How to Fall Deeply in Love with the Quran & Allah – Life-Changing Steps! | Dr Haifaa Younis

Summary

In this script, the speaker emphasizes the importance of starting the journey toward spiritual closeness with Allah by focusing on obligations and avoiding sins. The key to loving Allah and the Quran is taking small, consistent steps—starting with fulfilling basic religious duties and avoiding Haram actions. The speaker urges removing negative thoughts, practicing extra good deeds, and striving for continuous self-improvement. Ultimately, the love for Allah grows through obedience, and the connection with the Quran deepens. The message stresses that the process of growing closer to Allah is ongoing and requires both effort and faith.

Takeaways

• 😀 Start with fulfilling the obligatory actions (praying, fasting, zakat, Hajj) to get closer to Allah.
• 😀 Remove negative thinking to open yourself to the possibility of growing closer to Allah and memorizing the Qur'an.
• 😀 Avoid engaging in haram actions (like backbiting, lying, or indulging in sinful content) to stay on the right path.
• 😀 Loving Allah requires consistently performing extra acts of worship beyond the obligations, such as Sunnah prayers and fasting on Mondays and Thursdays.
• 😀 True love for Allah is not temporary; it’s a continuous, everyday commitment to worship.
• 😀 Allah’s love is demonstrated through obedience—becoming His eyes, ears, hands, and feet by avoiding haram and following His commands.
• 😀 Allah responds to your du’as in three ways: immediately, later, or with something better than what you asked for.
• 😀 Loving the Qur'an comes naturally once you develop a deep love for Allah through obedience and worship.
• 😀 Developing love for Allah and the Qur'an is a gradual process that requires consistency, sincerity, and dedication.
• 😀 Obeying Allah is challenging, but once you take the first step, Allah makes the journey easier.
• 😀 It’s not the material blessings that indicate Allah’s love, but the strength to follow Him in both ease and difficulty.

Q & A

What is the first step to developing a deeper connection with Allah according to the speaker?

The first step is to start by fulfilling the obligatory acts, such as praying five times a day, fasting in Ramadan, and performing the Five Pillars of Islam. These basic obligations form the foundation of one's relationship with Allah.

How does the speaker suggest we develop love for Allah and the Quran?

Love for Allah and the Quran is intertwined. The speaker compares it to loving ice cream—if you haven’t tried it, you won’t understand the love. Similarly, when you engage with Allah’s commands and the Quran, your love for them grows. Love for Allah can be fostered by doing what He commands and avoiding what He forbids.

Why is it important to remove negative thoughts when trying to get closer to Allah?

Negative thinking limits progress. The speaker emphasizes that if we constantly tell ourselves 'I can’t do it,' we will be unable to make any progress. Removing these negative thoughts opens the door for growth and improvement in our relationship with Allah.

What role does avoiding Haram play in getting closer to Allah?

Avoiding Haram is crucial in the process of getting closer to Allah. Engaging in sinful actions, such as looking at Haram or participating in Haram activities, prevents you from doing good deeds. By staying away from Haram, you pave the way to perform more obligations and extra acts of worship.

How does the speaker define an 'A+ Muslim'?

An 'A+ Muslim' is someone who goes beyond the basic requirements of Islam and incorporates additional good deeds into their daily life. This person doesn’t just fulfill obligatory duties but strives to continuously do extra acts of kindness and worship to please Allah.

What is the significance of performing extra Sunnah acts like fasting on Mondays and Thursdays?

Performing extra Sunnah acts, such as fasting on Mondays and Thursdays, helps to demonstrate love for Allah. These voluntary actions build upon the foundation of obligatory acts and show a deeper commitment to Allah beyond the basics.

What advice does the speaker give to someone struggling with waking up for Fajr?

The speaker suggests examining your behavior before bed. If you engage in Haram activities or expose yourself to negative influences before sleep, it will make waking up for Fajr more difficult. The key is to avoid Haram actions, especially before going to bed.

What does the speaker say about the relationship between Allah's love and material blessings?

The speaker emphasizes that having everything one desires does not necessarily mean Allah loves them. Sometimes, material blessings can be a test. True signs of Allah’s love are when you obey Him fully, avoid sin, and experience His protection and guidance.

What is the importance of the Hadith about Allah becoming His servant’s hearing, sight, hand, and leg?

The Hadith illustrates that when a person truly loves Allah and follows His commands, they become so aligned with Allah's will that they will no longer disobey Him. They will not engage in Haram activities or enjoy sinful behavior, as they are constantly guided by Allah’s will.

How can we make it easier to obey Allah according to the speaker?

Although obedience to Allah is challenging, the speaker assures that once you start the process, Allah will make it easier for you. By taking the first step and striving to be obedient, Allah will support and guide you in making the process more manageable.