I Didnt Know My Girl Was A Thot
Summary
TLDRThe video script details the narrator's experiences with recognizing red flags in relationships and dating, highlighting the importance of spotting them early. It humorously recounts a story of a date with a woman who had suspiciously luxurious photos on her Instagram, including money spreads, and claimed to work at a bank. The narrator humorously navigates the complexities of dating, including the allure of deep conversations and the pitfalls of ignoring obvious red flags. The script also touches on other red flags like dishonesty and anger issues, using humor and personal anecdotes to engage viewers.
Takeaways
- ๐ง The narrator accidentally records with headphones on and humorously acknowledges the irony of not noticing red flags in a relationship.
- ๐ฉ The script emphasizes the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships or interactions to avoid toxic situations.
- ๐คทโโ๏ธ The narrator shares a personal experience where he ignored red flags due to being 'in too deep', highlighting the difficulty of spotting manipulation.
- ๐ A dating app interaction with a girl who had a suspicious Instagram profile full of luxury items and money spreads is recounted, indicating potential deception.
- ๐ฆ The girl from the dating app claimed to work at a bank but had a vague and suspicious job description, raising doubts about her honesty.
- ๐ฎโโ๏ธ The narrator expresses disbelief and humor at the girl's admission of being a 'back door', suggesting involvement in illegal activities.
- ๐จ A deep conversation with the girl about art and life is contrasted with the discovery of her explicit sketchbook, creating a conflicting impression.
- ๐ The narrator is taken aback by the girl's explicit content and the presence of 'Double Cups and pills' in her social media, signaling a red flag.
- ๐คฐ The script mentions another dating app encounter where the girl claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage, only for the narrator to later find out she was pregnant and not married.
- ๐ข The dangers of anger issues are discussed, with examples of destructive behaviors that can be a sign of deeper emotional problems.
- ๐ค The narrator humorously addresses the 'attractive nerd' trope, expressing a mix of admiration and frustration at the idea of someone who is both attractive and into nerdy hobbies.
Q & A
What was the initial issue the narrator faced while recording a reaction?
-The narrator realized they left their headphones on while recording a reaction and also realized they would be recording this animation with a headset.
How does the narrator describe the difficulty in spotting red flags when one is in a deep relationship?
-The narrator mentions that red flags are easy to spot when you're not invested, but when you are, you tend to ignore the most obvious signs.
What was the narrator's approach to creating a dating app profile?
-The narrator likes to make their dating app profile a bit funny, using humor to break dating stereotypes.
What was the unusual content the narrator discovered on Janelle's Instagram?
-The narrator found money spreads, luxury car interiors, and luxury bags on Janelle's Instagram, which were unusual and raised suspicion.
Why did the narrator become suspicious of Janelle's job at a bank?
-Janelle's vague description of her job, combined with her luxurious lifestyle and money spreads on her Instagram, made the narrator suspicious of her claims of working at a bank.
What was the narrator's reaction to Janelle's artwork in her sketchbook?
-The narrator was taken aback by the explicit nature of the drawings, which were focused on sexual content, and felt it was inappropriate given they had just met.
What was the narrator's view on deep conversations with people on dating apps?
-The narrator appreciates deep conversations and finds them rare on dating apps, which is why they take the opportunity to engage when it arises.
What was the narrator's opinion about the girl who claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage?
-The narrator was skeptical when they later found out the girl was pregnant and not married, questioning the authenticity of her earlier claims.
How does the narrator feel about anger and anger issues in relationships?
-The narrator acknowledges that anger is a normal emotion but is wary of people who cannot control their anger and express it in destructive ways.
What was the humorous take the narrator had on 'attractive nerds'?
-The narrator playfully expressed frustration at the idea of attractive nerds, humorously suggesting that they can't have everything, including good looks and intelligence.
What was the narrator's closing remark about their animation and future videos?
-The narrator expressed hope that viewers liked the video and hinted at the possibility of more animations in the future.
Outlines
๐ Identifying Red Flags in Relationships
The speaker begins by discussing how they accidentally recorded a reaction video with headphones on, which leads to a metaphor about spotting red flags in relationships. They explain that it's easy to ignore obvious signs of manipulation or toxicity when one is deeply involved. The speaker then shares a personal anecdote about a girl named 'Janelle' they met on a dating app, who displayed concerning behaviors such as having private Instagram posts with money spreads and luxury items, suggesting a potentially illicit lifestyle. Despite initial skepticism, the speaker engages in a deep conversation with Janelle, which they find appealing due to their preference for meaningful discussions over small talk. However, the conversation takes a turn when Janelle reveals her sketchbook filled with explicit drawings, which, combined with her previous red flags, makes the speaker decide not to pursue the relationship further.
๐ซ Navigating Red Flags in Dating
In the second paragraph, the speaker continues the discussion on red flags in dating, focusing on various types of warning signs. They mention 'overly performative people' who pretend to be something they're not to gain favor, using a personal story where a girl claimed to be a Christian saving herself for marriage, only for the speaker to later find out she was pregnant and not married. The speaker also talks about anger issues as a red flag, emphasizing the difference between expressing anger and displaying it in destructive ways. The narrative concludes with a humorous rap segment where the speaker playfully addresses the idea of being attracted to 'nerds' who may not meet their expectations, using Minecraft as a metaphor for unattainable desires. The speaker ends by expressing their intention to return to creating and sharing videos, hinting at a future where they hope to regain their previous video-making momentum.
Mindmap
Keywords
๐กRed Flags
๐กManipulation
๐กToxic Situations
๐กBack Door
๐กSketchbook
๐กAnxiety
๐กDating Apps
๐กConversation
๐กIntroverted
๐กRed Dot
๐กPigment
Highlights
The narrator accidentally records with headphones on, leading to a humorous realization.
The importance of recognizing red flags in relationships is emphasized.
A story about a girl who turned off her location during a trip to Miami raises suspicion.
The narrator discusses the difficulty of recognizing manipulation in toxic situations.
A humorous moment where the narrator's cat, Stanley, appears in the background.
The narrator shares their experience with a girl named 'Janelle' who had an unusual Instagram profile.
Janelle's Instagram account featured money spreads, which raised red flags for the narrator.
The narrator humorously questions Janelle's claim of working at a bank due to her suspicious social media content.
A discussion about the narrator's ability to spot red flags but being drawn into a good conversation.
The narrator's appreciation for deep conversations, despite being introverted.
The revelation of Janelle's sketchbook filled with explicit drawings, which was a major red flag.
The narrator's realization that the relationship with Janelle was not going anywhere due to her suspicious behavior.
A mention of Janelle's Instagram highlights containing Double Cups and pills, adding to the red flags.
The narrator provides a list of other red flags, including overly performative people and anger issues.
A story about a girl who claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage, but later appeared pregnant on social media.
The narrator talks about anger issues and how they can be a red flag in relationships.
A humorous rap segment where the narrator expresses frustration with attractive nerds.
The narrator concludes with a reminder that they are an animator and hints at upcoming videos.
Transcripts
[Music]
I was recording a reaction I realized I
left my headphones on and I now also
realizing I will be recording this
reaction I mean this
animation with a headset is it bad is it
bad I can't see it only way to tell is
to do the phone test
oh red flags are mad easy to spot when
you're not into deep but when you are
you'll find yourself ignoring the most
ridiculous of things dang bro she turned
off her location when she went on that
girl's trip to Miami she told me even
though all of her friends cheat she
doesn't I should have just walked away
the thing about toxic situations and
manipulation is you can't realize you're
being manipulated there Stanley big ass
in the background of my recording hold
up God
is 24
[Music]
the thing about toxic situations and
manipulation is you don't realize you're
being manipulated until you start
getting manipulated but at that point
you're being manipulated so you're
already in to deep and that's why
pointing out and clocking red flags is
extremely important because if there's
anything Kista doors have taught me red
flags just attract [ย __ย ] Dam bro she
slashed the tires of your wheelchair I
feel like I'm pretty solid at pointing
out red flags but that's only because I
got years of experience being a point
Dexter so I've been playing late enough
to know when I'm cooked but back then I
could go to China turkey and Vietnam and
still not see a red flag so I'm on
dating apps at the time and I'm just
scrolling around and stuff and when I'm
on dating apps I personally like to make
my account like a little bit funny so
one of the prompts was let's break
dating stereotypes by blank and I filled
in that blank with jumping other couples
some funny and in my opinion great joke
just attracted the wrong type of people
so this girl sees it and matches me and
then she DMS me and says we need to meet
up dot dot dot now I look at her profile
and she's this bad little tatted John
now I'm not thinking anything of her DM
slide because I'm thinking we're he he
haha laughing right now so we chop it up
a bit more and she seems tough she likes
anime like art all that and I don't
remember how but we got on the topic of
like Instagram and social media so I
asked her what her ad is she gives me
the ad and like hold up let's just name
this girl Janelle right if her name is
Janelle her Instagram app was something
similar to the line of Nell with a shell
I changed it but like it that's the J
that's the genre of Instagram username
that she had if that makes sense I get
the name okay whatever I type it in and
her account is private but in her
profile I see something that catches my
eye but before I could even examine it
deeper I get accepted and bro what I saw
shook me to my core I'm seeing ass
luxury car Interiors luxury bags and
while all of these things would usually
sound alarms in my head they were normal
because they PED in comparison into the
main red flag I was staring at because
among all of those things I
saw money
spreads multiple money spreads this is
something I have never even seen I don't
even think I know any [ย __ย ] that got money
spreads on their IG it's something about
me bro I am not nonchalant I'm too
shalant like I I I I'm just too nosy I
can't so I jokingly ask her what what
she does and how she got all this see
I'm stuttering so I joking we ask her
what she do and how she got all these
money spreads up and her answer is I
work at a
bank what bank Capital gun Shell's Fargo
you you you're robbing you're scamming I
I I I don't trust you so she starts
talking about the bank but she's being
mad B yeah it's kind of like a bank yeah
I kind of have co-workers no we make
good money kind of Bank kind of
coworkers good money [ย __ย ] am I talking
to a straw hat pirate to cut to the
chase I asked her like does she work at
a desk is she a manager like I'm I'm
just confused and to that she says don't
worry about it no yeah she's back door
no no she she's a back she's probably
good at it bro this [ย __ย ] is a backyard
again and don't say I'm assuming cuz she
has literally told me that she has
gotten in trouble with the law before my
thing is if you're a back door like why
would you tell me the guy that you met
on the dating app that you're a back
door you think I'm broke like am I not
worth robbing hell no I'll show you a
rack right now anyway so I'm already
knowing I'm never talking to this girl
again but she was genuinely cool so we
chop it up for a couple hours we get to
talking about art and life and stuff and
this this is where she got me because I
am a sucker for good conversation and
that may seem surprising because I feel
like I've made it extremely obvious how
introverted of a person I am but let me
clarify really quickly I hate small talk
and meaningless conversations in that
situation specifically yeah I'd rather
be quiet and award but if someone comes
to me with a deep conversation that's
different I'm I'm all for that and on
dating apps you rarely find that so when
the opportunity presents itself I take
it every time so yeah I'm talking to
this girl and we're diving deep we're
talking about like childhoods hob like
we're going we're talking for at least 3
to four hours and because of that I
start to lowkey really mess with Shorty
something about people with baggage like
they just like it's great conversation I
ain't going to lie I'm like showing her
my old sketchbooks and stuff that's
enough for me to fall in love if I'm
being honest but of course like
remembering the situation I was brought
back to reality because she goes to look
for her Sketchbook and she goes looking
around in her house for it and starts
asking her
roommates her four
male
africanamerican hey bro africanamerican
roommates bro and she brings out her
Sketchbook she brings that ho out opens
it and I see nothing but n now there's
nothing wrong with drawing naked bodies
Anatomy is a very important thing to
understand and the naked human body is a
genuine work of art being a dead ass but
the way she drew them was just much it
was women dejing themselves each other
dining out [ย __ย ] it was eggplants with
juices leaking it was just a lot to look
at especially given the fact that I just
met shorty today this was a crazy first
impression now it would be one thing if
it was just One Singular page in the
Sketchbook that would be completely
different because once again she could
genuinely just be practicing Anatomy bro
it was the Weir sketch book this girl
damn near had categories and that on top
of everything I just talked about just
reminded me the type of person I'm
talking to and that this is not going
anywhere [ย __ย ] I didn't even talk about
the Double Cups and pills that was in
her IG highlights that all had rap music
on them by the way it was just much well
yoyo it sounds like you ignored this red
flag why are you even telling the story
we talk for a week after that never met
her though never met her though I tried
anyways next red flag we going to run
through these next ones pretty fast cuz
that first story was way longer than I
thought but these also go for men and
women I bet honorable mentions we got
overly performative people people who
lie and try to be something else in an
attempt to get you to like them but it
comes off so fake that it's obvious I
was talking to this one girl don't
remember what the combo was about but I
told her that my granddad was a pastor
and that I was trying to find my way
back into the Christian faith she
proceeded to tell me that she was also a
Christian and saving herself from
marriage we ended up not working out
because she lived too far away and about
6 months later she got suggested in my
Tik Tok I click her account out of
curiosity of course and the girl was
pregnant no ring no baby dad [ย __ย ] did
the Holy Spirit get her pregnant bro you
got a kid and you not married you must
be married next anger issues everyone
gets mad everyone gets frustrated and
honestly I hate how anger has such a
negative connotation to it it's a normal
emotion so I'm not talking about people
who Express anger [ย __ย ] if I'm being for
real I got my own issues with anger that
I'm actively working on sorting out
however I'm talking about people who
can't control their anger and express it
in extremely childish ways they break
your PS5 they key your car that's stuff
that women do what's some stuff that men
do other than you know kill women next
attractive nerds hell are you it's
actually not even a red flag y'all just
be making me mad cuz you can't have
everything you're telling me you're fine
and you play Minecraft like have you
ever seen someone so bad that you get
irritated that be me when I see a fine
ass nerd man like I I said they yo check
me out check me out listen listen listen
yeah you bad but you got no bars what
mik you spitting in up iron couldn't
break your block but I always spin again
diamonds on the stick and ruin is going
to be the state that I leave my obsidian
don't slide back this high frequency of
bullets will put you in a high pass cuz
a high pass filter is a high frequency
filter that you put on audio I get
creative when I shoot my bullets fly
fast I mean it's crazy with my mind
crack I hope you got thick skin sir sir
you can stop now 12 try to stop me I
don't know what that pigment knock his
lights out it get dark I don't know what
color his pigment straight to the nether
is where that Pig went I put some gold
bullets in the cop's head now that's
really a zombie pig man I'm not done Red
Dot got him looking like Penny wise I'm
so up that my pockets is energized and
here's why cuz there so many m in my
chest I can't rest cuz there's monsters
nearby look at the monster look at this
whole got a on it tell
youzy and that's I I think that's
the I think that's where the video ends
right here y'all I hope you guys liked
it and um am I an animator again yeah
yeah I hope I I miss my videos look like
this new video soon
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