I Didnt Know My Girl Was A Thot

Summary

The video script details the narrator's experiences with recognizing red flags in relationships and dating, highlighting the importance of spotting them early. It humorously recounts a story of a date with a woman who had suspiciously luxurious photos on her Instagram, including money spreads, and claimed to work at a bank. The narrator humorously navigates the complexities of dating, including the allure of deep conversations and the pitfalls of ignoring obvious red flags. The script also touches on other red flags like dishonesty and anger issues, using humor and personal anecdotes to engage viewers.

Takeaways

• 🎧 The narrator accidentally records with headphones on and humorously acknowledges the irony of not noticing red flags in a relationship.
• 🚩 The script emphasizes the importance of recognizing red flags in relationships or interactions to avoid toxic situations.
• 🤷‍♂️ The narrator shares a personal experience where he ignored red flags due to being 'in too deep', highlighting the difficulty of spotting manipulation.
• 😅 A dating app interaction with a girl who had a suspicious Instagram profile full of luxury items and money spreads is recounted, indicating potential deception.
• 🏦 The girl from the dating app claimed to work at a bank but had a vague and suspicious job description, raising doubts about her honesty.
• 👮‍♀️ The narrator expresses disbelief and humor at the girl's admission of being a 'back door', suggesting involvement in illegal activities.
• 🎨 A deep conversation with the girl about art and life is contrasted with the discovery of her explicit sketchbook, creating a conflicting impression.
• 🔞 The narrator is taken aback by the girl's explicit content and the presence of 'Double Cups and pills' in her social media, signaling a red flag.
• 🤰 The script mentions another dating app encounter where the girl claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage, only for the narrator to later find out she was pregnant and not married.
• 💢 The dangers of anger issues are discussed, with examples of destructive behaviors that can be a sign of deeper emotional problems.
• 🤓 The narrator humorously addresses the 'attractive nerd' trope, expressing a mix of admiration and frustration at the idea of someone who is both attractive and into nerdy hobbies.

Q & A

What was the initial issue the narrator faced while recording a reaction?

The narrator realized they left their headphones on while recording a reaction and also realized they would be recording this animation with a headset.

How does the narrator describe the difficulty in spotting red flags when one is in a deep relationship?

The narrator mentions that red flags are easy to spot when you're not invested, but when you are, you tend to ignore the most obvious signs.

What was the narrator's approach to creating a dating app profile?

The narrator likes to make their dating app profile a bit funny, using humor to break dating stereotypes.

What was the unusual content the narrator discovered on Janelle's Instagram?

The narrator found money spreads, luxury car interiors, and luxury bags on Janelle's Instagram, which were unusual and raised suspicion.

Why did the narrator become suspicious of Janelle's job at a bank?

Janelle's vague description of her job, combined with her luxurious lifestyle and money spreads on her Instagram, made the narrator suspicious of her claims of working at a bank.

What was the narrator's reaction to Janelle's artwork in her sketchbook?

The narrator was taken aback by the explicit nature of the drawings, which were focused on sexual content, and felt it was inappropriate given they had just met.

What was the narrator's view on deep conversations with people on dating apps?

The narrator appreciates deep conversations and finds them rare on dating apps, which is why they take the opportunity to engage when it arises.

What was the narrator's opinion about the girl who claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage?

The narrator was skeptical when they later found out the girl was pregnant and not married, questioning the authenticity of her earlier claims.

How does the narrator feel about anger and anger issues in relationships?

The narrator acknowledges that anger is a normal emotion but is wary of people who cannot control their anger and express it in destructive ways.

What was the humorous take the narrator had on 'attractive nerds'?

The narrator playfully expressed frustration at the idea of attractive nerds, humorously suggesting that they can't have everything, including good looks and intelligence.

What was the narrator's closing remark about their animation and future videos?

The narrator expressed hope that viewers liked the video and hinted at the possibility of more animations in the future.

Outlines

00:00

🔍 Identifying Red Flags in Relationships

The speaker begins by discussing how they accidentally recorded a reaction video with headphones on, which leads to a metaphor about spotting red flags in relationships. They explain that it's easy to ignore obvious signs of manipulation or toxicity when one is deeply involved. The speaker then shares a personal anecdote about a girl named 'Janelle' they met on a dating app, who displayed concerning behaviors such as having private Instagram posts with money spreads and luxury items, suggesting a potentially illicit lifestyle. Despite initial skepticism, the speaker engages in a deep conversation with Janelle, which they find appealing due to their preference for meaningful discussions over small talk. However, the conversation takes a turn when Janelle reveals her sketchbook filled with explicit drawings, which, combined with her previous red flags, makes the speaker decide not to pursue the relationship further.

05:00

🚫 Navigating Red Flags in Dating

In the second paragraph, the speaker continues the discussion on red flags in dating, focusing on various types of warning signs. They mention 'overly performative people' who pretend to be something they're not to gain favor, using a personal story where a girl claimed to be a Christian saving herself for marriage, only for the speaker to later find out she was pregnant and not married. The speaker also talks about anger issues as a red flag, emphasizing the difference between expressing anger and displaying it in destructive ways. The narrative concludes with a humorous rap segment where the speaker playfully addresses the idea of being attracted to 'nerds' who may not meet their expectations, using Minecraft as a metaphor for unattainable desires. The speaker ends by expressing their intention to return to creating and sharing videos, hinting at a future where they hope to regain their previous video-making momentum.

Keywords

💡Red Flags

Red flags refer to warning signs that indicate potential problems or issues in a situation, often used in the context of relationships to describe behaviors that suggest a person might not be trustworthy or compatible. In the video, the narrator discusses how he initially ignored red flags in a relationship, such as the partner turning off her location during a trip, which later seemed suspicious in hindsight.

💡Manipulation

Manipulation is the act of influencing someone or a situation in a way that is not honest or fair, often for one's own advantage. The video's theme revolves around recognizing manipulation, as the narrator reflects on how he didn't realize he was being manipulated until it was too late, emphasizing the importance of being aware of such behavior.

💡Toxic Situations

Toxic situations are environments or relationships that are harmful or detrimental to one's well-being. The script mentions toxic situations in the context of relationships where one might not realize they are in a harmful dynamic until they are already deeply involved, highlighting the difficulty of recognizing and extricating oneself from such scenarios.

💡Back Door

In the script, 'back door' is used colloquially to refer to someone who is involved in illegal activities, particularly theft or robbery. The narrator is surprised when a person he met on a dating app casually mentions being a 'back door,' which is a red flag indicating potential criminal behavior and untrustworthiness.

💡Sketchbook

A sketchbook is a book of paper used by artists for drawing or sketching. In the video, the narrator is caught off guard when a person he is getting to know shows him her sketchbook filled with explicit drawings, which serves as an unexpected and uncomfortable revelation about her personality and interests.

💡Anxiety

Anxiety is a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome. The video script implies anxiety when the narrator talks about being in deep and not being able to spot red flags easily, suggesting a sense of unease or nervousness about the future of the relationship.

💡Dating Apps

Dating apps are applications designed to help people find romantic partners. The narrator discusses his experiences with dating apps, where he encountered various red flags and toxic behaviors, illustrating the potential pitfalls and challenges of using such platforms to meet people.

💡Conversation

Conversation refers to the act of talking in an informal way, particularly in the context of getting to know someone. The script highlights the importance of deep and meaningful conversations, as the narrator is drawn to someone because of engaging dialogue, which contrasts with his dislike for small talk and superficial interactions.

💡Introverted

Introverted is a personality trait where a person tends to be more focused on their inner thoughts and feelings rather than seeking external stimulation. The narrator identifies as introverted, preferring deep conversations over small talk, which is a key aspect of his personality that influences his interactions and relationships.

💡Red Dot

In the context of the video, 'Red Dot' is used metaphorically to describe a target or a focal point, likely referring to a situation where the narrator feels targeted or singled out, possibly due to the intensity of the relationship dynamics or the red flags he is discussing.

💡Pigment

Pigment in the video is used in a playful and metaphorical manner, referring to the color or characteristics of something or someone. The narrator uses 'pigment' in a humorous context, talking about a situation where he outsmarts an opponent, suggesting a creative and imaginative use of language.

Highlights

The narrator accidentally records with headphones on, leading to a humorous realization.

The importance of recognizing red flags in relationships is emphasized.

A story about a girl who turned off her location during a trip to Miami raises suspicion.

The narrator discusses the difficulty of recognizing manipulation in toxic situations.

A humorous moment where the narrator's cat, Stanley, appears in the background.

The narrator shares their experience with a girl named 'Janelle' who had an unusual Instagram profile.

Janelle's Instagram account featured money spreads, which raised red flags for the narrator.

The narrator humorously questions Janelle's claim of working at a bank due to her suspicious social media content.

A discussion about the narrator's ability to spot red flags but being drawn into a good conversation.

The narrator's appreciation for deep conversations, despite being introverted.

The revelation of Janelle's sketchbook filled with explicit drawings, which was a major red flag.

The narrator's realization that the relationship with Janelle was not going anywhere due to her suspicious behavior.

A mention of Janelle's Instagram highlights containing Double Cups and pills, adding to the red flags.

The narrator provides a list of other red flags, including overly performative people and anger issues.

A story about a girl who claimed to be a Christian and saving herself for marriage, but later appeared pregnant on social media.

The narrator talks about anger issues and how they can be a red flag in relationships.

A humorous rap segment where the narrator expresses frustration with attractive nerds.

The narrator concludes with a reminder that they are an animator and hints at upcoming videos.

Transcripts

[Music]

I was recording a reaction I realized I

left my headphones on and I now also

realizing I will be recording this

reaction I mean this

animation with a headset is it bad is it

bad I can't see it only way to tell is

to do the phone test

oh red flags are mad easy to spot when

you're not into deep but when you are

you'll find yourself ignoring the most

ridiculous of things dang bro she turned

off her location when she went on that

girl's trip to Miami she told me even

though all of her friends cheat she

doesn't I should have just walked away

the thing about toxic situations and

manipulation is you can't realize you're

being manipulated there Stanley big ass

in the background of my recording hold

up God

is 24

[Music]

the thing about toxic situations and

manipulation is you don't realize you're

being manipulated until you start

getting manipulated but at that point

you're being manipulated so you're

already in to deep and that's why

pointing out and clocking red flags is

extremely important because if there's

anything Kista doors have taught me red

flags just attract [ __ ] Dam bro she

slashed the tires of your wheelchair I

feel like I'm pretty solid at pointing

out red flags but that's only because I

got years of experience being a point

Dexter so I've been playing late enough

to know when I'm cooked but back then I

could go to China turkey and Vietnam and

still not see a red flag so I'm on

dating apps at the time and I'm just

scrolling around and stuff and when I'm

on dating apps I personally like to make

my account like a little bit funny so

one of the prompts was let's break

dating stereotypes by blank and I filled

in that blank with jumping other couples

some funny and in my opinion great joke

just attracted the wrong type of people

so this girl sees it and matches me and

then she DMS me and says we need to meet

up dot dot dot now I look at her profile

and she's this bad little tatted John

now I'm not thinking anything of her DM

slide because I'm thinking we're he he

haha laughing right now so we chop it up

a bit more and she seems tough she likes

anime like art all that and I don't

remember how but we got on the topic of

like Instagram and social media so I

asked her what her ad is she gives me

the ad and like hold up let's just name

this girl Janelle right if her name is

Janelle her Instagram app was something

similar to the line of Nell with a shell

I changed it but like it that's the J

that's the genre of Instagram username

that she had if that makes sense I get

the name okay whatever I type it in and

her account is private but in her

profile I see something that catches my

eye but before I could even examine it

deeper I get accepted and bro what I saw

shook me to my core I'm seeing ass

luxury car Interiors luxury bags and

while all of these things would usually

sound alarms in my head they were normal

because they PED in comparison into the

main red flag I was staring at because

among all of those things I

saw money

spreads multiple money spreads this is

something I have never even seen I don't

even think I know any [ __ ] that got money

spreads on their IG it's something about

me bro I am not nonchalant I'm too

shalant like I I I I'm just too nosy I

can't so I jokingly ask her what what

she does and how she got all this see

I'm stuttering so I joking we ask her

what she do and how she got all these

money spreads up and her answer is I

work at a

bank what bank Capital gun Shell's Fargo

you you you're robbing you're scamming I

I I I don't trust you so she starts

talking about the bank but she's being

mad B yeah it's kind of like a bank yeah

I kind of have co-workers no we make

good money kind of Bank kind of

coworkers good money [ __ ] am I talking

to a straw hat pirate to cut to the

chase I asked her like does she work at

a desk is she a manager like I'm I'm

just confused and to that she says don't

worry about it no yeah she's back door

no no she she's a back she's probably

good at it bro this [ __ ] is a backyard

again and don't say I'm assuming cuz she

has literally told me that she has

gotten in trouble with the law before my

thing is if you're a back door like why

would you tell me the guy that you met

on the dating app that you're a back

door you think I'm broke like am I not

worth robbing hell no I'll show you a

rack right now anyway so I'm already

knowing I'm never talking to this girl

again but she was genuinely cool so we

chop it up for a couple hours we get to

talking about art and life and stuff and

this this is where she got me because I

am a sucker for good conversation and

that may seem surprising because I feel

like I've made it extremely obvious how

introverted of a person I am but let me

clarify really quickly I hate small talk

and meaningless conversations in that

situation specifically yeah I'd rather

be quiet and award but if someone comes

to me with a deep conversation that's

different I'm I'm all for that and on

dating apps you rarely find that so when

the opportunity presents itself I take

it every time so yeah I'm talking to

this girl and we're diving deep we're

talking about like childhoods hob like

we're going we're talking for at least 3

to four hours and because of that I

start to lowkey really mess with Shorty

something about people with baggage like

they just like it's great conversation I

ain't going to lie I'm like showing her

my old sketchbooks and stuff that's

enough for me to fall in love if I'm

being honest but of course like

remembering the situation I was brought

back to reality because she goes to look

for her Sketchbook and she goes looking

around in her house for it and starts

asking her

roommates her four

male

africanamerican hey bro africanamerican

roommates bro and she brings out her

Sketchbook she brings that ho out opens

it and I see nothing but n now there's

nothing wrong with drawing naked bodies

Anatomy is a very important thing to

understand and the naked human body is a

genuine work of art being a dead ass but

the way she drew them was just much it

was women dejing themselves each other

dining out [ __ ] it was eggplants with

juices leaking it was just a lot to look

at especially given the fact that I just

met shorty today this was a crazy first

impression now it would be one thing if

it was just One Singular page in the

Sketchbook that would be completely

different because once again she could

genuinely just be practicing Anatomy bro

it was the Weir sketch book this girl

damn near had categories and that on top

of everything I just talked about just

reminded me the type of person I'm

talking to and that this is not going

anywhere [ __ ] I didn't even talk about

the Double Cups and pills that was in

her IG highlights that all had rap music

on them by the way it was just much well

yoyo it sounds like you ignored this red

flag why are you even telling the story

we talk for a week after that never met

her though never met her though I tried

anyways next red flag we going to run

through these next ones pretty fast cuz

that first story was way longer than I

thought but these also go for men and

women I bet honorable mentions we got

overly performative people people who

lie and try to be something else in an

attempt to get you to like them but it

comes off so fake that it's obvious I

was talking to this one girl don't

remember what the combo was about but I

told her that my granddad was a pastor

and that I was trying to find my way

back into the Christian faith she

proceeded to tell me that she was also a

Christian and saving herself from

marriage we ended up not working out

because she lived too far away and about

6 months later she got suggested in my

Tik Tok I click her account out of

curiosity of course and the girl was

pregnant no ring no baby dad [ __ ] did

the Holy Spirit get her pregnant bro you

got a kid and you not married you must

be married next anger issues everyone

gets mad everyone gets frustrated and

honestly I hate how anger has such a

negative connotation to it it's a normal

emotion so I'm not talking about people

who Express anger [ __ ] if I'm being for

real I got my own issues with anger that

I'm actively working on sorting out

however I'm talking about people who

can't control their anger and express it

in extremely childish ways they break

your PS5 they key your car that's stuff

that women do what's some stuff that men

do other than you know kill women next

attractive nerds hell are you it's

actually not even a red flag y'all just

be making me mad cuz you can't have

everything you're telling me you're fine

and you play Minecraft like have you

ever seen someone so bad that you get

irritated that be me when I see a fine

ass nerd man like I I said they yo check

me out check me out listen listen listen

yeah you bad but you got no bars what

mik you spitting in up iron couldn't

break your block but I always spin again

diamonds on the stick and ruin is going

to be the state that I leave my obsidian

don't slide back this high frequency of

bullets will put you in a high pass cuz

a high pass filter is a high frequency

filter that you put on audio I get

creative when I shoot my bullets fly

fast I mean it's crazy with my mind

crack I hope you got thick skin sir sir

you can stop now 12 try to stop me I

don't know what that pigment knock his

lights out it get dark I don't know what

color his pigment straight to the nether

is where that Pig went I put some gold

bullets in the cop's head now that's

really a zombie pig man I'm not done Red

Dot got him looking like Penny wise I'm

so up that my pockets is energized and

here's why cuz there so many m in my

chest I can't rest cuz there's monsters

nearby look at the monster look at this

whole got a on it tell

youzy and that's I I think that's

the I think that's where the video ends

right here y'all I hope you guys liked

it and um am I an animator again yeah

yeah I hope I I miss my videos look like

this new video soon