LOVE IS BLIND UK CAST Reveal Their DATING RED Flags 🚩 | Love Is Blind UK Reunion Interview
Summary
TLDRThe transcript captures a lively discussion where participants debate various relationship behaviors, categorizing them as 'normal' or 'red flags.' Topics range from admitting to past infidelity, maintaining contact with exes, and using pet names like 'mommy' and 'daddy.' The group also humorously addresses eccentricities like diamond-encrusted furniture and buying the same perfume for a new partner as an ex. The conversation is as insightful as it is entertaining, reflecting on the complexities of personal boundaries and social norms in relationships.
Takeaways
- 😅 When someone admits to past cheating, it's seen as an 'amber flag', a cause for concern but not necessarily a deal-breaker as people can change.
- 😳 Bringing an ex to a wedding is considered a 'red flag', indicating unresolved issues or a lack of respect for the current relationship.
- 😯 The habit of adults calling their parents 'mommy' and 'daddy' is viewed as 'middle class' and a potential 'red flag', suggesting immaturity.
- 🤔 Maintaining contact with an ex is generally a 'red flag' unless there are specific reasons like shared children, indicating unresolved feelings or boundaries.
- 😐 The use of 'Daddy' on social media is deemed acceptable depending on context, but overuse might be seen as attention-seeking.
- 😌 Honesty about past cheating is valued over deception, as it shows transparency and a willingness to acknowledge past mistakes.
- 😕 Breaking up with an ex on their birthday is frowned upon and considered a 'red flag', as it's seen as a cruel and inconsiderate act.
- 💎 Having diamond-encrusted furniture is not a 'red flag' but a personal taste, showing a unique style and a love for the glamorous.
- 😑 The phrase 'just trust me' is a 'red flag', suggesting a lack of transparency and an attempt to manipulate trust.
- 😒 Buying the same perfume for a current partner as an ex is a 'red flag', as it indicates a lack of individual consideration and might feel insincere.
Q & A
What was the reaction when Freddy admitted to cheating in the past?
-The reaction was mixed; it was acknowledged that Freddy's honesty was commendable, but it also raised concerns and was considered a potential red flag by some.
Why did Freddy bring his ex-girlfriend to the wedding?
-The script does not provide a specific reason, but it was noted as an 'exclusive' event, implying it was an unusual occurrence.
What is the general opinion on someone still calling their parents 'mommy' and 'daddy'?
-It was considered 'very middle class' and somewhat excessive, with some suggesting it might be a cultural or personal preference.
How is being in contact with an ex perceived in the context of starting a new relationship?
-It was generally seen as a red flag unless there are specific circumstances, like having a child together, which might necessitate continued contact.
What was the consensus on someone admitting to past cheating in a relationship?
-While it was acknowledged as a cause for concern, it was also viewed as an amber flag, suggesting that people can change and honesty is preferable to lying.
How did the group feel about someone breaking up with their ex on their birthday?
-It was considered a red flag and seen as a negative action, potentially causing the ex to associate their birthday with a negative memory.
What is the view on diamond-encrusted furniture?
-While it's not considered a red flag, it was acknowledged as a personal preference and not to everyone's taste, with some expressing admiration for such decor.
What is the opinion on someone saying 'just trust me' repeatedly?
-It was unanimously agreed upon as a red flag, suggesting a lack of transparency and potential for manipulation.
How does the group feel about someone buying their current partner the same perfume as their ex?
-It was seen as a red flag, as it implies a lack of individuality and consideration for the current partner's unique identity.
What is the general stance on someone only bringing Speedos on a holiday?
-It was not considered normal, but also not a red flag unless it's the only type of swimwear the person owns or wears, which could be seen as a sign of immaturity or lack of consideration for social norms.
What is the perspective on someone not being on social media?
-It was seen as neither a green nor red flag, but rather a personal choice that could indicate a desire for privacy or a preference for non-digital social interactions.
Outlines
🚩 Relationship Red Flags
The first paragraph discusses various relationship red flags, such as admitting to past cheating, which is seen as a cause for concern but not a deal-breaker if the person is honest about it. It also touches on the inappropriateness of still referring to one's parents as 'mommy' and 'daddy' in adulthood, and the discomfort of maintaining close contact with ex-partners. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, such as attending an ex's wedding and the awkwardness of not receiving congratulations from them. There's a debate on whether these behaviors are normal or should be considered red flags, with opinions differing but generally leaning towards caution.
💎 Personal Style and Social Media Presence
The second paragraph shifts the focus to personal style and social media presence as potential red flags in relationships. It delves into the extravagance of diamond-encrusted furniture and whether it's a reflection of personal taste or an excessive display of wealth. The conversation also addresses the significance of trust and the importance of being true to one's preferences. There's a humorous exchange about the cost of a particular mirror and the pride one takes in their home decor. The paragraph also covers the red flag of purchasing the same perfume for a current partner as an ex, suggesting a lack of originality or an attempt to recreate past relationships. Lastly, it touches on the topic of holiday attire, specifically the choice of wearing only Speedos, which is seen as unusual but not necessarily a red flag, unless it's the sole item packed for the trip.
🌐 Social Media Absence and Personal Privacy
The third paragraph explores the implications of someone's absence from social media, questioning whether it's a red flag or a personal choice. It suggests that not being on social media could indicate a desire for privacy or a quiet life, but it could also hide a darker secret. The discussion is nuanced, acknowledging that social media presence is not a definitive measure of a person's character or intentions. The conversation ends with a playful segment where the participants introduce themselves, setting the stage for a segment where they translate Scottish tweets, adding a light-hearted touch to the discussion.
Mindmap
Keywords
💡Cheating
💡Red Flag
💡Honesty
💡Ex-Girlfriend
💡Boundaries
💡Social Media
💡Speedos
💡Transparency
💡Perfume
💡Trust
💡Decor
Highlights
Admitting to past cheating is considered an 'Amber flag', not a 'Red flag', as it shows honesty and a chance for change.
Bringing an ex-girlfriend to a wedding can be seen as a 'Red flag' due to the potential for unresolved feelings.
Continuing to call parents 'mommy' and 'daddy' is viewed as a 'Red flag', suggesting immaturity.
Being in contact with an ex is generally seen as a 'Red flag', unless there are children involved.
Having diamond-encrusted furniture is not a 'Red flag' but rather a personal taste that should be respected.
Saying 'just trust me' repeatedly is a 'Red flag', indicating a lack of transparency.
Buying the same perfume for a current partner as an ex is a 'Red flag', suggesting an attempt to recreate the past.
Only bringing Speedos on a holiday is not a 'Red flag', but it might be seen as unusual by some.
Not being on social media is a 'Green flag', suggesting a preference for privacy or a balanced life.
Breaking up with an ex on their birthday is considered a 'Red flag', as it shows a lack of consideration.
The discussion on whether certain behaviors are 'Red flags' or not often depends on the context and individual perspectives.
Honesty about past mistakes is valued more than hiding them, even if it's painful to admit.
The importance of setting boundaries in relationships is emphasized, especially with ex-partners.
Personal preferences in home decor should be respected, even if they are unconventional.
The concept of 'Red flags' in relationships is subjective and can vary greatly between individuals.
The idea that certain behaviors might be 'Red flags' is challenged, suggesting a more nuanced approach to relationship dynamics.
Transcripts
these questions are stiring when someone
admits to cheating in the past is that
normal or a red
flag go Freddy when Freddy owned up to
it I did say like what he was so honest
you can't be mad at that St bought his
exgirlfriend are wedding oh well oh wow
exclusive do I didn't get to speak to
her oh wow oh don't make me she what she
didn't come up and say congrats when I
think no I introduced
myself anyway when someone still calls
their parents mommy and
daddy that's defend that I call my mom
mommy whoa I'm sorry maybe I'm thinking
of sorry Mommy Dad M your mother no it's
too much that's is very middle class
isn't it mom and daddy shooting I me
this is like a posing though that's
Cal in a red flag in a red flag daddy
quite a lot on social media quite like
it there you go there's a time and place
for Daddy it's all good yeah perfect I
think it's a very Irish thing like it's
Irish mommies like it is
like yeah I think it'd be weird if a guy
was calling yeah I can't call my anyways
bless
you when someone is still in contact
with their ex red flag what's going on
though and what kind red flag
unnecessary I want to give people the
benefit of Doubt but I suppose I need to
learn from that yeah no unless you have
a kid together fine but outside of that
no red FL St bought his ex-girlfriend to
our wedding oh well
oh wow exclusive next that is an
exclusive I didn't get to speak to her
oh wow oh don't make me she what she
didn't come up as say congrats on I
think no I introduced
myself anyway I've got so many questions
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meina wow seriously yeah oh yeah hand sa
you're so brave I yeah nah get out red
flag shows that the treat with respect
man just depends whates are depends on
what capacity I mean I'm a hypocrite cuz
I'm best friends of Demi still but what
I'm getting is like when you embark on a
new relationship I think it's time to
nah that's your experience though bro
that's your experience I'm saying like
this yet nah it's a no it's a no from me
red flag why you why are you so in in
touch with someone that you used to find
attractive enough to sleep with and
probably technically still are some of
my best female friends yeah I've had a
relationship with and just because we
didn't work out on a romantic level sack
them off that means we can't be friends
I think it depends on boundaries like
you can still be friendly but I'm not
going to mess I'm not going to she's got
enough friends I'm not going to text her
Tom but I'm sitting on off fence for
this I relationship then that's not cool
but say what we vo I'm sitting on the
fence I'm sitting on the fence because
it depends if you I'm team captain and
it's a red flag if you're texting every
day then yeah it's weird but if if you
just
likeable if you're like oh yes she ain't
G our friends unless you got kids
together they're gone speaking of x's
when someone Adit to cheating in the
past is that normal or a red
flag all right go
would you it's an Amber flag it's it's
caus for concern but I don't think it's
a b end or people can change genuinely I
think I think I'd rather my partner be
honest and tell me rather than not be
honest and and try and cover up to B him
think oh you know paint himself
differently i' I'd have much more
confidence in the relationship and
respect for for my partner if she was to
say Yeah in the P of the cheat okay cuz
I think okay so she's being open with me
and she acknowled is that it was it was
bad it was wrong why you even having
that conversation why you looking in the
past if somebody ask person in front of
you yeah but if your P asks you yeah but
I mean why why why you asking you are
right it's more of a red flag to lie to
something to tell the I agree green flag
flag I'm sorry Adit to flen flag I do to
start off a marriage like transparency
and honesty I also context as well like
if it's like I've cheated before P it
was like I'm a Serial cheater there's a
huge differ and when Freddy owned up to
it I did say like what that he was so
honest you can't be mad at that it hurts
it can be triggering though if you've
gone through that but
yeah flag I agree cuz he's not saying
and I'm going to do it now I feel bad I
feel bad there was like some kind of
remorse for it so yeah and he was like
he was really like in his feels over
that so green flag questions are St here
comes another one about then uh when
someone breaks up with their EX on their
birthday is that normal or red
bag just tighten
it flag on the other person and he
really yeah I don't know I don't
understand why this
is it before yeah I had a bit break my
bir did you yeah you don't remember no
oh Jesus do it before so you don't have
to get my present that's joke that a
joke on their birthday did you get the
gift so then every year on your birthday
you're reminded of you
yeah red flag I suppose context like I
mean it depends if on his birthday
technically that's not the end of the
world is it no but so it says cont yeah
red flag I loved your do you still get
the gift get did you get the
present I'm I'm in this I'm not in this
that LE for your answer did you not
watch the show oh was on your birthday
all right is that what right okay this
guy s you you only watch
this just replay myit that is a red flag
doesn't it
I respect wanted to get it done I right
itate you wanted to get it done it was
irrelevant no it's a red fued up when
someone has diamond encrusted Furniture
is that normal or
red face is what and then I realiz like
oh no I've said it in any many
interviews if he wants like I love it I
honestly was like wow it's definitely
not a red
flag is it is most people's taste
probably not but it's not a red flag I
don't think there a female living there
but that is just a no but that is Freddy
like when you get to know him it's like
that's just Freddy's he he likes that
stuff like his house is very like I was
show blit and Glam no it's very like
Instagram yeah like kitchen's very like
my mom and Freddy have very similar
Decor CH nor it was very live laugh love
that
miror that mirror was like 300 quid
doesn't matter what so it's cheap
diamond I I liked that mirror Al and I
like it and it's going to stay there
forever so I did Freddy someone asked me
about that on Instagram and I said
that's the luckiest mirror in the UK I
love that Mir say that you did say that
great Mir and also Embrace having the
confidence to embrace what you like I
think he really into his Decor like I
know like he really does take pride in
how it
looks did he tell you how much it cost
cuz he told me the mirror just going go
this this going to be a red flag is it a
lot like 300 quid absolutely oh no I'm a
B&M he spend that much money on a
mirror like it's a GRE when someone
repeatedly says just trust me no don't
trust red flag stop that red flag
immediately immediately don't trust them
sorry red FL I love it love that as well
that's the best answer we won't go into
much more but she put that one out there
when someone buys their current partner
the same perfume as their ex oh red FL
want to be smelling like your ex no red
flag if he's got deep M her and you're
smelling like her that's weird no that's
terrible that's a red flag
the red flag that's the same imagine
like imagine your ex has blonde hair and
your new current has brunette and that's
the same energy like what about blond
why don't you that's same energy as that
no red flag I always batch bi him do
what I mean
so B in bulk then you got years worth
he's got a crate full of Victoria
Beckham I think I think with perfume
you've got I think it's you've got to
ask your partner what they they like cuz
you can't it's it's It's Tricky you
don't you don't you you don't want I
wouldn't go I if I went to a perfume
shop I wouldn't know what I was doing
and after the time it just smells it all
smells the same so you got get the
coffee beans and reset your
palette is that a thing yeah that's why
they got the the tray of coffee beans in
the perfume shops you D
coffee that wasn't just one of the maybe
it was that's a real thing wow so is
that no one heard of this I would say on
the one hand you don't want to morph
your ex your your new partner into your
ex but at the same time also if you know
it's a really banging perfume and you
and you you like it then who cares when
someone only brings Speedos on a holiday
is that normal or a red flag it's not
normal at all but it's not a red flag
only depends only Speedo yeah be good to
bring boxer short only
speed walk out the airport down the
taxi I didn't see you in
anys and then he woke up and had his no
thrs cornflakes it's not R if it was
only speed only Speedos are we talking
about only speedos in terms of swimming
atti yeah in terms of swimming
F yeah totally fine if you got it I mean
I wouldn't wear I wouldn't do it
personally wouldn't fit would
you red flag it's red flag I'll give
this one SAA a red flag I don't
personally think it's a red flag whole
holiday and little Speedos the whole
holiday only Speedos the whole time no
little trunks just like I respect it tan
lines to be fair if you can pull them
off wear them yeah it's not an actual
it's not like I'm Notting
I'll be jealous if my man comes out in
Speedos and he's got be looking all nice
and packaged and I'm there nice and
packaged you know oh damn it no she that
but you know mean put it away put it
away green flag when someone isn't on
social media is that normal or a red
flag that's that is why even that flag i
g flag it's just some people are on it
some people aren't some people want a
bit of Peace some people want a bit of
space some people social media
detox nothing wrong with
that so far good oh I feel like it's
it's in between it's are you grown and
established and you don't need to be
consumed by social media or is it you
hiding from all your what is it yeah
it's like what's green and green and red
purple it's purple
flag I was like it's in the middle it's
not quite
green that one so I feel like the the
perfect answer to this is do they have a
LinkedIn cuz that way oh yeah real
person lot happens on LinkedIn
oh it's giving
boss happens on LinkedIn does so are we
saying red or BR
flag midle depends depends it is what
the social thing is I think yeah because
you could be drug dealer and that's why
you don't have it or you could be you
know what I mean though you could like
criminal Road that's why he hasn't got
it and then you know wants a quiet life
so FL and you don't want to be found
that like trying to get involved yeah so
I think in the middle for that guys that
was so much fun
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like that one we like that one that was
good thank youy what's going on I'm
Kevin Hart hi my name's Eric Stone
Street hi I'm Margo I'm Journey I'm
James maroy I'm Daniel R I'm Rebel
Wilson I'm Jeremy Clarkson I'm going to
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