto

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rappresentano proprio una persona che ha

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davanti un finestrino dal quale non

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riesce a vedere molto bene

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e sta iniziando un percorso ed è in

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cammino verso qualcosa dove eri diretta

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avevi le vie chiare oppure non ancora

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abbastanza le idee chiare del mio sogno

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e della e del mio nuovo progetto di vita

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sicuramente ero in cammino sono in

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cammino perché non si finisce mai di

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imparare mi mancavano degli strumenti e

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per quel motivo mi sentivo offuscata

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iniziare con te questo questo percorso

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insieme era proprio avere un nuovo

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percorso di vita chiamiamoli insieme

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quindi una nuova opportunità

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di vedere il mio progetto in maniera

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diversa e venendo poi alloggi dopo il

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percorso che cosa è cambiato in te

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rispetto a questo grazie al tuo percorso

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sono riuscita ad avere ancor più

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consapevolezza in me stessa

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ma anche in merito alla alle emissioni

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quindi alla gestione delle emozioni alla

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gestione anche magari delle fatiche che

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comporta comunque

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l'avvio della libera professione quindi

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mi sento sicuramente più vicino

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all'obiettivo come come poi si vede

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dall'immagine e chiaramente sto

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scrivendo il mio nuovo progetto quindi

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sto continuando ad andare avanti in

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maniera più sicura più sicura

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nel mio progetto

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concretamente sento di di gestire le mie

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emozioni ma anche le mie insicurezze in

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maniera diversa quindi riesco comunque

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ad avere un approccio e ad avere quegli

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strumenti che tu poi mi hai dato per

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gestire il tutto in maniera migliore ti

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a livello professionale Di conseguenza

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anche personali e familiari perché poi

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il tutto

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Ne consegue anche a livello comunque

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familiare nel lavoro che abbiamo fatto

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insieme Hai avuto qualche intuizione

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nuova han capito qualcosa

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di diverso rispetto a prima su come

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funziona Gloria Come funziona l'essere

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umano ci sono stati degli sblocchi

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Quindi io comunque sono riuscita ad

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ottenere

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facilitazioni no Quindi magari ero

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bloccata

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rispetto a un mio pensiero e grazie al

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tuo percorso man mano sono riuscita a

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sbloccarmi anche su alcuni aspetti

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quindi in mente gli esercizi sono stati

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un ottimo aiuto mi hanno fatto ragionare

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mi hanno fatto pensare e ripensare E

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cosa consiglieresti a chi invece ancora

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un po' Fermo bloccato questo modo ci sta

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provando da solo ma non ci riesce un

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supporto di un professionista infatti la

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vostra figura è molto importante perché

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è da accompagnamento serve anche appunto

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per riuscire a risolvere delle questioni

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che magari sono

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li bloccate quindi ci si trova in un

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loop dal quale non si riesce ad uscire

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quindi direi di partire di iniziare un

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percorso che possa dare un po' la svolta

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ma anche una crescita personale

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sicuramente

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sono d'accordo con te quello che spesso

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non si dice inizio a fare le cose poi

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sistemeranno questo iniziare spesso

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è un iniziare anche da soli perché la

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maggior parte delle persone Cerca di

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farcela da sola Va benissimo e comunque

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un fare poi come dici tu Se uno non ce

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la fa ancora ci sono sempre persone

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esterne professionisti che che possono

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aiutare a venir fuori queste situazioni

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Infatti diciamo non è semplice

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riuscire a fare questo click quindi

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darsi l'opportunità di avere una mano da

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un professionista ma è la normalità Anzi

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dovrebbe essere proprio un lavoro

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continuo chi Poi farà parte Insomma di

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questa libera professione sa che il

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supporto comunque di altri

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professionisti è necessario faccio

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questa domanda poi vediamo se metterla

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nell'intervista perché alla fine ok È

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tutto un po' spontaneo il più possibile

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spontaneo ma devo preservare la privacy

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prima di iniziare che cosa che non ti

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convinceva dell'iniziare un percorso io

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quando ho iniziato Ero convinta di

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iniziare quindi non ho dubitato

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minimamente sicuramente

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come ho già detto non è semplice

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affidarsi fidarsi di un professionista

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però nel mio caso io mi sono sentita di

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fidarmi di te quindi ho iniziato il

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percorso affidandomi altrimenti non

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avrei iniziato per nulla certo certo sì

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la fiducia c'è la poca sicurezza c'è

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spesso dico io devi togliertela

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informandoti ascoltando seguendo la

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persona e poi dire se va bene o no per

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te ci vuole il processo di decisione

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adesso ho cambiato un po' perché do la

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possibilità alla persona di farsi un

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piccolo percorso di tre incontri così io

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conosco le le conosce me e poi in realtà

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vediamo se poter andare avanti Quindi

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questo è la cosa migliore anche questa

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sicuramente avere una prova

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con il professionista è l'occasione per

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vedere se ci si trova anche bene insieme

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perché questo è fondamentale va bene

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Sono felice per te Gloria e Auguro a te

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il meglio che tu possa continuare il tuo

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progetto Io sono felice e sono

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immensamente grata di aver fatto di aver

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fatto parte di questo progetto e di

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questo supporto con te

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