Influencers are a plague

Sydney Watson
30 Oct 202324:51

Summary

TLDRThe video script discusses the negative aspects of social media, particularly the phenomenon known as 'main character syndrome' where individuals seek online attention by acting inappropriately in public or using strangers as unwitting participants in their content. The script criticizes influencers who disrupt public spaces and make others uncomfortable for the sake of views and followers, highlighting the blurred lines between seeking positive attention and engaging in behavior that is disrespectful and harmful to others.

Takeaways

  • πŸ€” Social media platforms have given people a license to behave in ways that would have been socially unacceptable in the past.
  • πŸ’ƒ The rise of TikTok, Reels, and Shorts has led to public behavior being captured and shared, often embarrassing or annoying others.
  • πŸŽ₯ Content creators sometimes exploit strangers' reactions for views, turning them into unwilling participants in their videos.
  • 🍳 A specific example discussed is a video of a woman dancing with pancakes at IHOP, where the focus is on the judging reaction of another customer.
  • πŸš‡ The 'Tube Girl' trend and other public transport dancing videos have become popular, sometimes disrupting other passengers.
  • πŸ“Έ Main Character Syndrome is not a diagnosable mental illness but represents a trend of hyper-individualism and self-centered online behavior.
  • πŸŒ† The Eiffel Tower video example shows an influencer disregarding others' experiences to get a 'cool shot', highlighting entitlement.
  • πŸ‹οΈβ€β™€οΈ Gym influencers often film in public spaces like gyms, making other gym-goers feel uncomfortable or unwillingly part of their content.
  • 🀳 The disregard for others' consent or comfort in public spaces is a growing issue, leading to negative social media consequences.
  • 🚨 Extreme content for likes and attention can lead to illegal activities and traumatizing experiences for those involved.
  • 🌐 The influencer apocalypse and main character syndrome are driven by the blurred lines between good and bad attention on social media.

Q & A

  • What is the speaker's opinion on the impact of social media on society?

    -The speaker believes that while social media has brought some good things, such as connecting people, it has also given people a license to behave poorly both online and in public, which was less common in the past.

  • What is the term used to describe people who act as if they are the protagonist in their own lives?

    -The term used is 'main character syndrome,' which is not a diagnosable mental illness but represents a manifestation of hyper individualism and the desire for online attention.

  • How does the speaker feel about the trend of filming oneself in public spaces and including strangers in the content without their consent?

    -The speaker is critical of this trend, stating that it often involves harassment and annoyance of innocent bystanders, and can lead to negative consequences for those unwilling participants.

  • What is the issue the speaker raises about influencers using public spaces as their personal movie sets?

    -The speaker argues that influencers often disregard the presence of others in public spaces, filming their activities and making others feel uncomfortable or unwelcome, which is particularly evident in places like gyms.

  • What is the 'tube girl trend' mentioned in the script?

    -The 'tube girl trend' refers to a style of video popularized by Sabrina Bason, where people film themselves dancing on public transport, mimicking the format of the original video that went viral on the London Underground.

  • What is the main concern the speaker has about the content creators who harass strangers for views?

    -The speaker is concerned that these content creators are incentivized by social media growth to engage in terrible behavior, often causing discomfort, trauma, or harm to the strangers they harass.

  • What example does the speaker give to illustrate the extreme lengths some influencers go to for attention?

    -The speaker mentions a UK TikToker who filmed himself breaking into people's homes, stealing a dog, and threatening to harm women, all passed off as pranks, but which had serious negative impacts on the victims.

  • How does the speaker describe the consequences faced by influencers who engage in disrespectful behavior in Japan?

    -The speaker notes that some influencers, such as Johnny Somali, Shearing Shed Vlogs, and Fidus, faced significant consequences like public backlash, being asked to leave Japan, and having to issue apologies for their actions.

  • What advice does the HuffPost UK article give on how to participate in the 'tube girl trend' respectfully?

    -The article suggests filming when few people are present, recording in silence and adding music later, and if one finds themselves in the background of such a video, it's best to let it go and not be bothered by it.

  • What is the speaker's view on people documenting their lives and seeking a more meaningful or impactful presence on social media?

    -The speaker acknowledges that there is nothing inherently wrong with wanting to document one's life or make it more meaningful. However, they criticize the crossing of boundaries and engaging in inappropriate behavior for the sake of social media attention.

  • What is the speaker's final message regarding the impact of social media on society?

    -The speaker concludes that while social media has benefits, it also has negative consequences due to blurred lines between good and bad attention, and the incentivization of terrible behavior for the sake of more views and social media growth.

Outlines

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πŸ€” The Impact of Social Media on Public Behavior

This paragraph discusses the influence of social media on people's conduct, both online and offline. The speaker, Sydney, acknowledges the positive aspects of social media, such as connecting with others and sharing personal experiences. However, they express concern about the current state of social media platforms, where individuals feel entitled to act inappropriately in public and online, often for the sake of gaining attention and validation. The paragraph highlights the rise of platforms like TikTok and the trend of filming oneself in public spaces, leading to the harassment of innocent bystanders and the normalization of 'main character syndrome'.

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🚭 Addressing Bad Habits with Fume

In this paragraph, Sydney introduces a sponsored product called Fume, a flavored air device designed to help individuals break hand-to-mouth habits. Fume is presented as a healthier alternative to vaping, as it does not contain heating components or chemicals. The device comes with movable parts to keep fingers busy and features an adjustable airflow dial and magnets. Sydney mentions various flavors available and encourages viewers to use a discount code for a journey pack, citing an article from HuffPost UK that discusses the 'tube girl' trend and offers etiquette advice for filming in public spaces.

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πŸŽ₯ The Rise of Influencer Entitlement

This paragraph delves into the issue of influencers and content creators using public spaces and unwilling participants for their social media content. Sydney criticizes the trend of filming in public places like gyms and tourist spots, where the creators' desire for attention often leads to the disruption and discomfort of others. The paragraph also touches on the phenomenon of 'main character syndrome,' where individuals believe they are the protagonists of their own lives and act accordingly, often to the detriment of those around them.

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πŸ‹οΈβ€β™‚οΈ Gym Etiquette and Influencer Culture

Sydney continues the discussion on the impact of social media by focusing on gym culture and etiquette. They express frustration with influencers who film their workouts and react negatively when others inadvertently enter their shots. The paragraph also mentions the invasion of privacy in locker rooms and the illegality of filming people without consent. Sydney commends their gym's policy against filming and emphasizes the importance of maintaining a welcoming and comfortable environment for all gym-goers.

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🌍 Disrespectful Pranks and the Consequences

The final paragraph addresses the extreme and often disrespectful actions of some social media personalities, particularly those who have gained notoriety for their inappropriate behavior in public spaces. Sydney recounts instances of influencers harassing strangers, invading privacy, and even engaging in illegal activities for the sake of views and social media growth. The paragraph highlights the consequences faced by these individuals, including public backlash and legal trouble, and calls for a reevaluation of the incentives that drive such behavior.

Mindmap

Keywords

πŸ’‘Social Media

Social media refers to online platforms that allow users to create and share content or participate in social networking. In the video, it is discussed as a double-edged sword that has both positive aspects, such as connecting people, and negative aspects, like enabling inappropriate behavior and the pursuit of online attention.

πŸ’‘Main Character Syndrome

Main Character Syndrome is a term used to describe individuals who act as if they are the protagonist in their own life story, often disregarding the feelings or comfort of others for personal gain or attention. In the context of the video, it is portrayed as a negative trend on social media, where people engage in self-centered antics to stand out or go viral.

πŸ’‘Influencers

Influencers are individuals who have the power to affect the purchasing decisions of others because of their authority, knowledge, position, or relationship with their audience. In the video, influencers are criticized for exploiting public spaces and people for content, often demonstrating a lack of consideration for others.

πŸ’‘Content Creation

Content creation refers to the process of producing and sharing digital content, such as videos, blogs, podcasts, or social media posts, with the intent to engage and attract an audience. The video addresses the darker side of content creation, where creators may resort to extreme or disrespectful actions to gain views and followers.

πŸ’‘Public Spaces

Public spaces are areas that are open and accessible to all members of a community. In the video, the speaker expresses frustration with individuals who treat public spaces as their personal stages, disrupting the experience of others who are simply trying to go about their day.

πŸ’‘Disregard for Others

Disregard for others refers to a lack of consideration or concern for the feelings, rights, or well-being of other people. In the context of the video, this term is used to criticize those who prioritize their own social media success over the comfort and privacy of others in public spaces.

πŸ’‘Attention-Seeking Behavior

Attention-seeking behavior involves actions taken by individuals to draw attention to themselves, often through dramatic, provocative, or disruptive means. In the video, this behavior is linked to the negative impact of social media, where individuals engage in increasingly outrageous acts to gain online attention and grow their following.

πŸ’‘Online Attention

Online attention refers to the focus and engagement that an individual or content receives on the internet. The video discusses the concept as a driving force behind the problematic behavior of some social media users, who are willing to cross boundaries to gain more views, likes, and followers.

πŸ’‘Ethical Boundaries

Ethical boundaries refer to the limits of what is considered morally acceptable behavior. In the context of the video, these boundaries are often crossed by individuals in pursuit of social media fame, leading to the creation of content that disrespects the rights and comfort of others.

πŸ’‘Social Media Growth

Social media growth refers to the increase in followers, views, or engagement on social media platforms. The video argues that the pursuit of social media growth can incentivize negative behavior, as creators may resort to extreme or disrespectful acts to attract more attention and expand their online presence.

πŸ’‘Personal Space

Personal space is the physical and psychological distance individuals maintain to protect their sense of privacy and comfort. In the video, the speaker criticizes those who invade others' personal spaces for the sake of social media content, disrupting their peace and comfort in public areas.

Highlights

Social media has brought both positive and negative impacts on society, with platforms like TikTok and Instagram enabling certain behaviors.

The concept of 'main character syndrome' refers to individuals treating themselves as the protagonist in their own life story, often to the detriment of others.

Influencers and content creators sometimes exploit or manipulate strangers for views and engagement, disregarding their comfort or consent.

Public spaces are increasingly being treated as personal movie sets by content creators, disrupting the experiences of others.

Gym environments are negatively affected by influencers who film without regard for the privacy or comfort of other gym-goers.

The line between acceptable and unacceptable public behavior is blurred due to the pursuit of social media attention.

Some extreme content creators have faced consequences for their actions, such as being attacked or asked to leave a country.

The pursuit of being the main character in one's own life is not inherently bad, but it becomes problematic when it crosses boundaries and disrespects others.

The balance between seeking meaningful experiences and crossing ethical boundaries for social media content is a complex issue.

Influencers sometimes use public transport or other public spaces to create content that can inconvenience or harass other passengers.

The rise of 'main character syndrome' is linked to the desire for online attention and the erosion of social etiquette.

Some social media trends, like the 'tube girl' trend, involve public displays that can be disruptive or disrespectful to others.

Content creators often prioritize their own narratives and desires over the comfort and rights of those unintentionally involved in their videos.

The phenomenon of 'main character syndrome' reflects a broader societal issue of hyper-individualism and self-centeredness.

The pursuit of social media growth can incentivize negative behaviors and a lack of consideration for others.

The speaker encourages a discussion on the impact of 'main character syndrome' and the influencer culture on society.

Transcripts

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I would really like for this to

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stop hi my name is Sydney welcome back

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to hell and as per usual before we

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launch in today's video is sponsored by

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fume now I am personally of the opinion

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that social media has actually brought

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us a lot of really good things and as a

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person who has been around since the

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early days of Myspace and even Facebook

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because I guess I'm old now I know that

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there are benefits as far as connecting

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and offending people with your blog

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posts other emo Millennials will

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understand but today's social media

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platforms have almost given people

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license to do and say things both online

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and also out in public that not too long

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ago would probably have gotten them

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sucked in the face and believe it or not

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it seems like there was once a period of

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time where most people most being the

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operative word kept their annoying

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behavior on the internet but today with

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the Advent of Tik Tok and reels and

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shorts and so on and so forth people

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will go out into public with that

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annoying behavior and film themselves

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harassing other people you the Sensei I

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am the Sensei I'm here to challenge you

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for your dojo no you're not going to

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challenge nobody I'm going to challenge

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you for your dojo no you're not going to

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challenge anyone bro are you serious you

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know who I am doing a YouTube video I

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don't give a [Β __Β ] we put it on YouTube

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you probably never evering trained

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before stupid I hope this video gave him

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that delicious dopamine Rush he was

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looking for I am also willing to bet

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that a majority of you have probably

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come across the videos of people

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particularly in the gym getting mad at

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other people for walking in their shots

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or looking at them how to not approach

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girls at the

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gym I hate this I ha this I hate makes

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me hey

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but just recently I happened upon a

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video that was going viral on Tik Tok

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and it is yet another iteration of

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someone doing something annoying in

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public for views it was posted by an

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account called addicted to Anna and

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shows this woman Anna presumably dancing

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while being handed a plate of pancakes

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at IHOP in the background another woman

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makes a face as all of this transpires

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an a caption this piece of content the

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best part of this video is the woman

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judging me she then went on to repost

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the video exclusively focusing on the

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woman behind her and zooming in on her

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reaction I suppose this is meant to be

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some sort of relatable moment but really

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all it achieves is putting a complete

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stranger on blast to millions of people

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as of filming this video Anna's two

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pieces of content have a collective 60

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million views and that doesn't even

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count the reposts All Over YouTube and

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Instagram now I think it is perfectly

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reasonable to scrunch your face up at

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someone who is doing something bizarre

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around you like just to be clear I find

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background lady much more relatable than

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dancing pancake lady like I just want to

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eat my pancakes and feel guilty in peace

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okay I don't need you with the K-pop in

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the background and it's also worth

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remembering that most of the time these

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video creators are playing music out

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loud in order for them to lips sync or

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dance not to mention these people

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probably play the music on repeat until

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they get the shot they want and just to

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remind you guys to the influencers it is

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the people in the background making the

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faces who are the weird

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ones now of course this Anna situation

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is not an isolated one in fact if you

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spend any length of time on social media

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at all you have probably seen these

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kinds of videos over and over again

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where the content creator or attention

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starve teenager either acts ridiculous

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in public reviews or highlights

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strangers and makes them the focus of

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the video even if that's stranger is

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doing something completely innocuous and

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that brings us to what I want to talk

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about today the absolute plague that is

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main character syndrome and the illness

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that is modern content creation but of

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course before you once again board my

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article titled how to do the tube girl

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Trend respectfully according to an

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etiquette expert the tube girl Trend

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refers to a style of video popularized

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by a woman called Sabrina bassoon who

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went viral in August 2023 for filming

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herself dancing on the London

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Underground also known as the chbe since

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then the chbe girl trend has picked up

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enormous steam with countless other

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people mimicking the video's original

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format on all sorts of public transport

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some have even posted videos attempting

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the trend but noting that they don't had

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had the confidence to bust out dancing

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in front of total strangers knowing how

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popular this form of content is the Huff

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poost article in question tried to give

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instruction on how to do it without

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harassing other passengers it gives

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suggestions such as filming when minimal

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people are present and recording a whole

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video in silence and adding music later

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rather than playing music out loud as

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many content creators do the article

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also notes that if you have The

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Misfortune of Being around while someone

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is filming themselves but it doesn't

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directly impact you it's best to Live

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and Let Live I don't think I want to

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agree to those

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terms ever now to some of us needing

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actual instructions on how not to bother

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other people might seem utterly insane

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especially because it's been long

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understood that if you play music out

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loud from your phone on public transport

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someone somewhere will want to give you

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a dirt nap but today people all over the

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place really and truly genuinely believe

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that they are in fact the most important

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person in their own stories and it's

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imperative that they go out into the

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world to make sure everyone knows it

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even going as far as to use completely

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innocent bystanders as props in their

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main character storylines as far as

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official definitions go main character

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syndrome doesn't actually exist as a

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diagnosable mental illness although it

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probably should it's more the

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manifestation of hyper individualism

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meeting the desire for online attention

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and the disregard of others main

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character Syndrome has become part of

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Internet vocabulary to essentially

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describe situations where people think

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of themselves as the protagonist in the

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feature film that is their everyday

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lives you know if the feature film was

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about faking a personality disorder and

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wanting Daddy to hug you just once I

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mean Daddy as in male parent not

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Daddy I hate myself an article published

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in the New Yorker says that the term can

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be used appreciatively acknowledging a

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form of self-care putting yourself first

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well that's certainly one way of putting

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it or it can be used as an accusation a

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calling out of narcissism a person

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dressing to extravagantly for a casual

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event for example is trying to be the

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main character now the latter part of

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that comment might seem kind of silly

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but no people are really out here trying

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to wear white dresses to their blind

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cousins wedding because their favorite

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color is white and it looks good on

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their skin

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the New Yorker article goes on to quote

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a 24-year-old Tik tocker who said Tik

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Tok and social media has made it more

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attainable for you to write your own

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story you can kind of cast yourself in

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these mini movies and it really seems

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like people are doing just that whether

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it's taking a photo shirtless in the Lou

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or filming themselves in a library and

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pretending that they're in a romantic

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comedy to be clear here I do not have a

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single problem with people doing things

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that are enjoyable and fulfilling these

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are basic and normal tenants of The

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Human Experience and extend to all sorts

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of things like travel and relationships

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and Raves Raves where I do draw the line

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is when overt self-centeredness begins

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to affect others and today we see this

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play out in a couple of different ways

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the first being influencers creators Tik

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tokers whatever making random people

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unwilling participants in their content

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now we all have at one point or another

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probably ended up in the background of

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someone else's video or photo and in a

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way this is part and parcel of being in

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public spaces in a time where people

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want to document absolutely everything

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what's funny is that when I was growing

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up there was a whole emphasis on

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photobombing this is where someone would

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deliberately run into someone else's

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video or photo often without the person

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knowing and assert themselves forever

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into that moment things were quite

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different when I was a teenager got to

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remember we didn't have iPhones until I

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was like 15 or something I just I just

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aged myself didn't I you didn't just age

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yourself you aged us all photo buming

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was received both negatively and

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positively sometimes negatively because

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it was inconsiderate and rude but

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sometimes positively because it made for

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a hilarious meaningful moments and the

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people taking the original photo or

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video were a good sport about it today

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we almost see the reverse of this where

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the people filming want strangers in

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their videos so that they can harass and

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annoy them for clicks guys you guys know

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who I

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am all right cool well take care or so

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they can use their completely innocuous

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reactions to make a point we see this a

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lot when people are doing things that

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are out of the ordinary as in the case

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of addicted to Anna or this guy who is

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acting silly outside a restaurant and

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highlighting the reactions of diners

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my guy these people just want to eat

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their pastas without your [Β __Β ] but

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there is also this really silly Trend

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where people will have someone else film

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them walking down the street they will

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then Zoom repeatedly in on the reactions

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of strangers and most of the time these

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strangers are giving them a cursory

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glance now I've seen both men and women

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participate in this style of video but

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what makes it so bizarre is the

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implication that they're so attractive

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that people can't help but look when I

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think the reality is considerably more

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simplistic people look at other people

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and they especially look at other people

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when they are forcing their way through

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a crowd with a camera person behind them

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they're not looking at you because

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you're captivating or beautiful well

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maybe they are who's to say they're

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looking at you because you're acting

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strange out in public something that I

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hate so much about this is that people

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now have to be acutely aware of what

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their face is doing all the time lest

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they be on the receiving end of some

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influencer's content and I think all of

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this is wrong for a multitude of reasons

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but one of the most upsetting is that if

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somebody doesn't react appropriately in

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the background of a video and the

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influencer or Tik tocker or whoever

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decides to single that person out the

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internet often can react very badly to

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these situations and that person who did

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something quite innocently is now on the

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receiving end of a tremendous amount of

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hate and abuse content creators and I

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use that term quite Loosely might be

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completely comfortable with this level

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of scrutiny and public attention but

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lots and lots and lots of people

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absolutely are not so it stands to

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reason that putting your average person

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on blast to thousands if not millions of

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people is unacceptable and the ironic

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thing and I guess this brings me to my

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second point is that when these influen

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ERS aren't using people as their own

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personal props they're using public

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spaces as their own personal movie sets

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where other people are not allowed to

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exist and in my travels of the internet

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I found so many examples of this and

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each one made me more and more angry I'm

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talking about for example this clip of a

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woman who is trying to film herself in

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front of the Eiffel Tower while it

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Sparkles but she is actively stopping

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other people from walking anywhere near

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her as if she owns this space and like

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you know guys I'm not a monster I can

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understand wanting to get a cool shot

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like this but you're also sharing this

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environment with others and if you

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wanted to ensure that nobody else could

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walk anywhere near you then you should

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have been wearing high viz and put

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witches hats all over the ground witch's

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hats are what we call these things in

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Australia I think everywhere else

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they're called Road cones or or or just

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cones I don't know do not bully me one

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of the places where this actually takes

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place the most is is the gym people set

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up their camera or multiple cameras and

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film their workouts for social media and

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also get unbelievably mad when other

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people walk into frame weirdly enough

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this also applies to locker rooms and

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change rooms where influencers will

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still set up their cameras and film even

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with other people walking around in the

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background clothed or not which I'm

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pretty sure is illegal I'm sorry to say

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but you can't put Mr Smith's man Parts

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on the internet even if you think your

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muscles look good in the video you

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really should

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havea it's probably not legal still my

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[Music]

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progress you're recording right now I

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don't want to be in your recording I

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don't

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care you touch me watch what happens I'm

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actually very happy to report that my

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gym bans people from filming in the gym

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or basically anywhere in that General

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vicinity which is great for someone like

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me because I don't want to end up in the

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background of your video while I'm

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melting over in the corner absolutely

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nobody wants to see

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that but all that aside there is

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honestly so much entitlement and lack of

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self-awareness in these situations that

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is incredibly disheartening and the

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cherry on top of this terrible cake is

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the fact that these gym influencers who

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you would think are recording themselves

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in the gym to post on social media to

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encourage other people to use the gym

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are in fact the ones making the gym an

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unpleasant place to be this goes for the

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women filming other male gym goers to

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say that they're looking at them and

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being creepy when they're definitely not

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for the people who film other people in

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the gym to make fun of them on social

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media and just the people who go into

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the gym with a general lack of

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self-awareness Ness and make other

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people very uncomfortable by filming

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themselves and making the gym not a very

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encouraging or welcoming place if you do

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these things you are 100% the problem

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and eventually Joey swo will find you

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some of you will definitely not know who

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that is and if you don't I encourage you

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to go and look up Joey SW because he's

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one of the only people who uses his

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platform to call out bad gym etiquette

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and we thank him for that anyway all of

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that brings me to probably the worst

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part of this main character syndrome SL

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influencer apocalypse phenomenon and

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that is the general disregard for others

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one video that I found particularly

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enraging showed a guy filming himself

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sitting between a couple who are looking

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at the Eiffel Tower he then reaches over

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and takes a handful of ice cream from

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this young man's cone which he then eats

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now I don't know if the couple was in on

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this and it's a setup which is sometimes

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the case but assuming that it isn't this

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Behavior is absolutely not okay and yet

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social media has made it seem like it is

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in this effort to be more and more

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extreme in the greater effort to get

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more and more attention we have

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effectively removed the guard rails and

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what is appropriate behavior out in

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public like showing up to class with a

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typewriter instead of a laptop and then

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loudly typing and dinging disrupting

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other students or screaming at strangers

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and joking about nobody cares what you

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do in public cares guys aren't I just

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laying here I'm literally in so many

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people's

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way this video even shows a woman

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shoving a complete stranger because he

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stood in her shot I would bet anything

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this is the type of person who goes on

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the internet and talks about consent

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like completely ready to tell you how

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Snow White being kissed by the prince

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wasn't consensual but really ma'am how

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self-absorbed do you actually have to be

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to believe that you are entitled to push

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another person away because he stood in

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front of your camera now again I'm

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willing to bet that to some people this

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behavior is yes inappropriate but it

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isn't dangerous except when it is

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because sometimes this General disregard

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and disrespect for others mixed with the

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desperation for social media interaction

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and likes and clicks and so on can turn

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into genuinely illegal activity that can

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traumatize others in May 2023 a UK Tik

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tocker called mizy was taken into

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custody by police after he filmed

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himself breaking into people's homes

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stealing someone's dog and even

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threatening to harm women all of these

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situations were passed off as pranks but

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for the people on the receiving end of

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them they are anything but and that's

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one of the worst components about this

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discussion these influencers genuinely

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seem to view their actions as innocent

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and innocuous they're just having a

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laugh having some fun but the reality is

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that they're going out of their way to

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harass complete strangers at best this

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completely disrupts the day of the

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person on the receiving end and at worst

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they end up traumatized or even hurt but

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thankfully some of these online media

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personalities are finally starting to

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experience meaningful consequences for

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their behavior especially in the case of

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several content creators who recently

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gained widespread attention for

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harassing people in Japan one individual

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called Johnny Somali filmed himself on

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public transport making fun of hoshima

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and nasaki and even playing unsavory

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music out loud to try to provoke a

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reaction from other passengers an

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Australian man with a Tik Tok called

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shearing shed Vlogs filmed himself

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walking through a women only train

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Carriage making remarks that some people

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perceived as very inappropriate and a

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YouTuber fidus or fidas I I don't know

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how he pronounces this has been

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documenting himself breaking the law all

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over the country in several videos he

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tells his audience how to get away with

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riding the train in Japan for free and

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he shows himself escaping ticket

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inspectors and even entering a hotel and

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pretending to be a guest in order to get

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a free breakfast now to some of you this

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might not seem like that big of a deal

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after all everybody loves a free

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breakfast but what underpins this

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behavior and I think this is important

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to note is that these people are aware

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of the fact that Japan has very

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different cultural customs and

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traditions than the countries they come

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from and one of the biggest things about

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Japan assumed by many people around the

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world is that the Japanese are

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considerably more polite and less

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confrontational than say an American

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would be what this means is that these

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people are going out of their way to

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take advantage of the fact that Japan is

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a reasonably polite country and its

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citizens will not react the same way way

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as again say an American might I don't

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like it I'm not I'm not a great fan of

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this the Saving Grace here is that you

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can only push people so far and like I

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mentioned the consequences for this

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Behavior have come at these three people

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pretty hard and fast Johnny Somali is

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now being attacked when people see him

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out on the street and not only by

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Japanese people but also by westerners

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sharing shared Vlogs was asked to leave

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Japan and fidus has issued an apology

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for his Antics in the country but all of

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this boils down to a general

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indifference to making other people

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uncomfortable and a strong desire to be

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as Extreme as possible for likes and

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clicks and interaction on social media

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ultimately wanting to be the main

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character in your own life is not a bad

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thing and honestly after the last

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several years of isolation and lockdown

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and what have you it makes sense why

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young people in particular are using

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social media to romanticize their lives

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but for as many benefits as social media

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has brought us soulless friendship

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information it has also brought us a ton

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of negative consequences a lot of which

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stem from the increasingly Blurred Lines

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of good attention and bad attention and

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simply getting more attention has become

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the end goal and where as much attention

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as possible is the desired result

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terrible behavior is then incentivized

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and unfortunately it will continue to be

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incentivized so long as this kind of

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content and these kind of actions

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translate into more views and more

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social media growth in the end there is

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absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to

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document your life or wanting it to be

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more meaningful or more impactful there

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is something wrong however with Crossing

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all sorts of boundaries in order to do

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that now before I open the floor to all

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of you this is just a reminder to check

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out fum using the link in the

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description or scanning the QR code on

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screen when you do and you use code

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Sydney you can get 10% send off a

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journey pack now open the floor to all

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of you what do you all think what do you

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make of this crazy influencer apocalypse

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what do you think of the concept of main

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character syndrome and how this has

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become such a popular thing on Tik Tok

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with reals and shorts and whatnot do you

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think it's a good thing do you think

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it's a bad thing do you think this is a

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net negative overall for society and

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what do you generally make of this issue

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overall as always if you have made it

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this far in the video I am so glad I

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always like having you guys here right

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to the end if you are not subscribed

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already and you would like to see more

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of me and more of this kind of content

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feel free to do so also leave me a like

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if you so desire and of course feel free

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to leave me a comment telling me your

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thoughts and opinions because I do read

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the majority of those and I always like

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hearing from you guys and as always I

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will see you pretty people in the next

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video

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