Poor Dad Teaches Rich Dad What His Money Can't Buy | Dhar Mann

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12 Dec 201905:23

Summary

TLDRIn the video, two former colleagues, Brandon and Stanley, discuss their current lives. Brandon, now a vice president, is proud of his promotion but is too busy to spend time with his daughter. Stanley, still working in the stockroom, values the flexible hours that allow him to be with his daughter. Brandon gifts his daughter a trip to Paris, but his work commitments prevent him from joining her, leading to a heartbreaking moment where she feels neglected. The video concludes with a poignant message about the importance of time over money in parenting.

Takeaways

  • ๐Ÿ˜€ The value of time spent with family is emphasized, especially in the context of parenting.
  • ๐Ÿ•ฐ Stanley values his flexible job hours as it allows him to spend more time with his daughter, which he considers more important than a high-paying job.
  • ๐ŸŽ‰ The script highlights the importance of celebrating birthdays and the disappointment that can come from not being able to share these moments with loved ones.
  • ๐ŸŽ Stanley's daughter appreciates the time he spends with her more than expensive gifts, showing that love and presence are often more valuable than material things.
  • ๐Ÿ’ผ Brandon's promotion to vice president comes with the downside of less time for his family, illustrating the trade-offs between career success and personal life.
  • ๐Ÿ† The story contrasts two different life choices: one focused on career advancement and the other on personal fulfillment through family time.
  • ๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ง Stanley's pride in his job, despite its lower status, is evident as he prioritizes his daughter's happiness over material success.
  • ๐Ÿ’” The emotional impact of missed opportunities for bonding is shown when Stanley's daughter feels neglected due to his work commitments.
  • ๐ŸŽŸ๏ธ The surprise gift of tickets to Paris intended to be a special birthday treat becomes a source of conflict due to Stanley's work obligations.
  • ๐Ÿšซ The script suggests that high positions and wealth do not guarantee happiness, especially when they come at the cost of family time.
  • ๐Ÿ“š The message concludes with a reflection on the importance of time over money, especially in parenting, and the potential consequences of prioritizing career over family.

Q & A

  • What is the main theme of the video script?

    -The main theme of the video script is the value of time over money, especially in the context of parenting and spending time with one's children.

  • Who are the two main characters in the script?

    -The two main characters in the script are Brandon and Stanley.

  • What is the current position of Stanley in the company?

    -Stanley is still working in the stockroom, which he refers to as 'stalker'.

  • What is the reason Stanley appreciates his job in the stockroom?

    -Stanley appreciates his job in the stockroom because it offers him flexible hours, allowing him to spend more time with his daughter.

  • What is the significance of the movie tickets in the script?

    -The movie tickets are significant as they represent Stanley's birthday gift to his daughter, symbolizing the importance of spending time together rather than the monetary value of the gift.

  • How does Brandon's promotion affect his relationship with his daughter?

    -Brandon's promotion to vice president has led to a busier schedule, which negatively impacts his ability to spend time with his daughter and causes disappointment on her birthday.

  • What is the turning point in the script when Brandon realizes the importance of time over money?

    -The turning point occurs when Stanley explains the value of the time he spends with his daughter, which makes Brandon reflect on his priorities and the impact of his job on his relationship with his daughter.

  • What is the birthday gift Brandon plans for his daughter?

    -Brandon plans to take his daughter to Paris as a birthday gift, symbolizing an extravagant gesture that ultimately fails to materialize due to his work commitments.

  • What is the emotional climax of the script?

    -The emotional climax is when Brandon's daughter expresses her disappointment and frustration, stating that she hates him and that it's the worst birthday ever, due to his inability to spend time with her.

  • What message does the video script aim to convey to its audience?

    -The video script aims to convey the message that time spent with loved ones, especially children, is more valuable than material wealth or career success.

  • How does the script end?

    -The script ends with a reflection on the importance of time over money in parenting, encouraging viewers to share the message and change lives.

Outlines

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๐Ÿค Reconnecting with an Old Friend

The script begins with two old friends, Brandon and Stanley, catching up after a long time. Stanley has just finished work and is waiting for his daughter, while Brandon has been promoted to vice president. They discuss their current life situations, with Stanley expressing contentment with his job in the stockroom due to the flexible hours it provides to spend with his daughter.

๐ŸŽ The Value of Time Over Money

Stanley's daughter arrives to celebrate her birthday, and Brandon offers a gift, which turns out to be tickets to a movie that she has been eager to see. The conversation highlights the importance of spending time with loved ones over material wealth. Stanley emphasizes that despite not having a high-paying job, the time he can spend with his daughter is invaluable.

๐ŸŽ‚ A Birthday Surprise with a Twist

Stanley surprises his daughter with tickets to Paris for her birthday, intending to spend quality time together. However, due to his work commitments, he is unable to go, leading to a heartbreaking scene where his daughter feels neglected and expresses her disappointment, calling it the worst birthday ever.

๐Ÿ† The Realization of Life's Priorities

The script concludes with a profound message from Stanley, who reflects on the importance of time over money, especially in parenting. He decides that if his high position prevents him from spending time with his daughter, he would rather continue working in a less prestigious but more time-flexible job. The video ends with a call to action, encouraging viewers to share the message and change lives.

Mindmap

Keywords

๐Ÿ’กPromotion

Promotion refers to the advancement in rank or status in a job or career. In the video, it is mentioned when one character is promoted to vice president, which is a significant step up in their professional life. This relates to the theme of the video as it contrasts the character's professional success with the personal sacrifices in terms of time spent with family.

๐Ÿ’กStockroom

The stockroom is a storage area for goods, typically in a retail or warehouse setting. In the script, one character mentions still working in the stockroom after a long time, indicating a less prestigious or lower-paying job. This is a key concept as it highlights the character's choice to prioritize time over monetary success.

๐Ÿ’กTime

Time is a concept that refers to the measurable or observable period during which an action or process is completed. The video emphasizes the value of time spent with loved ones, as seen when the character in the stockroom values the flexible hours to spend more time with his daughter, illustrating the theme that time is more precious than money.

๐Ÿ’กDaughter

A daughter is a female child in relation to her parents. In the script, the daughter's presence is central to the narrative, as the character's decisions are driven by the desire to spend time with her. The daughter's role is pivotal in conveying the message that personal relationships are more important than professional achievements.

๐Ÿ’กBirthday

A birthday is the anniversary of the birth of a person, typically celebrated with a party or special event. The script revolves around the daughter's birthday, which becomes a point of contention between the characters. It serves as a backdrop to the theme that the quality of time spent together is more valuable than material gifts.

๐Ÿ’กMovie

A movie is a motion picture used to simulate real-life situations for entertainment purposes. In the script, the character in the stockroom gifts movie tickets to his daughter for her birthday, symbolizing the effort to celebrate within his means and the importance of shared experiences over material wealth.

๐Ÿ’กParis

Paris is the capital city of France, often associated with romance and culture. In the video, tickets to Paris are offered as a birthday gift, representing a high-end, expensive present that contrasts with the simpler movie tickets. This juxtaposition underscores the theme of valuing experiences and time over materialistic gifts.

๐Ÿ’กWork-Life Balance

Work-life balance refers to the equilibrium between an individual's work responsibilities and personal life. The video script explores this concept through the characters' different approaches to their careers and family life, emphasizing the importance of finding a balance that allows for quality time with loved ones.

๐Ÿ’กMaterialism

Materialism is the importance placed on physical possessions or wealth over spiritual or personal values. The script contrasts characters who value material success with those who prioritize personal relationships, highlighting the theme that non-material aspects of life, such as time spent with family, are more valuable.

๐Ÿ’กValues

Values are the principles or standards of behavior transmitted through culture, which help to influence actions and attitudes. The video script illustrates differing values between characters, with some prioritizing career advancement and others valuing time with family, thus driving the narrative and the message of the video.

๐Ÿ’กDisappointment

Disappointment is a feeling of sadness or displeasure caused by unmet expectations. In the script, the daughter expresses disappointment when her father cannot accompany her on a trip to Paris, demonstrating the emotional impact of prioritizing work over family and the video's message about the importance of time.

Highlights

Brandon and Stanley meet after a long time and catch up on their lives.

Stanley is waiting for his daughter and shares that he still works in the stockroom.

Brandon has been promoted to vice president but is surprised Stanley is still in the same position.

Stanley values the flexible hours in his job to spend more time with his daughter.

Stanley's daughter is on her way to pick him up for his birthday.

Brandon offers to take Stanley to a movie for his birthday as a gift.

Stanley appreciates the gesture but emphasizes the importance of spending time together.

Stanley's daughter arrives and he leaves to meet her.

Stanley's daughter surprises him with tickets to Paris for his birthday.

Stanley is excited but then realizes he cannot go due to work commitments.

Stanley's daughter is disappointed and upset that he cannot spend her birthday with her.

Stanley contemplates the value of his high position if it means sacrificing time with his daughter.

The story ends with Stanley deciding to prioritize his family over his job.

The message emphasizes that time is more valuable than money, especially in parenting.

The video aims to change lives by sharing stories that resonate with viewers.

Encouraging viewers to share the video helps spread the message and change more lives.

Transcripts

play00:07

Brandon

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Stanley hey it's been a while yeah what

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are you up to

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I just clocked out at work how about you

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waiting for my daughter it's been a long

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time

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whose last time I saw you Hacha must've

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been when we were working together this

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doctor of AHA yes stalker boy am I glad

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I don't work there anymore hey I just

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got promoted to see you vice president

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yeah what about you what department are

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you in now well I'm actually I'm

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actually still in the stockroom after

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all this time you're still in stalker

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hey they got flexible hours which gives

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me more time to spend with my daughter

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which is really what matters to me she's

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actually on our way to pick me up right

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now

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Wow

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I mean look I don't have all the time in

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the world spell my daughter but

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[Music]

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hey check it out

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take you to there for a birthday it's a

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very amazing gift it's actually it's my

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daughter's birth they do and I got our

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tickets to a movie movie

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so you got your daughter for a birthday

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and I can't imagine disappointing she's

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gonna be hey Dad it's ready we go

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yeah

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but before we get out of here I want to

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give you something

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but

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to disappear okay it's kind of small

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for my birthday

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I have been dying to see this movie

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thank you why would I be disappointed

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all that matters is that we're spending

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my birthday together I'm glad you like

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it

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it can you give me a second I'll meet

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you the car okay okay

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Wow looks like your daughter's got some

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pretty low standards too

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no I Brandon you've got it all wrong

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you see I may not have a job that gives

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me a lot of money but at least it gives

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me a lot of time to spend with my

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daughter and to me that time is worth

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more than any amount of money and I may

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not have money to get my daughter

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expensive birthday presents but I give

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her what I can and to her as long as she

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has me by her side that's all that

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matters

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so you see I might not have as much

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money like you do to spend on my

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daughter but I could spend a lot of time

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with her and that's really important

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Wow it all makes sense now I know why

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you're still in stock

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hey Dad hey honey look what I got you

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for your birthday

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tickets to Paris flying out tonight oh

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my god we finally get to spend time

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together and in Paris

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exactly

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I know

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no I can't

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can't happen any other way

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yeah okay I understand of course

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all right that's easy

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it looks like I gotta have to go and

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work so

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in Paris

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what do you mean you're not going to be

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able to go

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I knew it you always do this you never

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have time for me I'll give my ticket to

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one of your friends and you can go with

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them you'll get a dad I just wanted to

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spend my birthday with you you know what

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just forget it I hate you this is the

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worst birthday ever

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[Music]

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look

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if having a high position means I can't

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spend time with my daughter and

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we'll keep working in sake

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it's Nicene abandoned

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hadar man fam I hope you love that

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message about how time is always worth

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more than money especially when it comes

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to parenting thank you for watching and

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remember we're not just telling stories

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my videos or tell others about them

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you're helping to change lives too I

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appreciate you watching and I'll see you

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in the next video

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