{Short Film} Keluargaku, Surgaku - Komisi Keluarga Keuskupan Bandung
Summary
TLDRThe video script revolves around the challenges faced by a couple during the COVID-19 pandemic, where both are working from home. It highlights the wife's struggle with her husband's lack of attention and communication, despite being physically present. The script explores themes of family, work-life balance, and the importance of open communication to maintain a harmonious relationship. It emphasizes that the couple's happiness and the family's well-being are influenced by their interactions and the effort they put into nurturing their bond.
Takeaways
- 😔 The script discusses the struggles of a couple dealing with the pressures of daily life and the added stress of the COVID-19 pandemic.
- 😅 The wife expresses her frustration with her husband's constant work and lack of attention towards her and the family.
- 😔 The husband's work-from-home situation has led to increased tension as he is still as busy as before, leading to a feeling of neglect.
- 😞 The wife feels isolated and overwhelmed with household chores and the responsibility of managing the family without adequate support.
- 😕 There is a lack of communication and emotional connection between the couple, which is exacerbated by the husband's preoccupation with work.
- 😥 The script highlights the importance of open and heartfelt communication to resolve marital issues and strengthen family bonds.
- 😌 The wife suggests that the husband should be more present and engaged with the family, rather than being physically present but mentally absent.
- 😓 The pandemic has provided an opportunity for couples to reassess their relationship and work on improving their family life.
- 🙏 The script ends with a call for reflection and a reminder that both happiness and conflict in a family are often self-created.
- 👨👩👧👦 The narrative serves as a reminder for families to prioritize communication and togetherness to foster a harmonious and happy home environment.
Q & A
What is the main issue the speaker is facing in their relationship?
-The main issue is a lack of communication and emotional connection with their spouse due to the spouse being overly occupied with work and technology, leading to feelings of being neglected.
How does the speaker describe their spouse's work situation during the pandemic?
-The spouse is described as being extremely busy with work, often working from home but still being preoccupied with work-related tasks and not being present emotionally.
What is the significance of the phrase 'coffee 19' in the script?
-The phrase 'coffee 19' is used metaphorically to represent the period of the pandemic, which has forced people to stay at home and work remotely.
How does the speaker feel about their body image, as mentioned in the script?
-The speaker expresses dissatisfaction with their body image, mentioning weight gain and a lack of physical attractiveness due to continuous eating without exercise.
What is the speaker's perception of their family's health during the pandemic?
-The speaker perceives their family's health as good, mentioning that everyone is healthy and that they have been fortunate not to have encountered any serious health issues.
What does the speaker suggest as a solution to improve their relationship with their spouse?
-The speaker suggests that open and heartfelt communication is necessary to mend their relationship and that they both need to make an effort to listen and understand each other's feelings.
How does the speaker describe the emotional atmosphere at home?
-The emotional atmosphere at home is described as tense and distant, with the speaker feeling like they are living with a stranger rather than a loving spouse.
What is the impact of the pandemic on the couple's daily routine as per the script?
-The pandemic has led to both partners being at home more often, which was supposed to be an opportunity to reconnect but instead became a source of increased tension due to unresolved communication issues.
What does the speaker mean when they say 'every day is like playing with small children'?
-This phrase suggests that the speaker finds joy and simplicity in everyday activities with their family, feeling a sense of youthfulness and playfulness despite the challenges they face.
What is the speaker's view on the role of technology in their marital issues?
-The speaker views technology as a barrier to communication and intimacy, as it distracts their spouse from engaging in meaningful conversations and emotional connection.
What advice does the speaker receive or give regarding their marital problems?
-The speaker is advised to communicate from the heart and to listen to each other's feelings, suggesting that genuine emotional communication can resolve their issues and bring back the warmth and love in their relationship.
Outlines
😄 Daily Life and Family Bonding
The first paragraph discusses the challenges and joys of daily life during a pandemic. It highlights the increased time spent at home, which has led to a stronger bond between family members. The speaker shares their experience of weight gain due to continuous eating but not exercising, and the humorous exchange with their spouse about their family's health and well-being. There's a mention of a diet plan and a recommendation for a place with delicious food. The paragraph concludes with a light-hearted conversation about the family's happiness and the speaker's desire to maintain a positive and playful atmosphere at home.
😟 Work-Life Imbalance and Communication Breakdown
The second paragraph delves into the struggles of work-life balance during the pandemic, particularly for someone whose partner is constantly busy with work. The speaker expresses frustration with their partner's constant work, even when at home, leading to a lack of quality time and emotional disconnect. There's a sense of feeling abandoned and the realization that the relationship has become more like a roommate situation than a marriage. The paragraph captures the emotional turmoil and the urgent need for better communication and attention within the relationship.
🌟 The Power of Communication and Creating a Harmonious Home
The third paragraph serves as a reflective and motivational message about the importance of communication and the collective effort required to create a harmonious and happy family life. It acknowledges the difficulties faced by couples during the pandemic but also sees it as an opportunity to improve their relationship. The speaker emphasizes the need for heartfelt communication and active listening to resolve issues and foster a loving and joyful home environment. The paragraph ends with an uplifting note, encouraging everyone to strive for a harmonious family life and seeking blessings for all families.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Communication
💡Pandemic (COVID-19)
💡Work-Life Balance
💡Intimacy
💡Frustration
💡Marriage
💡Loneliness
💡Family Bonding
💡Neglect
💡Divorce
Highlights
Emotional struggle of the speaker as they find it hard to smile and connect with others.
The speaker's longing for a past relationship and the difficulty of moving on.
Mention of a significant weight gain during a period of stay-at-home orders.
The speaker's realization of the importance of family health and well-being during the pandemic.
A humorous moment where the speaker talks about their spouse's forgetfulness.
The speaker's appreciation for a service that helped them during the lockdown.
A discussion on the changes in family dynamics due to increased time spent at home.
The speaker's frustration with their partner's constant work and lack of attention to family life.
A reflection on the contrast between the speaker's expectations and the reality of their home life during the pandemic.
The impact of the pandemic on the speaker's marriage and their feelings of isolation.
The speaker's realization that their partner might have forgotten their marriage vows due to the pandemic stress.
A humorous anecdote about the speaker's partner being oblivious to their needs.
The speaker's contemplation of divorce due to the strain on their marriage.
A call for better communication and understanding between the speaker and their partner.
The speaker's realization that their family's happiness is a reflection of their own actions and attitudes.
A conclusion that emphasizes the importance of creating a harmonious and happy family life.
Transcripts
hai hai
itu memeluk menuliskan semua
yo yo
hai dengan kau sangat susah awu jiwa
masa mau paimo senyum-senyum melalui
[Musik]
sudah songs aku bisa awet tanpa rasa
hairin awak baik udah lama ya kita nggak
ketemu ih lama banget aduh ih kamu tanpa
langsung aja deh dari mana serius lihat
tiga kilo aku naik masih selama wf1 aduh
kerjanya tuh makan terus tapi nggak
kilap pan meregang enggak kelihatan
beneran deh kabar suami keluarga semua
sehat kan baik sehat suami sama
anak-anak banget sehat bagus udah lama
banget ya ilmu banget kumpul lagi atuh 3
bulan ya kita dikurung dalam rumah betul
ini gara-gara covert sewa curhat aku
putus sama kamu tahu ratna tapi sebelum
mengobrol meningkatkan dulu ya boleh oke
tadi mau diet sih saya jangan dayat mbak
mau order
hai di sini makanannya enak-enak loh
harus pesen makan ya wih enggak sering
tapi ya ya saya yang enak recommend apa
mbak ada
[Musik]
di
[Musik]
hai rin kamu kok dari tadi banyak
diamnya sih
hai hai
hai aku sebenarnya lagi ada masalah sih
shoes masalah-masalah apa yg
hai selamat coffee 19 ini kan kerja di
rumah lebih banyak di rumah kondisi di
rumah kamu gimana ngebosenin mbak eh
kalau bicara itu aku malah berterima
kasih sama coffee 19 terima kasih iya
terima kasih selama kau bigfoot hilang
belas hubungan aku dan suami dan
anak-anak itu semakin intim rin pokoknya
setiap hari itu kita tuh happy bareng
senang bareng ketawa bareng main bareng
pokoknya asik banget bye
nyuruh kalau di pikir-pikir tuh kita tuh
kayak anak kecil setiap hari itu adalah
aja yang buat kita ketawa gitu rame aja
seru hidup setiap hari yah bulat
dibikinin bulat-bulat kecil saja jangan
gede-gede aja kayak gini ya sip ih papa
ah ah apa makna
[Musik]
hai kamu kenapa
hi ho
hai kondisi di rumahku berbanding
terbalik shoes
hai maksudmu jadi selama kerja di rumah
selama coffee 19 ini
hai itu semua jadi neraka buatku
hai kamu tuh er ikan iya kenapa di rumah
serie-a
ini dia tuh super sibuk ya namanya
kepala keluarga yang harus sibuklah iya
aku tahu tapi pergi kerja tuh pagi
banget pulangnya larut malam hampir
setiap hari seperti itu minggu aja dia
kadang pergi ya lembur mungkin banyak
kerjaan dikantor kali ini tapi kan aku
butuh perhatian shoes banyak kerjaan
mungkin tapi kan selama kuvet ini ya
kesempatan kalian berdua dirumah kamu
harusnya ya jadi pengantin baru lagi
apalagi belum ada momongan ya
mesra-mesra gitu
hai hai
hai aku sih ngebayanginnya kayak gitu ya
hai tapi ternyata enggak
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
yo yo
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
hai kayaknya doa heru udah lupa kalau
dia tuh udah berkeluarga
[Musik]
ini dia juga mungkin lupa kalau dia
sudah punya istri
[Musik]
hai hai
hai dari hari ke hari dari waktu kewaktu
[Musik]
kajian kau itu cuma ribut aja capek
huhuhu
[Musik]
hai aku ini udah kayak tidur sama batang
kayu
[Musik]
hai apa nggak bisa sebentar aja kamu
lepas dari laptop kamu sama handphone
kamu here
hai her kenapa sih soreang ngomel terus
ya gimana aku ngomel ada kamu di rumah
sama nggak ada kamu di rumah sama aja
aku merasa nggak punya suami terus
gimana aku ini bukan pengangguran di
rumah aja akunya harus kerja iya aku
tanpa harus kerja tapi kan aku bukan
pembantu akun istri kamu loh masih semua
kerjaan rumah saku semuanya kerjain
sendiri biasanya gimana sebelum confit
kamu nggak pernah protesnya gimana aku
mau protes kamu aja perginya pagi
pulangnya larut malam minggu aja kamu
pergi ada meeting ada itulah banyak
banget angkasanya aku pikir ya udah
nggak apa-apa tapi kan sekarang kamu
tiap hari di rumah loh er udah tiga
bulan nggak kemana-mana tapi tetep aja
aku ngerasa kamu gak ada di sini itu
suruh cawel kabur
hai kak hehehe itu enggak bisa ngerti
gimana perasaan aku pengen aku mau ke
hai keinginan aku apa-apa yang bikin aku
emosi nya nggak bisa fb dunia berubah eh
kamu udah ngajak dia ngobrol rin sering
hai tapi enggak dianggap some diet
ini dia cuma ngobrol sama handphone sama
laptopnya dia ya nggak bisa begini terus
sering kalian tuh kurang komunikasi rin
hai kalian berdua itu satu rumah satu
atap
hai tapi roh dan pikiran kalian itu
berada di dunia yang berbeda jadi ya
pantas sajalah kamu ngerasa kayak denger
raka aku mau cerai sumpah aku mau cerai
kamu kok sampai kepikiran gitu sih kamu
lupa sama janji pernikahan kamu rin udah
lupa tapi aku capek rin apa yang sudah
disatukan tuhan tidak bisa diceraikan
oleh manusia kamu lupa itu tapi apa
bedanya sekarang apa bedanya kondisi aku
sama heri sekarang enggak ada bedanya
kamu begini karena kamu kurang
komunikasi aja kamu nggak berbicara dari
hati ke hati coba kalau kamu bicara dari
hati ke hati mau saling mendengarkan
hai saya kinrin keluarga kamu tuh akan
berubah percaya itu
t-shirt vans
aku selalu sabar ya rin tak ada
komunikasi dalam keluarga membuat
semuanya menjadi jauh dengan segera
segala kehangatan keceriaan kasih sayang
terpendam dalam diam kosong hampa
semuanya ini menjadi refleksi untuk kita
semua neraka diciptakan oleh kita
sendiri surga pun begitu
ayo kita mau menciptakan apa untuk
keluarga kita
[Musik]
ini bapak ibu saudara-saudari yang
terkasih setiap orang yang membangun
kehidupan rumah tangga pasti
menginginkan agar hidup rumah tangganya
bahagia harmonis dan sejahtera namun
dalam kenyataan tidak sedikit pasangan
suami-istri yang mengalami permasalahan
dalam hidup keluarganya salah satu
faktor yang seringkali menjadi pemicu
diantara mereka adalah masalah
komunikasi pada saat pandemic offin 19
ini pada saat pasangan suami-istri
banyak berada di dalam rumah menjadi
kesempatan bagi pasangan suami-istri
untuk memperbaiki kebersamaan
meningkatkan relasi dan komunikasi
diantara mereka pada saat pasangan
suami-istri banyak berada di dalam rumah
selama fun demi ini menjadi kesempatan
bagi pasangan suami-istri untuk
aku menata kembali kehidupan keluarganya
sehingga tercipta suasana yang
diinginkan bersama yaitu keluarga yang
bahagia harmonis dan sejahtera tuhan
memberkati keluarga kita semua
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
hai hai
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